1. 夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非澹泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。

1. The conduct of a gentleman is characterized by tranquility in self-cultivation and frugality in fostering virtue. Without contentment, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant goals.

2. 做事原则：积极应坚持，消极须放弃；目标应坚持，盲从须放弃；双赢应坚持，双输须放弃。两利相权，坚持重的；两害相权，取其轻的。

2. Principle of work: To persist in the positive and abandon the negative; to persist in goals and abandon blind following; to persist in win-win situations and abandon lose-lose ones. When weighing two benefits, choose the more important one; when weighing two harms, choose the lesser one.

3. 性急求快反而欲速则不达，着眼小利反而影响成大事。处事应把握的原则是：冷静谋划机敏行动，确保全局照顾个体！

3. Being impatient and seeking quick results can actually hinder progress, and focusing on small gains can affect the accomplishment of great things. The principle to follow in handling affairs is: remain calm in planning and act promptly, ensuring that both the overall situation and individual concerns are taken into account!

4. 人生应该如蜡烛一样，从顶燃到底，一直都是光明的。

4. Life should be like a candle, burning from top to bottom, always bright and radiant.

5. 对小人一定要忍让，退一步海阔天空，实在不行把属于自己的空间也送给他们。大人需要大度量，不把俗事放在心里，小人鼠肚鸡肠，惹着小人就等与惹了麻烦，天底下顶数小人惹不起。

5. One must always be tolerant towards the mean-spirited. Take a step back, and there will be a vast sky and space. If things really can't be helped, even give them the space that belongs to you. Adults need a great measure of tolerance, not to let trivial matters weigh on their hearts. The mean-spirited are like rats with chicken intestines, and provoking them is akin to inviting trouble. There is no one in the world who cannot be provoked by the mean-spirited.

6. 人对于自己无能力做甚至也不乐意做的事情，到头来却要后悔，也是奴颜婢膝的表现，对命运的奴颜婢膝。

6. People regret doing things that they are unable to do or even unwilling to do, which is also an act of kowtowing, a kowtowing to fate.

7. 知道不等于悟道，悟道不等于做道，做道不等于得道，得道不等于有道。做该做的事是智能，做不该做的事是愚痴。

7. Knowing is not the same as realization, realization is not the same as practice, practice is not the same as attaining, and attaining is not the same as possessing. Doing what should be done is wisdom, and doing what should not be done is folly.

8. 无论你出身高贵或者低贱，都无关宏旨，但你必须有做人之道。

8. Whether you come from a noble or humble background, it matters little, but you must have the way of being a person.

9. 不懂得俭字的人，不知道如何成功，任何成功的事业都在于点滴的积累；不懂得俭字的人，只会丧失成功，过分的骄奢多败人品质。

9. Those who do not understand the concept of thrift do not know how to achieve success; any successful endeavor relies on the accumulation of small efforts. Those who do not understand thrift will only lose success; excessive pride and extravagance often lead to败人品质.

10. 7对小人一定要忍让，退一步海阔天空，实在不行把属于自己的空间也送给他们。大人需要大度量，不把俗事放在心里，小人鼠肚鸡肠，惹着小人就等与惹了麻烦，天底下顶数小人惹不起。

10.7 You must always show tolerance towards the small-minded. Take a step back, and there will be room for the sea and sky. If it really comes to it, you can even give them the space that belongs to you. Adults need a big heart, not to dwell on trivial matters. The small-minded are like rats with tiny bellies and chickens with tiny intestines. Provoking a small-minded person is the same as inviting trouble. There is no one in the world more difficult to deal with than a small-minded person.

11. 说谎话的人所得到的，就只是即使说了真话也没有人相信。

11. The liar receives nothing but disbelief even when he tells the truth.

12. 幸福，假如它只是属于我，成千上万当中的一个人的财产，那就快从我这儿滚开吧！

12. Happiness, if it were only mine, the property of one out of thousands, then let it滚开 from me quickly!

13. 浪费别人的时间等于是谋财害命，浪费自己的时间等于是慢性自杀。

13. Wasting other people's time is equivalent to robbing them of life, while wasting one's own time is akin to committing suicide slowly.

14. 路是脚踏出来的，历史是人写出来的，人的每一步行动都在书写自己的历史。

14. Roads are trodden by feet, and history is written by people. Every step taken by a person writes their own history.

15. 要做通情达理的人，要做与人为善的人，要做谦和敦厚的人，要做感恩图报的人。做事不做人永远做不成事；做人不立德永远做不成人！

15. To be a reasonable and considerate person, to be kind to others, to be humble and generous, and to be grateful and reciprocate. One can never succeed in matters without being a person; and one can never become a true person without cultivating virtue!

16. 2平常心看待平常人，摘下你的有色眼镜，你看到的天空才是蓝天。心胸要大些，要求自己严格些；小事清楚些，大事糊涂些。

16. 2 Treat ordinary people with an ordinary heart, take off your colored glasses, and the sky you see will be blue. Broaden your mind, be stricter with yourself; be clearer about trivial matters, and more confused about major ones.

17. 把每一件简单的事情做好就是不简单，把每一项平凡的工作做好就是不平凡。平凡不等于简单，简单不等于容易，干不好小事的人永远干不成大事！

17. Making every simple thing well is not simple, and making every ordinary work well is not ordinary. Ordinary is not the same as simple, and simple is not the same as easy. A person who cannot do small things well will never be able to accomplish great things!

18. 戒卑屈之言：不要低三下四，说奴言卑膝的话，因为德厚者无卑词。

18. Humble words: Do not kowtow or speak in a servile manner; for one of profound virtue has no humble words.

19. 9只有想办法去认识更多的人，并使这些人都成为自己的朋友，才是人生真正的应酬方针。遇事要报吃亏态度，对于与自己意见不同或反对自己，有成见和说过自己坏话的人讲团结。

19. The true etiquette of life is to find ways to get to know more people and make all of them friends. When faced with matters, one should adopt a tolerant attitude and strive for unity with those who have different opinions or oppose you, those who hold prejudices against you, or those who have spoken ill of you.

20. 学会掂量，知道自己有几斤几两，知道自己的鞭有多长，矛有多尖，盾有多厚，才能不被过高的欲望所迷惑，才能脚踏实地步步为营方正不乱，让自己活得舒心。

20. Learn to weigh things, know how much you weigh and how much you can lift, know how long your whip is, how sharp your spear is, and how thick your shield is, so as not to be confused by excessive desires, and to walk steadily and firmly, square and orderly, to live comfortably.

21. 在世上所有的手法里面，奉承是最巧妙最狡猾的一种。

21. Among all the techniques in the world, flattery is the most skillful and cunning one.

22. 用手写的信函比较有亲切感，给人的感受也不一样。

22. Handwritten letters have a more personal touch and convey a different feeling from those sent by typed means.

23. 友谊是两颗心真诚相待，而不是一颗心对另一颗心的敲打。

23. Friendship is two hearts treating each other sincerely, not one heart beating another.

24. 人只有献身于社会，才能找出那短暂而有风险的生命的意义。

24. Only by devoting oneself to society can a person find the meaning of that brief and risky life.

25. 沉默是反击无耻的无声风暴，愤怒是抗击外辱的有效自残。

25. Silence is the silent storm of反击shamelessness, and anger is the effective self-harm in resisting external insults.

26. 使一个人的有限的生命，更加有效，也即等于延长了人的生命。

26. Make a person's limited life more effective, which is equivalent to extending one's life.

27. 做人要讲是非，但不要太计较利害；做事要讲利害，但不要太害怕是非。对人，要往好处想，往长处看；对事，要往远处想，往大处看。

27. In life, one should differentiate between right and wrong, but not be overly concerned with gains and losses; in doing things, one should consider gains and losses, but not be overly afraid of accusations or misunderstandings. In dealing with people, one should think positively and look at the long-term perspective; in dealing with matters, one should think broadly and consider the wider context.

28. 心商是维持心理健康，调适心理压力，保持良好心理状态的能力。心商的高低，决定人生苦乐，维系人的健康，主宰人生命运。做人需要修炼心商！

28. Heart quotient is the ability to maintain mental health, adjust psychological stress, and maintain a good psychological state. The level of heart quotient determines the joys and sorrows of life, maintains one's health, and controls the destiny of a person. Being a person requires cultivating heart quotient!

29. 做人不为时尚所惑，不被积习所蔽，不被浮名所累。坚信梦想成真的执著，勇敢接受挑战的坦然。

29. As a person, do not be seduced by the trends of the time, do not be obscured by long-established habits, and do not be burdened by fleeting fame. Be steadfast in the belief that dreams can come true, and face challenges with an unflappable courage.

30. 做事的三个好习惯：随时用零碎时间做零碎的事情；工作时间走路总比平时要快30%；在工作中，每分每秒都做有利于工作的事情！

30. Three good habits for doing things: Use spare time to do small tasks whenever possible; walk 30% faster during work hours than during normal times; at work, do something beneficial for the task every second!

31. 不是某人使我烦恼，而是我拿某人的言行来烦恼自己。

31. It's not someone else that bothers me, but rather, I am bothered by my own interpretation of someone else's words and actions.

32. 每个人总有不愿意公开的秘密，千万不要苦苦相逼。

32. Everyone has secrets they are unwilling to disclose publicly; never pressure them too much.

33. 处事不必与俗同，亦不宜与俗异；做事不必令人喜，亦不可令人憎。知行知止唯贤者，能屈能伸是丈夫。

33. In dealing with matters, it is neither necessary to conform to the customs nor to deviate from them; in actions, it is neither necessary to please others nor to provoke them. Knowing when to act and when to stop is the sign of a wise person, and being able to bend and then stretch forth is what makes a man.

34. 自省而后自觉，自觉而后自信，自信而后自强，自强而后自立。做人要自主自尊，不因困难而灰心；做事要自立自强，不因人言而动摇！

34. Reflect and become self-aware, become self-aware and then self-confident, gain confidence and then become strong, and become strong and then stand on one's own two feet. As a person, one must be self-governing and self-respecting, not to be discouraged by difficulties; in doing things, one must be self-reliant and strong, not to be swayed by others' words!

35. 天外有天，人上有人，淡泊明志，宁静致远。当别人把你当领导时，自己不要把自己当领导；当别人不把你当领导时，自己一定要把自己当领导。权力是一时的，金钱是身外的，身体是自己的，做人是长久的。

35. There is a sky beyond the sky, and there are people above people. Detachment clarifies one's purpose, and tranquility leads to distant achievements. When others treat you as a leader, don't treat yourself as a leader; when others don't treat you as a leader, be sure to treat yourself as a leader. Power is temporary, money is external, the body is one's own, and being a person is long-lasting.

36. 戒杂言：说话不可杂乱无章。杂乱无章，就会言不及义，伤害自己的美德。

36. Abstain from disorderly speech: Do not speak in a disorganized manner. Disorganized speech will fail to convey the essence of the matter and may harm one's own virtues.

37. 10做一个有个性的人，给自己一点自信。成功的道路靠自己闯，美好的前途来自于自强自立，不屈服于任何权威，用自我的努力找到属于你的自尊。

37. Be a person with personality and give yourself some confidence. The path to success is one you forge for yourself, and a bright future comes from self-reliance. Do not屈服 to any authority, and find your own dignity through your own efforts.

38. 沉淀自己的心，静观事态变迁。与人相处，需要讲究方式方法。有些事，需忍，勿怒；有些人，需让，勿究。

38. Settle your own heart, calmly observe the changes of events. In dealing with others, one needs to be skillful in methods and approaches. Some things require patience and not to be angry; some people require tolerance and not to be overly inquisitive.

39. 低调做人，不耍小聪明，让自己始终处于冷静的状态，在低调的心态支配下，兢兢业业，才能做成大事业。

39. Be modest in your demeanor, do not show off your cleverness, and keep yourself always calm. Under the支配 of a modest mindset, work diligently and carefully, and you can achieve great undertakings.

40. 一堆沙子是松散的，可是它和水泥、石子、水混合后，比花岗岩还坚韧。

40. A heap of sand is loose, but when mixed with cement, gravel, and water, it becomes stronger than granite.

41. 戒直言：不要不顾后果地直言不讳，否则也会引起麻烦。

41. Do not speak directly: Do not speak frankly without considering the consequences, otherwise it may also cause trouble.

42. 夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。

42. The conduct of a gentleman is characterized by tranquility in cultivating the self and frugality in nurturing virtue. Without a tranquil mind, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without calmness, one cannot achieve great things.

43. 一个永远不欣赏别人的人，也就是一个永远也不被别人欣赏的人。

43. A person who never appreciates others is also a person who will never be appreciated by others.

44. 做老实人，说老实话，干老实事，就是实事求是。

44. Being an honest person, telling the truth, and doing honest work is to be realistic and factual.

45. 戒矜言：不要骄傲自满，自以为是。自矜自夸，是涵养不够的表现。

45.戒矜言：Do not be proud and self-satisfied, or self-righteous. Boasting and showing off are indicative of a lack of cultivation.

46. 3做事不必与俗同，亦不宜与俗异。做事不必令人喜，亦不可令人憎。对事不对人，对事无情，对人要有情；做人第一，做事其次。

46. 3 In doing things, one should neither conform to the customs of the common people nor deviate from them. One should neither seek to please others nor provoke them. Focus on the matter rather than the person, be indifferent to the matter but compassionate towards people; being a good person comes first, followed by doing things.

47. 处事四重四轻：以实践为重，空谈为轻；以事情为重，人情为轻；以真理为重，世俗为轻；以是非为重，利害为轻。

47. The four major and four minor aspects of handling affairs: Prioritize practice over empty talk; prioritize matters over personal relationships; prioritize truth over worldly concerns; prioritize right and wrong over benefits and losses.

48. 6好听的话谁都爱听，它能给人自豪自尊自信，而赞美正是让人获得心的满足。听到别人的反面意见，背后来的意见，这时要特别注意冷静。与人同行，不要走得太快，不要离得太近，给别人一些进退的空间。

48. Everyone loves to hear nice words, as they can give people a sense of pride, self-esteem, and confidence, and praise is what brings satisfaction to the heart. When you hear someone's negative opinions or criticism from behind, you should pay special attention to staying calm. When walking with others, don't walk too fast or too close, giving them some space to move forward or backward.

49. 道德可以弥补智慧上的缺陷，但智慧永远弥补不了道德上的缺陷。人的两种力量最有魅力，一种是人格的力量，一种是思想的力量。

49. Morality can compensate for defects in wisdom, but wisdom can never make up for defects in morality. The two most attractive forces in humans are the power of personality and the power of thought.

50. 将事前的忧虑，换为事前的思考，应付未来最佳的方法就是集中所有智慧，把今天的工作做得尽善尽美！

50. Replace preoccupation with anticipation, and the best way to cope with the future is to pool all wisdom and strive to make today's work as perfect as possible!