总有一句话，似乎此刻心头。

There's always a sentence that seems to linger in one's heart at this moment.

1. 那是从来不曾悲伤的坐在我身边的你，那是从来不曾快乐的坐在你身边的我--可悲的是，在曲终人散之后，我才恍悟，原来再也不能有你坐在身边，我才是真正的不快乐。

1. It was you, who never knew sorrow, sitting beside me, and it was me, who never knew joy, sitting beside you -- But it is a sorry truth that after the music has ended and the people have gone, I suddenly realize that without you sitting by my side, it is truly I who am the most unhappy.

2. 他们刚结婚的几年，生活还很清苦，但是韦丛从来没有怨言。三十一岁的元稹当上了监察御史，相当于在今天的最高检察院工作，级别虽然不高，但是权力很大。他的幸福生活还有开始，妻子便因病去世了，仅仅二十七岁。

2. In the first few years of their marriage, they lived in poverty, but Wei Cong never had any complaints. When Yuan Zhen turned 31, he became an Investigating Censor, which is equivalent to working in the highest prosecutor's office today. Although his rank was not high, he held significant power. His happy life was just beginning when his wife passed away from illness, at only 27 years old.

3. 这本来是元稹为了悼念亡妻而写的。元稹少年时家境贫寒，他八岁丧父，母亲一个人辛苦抚养他。幸亏他天资聪颖、再加上刻苦努力，年纪轻轻就考取了功名。

3. This was originally written by Yuan Zhen to mourn his late wife. Yuan Zhen came from a poor family during his youth. He lost his father at the age of eight, and his mother worked tirelessly to raise him alone.幸亏 he was intelligent by nature and also worked hard, he passed the imperial examinations at a young age and achieved official rank.

4. 我才不会跟白痴计较否则别人会分不清谁是白痴。

4. I wouldn't bother with an idiot otherwise people wouldn't be able to tell who the idiot is.

5. 总结：所有让你心动的，都是能引起共鸣、有深刻体会的。

5. Summary: All that moves you deeply are those that resonate and evoke profound insights.

6. 原本幸福的家庭，却因为一些变故变得不完整。那些活着的人独自思念再也见不到的亲人，伤心的感觉，无处诉说，无法诉说。

6. Once a happy family, it has become incomplete due to some changes. The living members alone miss their beloved ones they will never see again, feeling sad with no place to express their sorrow, and unable to express it.

7. 别低头，王冠会掉；别流泪，他人会笑；别一厢情愿，得不到就不要。

7. Don't bow your head, or the crown will fall; don't shed tears, others will laugh; don't be one-sided, if you can't get it, don't seek it.

8. 生命若给我无数张面孔，我永远选择最疼痛的一张去触摸。

8. If life gives me countless faces, I will always choose the one that is the most painful to touch.

9. 初看，好像是纳兰在安慰好朋友。仿佛他在对朋友说，我理解你的苦衷，我懂你的难过。其实，是纳兰自言自语。这才是最让人动容之处。

9. At first glance, it seems that Nalan is comforting his good friend. It appears as if he is saying to his friend, "I understand your troubles, I know your sadness." In fact, it is Nalan speaking to himself. This is what truly touches people the most.

10. 感情不需要诺言期限与条件。它只需要两个人：一个能够信任的人，与一个愿意理解的人。

10. Emotions do not require promises, deadlines, or conditions. They only need two people: one who can be trusted and one who is willing to understand.

11. 寂静在喧嚣里低头不语，沉默在黑夜里与目光结交，于是，我们看错了世界，却说世界欺骗了我们。

11. Silence bows its head in the midst of noise, and silence meets the gaze in the darkness, so we misunderstand the world, yet we claim that the world has deceived us.

12. 也许一个人要走很长的路，经历过生命中无数突如其来的繁华和苍凉才会变的成熟。

12. Perhaps one has to walk a long road, experience countless sudden splendor and desolation in life, before one can become mature.

13. 如果无法走出过去，那就没资格去谈什么未来。

13. If one cannot move beyond the past, they are not qualified to talk about the future.

14. 因为是血肉相连的亲人。所以许多话反而就成为禁忌。交流是羞耻，亲近是羞耻。唯有通过相互苛求和中伤来表达对彼此的爱，才是理所当然。这是多么可悲的事实……

14. Because they are blood relatives connected by flesh and bone. Many things then become taboos. Communication is a source of shame, as is closeness. The only way to express love for each other is through mutual criticism and defamation, which is considered natural. What a tragic fact this is...

15. 我们都对了还是错了，我们都爱了但是忘了，走的时候你哭了还是怎的，我只是疼了但还是笑了。

15. Whether we were right or wrong, whether we loved but forgot, whether you cried when you left or something, I just felt pain but still smiled.

16. 人生像一个茶几，虽然不大，但充满了杯具；爱情像鬼，相信的人多，见到的人少；人家有的是背景，而我有的只是背影我说我爱他。他说他也爱我。那么。这样可以继续很久吧。

16. Life is like a coffee table, not very big, but filled with cups; love is like a ghost, believed in by many but seen by few; others have backgrounds, and all I have is a back view. I say, "I love him." He says, "I love you too." Then, can this continue for a long time?

17. 如果哭不出来，那么就大笑吧，我相信那样会伤的更彻底一点。

17. If you can't cry, then laugh instead, I believe it will hurt more deeply.

18. 只有记忆成了身外之物，我们才可以在这陵园一样的人间，走得远些。——《春别》

18. Only when memory becomes an external thing can we walk further in this earthly realm like a graveyard. — "Spring Farewell"

19. 胜利不是战胜敌人而是提高自己。我们只要每天进步百分之一那就是成功。

19. Victory is not about defeating the enemy but about improving oneself. As long as we make a one percent improvement every day, that is success.

20. 你说我变了，我承认。我只是没有像以前那样对你死缠烂打。因为，我不能为了一个没爱过我的人浪费感情。

20. You say I've changed, and I admit it. I'm just not as persistent as I used to be with you. Because, I can't waste my feelings on someone who has never loved me.

21. 这个城市没有草长莺飞的传说，它永远活在现实里面，快速的鼓点，匆忙的身影，麻木的眼神，虚假的笑容，而我正在被同化。

21. This city has no legends of grass growing and swallows flying; it lives forever in reality, with rapid drumbeats, hurried figures, numb eyes, and false smiles, and I am being assimilated.

22. 那首歌还在不停循环播放着，回忆掀起了疼痛。

22. The song kept playing on repeat, and the memories brought on pain.

23. 苏轼却有这样的胸襟。能够和朋友饮酒谈天、大醉一场，那是因为前世有缘，好好珍惜现在相处的日子。将来各自有了不同的选择，就好好珍重。风雨不仅仅是自然界的风雨，更指人生的各种坎坷和不容易。

23. Su Shi, however, had such a broadmindedness. The ability to drink and chat with friends, and get drunk together, is because of the predestined缘分. It is important to cherish the days of being together now. In the future, when we each make different choices, we should take good care of each other. The "rain and wind" not only refers to the natural phenomena of rain and wind, but also to the various hardships and difficulties in life.

24. 贞元十九年（803年），二十四岁的元稹和白居易一起参加考试被同时录取，成为秘书省校书郎。他的妻子韦丛是太子少保韦夏卿的小女儿，知书达理、温柔贤惠。出身富贵的韦从却对贫寒的日子无怨无悔，不但把家里打理得井井有条，还擅长诗文，不仅是贤内助，更是难得的知己。

24. In the 19th year of the Zhenyuan era (803 AD), at the age of 24, Yuan Zhen and Bai Juyi took the examination together and were both admitted at the same time, becoming Secretariat School Book Officers. His wife Wei Cong was the youngest daughter of Wei Xiaqing, the Young Minister of the Crown Prince, known for her literary knowledge, reasonableness, gentleness, and virtue. Despite her noble and wealthy background, Wei Cong had no complaints or regrets about the impoverished life, not only managing the household in an orderly manner, but also being skilled in poetry and literature. She was not only a virtuous wife but also a rare confidant.

25. 向来缘浅，奈何情深。你转身的一瞬，我萧条的一生，世上最痛苦的事，不是生老病死，而是生命的旅程虽短，却充斥着永恒的孤寂。世上最痛苦的事，不是永恒的孤寂，而是明明看见温暖与生机，我却无能为力。世上最痛苦的事，不是我无能为力，而是当一切都触手可及，我却不愿伸出手去。

25. Our past has been shallow, yet my feelings for you are deep. In that moment when you turned away, my desolate life, the most painful thing in the world is not birth, old age, illness, or death, but that the journey of life is short, yet filled with eternal loneliness. The most painful thing in the world is not eternal loneliness, but that I see warmth and vitality, yet am powerless to act. The most painful thing is not my powerlessness, but when everything is within reach, I am unwilling to reach out.

26. 人生最甜蜜的欢乐，都是忧伤的果实；人生最纯美的东西，都是从艰难中得来的。我们要亲身经历苦难，然后才懂安慰他人。

26. The sweetest joys of life are the fruits of sorrow; the purest things in life are all gained through hardship. We must experience hardship ourselves before we can comfort others.

27. 我相信在城市里往来的人群中，总有一个人会让你记得一辈子

27. I believe that among the crowds coming and going in the city, there is always someone who will leave a lasting impression on you for a lifetime.

28. 不同的人，为你做同一件事，你会感到天壤之别。因为我们在意的，往往不是人做的事，而只是做事的人。

28. People of different natures doing the same thing for you can elicit a world of difference. Because what we often care about is not the thing being done, but the person doing it.

29. 我们无需立刻看到遥远的路尽头，我们只需看到可以抵达那里的路就好了。

29. We don't need to see the distant end of the road right away; we just need to see the path that leads there.

30. 总要等到过了很久，总要等退无可退，才知道我们曾亲手舍弃的东西，在后来的日子里，再也遇不到了。

30. It's always only after a long time, only when we have nowhere left to retreat, that we realize the things we had once discarded with our own hands can never be encountered again in the days that follow.

31. 有时候，你只需要振作自己，继续生活。 只要你勇敢地说出再见，生活一定会赐予你一个新的开始。

31. Sometimes, you just need to pull yourself together and keep living. As long as you bravely say goodbye, life will surely grant you a new beginning.

32. 做人凡事要静；静静地来，静静地去，静静努力，静静收获，切忌喧哗。

32. In all matters of life, one should be calm; come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, and reap quietly. Avoid noise at all costs.

33. 2我是人间惆怅客，知君何事泪纵横，断肠声里忆平生。

33. 2 I am a melancholic traveler in the human world, knowing why you shed tears, I remember my whole life in the heart-wrenching sounds.

34. 原本相爱的人，却因为生活的种种原因，消失在人海。也许再也见不到，也许有一天会再次遇到。昔日的青年都已鬓发花白，那种伤心，再也找不出合适的语言来形容。

34. Once in love, they disappeared into the sea of people due to various reasons in life. Perhaps they will never see each other again, or maybe one day they will meet again. The youthful days of yesteryear have turned gray with age, and that sadness can no longer be described with suitable words.

35. 曾经以为，离别是离开不爱的人，有一天，长大了，才发现，有一种离别，是离开你爱的人；有一种离别，是擦着眼泪，不敢回首。

35. Once thought that separation was about leaving someone you don't love; but as one grows up, I realize that there is a kind of separation that is about leaving the one you love; there is a kind of separation that involves wiping away tears and not daring to look back.

36. 爱情不是依附，爱情是各自独立坚强，然后努力走到一起。

36. Love is not dependence, love is about each being independent and strong, and then striving to come together.

37. 远处的霓虹，在地上映出彩色的倒影，撑一把伞，试着看这个世界模糊的姿态。

37. The neon lights in the distance cast colorful reflections on the ground. Holding an umbrella, try to see the world in its blurred posture.

38. 4月有着此去经年里鼎盛的一段荒凉生活 但其中有蓬勃生机 春花已落 夏叶未老。

38. April has a period of desolate life that was at its peak in the past year, but amidst it there is a burst of vitality. The spring flowers have fallen, but the summer leaves are still young.

39. 我说人生啊，如果尝过一回痛快淋漓的风景，写过一篇杜鹃啼血的文章，与一个赏心悦目的人错肩，也就够了……

39. I say, in life, if you have once experienced a scenery that is satisfying and exhilarating, written an article that is as passionate as the blood-crying of the azalea, and brushed shoulders with someone who is pleasing to the eye, that would be enough for me...

40. 当你真正去等待一个人的时候，那个人永远都不会出现苦的，不是牵挂，而是没有应答的牵挂，当你牵挂他的时候，他并没有牵挂你。苦的，是没有归途的牵挂，他牵挂的是另一个人。后来的一天，曾经眷恋的身影已然远去，但我们永远不会忘记牵挂着一个人的那份深情，不会忘记当时的自己。

40. When you truly wait for someone, that person will never appear bitter, not out of care, but out of the unrequited care. When you care about him, he does not care about you. Bitterness lies in the unreturned care without a return path, for he cares for another person. Later on, the once cherished figure has already faded away, but we will never forget the deep affection of caring for someone, nor forget ourselves at that time.

41. 风空空洞洞地吹过。一年又这么过去。而来年，还要这么过去。我不知道是安稳的背后隐藏着沮丧，还是沮丧里终归有安稳。只是我们，无法找到。

41. The wind blows through the empty void. Another year has passed like this. And next year, it will pass in the same way. I don't know if it's the hidden melancholy behind the stability, or if there is ultimately stability within the melancholy. It's just that we cannot find it.

42. 所有的胜利与征服自己的胜利比起来都是微不足道。所有的失败与失去自己的失败比起来更是微不足道。

42. All victories and conquests pale in comparison to the victory over oneself. All failures and losses are even more insignificant when compared to the loss of oneself.

43. 一个无声的拥抱，对一颗不快乐的心来说，就是千言万语了。

43. A silent embrace is worth a thousand words to a heart that is not happy.

44. 不就是伤心了一个人躲着，不就是难过了没有人诉说。

44. It's just that someone is heartbroken and hides away, just that someone is sad and has no one to vent to.

45. 和爱的人吵架，和陌生人讲心里话。如果我说我想一个人静一静，其实我比任何时候都需要你。

45. Arguing with the one I love, sharing my innermost thoughts with a stranger. If I say I want to be alone for a while, actually, I need you more than ever.

46. 有时候，喜欢一个人，真会把自己活得很委屈。

46. Sometimes, liking someone can really make one feel very upset and委屈.

47. 杯空香气来，心空福禄至。再香的茶，不能隔夜，隔夜则坏；再美的回忆，不要经年，经年必累。时时清洗茶杯，杯有清气，入茗必香；每天清空心 事，心有余闲，幸福自来。舍不得清洗昨夜的香茗，必然喝坏今天的肠胃；放不下既往的人事，难免有损当下的幸福。空杯心态，让往事安眠，让当下幸福。爱的世界，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁；当我把这份爱情毫无保留的交给你的时候，我根本没有任何要求；只希望你能同样的对待，希望你能永远陪在我身边！因为我眼中只有你，一切看来是那么的平凡。

47. When the cup is empty, the fragrance comes; when the heart is empty, blessings and fortune arrive. No matter how fragrant the tea, it cannot be kept overnight; if it is, it will go bad. No matter how beautiful the memories, do not let them linger for years; if they do, they will surely accumulate into burdens. Clean the teacup often; with a clean cup, the tea must be fragrant. Clear your heart of troubles every day; with a free heart, happiness will come naturally. It's a waste to hold onto the fragrance of yesterday's tea, as it will spoil today's digestion; and if you can't let go of past events, you may end up harming your current happiness. Adopt an empty cup mindset to let bygones rest and to enjoy present happiness. In the world of love, there is no one who owes anyone else anything; it's only about who doesn't know how to cherish whom. When I give you this love without reservation, I have no demands at all; I only hope you can treat it the same way, and hope you can stay by my side forever! Because in my eyes, everything seems so ordinary.

48. 再难受又怎样、生活还要继续。现实就是这样、没有半点留情、你不争就得输。

48. No matter how painful it is, life must go on. That's just the reality – it shows no mercy. If you don't fight, you will lose.

49. 有很多事情你不必看透只需看清;很多茫然到迷失的日子你不必惊扰只需坦然。

49. There are many things you don't need to see through, just to see clearly; many days of confusion and loss, you don't need to disturb, just be calm and at ease.

50. 最先道歉的人最勇敢；最先原谅的人最坚强；最先释怀的人最幸福。多一点快乐，少一点烦恼。不论钱多钱少，只要每天开心就好，饿了就吃饭，累了就睡觉，醒了就微笑，生活什么滋味，自己放调料，品味百味人生，人间三千事，学会一笑了。

50. The one who apologizes first is the bravest; the one who forgives first is the strongest; the one who lets go first is the happiest. Enjoy more happiness and less worry. Whether you have a lot of money or a little, as long as you're happy every day, eat when you're hungry, sleep when you're tired, and smile when you wake up, what life tastes like, you season it yourself, savor a thousand flavors of life, and learn to laugh at the three thousand things in the world.

51. 一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，碰到你。

51. In a lifetime, one should at least once forget oneself for someone, without seeking a result, without seeking to walk together, without seeking to have ever possessed, and even without seeking that you love me. Just seeking to meet you in the most beautiful years of my life.

52. 一件东西破了就是破了，宁愿把它丢掉，回忆着它的美好，也不要整天看着残破的它伤心。

52. If something is broken, it's broken. It's better to discard it and cherish the good memories of it, rather than constantly looking at the ruins of it and feeling sad.

53. 希望自己变回小孩，因为，摔破的膝盖总比破碎的心要容易修补。

53. I wish to be a child again, because, a broken knee is easier to mend than a broken heart.

54. 从那个十八岁的夏天开始，在后来的时光当中，我一个人按照青淮寄给我的明信片的地址，一一重新去看一遍。而每次我在彼地准备寄一张明信片的时候，却发现，我的路途上的想念找不到那个可以寄达的人。即使有那样的一个人，我也不知道她的地址。毕竟，她是候鸟。

54. From that summer when I was 18, in the subsequent years, I went to each place individually, following the addresses on postcards sent to me by Qing Hui. And every time I was about to send a postcard from that place, I found that the longing in my journey could not find a person to whom it could be sent. Even if there was such a person, I didn't know her address. After all, she was a migratory bird.

55. 没有任何一种逃避能得到赞赏，喜欢就去追，饿了就吃饭，管它失败或发胖。

55. No form of evasion can be appreciated. If you like something, go for it; if you're hungry, eat; who cares about failure or gaining weight.

56. 相知相爱难相守，如今我却孤单一走。说说心情短语

56. Love and affection are difficult to keep together; now, I walk alone. Expressions of mood

57. 为了一个你，我和多少人淡了关系。 结果，你走了，他们也没了。

57. For one person like you, how many relationships have I lost. As a result, when you left, they were gone too.

58. 你总说我太敏感，其实，我只是没有安全感。有些人注定是等待别人的，有些人是注定被人等的。

58. You always say I'm too sensitive, but actually, it's just that I lack security. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some are destined to be waited for by others.

59. 再悲催的生活也不能阻止我们彪悍的斗志和坚定的笑容。

59. No matter how grim life may be, it cannot stop our indomitable spirit and steadfast smile.

60. 一辈子那么长，一天没走到终点，你就一天不知道哪一个才是陪你走到最后的人。有时你遇到了一个人，以为就是她了，后来回头看，其实她也不过是这一段路给了你想要的东西。人生的路上，如果懂得体谅，懂得理解，懂得宽容，日子就会很温馨，也会很安宁。人生的路上，如果缺少体谅，不能理解，没有谦让，日子就会越过越烦 恼。生活中的很多烦恼，就是源于我们不能体谅，过分在意了自己的主张，互不理解，互不相让，伤了彼此的心灵。生活，很多时候，就是一种体谅，一种理解。

60. Life is so long, and as long as you haven't reached the end of a day, you won't know who will be the one walking with you to the end. Sometimes you meet someone, thinking it's her, but looking back later, you realize that she only provided the things you wanted in this particular journey. On the path of life, if you understand tolerance, understanding, and forgiveness, your days will be warm and peaceful. On the path of life, if you lack tolerance, cannot understand, and are not accommodating, your days will become increasingly烦扰. Many of the troubles in life stem from our inability to tolerate, our excessive attention to our own opinions, our mutual lack of understanding and willingness to give in, which wounds each other's hearts. In many ways, life is about tolerance and understanding.

61. 永远都是人外有人，你觉得周围优秀男人都没了，是因为你不够优秀，你变得更优秀的时候，更优秀的男人就出现了。

61. There's always someone better than others. If you feel there are no outstanding men around you, it's because you are not outstanding enough. When you become more outstanding, more excellent men will appear.