1. ❸真正的善良，不是刻意做给别人看，而是自然而然流露的教养。

1. The true goodness is not deliberately done for others to see, but naturally流露出的教养.

2. ❾你所有的压力，都是因为你太想要；你所有的痛苦，都是因为你太较真。

2. All your stress is because you want too much; all your pain is because you take things too seriously.

3. ❺爱不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学会用完美的眼光，看待一个不完美的人。

3. The love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to see an imperfect person with perfect eyes.

4. ❽能治愈你的从来不是时间，而是心里的那股释怀和格局。

4. It's not time that can heal you, but the sense of release and perspective in your heart.

5. ❷你跑得慢，周围都是笑声；你跑得快，耳边只有风声。

5. ❷ If you run slowly, there's laughter all around you; if you run fast, there's only the sound of the wind in your ears.

6. ❿人生没有白走的路，你走的每一步都算数，或积累经验，或沉淀心境。

6. There is no waste in life's journey, every step you take counts, either accumulating experience or deepening your inner peace.

7. ❻先自沉稳，而后爱人——没有底线的付出，只会换来没有原则的伤害。

7. ③ First, be steady and composed yourself, and then love others — sacrifice without a bottom line will only bring harm without principle.

8. ❼生活从来不会刻意亏欠谁，它给了你一块阴影，必会在不远处撒下阳光。

8. Life never deliberately owes anyone anything; if it casts a shadow over you, it will also sprinkle sunlight nearby.

9. ❶不是所有的坚持都有结果，但总有一些坚持，能从冰封的土地里，培育出十万朵怒放的蔷薇。

9. ❶ Not all persistence results in success, but there are always some instances where persistence can cultivate a hundred thousand blooming roses from frozen lands.

10. ❹讨厌一个人，用不着翻脸，默默远离是最好的回应。

10. ❹ Disliking someone doesn't require a confrontation; silently keeping a distance is the best response.