1. 掌握好责骂与训斥的方法与技巧，才能达到教育的目的与效果。不当的责罚，不知不觉中会伤害孩子。唐艾里姆

1. Mastering the methods and skills of scolding and reprimanding is essential to achieve the purposes and effects of education. Improper punishment can inadvertently harm children. - Tang Ailim

2. 要承认，我们的孩子每天都在进步。但是他们进步方面和进步速度不同。

2. It must be acknowledged that our children are making progress every day. However, their areas of progress and the speed of their progress vary.

3. 给孩子一个房间或者房间的一部分，主要供孩子玩耍。

3. Provide a room or a part of a room for the child, primarily for play purposes.

4. 当你能量提高了，你对外在的世界会有更多的允许和宽容。当你能量提高了，你的视觉、眼光就会随之改变，外在的世界自然改变。

4. When your energy increases, you will have more allowance and tolerance for the outer world. As your energy increases, your vision and perspective will change accordingly, and the outer world will naturally change as well.

5. 有虫的枣子早红，有病的孩子早熟。智力上的神童，常常以剥夺性格和身体的成长为代价。

5. Jujubes with worms ripen early, and children with diseases mature early. Child prodigies in intelligence often pay the price of sacrificing their character and physical growth.

6. 家庭教育的任务，首先是父母教育、父母学习。

6. The task of family education is primarily the education of parents and parental learning.

7. 无论父母有多大的成就，孩子的教育失败，整个人生就失败。

7. Regardless of the parents' achievements, if the child's education fails, the entire life will fail.

8. 小我是幻象，只存在于头脑中。头脑本身是我们的工具，但小我像病毒一样侵占了你的头脑。于是你每天在小我的自动运行中而不自知。

8. The ego is an illusion, existing only in the mind. The mind itself is our tool, but the ego invades your mind like a virus. Thus, you operate every day in the automatic functioning of the ego without realizing it.

9. 忠诚的热爱你的家庭吧，不要等到永远失去的时候，再苦苦地寻找它！

9. Devote yourself loyally to the love of your family, and don't wait until it's forever lost to search for it in vain!

10. 想象与显示不分使孩子很容易融入到故事情景中，并从中受到教育。

10. The separation of imagination and display allows children to easily immerse themselves in the story scenario and receive education from it.

11. 成功的教育是虎父无犬子，失败的教育是母强子弱。有修养的父母总是把培养生活自理能力和自学能力当作教育孩子的头等大事。

11. Successful education is like a tiger father with no dog sons, while unsuccessful education is like a strong mother with weak sons. Cultured parents always regard cultivating the ability to live independently and self-study as the most important task in educating their children.

12. 孩子如果进步不明显，是因为教育方法不适合自己的孩子，不是孩子难教育。

12. If a child shows no significant progress, it is because the educational method is not suitable for the child, not that the child is difficult to educate.

13. 家长养成合理的行为习惯并留心使孩子学着去做。

13. Parents should cultivate reasonable habits of behavior and be mindful of teaching their children to do the same.

14. 家庭中正常关系的失调，是以后产生精神和情绪的各种病态的肥沃的土壤。

14. Disruption of normal relationships within the family is fertile ground for the development of various mental and emotional disorders in the future.

15. 只有家长和老师积极配合，孩子才能走向成功。

15. Only with the active cooperation of parents and teachers can a child achieve success.

16. 如果你真的爱孩子，就该送他出海经风浪。

16. If you truly love your child, you should send him out to face the winds and waves.

17. 作为社会生活中的人，道德素质是人的重要内涵，它决定着人的尊严价值和成就。

17. As a person in social life, moral quality is an important connotation of a person, determining a person's dignity, value, and achievements.

18. 打骂不能解决孩子的教育问题，只能宣泄父母的急躁情绪。

18. Beating and scolding cannot solve the child's educational problems; it can only vent the parents' impatience.

19. 善于利用时间的人，永远能找得到富裕的时间。学会做时间的主人，将会使你受益无穷。

19. Those who are good at making use of time will always find abundance of it. Learning to be the master of time will bring you immense benefits.

20. 在家庭教育中，努力去营造快乐、鼓励的气氛，让孩子有实现感和成就感。

20. In family education, strive to create a happy and encouraging atmosphere, allowing children to experience a sense of accomplishment and achievement.

21. 使一个人发挥最大能力的方法，是赞赏和鼓励。

21. The way to bring out the best in a person is through praise and encouragement.

22. 向孩子提供书籍和材料，让孩子干自己喜爱的事情。

22. Provide children with books and materials, allowing them to engage in activities they enjoy.

23. 对孩子来说，家庭环境类似母亲的子宫。母亲的子宫是孩子的第一宫殿，家庭环境是孩子的第二宫殿。

23. To a child, the family environment is akin to the mother's womb. The mother's womb is the child's first palace, and the family environment is the child's second palace.

24. 激发孩子的求知和学习的欲望，远比教会有限的知识有意义得多。

24. Sparking a child's curiosity and desire for learning is far more meaningful than teaching them limited knowledge.

25. 不能因孩子犯错误而戏弄他。表扬孩子会背诗、讲故事和唱歌曲。

25. Do not mock a child for making mistakes. Praise the child for reciting poems, telling stories, and singing songs.

26. 赏识使孩子成功，抱怨使孩子失败。禁止意味着引诱，压抑反而是强化。

26. Recognition leads to children's success, while complaining leads to their failure. Prohibition means temptation, and suppression actually reinforces it.

27. 父母不要万事代劳，剥夺孩子的生活自理能力。

27. Parents should not do everything for their children, as this may deprive them of the ability to manage their own lives.

28. 当孩子情绪波动时，愚蠢的父母责备孩子，聪明的父母关爱孩子。赵东华

28. When children are emotionally fluctuating, foolish parents blame the children, while wise parents care for them.Zhao Donghua

29. 教孩子学走路，学说话的方法，是人世间教育孩子的最好方法。

29. Teaching children how to walk and how to speak is the best method of educating children in the world.

30. 对孩子提出的所有问题，都耐心、老实地作出回答。

30. Answer all the questions posed by the child with patience and honesty.

31. 在一个家庭里，如果没有孩子的笑声和学习的声音，这个家庭是没有希望的。

31. In a family, without the laughter of children and the sound of learning, the family has no hope.

32. 父母是孩子认识世界、获取知识的第一所学校。

32. Parents are the first school for children to recognize the world and acquire knowledge.

33. 不因孩子房间里或者桌面上很乱而责骂他，只要这与他的创作活动有关。

33. Do not scold a child for a messy room or desk surface, as long as it is related to their creative activities.

34. 挫折教育并非只是让孩子过过苦日子，干点苦活，挫折教育的重点在于，培养孩子直面挫折的坚强品质。

34. Friction education is not merely about letting children endure hardship and do arduous work. The key focus of friction education is to cultivate children's strong character to face adversity directly.

35. 有孩子的家庭，就像多了一面镜子，他能照出你内心的一切。你快乐，他也快乐；你暴躁，他也暴躁。

35. Families with children are like an extra mirror, reflecting all that is within you. If you are happy, so is he; if you are impatient, so is he.

36. 贫穷是重要的教育资源，穷人的孩子早当家。

36. Poverty is an important educational resource; the children of the poor become responsible early.

37. 让孩子独立完成他所从事的工作的基本部分，哪怕不会有积极的结果。

37. Allow children to independently complete the basic parts of the work they are engaged in, even if there will not be a positive outcome.

38. 受罚最重的孩子，长大了很少有成为最好的人的。

38. Children who receive the heaviest punishment rarely grow up to become the best people.

39. 在达到理智的年龄之前，孩子不能接受观念，而只能接受形象。

39. Before reaching the age of reason, children can only accept images, not ideas.

40. 有修养的父母总是在孩子很小的时候已经开始耐心地征求孩子的意见。有修养的父母是伏尔泰主义者：我不同意你的观点，但我誓死扞卫你说话的权利。

40. Cultured parents always start to patiently seek their child's opinions when the child is very young. Cultured parents are Voltaireans: "I disagree with your opinion, but I will defend to the death your right to speak."

41. 详细制定实验计划，帮助孩子了解更多的事情。

41. Elaborately formulate an experimental plan to help children learn more things.

42. 当你没有评判的时候，你就会觉得一切都是本该如此。而当你评判的时候你就不要在评判你的评判了。

42. When you do not judge, you will feel that everything is as it should be. And when you judge, do not judge your judgment.

43. 一个从健康家庭中成长起来的孩子，学校要毁掉他没那么容易，而一个被不健康家庭造就出来的孩子，学校要帮助他，非常困难。

43. It's not easy for a school to destroy a child who has grown up in a healthy family, but it is very difficult for a school to help a child who has been shaped by an unhealthy family.

44. 穷人的孩子早当家，但必须警惕人穷志短。

44. The children of the poor take on responsibilities early, but one must be wary of the saying that "poverty can stifle ambition."

45. 父母是子女在生活中一切言行举止的最早启蒙老师。

45. Parents are the earliest teachers to nurture their children in their言行举止 in life.

46. 掌握好责骂与训斥的方法与技巧，才能达到教育的目的与效果。不当的责罚，不知不觉中会伤害孩子。

46. Mastering the methods and skills of scolding and reprimanding is essential to achieve the goals and effects of education. Improper punishment can inadvertently harm the child.

47. 要想学生好学，必须先生好学。惟有学而不厌的先生，才能教出学而不厌的学生。

47. If students are to be eager to learn, teachers must first be eager to learn. Only teachers who are never tired of learning can teach students who are never tired of learning.

48. 建一个陈列架，让孩子在上面充分展示自己的作品。

48. Build a display rack for children to fully showcase their own creations.

49. 努力做一个乐观、快乐的人。一个快乐的人，看孩子时，更多的是看到他的优点，而一个不快乐的人看到的更多的是孩子的缺点。

49. Strive to be an optimistic and happy person. A happy person sees more of a child's merits when observing them, while an unhappy person tends to notice more of the child's shortcomings.

50. 教育必须从心理上探索儿童的兴趣和习惯开始。

50. Education must begin by exploring the interests and habits of children psychologically.

51. 简单、凝练的童话往往蕴涵着丰富的知识和深刻的道理。

51. Simple and concise fairy tales often contain rich knowledge and profound truths.

52. 工作型父母必须让孩子因父母的守望而尽早养成生活自理能力和自学能力。最有守望感的父母是孙悟空的父母。有修养的父母就是像孙悟空的父母那样：让孩子自己解除障碍，让孩子自己经历磨难，让孩子自己经历困难，只在孩子努力之后实在无法解决困难时，才降落到孩子的身边。

52. Working parents must ensure that their children develop self-reliance and self-learning abilities at an early age due to the parents' vigilant watch. The most vigilant parents are the parents of Sun Wukong. Well-bred parents are like the parents of Sun Wukong: they let their children remove obstacles by themselves, let their children experience hardships by themselves, and let their children face difficulties by themselves. They only descend to the children's side when the children have truly exhausted all efforts and are still unable to solve the difficulties.

53. 所有纨绔子弟都是富裕子弟，尽管并非所有富家子弟都是纨绔子弟。自古英雄多磨难，从来纨绔少伟男。

53. All playboys are from wealthy families, although not all rich young men are playboys. Since ancient times, heroes have often faced hardships, while playboys rarely become great men.

54. 作为社会生活中的人，道德素质是人的重要内涵，它决定着人的尊严、价值和成就。舒丹

54. As a person in social life, moral quality is an important connotation of a person, determining a person's dignity, value, and achievements. Shu Dan

55. 父母要给予孩子自由成长的空间，对错误的方向给予引导，对于正确的方向给予鼓励。

55. Parents should provide their children with space for free growth, guide them in the wrong direction, and encourage them in the right direction.

56. 你要把你的意识力提到最高，然后带着主观觉察去看自己！

56. You must raise your consciousness to the highest level, then observe yourself with subjective awareness!

57. 让孩子在艰苦的地方体验他人的苦难，让他为他人提供力所能及的帮助，并由此获得成就感和自我认同感。改变孩子自暴自弃的坏毛病的唯一办法是既让他面对他人的苦难，让他为苦难者提供力所能及的帮助。

57. Allow children to experience others' sufferings in harsh places, let them provide help within their capabilities to others, and thereby gain a sense of achievement and self-identity. The only way to change a child's bad habit of self-abandonment is to let them confront others' sufferings and provide help to the suffering within their capabilities.

58. 好母亲把儿子当朋友，坏母亲把儿子当情人。

58. A good mother treats her son as a friend, while a bad mother treats him as a lover.

59. 一路走来你只是活着，你没有因为体验生活而生活，只是行一尸一走肉罢了。

59. Throughout your journey, you have merely been alive, not living for the experiences of life, but merely walking around as a zombie without a soul.

60. 孩子的身上存在缺点并不可怕，可怕的是作为孩子人生领路人的父母缺乏正确的家教观念和教子方法。

60. It is not可怕 that children have shortcomings; what is可怕 is that the parents, who are the guides in the children's lives, lack correct parenting ideas and methods.

61. 要教育好孩子，就要不断提高教育技巧。要提高教育技巧，那么就需要家长付出个人的努力，不断进修自己。

61. To educate children well, one must continuously improve educational skills. To enhance educational skills, parents need to put in personal effort and continuously further their own education.

62. 一切教育都是从我们对儿童天性的理解开始。

62. All education begins with our understanding of the nature of children.

63. 孩子的学习成绩固然重要，孩子的素质培养更为重要。孩子强烈的上进心，首先来源于对远大目标的执着追求。所以家长应帮助孩子从小树立远大的目标，激发孩子为了现实目标而百折不挠的上进心。晨曦

63. While academic achievements are important for children, cultivating their qualities is even more crucial. Children's strong ambition for progress primarily stems from their persistent pursuit of grand goals. Therefore, parents should help children establish grand goals from a young age and inspire them to persist in their pursuit of real goals with unwavering ambition. Morning glow.

64. 孩子的理性是不断成长的，不要喂养他们，而要引导他们。

64. The rationality of children is constantly growing; do not feed them but guide them.

65. 家庭关系紧张，父母专制，不尊重孩子的人格，不讲民主等因素直接影响孩子的学习与人生。爱德华

65. Tense family relationships, authoritarian parents, lack of respect for the child's personality, and a lack of democracy are factors that directly impact a child's learning and life. Edward

66. 父母教育孩子的过程，也是自身不断感悟和学习的过程。

66. The process of parents educating their children is also a continuous process of self-perception and learning.

67. 向孩子说明，他本身已经很可爱，用不着再表现自己。

67. Explain to the child that they are already very cute and there is no need for them to show off.

68. 帮助孩子与来自不同社会文化阶层的孩子正常交往。

68. Help children to have normal interactions with children from different social and cultural backgrounds.

69. 教育最重要的是改进文化，在家庭中最核心的文化就是一家人生活在一起，父母陪伴着孩子成长，在有爱、有鼓励、有帮助的地方，即使生活得很艰辛、生命照样可以很健全、很健康。

69. The most important aspect of education is to improve culture, and the most core culture in the family is for a family to live together, with parents accompanying their children's growth. In a place filled with love, encouragement, and help, even though life may be hard, life can still be very healthy and robust.

70. 父母要逐渐培养孩子独立思考、独立解决问题的习惯，并由此树立孩子的信心。

70. Parents should gradually cultivate in their children the habit of independent thinking and independent problem-solving, and thus build their children's confidence.

71. 每一个心理健康的孩子都是向上的，都是热爱学习的，都是具有自信的，这些品质都是孩子成长必备的。杨广德

71. Every mentally healthy child is upward-looking, loves learning, and is confident. These qualities are essential for a child's growth. - Yang Guangde