1. 抽固定的时间陪她。你工作都是为了生活，那么，她应该是你生活里最重要的一部分。

1. Dedicate fixed time to be with her. Since you work for a living, she should be the most important part of your life.

2. 不管你在世界的哪个地方，当你的太太要生孩子时，一定要在她身边。

2. No matter where you are in the world, you must always be by your wife's side when she is about to give birth.

3. 伤什么都别伤心爱人的心。伤了，你就真的没有机会了。

3. Don't let anything hurt the heart of the one you love. Once it's hurt, you really have no chance anymore.

4. 1不吸烟饮酒的人，都很自私，杜月笙经典语录。一般不可托终生。

4. People who neither smoke nor drink are generally very selfish - a classic quote by Du Yuesheng. They are usually not suitable for lifelong trust.

5. 在平平淡淡的学习、工作、生活中，大家都知道一些经典的语录吧，语录现指能引起共鸣的、发人深省，有一定传播力的名人之言、网民言论、社会事件所产生的新词条。什么样的语录才经典呢？

5. In the ordinary and uneventful learning, work, and life, everyone is familiar with some classic sayings, which now refer to the words of celebrities, netizens, and new entries generated from social events that can resonate with people, provoke deep thought, and have a certain spreadability. What kind of sayings are considered classic?

6. 如果你爱一个人，请你温柔的呵护她；如果不爱，直说。女人都很傻的，从她爱上你的那一刻，便身心俱付。

6. If you love someone, please cherish her gently; if not, be straightforward. Women are all傻 (silly), from the moment they fall in love with you, they give themselves completely, both physically and emotionally.

7. 江湖上有人找杜摆平事体时，杜淡定的说道：闲话一句。

7. When someone in the江湖 comes to Du to settle a matter, Du calmly says: Just a trivial remark.

8. 不要认为情人节送花是无聊的行为。又不是每天都要你送，找那么无聊的借口干嘛？

8. Don't think that giving flowers on Valentine's Day is a boring behavior. It's not every day that you have to send them, why look for such a boring excuse?

9. 原来天底下最狠的不是我姓杜的，而是他姓蒋的（***）。

9. Originally, the most ruthless person under heaven isn't me, Du, but him, Jiang (***).

10. 花一文钱要收到十文钱的效果，这才是花钱能手。

10. To spend one coin and receive the effect of ten, this is what a master of spending money is.

11. 君子我不怕，毛贼我不惹！

11. I'm not afraid of gentlemen, and I don't provoke bandits!

12. 快乐最重要，何人、何物、何事使你快乐，你就同他们在一起。何人，何事，何物让你不快乐，你就离开他。

12. Happiness is the most important thing. Whomever, whatever, and whatever brings you joy, you should be with them. Whomever, whatever, and whatever makes you unhappy, you should leave them.

13. 吃是实功，赌是对冲，嫖是落空。?>

13. Eating is real work, gambling is hedging, and prostitution is in vain. ?>

14. 锦上添花的事情让别人去做。我只做雪中送炭的事情。

14. Let others do the things that add flowers to the brocade. I only do the things that provide a shelter in the snow.

15. 英雄不怕出身低，关健要有一个好脑子。

15. Heroes are not afraid of their low birth, the key is to have a good brain.

16. 我进攻的矛头直指五彩缤纷的十里洋场！

16. My attack is directly aimed at the colorful and vibrant ten miles of foreign-style streets!

17. 女人是用来疼的，如果你没有把握让一个女人幸福，反倒一直给他难过痛苦，请记住这不是在爱她。

17. Women are meant to be cherished. If you're not sure how to make a woman happy, and instead keep causing her sadness and pain, remember that this is not love.

18. 2对你吹拍人，最可能背叛你。伤你最深的人，一定是你最爱的人。百分之七十的凶杀案发生于熟人之间。“生虎犹可近，熟人不可亲。”

18. 2 The person who flatters and pampers you is most likely to betray you. The person who wounds you the deepest is always the one you love the most. Seventy percent of homicides occur among acquaintances. "It is still possible to approach a wild tiger, but not to be close to an acquaintance."

19. 钞票再多只不过是金山银山，人情用起来好比天地。

19. No matter how many banknotes you have, they are just like gold mountains and silver mountains. But using people's kindness is as vast as the heavens and the earth.

20. 不吸烟饮酒的人，都很自私。一般不可托终生。

20. People who do not smoke or drink are very selfish. They are generally not trustworthy for a lifetime.

21. 不要真的以为得不到的才是最好的。还不如好好珍惜现在拥有的。

21. Don't really think that what you can't get is the best. It's better to cherish what you have now.

22. 不吸烟饮酒的人，大都是对自已严格要求的人。一般可托终生。凡迷恋酒色财气烟者，一定要小心。

22. People who do not smoke or drink are mostly individuals who impose strict requirements on themselves. They are generally trustworthy for a lifetime. Those who are obsessed with alcohol, women, wealth, status, and tobacco must be cautious.

23. 对人必须诚恳，即使有人欺瞒我于一时，我总能以诚字来感动他，使他心悦诚服。我的处世之道，尽在一个诚字，你们举一反三，方始可以谈交友。

23. One must be sincere with others, for even if someone deceives me for a moment, I can always use sincerity to move them, making them feel convinced and compliant. My way of dealing with the world revolves around the word 'sincerity'. Only when you can apply this principle to various situations can you begin to discuss the art of making friends.

24. 钞票再多只不过是金山银山，人情用起来好比天地……

24. No matter how many banknotes there are, they are just like gold and silver mountains. But using people's good will is like the sky and the earth...

25. 3胆小的男孩一般能成大事。打仗前思后想的，才是帅才。流泪的男人一定有爱心。举棋不定是一种美德。

25. A shy boy is usually capable of achieving great things. The one who thinks twice before going to war is a true leader. A man who sheds tears undoubtedly has a heart full of love. Hesitation is a virtue.

26. 我就是靠两只手，一身胆闯出来的。

26. I made a living with just my two hands and an indomitable spirit.

27. 当你是尿壶（戆大）。

27. When you are a potboy (idiot).

28. 不吸烟饮酒的人，大都是对自已严格要求的人。一般可托终生。凡迷恋“酒色财气烟”者，一定要小心。

28. People who do not smoke or drink are mostly those who are very strict with themselves. They are generally trustworthy for life. Those who are obsessed with "wine, women, money, power, and tobacco" should be cautious.

29. 你个事体我晓得了，我会替你办好的，好！再会！

29. I know about your matter, and I'll take care of it for you. Good! Farewell!

30. 对你吹拍人，最可能背叛你。伤你最深的人，一定是你最爱的人。百分之七十的凶杀案发生于熟人之间。“生虎犹可近，熟人不可亲。”

30. The person who flatters and pampers you is most likely to betray you. The person who wounds you the deepest is definitely the one you love the most. Seventy percent of homicides occur among acquaintances. "It is possible to approach a wild tiger, but not to be close to a familiar person."

31. 记得她的生日，否则有可能下一个生日她跟别人过去了。

31. Remember her birthday, or else there's a possibility that by her next birthday, she might have moved on with someone else.

32. 不要怕被别人利用，人家利用你说明你还有用。

32. Don't be afraid of being exploited by others; if they use you, it means you are still of some use.

33. 事不要做绝，要留有余地。

33. Do not go to extremes in matters, leave some room for flexibility.

34. 钱财用的完，交情吃不光。所以别人存钱，我存交情。

34. Money can run out, but friendship can't be exhausted. Therefore, while others save money, I save friendship.

35. 4爱骂人的人，内心都很恐惧。长角的动物都不是食肉动物。一群人中最安静的人往往最有实力。“动如火掠，不动如山。”

35. Those who often curse have deep-seated fears within them. Animals with horns are not carnivorous. The most silent person in a group is often the most powerful. "Active as a firestorm, still as a mountain."

36. 帮你爱的人买礼物。你赚钱为了什么？而且，一个真正爱你的人是不会乱花你的钱的。

36. Buy gifts for the ones you love. What do you earn money for? Moreover, a person who truly loves you wouldn't squander your money.

37. 记得给她家里打电话，而不是她催着你打。人家老人家将养了几十年的女儿嫁给你，那是你多么大的福分。

37. Remember to call her family instead of waiting for her to remind you. The elders have raised their daughter for decades and now she has become your wife; that is a great blessing for you.

38. 存钱再多不过金山银海，交情用起来好比天地难量！

38. No matter how much money you save, it's no more than a金山银海; when it comes to friendships, they are as invaluable as the heavens and the earth!

39. 头等人，有本事，没脾气；二等人，有本事，有脾气；末等人，没本事，大脾气。

39. The first-class people have talent, no temper; the second-class people have talent, and have a temper; the last-class people have no talent, and have a big temper.

40. 做人有三碗面最难吃：人面、场面、情面。

40. There are three types of faces that are the hardest to eat in life: a person's face, a social occasion's face, and a face of sentiment.

41. 钱财用的完，交情吃不光。所以别人存钱，我存交情。存钱再多不过金山银海，交情用起来好比天地难量！

41. Money can be spent, but friendship cannot. Therefore, while others save money, I save friendships. No matter how much money you save, it's no more than a mountain of gold and silver, but the use of friendships is as vast as the heavens and the earth!

42. 学会帮女人做家务。一个回家就只是躺在沙发上等待老婆开饭的男人，会让婚姻生活淡的比白开水还无味。

42. Learn to help women with housework. A man who comes home and just lies on the sofa waiting for his wife to serve the meal will make the marital life as tasteless as plain water.

43. 偶尔给对方惊喜。爱情不一定常常在激情的最顶端，但是你可以学会制造浪漫。不要让爱情变得空洞无味。

43. Occasionally surprise the other person. Love doesn't always have to be at the peak of passion, but you can learn to create romance. Don't let love become hollow and tasteless.

44. 每月存款折上多几个零不算你有多少钱，花出去多少钱才算你有多少钱。

44. Having a few more zeros in your monthly deposit does not mean you have a lot of money; it's how much you spend that actually determines how much money you have.

45. 做事要做到刀切豆腐两面光。

45. One must handle matters with precision, like cutting tofu so that both sides are smooth and even.

46. 做人不能当刺猬，能不与人结仇就不结，谁都不跟谁一辈子。

46. One should not act like a hedgehog; try not to make enemies if possible, and no one stays with another forever.

47. 在政府眼中就是夜壶，须臾不得离之，方便完了就一脚踹进床下去。

47. In the eyes of the government, it's like a chamber pot, which cannot be left for a moment. After it's used, it's kicked into the bed with a single foot.

48. 原来天底下最狠的不是我姓杜的，而是他姓蒋的（蒋介石）。

48. It turns out that the most ruthless person under the sky is not me, Du, but him, Jiang (Chiang Kai-shek).

49. 你有希望，大家有希望，中国有希望。

49. You have hope, everyone has hope, China has hope.

50. 有了矛盾，立刻解决。否则怨恨会像无底洞，吞噬了你们的感情，难以重合。

50. Conflict should be resolved immediately. Otherwise, resentment will be like a bottomless pit, consuming your feelings and making it difficult to reconcile.

51. 前半夜想想自己，后半夜想想别人。

51. Think about yourself in the first half of the night, and think about others in the second half of the night.

52. 人可以不识字，但不能不识人。

52. A person may not be literate, but they cannot be unaware of people.

53. 6重情之人，难有爱情之幸福。当你说岀爱字，你就处于被动。爱情的真谛是“欲擒故纵”，鲜花大都插在牛粪上。“骏马常驮痴汉走，巧女常伴愚夫眠。”

53. Those who are overly emotional find it difficult to experience happiness in love. When you say the word 'love,' you put yourself in a passive position. The essence of love is 'to catch by releasing,' and most beautiful flowers are often planted on cow dung. 'The handsome horse often carries a foolish man, and the clever woman often sleeps beside a foolish husband.'

54. 如果日本人利用租借打中国人，我杜月笙要在两个小时内把租借全部毁灭！

54. If the Japanese use rented items to beat Chinese people, I Du Yuesheng will destroy all the rentals within two hours!

55. 想她的时候，告诉她。爱她的话，要说出来。她听后也一样的爱你。

55. When you miss her, tell her. If you love her, speak it out. She will love you just as much after hearing it.

56. 杯中酒常满，桌上无虚席。

56. The cup is always full of wine, and there are no empty seats at the table.

57. 牵她的手漫步。两个人走路，不是为了让别人看，是要两个人感觉幸福。因为十指相握是幸福。

57. Hold her hand and stroll. Walking together is not for others to see, but to feel happy together. Because holding hands with each other's fingers is happiness.

58. 挨骂是假的，银子是真的。

58. Getting scolded is false, but getting silver is real.

59. 不好好交我不回浦东去。

59. If you don't behave, I won't take you back to Pudong.

60. 5背叛你的女孩，再侮辱你，一生命保恶有恶报。早年的“班花、校花”，有几个会有晚年的幸福“猛虎别在当道卧，困龙也有上天时。”

60. A girl who betrays you and then insults you will reap evil in return throughout her life. Among the "most beautiful girl in the class" and "most beautiful girl in the school" from our youth, how many will have a happy old age? "A fierce tiger does not lie down on the main road; even a困 dragon has its moment to soar."

61. 重情之人，难有爱情之幸福。当你说岀爱字，你就处于被动。爱情的真谛是“欲擒故纵”，鲜花大都插在牛粪上。“骏马常驮痴汉走，巧女常伴愚夫眠。”

61. People who are emotionally intense often find little happiness in love. When you say the word 'love,' you are putting yourself in a passive position. The essence of love is 'to entice by restraint,' and beautiful flowers are usually planted on cow dung. 'Valiant horses often carry foolish men, clever women often sleep beside ignorant husbands.'

62. 不要认为每个女子都爱钱如命。你赚钱很辛苦，但这个世界上能养活自己的女人比比皆是。

62. Don't assume that every woman is money-oriented. Making money is hard for you, but there are plenty of women in the world who can support themselves.

63. 你工作再忙，也要记得打个电话给你心爱的人，不会花掉你太多时间金钱。因为她在等待，少给她失望。

63. No matter how busy you are with work, remember to make a phone call to your loved one. It won't take up too much of your time or money. Because she is waiting, and you don't want to give her too much disappointment.

64. 沦陷时上海无正义，胜利后上海无公道。

64. Shanghai had no justice during the occupation, and no fairness after the victory.

65. 人活在世上要靠两样东西，胆识和智慧。

65. To live in the world, one relies on two things: courage and wisdom.