洞悉清澈，气定神闲，优雅自信。

Perceptive and clear, composed and serene, elegant and confident.

1. ❺把期待降到最低，所遇皆惊喜。

1. Keep expectations low, and everything you encounter will be a surprise.

2. 时间宝贵，只留给值得的事与心——

2. Time is precious, reserved only for things and hearts that are worth it.

3. 真正的强大，是允许一切发生。

3. True strength is allowing everything to happen.

4. 没有事业的自信的女人，不会学那些为赋诗词强说愁的小女人整天无所事事，借助酒吧、舞厅、烟、酒、网络消磨自己的青春。自信的女人不屑为之，她们目光长远，对自己有充足的信心。经营家庭，她们能够使父母顺心、丈夫放心、子女开心，每周她们都能好一个家庭的开支用度活动生活，能经常带给家人一些惊喜，以使自己的家庭幸福美满；经营爱情，她们绝对是成功男人背后的女人，默默的支持，温柔的关心，体贴的安慰，都使在外奋战的男人感到前所未有的放松，即而更加信任她们，更加爱护她们；经营友情，她们是最好的良友，会在最需要的时候出现，用自信的微笑扫去友人脸上的阴霾，能用温柔的话语化解友人心中的苦闷。

4. Women without confidence in their careers will not emulate those trivial women who pretend to be melancholic to fill their days, resorting to bars, dance halls, smoking, drinking, and the internet to waste their youth. Confident women look down on such actions, they have a long-term vision and have enough self-confidence. In managing their family, they can ensure that their parents are content, their husbands are at ease, and their children are happy. Every week, they can manage their family's expenses and living expenses well, often bringing some surprises to their family, thereby ensuring a happy and fulfilling family life; in managing love, they are the women behind successful men, providing silent support, gentle concern, and considerate comfort, which makes the men fighting outside feel unprecedented relaxation, and thus trust and cherish them even more; in managing friendships, they are the best friends, appearing at the most needed times, using confident smiles to wipe away the gloom on their friends' faces, and with gentle words to alleviate their friends' distress.

5. 风中自有答案，何必追逐喧嚣。

5. The answers are in the wind; why chase the hustle and bustle?

6. 是个性当中最具有核心意义的部分,那么在这个个体生活中的一时性的,偶然的表现。比方说偶然的怯懦发脾气,因为不具有稳定性和习惯性的特征,所以说我们不把他叫做性格特征,

6. It is the most core part of an individual's character, but in the transient and accidental manifestations of an individual's life. For example, an accidental timidity or losing one's temper; because it lacks stability and habitual characteristics, we do not call it a character trait.

7. ③气质无好坏社会评价，性格有好坏社会评价意义；

7. ③ Temperament has no good or bad social evaluation, while personality has good or bad social evaluation significance.

8. 放下，是另一种拿起。

8. Letting go is another form of picking up.

9. ❻不沉溺过去，不幻想未来。

9. Do not dwell on the past, do not fantasize about the future.

10. ❸不攀附，不将就，不讨好。

10. (8) Do not flatter, do not compromise, do not please others at your own expense.

11. ①气质是不受内容制约的动力性特征，性格是态度和行为的特点；

11. ① Temperament is a dynamic characteristic that is not restricted by content, while personality is the characteristic of attitudes and behaviors.

12. 清醒，是知道每一步都算数。

12. Sobriety is knowing that every step counts.

13. 性格与气质的差别:性格的社会性较强,气质生物性较强;气质更多受到人的神经活动类型的影响,而性格主要是指个体行为的内容,它们是在后天形成的,更多的是受到了社会生活条件的影响与制约。生理基础不同:性格是后天条件反射系统,气质是先天神经类型。

13. Differences between character and temperament: Character has a stronger social aspect, while temperament has a stronger biological aspect; temperament is more influenced by the type of human nervous activity, while character mainly refers to the content of individual behavior. They are formed later in life and are more influenced and constrained by social living conditions. Different physiological bases: Character is a conditioned reflex system developed later, while temperament is an innate nervous type.

14. 性格是一个人对现实的稳定的态度，以及与这种态度相应的，习惯化了的行为方式中表现出来的人格特征。性格一经形成便比较稳定，但是并非一成不变，而是可塑性的。性格不同于气质，更多体现了人格的社会属性，个体之间的人格差异的核心是性格的差异。

14. Character is a person's stable attitude towards reality, as well as the personality traits manifested in the habitual patterns of behavior that correspond to this attitude. Once formed, character is relatively stable, but it is not immutable, rather it is malleable. Character differs from temperament, and more prominently reflects the social attributes of personality; the core of the differences in personality between individuals lies in the differences in character.

15. 温柔有尺，退让有度——

15. Gentle with limits, yielding with moderation.

16. 我自盛开，清风任它来不来。

16. I bloom on my own, letting the breeze come and go as it pleases.

17. 一个人从出生到成年，性格既有波动，也有固化，甚至有重塑的可能。一般的孩童时期性格会受到先天性气质的影响。

17. From birth to adulthood, a person's personality experiences fluctuations, solidification, and even the possibility of reshaping. Generally, during childhood, a person's personality is influenced by their innate temperament.

18. 气质是人们常说的“脾气”、“性情”，气质是指人的心理活动 的速度、强度、稳定性、灵活性等动力方面的心理特征。特别表现在 情绪产生的快慢，情绪体验的强弱，情绪状态的稳定性和持久性，情 绪变化的幅度及言语动作的速度等方面。

18. Temperament, often referred to as "temper" or "disposition," refers to the psychological characteristics of a person's mental activities in terms of speed, intensity, stability, flexibility, and other dynamic aspects. It is particularly manifested in the speed of emotion generation, the strength of emotional experience, the stability and persistence of emotional states, the amplitude of emotional changes, and the speed of verbal and motor actions.

19. 你好，很高兴为你解答问题。气质和性格是紧密联系而又相互区别的。

19. Hello, I'm glad to answer your questions. Temperament and character are closely connected yet distinct from each other.

20. ❾知世故而不世故，善自嘲而不嘲人。

20. Know the world but do not become worldly; be good at self-mockery but do not mock others.

21. 自信的女人，不一定天姿国色，不一定闭月羞花，甚至可能相貌平平，但是，因为那份自信，她们瞬间便变得光彩耀人，淡雅高贵。因而，在任何场合，她们都是最耀眼的焦点，而且永远不会担心容颜的衰老而失去魅力。

21. A confident woman may not be a beauty queen or possess the grace to rival the moon or the flowers, and she might even look ordinary. However, because of that confidence, she instantly shines brightly and exudes elegance and nobility. Therefore, she is always the most dazzling focus at any event, and she never worries about losing her charm as her looks age.

22. 自信的女人，不一定是女强人。女强人的雷厉风行与不可一世总让人敬而远之。而自信的女人却没有这样的特点，她们或者刚强，或者柔弱，或者中性，但都使人易于接近、喜欢接近。刚强的她们，会露出豪爽的一面，用一份坦诚与爽朗使你心悦诚服；柔弱的她们，总容易使人们对她心生怜爱，继而心甘情愿为她效力；中性的她们，长袖善舞，无论男人女人都对她们欣赏佩服，那是源于一分自信的洒脱。

22. A confident woman is not necessarily a strong woman. The strong-willed and domineering nature of a strong woman often makes people respect her but keep their distance. However, confident women do not possess such traits. They may be strong, weak, or androgynous, but they all make it easy for people to approach and like to be around them. The strong ones reveal their straightforwardness, winning you over with their sincerity and cheerfulness; the weak ones often evoke sympathy and are willing to serve them out of gratitude; the androgynous ones are skillful and graceful, earning the admiration and respect of both men and women, which comes from their confident ease.

23. 不为物喜，不为己悲——

23. Not to be elated by material things, not to be despondent by personal sorrows.

24. 眼里有光，心里有度——

24. Eyes with light, heart with measure.

25. 自由，就是从不再自我证明开始。

25. Freedom is the beginning of no longer needing to prove oneself.

26. ❽不解释，不纠缠，不内耗。

26. No explanation, no entanglement, no internal drain.

27. ❹尊重所有声音，但只成为自己。

27. ❹ Respect all voices, but only be yourself.

28. 我的世界，我自渡。

28. My world, I cross myself.

29. 成熟，是天真加了守护层。

29. Maturity is innocence with a protective layer.

30. 专注当下，深耕自己——

30. Focus on the present, delve deep into yourself.

31. 拥有事业的她们，一定能够在事业上挥洒自如，让上级下级同事对手都心悦诚服地佩服她工作的能力。在工作上，她们举重若轻，急大局于所急，做事稳妥细致，拥有自信女人的企业，也拥有了一份自信的明天。

31. Women who have their own careers are sure to excel in their fields, winning the respect and admiration of their superiors, subordinates, colleagues, and competitors with their work abilities. At work, they handle heavy tasks with ease, prioritize the overall situation with urgency, and perform their duties steadily and meticulously. A company owned by confident women also possesses a confident future.

32. 活得清晰，爱得清醒——

32. Live with clarity, love with awareness.

33. 自信的女人，不同于自负的女人。自负的女人，或者容貌出众，或者才华杰出，或者家财万贯，或者权倾一时。而自信的女人，可能一无所有。然而，这两者的区别却又如此明显。自负的女人总是目空一切，高高凌驾于众人之上，仗着自己的优势，不肯轻易向“凡间俗物”略微点头，令一种望而生畏。而自信的女人，因为自信而多了平和，多了宽容，多了礼貌，因而，众人眼中的她，犹如圣母玛利亚般，易于交谈、易于接近，更愿意亲近。

33. A confident woman is different from a vain woman. A vain woman may be outstanding in appearance, exceptional in talent, wealthy, or powerful. However, a confident woman might have nothing at all. Yet, the distinction between the two is so evident. A vain woman always looks down on others, towering above them, relying on her advantages and reluctantly giving a slight nod to the "common folk," making people feel awe-struck. On the other hand, a confident woman, because of her confidence, exudes peace, tolerance, and politeness. Therefore, in the eyes of others, she is like the Blessed Virgin Mary, easy to talk to, easy to approach, and more willing to be close.

34. 风吹哪页读哪页，谁来爱我我爱谁——

34. Let the wind turn the pages where it will, and who will love me and who I will love —

35. ②气质是带自然性的个性心理特征；性格是社会性个性心理特征；

35. ② Temperament is a natural personality psychological characteristic; character is a social personality psychological characteristic.

36. 自行，自醒，自清——

36. Self-reliance, self-awareness, self-purification —

37. 喜欢看时尚杂志，喜欢欣赏霓裳羽衣，喜欢审视各种各样的美女，在不断的审美过程中，我发现了：自信的女人，最美！

37. I like to read fashion magazines, enjoy admiring beautiful clothes, and appreciate various beautiful women. In the continuous process of aesthetic appreciation, I have discovered: The most beautiful women are the confident ones!

38. 气质，其实是一种说不清道不明的东西。比如有些人，看上去其貌不扬，但又给人深不可测的感觉。

38. Temperament, in fact, is something that is unclear and indescribable. For example, some people may not look particularly impressive, yet they give off a sense of depth and mystery.

39. 我的善良，自带锋芒。

39. My kindness is sharp with its own edge.

40. ❷不敷衍别人，更不辜负自己。

40. ❷ Do not敷衍 others, and definitely do not disappoint yourself.

41. 通透，是允许一切如其所是。

41. Transparency is about allowing everything to be as it is.

42. ⑤年龄越小气质起作用越大，成人后性格在个性结构中有核心意义。

42. ⑤ The younger the age, the greater the role of temperament; after adulthood, personality has a core significance in the structure of the individual.

43. 不慌不忙，不争不抢——

43. Calm and composed, not rushing, not competing, not grabbing.

44. ❶与万事言和，与独处相安。

44. ❶Make peace with all things, and be at ease with solitude.

45. ❼能承受最好的，也能接纳最差的。

45. It can endure the best and also accept the worst.

46. ③气质能影响性格形成的快慢，在性格上打上气质的烙印与色彩。性格也能逐渐改变人的气质。

46. ③ Temperament can affect the speed of personality formation and leave the mark and color of temperament on personality. Personality can also gradually change a person's temperament.

47. 就是一个人在这个社会活动当中,形成的对人、对事、对自己的态度,以及一些行为方式,表现出来的心理特征。

47. It refers to the psychological characteristics that a person develops through their social activities, including their attitudes towards people, things, and themselves, as well as certain behavioral patterns.

48. ①二者都是人的个性心理特征，都具有稳定和个别差异性的特点。

48. ① Both are characteristics of human personality psychology, and they both possess the characteristics of stability and individual differences.

49. 不求他人理解，但求自己尽兴——

49. Not seeking others' understanding, but seeking to be fully satisfied myself.

50. ❿在自己的节奏里，热闹安静皆自在。

50. In one's own rhythm, both bustling and quiet are at ease.

51. 一般认为性格一半来自遗传，一半来自于后天的发展，包括所处的生活环境、家庭的氛围、受到教育的方式。

51. It is generally believed that personality is half inherited and half developed through upbringing, including the living environment, the atmosphere of the family, and the way education is received.