1. 现实就是看穿但不说穿，很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了，没必要说出来。

1. Reality is seeing through but not saying through. For many things, as long as you have it in mind, it's unnecessary to voice it out.

2. 成长就是，从前你难过的时候，油盐不进，茶饭不思，现在能一边流泪一边去厨房给自己下碗面，还不忘加俩荷包蛋。

2. Growth is about, from before when you were sad, unable to take in food or drink, now you can cry while going to the kitchen to make yourself a bowl of noodles and even remember to add two eggs.

3. 有些事知道了就好，不必多说。有些人认识了就好，不必深交。有时我也会难过，只是骄傲不让我说。

3. Some things are better left unsaid. Some people are better left as acquaintances. Sometimes I feel sad too, but pride doesn't let me express it.

4. 11不要太依赖朋友，人性基本都有恶的一面。

4. 11 Don't be too dependent on friends, as human nature generally has an evil side.

5. 敬往事个屁酒，该敬的是那个勇敢的自己，那个遭受了所有失望和背叛后，依然踌躇满志，敢爱敢恨的自己。

5. Toasting to the past is nonsense, what should be toasted is the brave self, the one who, after experiencing all the disappointments and betrayals, still remains confident, daring to love and hate.

6. 道理都懂，但该怨的还是会怨，该骂的还是会骂，该哭的也还是会哭，毕竟心里的难受不是道理所能释怀的。

6. We all understand the道理, but there will still be complaints where there should be, and there will still be骂 where there should be, and there will still be crying where there should be. After all, the pain in the heart cannot be comforted by reason.

7. 幸福就是痒的时候挠一下，不幸就是痒了但挠不着，更不幸的是，很久都没痒了。

7. Happiness is scratching an itchy spot, misfortune is when you're itchy but can't scratch, and the worst misfortune is when you haven't been itchy for a long time.

8. 13信心，毅力，勇气三者具备，则天下没有做不成的事。

8. With faith, perseverance, and courage, there is nothing in the world that cannot be accomplished.

9. 看淡一点再努力一点，这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。

9. Take things lightly and strive a bit more. In this world, no one lives an easier life than another; some people are shouting to the heavens, while others are silently persevering.

10. 最让你无奈的，是在经历了那么多痛苦，犯过那么多错误之后，你还没变成你所说得更好的自己。

10. What is most frustrating for you is that, after experiencing so much pain and making so many mistakes, you have not become the better person you claim to be.

11. 大千世界，人生百态。如何面对人生，是快乐，是悲伤不能让你的人生去决定，也不是任由命运摆布着你，应该自己把握!

11. In the vast world, there are myriad ways of life. How to face life, whether it is happiness or sadness, should not be left to determine your life, nor should you let fate control you. You should take charge of it yourself!

12. 成熟不是心变老，而是装逼的次数越来越少；成熟也不是越来越会说话，而是慢慢懂得了沉默。

12. Maturity is not about the heart getting old, but about the decreasing frequency of showing off; maturity is also not about becoming more eloquent, but about gradually understanding the value of silence.

13. 人生像攀登一座山，而找寻出路，却是一种学习的过程，我们应当在这过程中，学习稳定、冷静，学习如何从慌乱中找到生机。席慕蓉

13. Life is like climbing a mountain, and finding a way out is a process of learning. In this process, we should learn to be stable and calm, and learn how to find vitality from chaos. - Xi Murong

14. 28当所有人都拿我当回事的时候，我不能太拿自己当回事。当所有人都不拿我当回事的时，我一定得瞧得上自己。这就是淡定，这就是从容。

14. When everyone takes me seriously, I cannot take myself too seriously. When no one takes me seriously, I must hold myself in high regard. This is composure, this is ease.

15. 懒惰象生锈一样，比操劳更能消耗身体;经常用的钥匙，总是亮闪闪的。富兰克林

15. "Laziness, like rust, consumes more than work; the key that is always in use is always bright and shiny." - Franklin

16. 人生的旅途，前途很远，也很暗。然而不要怕，不怕的人的面前才有路。鲁迅

16. The journey of life is far and dark. However, do not be afraid, for it is the fearless who find the path ahead. -- Lu Xun

17. 伟人之所以伟大，是因为他与别人共处逆境时，别人失去了信心，他却下决心实现自己的目标。

17. The greatness of a great person lies in the fact that when others lose confidence in the face of adversity, he resolves to achieve his goals.

18. 有些事，就是不值得被原谅，跟大不大度没有关系；各有各的底线，做错了，就应该考虑为自己的错误付出代价。

18. There are things that are not worthy of forgiveness, and it has nothing to do with how magnanimous one is; everyone has their own bottom line, and if you make a mistake, you should consider paying the price for your own mistake.

19. 10孝顺父母。不只是嘴上说说，即使多打几个电话也是很好的。

19. 10 Respect and care for your parents. It's not just about talking about it; even making a few more phone calls is a good thing.

20. 18待人退一步，爱人宽一寸，人生自然活得很快乐。

20. Give others a step back and show love by being lenient an inch, and life will naturally be very happy.

21. 我们对年龄的恐惧，其实并不在于年龄增长所带来的苍老，而是恐惧随着年龄的增长，我们仍然一无所得。

21. Our fear of aging is not actually about the physical wear and tear that comes with growing older, but rather the fear that as we age, we will still have achieved nothing.

22. 你若无动于衷，我也不灰心丧气。直到有一天我不愿再这般爱你，那就让我们一别两宽，各生欢喜。

22. If you remain unmoved, I will not be disheartened either. Until the day comes when I no longer wish to love you in this way, let us part ways amicably, each finding joy in our own lives.

23. 万物皆有裂痕，没有什么是完美的，宁愿花时间修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间期待完美的别人。

23. All things have cracks, nothing is perfect. It's better to spend time cultivating the imperfect self than to waste time waiting for the perfect others.

24. 21一个缺口的杯子，如果换一个角度看它，它仍然是圆的。

24. A cup with a 21-inch gap, if you look at it from a different angle, it is still round.

25. 5女生只有在自己喜欢的男生面前可以变成女生，其他时候必须像个爷们儿一样去奋斗!

25. The 5 girls can only be girls in front of the boys they like, and must act like men and fight hard at other times!

26. 32沿着前方行走，收获就在路上，经历了，就懂了，即使前方路尽了，莫固执涉险，也许转个弯，就能迎来美好明天。

26. 32 Walk along the path ahead, the harvest is on the road. Once experienced, you will understand. Even if the path ahead is exhausted, do not stubbornly take risks. Perhaps a turn will lead to a beautiful tomorrow.

27. 别因为落入了一把牛毛就把一锅奶油泼掉，别因为犯了一点错误就把一生的事业扔掉。蒙古

27. Don't throw away a pot of cream because you've fallen into a tuft of cow hair, and don't discard a lifetime of work because of a small mistake. Mongolia

28. 任何一件事情，只要心甘情愿，总是能够变得简单。

28. Any task, as long as one is willing, can always be made simple.

29. 你要和我计较，我绝对不会大方。你要特别慷慨，我绝对比你敞亮。你心换我心，真心对真心。

29. If you want to argue with me, I will never be generous. If you are particularly generous, I will definitely be more open-minded than you. You give me your heart, and I will reciprocate with sincerity.

30. 人生就像不停在用的铅笔，开始很尖，但慢慢地就磨得圆滑了。不过，太过圆滑了也不好，那就意味着差不多该挨削了。

30. Life is like a pencil that is constantly being used; it starts out sharp but gradually becomes smooth and rounded. However, being too smooth is also not good, which means it's about time to be sharpened.

31. 你想成为幸福的人吗但愿你产生学会吃得起苦。屠格涅夫

31. Do you want to become a happy person? May you learn to endure hardship. — Turgenev

32. 22距离常生美，无间的亲密只会令双方窒息，无论朋友还是爱人，别爱的太近。爱的艺术就像风筝，只有给它风一般的自由，你才会看到它飞舞在蓝天的景致。

32. 22 Distance is the essence of beauty; too close an intimacy can suffocate both parties, whether it's between friends or lovers. Don't love too closely. The art of love is like a kite; only by giving it the freedom of the wind, will you see it dance gracefully against the backdrop of the blue sky.

33. 6你跌跌撞撞，落得一身的伤，就当是为青春，画下的残妆。

33.6 You stumble and fall, leaving injuries all over, as if it were the残妆 of youth painted on for the years of youth.

34. 所谓暖男的定义，他只温暖你一个人。对别人冷若冰霜，这才是暖男，暖一堆人的那叫中央空调。

34. The definition of a "warm man" is that he only warms you up. Being cold to others is what makes him a "warm man"; the one who warms up a group of people is called a "central air conditioner."

35. 当时间消磨掉了你的热情，你便会发现，那些曾令你歇斯底里的去执著的人，现已变得可有可无。

35. As time wears away your passion, you will find that those who once made you fanatically obsessed are now mere optional company.

36. 你说话的方式，体现了你的情商和修养，气不和时少说话，有言必失；心不顺时莫做事，做事必败。

36. The way you speak reflects your emotional intelligence and character. When you are not in harmony, it's better to say less, as you are bound to say something inappropriate. And when you are not in a good mood, it's not advisable to do anything, as your endeavors are likely to fail.

37. 永远记住：上天只会安排的快乐的结局。如果不快乐，说明还不是最后结局。

37. Always remember: the heavens only arrange for happy endings. If you're not happy, it means it's not the final outcome yet.

38. 9世间成事，不求其绝对圆满，留一份不足，可得无限美好。

38. In the world, when accomplishing things, one does not seek absolute perfection; leave a bit of imperfection, and you can enjoy infinite beauty.

39. 人到了晚上都是感性的动物，会想很多事，而且多半是痛苦的，这种情绪控制不住，轻轻一碰就痛。

39. People are emotional creatures at night, thinking about many things, mostly painful ones. This emotion is uncontrollable and can be painful at the slightest touch.

40. 信任就是一把刀，你给了别人，他就有两个选择，捅你或者保护你，太看重感情的人就是这样，容易满足，更容易受伤。

40. Trust is a knife; once you give it to someone, they have two choices: to stab you or to protect you. Those who place too much emphasis on emotions are like this; they are easily satisfied but also easily hurt.

41. 15要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，对人要真诚。

41. Be happy, be cheerful, be tenacious, be warm, and be sincere to people.

42. 16不要想着依靠别人，要有目标有追求，这与年龄无关。

42. Don't think about depending on others, have goals and aspirations, which have nothing to do with age.

43. 12只要能执着远大的理想，且有不达目的绝不终止的意愿，便能产生惊人的力量。

43. 12 As long as one can persist in pursuing a grand ideal and is willing to never stop until the goal is achieved, one can generate astonishing power.

44. 夫学须志也，才须学也，非学无以广才，非志无以成学。诸葛亮

44. "For learning, one must have a purpose; for talent, one must have learning. Without learning, one cannot broaden one's talents; without purpose, one cannot accomplish learning." — Zhuge Liang

45. 腾不出时间来睡觉的人，迟早会腾出时间来生病；腾不出时间来恋爱的人，迟早会腾出时间来相亲。

45. People who cannot spare time for sleep will eventually find time to get sick; those who cannot allocate time for romance will sooner or later find time for blind dates.

46. 看穿但不说穿，很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了，没必要说出来。

46. See through but don't say it out loud. Many things, as long as you have it in mind, are enough; there's no need to bring them up.

47. 想要别人照顾你的感受，就别万事都迁就别人的感受，守得住自己的底线，才能换得来别人的尊重。

47. If you want others to care about your feelings, don't always accommodate their feelings. Only by holding onto your own bottom line can you earn the respect of others.

48. 只是，窗外的世界，窗外的繁华，不属于我。孤寂的角落里，我才能积蓄一丝温度，只是静静的守望，苦苦的等待。

48. However, the world outside the window, the bustle outside, does not belong to me. It is in the lonely corner that I can accumulate a bit of warmth, just silently guarding, and eagerly waiting.

49. 改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤的心就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事。

49. If there's something you can't change, don't worry too much about it. If there's someone you can't hold on to, try to learn to let go. If your heart is hurt, try to heal it yourself as best as you can. Apart from life and death, everything else is trivial.

50. 别为当初的誓言耿耿于怀了，承诺的时刻一定是真的，只是后来太多意外，谁都想不到会分开。

50. Stop dwelling on the oaths made in the past. The moment of commitment was truly sincere. It was just that too many unexpected things happened later, and no one could have imagined that we would end up separating.

51. 夫志当存高远，慕先贤，绝情欲，弃疑滞，使庶几之志，揭然有所存，恻然有所感;忍屈伸，去细碎，广咨问，除嫌吝，虽有淹留，何损于美趣，何患于不济。若志不强毅，意不慷慨，徒碌碌滞于俗，默默束于情，永窜伏于平庸，不免于下流矣。诸葛亮

51. One's aspirations should be lofty and far-reaching, aspiring to the virtue of the ancients, overcoming desires, shedding doubts, so that one's noble aspirations may be clearly evident, and one may feel deeply moved. One should endure both success and failure, discard trivial matters, seek widely for advice, eliminate suspicions and miserliness. Even if one is temporarily delayed, what harm is there to one's refined interests, and what need to worry about failure? If one's resolve is not strong and determined, and one's spirit is not generous and magnanimous, one will merely waste one's time in the trivialities of the world, be silently bound by emotions, and forever dwell in mediocrity, inevitably descending into the lowly. -- Zhuge Liang

52. 这一生总有很多事让人感觉无能为力，比如努力了还是上不去的成绩，比如用心了还是得不到的你。

52. There are always many things in this life that make us feel helpless, like trying hard but still not being able to improve a poor grade, or putting your heart into something but still not getting what you want.

53. 趁着年轻，当你爱上一个人的时候，尽管去爱吧，有一天，你会发现，你再也无法这样不顾一切地爱一个人了。

53. While you are young, when you fall in love with someone, go ahead and love without reservation. One day, you will find that you can no longer love someone so passionately without a care in the world.

54. 别接受一开始就死缠烂打追你的人，真正的喜欢，都是小心翼翼，仔细斟酌，是想触碰却又缩回去的手。

54. Don't accept someone who persists in chasing you from the very beginning. True affection is always cautious, carefully considered, like a hand that wants to touch but then withdraws.

55. 立场再坚定，力量很渺小，有时候也只能被牵着走。

55. No matter how firm one's stance is, the power is small, and sometimes one can only be led along.

56. 不管发生什么事，都请安静且愉快地接受人生，勇敢地、大胆地，而且永远地微笑着。卢森堡

56. No matter what happens, please accept life quietly and happily, bravely, boldly, and forever smiling. Luxembourg

57. 人类的希望像是一颗永恒的星，乌云掩不住它的光芒。特别是在今天，和平不是一个理想，一个梦，它是万人的愿望。巴金

57. The hope of humanity is like a star that shines forever, its light cannot be obscured by clouds. Especially today, peace is not an ideal or a dream, it is the wish of all people. Ba Jin.

58. 我的世界不允许你的消失，不管结局是否完美。

58. My world does not allow your disappearance, regardless of whether the ending is perfect.

59. 4青春的逝去并不可怕，可怕的是失去了勇敢地热爱生活的心。

59. The loss of youth is not可怕, what is可怕的 is losing the heart to bravely love life.

60. 成长就是，从前我难过的时候，油盐不进，茶饭不思；现在，能一边流泪一边去厨房给自己下碗面，还不忘加俩荷包蛋。

60. Growth is about, in the past, when I was sad, I couldn't take in food or salt, couldn't think about tea or rice; now, I can make a bowl of noodles for myself in the kitchen while shedding tears, and I still remember to add two eggs.

61. 一个有坚强心志的人，财产可以被人掠夺，勇气却不会被人剥夺的。雨果

61. A person with a strong will can have their property taken away, but their courage will never be robbed. - Hugo

62. 放弃并不是心血来潮，各种失望累积在一起，最终在沉默中爆发，没有声音没有吵闹，就这么静悄悄的放弃了。

62. Giving up is not a spur-of-the-moment decision; it's the accumulation of various disappointments that finally burst forth in silence, with no voice, no noise, and just like that, it quietly gave up.

63. 别为当初的誓言耿耿于怀，承诺的时刻一定是真的，只是后来太多意外，谁都想不到会分开，努力吧，你优秀了自然有对的人与你并肩。

63. Don't hold on to the promises you made in the past, the moment of commitment was indeed true. It's just that later on, there were too many unexpected events, and no one could have thought that we would part ways. Keep striving, and when you become outstanding, there will naturally be the right person by your side.

64. 29生活平平淡淡，早起与家人互道早安；父母健康长寿，尽量天天见面；孩子聪明可爱，每天亲亲小脸；夫妻恩爱有加，一生把手相牵；生活无需复杂，幸福就是如此简单。

64. 29 A simple and ordinary life, greeting each other with good morning to family members early in the morning; healthy and long-lived parents, trying to see them every day; clever and adorable children, kissing their little faces every day; loving and caring couple, holding hands all our lives; life doesn't need to be complicated, happiness is just this simple.

65. 19每件事情都必须有一个期限，否则，大多数人都会有多少时间就花掉多少时间。

65. Every task must have a deadline, otherwise, most people would spend as much time as they have.

66. 所有人和事，自己问心无愧就好，不是你的也别强求，反正离去的，都是风景，留下的，才是人生。?>

66. For all people and things, as long as you have no regrets in your heart, that's enough. Don't strive for what is not yours either. After all, those who leave are part of the scenery, while those who remain are part of life.

67. 31社会上要想分出层次，只有一个办法，那就是竞争，你必须努力，否则结局就是被压在社会的底层。

67. 31 In order to differentiate between social strata, there is only one way, which is competition. You must strive hard, otherwise the outcome will be that you are pushed to the bottom of the social strata.

68. 告别一定要用力一点，因为任何多看一眼，都有可能成为最后一眼，多说一句，都可能是最后一句。

68. Goodbyes should be a bit more forceful, because every extra glance might turn out to be the last, and every additional word might be the last one spoken.

69. 以前总以为，人生最美好的是相遇。后来才明白，其实难得的是重逢。如果说相遇是久别重逢，希望我们别来无恙。

69. I used to think that the best thing in life was to meet someone. But later on, I realized that what is really rare is to meet again. If meeting is like a long time apart and then meeting again, I hope we are both doing well without any harm.

70. 时间并不会真的帮我们去解决什么问题，它只是会把原来怎么也想不通的问题，变得不再重要了。

70. Time does not really help us solve any problems; it merely makes the issues that we once couldn't understand seem no longer important.

71. 3没有人会关心你付出过多少努力，撑得累不累，摔的痛不痛，他们只会看你最后站在什么位置，然后羡慕嫉妒恨

71. 3 No one cares how much effort you've put in, how tired or sore you are from struggling, or how painful your falls are. They only see where you end up standing, and then feel envious, jealous, and resentful.

72. 做人也要像蜡烛一样，在有限的一生中有一分热发一分光，给人以光明，给人以温暖。萧楚女

72. A person should also be like a candle, in the limited span of one's life, to emit a bit of heat and light, to bring people light and warmth. -- Xiao Chuxiu

73. 不要在喝醉时联系任何人，不要在晚上做任何决定，矫情的话尽量憋在心里，天亮了，你会庆幸当时没有说出口。

73. Do not contact anyone when you are drunk, do not make any decisions at night, and try to keep sentimental words to yourself. When the day breaks, you will be grateful that you didn't say them out loud.

74. 人生道路千条万条，但最后所走的，只有一条。每个人的生活都是不同的，但都要经历风雨。

74. There are ten thousand and ten thousand paths in life, but only one path is taken in the end. Each person's life is different, but everyone has to go through storms and rain.

75. 每一个人要有做一代豪杰的雄心斗志!应当做个开创一代的人。周恩来

75. Every person should have the ambition and determination to be a hero of the generation! One should strive to be a pioneer of a new era. Zhou Enlai

76. 你以为人生最糟糕的事情是失去了最爱的人，其实最糟糕的事情是，你因为太爱一个人，而失去了自己。

76. You think the worst thing in life is losing the one you love the most, but actually, the worst thing is losing yourself because you love someone too much.

77. 我们可以对爱情失望，但是不可以因为失望就不再去爱。人要相信世界上美好的事物永远存在，真挚的爱情永不磨灭。给自己勇气，给自己的生活增添色彩。

77. We can be disappointed in love, but we must not stop loving because of disappointment. One should believe that beautiful things in the world always exist, and true love is never eroded. Give yourself courage, and add color to your life.

78. 瓜是长大在营养肥料里的最甜，天才是长在恶性土壤中的最好。培根

78. Melons are the sweetest when grown in nutrient-rich fertilizers, and geniuses are the best when nurtured in the worst soil. Bacon.

79. 一个人如果不到最高峰，他就没有片刻的安宁，他也就不会感到生命的恬静和光荣。肖伯纳

79. A person has no moment of peace if they do not reach the peak, and they will also not feel the tranquility and glory of life. - George Bernard Shaw

80. 不是每一次努力都会有收获，但是，每一次收获都必须努力，这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。

80. Not every effort will result in a harvest, but every harvest requires effort. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.

81. 你之所以一边埋怨自己，一边又安于现状，是因为你还没走到无路可走的时候。真正的选择，是别无选择！

81. The reason you are complaining about yourself while being complacent with the current situation is because you haven't reached a point where there is no way out. The real choice is when there is no other choice!

82. 长大后才发现，有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。

82. It was only after growing up that I realized that sometimes, when you tell the truth, you have to apologize as well, because you've exposed the truth. So to live smoothly, always keep your brain with you.

83. 30幸福是一想到你就心安，地要老天要荒的谁还想管；幸福是一起醒来说早安，海枯石烂这种大事与我无关；幸福是完成你每一个期盼；登月或摘星留给谁去狂欢；幸福是陪着。

， 83. Happiness is the peace that comes from just thinking of you, who would even care for the earth to rot or the sky to fall; happiness is waking up together to say good morning, the enduring of the sea and the crumbling of the rocks are none of my business; happiness is fulfilling every one of your expectations; leaving the moon landing or star picking to someone else to celebrate; happiness is being there with you.

84. 有时候相信人，不是因为你蠢，而是因为你把感情看得太重。有时候忍下，不是因为没理，而是不愿去争了。

84. Sometimes believing in people isn't because you're foolish, but because you place too much emphasis on emotions. Sometimes holding back isn't because you're in the wrong, but because you're unwilling to argue anymore.

85. 如果决意去做一件事了，就不要再问自己和别人值不值得。心甘情愿才能理所当然，理所当然才会义无反顾。

85. Once you have made up your mind to do something, don't question whether it is worth it to yourself or others. Only when you are willing wholeheartedly can it be taken for granted, and only when it is taken for granted can you be determined to do it without reservation.

86. 别哭穷，因为没人会给你钱；别喊累，因为没人会帮你做；别想哭，因为大家不在乎；别认输，因为没人希望你赢。

86. Don't cry poor, because no one will give you money; don't complain about being tired, because no one will help you do it; don't think of crying, because no one cares; don't admit defeat, because no one wants you to win.