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1. 生活是欺骗不了的,一个人要生活得光明磊落。冯雪峰

1. Life cannot be deceived; one must live with integrity. -- Feng Xuefeng

2. 选择朋友要冷静,不可操之过急,断交更要慎重,能对你开怀直言的人,便是你的挚友。-约翰逊

2. Choose friends with calmness, do not rush into it, and be even more cautious when breaking off friendships. The person who can speak openly and freely to you is your true friend. - Johnson

3. 不贵于无过,而贵于能改过。王守仁《改过》

3. It is not more valuable than not making mistakes, but it is more valuable in the ability to correct one's mistakes. -- Wang Shouren, "On Rectifying Mistakes"

4. 42在识别创新思想方面最成功的公司总裁,总是善于同有创新意识的人打交道的,善于倾听他们的意见,包括听来有点古怪的意见。为了获取创新思想,作为公司总裁必须乐于承认和接受由创新思想带来的种种不偷快。-R斯威尼美国管理学家《致未来的总裁们》第33页—斯威尼

4. The most successful company presidents in identifying innovative ideas are always adept at dealing with people who have innovative thinking, good at listening to their opinions, including those that might seem a bit strange. To acquire innovative ideas, as a company president, one must be willing to admit and accept the various unpleasantnesses brought about by innovative ideas. - R. Swiney, American management expert, "To the Future Presidents," page 33—Swiney

5. 挑选朋友要慎重,更换朋友要更慎重。一富兰克林

5. Choose friends carefully, and change friends even more carefully. - Franklin

6. 说端话的人所得到的,就只是即使说了真话也没有人相信。-伊索

6. The person who talks at the end only gets what happens when even if they speak the truth, no one believes them. - Aesop

7. 不能用温情征服对方的人,用殴打也征服不了对方。-契河夫

7. A person who cannot conquer the other with gentleness cannot conquer them with beating either. - Chekhov

8. 清贫,洁白朴素的生活,正是我们**者能够战胜许多困难的地方。方志敏:《可爱的中国》

8. The simple, plain, and poverty-stricken life is exactly where our **fighters can overcome many difficulties. — Fang Zhi敏: "Dear Motherland"

9. 暗中劝戒你的朋友,一定是大庭广众中称签你的朋友。—瓦青

9. It must be your friend who warns you in secret, but publicly points fingers at you. — Wa Qing

10. 对人不尊敬的人,首先就是对自己不尊敬。一陀思妥耶夫斯基

10. He who does not show respect for others first and foremost does not show respect for himself. - Fyodor Dostoevsky

11. 居心要宽,持身要严。清申居郧

11. Be magnanimous in thought, strict in conduct. Qing Shen Ju Yun.

12. 一个人只有物质生活没有精神生活是不行的;而有了充实的**精神生活,就算物质生活差些,就算困难大些,也能忍受和克服。陶铸:《理想·情操·精神生活》

12. It is not enough for a person to have only a material life without a spiritual one; on the other hand, with a rich spiritual life, even if the material life is somewhat worse and the difficulties are greater, one can endure and overcome them. - Tao Zhusi: "Idealism · Emotion · Spiritual Life"

13. 但愿老天爷让我们别交上愚蠢的朋友,因为殷勤过分的蠢才比任何敌人还要危险。--克雷洛夫

13. May the heavens grant us not to have foolish friends, for a too-solicitous fool is more dangerous than any enemy. -- Krylov

14. 我只请求你们一件事:假如你们能活过这个时代,那末不要忘记,不要忘记好人也不要忘记坏人。伏契克:《绞刑架下的报告》

14. I only ask you one thing: if you can survive this era, then do not forget, do not forget the good people nor the bad. —Václav Havel: "Letters from Prison"

15. 玩笑也得看时间和地点;应该严肃的时候,我会严肃得像只驴子。不过人有时候会露马脚,驴子也忍不住喊叫。罗曼·罗兰《哥拉·布勒尼翁》

15. Jokes should be appropriate for the time and place; when it's necessary to be serious, I can be as solemn as an ass. However, people sometimes slip up, and even an ass can't help but shout. Romain Rolland, "Gora del Brennion."

16. 不贪最先,不恐独后。刘安《淮南子》

16. Do not be greedy for being the first, nor fear being the last. From Liu An's "Huai Nan Zi" (Huai Nan Tzu).

17. 自以为聪明的人往往是没有上场的。世界上最聪明的人是最老实的人。因为只有老实人才能经得起事实和历史的考验。周恩来

17. People who think they are smart often don't make an appearance. The smartest people in the world are the most honest. Because only honest people can withstand the test of facts and history. - Zhou Enlai

18. 能够讨每个人喜欢的人是不能令人真正喜欢的。巴尔扎克《人间喜剧》

18. It is impossible to please everyone and be truly liked. From "The Human Comedy" by Balzac.

19. 午经时,我的生命有如一朵花-当春天的轻风来到她的门前气求时,从她的丰盛中款落一两片花瓣,她你从未感到这是损失。现在,韶化已逝,我的生命有如一个果子,己经没有什么东西可以分让,只等待着将她和丰满甜美的全部负担一起委献出发。—泰戈尔

19. At noon, my life is like a flower - when the gentle spring breeze arrives at her door to beg, she gently lets fall a few petals from her abundance, and you never feel that this is a loss. Now, the bloom has passed, my life is like a fruit, with nothing left to offer, only waiting to dedicate its full, ripe, and sweet burden all at once. — Tagore

20. 我们要想实现自己的人生,应该把我们生命中过去与将来间的关系、时间全用在人生方面的活动,不用在兽欲方面的冲动。《李大钊选集》

20. To achieve our own life, we should allocate the relationship between our past and future in life, and all our time to activities in life itself, not to the impulsive desires of beastly passions. — "Selected Works of Li Dazhao"

21. 装饰的华丽可以量示出一个人的富有,优雅可以品示出一个人的趣味,但一个人的健康与在壮则须由另外的标志来识别,只有在一个劳动者的粗布衣服下面,而不是在嬖幸者的穿戴之下,我们才能发现强有力的身躯。-卢梭

21. The splendor of decoration can indicate a person's wealth, and elegance can reveal a person's taste, but a person's health and vigor must be identified by other signs. It is only beneath the rough cloth of a laborer that we can discover a strong physique, not under the attire of a favored one. - Rousseau

22. 认为艺术家的白由在于他想干什麼就干什麼,那麼是错误的。这是胡作非为者。-斯坦尼斯拉夫斯基

22. It is wrong to believe that the freedom of an artist lies in doing whatever they want. This is the behavior of a mischief-maker. - Stanislavsky

23. 一人有任何正当理由信任自己的人,永远不在别人面前炫耀,以使别人信任他。狄更斯《大卫·科波菲尔》

23. A person who has any legitimate reason to trust someone should never炫耀 in front of others to gain their trust. - Charles Dickens, "David Copperfield"

24. 人们努力追求的庸俗的目标-财产、虚荣、奢侈的生活,我总觉得都是可鄙的。爱因斯坦

24. The vulgar goals that people strive for – wealth, vanity, a luxurious life – I always find despicable. – Einstein

25. 自由是做法律所许可的一切事情的权利。孟德斯鸠:《论法的精神》

25. Freedom is the right to do everything that the law allows. Montesquieu: "On the Spirit of the Laws."

26. 清贫,洁白,朴素的生活,正是我们**者能够战胜许多困难的地方!方志敏:《可爱的中国》

26. A life of modesty, purity, and simplicity is exactly where our **advocates** can overcome many difficulties! Fang Zhimin: "Dear China"

27. 有些人因为贪禁,想得更多的东西,却把现在所有的也失掉了。-伊索

27. Some because of greed for more, lose what they have now. - Aesop

28. 和好人交朋友,受到朋友的帮助,自己就随着好了,所谓 “与善人居,如入芝兰之室,久而不闻其香”:与坏人交朋友,受到朋友的侵蚀,自己就随着坏了,所滑“与不善人居,如入鲍鱼之肆,久而不闻其臭”。所以我们要知道“择交”;要交“益友”,不交“损友”。-谢觉哉

28. Making good friends brings help from them, and as a result, one becomes good oneself. As the saying goes, "Living with the good is like entering a room filled with orchids, and after a while, one no longer notices the scent." Conversely, associating with bad people leads to their influence, and one becomes bad too, as the saying goes, "Living with the bad is like entering a shop filled with stinky fish, and after a while, one no longer notices the odor." Therefore, we need to understand the importance of "choosing our companions." We should make friends with those who benefit us, and not with those who harm us." - Xie Juezhai

29. 民,吾同胞;物,吾与也。张载《正蒙·乾称》

29. People are my compatriots; things are my companions. Zhang Zai, "Zheng Meng · Qian Cheng"

30. 在这个世界上,尽如人意的事是并不多的。咱们既活着做人,就只能迁就咱们所处的实际环境,凡事忍耐些。泰戈尔《沉船》

30. In this world, there are not many things that go exactly as one wishes. Since we are alive and human, we can only accommodate the actual environment we are in, and endure everything with patience. Tagore, "The Homecoming"

31. 无愧于事,不如无愧于身;无愧于身,不如无愧于心。清-石成金《传家宝》为人处世最要紧的是问心无愧。-石成金

31. It is better not to be ashamed of one's actions than not to be ashamed of one's body; and it is better not to be ashamed of one's body than not to be ashamed of one's heart. The most important thing in dealing with people and the world is to have no regrets in one's heart. - Shi Chengjin, Qing Dynasty, "Treasure of the Family"

32. 反谊,好比一瓶酒,封存的时间越长,价值则越高;而一旦封,还够一个酒。-梁晓声

32. Friendship is like a bottle of wine; the longer it is sealed, the higher its value; and once sealed, it is enough for one person to drink. - Liang Xiaosheng

33. 友谊往往是由一种两个人比一个人更容易实现的共同利益结成的,只有在相互满足时这种关系才是纯洁的。-斯持林堡

33. Friendship is often formed by a common interest that is easier to achieve between two people than between one person, and this relationship is pure only when it satisfies both parties. - Sterling堡

34. 天下作伪是最苦恼的事情,老老实实是最愉快的事情。《韬奋文集》

34. The most distressing thing in the world is to be deceitful, and the most pleasant thing is to be honest and straightforward. - From the Collection of Tao Fen's Writings

35. 礼之用,和为贵。《论语·学而》

35. The use of propriety is characterized by harmony, which is the most important. — From the Analects, Chapter X, Verse 1

36. 老吾老,以及人之老;幼吾幼,以及人之幼。《孟子·梁惠王上》

36. Respect the elderly as you would respect your own parents; care for the young as you would care for your own children. — From the "Mencius · King Hui of Liang"

37. 平生不做皱眉事,世上应无切齿人。明;冯梦龙 《警世通言-崔待沼生死冤家》皱眉事:指坏事。切齿人:指瘠恨到极点的人。自己不做伤天害理的事,就不会有憎恨你的。-冯梦龙

37. If one never does anything to皱眉事, there should be no one in the world who can切齿 at you. Ming; Feng Menglong, "Jing Shi Tong Yan - Cui Dai Zao Sheng Si Yuan Jia" (Warning Words: A Collection of Anecdotes - The Life and Death Enemies of Cui Dai Zao). 皱眉事: refers to evil deeds. 切齿人: refers to someone who is extremely resentful. If one does not do anything that offends heaven and earth, there will be no one who hates you. - Feng Menglong

38. 自以为聪明的人往往是没有好下场的。世界上最聪明的人是最老实的人,因为只有老实人才能经得起事实和历史的考验。-周恩来

38. People who think they are clever often do not have a good ending. The most intelligent people in the world are the most honest, because only honest people can withstand the test of facts and history. - Zhou Enlai

39. 要想得到别人的友道,自己就得先向别人表示友好。—爱默生

39. To win others' friendship, one must first show friendliness towards them. – Emerson

40. 不要过分的醉心于放任自由,一点也不加以限制的自由,它的害处与危险实在不少。《克雷洛夫寓言》

40. Do not become excessively infatuated with the idea of absolute freedom, where there are no limitations at all. Such freedom has numerous drawbacks and dangers. "Krylov's Fables"

41. 一个人总是要把自己的爱寄托在什么人身上,虽然有时他的爱会使人苦恼,会玷污人,也还有人可能会用自己的爱使亲人烦得要命,因为当他爱的时候,没有尊重被爱的人。高尔基《二十六个和一个》

41. A person always has to place their love in someone, even though sometimes their love may cause them distress, tarnish someone, or even make their loved ones extremely annoyed with their affection, because when they love, they do not respect the person they love. Gorky, "Twenty-Six and One"

42. 不要急于谴责人吧!谴责人是极容易的事,您不要专门去谴责。要冷静地观察一切,要记住:一切都会过去的,一切都会变好的。高尔基《我的大学》

42. Do not be hasty to condemn others! It is very easy to condemn, but do not make it your specialty. Observe everything calmly, and remember: everything will pass, and everything will get better. – Maxim Gorky, "My University"

43. 奢侈的必然后果风化的解体,反过来又引起了趣味的腐化。—卢梭

43. The inevitable consequence of luxury is the dissolution of manners, which in turn leads to the corruption of taste. — Rousseau

44. 人生的快乐和幸福不在金钱,不在爱情,而在真理。即使你想得到的是一种动物式的幸福,生活反正不会任你一边酗酒,一边幸福的,它会时时刻刻猝不及防地给你打击。-契河夫

44. The happiness and bliss of life are not in money, not in love, but in truth. Even if what you seek is an animalistic kind of happiness, life will not allow you to be happy while indulging in drunkenness, it will strike you unprepared at every moment. - Chekhov

45. 二人同心,其利断金。《周易·系辞上》

45. "If two hearts are in agreement, their power can cut through metal." — From the Book of Changes (I Ching) · Xi Ci (Above)

46. 金钱的贪求(这个毛病,目前我们大家都卫得很凶) 和享示的贪求,促使我们成为它们的双素,也可以说把我们整个身心投入深说。唯利是图,是一种癌疾,使人卑都,但会求享乐,更是一种使人极端无耻,不可教药的毛病。-郎加魶斯

46. The greed for money (this fault, which we all fiercely defend at the moment) and the desire for enjoyment, drive us to become their slaves, or we could say, it absorbs our entire mind and body deeply. Greed for profit is a cancer, which makes people卑鄙, but it also seeks pleasure; it is an even more extreme fault that makes people shameless and incurable. - Long Jiasu

47. 人而不仁,如礼何?人而不仁,如乐何?《论语·八佾(yì)》

47. If a person has no benevolence, what is the use of rites? If a person has no benevolence, what is the use of music? — From the Analects of Confucius, Chapter "The Eight Horses"

48. 享有极端的自由这是一件危险的和有害的事情。没有纪律,就既不会有平心静气的信念,也不能有服从,也不会有保护健康和预防危险的方法了。赫尔岑

48. Enjoying extreme freedom is a dangerous and harmful thing. Without discipline, there will be neither calm belief nor obedience, nor methods for protecting health and preventing danger. Herzen

49. 无论做什么事情,都不得不要着急。不管发生什么事,都要冷静、沉着。狄更斯《荒凉山庄》

49. No matter what you do, you can't help but feel anxious. No matter what happens, you must remain calm and composed. Charles Dickens, "Bleak House"

50. 交浅言深,君子所戒。苏轼《上神宗皇帝书》

50. When one's relationship is superficial yet one speaks deeply, this is something that a gentleman should be wary of. — Su Shi, "Letter to Emperor Shenzong"

51. 利已的人最先灭亡。他自己活着,并且为自己而生活。如果他的这个我被损坏了,那他就无法生存了。《奥斯特洛夫斯基两卷集》

51. The selfish man is the first to perish. He lives for himself and by himself. If this 'me' of his is damaged, he cannot survive. "A Two-Volume Collection of Ostrovsky"

52. 在世上所有的手法里面,奉承是最巧妙、最狡猾的一种。巴尔扎克《乡村医生》

52. Among all the techniques in the world, flattery is the most cunning and sly. Balzac, "The Country Doctor."

53. 对于我来说,生命的意义在于设身处地青别人着想,优他人之优,乐他人之乐。-爱因斯坦

53. To me, the meaning of life lies in considering others' needs from their perspective, desiring their happiness, and rejoicing in their joy. - Einstein

54. 不要过分的醉心放任自由,一点也不加以限制的自由,它的害处与危险实在不少。-克雷洛夫

54. Do not become excessively醉心于absolute freedom, for there are many harms and dangers associated with freedom that is not at all restricted. - Krylov

55. 利己的人最先灭亡。他自己活著,并且为自己而生活。如果他的这个“我”被损坏了,那他就无法生存了。—奥斯特洛夫斯基

55. The egotist is the first to perish. He lives for himself and lives to live for himself. If this 'I' of his is damaged, he can no longer survive. — A. Ostrovsky

56. 君子之交淡若水,小人之交甘若醴。君子淡以亲,小人甘以绝。《庄子·山木》

56. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, while that of the common folk is as sweet as wine. Gentlemen's lightness is a sign of intimacy, while the common folk's sweetness is a sign of severance. — Zhuangzi: The Wood of the Mountain

57. 不要对一切人都以不信任的眼光看待,但要谨慎而坚定。德谟克里特

57. Do not look upon everyone with distrust, but be cautious and firm. - Democritus

58. 我们要避免我们的义务与我们的利益发生冲突,避免从别人的灾难中企望自己的幸福。-占梭

58. We must avoid conflicts between our obligations and our interests, and avoid hoping for our own happiness from others' disasters. - Zhan Suo

59. 经常谈论别人的短处只会使一个人心胸狭窄,使一个人变得非常多疑,非常无聊。泰戈尔《沉船》

59. Constantly talking about others' shortcomings will only make a person narrow-minded, extremely suspicious, and extremely boring. (From Tagore's "The Homecoming")

60. 毅力、勤奋、忘我投身于工作的人。诚实和勤勉,应该成为你永久的伴侣。-富兰克林

60. A person of perseverance, diligence, and selfless dedication to work. Honesty and diligence should become your permanent companions. - Franklin

61. 以爱己之心爱人,则尽仁。张载《正蒙·中正》

61. To love others with the same heart you love yourself is to fulfill benevolence. (This is from Zhang Zai's "Zhen Meng·Zhong Zheng")

62. 为着阶级和民族的解放,为着党的事业的成功,我毫不希罕那华丽的大厦,却宁愿居住在卑陋潮湿的茅棚;不希罕美味的西餐大菜,宁愿吞嚼刺口的崐苞粟和菜根;不希罕舒服柔软的钢丝床,宁愿睡在猪栏狗窠似的住所!方志敏:《可爱的中国》

62. For the liberation of the class and the nation, for the success of the Party's cause, I do not value the magnificent buildings at all; I would rather live in humble, damp huts. I do not desire delicious Western cuisine; I would rather chew on the bitter sorghum and roots. I do not yearn for comfortable, soft钢丝 beds; I would rather sleep in dwellings as squalid as pigsties and dog dens! - Fang Zhimin: "Dear China"

63. 诚无垢,思无辱。刘向

63. With sincerity without blemish, and thoughts without disgrace. Liu Xiang.

64. 持心如衡,以理为平。刘基

64. Maintain a steady heart, and use reason as a balance. Liu Ji

65. 过而不能知,是不智也;知而不能改,是不勇也。李觏《易论第九》

65. It is unwise to pass by without knowing; it is cowardly to know but not to change. (From Li Gu's "On Changes, Chapter Nine")

66. 爱人者,人恒爱之;敬人者,人恒敬之。《孟子·离娄下》

66. If you love others, they will love you in return; if you respect others, they will respect you in return. (Mencius, Book of Li Lou, Chapter 2)

67. 持身贵严,处世贵谦。王永彬

67. It is important to maintain dignity and seriousness in one's own conduct, and to be humble in one's interactions with others. - Wang Yongbin

68. 滴水穿石,不是力量大,而是功夫深;成绩优良,不是天资高,而是辛勤学。-新格言

68. Water drips can wear away stone, not because of great strength, but due to deep and persistent effort; excellent achievements are not due to high intelligence, but to hard and diligent study. - New Proverb

69. 不能用温情征服对方的人,用殴打也征服不了对方。-契夫

69. A person who cannot conquer others with affection cannot conquer them with beating either. - Chekhov

70. 闻过则喜,知过不讳,改过不惮。陆九渊《与傅全美》

70. Rejoice when you hear of your faults, be unafraid to acknowledge them, and not fear to correct them. — Lu Jiuyuan, "To Fu Quanmei"

71. 世间最好的东西,莫过于有几个头脑和心地都很正直的严正的朋友。-爱因斯坦

71. The best thing in the world is to have several firm friends who are very upright in their minds and hearts. - Einstein

72. 一个人不应该与被财富毁了的人交接来往--居里夫人

72. One should not associate with a person who has been destroyed by wealth -- Madame Curie.

73. 你们不见美貌的青年穿戴地分反而损了他们的美么?你不见山村妇女,穿着朴质无华的衣服反比盛装的妇女美得多么?达·芬奇

73. Have you not seen that handsome young men, dressed in fine clothing, actually detract from their beauty? And have you not seen that mountain village women, in their simple, unadorned clothes, are more beautiful than those dressed in finery? Da Vinci.

74. 单者易折,众则难摧。崔鸿《三十国春秋·西秦录》

74. The single is easy to break, but the many are hard to crush. Cui Hong, "The Spring and Autumn of Thirty States · Records of Western Qin."

75. 一生肝胆向人尽。唐顾况 《行路难》为人处世,应兰肝胆相照。-顾况

75. Devoted to others with all my heart and courage throughout my life. Tang Dynasty, Gu Kuang's poem "Difficulties on the Road" - in dealing with people and the world, one should treat others with sincerity and courage. - Gu Kuang

76. 一个精神生活很充实的人,一定是顾和园很有埋想的人,一定是—个很高尚的人,一定是一个只做物质的主人而不做物质的奴事的人。-陶铸

76. A person rich in spiritual life must be someone who is very imaginative about Guhe Yuan, must be a very noble person, and must be someone who is the master of material things rather than their slave. - Tao Zhusong

77. 每一个人身上都有一个傻子和一个骗子:傻子就是人的情感,骗子就是人的智慧。情感之所以愚蠢是由于它直率、真实、不会装模作样;可是不装模作样又怎能生活下去呢?高尔基《因为烦闷无聊》

77. Every person has a fool and a fraud within them: the fool is the human emotion, and the fraud is human wisdom. Emotion is foolish because it is straightforward, honest, and does not pretend; yet how can one live without pretense? Gorky, "Because of Boredom and Idleness"

78. 千人同心,则得千人力;万人异心,则无一人之用。《淮南子·兵略训》

78. If a thousand people are united in thought, they will possess the power of a thousand. But if ten thousand people are divided in purpose, not a single one will be of use. — Huai Nan Zi · Strategy of War

79. 亲仁善邻,国之宝也。《左传·隐公六年》

79. To be kind to one's neighbors and maintain good relations with them is a treasure of the state. — Zuozhuan (The Spring and Autumn Annals of the State of Lu) Chapter 6 of the Hidden Lord.