透过人生，一阅即懂，必看收藏！

Through life, a single glance is enough to understand, a must-watch collection!

1. 32喜欢也被喜欢，是多好的事情啊。但往往只得其一。

1. Being liked and being liked in return is such a wonderful thing. But often, one can only have one of them.

2. 18你轻描淡写的曾经，却是我此生难忘的刻骨铭心。

2. Your once casual mention is something that I will never forget, etched into my heart forever.

3. 25一个活在过去的人，是永远到不了未来的人。

3. A person living in the past will never reach the future.

4. 32只想赶紧长大，然后离开这里，去做我想做的事。

4. 32 just wants to grow up quickly and then leave here to do what they want to do.

5. ❶生活不是等着风暴过去，而是学会在雨中跳舞。真正的通透，是看清生活真相后依然热爱生活。

5. ❶Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the rain. True clarity comes from seeing the truth of life and still loving it.

6. 20无论你正在遭遇什么磨难，都不要一味抱怨上苍不公平，甚至从此一蹶不振。

6. No matter what tribulations you are going through, do not keep complaining about the heavens' unfairness and even let yourself fall into despair from then on.

7. ❿最高级的活法：物质极简、精神丰盈、生活随意。心中有尺，行事有度，一切都是刚刚好。

7. The highest form of living: material minimalism, spiritual richness, and a casual lifestyle. With a ruler in heart, and a measure in action, everything is just right.

8. 31生活其实可以很简单，只要你比昨天坚强，比昨天过得好，就一定会活得丰富多彩。

8.31 In fact, life can be quite simple, as long as you are stronger than yesterday and live better than yesterday, you are sure to live a rich and colorful life.

9. 26每个人的一生都注定要经历沟沟坎坎，品尝苦涩与无奈，经历挫折与失意。

9. 26 Everyone's life is destined to go through ups and downs, to taste bitterness and helplessness, and to experience setbacks and disappointment.

10. 8心若计较，处处都是怨言；心若放宽，时时都是晴天。

10. If the heart is full of calculation, everywhere there are complaints; if the heart is broadened, every moment is sunny.

11. 11一个人的生命，我以为，是一半儿活在朋友中的。——刘金花《可爱的成都》

11. I believe that half of a person's life is lived among friends. — Liu Jinhua, "Adorable Chengdu"

12. 25多数人悲伤，不是因为自己失去了，而是因为别人得到了。

12. 25 Many people are sad not because they have lost something themselves, but because others have gained.

13. 活得通透的女人是指心理素质较高，生活态度积极向上的女性。这些女性拥有一种积极健康的心态，对生命有着清晰的认识，可以从容应对变化和挑战。

13. A woman who lives with clarity refers to a female with high psychological quality and a positive and upward life attitude. These women possess a positive and healthy mindset, have a clear understanding of life, and can calmly respond to changes and challenges.

14. 感恩与善良

15. 感恩与善良是指个体能够保持感激和友爱的态度。活得通透的女人通常持有感恩和善良的思维态度。她们懂得赞赏和珍惜身边的人和事物，并对所有的帮助和支持心存感激。她们更乐于回馈和帮助他人，以自己的温暖和善意来交流和沟通。她们相信生命是一种互动和共同体验，在给予和接受中发现和实现自己的价值。感恩和善良的品质能够带给自己和他人更多的幸福和喜悦。

14. Gratitude and Kindness 15. Gratitude and kindness refer to an individual's ability to maintain an attitude of thankfulness and affection. Women who live with clarity usually hold a mindset of gratitude and kindness. They know how to appreciate and cherish the people and things around them, and they are grateful for all the help and support they receive. They are more willing to give back and help others, using their warmth and kindness to communicate and interact. They believe that life is a form of interaction and shared experience, and in giving and receiving, they discover and realize their own value. The qualities of gratitude and kindness can bring more happiness and joy to both themselves and others.

16. 15别总是来日方长，这世上回首之间的都是人走茶凉。

16. Don't always assume there's time, as in this world, the moment you turn your back, the tea cools down with the departure of people.

17. 22放弃过去或现在的你，对不起，我做不到。

17. 22 Give up the past or the present you, sorry, I can't do that.

18. 3始于无话不说，终于无话可说。世间的关系，爱情也罢，友情也罢，管理也好，人与社会之间的关系，大多如此。

18. 3 begins with talking without reserve and ends with having nothing more to say. This is true for most relationships in the world, whether it's love, friendship, management, or the relationship between individuals and society.

19. 13人生如棋，有进就有退，要学会善待自己，别去背负太多。在所有的经历里，把所有的是是非非、纷纷扰扰，通过人生这个字眼来淋漓尽致的演绎。然后，在所有的啼笑皆非里让我们思考人生，看透人生。

19. Life is like a game of chess, with moves and counter-moves. Learn to be kind to yourself and do not carry too much burden. In all experiences, interpret all the right and wrong, the tumult and confusion, through the word "life" to the fullest. Then, amidst all the laughter and tears, let us ponder life and see through it.

20. 化解矛盾

21. 化解矛盾是指个体具有处理问题的技能和方法。活得通透的女人通常具有处理问题和矛盾的技能和方法。当她们遇到难题、冲突和不适时，能够冷静地分析问题，寻找解决方法。她们更关注长期影响，而不是临时的利益。她们能够采取多种策略，包括寻求帮助和支持、调整自身的态度和行为、借助网络、社区等解决问题和矛盾。她们能够将自己的问题转化为进一步的成长和经验，享受更加自由和无拘束的生命体验。

20. Resolving Conflicts 21. Resolving conflicts refers to the skills and methods that individuals possess for handling problems. Women who live with clarity usually have the skills and methods for dealing with problems and conflicts. When they encounter difficulties, confrontations, and discomfort, they can calmly analyze the issues and seek solutions. They pay more attention to the long-term impacts rather than short-term benefits. They are capable of adopting various strategies, including seeking help and support, adjusting their attitudes and behaviors, and utilizing networks, communities, etc., to resolve conflicts and issues. They can turn their problems into further growth and experience, enjoying a more free and unrestricted life experience.

22. 25人生中有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下，才能拿得起。尽量简化你的生活，你会发现那些被挡住的风景，才是最适宜的人生。千万不要过于的执着，而使自己背上沉重的包袱。

22. In the span of 25 years, there are many things that can be let go of. Only by letting go can you pick up. Try to simplify your life, and you will find that the landscapes that were blocked are the most suitable for life. Never be overly attached, as it will burden you with heavy loads.

23. 40人生中有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下，才能拿得起。尽量简化你的生活，你会发现那些被挡住的风景，才是最适宜的人生。千万不要过于的执着，而使自己背上沉重的包袱。

23. In the span of 40 years, there are many things that can be let go of. Only by letting go can you pick up. Try to simplify your life, and you will find that the landscapes blocked from view are the most suitable for life. Never become overly obsessed, as it may burden yourself with heavy packages.

24. 1人就像寒冬里的刺猬。如果它们彼此靠得太近，它们会感到刺痛；如果距离太远，他们会感到寒冷；人们必须保持适当的距离才能走得远。

24. A person is like a hedgehog in winter. If they get too close to each other, they feel the prickles; if they are too far apart, they feel the cold; people must maintain an appropriate distance to go far.

25. 39真正的爱并非和某个特定对象的干系，而是一种自身固有的品质，它是一种从外向外自然的披发和渗漏，就像花朵释放的馥郁。

25. True love is not about a relationship with a specific object, but an inherent quality; it is a natural emanation and leakage from within, just like the fragrance released by flowers.

26. 35突然发现，越长大越小心翼翼，随着年龄的增长，勇气却在渐渐地消失了。

26. Suddenly realizing, the bigger we grow, the more cautiously we become; with the passage of time, courage seems to diminish gradually.

27. 27有人觉得你不够好，只是因为他不适合你。好不好，那是一件相对而言的事情，每个人身上都一定是有优点的，问题是，有谁会发现，有谁会欣赏，有谁真的需要。所以，感情说到底，是那个能读懂你的人，那才是真正的适合你。

27. Some people might think you're not good enough, simply because they're not a good match for you. Whether that's good or bad is a relative matter. Everyone has their own merits, but the question is, who will discover them, who will appreciate them, and who truly needs them. So, in the end, love is about finding someone who can understand you, that's who is truly suited to you.

28. 30如果个女人在最重要的几年中，投资的是个男人，那么之后的几年里，你将不断求着这个男人不要离开你。

28. 30 If a woman invests in a man during the most crucial years, then for the following years, you will keep begging this man not to leave you.

29. 12爱情的故事往往是平凡的，正如春雨秋霜那样平凡。—— 刘金花《微神》

29. The stories of love are often ordinary, just as ordinary as spring rain and autumn frost. — Liu Jinhua, "The Small God"

30. 34不敢说的话，只能烂在心里；不能爱的人，只能放在心上。

30. 34 The words that one dares not say can only rot in one's heart; the person one cannot love can only be cherished in one's heart.

31. 7不要太低调了，有时要强悍一点，被欺负的时候，一定要讨回来！但是一定不要记仇，小人之见随他们去好了。

31. 7 Don't be too modest, sometimes you need to be a bit tougher. When you're bullied, you must definitely fight back! But do not hold a grudge; let the pettiness of others go by.

32. 32人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何一个人。

32. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

33. 5人是活的，要见机而作，不能先给自己画好了白线，顺着它走！—— 刘金花《四世同堂》

33. Five people are alive and should act according to the situation; one cannot set a clear boundary for oneself in advance and follow it! — Liu Jinhua, "The Same Generation"

34. 30人生这趟无法回头的列车上，你总要习惯那些突如其来的不告而别。你必须明白，有些人的出现就是为了教会你遗憾和别离。

34. On this one-way train of life that cannot be turned back, you must get used to those sudden departures without a farewell. You must understand that some people come into your life just to teach you about regret and parting.

35. 21寒门贵子，只是轻轻的四个字，伤了多少人心，没人懂，那是因为看不清。

35. "The son of a poor family," just four simple words, have hurt the hearts of so many people. No one understands, because it's not clear.

36. 12人生如逆旅，我亦是行人。——苏轼《临江仙》

36. Life is like a journey against the current, and I am also a traveler. — Su Shi, "Lingjiangxian" (On the River at Jingjiang)

37. 19信心毅力勇气三者具备，则天下没有做不成的事。

37. With the three qualities of faith, perseverance, and courage, there is nothing in the world that cannot be achieved.

38. 5把事情变复杂很简单，把事情变简单很复杂。这个世界既不是有钱人的世界，也不是有权人的世界，它是有心人的世界。个人幸运的前提，其实是他有能力改变自己。经营自己的长处，能使你人生增值；经营你的短处，能使你人生贬值。地球是运动的，个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。

38. It's easy to make things complicated, but difficult to make them simple. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the powerful; it is the world of the heart. The premise of personal luck is actually the ability to change oneself. Managing your strengths can add value to your life; managing your weaknesses can devalue your life. The Earth is in motion, and individuals will not always be in a倒霉 position.

39. 31也许世上最幸福的一件事就是当你拥抱一个你爱的人时，他竟然把你抱得更紧。

39. 31 Perhaps one of the happiest things in the world is when you embrace someone you love, and they hold you even tighter in return.

40. 3人生有多少挂念就有多少心酸，有多少执着就有多少不舍，有多少欲望就有多少苦恼，有多少爱也就会有多少恨。这红尘，难忘的是心内之人，难舍的是身外之物，难得的是解脱之心，难求的是无上法宝。

40. How many concerns there are in life, so many heartaches there will be; how much attachment there is, so much reluctance there will be; how much desire there is, so much distress there will be; and how much love there is, so much hate there will be. In this mortal world, what is unforgettable is the person in one's heart, what is hard to let go of are the things outside one's body, what is hard to attain is the mind of liberation, and what is hard to seek is the highest treasure.

41. ❺世界上最通透的活法：降低对别人的期待，提高对自己的要求。

41. The most transparent way of living in the world: Lower your expectations of others and raise your standards for yourself.

42. 10人们往往把交往看作一种能力，却忽略了独处也是一种能力，并且在一定意义上是比交往更为重要的一种能力。如果说不擅交际是一种性格的弱点，那么，不耐孤独就简直是一种灵魂的缺陷了。——周国平

42. People often regard communication as a skill, yet they overlook the fact that solitude is also a skill, and in a certain sense, it is a more important skill than communication. If being bad at communication is a weakness of a personality, then, being unable to bear solitude is simply a defect of the soul. - Zhou Guoping

43. 43你是我期待又矛盾的梦，想抓却不能拥抱的风，想喝又怕醉的酒。

43. You are the dream I both anticipate and contradict, the wind I want to grasp yet cannot embrace, the wine I want to drink yet fear getting drunk.

44. 29生活会让你苦上一阵子，等你适应以后，再让你苦上一辈子。

44. Life will make you suffer for a while, and once you get used to it, it will make you suffer for a lifetime.

45. 16谎言经过包装，有了一个更好听的名字叫誓言。

45. 16 Lies are dressed up with a better-sounding name called vows.

46. ❾生活就是这样，别人只看结果，自己独撑过程。通透的人，既能享受过程，也能坦然面对结果。

46. Life is like that, others only see the result, while you alone bear the process. Open-minded people can both enjoy the process and calmly face the result.

47. 42不管我们面对什么处境，不管我们的内心多么矛盾，我们总有选择。很多时候你想成为什么样的人，真的取决你最后那一刻的决定。如果你不知道，那就去学最好的别人，做最好的自己吧。

47. 42 No matter what situation we face, no matter how conflicting our inner thoughts may be, we always have a choice. Many times, what kind of person you want to become truly depends on your decision in that last moment. If you're unsure, then learn from the best others, and be the best version of yourself.

48. 24不要在心情糟烂差的时候，用决绝的话伤害爱你的人。

48. Do not use harsh words to hurt the people who love you when you are feeling terrible.

49. 1人生太短，短到来不及浪费时间去恨任何一个人。

49. 1 Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

50. 23在我的心里面，每一次和你的相遇，都像是久别后的重逢，而留在心里最深处的记忆，都是重逢后最温暖的问候，你若安好，我就是晴天。

50. 23 In my heart, every encounter with you feels like a reunion after a long separation, and the deepest memories that remain are the warmest greetings after the reunion. If you are well, then I am the clear sky.

51. 13生命要勇于尝试，给自己一个机会，没有试过怎么知道不行。

51. 13 Life should dare to try, give yourself a chance, how can you know it won't work if you haven't tried?

52. 38有一种心跳，叫怦然心动；有一种喜悦，叫心花怒放；有一种默契，叫心照不喧；有一种感觉，叫心有灵犀；有一种共鸣，叫心心相印；有一种思念，叫朝思暮想；有一种凝望，叫一往情深；有一种美好，叫相知相守；有一种爱情，叫白头偕老；有一种幸福，叫有你相伴。

52. 38 There is a kind of heartbeat called "a heart fluttering"; there is a kind of joy called "a heart blooming"; there is a kind of understanding called "a heart-to-heart without words"; there is a kind of feeling called "soul-mate connection"; there is a kind of resonance called "hearts beating in unison"; there is a kind of longing called "thinking of you day and night"; there is a kind of gaze called "deep affection"; there is a kind of beauty called "to know and to stay together"; there is a kind of love called "to grow old together"; there is a kind of happiness called "to have you by my side."

53. 12没人会把我们变得越来越好，时间也只是陪衬。支撑我们变的越来越好的是我们自己不断进阶的才华，修养，品行以及不断的反思和修正。

53. 12 No one can make us become better and better; time is just a backdrop. It is our own continuously improving talents, virtues, character, and continuous self-reflection and correction that support us in becoming better and better.

54. 11有些路，要学会一个人去走；有些事，要学会一个人去扛；有些苦，要学会一个人去熬；有些累，要学会一个人去承受。

54. 11 There are some roads that you have to learn to walk alone; there are some things that you have to learn to bear alone; there are some sorrows that you have to learn to endure alone; and there are some burdens that you have to learn to bear alone.

55. 32这世上根本不存在感同身受，只因你给的嬉笑太盛，无人在意你的心酸认真，所以别傻傻的摊开伤口向别人诉苦，这世上多的是撒盐的人。

55. There is no such thing as empathy in this world, because you have given too much laughter, and no one cares about your genuine heartache. So, don't foolishly expose your wounds and complain to others, as there are plenty of people who would only add salt to it.

56. 21经验就是生活中最重要的催化剂，有什么样的经验就会变成什么样的人，就像在沙漠里养不出牡丹一样。——刘金花《骆驼祥子》

56. Experience is the most important catalyst in life; the kind of person one becomes is shaped by the kind of experience they have, just like one cannot grow peonies in the desert. — Liu Jinhua, "Camel Xiangzi"

57. 37誓言变成了谎言，我的心被你撕成了碎片。

57. The 37 oaths turned into lies, and my heart has been torn into pieces by you.

58. 14不要让无能成为你内心慌乱的理由，而往往这无能又与能力无关，是无数日子的荒废造成的。

58. 14 Do not let your incompetence become a reason for your inner turmoil, for often this incompetence has nothing to do with ability, but is caused by the waste of countless days.

59. ❽能说服一个人的从来不是道理，而是南墙；能点醒一个人的从来不是说教，而是经历"

59. It is not reason but a dead end that can convince a person; it is not sermons but experience that can awaken a person.

60. 12人生在世无非是让别人笑笑，偶尔笑笑别人。

60. In life, people are mainly here to make others laugh and occasionally laugh at others themselves.

61. 31吃饱饱，喝足了，晚上去上夜班，没谁了。

61. After eating and drinking to their satisfaction, they went to work the night shift, and there was no one else.

62. 9你背不下来的书，总有人能背下来，你做不出来的题，总有人能做出来，你愿意拖到明天的事，总有人今天努力做完，那么不好意思，你想去的学校也只能别人去了，你想过的人生也只能别人过了。

62. 9 There are always people who can memorize books you can't, there are always people who can solve problems you can't, and there are always people who are willing to work hard today to finish what you are willing to procrastinate until tomorrow. So, sorry to say, the school you want to go to can only be attended by others, and the life you want to live can only be lived by others.

63. ❸人生如镜，你笑它便笑，你哭它便哭。心若通透，处处都是风景。

63. ⑧Life is like a mirror; it smiles when you smile and cries when you cry. If your heart is transparent, every place is a landscape.

64. 15我现在很乖了好好睡觉好好吃饭累了就看部**喝奶茶，想你了一定不找你，可是，我真的很想你。

64. 15 Now I'm very well-behaved, sleeping well and eating properly. If I'm tired, I'll watch a movie and drink bubble tea. If I miss you, I won't look for you, but I really do miss you.

65. 14一个人自以为刻骨铭心的回忆，别人早已已经忘记了。

65. 14 One person may think of a memory as deeply etched in their heart, but others may have already forgotten it.

66. 9人就像寒冬里的刺猬。如果它们彼此靠得太近，它们会感到刺痛；如果距离太远，他们会感到寒冷；人们必须保持适当的距离才能走得远。

66. Nine people are like hedgehogs in the winter. If they get too close to each other, they will feel pricked; if they are too far apart, they will feel cold; people must maintain an appropriate distance to go far.

67. 10选择是个大难题，有时候，选择花去了你所有的时间，而你依然不知道，你能够做什么。

67. Choosing between 10 options is a big problem. Sometimes, it takes up all your time, and you still don't know what you can do.

68. 10爱情就像一双袜子，越是瞧起来不顺眼的袜子，越有可能永远陪在你身边，越是喜欢的漂亮袜子经常会少一只。

68. Love is like a pair of socks; the more unappealing the socks look, the more likely they are to be forever by your side, while the pretty socks you like are often missing one.

69. 34人生一共有四道试题：学业、事业、婚姻、家庭。平均分高才能及格，切勿花太多的时间和精力在任一题上。

69. Life is composed of four major tests: education, career, marriage, and family. Only those with high average scores can pass, so do not spend too much time and energy on any single question.

70. 39最聪明的处世术是，既对世俗投以白眼，又与其同流合污。 ——芥川龙之介《侏儒警语》

70. The most cunning way of dealing with the world is to sneer at it while also getting along with it. ——Kakuzo Okakura, "The Dwarf's Proverbs"

71. 7人活着，没必要凡事都争个明白，为人处事，放下自己的固执己见，水至清则无鱼，人至清则无朋。实际上生活只需要拥有一份淡泊平和的心情，一颗自由的心，一份简单细致的人生态度。

71. With seven people alive, there's no need to argue about everything and get everything clear. In dealing with people, let go of your stubbornness and prejudice. Water becomes clear without fish, and people become solitary without friends. In fact, life only requires a calm and peaceful attitude, a free heart, and a simple yet meticulous approach to life.

72. 14我需要的，只是一个保护我，不让我恐慌，不愿委屈悲伤，无论如何都不会放弃我的人。

72. All I need is someone who will protect me, not let me panic, not want to suffer or be sad, and someone who will never give up on me no matter what.

73. 40一个人，风尘仆仆地活在这个世界上，要为喜欢自己的人而活着。这才是最好的态度。不要在不喜欢你的人那里丢掉了快乐，然后又在喜欢自己的人这里忘记了快乐。

73. A person, amidst the dust and toil of this world, should live for those who like them. This is the best attitude. Do not lose happiness by others' disliking, and then forget happiness in the presence of those who like you.

74. 28如果肚子疼痛时，就在腿上扎一刀，那么你的肚子就不疼了！

74. If your stomach hurts, cut a knife on your leg, and then your stomach won't hurt anymore!

75. 29当你把一切困难都熬过去了，才能以平和的心态，去笑对人生的大起大落。

75. 29 Only after you have endured all the difficulties can you face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful mindset and laugh at them.

76. 36很多事情都是水到渠成的，急不得，燥不得，任何美好的状态都不会轻易降临，等吃够了当下的苦，未来的甜才会顺理成章地来，你也才能心安理得的享受。

76. Many things come naturally in their own time, and one cannot rush or be impatient. Any beautiful state will not come easily. Only after you have endured the bitterness of the present can the sweetness of the future come naturally, and then you can enjoy it with a peaceful and justified heart.

77. 27做事不需要人人都理解，只需尽职尽责，问心无愧；做人不需要人人都喜欢，只需尽心尽力，心安理得。

77. 27 It is not necessary for everyone to understand what you do; just do your duty and be free from any regrets; it is not necessary for everyone to like how you are; just give your all and be at peace with your conscience.

78. 20做事不需要人人都理解，只需尽职尽责，问心无愧；做人不需要人人都喜欢，只需尽心尽力，心安理得。

78. In doing things, it is not necessary for everyone to understand; just do your duty and be without any regrets; in being a person, it is not necessary for everyone to like you; just give your all and feel at peace with your conscience.

79. 29望掩埋了欢笑，失望掩饰了一切，我该做的就是学会忘记，寂寞与不安之间徘徊，如果不坚强软弱给谁看。

79. 29 covered the laughter, disappointment masked everything, what I should do is to learn to forget, wandering between loneliness and unease, if not strong, then for whom to show weakness.

80. ❹不要站在现在的高度去评判过去的自己，这不公平。如果重来一次，以当时的心智和阅历，还是会做同样的选择。

80. Do not judge your past self from the height of the present, this is unfair. If I were to do it all over again, with the same level of intelligence and experience at the time, I would still make the same choices.

81. 3但见新人笑，那闻旧人哭。——杜甫《佳人》

81. Only see the new person laughing, but hear the old person crying. — Du Fu, "The Fair Lady"

82. 23望掩埋了欢笑，失望掩饰了一切，我该做的就是学会忘记，寂寞与不安之间徘徊，如果不坚强软弱给谁看。

82. 23 The laughter was buried, and disappointment concealed everything. What I should do is learn to forget, wandering between loneliness and unease, for if I am not strong, then to whom should I show my weakness?

83. 29越长大，越知道，做事不容易，越知道，每个人都有难处，也就越不再随随便便发表评论，或者瞧不起谁。这不是虚伪，而是懂得体谅，温柔地和这个世界相处。

83. As I grow older, I realize that it's not easy to do things, and I understand that everyone has their own difficulties. Therefore, I am no longer quick to make comments or look down on others. This is not hypocrisy; it is an understanding of empathy and a gentle way of coexisting with the world.

84. 24删除心灵的垃圾，每天刷新自己，这样才能重获新生。

84. 24 Remove the garbage from your mind, refresh yourself every day, and only then can you be reborn.