在无声的岁月里，一段秘密的传递，如同夜空中最亮的星，穿越时光的洪流，抵达那个无法共度一生的灵魂。这不仅仅是一份情感的寄托，更是一份跨越生死的坚持与守望。

In the silent years, a secret transmission, like the brightest star in the night sky, crosses the torrent of time to reach that soul with which one cannot spend a lifetime together. This is not just a寄托 of emotion, but also a commitment and vigilance that transcends life and death.

1. 其实我一直想吐槽，坐月子讲究那些没啥医学根据但别人怎样我怎样的方法希望能恢复健康的。并没有什么卵用。生孩子本来身体就会变差坐月子适度休息只能让你身体不变得更差但没有任何方法让你变回未怀孕一样好。不要自欺欺人了

1. Actually, I've always wanted to vent. Childbirth recovery emphasizes those methods with no medical basis, and I just do what others do, hoping to regain health. It's all in vain. The body naturally gets worse after giving birth, and moderate rest during the postpartum period can only prevent it from getting worse, but there's no way to make it as good as before pregnancy. Don't fool yourself.

2. 故事的结局，

2. The ending of the story,

3. 是你给我幸福，

3. It is you who have given me happiness.

4. 笑容可以瞒过所有人，

4. A smile can deceive everyone.

5. 我并不想做个征战四方的女流氓，可是你们谁也没把我当成个小姑娘。

5. I don't want to be a wandering gangster girl, but none of you has treated me like a little girl.

6. 学会了告别，

6. Learned to say goodbye.

7. 你只希望我一直记得你，你知道记得你忘记我，其实挺残忍的。女孩不要自欺欺人。切记。

7. You only wish for me to always remember you, you know that remembering you while forgetting me is actually quite cruel. Girls, don't deceive yourselves. Remember this.

8. 长胖就长胖，开心就好，开心就好？长胖了怎么可能开心，何来开心就好。不要这种自欺欺人的自我催眠好吧。

8. Gaining weight is just gaining weight, as long as you're happy, that's fine, isn't it? How can you be happy when you gain weight? Where does this "as long as you're happy" come from? Please don't indulge in this self-deception and self-hypnosis.

9. 可我后悔这糖它不甜。

9. But I regret that this candy is not sweet.

10. 你可以爱一个人到尘埃里，但没有人爱尘埃里的你。

10. You can love someone to the dust, but no one loves you in the dust.

11. 努力，是为了跳出你厌恶的圈子。读书，是为了远离渣货垃圾人。健身，是为了让傻子心平气和的跟你说话。唯有成为了更好的自己，世界才是你的。

11. Strive hard to break out of the circle you dislike. Read books to keep away from trashy people. Exercise to make an idiot talk to you calmly. Only when you become a better version of yourself will the world be yours.

12. 不要问还可不可以做个朋友？那都是自欺欺人的话语，你的心已经被剧烈的割伤，何必还要掩饰什么，谁都知道你们不可能再成为普通朋友，不要抱有什么幻想了。

12. Don't ask if it's still possible to be friends? That's all self-deceit. Your heart has already been severely wounded. Why hide anything? Everyone knows you two can't be just friends anymore. Don't hold any illusions.

13. 心事无法共鸣，

13. The hearts cannot resonate with each other.

14. 不要自欺欺人，明明心里很难过了，还要装作无所谓；你永远都不知道未来会是什么样，如果你做不到奋不顾身，就别依赖上任何人。

14. Don't deceive yourself; even though you are deeply hurt inside, you still act as if it doesn't matter. You will never know what the future will be like, so if you can't act without a second thought, don't rely on anyone else.

15. 有人给我蛋糕，

15. Someone gave me a cake.

16. 绝望是一次次失望累积起来的，如果到点了，就不要再自欺欺人，差不多就行，给自己一个体面

16. Desperation is accumulated from repeated disappointments. If the time is up, don't deceive yourself anymore; it's close enough. Give yourself some dignity.

17. 我不想以爱之名绑架任何人，

17. I do not want to abduct anyone in the name of love.

18. 我这辈子最遗憾的事 就是推我入地狱的人 也曾带我上过天堂

18. The greatest regret in my life is that the person who pushed me into hell once also brought me to heaven.

19. 不妨先做出点成绩，然后再去强调你的感受，否则，生命中只有唧唧歪歪，怎么看都像是矫情。

19. It's not a bad idea to achieve some results first, and then emphasize your feelings. Otherwise, life will only be filled with complaints, which will always seem like melodrama.

20. 是我祝你幸福，

20. It is I who wish you happiness.

21. 都被在乎过吧，也被紧张过，被心疼过，你其实知道爱长什么样子的。所以很多事情，不必猜，不必问，也不必等。不要再自欺欺人了啊，看清楚了哦，这个呢，就是不爱的样子。

21. You have been cared for, stressed over, and pitied, so you actually know what love looks like. Therefore, for many things, there's no need to guess, no need to ask, and no need to wait. Stop deceiving yourself, please. Look clearly, this is what it looks like when there's no love.

22. 后来却只能说对不起。

22. Later, only "Sorry" could be said.

23. 故事的开头，

23. At the beginning of the story,

24. 如果你太在意别人的看法，那么你的生活将变成一件裤衩。别人放什么屁，你都得接着。

24. If you are too concerned about others' opinions, then your life will become a pair of pants. Whatever fart others let out, you have to endure it.

25. 对一个人最好的就是放下,无论再想念也不会去打扰。终有一天你会知道,失去比拥有更踏实。

25. The best thing for a person is to let go, no matter how much you miss, you won't go to disturb. Someday you will know that losing is more solid than having.

26. 却低估了思念。

26. Underestimated the yearning.

27. 愿望都是美好单纯的。愿你们在农历新年里有新的自己，千万别太勉强自己做那些做不到的事儿，生活开心就好。不要自欺欺人！

27. Wishes are all beautiful and simple. May you have a new self in the lunar New Year, and please don't force yourself to do things that you can't do. Just be happy in life. Don't deceive yourself!

28. 这世上最憋屈的，是越爱越远的人，和越等越大的雨。

28. The most frustrating thing in the world is the people who become more distant with love, and the rain that grows heavier with waiting.

29. 你不要在最美的年纪里，一个劲儿的省钱，不然你不仅穷，还丑！

29. Don't keep on saving money all the time in the most beautiful years of your life, otherwise, you'll not only be poor but also ugly!

30. 难过的时候,就把自己当成另一个人,当初怎么安慰别人,现在就怎么安慰自己。

30. When feeling sad, treat yourself as another person. Comfort others as you would have comforted them before.

31. 伤害你的不是对方的绝情,而是你心存幻想的坚持。

31. What hurts you is not the other person's ruthlessness, but your persistence in holding onto daydreams.

32. 有些人，哪怕一年只见一次甚至几年才能见一次，也从未有丝毫陌生感。有些人，虽然时常在一起，却总让人觉得疏远了。相信自己的感觉没错的，不要自欺欺人了。这么大的人了，谁都别勉强。

32. Some people, even if they see each other only once a year or even every few years, have never felt any sense of unfamiliarity. Some people, though they are often together, always seem distant. Trust your feelings; don't deceive yourself. At this age, no one should be coerced.

33. 真正的爱情不是一时好感,而是明明知道不一定有结果,还想要坚持下去的冲动。我知道遇到你不容易,错过了会很可惜。

33. True love is not a momentary feeling, but the impulse to persist even though you know there might not be a result. I know it's not easy to meet you, and it would be a great pity to miss you.

34. 心酸却只有自己知道。

34. Bitterness, but only I know it.

35. 为了自己想过的生活，就要勇于放弃一些东西。这个世界没有绝对公正之处，你也永远得不到两全之计。

35. In order to live the life you desire, you must be courageous enough to give up some things. There is no absolute justice in this world, and you will never find a solution that satisfies both sides.