在漫长的历史长河中，单方支付如同孤舟独行，而双向奔赴才显精彩纷呈。

Throughout the long course of history, one-way payments are like a solitary boat journey, but it is only in the pursuit of both sides that the scenery becomes vivid and full of wonders.

1. 这样的一方一味的付出，时间久了，越爱越累，越爱越困扰，到最后彼此都会疲惫不堪。这样轻贱了自己来讨好别人，还不被别人认可，有可能还被对方讽刺挖苦，好像自己有多下贱，离不开人家！

1. One party keeps on giving without reservation, and after a while, the more they love, the more exhausted and troubled they become, until both parties are completely exhausted. Such self-abasement in order to please others, yet not recognized by others, and even possibly mocked and ridiculed by them, as if they were incredibly lowly and could not do without the other person!

2. 无论什么感情，你越是没主见，越是放低自己，越是委曲求全，越是一再忍让，对方就越不会珍惜你，他觉得你的付出理所当然，他会一次一次的挑战你的底线，同时还自以为自己很优秀。

2. No matter what kind of feelings, the more indecisive you are, the more you lower yourself, the more you compromise, and the more you keep making concessions, the less the other person will cherish you. They will feel that your sacrifices are something that should be taken for granted, and they will repeatedly challenge your bottom line while still believing in their own superiority.

3. 不在乎你的人，你再迎合迁就，只会是打扰了别人，也卑微了自己。任何关系里，最遗憾的不是失去，而是明明知道不值得，却还执着地不肯放手。

3. People who don't care about you will only be disturbed and belittle yourself if you try to cater to and accommodate them. In any relationship, the greatest regret is not the loss, but knowing that it's not worth it, yet stubbornly refusing to let go.

4. 在一段感情中，总是以“牺牲者”的姿态来委曲求全，以一次一次放低底线来强求，以一次一次的被忽视，又不明不白的妥协，以一次一次毫无原则的原谅对方，以一次一次牺牲自己来维持这段关系，最终只会落得一场空。

4. In a relationship, always playing the role of the "sacrificer" to accommodate, constantly lowering one's bottom line to beg for it, repeatedly being ignored, and inexplicably compromising, forgiving the other person without principles time and time again, and sacrificing oneself time and time again to maintain this relationship, only to end up with nothing in the end.

5. 你的善良，要留给值得的人，不是所有的人，都值得掏心掏肺，总有一天你会明白，能治愈你的，从来都不是时间，而是心里那份释怀与格局！

5. Your kindness should be reserved for those who deserve it, not for everyone. Not everyone is worthy of your heart and soul. One day, you will understand that what truly heals you is never time, but the release in your heart and the breadth of your perspective!

6. 相逢的意义在于照亮彼此，不然的话，一个人喝茶也很浪漫，一个人吹风也很清醒。

6. The significance of meeting is to illuminate each other; otherwise, it's also romantic to drink tea alone, and it's also refreshing to blow the wind alone.

7. 任何关系，最怕的是一个人倾尽所有，另一个人却无动于衷！别拿尊严，去迁就一个不爱你的人；别拿时间，去浪费一份不属于你的情。去追求值得的，放手不属于自己的！两个人互相惦记才叫爱，一个人瞎惦记叫犯贱。好好珍惜在乎你的人，别去打扰心里没有你的人。

7. The greatest fear in any relationship is when one person gives everything while the other remains indifferent! Don't sacrifice your dignity to accommodate someone who doesn't love you; don't waste your time on a feeling that doesn't belong to you. Pursue what is worthy, and let go of what doesn't belong to you! Mutual care and concern between two people is called love; one-sided care is called贱 (a slang term for foolish or贱, meaning to be a fool). Treasure those who care about you; don't disturb those who don't have you in their hearts.

8. 如果两个人不能相互付出，不是双向奔赴，相互体谅，那这段感情是撑不了太久的。哪怕再爱一个人，也要学会给自己留余地，强求的关系长久不了！

8. If two people cannot give to each other, if they are not both striving towards each other, showing understanding, then this relationship won't last very long. Even if you love someone very much, you must also learn to leave some room for yourself; a relationship that is forced will not last!

9. 心里没你的人，最怕你打扰，你再迎合，再迁就，只会是打扰了别人，也卑微了自己，你的真心很贵，不要对心里没你的人浪费！

9. People who don't care about you are the most afraid of being disturbed. No matter how much you cater to or accommodate them, you'll only end up disturbing others and diminishing yourself. Your sincerity is precious; don't waste it on those who don't care about you!

10. 别再不属于自己的关系，耗费一切，即使你再努力想抓住，你会发现，到最后也只会剩下你一人，因为没有一段关系的长久会和勉强有关。

10. Stop wasting everything on relationships that don't belong to you. Even if you try your hardest to hold on, you'll find that in the end, you'll be left all alone, because no long-lasting relationship can be based on coercion.

11. 当你选择为一个人无条件付出的时候，你就已经输了。真正的感情，是付出有度，双向奔赴！

11. When you choose to give to someone unconditionally, you have already lost. True love is measured giving and a mutual pursuit!

12. 任何一段关系，任何一段感情都需要两个人的共同努力和付出，需要双方维护，双向奔赴，如果只是一方无条件地付出，无条件的委曲求全，无条件的放低自己的底线，无条件的忍辱负重！而另一方不懂得珍惜和回应，不懂得尊重和回馈，不懂得感恩，假装看不到对方的付出，那再深厚的感情也会逐渐消磨殆尽。这种关系，注定无法长久。

12. Any relationship, any love, requires the joint efforts and dedication of both individuals. It needs to be maintained and pursued mutually. If one party unconditionally gives, unconditionally compromises, unconditionally lowers their own底线, and unconditionally bears the burden of enduring suffering, while the other party does not know how to cherish and respond, does not know how to respect and reciprocate, does not know how to be grateful, and pretends not to see the other party's efforts, then even the deepest feelings will gradually wear away. Such a relationship is destined to be unable to last long.

13. 因此，无论你多么爱一个人，都不要让自己陷入疯狂的付出中，一味地付出不求回报，一味的妥协忍让，换不来幸福，只会让自己的感情变得更廉价，只会让对方看轻了自己，只会让对方觉得自己没有底线，甚至背后还嘲笑自己傻！

13. Therefore, no matter how much you love someone, do not let yourself sink into a state of irrational giving, blindly offering without expecting anything in return, and endlessly compromising and tolerating. This will not bring happiness; it will only make your feelings feel more devalued, make the other person look down on you, make them feel you have no limits, and even cause them to mock you behind your back for being foolish!

14. 当自己特别爱一个人的时候，总是恨不得把自己“掏空”去爱对方。恨不得把世间所有最美好的东西都给他！宁愿牺牲自己，也要去成全他！

14. When one loves someone very much, they always feel the urge to "empty themselves" in their love for the other person. They would like to give them all the most beautiful things in the world! They would rather sacrifice themselves to fulfill their love for them!

15. 无论你有多喜欢一个人，都不要放下自尊刻意去讨好，也不要放低姿态卑微的去迎合，更不要降低底线去委曲求全。感情里最怕的，就是无底线地去爱一个人，而对方什么表示都没有！当你一次次退让，一次次委屈自己，一次次放弃，又一次次舍不得！最后换来的是对方更加肆无忌惮，得寸进尺。

15. No matter how much you like someone, do not sacrifice your self-respect to please them, nor lower your posture to flatter them, and definitely do not compromise your principles for the sake of harmony. The scariest thing in a relationship is to love someone without limits, while the other person shows no sign of reciprocation! When you keep giving in, keep enduring hardships, keep giving up, and keep holding on, what you get in return is the other person becoming even more brazen and greedy.