1. 石灰吟 明·于谦

1. "The Ode to Lime" by Yu Qian, Ming Dynasty

2. 一个人最大的破产是绝望，最大的资产是希望。

2. The greatest bankruptcy for a person is despair, and the greatest asset is hope.

3. 为人处事，自己开小车，不要特地停下来和一个骑自行车的同事打招呼。人家会以为你在炫耀。

3. In dealing with people, don't stop to greet a colleague who is riding a bicycle with your own car. They might think you are showing off.

4. 如果在原则上发生错误，那就不只是会发生个别的错误，而会发生系统的、一贯的、一系列实际问题上的错误。

4. If there is an error in principle, it is not just an individual error that will occur, but a systematic, consistent, and series of practical errors on various issues.

5. 不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都有恶的一面。

5. Don't be too dependent on friends, as the basic nature of humans has an evil side.

6. 我的最高原则是：不论任何困难，都决不屈服。——居里夫人

6. My highest principle is: under no circumstances will I surrender to any difficulty. — Madame Curie

7. 友谊永远不能成为一种交易;相反，它需求最彻底的无利害观念。

7. Friendship can never be a transaction; on the contrary, it demands the most thorough disinterestedness.

8. 我们最重要的原则是：不要叫人打倒你，也不要叫事情打倒你。——居里夫人

8. Our most important principle is: Do not let people knock you down, and do not let things knock you down. - Madame Curie

9. 人世的艰难与折磨，就是一种考验。

9. The hardships and tortures of the human world are a kind of test.

10. 飞蓬遇飘风，而行千里，乘风之势也。

10. When the floating thistle encounters a gusty wind, it can travel thousands of miles, taking advantage of the power of the wind.

11. 一个没有原则和没有意志的人就像一艘没有舵和罗盘的船一般，他会随着风的变化而随时改变自己的方向。——斯迈尔斯

11. A person without principles and without will is like a ship without a rudder and compass, he will change his direction at any time with the change of the wind. — Samuel Smiles

12. 莲藕：看人不可观外相，观物不看漂亮包装，处事要多长心眼。

12.莲藕: When looking at people, do not judge by their outward appearance; when observing things, do not be deceived by their attractive packaging. In dealing with matters, one should be cautious and prudent.

13. 爱之不以道，适所以害之也。

13. To love without the right way is to do what is harmful to it.

14. 每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易：被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。

14. Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily: obscured by habits, confused by time, and worn down by laziness.

15. 我的生活原则是把工作变成乐趣，把乐趣变成工作。——艾伯乐

15. The principle of my life is to turn work into pleasure and pleasure into work. — Eberle

16. 性情中人才是真人，性情中人才是仁人，性情中人才是美人。人而无情，不可以为人，性情臻于极致者，只是神人也!心商是维持心理健康，调适心理压力，保持良好心理状态的能力。心商的高低，决定人生苦乐，维系人的健康，主宰人生命运。做人需要修炼心商!

16. It is only those with a true temperament who are truly human, who are benevolent, and who are beautiful. A person without feelings is not truly human. Those whose temperament reaches its peak are merely divine beings! Emotional intelligence is the ability to maintain mental health, adjust psychological stress, and maintain a good mental state. The level of emotional intelligence determines the joys and sorrows of life, sustains a person's health, and governs the fate of one's life. To be a person requires cultivating emotional intelligence!

17. “生命是获取知识的工具”，只要秉持这个原则，我们不仅会勇气百倍，同时还能尽情生活和开怀大笑！——尼采

17. "Life is the tool of acquiring knowledge," as long as we adhere to this principle, we will not only be brimming with courage but also be able to live to the fullest and laugh heartily! - Nietzsche

18. 嫉妒别人，仇视异己，就等于把生命交给别人。

18. Jealous of others and hostile to strangers, it's like handing your life over to others.

19. 一个人应该：活泼而守纪律，天真而不幼稚，勇敢而不鲁莽，倔强而有原则，热情而不冲动，乐观而不盲目。——马克思

19. A person should be: lively yet disciplined, innocent yet not childish, brave yet not reckless, stubborn yet principled, passionate yet not impulsive, optimistic yet not blind.—Marx

20. 无论你活成什么样子，都会有人对你说三道四，让自己不断变强大，就是最好的蔑视。

20. No matter how you live your life, there will always be people who have something to say about it. Making yourself continuously stronger is the best way to show them.

21. 大多数走运的人都养成从最坏的结果考虑问题的习惯，谨防受到意外之灾的袭击，天天实行这个原则，严格地按此办事。——马科斯·冈瑟

21. Most fortunate people have developed the habit of considering the worst-case scenario, to be cautious against unexpected disasters. They practice this principle every day and strictly adhere to it in their actions. — Marcus Gunther

22. 哦，朋友，这就是我的肺腑之言。因为有了你，蓝天才广阔无垠;因为有了你，玫瑰才火红艳丽。爱默生

22. Oh, friend, this is the very essence of my words. Because of you, the blue sky is vast and boundless; because of you, the roses are fiery and beautiful. - Emerson

23. 一个人去买鹦鹉，看到一只鹦鹉前标：此鹦鹉会两门语言，售价二百元。另一只鹦鹉前则标道：此鹦鹉会四门语言，售价四百元。该买哪只呢？两只都毛色光鲜，非常灵活可爱。这人转啊转，拿不定主意。结果突然发现一只老掉了牙的鹦鹉，毛色暗淡散乱，标价八百元。这人赶紧将老板叫来：这只鹦鹉是不是会说八门语言？店主说：不。这人奇怪了：那为什么又老又丑，又没有能力，会值这个数呢？店主回答：因为另外两只鹦鹉叫这只鹦鹉老板。这故事告诉我们，真正的***，不一定自己能力有多强，只要懂信任，懂放权，懂珍惜，就能团结比自己更强的力量，从而提升自己的身价。相反许多能力非常强的人却因为过于完美主义，事必躬亲，什么人都不如自己，最后只能做最好的攻关人员，销售代表，成不了优秀的***。

23. A person went to buy a parrot and saw that one parrot had a sign in front of it: "This parrot speaks two languages, priced at 200 yuan." Another parrot had a sign: "This parrot speaks four languages, priced at 400 yuan." Which one should he buy? Both parrots were very bright in color and very agile and cute. The person hesitated and couldn't make up his mind. Suddenly, he discovered an old parrot with dull and disheveled feathers, priced at 800 yuan. The person quickly called the owner over: "Does this parrot speak eight languages?" The shopkeeper replied: "No." The person was puzzled: "Then why is it old, ugly, and without any ability, yet worth this much?" The shopkeeper answered: "Because the other two parrots call this parrot the boss." This story tells us that true leaders are not necessarily those with the strongest abilities, but those who understand trust, delegation, and appreciation. They can unite forces stronger than themselves, thereby enhancing their own value. Conversely, many people with very strong abilities cannot become outstanding leaders because of their perfectionism, doing everything themselves, and thinking that no one is better than themselves. In the end, they can only be the best at攻关, sales representatives, and cannot become excellent leaders.

24. 1善良要有底线，大方要有原则。不分青红皂白，只知道对人好，那会辜负自己的一片好心。 2最难过的不是不曾遇见，而是遇见了，也得到了，又匆忙的失去，然后在心底留了一道疤，它让你什么时候疼，就什么时候疼，你连反抗的权力都没有。3如果有缘，错过了还会重来；如果无缘，相遇了也会离开。聚有聚的理由，离有离的借口，人生没有如果，只有后果和结果。 4最大的遗憾是连离开都不能当面说清，或许一个拥抱就能解决的事情，最后却是没有任何解释的形同陌路。 5年轻时不拖累生你的人，年老时不拖累你生的人。父母在，人生尚有来处，父母去，人生只剩归途，所以我们要不断的努力。 6想要别人照顾你的感受，就别万事都迁就别人的感受，守得住自己的底线，才能换得来别人的尊重。 7不要太乖，不想做的事可以拒绝，做不到的事不用勉强，不喜欢的话假装没听见。人生不是用来讨好别人的，而是要善待自己。 8别去打扰一个不愿意理你的人，难受的始终是自己。除了两情相悦，任何喜欢都是心酸。

24. 1 Kindness should have its limits, and generosity should have its principles. Blindly doing good to others without discernment will only betray your good intentions. 2 The hardest part is not that you never met, but that you did meet, gained something, and then lost it in a hurry, leaving a scar in your heart that will hurt whenever it chooses, and you have no power to反抗. 3 If there is a destiny, missed chances will come again; if there is no destiny, even meeting will lead to parting. There are reasons for gathering and reasons for leaving. Life has no "if," only consequences and results. 4 The greatest regret is not being able to say goodbye face to face, perhaps something that could have been resolved with a hug ends up as a cold, inexplicable stranger. 5 Don't burden the people who gave you life when you're young, and don't burden those you gave life to when you're old. As long as your parents are alive, you still have a place to go in life; once they are gone, life is only about returning. Therefore, we must keep striving. 6 If you want others to care about your feelings, don't always accommodate others' feelings. Only by holding your own底线 can you earn others' respect. 7 Don't be too compliant; you can refuse things you don't want to do, and you don't have to force yourself to do things you can't. Don't pretend to hear things you don't like. Life is not for pleasing others, but for treating yourself well. 8 Don't disturb someone who doesn't want to be disturbed; the one who suffers is always yourself. Besides mutual affection, any love is bittersweet.

25. 事情不用改变，只要我们改变。

25. The matter does not need to change; it is only us that needs to change.

26. 要理想不要幻想，要**不要矫情。凡事知足常乐。

26. Seek ideals, not fantasies; avoid pretense. Be content with all things and always find joy.

27. 忍得了就忍，忍不了就改变，改变不了就认了吧。

27. If you can bear it, bear it; if you can't, change it; if you can't change it, just accept it.

28. 君子在下位则多谤，在上位则多誉；小人在下位则多誉，在上位则多谤。

28. A gentleman is often maligned when in a low position, and is often praised when in a high position; whereas a small person is often praised when in a low position, and is often maligned when in a high position.

29. 不能用温情征服对方的人，用殴打也征服不了对方。

29. If someone cannot be conquered by gentleness, they cannot be conquered by beating either.

30. 不要太把自己当回事：不要把自己太当回事，才不会产生自满心理，才能不断地充实、完善自己，缔造完善人生。

30. Don't take yourself too seriously: Only by not taking yourself too seriously can you avoid arrogance, continuously improve and perfect yourself, and create a perfect life.

31. 没有信仰的人是空虚的废物，没有原则的人是无用的小人。——列宾

31. A person without faith is a hollow waste, and a person without principles is a useless scoundrel. — Repin

32. 君子成人之美，不成人之恶。

32. A gentleman perfects the beauty of others, but does not perfect their wickedness.

33. 利已的人最先灭亡。他自己活着，并且为自己而生活。如果他的这个"我"被损坏了，那他就无法生存了。

33. The self-centered person is the first to perish. He lives for himself and lives to serve his own interests. If his "self" is damaged, he cannot survive.

34. 人生最美好的东西，就是他同别人的友谊。林肯

34. The best thing in life is the friendship he has with others. - Lincoln

35. 在生活上简朴些、低调些，不仅有助于自身的品德修炼，而且也能赢得上下的交口称誉。

35. Leading a simple and modest life not only helps in cultivating one's own virtues but also earns commendations from all levels.

36. 一丝一毫关乎节操，一件小事一次不经意的失信，可能会毁了我们一生的名誉。林达生

36. Every bit counts in integrity, and a minor mishap of losing trust through an unintentional act might ruins our reputation for a lifetime. -- Lin Dasheng

37. 与人交往经典语录

38. 一个永远不欣赏别人的人，也就是一个永远也不被别人欣赏的人。汪国真

37. Classic quotes about interpersonal relationships 38. A person who never appreciates others is also a person who will never be appreciated by others. - Wang Guoqing

39. 如果我看得远，那是因为我站在巨人的肩上。

39. If I see far, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants.

40. 虚空有尽，我愿无穷，发愿容易行愿难。

40. The void has an end, but I desire the infinite; it is easy to make vows but difficult to fulfill them.

41. 坦然接受生活给你的馈赠吧，不管是好的还是坏的。

41. Embrace the gifts life gives you, whether good or bad.

42. 生活好比橄榄球比赛，原则就是：奋力冲向底线。——西·罗斯福

42. Life is like a football game, the principle being: Strive for the end zone. — West Roosevelt

43. 善良是永恒的春天，善良是黑夜的灯火，善良是精神世界的阳光，做人最宝贵的品格是善良!自尊、自知、自制是做人最高境界。尊重自己、尊重别人、保持尊严，对自己的行为负责是做人的基本素养!做人要善摆脱，不摆脱则无出世之襟期;做事要力担当，不担当则无处世之事业。眷恋生命，执着人生，但不要忘了它的限度。

43. Kindness is an eternal spring, kindness is the light in the darkness, kindness is the sunshine in the spiritual world, and the most precious character of being a person is kindness! Self-respect, self-awareness, and self-control are the highest境界 of being a person. Respecting oneself, respecting others, maintaining dignity, and taking responsibility for one's own actions are the basic qualities of being a person! One must be good at letting go; without letting go, there is no transcendental spirit. In doing things, one must take responsibility; without taking responsibility, there is no career in the world. Cherish life, be dedicated to life, but do not forget its limits.

44. 身安不如心安，屋宽不如心宽。

44. It is better to be at ease in the heart than in the body, better to have a spacious heart than a spacious house.

45. 谁的人生不是荆棘前行，你跌倒的时候，懊恼的时候，品尝眼泪的时候，都请你不要轻言放弃，因为从来没有一种坚持会被辜负。请你相信，你的坚持，终将美好。 领悟人生的20句励志语录，大气磅礴，读完热血沸腾

45. Whose life is not fraught with thorns as we forge ahead? When you fall, when you feel regret, when you taste tears, please do not lightly give up, because there has never been any perseverance that has been disappointed. Please believe that your perseverance will eventually lead to beauty. 20 inspiring quotes about life, grand and powerful, after reading them, you will be filled with enthusiasm.

46. 人生至恶是善谈人过；人生至愚恶闻己过。

46. The greatest evil in life is to readily talk about others' faults; the greatest folly is to be unwilling to hear about one's own faults.

47. 做人要聪敏，而非聪敏自误;要淡泊，而非淡泊无志;要深沉，而非深沉莫测;要善良，而非善良可欺;要静思，而非静思无行;要勇猛，而非勇猛无羁!要做通情达理的人，要做与人为善的人，要做谦和敦厚的人，要做感恩图报的人。做事不做人永远做不成事;做人不立德永远做不成人!

47. In life, one should be intelligent, not clever to the point of self-harm; one should be indifferent, not indifferent to the point of having no ambition; one should be profound, not so deep that one is indecipherable; one should be kind, not kind to the point of being taken advantage of; one should be thoughtful, not thoughtful to the point of inaction; one should be brave, not brave to the point of being unrestrained! One should be a reasonable and considerate person, a person who does good to others, a person who is modest and sincere, and a person who is grateful and returns kindness. One can never accomplish anything in life without being a good person; one can never become a person of integrity without cultivating one's character!

48. 茄子：你绿得发青也好，还是红得发紫也罢，要记得自己只是茄子就好。

48. Eggplant: Whether you are green and bluish or red and purplish, remember that you are just an eggplant.

49. 大意能够了解别人的人是有智慧的人，能够了解自己的人才算是更明智的人。

49. A wise person is one who can understand others, but one who can understand oneself is even wiser.

50. 兄弟不一定是朋友，但朋友往往是兄弟。

50. Brothers are not necessarily friends, but friends are often like brothers.

51. 世事忙忙如水流，休将名利挂心头。粗茶淡饭随缘过，富贵荣华莫强求。

51. The world is busy as flowing water, do not let fame and fortune weigh on your heart. Enjoy simple tea and plain rice according to fate, and do not strive for wealth and honor.

52. 滴水穿石，不是力量大，而是功夫深。

52. The dripping water wears away the stone; it is not because of great strength, but rather because of deep persistence.

53. 过而不能知，是不智也；知而不能改，是不勇也。

53. To go through something without knowing it is unwise; to know but not change is lacking in courage.

54. 真诚到永远。海尔著名 广告 语

54. Sincere forever. A famous advertising slogan of Haier.

55. 做人要厚道，不能忘恩负义做违背良心的事，坚持自己做人的原则，善待他人，用诚心给自己树立正确的做人道路方向。

55. Be honest in your dealings, and never betray others' kindness by doing things against your conscience. Stick to your own principles of being a person, treat others kindly, and with sincerity, set the right direction for your path of being a person.

56. 不要怕某种性格会得罪人，要知道世界上没有任何一种性格能避免得罪人。说话直的会得罪小人，说话委婉的会得罪急脾气，老好人会得罪有原则的人，圆滑的人会得罪聪明人……既然都会得罪人，那就做你自己，做好了自己，就不怕得罪人，因为你可以承担后果。早安

56. Don't be afraid that a certain personality might offend people, because you should know that there is no single personality that can avoid offending others. Those who speak directly may offend the mean-spirited, those who speak softly may offend the quick-tempered, the good-natured may offend the principled, and the cunning may offend the clever... Since everyone will offend others, just be yourself, do your best, and you need not fear offending others, because you can bear the consequences. Good morning.

57. 用显微镜看他人的缺点，用放大镜看他人的优点。

57. Use a microscope to see others' shortcomings and a magnifying glass to see others' virtues.

58. 勿以身贵而贱人，勿以独见而违众，勿持功能而失信。诸葛亮

58. Do not look down upon others because of your own status, do not go against the majority because of your own unique views, and do not betray trust by holding onto your abilities. — Zhuge Liang

59. 即使遵循正确的原则，也未必能事事顺利；如果这样，请不要退缩，不要气馁，不可失望。——马可·奥勒利乌斯

59. Even if you follow the right principles, it does not necessarily mean everything will go smoothly; if so, do not retreat, do not be discouraged, and do not lose hope.—Marcus Aurelius

60. 你要打开人家的心，你先得打开你自己的，你要在你的心里容纳人家的心，你先得把你的心推放到人家的心里去。钱锤书

60. If you want to open someone else's heart, you first need to open your own. You must first place your heart into the heart of others before you can accommodate their hearts within your own. — Qian Zhongshu

61. 莫信直中直，须防仁不仁，山中有直树，世上无直人

61. Do not trust those who are straightforwardly straightforward; be cautious of those who are not benevolent; there are straight trees in the mountains, but there are no upright people in the world.

62. 你真诚地爱自己，你更能真诚地爱别人。

62. You genuinely love yourself, then you can more genuinely love others.

63. 仓廪实而知礼节，衣食足而知荣辱。

63. When granaries are full, people know etiquette; when clothing and food are sufficient, people understand honor and disgrace.

64. 是非终日有，不听自然无，来说是非者，便是是非人

64. Right and wrong are always present, and not listening to them naturally makes them disappear. Those who talk about right and wrong are the very people who create such things.

65. 只有把目光对准地平线的人才能找到自己的正确道路。

65. Only those who set their sights on the horizon can find their own right path.

66. 手心向下是助人，手心向上是求人：助人快乐，求人痛苦。

66. With the palm facing down, it is helping others; with the palm facing up, it is asking for help: helping others brings joy, asking for help brings pain.

67. 什么事情，都是成也在人、败也在人。失败者并不是天生就比成功者差，而是在逆境或者绝境中，成功者比失败者多坚持一分钟，多走一步路，多思考了一个问题。他山之石，可以攻玉。他人之事，我事之师。看别人的脚，我们至少少走弯路，少跌跟头;多一个想法，多一道门。切记，多一次逆境，就多一分成熟;多一次绝境，就多一次机遇。

67. Whether it's success or failure, it all depends on the person. Failures are not inherently worse than successes; rather, it's that in times of adversity or extremity, successful people can persist for just one more minute, take one more step, or ponder one more issue than the unsuccessful. The stone from another mountain can be used to polish a jade. The affairs of others can be a teacher for us. Observing others' paths can at least help us avoid detours and fewer falls; having an extra idea opens an extra door. Remember, every adversity adds to one's maturity; every extremity offers an opportunity.

68. 其实在用人大师的眼里，没有废人，正如武功高手，不需名贵宝剑，摘花飞叶即可伤人，关键看如何运用。

68. In the eyes of a master of using people, there are no废物, just like a master of martial arts who does not need an expensive sword. They can injure an opponent with a flower or a leaf, the key is how to use it.

69. 1走错路没关系，只要真诚改过，就会洗净你以往的生命与伤痕。 2后悔之泪，可以洗罪过之污。 3过失多端累此身，急须改悔莫因循，自家过错知多少，哪有功夫说别人。 4衣物有破损时必须趁早修补，以免越破越大。同样地，如果我们放过毫不起眼的小缺点，很可能会变成大缺点，终于酿成不可收拾的大害。 5有真实的决心，打胜自己的过失，必有无穷的快乐涌现出来。 6佛教曰忏悔，耶稣曰悔改，孔子曰过则勿惮改。凡古之大宗教家、大教育家之主旨，无不提倡此义，以为立身进德之不二法门。 7做人要有三诚：诚意、诚身、诚行。 8诚的首要是言不妄，爱的根本是心中生。 9以诚相见，心心相印;以私相见，格格不入;以公相见，行动一致;以私相见，各走极端。 10人们无法避免犯错，但智者懂得由错误中学到新的智慧。

69. 1 It's all right to have taken a wrong path, as long as you sincerely repent, your past life and wounds will be cleansed. 2 Regretful tears can wash away the stains of sin. 3 Full of faults, I burden my own body; I must urgently repent and not delay. How can I have the time to talk about others when I know how many of my own faults there are? 4 When clothes are torn, they must be mended early to prevent them from getting worse. Similarly, if we ignore insignificant minor flaws, they may become major flaws and eventually lead to an irreparable disaster. 5 With a real determination, defeating one's own faults will bring forth endless joy. 6 Buddhism speaks of repentance, Jesus speaks of repentance, and Confucius says, "If you make a mistake, do not hesitate to correct it." The main purpose of all great religious leaders and great educators in history is to promote this principle, considering it the only way to establish oneself and improve one's character. 7 To be a person, one must have three kinds of sincerity: sincerity of intention, sincerity of body, and sincerity of action. 8 The primary aspect of sincerity is not to speak falsely; the root of love is the birth of love in the heart. 9 When we meet with sincerity, hearts will be in harmony; when we meet with selfishness, we will be incompatible; when we meet with public spirit, our actions will be in unison; when we meet with selfishness, we will take extreme actions. 10 People cannot avoid making mistakes, but the wise know how to learn new wisdom from their mistakes.

70. 得道多助，失道寡助。做人要厚道、老实、心要有同情心、善良心！

70. The path of righteousness gathers many helpers, while the path of unrighteousness has few. Be honest, sincere, and have a heart filled with compassion and kindness in your character!

71. 做好事不能少我一人，做坏事不能多我一人。

71. I must not be absent from doing good deeds, nor should I be present in doing bad ones.

72. 喷泉的高度不会超过它的源头，一个人的事业也是这样，他的成就决不会超过自己的信念。林肯

72. The height of a fountain cannot exceed its source, and so it is with a person's career; their achievements will never surpass their own beliefs. — Lincoln

73. 永远对生活充满希望，对于困境与磨难，微笑面对。

73. Always be hopeful about life, and face adversity and hardships with a smile.

74. 比你有钱的人，一定比你努力，比你努力的人，终有一天会比你有钱，生活本来就是平衡的，你不为赚钱付出辛苦，你就得为省钱烦恼，这不是鸡汤，是现实！

74. People who are wealthier than you are definitely more hardworking, and those who are more hardworking than you will eventually become wealthier than you. Life is inherently balanced. If you don't work hard for money, you'll have to worry about saving it. This isn't some feel-good motivational speech; it's the reality!

75. 谦卑是一种智慧，是为人处世的黄金法则，懂得谦卑的人，必将得到人们的尊重，受到世人的敬仰。

75. Humility is a form of wisdom, the golden rule of conduct, and those who understand humility will surely earn the respect of people and the admiration of the world.

76. 勿以小恶弃人大美，勿以小怨忘人大恩。清中居郧

76. Do not discard a person's great virtues because of their minor faults, and do not forget a person's great kindness because of their minor grievances. Qing Zhong, a resident of Yun.

77. 世上没有一个永远不被毁谤的人，也没有一个永远被赞叹的人。当你付出时，有人会批评你；当你收获时，有人会批评你；当你旁观时，还是有人会批评你。没有人是不被批评的，只管去做自己该做的事，让别人去说吧。既然无处可逃，不如安然以对；既然耳根不净，不如清净自心；既然不能如愿，不如一笑释然。

77. There is no one in the world who is never slandered, nor is there anyone who is always praised. When you give, someone will criticize you; when you reap, someone will criticize you; when you stand by, someone will still criticize you. No one is immune to criticism. Just do what you should do, and let others talk. Since there is nowhere to escape, might as well face it calmly; since your ears are not clean, might as well purify your own heart; since you cannot achieve your wishes, might as well let it go with a smile.

78. 再没有什么比下面这一点更为一般人视为当然的了，这就是：有某些思辩的和实践的原则。——洛克

78. Nothing is more generally taken for granted than the following point: there are certain speculative and practical principles. – Locke

79. 滴水之恩当涌泉相报；雪中送炭胜过锦上添花。

79. A drop of water deserves a spring of gratitude; helping someone in their time of need is better than adding flowers to a brocade.

80. 礼貌是人类共处的金钥匙朋友是天，朋友是地，朋友多了顶天立地，朋友是风，朋友是雨，朋友多了呼风唤雨。

80. Politeness is the golden key to human coexistence. Friends are the sky, friends are the earth; with more friends, one can stand tall and firm. Friends are the wind, friends are the rain; with more friends, one can command the winds and rain.

81. 和你一同笑过的人，你可能把他忘掉;但是和你一同哭过的人，你却永远不忘。纪伯伦

81. The people you laughed with, you may forget; but the people you cried with, you will never forget. Khalil Gibran

82. 提高生命质量，提升生活品位，活出自我，展示自我风采。

82. Enhance the quality of life, elevate the taste of living, live out one's true self, and showcase one's unique charm.