在纷繁的世界中，我们渴望做真正的自己。无需迎合，无需附和，独树一帜，自在独行。

Amidst the complexities of the world, we yearn to be our authentic selves. Without the need to迎合 or conform, we stand out alone, living comfortably in our own way.

1. 生活中，那些让你觉得特别“厉害”的人，不是生来就天赋异禀，在你没看到的地方，他们都曾经默默地翻山越岭。

1. In life, those people who seem especially "amazing" to you are not born with exceptional talent. In the places you haven't seen, they have all silently climbed over mountains and rivers.

2. 2想得太多会毁了你，“若无其事”才是最好的报复。何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，是为了自己！

2.2 Overthinking can destroy you; "acting as if nothing happened" is the best revenge. Why should you prove anything to someone who doesn't deserve it? Living a better life is for yourself!

3. 21别等天真输给了现实，你才知道自己有多傻；别等诚恳败给了虚伪，你才明白自己不圆滑。

3. Don't wait until innocence is defeated by reality to realize how foolish you are; don't wait until sincerity is defeated by insincerity to understand that you are not smooth.

4. 22生活不可能像你想象的那么好，但也不会像你想象的那么糟。你的脆弱和坚强往往都超乎自己的想象。

4. Life is unlikely to be as good as you imagine, nor as bad. Your vulnerability and strength are often beyond your own imagination.

5. 19一生很短，没必要和生活过于计较，有些事弄不懂，就不去懂；有些人猜不透，就不去猜；有些理想不通，就不去想。生活，不会因你抱怨而改变；人生，不会因你惆怅而变化。

5. Life is short, there's no need to be too concerned with life. Some things you can't understand, so don't try to; some people you can't figure out, so don't try to guess; some ideals you can't comprehend, so don't think about them. Life won't change because you complain; life won't change because you are melancholic.

6. 12不要评价别人容貌因为他不靠你吃饭，不要评价别人的德行因为你未必有他高尚，不要评价别人家庭因为那和你无关。总之，不要评价任何人，哪怕是你的家人。

6. 12 Do not judge others' appearances because they do not rely on you for a living, do not judge others' virtues because you may not be as noble as they are, and do not judge others' families because it has nothing to do with you. In short, do not judge anyone, not even your family members.

7. 3看不清楚的东西，就让它继续模糊下去吧，有些事有些爱有的人，看得太透彻，反倒会受伤害。

7. If something is unclear, let it remain that way. Some things, some loves, some people, when seen too deeply, end up being hurt.

8. 4你应该去喜欢能让你觉得自己很美好，由衷感受到温暖的人，而不是让你低到尘埃里，觉得自己很没用的人。

8. 4 You should go for people who make you feel beautiful and sincerely warm, not those who bring you down to dust, making you feel useless.

9. 23当你经历过挣钱不易情感挫折事业蹉跎生产之痛，离别之苦，你就会懂得：没有人会被命运额外眷顾，当你觉得容易的时候一定是有人在替你承担属于你的那份不易。

9. 23 When you have experienced the difficulties of earning a living, emotional setbacks, career setbacks, the pain of production, and the bitterness of parting, you will understand: no one is particularly favored by fate. When you feel that things are easy, it is definitely someone else who is taking on the不易 that is yours.

10. 人生没有白走的路，每一步都算数。无数个难熬的夜里，要自己度过，再给梦想一点时间，你的付出终会有所收获。

10. There is no such thing as a waste of steps in life; every step counts. Endless nights of hardship must be endured alone, give your dreams a little more time, and your efforts will eventually be rewarded.

11. 人生在世，各有各的苦，你做不到让每个人都喜欢你，与其在这件事上讨好别人，迎合别人，不如做好真正的自己，等风来不如迎风去！

11. In life, each person has their own sorrows. You can't make everyone like you. It's better to be true to yourself than to please others and cater to them. Waiting for the wind is no better than facing it head-on!

12. 1不要为了迎合所有人，把自己过得这么累，费尽心思的让所有人开心，你会忘了自己该怎么笑。

12. 1 Don't exhaust yourself trying to please everyone, and don't go to great lengths to make everyone happy. You might forget how to smile for yourself.

13. 13年轻的时候，我们爱得死去活来，可随着年岁渐长，你就会发现，爱情并不是生活的全部。善良，努力，读书，健身，让自己变得更好才是人生最重要的事。

13. In our youth, we loved each other to the point of death and life, but as we grow older, you will find that love is not the whole of life. Kindness, hard work, reading, physical fitness, and making yourself better are the most important things in life.

14. 人生最好的投资就是自己，与其纠结别人对自己的看法，不如默默耕耘，静静努力，静静沉淀！

14. The best investment in life is yourself. It is better to silently toil, quietly strive, and calmly settle than to worry about others' opinions of you.

15. 14任何的收获不是巧合，而是每天的努力与坚持的结果。不怕你每天迈一小步，只怕你停滞不前，不怕你每天做一点点事，只怕你无所事事。

15. 14 Any achievement is not a coincidence, but the result of daily efforts and persistence. Don't be afraid to take a small step every day, just fear that you stop moving forward. Don't be afraid to do a little thing every day, just fear that you are idle.

16. 11生命匆匆，不必委曲求全，不要给自己留下遗憾，以自己喜欢的方式生活，做自己喜欢做的事，宠爱自己，做一个独特的自己才是最重要的。

16. Life is fleeting, there is no need to compromise for the sake of completeness. Do not leave regrets for yourself. Live in the way you like, do what you enjoy, pamper yourself, and be a unique individual – that is the most important thing.

17. 没有人能随随便便成功，不要小看一年的积累，也不要高估十年的沉淀，看似不经意的时来运转，人生开挂，其实是日积月累的结果！

17. No one can succeed easily, do not undervalue the accumulation of one year, nor overestimate the precipitation of ten years. What seems to be an unexpected turn of events, with life being on fast forward, is actually the result of day-to-day accumulation!

18. 16当你还没强大到一定程度，没必要到处抱怨你的处境，默默做好你该做的事情，等你变得足够好，自然会有配得上你的人，拉你进更好的圈子，到那时，你会站在新的高度，拥抱更美的风景。

18. When you haven't reached a certain level of strength, there's no need to complain about your situation everywhere. Quietly do the things you should do. When you become good enough, people who are worthy of you will naturally come along, pull you into a better circle, and by then, you will stand at a new height, embracing more beautiful scenery.

19. 5黑天的灯，雨天的伞，冬时的炭，冷季的暖，都来自自己不懈的努力和积攒。

19. The light on the fifth day of the black period, the umbrella in the rain, the charcoal in winter, and the warmth during the cold season all come from one's own unwavering efforts and accumulation.

20. 20所谓成熟，就是喜欢的东西依旧喜欢，但可以不拥有。讨厌的东西依旧讨厌，但可以忍受。害怕的东西依旧害怕，但可以面对。

20. What is called maturity is that you still like what you like, but you can do without having it. You still dislike what you dislike, but you can tolerate it. You still fear what you fear, but you can confront it.

21. 18多要求自己，你会更加独立，少要求别人，你会减少失望。宁愿花时间去修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间去期待完美的别人。

21. The more you demand of yourself, the more independent you will become; the less you demand of others, the less disappointment you will experience. It's better to spend time cultivating your imperfect self than to waste time waiting for a perfect someone else.

22. 6玫瑰花上的刺，不是为了伤害别人，而是为了保护自己，想当个好人，很好，但绝没必要让自己成为一个来者不拒的“烂好人”，老是成全别人，却让自己不断受到伤害。

22. The thorns on a rose are not meant to harm others, but to protect itself. It's good to want to be a good person, but there's absolutely no need to become a pushover "good-for-nothing," always pleasing others while continually getting hurt yourself.

23. 15时光流逝，讨厌的人会带着讨人厌的话离开，喜欢的人会带着美好的事到来。把目光放在远处，洒脱还给自己。忘掉路人，放过自己。

23. As time passes by, the disliked ones will leave with their讨厌的话, and the liked ones will come with good things. Focus your gaze on the distance, and liberate yourself. Forget about the passersby, and forgive yourself.

24. 无论你怎么做，总有人说三道四，你不可能让所有人都满意，做的好了，有人讽刺你，挖苦你，做的不好了，有人看你笑话，恨不得你出丑！每个人站的角度不同，立场不同，看法也不同！

24. No matter what you do, there will always be someone to talk behind your back. You can't please everyone. When you do well, some people mock and mock you; when you don't do well, some people laugh at you, hoping you make a fool of yourself! Everyone has a different perspective, stance, and opinion!

25. 10每一个成年人，都终将走向成熟，慢慢学会和世事妥协，慢慢习惯人生不堪，努力和过去的自己和解。

25. 10 Every adult will eventually grow mature, slowly learning to compromise with the world, gradually getting used to the hardships of life, and striving to reconcile with their past selves.

26. 7不要急于把自己的目光投放到旁人的身上，尽可能得让自己的眼睛能在自己的身上多停留一会，毕竟反省自己比解剖别人更容易一些。

26. 7 Do not hurry to cast your gaze on others. Try to let your eyes linger on yourself for a while as much as possible, for introspection is easier than dissecting others.

27. 何必让自己那么累？既然做不到让人人满意，那就必须得让自己满意！

27. Why put yourself through so much stress? Since you can't make everyone satisfied, you must ensure that you are satisfied yourself!

28. 17起风的日子学会依风起舞，落雨的时候学会为自己撑起一把伞。生活有望穿秋水的期待，也会有意想不到的欣喜。

28. On the days when the wind blows, learn to dance with the wind; when it rains, learn to hold an umbrella over yourself. Life has the anticipation that can pierce through the autumn water, and it also has unexpected joys.

29. 你要知道，再远的路，只要坚持，走着走着就近了，再高的山，只要不放弃，爬着爬着就平了！

29. You must know that as long as you persevere, the farthest path will become shorter with each step; as long as you do not give up, the highest mountain will become level with each climb!

30. 24不再委屈自己，余生从头酷到脚。安全感这种东西从来都是自己给的。笑脸给多了，惯得都是病。余生很长，记得善良。

30. No longer let yourself be wronged, live the rest of your life from head to toe with coolness. Security is something that is always given to oneself. Give too many smiles, and you're only indulging in illness. The rest of your life is long, remember to be kind.

31. 他们在无数个难熬的夜里默默耕耘，忍受了多少白眼，受到了多少冷落，遭到了多少质疑，只有自己知道！

31. They toiled silently through countless sleepless nights, enduring many a cold look, being ignored so much, and facing so many doubts, only they know!

32. 因为靠迎合的关系不会长久，人和人之间多数是利益的交换，你有价值的时候，别人都尊重你，崇拜你，把你捧得很高，即使你做的是错的，也是对的！当你没有利用价值的时候，你在别人眼里一文不值！对方对你的态度取决于你的价值！

32. Because relationships based on迎合 are not enduring, most interactions between people are exchanges of benefits. When you have value, everyone respects and admires you, praising you highly, even if what you're doing is wrong, it's considered right! When you have no value to offer, you are worth nothing in the eyes of others! The attitude of the other person towards you depends on your value!

33. 9我活着不是为了取悦这个世界，而是为了用我自己的生活方式来取悦自己。

33.9 I live not to please the world, but to please myself with my own way of life.

34. 8你要接受这世上总有突如其来的失去。洒了的牛奶，遗失的钱包，走散的爱人，断掉的友情。当你做什么都于事无补时，唯一能做的，就是努力让自己好过一点。

34. 8 You must accept that there will always be sudden losses in this world. Spilled milk, lost wallets, lost lovers, broken friendships. When you find that nothing you do can help, the only thing you can do is to try to make yourself feel a little better.