1. 只为金钱而结婚的人其恶无比；只为恋爱而结婚的人其愚无比。约翰逊（美）

1. Those who marry for money are the worst of sinners; those who marry for love are the most foolish of people. - Johnson (USA)

2. 在婚姻上，最具毁灭性的问题在于缺乏沟通，尤其是爱情、性和金钱方面。奥茨

2. In marriage, the most destructive issue lies in the lack of communication, especially in matters of love, sex, and money. Oz.

3. 结婚就其实质而言，即有避风港的一面，同时，它又是一个自我磨炼的沙场。国分康孝

3. In essence, marriage is both a shelter from the storms and a battleground for self-discipline. - Kosei Kuni.

4. 你匆匆忙忙地嫁人，就是甘冒成为不幸者的风险。苏霍姆林斯基

4. You marry in a hurry, and you are willing to take the risk of becoming an unfortunate person. - Sukhomlinsky

5. 婚姻的爱，使人类延续不绝；朋友的爱，使人类达到更完美的境界；*邪的爱，则使人类败坏堕落。爱默生

5. The love in marriage perpetuates the human race; the love of friends elevates humans to a higher level of perfection; *the love of evil corrupts and堕落的humanity. - Emerson

6. 婚姻最坚韧的纽带不是孩子，不是金钱，而是精神上的共同成长。爱情有时候也是一种义气。杨澜

6. The most tenacious bond in marriage is not children, not money, but the common growth in spirit. Love can sometimes also be a sense of honor. - Yang Lan

7. 判断他心中有没有你，不是看他跟你有多热，而是看他跟你有多亲，亲就是贴心、知心、真心实意地帮你。

7. To judge whether he has you in his heart, it's not about how hot he is with you, but about how close he is to you. Close means being intimate, heart-to-heart, and sincerely helping you.

8. 那婚姻是什么呢？严格来讲婚姻制度保护的是“专偶制”。乍一听，好像对女性很友好：这样丈夫就不会三妻四妾了。我告诉你，假的。

8. What is marriage? In a strict sense, the marriage system protects the "monogamy" system. At first glance, it seems friendly to women: this way, the husband won't have three wives and four concubines. Let me tell you, that's not true.

9. 人在欲望面前都是脆弱的，善良和责任，因为能抵挡破坏性的欲望而显得弥足珍贵。

9. Everyone is vulnerable in the face of desires, and kindness and responsibility are all the more precious because they can resist destructive desires.

10. 自由之于人类，就像亮光之于眼睛空气之于肺腑爱情之于心灵。英格索尔

10. Freedom to man is what light is to the eye, air to the lungs, love to the heart. - Ingersoll

11. 男人因结婚而知女人之贤淑；女人因结婚而知男人之愚蠢。长谷川

11. A man learns a woman's virtue through marriage; a woman learns a man's foolishness through marriage. Chikamori

12. 爱情对于男人不过是身外之物，对于女人却是整个生命。乔·拜伦

12. Love is just an external thing for men, but the entire life for women. — Joe Byron

13. 他日你若穿戴整齐成为别人的新郎我将闭口不提往日对你的疯狂4、你是我爱过疼过挣扎过放弃过还义无反顾想要爱的人5、很多人只是觉得自己被伤害了但从没想过是不是自作自受6、不需要承诺，因为承诺太久的话也会变的很无力。

13. On that day, if you dress up neatly and become someone's new groom, I will keep silent about the past madness I had for you. 4. You are someone I have loved, cherished, struggled with, given up on, and still want to love with all my might. 5. Many people only feel that they have been hurt but have never thought whether they might have brought it upon themselves. 6. There is no need for promises, because if promises are too long, they also become very weak.

14. 只为金钱而结婚的人其恶无比；只为恋爱而结婚的人其愚无比。约翰逊

14. Those who marry for money are the worst of sinners; those who marry for love are the most foolish. - Johnson

15. 美满姻缘是生活中甜蜜的联合，充满坚贞、忠诚，以及难以计数的有益和牢靠的帮助及相互间的义务。蒙田

15. A happy marriage is a sweet union in life, filled with fidelity, loyalty, and countless beneficial and reliable support and mutual obligations. — Montaigne

16. 我们几千年来，婚姻是由当事人的阶级地位来决定的，因此总是权衡利害的婚姻。这种权衡利害的婚姻，在两种场合都往往变为最粗鄙的卖yin一―有时是双方的，而以妻子为最通常。

16. For thousands of years, marriage has been determined by the social class status of the parties involved, which has always been a marriage weighed by interests and losses. This kind of marriage weighed by interests and losses often degenerates into the most vulgar form of selling oneself into prostitution—sometimes involving both parties, but more commonly the wife.

17. 夫妻之争没有胜者，只能是两败俱伤。——盖伊[英国]

17. Disputes between couples have no winners, only mutual harm. — Guy [British]

18. 恋爱是美丽的，婚姻却是神圣的。伊丽莎白（英）

18. Love is beautiful, but marriage is sacred. - Elizabeth (English)

19. 与一个好女人结婚，你是在暴风雨中找到了避风港；和一个坏女人结婚，你是在港中遇到了暴风雨。席恩

19. Marrying a good woman is finding a shelter from the storm; marrying a bad woman is facing a storm in the harbor. - Sean

20. 要想美好地度过一生，就只有两个人结合，因为半个球是无法滚动的，所以每个成年人的重要任务就是找到和自己相配的一半。——马克思[德国]

20. To live a beautiful life, it is only through the union of two people, because half a globe cannot roll, so the important task of every adult is to find the matching half for themselves. — Marx [Germany]

21. 爱情不仅会占领开旷坦阔的胸怀，有时也能闯入壁垒森严的心灵。培根

21. Love not only occupies the open and expansive heart, but sometimes it can also break into the fortified and impenetrable soul. Bacon

22. 友谊像婚姻一样，其维持有赖于避免不可宽恕的事情。佚名

22. Friendship, like marriage, depends on avoiding unforgivable things. Anon.

23. 一生守候不是一句简单而苍白的山盟海誓，而是无数个平淡的日子同舟共济，相濡以沫!

23. To wait for someone all one's life is not a simple and pale promise of love, but countless days of sailing together on the same boat, helping each other through thick and thin!

24. 爱情只有当它是自由自在时，才会叶茂花繁。认为爱情是某种义务的思想只能置爱情于死地。只消一句话：你应当爱某个人，就足以使你对这个人恨之入骨。罗素

24. Love flourishes only when it is free and easy. The idea that love is an obligation can only kill love. Just one word: "You should love someone," is enough to make you hate that person intensely. - Russell

25. 只追求容貌的婚姻通常只是一种庸俗的交易。罗格林

25. Marriage that only seeks physical appearance is usually just a vulgar transaction. Rognlin

26. 没有冲突的婚姻，几乎同没有危机的国家一样难以想象。

26. A marriage without conflict is almost as unimaginable as a country without crises.

27. 总以为，生活潇潇洒洒，爱情甜甜蜜蜜，婚姻欢欢喜喜，生活吉祥如意，走进婚姻的殿堂，发现朦胧了渴望，迷失了幻想，丢到了陪伴，带来了惆怅。天堂还是天堂，只是关上了窗。

27. Always thought that life would be carefree, love would be sweet, marriage would be joyous, and life would be auspicious and pleasing. Entering the sanctuary of marriage, I found that my desires had become blurred, my fantasies were lost, my companionship was discarded, and melancholy had come to stay. Heaven is still heaven, but the windows have been closed.

28. 夫妻之间是否应该有个人隐私？我的看法是：应该有应该尊重对方的隐私权；不应有太多事实上的隐私。周国平

28. Should there be personal privacy between husband and wife? My view is: there should be, and one should respect each other's privacy rights; there should not be too much actual privacy. Zhou Guoping

29. 婚姻不能强求，事实上，强求来的婚姻不是空壳就是炸弹，都不会有好下场。

29. Marriage cannot be forced, in fact, marriages that are forced are either hollow shells or ticking bombs, neither of which will have a good ending.

30. 没有爱情是不会死人的，幻想爱情是会死人的！

30. Love is not a requirement for death, but the fantasy of love can be fatal!

31. 有时婚姻也会使一个女性迷失自己不然，世界上杰出的女性原应多得多。三毛

31. Sometimes marriage can make a woman lose herself. Otherwise, there should be many more outstanding women in the world. - Sanmao

32. 婚姻的悲剧，如同其他许多悲剧一样，在于一个人所看到的对方的一切并非全都是事实。——莫洛亚[法国]

32. The tragedy of marriage, like many other tragedies, lies in the fact that everything one sees in the other is not always the truth. — Moravia [France]

33. 爱情使人心的憧憬升华到至善之境。但丁

33. Love elevates the yearning of the heart to the highest state of goodness. Dante

34. 恋爱中猜来猜去是情趣，婚姻中猜来猜去是祸害。

34. Guessing and guessing in a relationship is a情趣, but in marriage, it is a祸害 (disaster).

35. 夫妻矛盾在所难免，只是已经在婚姻里了，谁拿谁也没辙，就看谁比谁精神经济更独立。

35. Disputes between couples are inevitable, but since we are already married, no one can do much about it. It all comes down to who is more independent in terms of spirit and economy.

36. 爱情一定是婚姻的前提,而珍惜,才是携手鬓白的那份必须的执念。

36. Love must always be the premise of marriage, while cherishing is the essential obsession that comes with holding hands into old age.

37. 以爱情为基础的婚姻，乃是人间无可比拟的幸福。梁实秋

37. Marriage based on love is the most incomparable happiness on earth. Liang Shiqiu

38. 青年人无法无天，玩弄爱情；中年人食髓知味，追求爱情；老年人寂寞无聊，回忆爱情。秋田雨雀

38. Young people are rebellious and play with love; middle-aged people know the taste of bone marrow and pursue love; the elderly are lonely and bored, recalling love. Akita Rain Sparrow.

39. 凤凰男都有心计，算计的却是自己的老婆，精神上控制，经济上掠夺，这就是社会上对凤凰男一片喊打的根本原因。

39. Phoenix men are all cunning, and what they calculate is their own wives. They control them spiritually and plunder them economically, which is the fundamental reason why the society shouts against Phoenix men.

40. 夫妻间是应由相互认识而了解，进而由彼此容忍而敬爱，才能维持一个美满的婚姻。佚名

40. A happy marriage should be maintained through mutual recognition and understanding between the couple, and further through tolerance and respect for one another. Anonymus

41. 女人啊，当你不再爱自己的老公，千万别再随意对他发脾气，这样做是在制造定时炸弹。

41. Oh woman, when you no longer love your husband, never lose your temper with him at will. Doing so is like setting a time bomb.

42. 不太热烈的爱情才会维持久远。莎士比亚

42. Only a love that is not too passionate can last for a long time. Shakespeare.

43. 爱情原如树叶一样，在人忽视里绿了，在忍耐里露出蓓蕾。何其芳

43. Love, like leaves, turns green in the neglect of man, and blooms in patience. - He Qi Fang

44. 成长会让人明白，唯婚姻的杀手有时不是外遇,而是时间11、与其违心赔笑，不如一人安静，低质量的婚姻，不如高质量的单身。

44. Growth teaches us that sometimes the killer of marriage is not infidelity, but time. It's better to be alone in silence than to smile against one's will. A low-quality marriage is not better than a high-quality single life.