与优秀者同行，成就非凡人生。

Walk with the excellent and achieve an extraordinary life.

1. 不断提升自己，被人滋养的同时也要滋养别人，帮助别人就是帮助自己！

1. Continuously improve yourself, while being nurtured, also nurture others. Helping others is helping yourself!

2. 北宋时期著名大臣、史学家司马迁，不仅自己一生俭朴，更是把俭朴作为教育子成才的风尚，并教育孩子不要太奢侈。

2. During the Northern Song Dynasty, the famous minister and historian Sima Qian, not only led a frugal life himself, but also regarded frugality as a virtue for educating his children to become successful, and taught them not to be too luxurious.

3. 为此他还以家书的体裁写了一篇论节俭的文章，并告诫儿子：“侈则多欲。君子多欲则贪慕富贵，枉道速祸;小人多欲则多求妄用，败家丧身。”

3. For this reason, he also wrote an essay on thrift in the style of a family letter, and warned his son: "Extravagance leads to many desires. A gentleman with many desires will be greedy for wealth and status, and will go astray and hasten misfortune; a common person with many desires will seek excessively and waste unnecessarily, leading to the ruin of the family and the loss of oneself."

4. “从心理学的角度分析，越是头脑简单的人越是需要点缀和填充，而越是头脑复杂的人则对简洁越是有着特殊的心理需求”

4. "From a psychological perspective, the simpler the mind, the more it needs embellishment and filling, while the more complex the mind, the more it has a special psychological need for simplicity."

5. 日子是自己的，往后余生，愿你我懂得善待自己，宽容别人，用心生活，多靠近能够相互欣赏，彼此滋养，共同成长，共同进步的人！

5. The days are our own, and for the rest of our lives, may we both learn to treat ourselves kindly, be tolerant of others, live with intent, and get closer to people who can appreciate each other, nurture each other, grow together, and progress together!

6. 美好的故事令人回味无穷，聆听好故事，不知不觉间融入进我们的日常生活，懂得了故事带来的真谛——《帕金森定律》是人际交往中首选的佳作之一。

6. Good stories are ever-lasting and thought-provoking. Listening to great stories, we often integrate them into our daily lives without even realizing it, understanding the true essence that stories bring——《Parkinson's Law》 is one of the masterpieces preferred in interpersonal communication.

7. 所以，多去靠近那些滋养你的人吧。和优秀的人同行，能增长见识，提升认知；和乐观的人相处，能开阔眼界，陶冶情操；和舒服的人深交，能心情舒畅，共同进步。

7. Therefore, be more inclined to spend time with those who nurture you. Walking with the outstanding will broaden your horizons and elevate your understanding; being with the optimistic will open up your perspective and cultivate your character; having deep connections with those who are comfortable will bring peace to your mind and enable us to progress together.

8. 人群中有这样一种人，在事物面前他们总是能指出关键的要害点在哪里，总是能一针见血地指出问题背后的真相和核心，他们的情商也许不高，他们的人缘也许不好，但他们的思想与观点却总被事实证明是对的，他们所用的方式方法看起来与平常的人也没什么两样，他们做事的思维和套路看起来也没有什么特别之处，但他们却总能在平淡无奇的事物中整合出一套自我独特的深度见解和深度观点，他们也总能在事物发展的关键阶段招招致胜，步步为赢。

8. Among the crowd, there is a type of person who is always able to pinpoint the key points and vulnerabilities of things, and always can cut to the heart of the truth and essence behind the issues. Their emotional intelligence may not be high, and their popularity may not be good, but their thoughts and views are always proven to be correct. The methods they use seem no different from those of ordinary people, and their way of thinking and tactics do not seem to have anything special. However, they are always able to integrate a set of unique, deep insights and perspectives from ordinary and unremarkable things. They also always manage to gain the upper hand and win step by step at critical stages of things' development.

9. 生活中很多真正的高人都有固定的“独处时间”，这个时间既是自我学习修炼的时间，也是看清事物真相的时间，更是成就自己非凡人生的时间，而不是很多人眼中所谓被迫无奈的“孤独时间”，有一种“孤独”是自己主动选择的，有一种“独处”是人生必要的。

9. Many truly exceptional individuals in life have a fixed "time for solitude," which is not only a period for self-learning and cultivation, but also a time to see the true nature of things, and even more so, a time to achieve an extraordinary life of their own. This is not the so-called "solitude" of coercion and necessity as many people perceive it. There is a kind of "solitude" that is chosen actively, and there is a kind of "being alone" that is necessary in life.

10. 首先，高空搜索者乌鸦发现猎物信息后传递给它们的合作者——狼群。然后分别由首领带领自己的同类感到猎物所在地。

10. Firstly, the high-altitude searchers, the crows, discover the information about the prey and pass it on to their collaborators, the wolf pack. Then, led by their respective leaders, the wolves head to the location of the prey.

11. 生活中那些越是强大的人越喜欢用“简单”来作为自己的形象展示于人，生活中那些越是弱小的人越喜欢用“复杂”来伪装自己内心深处的自卑，真正的强者往往在生活中都是喜欢简洁的生活方式和简单的处世模式，只有在大是大非面前你才能看到他们的厉害与魄力，这也许就是所谓的“大隐喜欢隐于市，小隐喜欢隐于野”的真正内涵。

11. The stronger people in life tend to use "simple" as a way to present their image to others, while the weaker ones prefer to use "complexity" to camouflage their deep-seated inferiority. True strength often favors a simple lifestyle and straightforward manner in dealing with the world. It is only in the face of major issues and decisions that their prowess and decisiveness can be seen. This may be the true meaning of the saying, "The great are those who prefer to remain hidden in the city, while the small are those who prefer to hide in the wilds."

12. 那个汗流浃背手捧一大把桃花的年轻人，通过努力的学习，不断改进自己，在纵向条件有限的情况下，试着挑战自己的横向广度，增强自身阅历，慢慢地精进成智者的“得意门生”，这离不开奋斗，离不开优秀的团队，优秀的老师，让我们与优秀的人并肩前行，成就非凡人生！

12. The young man, drenched in sweat, holding a bunch of peach blossoms in his hands, through diligent study and continuous self-improvement, tried to challenge his own breadth horizontally under limited vertical conditions, enrich his experiences, and gradually refined into the "favored student" of a wise master. This could not be achieved without struggle, without an excellent team, and without excellent teachers. Let's march side by side with the excellent, and achieve an extraordinary life!

13. 看看那些大人物的言谈举止你就会惊人地发现他们都有一个非常类似的相同点，那就是“神态缓慢，从容不迫，不急不躁，泰然自若”，就算有天大的事情发生你也看不到他们慌乱而着急的表情，就算他们内心已经波涛汹涌了外表依然是淡定如水，他们永远是一副稳坐泰山的样子，他们永远是一种镇定自若的状态。

13. Take a look at the way those big shots talk and behave, and you will be astonishingly aware that they all share a very similar trait: "A calm demeanor, composed, not in a hurry, unruffled, and composed." Even in the face of the most significant events, you will not see them show signs of panic or urgency. Even if their inner emotions are turbulent, their exterior remains as serene as still water. They always appear to be sitting atop a mountain, maintaining a state of composure and calmness.

14. 这样的人喜欢用简单来掩盖自己的强大，这样的人喜欢用低调来掩盖自己的本事，因为他们最清楚“高处不胜寒”，因为他们最明白“上帝让谁灭亡，必先让其疯狂”。

14. Such people like to use simplicity to conceal their strength, and they prefer to use modesty to hide their abilities, because they are most aware of the saying "The higher the climb, the colder the wind," and they understand all too well the saying "God will make someone fall, He will first make them crazy."

15. 想一下，古代的名人亦能做到如此，更何况一介凡人的我们，更是需要多依此为准则，首先严格要求自己、孩子，成为一个有能力、有素质，对社会有用的人。

15. Think about it, ancient celebrities were able to achieve such greatness, let alone us ordinary people. We need to take this as a guiding principle even more so, first by strictly demanding ourselves and our children, and becoming people who are capable, well-qualified, and useful to society.

16. 生活中当你面对企业管理以及个人提升，面对家庭教育以及各种选择，你的思维受到过阻碍吗？

16. Have you ever encountered obstacles in your thinking when facing the management of enterprises and personal development, and dealing with family education and various choices in life?

17. 人民日报说：“人这一辈子，被人懂是幸运，有人懂是幸福。与滋养你的人为伴，能让你在平凡的生活里找到更多乐趣，总会被温暖和治愈。”

17. The People's Daily says: "In a person's lifetime, being understood by others is a blessing, and being understood by someone is happiness. Being accompanied by someone who nurtures you can make you find more joy in ordinary life, and you will always be warmed and healed."

18. 其实，人需要滋养，就像植物需要养分一样。每个人都是一个磁场，吸引周边同频共振的人！与滋养你的人在一起，他们优秀的品质、自律的习惯，还有出色的能力，你会看到他们成就远远超过你，但他们仍然很努力，这些都会让你耳濡目染，督促你不断地鞭策自己、提升自己。想要和雄鹰一样展翅飞翔，翱翔天空，就要与雄鹰同行，与优秀的人同行，自己也能变得更优秀！

18. In fact, just like plants need nutrients, humans require nourishment. Each person is a magnet, attracting others who resonate with the same frequency! Being with people who nourish you, you see their excellent qualities, their disciplined habits, and their remarkable abilities. You witness their achievements far surpassing your own, yet they continue to strive hard. All these will subtly influence you, urging you to constantly motivate and improve yourself. If you wish to soar like an eagle, to glide through the skies, you must fly with eagles, walk with the exceptional, for it is through them that you too can become outstanding!

19. 大家有没有发现，有的人，当你靠近他，和他在一起，就会觉得温暖有力量，他能给你带来满满的正能量，让你觉得每天很充实，每天有期待，虽然忙碌，但感觉开心，他就是一个发光体，感染着身边每一个人。而有的人，只要走近他，就会让你焦躁不安，甚至有种无力感，他总是满满的负能量，抱怨不断，看这个不行，看那个也不行，还没开始做一件事儿，他就打扰得别人思绪不宁，总是干扰别人，让别人看见他就想远离！

19. Have you noticed that some people, when you get close to them and spend time with them, you feel warm and full of strength. They bring you a lot of positive energy, making you feel fulfilled every day and looking forward to each day. Despite being busy, you feel happy, and they are like a luminous body, infecting everyone around them. On the other hand, there are people who, as soon as you get close to them, make you anxious and restless, even giving you a sense of powerlessness. They are always filled with negative energy, constantly complaining about this and that, seeing nothing right. Even before starting a task, they disrupt others' thoughts, always disturbing others and making them want to stay away from them!

20. 人群里，那些真正的高人，常常都有这5个特点，你身边有吗？

20. Among the crowd, those truly great individuals often possess these 5 characteristics. Do you have any of them around you?

21. 请相信自己的力量，因为你不知道，谁会因为相信你，开始相信自己……

21. Believe in your own strength, for you never know who might start believing in themselves because of their faith in you...

22. 如果你的身边有这五种特点的人，那么你一定要主动地接近他们，了解他们，相信他们，也许他们就是你改变人生的“贵人”，如果你的身边没有这五种特点的人，那么说明你该改变一下自己的社交环境了，因为有可能就是你的圈子决定了你此时不如意的人生。

22. If you have people with these five characteristics around you, you must actively approach them, understand them, and believe in them. They might just be the "auspicious person" who can change your life. If you do not have people with these five characteristics around you, it may be time to change your social environment, because it is possible that your circle of friends determines the unsatisfactory life you are experiencing at the moment.

23. 我们这一生，走走停停，会遇见形形色色的人，有的人陪了你一程，有的人伴了你一段，有的人给你带来了欢乐，有的人给你带来了痛苦，有的人教会了你感恩，有的人教会了你忘记！不管是什么，都是经历，都是成长！

23. Throughout our lives, we walk and pause, encountering all sorts of people. Some accompany us for a while, some for a stretch, some bring joy, some bring pain, some teach us gratitude, and some teach us to forget. No matter what, it's all experience, all growth!

24. 常言道人生想要成功需要五种人：“高人指路，贵人相助，友人支持，小人刺激，对手竞争”。五种人里排名第一的就是高人指路，人生遇到一个能够为自己指点迷津的高人就如同在外地迷路的时候遇到了当地人，他会直接让你省去了太多不必要浪费的时间与精力，可以专心致志地走上真正属于自己的那条成功之路。

24. As the saying goes, to achieve success in life, one needs five types of people: "a wise person to guide, a benefactor to assist, friends to support, a provocateur to stimulate, and competitors to compete." Among these five types of people, the top priority is a wise person to guide. Meeting a wise person who can point the way for you in life is like encountering a local when lost in a foreign land; they can directly save you from wasting a lot of unnecessary time and energy, allowing you to focus wholeheartedly on the true path of success that belongs to you.

25. 不按套路出牌的人，颠覆规则的人，打破和谐的人，这些类型的人在很多人的眼里被认为是另类之人，被称作是奇葩之人，但这样的人也经常用自己的成功事实告诉世人，他们就是二八法则中的那百分之二十的与众不同的少数人。二八法则曾经告诉我们，这个世界上百分之二十的人永远控制着剩余百分之八十的人的权利，财富与思想，你只有在思想上，习惯上和行为上和百分之八十的人与众不同，你才有可能成为那百分之二十的人。

25. People who do not play by the rules, those who subvert the rules, and those who disrupt harmony are often considered outliers by many, labeled as peculiar individuals. However, such people often use their own successful facts to tell the world that they are the 20% of the minority who are different from the majority. The 80/20 rule once told us that 20% of the people in the world always control the rights, wealth, and thoughts of the remaining 80%. You can only become one of the 20% if you are different from the 80% in terms of thought, habits, and behavior.

26. 相信这则故事会对我们的启发非同凡响，甚至对于大部分读者来说犹如醍醐灌顶，这不就是某一阶段的我们吗？有时尽管非常努力，但进步依然缓慢，是时候调整自己的学习方法和学习状态了。

26. We believe that this story will have a profound impact on us, even serving as an enlightening moment for most readers, isn't this like a certain phase of us? Sometimes, despite our utmost efforts, progress is still slow, and it's time to adjust our learning methods and state.

27. 它们各司其职，野狼发挥力量的优势，将猎物的躯体撕裂开来，大朵快颐。而乌鸦负责发现猎物和清理残渣的任务，就这样它们得以在危机四伏的原野中生存下来。它们不仅依据大自然的效率法则，而且极其形象的说明了一支好的团队成员之间精诚合作，资源的整合是多么的重要。

27. Each of them performs its role: the wild wolves use their strength to tear apart the bodies of their prey and feast on them greedily. The crows are responsible for discovering the prey and cleaning up the leftovers, and it is in this way that they manage to survive in the wilderness fraught with dangers. Not only do they follow the efficiency laws of nature, but they also vividly illustrate how essential it is for a good team to have close cooperation among its members and the integration of resources.

28. 不仅如此，司马光还告诫儿子：不仅生活中注意节俭，对工作要认真，学习要踏实，具备这些道德准则的素养，才能才能修身、齐家，乃至治国、平天下。

28. Not only that, Sima Guang also warned his son: Not only should one be thrifty in life, but also be serious about work, be earnest in study, and possess the moral qualities of these principles. Only then can one cultivate oneself, manage the family, and even govern the country and bring peace to the world.

29. 如从个人管理角度，帕金森指出了如何成为一个高效能人士：一个人要学会珍惜时间，合理利用时间，不拖延做事，增强时间观念，在做事时达到事半功倍的效果;一个人在做事时要善于利用关键链发，确认工作进度，克服他人身定律，使自己成为高效能人士。

29. From a personal management perspective, Parkinson pointed out how to become an efficient and effective person: one must learn to cherish time, make rational use of time, avoid procrastination, strengthen the sense of time, and achieve twice the result with half the effort in doing things; one should be good at using the critical chain method to confirm work progress, overcome the limitations of others, and become an efficient and effective person.

30. 这样的人外表看似慢而不急，温而不燥，实则是他们的内在早已心中有数，成竹在胸，他们永远知道什么时候该让别人着急，什么时候该让自己淡定，他们永远知道着急只会让自己的分寸大乱，着急只会让别人看出自己的破绽。

30. Such people appear slow and unurgent, gentle and not fervent on the surface, but in reality, their inner hearts are already clear, with plans fully formed. They always know when to make others anxious and when to stay calm themselves. They always know that being anxious will only throw their composure into disarray and that it will only reveal their weaknesses to others.

31. 请成为一道光，因为你不知道，谁会借助你的光芒，走出黑暗。请保持心中的善良，因为你不知道，谁会借助你的善良，走出绝望。请坚守你的信仰，因为你不知道，谁会借助你的信仰，走出迷茫。

31. Be a ray of light, for you never know who might find their way out of the darkness with the help of your light. Maintain the goodness in your heart, for you never know who might find their way out of despair with the help of your kindness. Stand firm in your faith, for you never know who might find their way out of confusion with the help of your belief.

32. 这一法则在我们的生活中也不免会经常被用到，如能力大小不一的公司员工，领导部门可以融会贯通，整合现有资源，做到合理安排，使员工各司其职，互补互利，这样既为公司节约了资金流放，又得益于团队合作，协调不同类型、不同性格的员工在****的带动下精诚合作，稳步发展。

32. This principle is also frequently applied in our lives, such as in companies where employees have varying abilities. The leadership department can integrate and optimize existing resources, making reasonable arrangements to ensure that each employee performs their respective roles, complementing each other for mutual benefit. This not only saves the company's financial flow but also benefits from teamwork. Under the leadership of the****, different types and personalities of employees can cooperate sincerely and steadily develop.

33. 那么首先让我们从一部心理学书籍《帕金森定律》开始，通过学习《帕金森定律》这本书，获取理想的答案。从此，我们的人生将会有大幅度的提高。

33. So let's start with a psychology book called "Parkinson's Law." By studying this book, "Parkinson's Law," we can obtain the ideal answers. From then on, our lives will see a significant improvement.

34. 《帕金森定律》这本书的作者徐志晶，她是一位成功的国家二级心理咨询师。作为一名心理工作者，徐志晶长期关注并深入研究大众人群的心理健康。《帕金森定律》是她通过和患者的近距离接触，以及长时间的阅读学习心理学相关的书籍才写出的得意之作。

34. The author of the book "Parkinson's Law" is Xu Zhijing, who is a successful national second-grade心理咨询师. As a psychological worker, Xu Zhijing has long been concerned with and deeply researched the mental health of the general public. "Parkinson's Law" is her pride and joy, which she wrote through close contact with patients and long hours of reading and studying books related to psychology.

35. 当你面对瞬息万变的社会、面对繁重的工作、面对有待提高的家庭生活质量，聪明的你会把这一切安排的井然有序吗？

35. When faced with a rapidly changing society, a heavy workload, and the need to improve the quality of family life, can a wise person arrange all of this in an orderly manner?

36. 阅读一部好书，如同我们的心灵与智者对话。随着故事的深入，进入到第六章《为什么你很忙却进步缓慢》中有这样一则故事：一个非常努力却一无所获的年轻人去向一位先生求教。先生在听过他的烦恼后，带他来到了桃花林，让他与自己的两个弟子一起去挑一朵开得最美、最艳的花。

36. Reading a good book is like our soul conversing with wise individuals. As the story delves deeper, in Chapter Six, "Why You Are Busy Yet Making Slow Progress," there is a story about a young man who works very hard yet achieves nothing. After hearing his troubles, the gentleman takes him to a peach forest, where he is asked to pick the most beautiful and vibrant flower together with his two disciples.

37. 愿我们每个人都能成为一束光，绽放出所有的美好！

37. May each of us become a beam of light, shining out all the beauty!

38. 面对快节奏的生活，放慢你的脚步，在欣赏路边风景时，不忘给自己充充电，快速稳步提升自己的势力，实现自身的价值，你准备好了吗？

38. In the face of the fast-paced life, slow down your pace. While appreciating the scenery along the way, don't forget to recharge yourself. Quickly and steadily enhance your strength and realize your own value. Are you ready?

39. 《帕金森定律》这本书主题鲜明，逻辑思维性强，用生活的案例结合小故事，环环相扣，细致入微，展现出小故事大道理的生存法则。《帕金森定律》这本书无论是在个人职场提升、企业管理，以及家庭教育的角度，如何培养孩子良好的人格和个性，给予孩子足够的尊重，打造一个“完美”的孩子，等各方面都给予了充分的阐述。

39. The book "Parkinson's Law" has a clear theme and strong logical thinking. It combines life cases with small stories, intertwining them meticulously and with great detail, revealing the survival rules of "small stories, big truths." This book provides a thorough elaboration on various aspects, such as personal career advancement, corporate management, and family education, including how to cultivate children's good character and personality, give them enough respect, and create a "perfect" child.

40. 结果是，年轻人汗流浃背的捧了一大把桃花，而智者的徒弟却怡然自得，轻轻松松选择属于自己的桃花。最后智者笑笑说：努力不一定会获得预期的结果，正确的选择才是关键！

40. As a result, the young people were sweating profusely, holding a bunch of peach blossoms, while the master's disciple was at ease, effortlessly choosing the peach blossoms that belonged to him. Finally, the wise man smiled and said: Effort does not necessarily guarantee the expected outcome; the right choice is the key!

41. 心理学家威廉·詹姆士说：“播下一种思想，收获一种行为;播下一种行为，收获一种习惯;播下一种习惯，收获一种性格;播下一种性格，收获一种命运。”

41. Psychologist William James said: "Sow a thought, reap a behavior; sow a behavior, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny."

42. 杨绛先生说:"这世上所有关系，都是相互的。你给我一颗糖，我会给你小蛋糕，你拉我看星星，我就会带你晒太阳。

42. Mr. Yang Jiang said: "All relationships in this world are reciprocal. If you give me a candy, I will give you a small cake. If you pull me to look at the stars, I will take you to bask in the sun."

43. 《帕金森定律》这本书可谓是面面俱到，其中在第二章《为什么每个公司都有闲人》中，作者讲述了乌鸦和狼在合作中实现了“物竞天择，适者生存”的法则。

43. The book "Parkinson's Law" is comprehensive in its coverage. In Chapter 2, "Why Every Company Has Slackers," the author tells the story of crows and wolves achieving the law of "survival of the fittest" through cooperation.