1. 苏轼在杭州曾收一侍女名朝云，后收为妾，侍奉苏轼二十三年。朝云美丽贤惠，长于歌舞，陪伴苏轼颠沛流离,沉浮官场,历经无数艰难，承受无数打击，是苏轼至亲至爱的患难伴侣。在惠州，一日，苏轼与朝云闲坐，“时青女初至，落木萧萧，凄然有悲秋之意。”于是，苏轼请朝云歌唱《蝶恋花》词。朝云唱了几句，忽然歌喉哽咽，满目噙泪，苏轼问其故，答曰：“奴所不能歌的是‘枝上柳绵吹又少，天涯何处无芳草’也。”说罢禁不住潸然泪下，泣不成声，自此,朝云终日惆怅，不久抱病而终。真正是:一曲伤春词，肠断多情女。此后，苏轼亦郁郁寡欢，终生不再听唱此词。就是这首《蝶恋花春景》。 这首词的上阕重在伤春。春花凋零，残红落地，青杏初现。春燕在绿水环绕的人家低飞。柳絮飘飘流落远方，哪里是它栖身的芳草呢？一切只是正在逝去的春景；心中唤起的却是年华流逝伤春之情。想到和苏东坡流浪漂泊，朝云怎不伤心落泪，难抑悲情？苏轼却笑曰：“吾正悲秋，而汝又伤春矣”。悲秋伤春同样反映出深沉的时间忧患的恐惧，联系苏轼作词时的背景，可体会到苏轼当时壮志难酬，对时间流逝的叹惋；历经磨难，如同那残红败絮，朝云悲凉甚至于绝望的心境可以想见。 下阕重在伤情。苏轼巧妙地抓住生活中的一个细节，创作了一幕富含理趣的悲喜剧。“墙”犹隔也。墙内佳人，墙外行人，一墙之隔。佳人笑语，行人动情。笑语者不知墙外有人，动情者但闻笑声不见人。笑声渐渐远逝，多情的行人却凭空生出无限的烦恼。这种哀怨缠绵的情感，从作品表层看，似乎是描写生活中邂逅的恋情；从深层次揣磨，却是反应了苏轼密州生活时政治上抑郁的心境。“持节云中，何日遣冯唐？”流露出苏轼渴望朝廷理解的情结，然而“浮世事，俱难必”，苏轼与朝廷之间也是隔着一堵墙的。“佳人”之喻，不正有屈原“香草美人”的意味么？朝云的绝望也许正是这种隔而生出的悲剧。

1. Su Shi once had a maid named Chao Yun in Hangzhou, whom he later took as a concubine and served him for twenty-three years. Chao Yun was beautiful and virtuous, skilled in singing and dancing, accompanying Su Shi through his turbulent life, the ups and downs of officialdom, and countless hardships. She bore countless setbacks, becoming Su Shi's most beloved companion in adversity. In Huizhou, one day, while sitting leisurely with Chao Yun, "The young autumn came, the fallen leaves rustled, and there was a sense of melancholy for the autumn." Su Shi then asked Chao Yun to sing the lyrics of "Butterfly Lovers." After a few lines, she suddenly choked up, tears brimming in her eyes. When Su Shi asked why, she replied, "What I cannot sing is 'The willow branches scatter their down, where in the world is there no fragrant grass?'" After saying this, she could not help but burst into tears, sobbing uncontrollably. From then on, Chao Yun was melancholic all day long and soon fell ill and passed away. It truly is: "A song of spring's sorrow, breaking the heart of a loving woman." After this, Su Shi was also melancholic and never listened to this song again. This is the "Butterfly Lovers in Spring." The first part of this poem focuses on the sorrow of spring. The spring flowers wither, the fallen petals fall to the ground, and the green apricots are just beginning to appear. The spring swallows fly low over the houses surrounded by green water. The willow catkins flutter and drift away to distant lands, where is there fragrant grass for them to rest? Everything is just the passing spring scenery; what it evokes in the heart is the sorrow of the passage of time. Thinking of the wandering and drifting with Su Dongpo, how could Chao Yun not be heartbroken and weep, unable to suppress her sorrow? However, Su Shi laughed and said, "I am mourning the autumn, and you are mourning the spring." The sorrow for autumn and spring also reflects a deep fear of the passing of time. In the context of Su Shi's writing, one can feel his regret for his unfulfilled ambitions and his sorrow for the passage of time. Having gone through hardships, like the withered petals and scattered catkins, Chao Yun's desolate and even despairing state of mind can be imagined. The second part of the poem focuses on the sorrow of love. Su Shi skillfully seized a detail in life to create a tragicomedy full of meaning. "The wall" symbolizes separation. There is a beauty inside the wall and a passerby outside, separated by a wall. The beauty laughs, the passerby is moved. The laughers do not know there is someone outside the wall, while the moved one only hears the laughter and does not see the person. The laughter gradually fades away, but the affectionate passerby is left with endless worries. This lingering sorrow is, on the surface, a description of a love story that happens in life; from a deeper level, it reflects Su Shi's depressed state of mind in politics during his days in Miyi. "Holding a post in the clouds, when will the day come to send Feng Tang?" This shows Su Shi's desire for the understanding of the court, but "the floating world, everything is hard to predict," and there is also a wall between Su Shi and the court. Isn't the metaphor of "the beauty" reminiscent of Qu Yuan's "fragrant grass and beautiful people"? Chao Yun's despair may be a tragedy born out of this separation.

2. 观书亦须从头循序而进，可以浅深难易有所取舍，自然意味详密。——朱熹

2. Reading books also requires proceeding in order from the beginning, and one can make choices based on the depth, difficulty, and ease, naturally leading to a detailed and profound meaning. — Zhu Xi

3. 放弃是一首流浪的歌，低回吟唱在心头，是失意的人生充满振臂而呼的自信；使跌倒的信念重新拔地而起；使消沉的斗志面向晨曦喷薄而出；使世俗的纷争化干戈为玉帛……

3. Giving up is a song of wandering, softly humming in the heart, it is the confidence of a frustrated life to raise arms and shout; it revives the belief that has fallen; it turns the despondent spirit towards the dawn, bursting forth; it turns the worldly disputes into peace and harmony...

4. 我一定要，马上行动，决不放弃！――《诗词集》

4. I must absolutely do it, take action immediately, and never give up! - "Collection of Poems and Songs"

5. 在人生的大风浪中，我们常常学船长的样子，在狂风暴雨之下把笨重的货物扔掉，以减轻船的重量。

5. In the great storms of life, we often imitate the appearance of a captain, discarding heavy cargo in the midst of fierce winds and rain to lighten the ship's burden.

6. 人的一生有许多难以取舍，困惑不已的琐事所纠缠著，这时所需的就是断然的舍弃与明智的抉择，唯一会限制我们的，就只有决心。

6. Throughout our lives, we are often entangled in numerous trivial matters that are difficult to choose between and leave us bewildered. What is needed at such times is decisive abandonment and wise decision-making; the only thing that can limit us is our determination.

7. 当你能飞的时候，就不要放弃飞；当你能梦的时候，就不要放弃梦；当你能爱的时候，就不要放弃爱。――《诗词集》

7. When you can fly, do not give up flying; when you can dream, do not give up dreaming; when you can love, do not give up loving. -- "Collection of Poetry and Songs"

8. 学会放弃，放弃是一针清醒剂。让你静下心来反思，让你的头脑更加清晰。做什么事都得量力而行，你不会一伸手就能摸着天际。学会放弃，放弃是一个更新的起点。

8. Learn to let go; giving up is a shot of清醒ness. It allows you to calm down and reflect, making your mind clearer. You must consider your abilities in everything you do; you cannot reach the heavens with a single stretch. Learn to let go; giving up is a new starting point.

9. 放弃，是一种境界，是自然界发展的一种必由之路。

9. Giving up is a state of being, a necessary path for the development of nature.

10. 人是活在别人的记忆里的。当所有人都忘记你的时候，你也就不存在了。――《诗词集》

10. Humans live in the memories of others. When everyone forgets you, you no longer exist. -- "Collection of Poems and Songs"

11. 明智的放弃，胜过盲目的执着，因为在执着与执迷不悟也只有一纸之隔，很难把握分寸的。――《诗词集》

11. Wise abandonment is superior to blind persistence, for there is only a thin line between persistence and obsession, and it is difficult to grasp the right measure. - "Collection of Poems and Songs"

12. 用强烈欲望作为达成梦想的后盾，使欲望变得狂热，让它成为你脑中最重要的一件事。――《诗词集》

12. Use a strong desire as the backing to achieve your dreams, make the desire passionate, and let it become the most important thing in your mind. -- "Collection of Poems and Songs"

13. 学会放弃，放弃不是舍弃，是一种等待，等待更好的时机。义字化身的武圣关公，不也有过降汉不降曹的经历？可他人在曹营心在汉，心中总想着扶刘复汉，最终就有了千里走单骑的壮举！

13. Learn to let go. Giving up is not about abandonment; it is a form of waiting, waiting for a better opportunity. The martial sage Guan Yu, who embodies the virtue of righteousness, also had the experience of submitting to Han but not to Cao. Although he was in Cao's camp, his heart was in Han, always thinking of supporting Liu and restoring the Han. Ultimately, this led to his heroic act of traveling a thousand miles alone on horseback!

14. 这是词中最为人称道的两句。枝头上的柳絮随风远去，愈来愈少；普天之下，哪里没有青青芳草呢。“柳绵”，即柳絮。柳絮纷飞，春色将尽，固然让人伤感；而芳草青绿，又自是一番境界。苏轼的旷达于此可见。“天涯”一句，语本屈原《离骚》“何所独无芳草兮，尔何怀乎故宇”，是卜者灵氛劝屈原的话，其思想与苏轼在《定风波》中所说的“此心安处是吾乡”一致。即便如此，这两句还是蕴含着许多的辛酸和悲哀。据《林下词谈》记载：“子瞻在惠州，与朝云闲坐。时青女（霜神）初至，落木萧萧，凄然有悲秋之意，命朝云把大白，唱‘花褪残红’。朝云歌喉将啭，泪满衣襟。子瞻诘其故，答曰：‘奴所不能歌，是枝上柳绵吹又少，天涯何处无芳草也。’”联系当时苏轼的遭遇，是颇耐人思索的。苏轼一生漂泊，最后竟被远谪到万里之遥的岭南。此时，他已人到晚年，遥望故乡，几近天涯。这境遇和随风飘飞的柳絮何其相似！

14. These are the two most praised lines in the poem. The willow catkins, floating away with the wind from the branches, become fewer and fewer; everywhere under the sky, where is there no lush green grass? "Liu mian" refers to the willow catkins. The flying willow catkins symbolize the waning of spring, which naturally brings a sense of sadness; while the green grass represents a different realm. Su Shi's breadth of mind is evident here. The line "in the distant land" is derived from Qu Yuan's "Li Sao" – "Where does not have fragrant grass, why do you miss your hometown?" It is the words of the diviner Ling Feng advising Qu Yuan, and its thought is consistent with what Su Shi said in "Ding Feng Bo" – "Where my heart is at peace, that is my hometown." Even so, these two lines still contain much bitterness and sadness. According to the records in "Word Talk Under the Trees": "Zi Zhan was in Huizhou, sitting leisurely with Chao Yun. It was the time when the Qing Nü (Frost Goddess) had just arrived, the fallen leaves rustling, conveying a melancholic feeling of autumn. He ordered Chao Yun to hold a large cup and sing 'The flowers have shed their red petals.' As Chao Yun sang, her voice was about to break, and tears were wetting her clothes. When Zi Zhan asked the reason, she replied, 'What I cannot sing is that the willow catkins are blowing away and becoming fewer, and everywhere in the distant land there is fragrant grass.' "Connecting this with Su Shi's experiences at the time is quite thought-provoking. Su Shi spent his life in wandering, and in the end, he was exiled to the distant south of the country. At this time, he was in his later years, looking longingly at his hometown, almost at the edge of the world. This situation is so similar to the willow catkins flying away with the wind!"

15. 我放下了尊严，放下了个性，放下了固执，都只是因为放不下你。

15. I let go of my dignity, my personality, and my stubbornness, all just because I couldn't let you go.

16. 当一个人有所放弃的时候那就以为着你长大了！

16. When a person makes sacrifices, it means you are growing up!

17. 快乐要懂得分享，才能加倍的快乐。――《诗词集》

17. Joy should be shared to multiply its happiness. -- "Collection of Poems and Songs"

18. 我不会放弃，我只是爱，如果失去了这份爱，我不知道我会成为一个什么样的人。

18. I will not give up, I just love, and if I lose this love, I don't know who I will be.

19. 俗话说："光脚的不怕穿鞋的"，拥有得太多有时并非是好事，拥有得太多，顾虑也就多了，包袱也就沉了，其实有些东西早该丢弃，拖着只会成为自己的累赘，所以我们要学会选择，懂得放下。取其精华弃其糟粕，收获对自己有益的东西，放下让心灵疲惫的一切，这样才能轻松地赶路。

19. As the saying goes, "The barefoot man has nothing to fear from the shod." Having too much is not always a good thing. The more one has, the more worries one accumulates, and the heavier the burden becomes. In fact, there are some things that should have been discarded long ago. Carrying them around only serves as a burden to oneself. Therefore, we need to learn to choose and understand the importance of letting go. Take the essence and discard the dregs, reap what is beneficial to oneself, and let go of everything that tires the soul. Only then can one travel light.

20. 如果人生是注定的，那么就用自己的努力让这种注定好一些。能认识到这一点，说明注定你命运的神没有放弃你，而且给你留了巨大的可能性。

20. If life is predetermined, then make this destiny better through your own efforts. The fact that you recognize this means that the god who has predetermined your fate has not forsaken you, and has left you with immense possibilities.

21. 识得宽容，懂得放下，以平常心对待生活，生活无处不是胜境；识得进退，懂得回归，以平常心对待人生，人生将无处不是坦途。

21. Understand tolerance, learn to let go, treat life with a calm mind, and there will be no place in life that is not a paradise; understand when to advance and when to retreat, learn to return, and treat life with a calm mind, and life will be a smooth path everywhere.

22. 是为了更好的实现你的理想。其实暂时的放弃也需要勇气。并不是所有人都有这个勇气的！很多人都是在取舍间浪费了很多宝贵的时间和机会，有的人甚至在取舍间渡过了一生，最后一无所得。因为他没有学会放弃。

22. It is in order to better realize your ideals. In fact, the act of temporarily giving up also requires courage. Not everyone possesses this courage! Many people waste a lot of valuable time and opportunities in choosing between options, and some even spend their entire lives in this process, only to end up with nothing. Because they have not learned to let go.

23. 可以用天时间爱上一个人，但却要用辈子去忘记一个人。――《诗词集》

23. It may take only a day to fall in love with someone, but it could take a lifetime to forget them. -- "Anthology of Poetry and Songs"

24. 亲爱的、不要轻易说对不起，我怕我们真的会没关系。如果有一天，你开始后悔放弃我，请记得，我从未想用离开的方式教会你如何去珍惜。

24. Dear, don't say "I'm sorry" lightly, I'm afraid we really won't matter anymore. If one day, you start to regret giving up on me, remember, I never wanted to use the way of leaving to teach you how to cherish.

25. 骏马能历险，力田不如牛；坚车能载重，渡河不如舟；舍长以求短，谋者难为全。

25. A spirited horse can undertake adventures, but is not as strong as a bull in tilling the fields; a sturdy cart can carry heavy loads, but is not as good as a boat for crossing rivers; one who forsakes their strengths to seek their weaknesses finds it difficult to achieve perfection.

26. 曾经我凝望着你的脸，想留住你那怕片刻的微笑；后来我望着你的背影，想把青涩的甜蜜那怕留住片刻；现在我回首着往事，想把你忘掉，直到永久！――《诗词集》

26. Once, I gazed at your face, longing to capture your smile for even a moment; later, I watched your back, wanting to hold on to the sweet innocence, even for a fleeting moment; now, looking back on the past, I wish to forget you, forever! – Collection of Poems and Songs

27. “情”能否放得下？人世间最说不清、道不明的字。凡是陷入感情纠葛，往往会丧失理智。若能放下，可称是理智的放下。

27. "Qing" (affection, emotion) — can it be let go? It is the most unclear and unexplainable word in the world. Whenever one is entangled in romantic entanglements, one often loses reason. If one can let it go, it can be called a rational release.

28. 因为只有放弃才会有另一种获得，退一步海阔天空，让你静下心来反思。又是对过去诱发深思的路放弃该放弃的，变会得到该得到的。放弃并不是放弃你本追求的理想而是为了你的理想暂时放弃

28. Because only by letting go can there be another kind of gain; taking a step back opens up a vast sky, allowing you to calm down and reflect. It is also about giving up what should be given up that triggers deep thinking about the past, and by doing so, one will obtain what is meant to be gained. Giving up is not about giving up the ideals you originally pursue, but about temporarily letting go of them for the sake of your ideals.

29. 人要成功一定要有永不放弃的精神，当你学会放弃的时候，你才开始进步。

29. In order to succeed, one must possess the spirit of never giving up. It is when you learn to let go that you begin to progress.

30. 用最少的悔恨面对过去，用最少的浪费面对现在，用最多的梦想面对未来。――《诗词集》

30. Face the past with the least regret, the present with the least waste, and the future with the most dreams. -- Collection of Poems and Songs

31. 在人生的大风浪中，我们常常学船长的样子，在狂风暴雨之下把笨重的货物扔掉，以减轻船的重量。――《诗词集》

31. In the great storms of life, we often act like a captain, throwing away the heavy cargo in the face of fierce winds and heavy rain to lighten the ship's load. -- "Anthology of Poetry and Songs"

32. 不要因为一点瑕疵而放弃一段爱情，毕竟在爱情里，需要的是真情，而不是完美。

32. Do not give up a love because of a minor flaw, for in love, what is needed is sincerity, not perfection.

33. 人的一生有许多难以取舍，困惑不已的琐事所纠缠着，这时所需的就是断然的舍弃与明智的抉择，唯一会限制我们的，就只有决心。

33. Throughout one's life, there are many trivial matters that are difficult to choose between and cause constant confusion. What is needed at such times is decisive abandonment and wise choice. The only thing that can limit us is our determination.

34. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

34. Time will slowly settle, and some people will gradually fade in your heart. Learn to let go, as your happiness needs to be fulfilled by yourself.

35. 找准自己的位置，你就会焕发出你应有的美丽。有了一个清新的头脑，你就可以认真构想你的前景，你一定会达到你想要达到的目的。

35. Find your place and you will radiate the beauty that is due to you. With a clear mind, you can seriously plan your future, and you will definitely achieve the goals you desire.

36. 有的原谅，不是我愿意，我只是还想，让你出现在我的生活里；所有的放弃，不是我愿意，我只是心疼，你为何那么不在意；所有的祝福，不是我愿意，我用假装的笑颜，掩饰雨般的泪迹。据说夜里睡不着的人，皆是醒在别人的梦里。走过百转千回，我们谁也不是谁的唯一，对于陪伴与懂得，爱情原只是一件外衣。

36. Some forgiveness, not because I wish to, I just still want you to appear in my life; all the giving up, not because I wish to, I am just heartbroken, why are you so indifferent; all the blessings, not because I wish to, I hide the traces of rain with a smile that seems forced. It is said that those who cannot sleep at night are awake in someone else's dream. After countless twists and turns, neither of us is the only one for the other; for companionship and understanding, love is just a piece of outerwear.

37. 放弃是一首流浪的歌，低回吟唱在心头，是失意的人生充满振臂而呼的自信；使跌倒的信念重新拔地而起；使消沉的斗志面向晨曦喷薄而出；使世俗的纷争化干戈为玉帛。

37. Surrender is a song of wandering, softly humming in the heart, a confident life filled with cries of desperation; it revives the belief that fell; it propels the spirit that had sunk towards the dawn; and it turns the worldly disputes into a peaceable truce.

38. 一个人心态好，生活就愉快，因为懂得放下，所以每个人千万别让脾气和本事一样大，越有本事的人越没脾气。

38. A person's life is pleasant when they have a good attitude, because they know how to let go. Therefore, everyone should never let their temper be as great as their abilities; the more capable a person is, the less temper they should have.

39. 看时间就这样流过，细数的日子越来越多，慢慢的自己开始忘记，忘记。――《诗词集》

39. Time passes by without notice, and the days counted accumulate, slowly, I begin to forget, forget. —— "Collection of Poems and Songs"

40. 人生最难的不是如何去拥有而是该怎样学会放弃，这不一定是结束，新的开始将来临。

40. The hardest thing in life is not how to possess but how to learn to let go, which is not necessarily an end but the coming of a new beginning.

41. 放弃该放弃的，变会得到该得到的。放弃并不是放弃你本追求的理想而是为了你的理想暂时放弃。

41. Give up what you should give up, and you will gain what you should gain. Giving up is not about giving up the ideals you have pursued, but about temporarily giving up for the sake of your ideals.

42. 放弃一个很爱你的人，并不痛苦。放弃一个你很爱的人，那才痛苦。爱上一个不爱你的人，那是更痛苦。

42. It's not painful to let go of someone who deeply loves you. It's painful to let go of someone you deeply love. It's even more painful to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you.

43. 有的人甚至在取舍间渡过了一生。有时要学会放弃，是为了更好的实现你的理想，如烟往事俱忘却，放弃不是舍弃，学会放弃。

43. Some people spend their entire lives making choices. Sometimes, learning to let go is necessary to better realize your ideals. Like smoke from the past, let it all fade away; giving up is not about discarding, but about learning to let go.

44. 成功者愿意做失败者不愿意做的事情，所以他成功！

44. Successful people are willing to do things that unsuccessful people are not willing to do, hence their success!

45. 我们要学会"放下"。放下不是说什么都不要，而是说你要明白自己究竟需要什么，需要多少。有些人贪婪的东西，其实对自己毫无意义。在人生路途上，我们要放弃沉重的欲望，放下过度的需求，舍弃不必要的执着，才能享受真正的人生快乐。只有懂得放下自我，才能体会到人生的真谛。

45. We need to learn to "let go." Letting go does not mean giving up everything, but rather understanding what you truly need and how much you need. Some things that people are greedy for actually have no significance to themselves. On the journey of life, we must abandon heavy desires, let go of excessive needs, and give up unnecessary attachments to enjoy the true happiness of life. Only by understanding how to let go of oneself can one truly comprehend the essence of life.

46. 豁达，不是没有烦恼，而是懂得放下；世间无完美，曲折亦风景，心通一切通，修好此心，才能成功。

46. Generosity is not the absence of worries, but the understanding to let go; in this world, there is no perfection, and twists and turns are also scenery. The heart that understands everything can overcome all. By cultivating this heart, one can achieve success.

47. 上帝在关闭一扇门的同时,一定会为你打开另一扇门。

47. God will always open another door for you when He closes one.

48. 岁月就象一条河，左岸是无法忘却的回忆，右岸是值得把握的青春年华，中间飞快流淌的，是年轻隐隐的伤感。世间有许多美好的东西，但真正属于自己的却并不多。

48. Time flows like a river, with the left bank being the unforgettable memories and the right bank the precious youth to cherish, while the middle swiftly flowing part holds the subtle sadness of youth. There are many wonderful things in the world, but not many truly belong to us.

49. 梦想绝不是梦，两者之间的差别通常都有一段非常值得人们深思的距离。――《诗词集》

49. Dreams are not dreams; the distance between them is often a profound distance that is worth pondering deeply. – "Collection of Poetry and Prose"

50. 只有懂得放下，才能掌握当下。曾经拥有的,不要忘记；已经得到的,更加珍惜；属于自己的，不要放弃；已经失去的，留作回忆；想要得到的，一定要努力。

50. Only by letting go can one master the present. Do not forget what you once had; cherish what you have gained even more; do not give up what belongs to you; keep what you have lost as a memory; and you must strive for what you desire.

51. 重要的不是发生了什么事，而是要做哪些事情来改善它！

51. What matters is not what has happened, but what needs to be done to improve it!

52. 既然受不了对方的某些行为，怎么就那么快习惯了有人给你做饭洗衣？既然受不了对方的脾气，怎么那么享受对方的关心爱意。放弃二人生活的同时，你放弃的不只是麻烦和烦恼，还有你追求了许久的幸福和甜蜜。麻烦和烦恼时时都存在着，而幸福，一旦失去，就不会保证再来了。

52. Since you can't stand some of the other person's behaviors, why did you get so used to someone cooking and doing your laundry so quickly? Since you can't tolerate the other person's temper, why do you enjoy their care and affection so much. By giving up a two-person life, you're not just giving up troubles and worries; you're also放弃ing the happiness and sweetness you've been pursuing for a long time. Troubles and worries are always there, but once happiness is lost, it's not guaranteed to come back.

53. 骏马能历险，力田不如牛；坚车能载重，渡河不如舟；舍长以求短，谋者难为全。——魏徵

53. A spirited horse can brave adventures, but it is not as strong as an ox in plowing fields; a sturdy cart can carry heavy loads, but it is not as good as a boat for crossing rivers; one who forsakes his strengths to seek weaknesses will find it hard to achieve perfection. — Wei Zheng

54. 放弃，既是遍历归来的路，又是重登旅程的路，又是对过去诱发深思的路，也是对未来满怀憧憬的路。千万朵智慧的灯火灿烂着温柔和明朗的天空，牵出生命音乐般轻柔的翅膀、牵出一生春光明媚的季节。

54. Abandonment is both the path returning from a journey and the path to embark on a new one, it is also the path that leads to profound contemplation of the past and the path filled with anticipation for the future. Ten thousand lamps of wisdom shine brightly in a gentle and clear sky, drawing out the delicate wings of life like music, and bringing forth a season full of bright spring sunshine.

55. 学会放弃，让伤心随风而逝，只有快乐相随；学会放弃，在落泪以前转身离去，留下简单的背影；学会放弃，将昨天埋在心里，留下最美的回忆。

55. Learn to let go, allowing heartache to be carried away by the wind, with only happiness in its wake; learn to let go, turning away before tears fall, leaving behind a simple silhouette; learn to let go, burying yesterday in the heart, leaving behind the most beautiful memories.

56. 于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧遇上了。――《诗词集》

56. Among the millions of people, you meet the one you meet; in the endless expanse of time, in the boundless wilderness of the ages, neither early nor late, you just happen to meet them. -- "Collection of Poems and Songs"

57. 风起时，笑看落花；风停时，淡看天际。懂得放下，生命才会更加完美。不以得为喜，不以失为忧，顺其自然，随遇而安。

57. When the wind blows, laugh at the falling petals; when the wind stops, calmly watch the horizon. Understand the art of letting go, and life will be more perfect. Do not be happy with gains or worried about losses; go with the flow and be content with whatever comes.

58. 放弃是一首流浪的歌，低回吟唱在心头，是失意的人生充满振臂而呼的自信；使跌倒的信念重新拔地而起；使消沉的斗志面向晨曦喷薄而出；使世俗的纷争化干戈为玉帛……

58. Giving up is a song of wandering, softly and repeatedly sung in the heart, it is the confident call to arms of a life full of disappointment; it raises the belief that had fallen back to its feet; it turns the spirit that had sunk into facing the dawn with full vigor; it turns the secular disputes into the peace of jade and silk……

59. 如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧；如果，舍不得、放不下，那就痛苦吧。

59. If you are not happy, if you are not joyful, then let go; if you can't let go, if you can't let it be, then endure the pain.

60. 梅、菊放弃安逸和舒适，才能得到笑傲霜雪的艳丽；大地放弃绚丽斑斓的黄昏，才会迎来旭日东升的曙光；春天放弃芳香四溢的花朵，才能走进累累硕果的金秋。放弃，并不意味着失去，因为只有放弃才会有另一种获得。

60. Plum and chrysanthemum must forsake comfort and ease to attain the splendor of triumphing over frost and snow; the earth must abandon the resplendent hues of dusk to welcome the dawn of the rising sun; spring must forsake the fragrant blossoms to step into the golden autumn laden with abundant fruits. To forsake does not mean to lose, for only by forsaking can there be another kind of acquisition.

61. 对不起，在亲情和爱情之间，我最终还是选择了亲情。我短暂的生命里，总是在被人抛弃。没想到我人生中第一次放弃一个人，就放弃了我全部的爱情。?>

61. Sorry, in the choice between family ties and love, I ultimately chose family. Throughout my short life, I have always been abandoned by others. I never expected that the first time I gave up on someone in my life, it was to give up all my love.

62. 要让事情改变，先改变我自己；要让事情变得更好，先让自己变得更好！

62. To change things, first change myself; to make things better, first make myself better!

63. 在人生的大风浪中,我们常常学船长的样子,在狂风暴雨之下把笨重的货物扔掉,以减轻船的重量。

63. In the great storms of life, we often act like a captain, throwing away the heavy cargo in the face of fierce winds and heavy rain to lighten the ship's weight.

64. 人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地，坚持了不该坚持的……

64. The greatest regret in life is probably the easy abandonment of what should not be given up, and the stubborn persistence in what should not be continued...

65. 有取有舍的人多么幸福，寡情的守财奴才是不幸。——鲁达基

65. How happy are those who take and give, for the miser, devoid of emotion, is truly unfortunate. - Rudaki

66. 人的最高尚行为除了传播真理外，就是公开放弃错误。——李斯特

66. The noblest act of a person, besides spreading truth, is to publicly abandon errors. — Liszt

67. 天涯何处无芳草，何必单恋一枝花。――《诗词集》

67. Wherever in the world there are fragrant grasses, why must one exclusively love a single flower. -- From "Collection of Poems and Songs"

68. 学会放弃，放弃是一种智慧的美丽。懂得放弃，才更懂得拥有，懂得珍惜。

68. Learn to let go; giving up is a beautiful aspect of wisdom. Understanding to let go is to understand more about having and valuing.

69. 船舶放弃安全的港湾，才能在深海中收获满船鱼虾。

69. A vessel must abandon the safe harbor to reap a full cargo of fish and shrimp in the deep sea.

70. 有些事我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结果；有时候我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。

70. There are some things we know for sure are wrong, but we still insist on doing them because we are not willing to give up; there are some people we know for sure we love, but we still have to let them go because there is no outcome; sometimes we know for sure there is no way forward, but we still keep moving forward because we are accustomed to it.

71. 梦是一种欲望，想是一种行动。梦想是梦与想的结晶。――《诗词集》

71. Dreams are desires, thoughts are actions. A dream is the crystallization of dreams and thoughts. -- "Collection of Poems and Lyrics"

72. 生活有时会逼迫你，不得不交出权力，不得不放走机遇，甚至不得不抛下爱情。你不可能什么都得到，生活中应该学会放弃，就像清理电脑中的文件一样。

72. Life sometimes forces you to give up power, to let go of opportunities, and even to abandon love. You can't have everything, and in life, you should learn to let go, just like cleaning up files on a computer.

73. 要想采一束清新的山花，就得放弃城市的舒适；要想做一名登山健儿，就得放弃娇嫩白净的肤色。你不可能什么都得到，所以你应该学会放弃。

73. To gather a bouquet of fresh mountain flowers, one must give up the comfort of the city; to become a mountaineer, one must abandon the delicate, fair complexion. You cannot have everything, so you should learn to let go.

74. 有时候，一个建议你离开的人，可能是最爱你的。一个希望你放弃的人，可能是最关心你的。一个渴求不再联系的人，可能是最挂念你的。一个默默离开的人，可能是最舍不得你的。我们的人生，就是在这样矛盾而纠结里渡过。爱并不是一场在一起的游戏，爱恰恰是种挂念你而不得不离开的痛楚。

74. Sometimes, the person who suggests you leave might be the one who loves you the most. The one who wants you to give up might be the one who cares about you the most. The one who longs to no longer be in touch might be the one who misses you the most. The one who leaves silently might be the one who regrets it the most. Our lives are spent in such contradictions and entanglements. Love is not a game of being together, but rather the pain of missing you and having to leave.