1. 人情冷暖正如花开花谢，不如将这种现象，想成一种必然的季节。

1. The fluctuations of human relationships are just like the blooming and wilting of flowers, it's better to think of this phenomenon as an inevitable season.

2. 对于朋友的失望，大半来自对方所言所行，达不到自己对他所要求的标准。而我却认为，朋友是不能要求的，一点也不能，因为我们没有权力。

2. Most of the disappointment with friends comes from their words and actions not reaching the standards we set for them. However, I believe that friends cannot be demanded of, not at all, because we do not have the right to do so.

3. 锁上我的记忆，锁上我的忧伤，不再想你，怎么可能再想你，快乐是禁地，生死之后，找不到进去的钥匙。

3. Lock away my memories, lock away my sorrows, stop thinking of you, how can I think of you again? Joy is a forbidden land, after life and death, there's no key to find its entrance.

4. 我们一步步走下去，踏踏实实的去走，永不抗拒生命给我们的重负，才是一个勇者。?>

4. We walk step by step, firmly and steadily, never resisting the heavy burdens life gives us, and that is what defines a hero.

5. 即使不成功，也不至于空白。

5. Even if it's not successful, it won't be a blank.

6. 从容不迫的举止，比起咄咄逼人的态度，更能令人心折。

6. A composed demeanor is more likely to win people's admiration than an aggressive attitude.

7. 长久被封闭在这只有一条街的小镇上，就好似一个断了腿的人又偏偏住在一个没有出口的巷子里一样的寂寞，千篇一律的日子，没有过分的快乐，也谈不上什么哀愁。没有变化的生活，就像织布机上的经纬，一匹匹的岁月都织出来了，而花色却是一个样子的单调。

7. Longly confined within this town with only one street, it is as lonely as a person with a broken leg living in an alley with no exit. The monotonous days, without excessive joy, nor any mentionable sorrow. Life without changes, like the warp and weft on a loom, weaves out piece after piece of time, yet the patterns remain monotonously the same.

8. 人，真是奇怪，没有外人来证明你，就往往看不出自己的价值。

8. Humans are truly strange; without the proof from outsiders, one often cannot see one's own value.

9. 雨下了那么多日，它没有弄湿过我，是我心底在雨季，我自己弄湿了自己。

9. Despite the rain falling for so many days, it never dampened me; it was my heart that got wet during the rainy season, wetting myself.

10. 如果你给我的，和你给别人的是一样的，那我就不要了。

10. If what you give to me is the same as what you give to others, then I don't want it.

11. 沙漠阿拉伯人形容他们也必喝三道的茶：第一道苦若生命，第二道甜似爱情，第三道淡如微风。

11. The desert Arabs describe that they also drink three cups of tea: the first is as bitter as life, the second as sweet as love, and the third as light as a gentle breeze.

12. 抗命不可能，顺命太轻闲，遵命得认真，唯有乐命，乐命最是自由自在。

12. It is impossible to defy orders, too leisurely to comply with them, and serious to follow them. Only in embracing one's fate with joy can one truly be carefree and free.

13. 真正的快乐，不是狂喜，亦不是苦痛，在我很主观的来说，它是细水长流，碧海无波，在芸芸众生里做一个普通的人，享受生命一刹间的喜悦，那么我们即使不死，也在天堂里了。

13. True happiness is not an overwhelming joy nor is it pain. In my very subjective opinion, it is a gentle stream that flows continuously, a calm sea without waves. To be an ordinary person among the myriad of sentient beings, to enjoy the joy of life for a moment, then even if we do not die, we are in heaven.

14. 个人的遭遇，命运的多舛都使我被迫成熟，这一切的代价都当是日后活下去的力量。

14. Personal trials and the capricious nature of fate have forced me to mature. All the costs incurred from this should be the strength to carry on in life later on.

15. 人，不经过长夜的痛哭，是不能了解人生的，我们将这些苦痛当作一种功课和学习，直到有一日真正的感觉成长了时，甚而会感谢这种苦痛给我们的教导。

15. A person cannot understand life without going through the pain of the long night. We treat these sufferings as a lesson and a form of learning, and until one truly feels grown and mature, one might even be grateful for the teachings that this pain has imparted upon us.

16. 我们不肯探索自己本身的价值，我们过分看重他人在自己生命里的参与。于是，孤独不再美好，失去了他人，我们惶惑不安。

16. We are unwilling to explore the value of ourselves, and we overvalue the participation of others in our own lives. As a result, solitude is no longer beautiful, and without others, we feel confused and restless.

17. 我唯一锲而不舍，愿意以自己的生命去努力的，只不过是保守我个人的心怀意念，在我有生之日，做一个真诚的人，不放弃对生活的热爱和执着，在有限的时空里，过无限广大的日子。

17. The only thing I persistently pursue, willing to strive for with my own life, is to maintain my personal heart and intentions. During my lifetime, I strive to be an honest person, never give up my love and dedication for life, and live an infinite and vast life within the limited time and space.

18. 没有条件的朋友，不叫朋友，那叫手足了。

18. Friends without conditions are not true friends; they are more like siblings.

19. 平凡简单，安于平凡，真不简单。

19. It's not simple to be ordinary, to be content with the ordinary.

20. 走得突然，我们来不及告别。这样也好，因为我们永远不告别。

20. We left suddenly, and there was no time for a farewell. That's for the better, because we will never say goodbye.

21. 我们的父母是恒星，我们回家他们永远是在的；我们的朋友是行星，有的时候来有的时候去，但是他们也是天空中的星；在我们的生命中擦肩而过的，一些可能在今生你再也不会碰到的人，我将他们叫做流星。

21. Our parents are stars, they are always there for us when we return home; our friends are planets, they come and go at times, but they are also stars in the sky; some people who pass by in our lives, who we may never meet again in this life, I call them shooting stars.

22. 生命短促，没有时间可以再浪费，一切随心自由才是应该努力去追求的，别人如何想我便是那么的无足轻重了。

22. Life is short, and there is no time to waste. It is what one follows one's heart and freedom that should be pursued. What others think of me is of no consequence at all.

23. 我相信，真正在乎我的人是不会被别人抢走的，无论是友情，还是爱情。

23. I believe that those who truly care about me will not be taken away by others, whether it's friendship or love.

24. 每想你一次，天上飘落一粒沙，从此形成了撒哈拉。每想你一次，天上就掉下一滴水，于是形成了太平洋。

24. Every time I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, thereby forming the Sahara Desert. Every time I think of you, a drop of water falls from the sky, thus creating the Pacific Ocean.

25. 童年只有在回忆中显现时，才成就了那份完美。

25. It is only when childhood appears in memory that it achieves that perfection.

26. 不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当，当一个人开口提出要求的时候，他的心里根本预备好了两种答案。所以，给他任何一个其中的答案，都是意料中的。

26. Do not be afraid to reject others. If your reasons are justified, when a person opens their mouth to make a request, their heart is already prepared for two possible answers. Therefore, giving them either of these answers is expected.

27. 岁月极美，在于它必然的流逝。春花、秋月、夏日、冬雪。

27. The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passage. Spring flowers, autumn moon, summer days, winter snow.

28. 心若没有栖息的地方，到哪了都是流浪。

28. If the heart does not have a place to settle, wherever it goes will be like wandering.

29. 成长是一种蜕变，失去了旧的，必然因为又来了新的，这就是公平。

29. Growth is a transformation; losing the old is inevitably because the new has come, which is fairness.

30. 那些因为缘分而来的东西，终有缘尽而别的时候。

30. Things that come because of fate will eventually part when their缘分 is exhausted.

31. 如果有来生，要做一只鸟，飞越永恒，没有迷途的苦恼。东方有火红的希望，南方有温暖的巢床，向西逐退残阳，向北唤醒芬芳。如果有来生，希望每次相遇，都能化为永恒。

31. If there is a life after death, I wish to be a bird, soaring through eternity without the苦恼 of getting lost. The east has the fiery hope, the south has the warm nest, chasing away the setting sun to the west, and awakening the fragrance to the north. If there is a life after death, I hope that every encounter can be turned into eternity.

32. 所以，我是没有选择的做了暂时的不死鸟，虽然我的翅膀断了，我的羽毛脱了，我已没有另一半可以比翼，可是那颗碎成片片的心，仍是父母的珍宝，再痛，再伤，只有他们不肯我死去，我便也不再有放弃他们的念头。

32. Therefore, I had no choice but to become a temporary phoenix, even though my wings are broken and my feathers have fallen off, and I have no other half to fly with. Yet, that heart that has been shattered into pieces is still a treasure to my parents. No matter how much pain or injury I endure, as long as they refuse to let me die, I will no longer have the thought of giving up on them.

33. 书到无穷处，笑看云起时，好一轮红太阳破空而出，光芒四射，前途一片光明，彼岸便是此身。

33. As the pages of books extend into infinity, I laugh as I watch the clouds rise. Behold, a radiant red sun bursts through the sky, its radiance shining brightly, the path ahead is filled with light, and the other shore is but this very self.

34. 就是时光倒流，生命再一次重演，我选择的仍是这条同样的道路。

34. Even if time were to reverse and life were to replay, the path I would choose would still be this same one.

35. 读书多了，容颜自然改变，许多时候，自己可能以为许多看过的书籍都成了过眼云烟，不复记忆，其实他们仍是潜在的。在气质里，在谈吐上，在胸襟的无涯，当然也可能显露在生活和文字里。

35. Reading extensively changes one's appearance naturally. Many times, one might think that many of the books read have become a fleeting cloud, no longer remembered, but in fact, they are still latent. They manifest in one's temperament, in their manner of speaking, in the boundless breadth of one's mind, and of course, they may also be revealed in one's life and in their writings.

36. 没有一样东西是掌握在自己手中的，那么就让它们随风而去吧。

36. If nothing is in one's control, then let them go with the wind.

37. 这时候我注视着眼前的雨水，心里想着，下吧、下吧，随便你下到哪一天，大地要再度绚丽光彩起来，经过了无尽的雨水之后。

37. At this moment, I gazed at the rain in front of me, thinking in my heart, "Keep falling, keep falling, it doesn't matter until when, but after an endless rain, the earth needs to shine brilliantly again."

38. 友情再深，缘分尽了，就成陌路。

38. No matter how deep the friendship, if the fate is exhausted, it will turn into a stranger.

39. 燃烧一个人的灵魂的，正是对生命的爱，那是至死方休。

39. It is the love for life that consumes a person's soul, which is an endless love until the end.

40. 用一秒钟转身离开，用一辈子去忘记。

40. Turn around and leave in a second, forget in a lifetime.

41. 在我有生之日，做一个真诚的人，不放弃对生活的热爱和执着，在有限的空间里过无限广大的日子。

41. In my lifetime, be an honest person, never give up on my love and passion for life, and live infinite vast days within a limited space.

42. 不要去看那个伤口，它有一天会结疤的，疤痕不褪，可它不会再痛。

42. Don't look at that wound, it will heal one day, and the scar won't fade, but it won't hurt anymore.

43. 我有自己的世界要忙，不会太寂寞的。人有脚，不肯走路做什么。

43. I have my own world to take care of, so I won't be too lonely. If people have feet, what's the point of not walking?

44. 黄昏是一天最美丽的时刻，愿每一颗流浪的心，在一盏灯光下，得到永远的归宿。

44. Dusk is the most beautiful moment of the day, may every wandering heart find an eternal home under a lamp light.

45. 生活是好的，峰回路转，柳暗花明，前面总会有另一番不同的风光。

45. Life is good, with twists and turns, and there will always be a different and beautiful scenery ahead.

46. 我尽可能不去缅怀往事，因为来时的路不可能回头。我当心的去爱别人，因为比较不会泛滥。我爱哭的时候便哭，想笑的时候便笑，只要这一切出于自然。我不求深刻，只求简单。

46. I try my best not to yearn for the past, because the path taken cannot be retraced. I carefully love others, as it's less likely to overflow. When I feel like crying, I cry; when I feel like laughing, I laugh, as long as all of this is natural. I don't seek depth, just simplicity.

47. 知音，能有一两个已经很好了，实在不必太多。朋友之乐，贵在那份踏实的信赖。

47. A true confidant, having one or two is already good enough; there's really no need for too many. The joy of friendship lies in that solid trust.

48. 当我们面对一个害怕的人，一桩恐惧的事，一份使人不安的心境时，唯一克服这种感觉的态度，便是面对它。

48. When faced with a person who instills fear, an event that causes fear, or a state of mind that brings unease, the only attitude that can overcome this feeling is to confront it.

49. 我爱哭的时候便哭，我爱笑的时候便笑，我不求深刻，只求简单。

49. When I want to cry, I cry; when I want to laugh, I laugh. I don't seek depth, just simplicity.

50. 看得不顺眼的话，千万富翁也不嫁；看得中意，亿万富翁也嫁。

50. If someone doesn't look to one's liking, even a millionaire is not worth marrying; if someone looks to one's liking, a billionaire is also worth marrying.

51. 我爱哭的时候便哭，想笑的时候便笑，只要这一切出于自然。我不求深刻，只求简单。

51. I cry when I feel like crying, I laugh when I feel like laughing, as long as it all comes naturally. I don't seek depth, just simplicity.

52. 云淡风轻，细水长流，何止君子之交。爱情不也是如此，才叫落花流水，天上人间？

52. With clouds so light and the wind so gentle, the flowing of the small river never ceases, much less is this the epitome of a gentleman's friendship. Isn't love the same? It's what makes the fallen flowers flow like water, transcending the heavens and the mortal realm.

53. 我来不及认真地年轻，待明白过来时，只能选择认真地老去。

53. I didn't have time to grow up seriously, and by the time I realized, I could only choose to age seriously.

54. 有时候我们要对自己残忍一点，不能纵容自己的伤心失望；有时候我们要对自己深爱的人残忍一点，将对他们的爱、记忆搁置。

54. Sometimes we need to be a bit cruel to ourselves, not indulging our sadness and disappointment; sometimes we need to be a bit cruel to the ones we deeply love, putting aside our love and memories for them.

55. 无论哪一种感情，无论哪一种，占有心态强，都是痛苦的源泉。

55. No matter which kind of emotion, any kind, with a strong possessive mindset, is a source of pain.

56. 化妆有助气色，无助气质。有家产和有家教没有太大关系。

56. Makeup can help improve one's complexion, but not one's temperament. Having a family inheritance and a good upbringing are not necessarily related.

57. 梦想，可以天花乱坠，理想，是我们一步一个脚印踩出来的坎坷道路。

57. Dreams can be grandiose, but ideals are the bumpy path we forge step by step.

58. 伤心最大的建设性，在于明白，那颗心还在老地方。

58. The most constructive aspect of sadness is understanding that the heart is still in its old place.

59. 事实上，我十分安然于一本好书，一个长夜和一杯热茶的宁静生活。对于人生，这已是很大的福分，因为我们没有生活在战乱和极权统治的国家里，这份自由是我十分感激而珍爱的。

59. In fact, I am very content with the quiet life of a good book, a long night, and a cup of hot tea. This is already a great blessing in life, as we do not live in a country engulfed in war and totalitarian rule. This freedom is something I deeply cherish and appreciate.

60. 朋友这种关系，最美在于锦上添花；最可贵，贵在雪中送炭；朋友中的极品，便如好茶，淡而不涩，清香但不扑鼻，缓缓飘来，似水长流。

60. The beauty of friendship lies in adding luster to what is already fine; its greatest value is in providing warmth in times of snow, when others are cold. The finest of friends are like good tea – mild without bitterness, fragrant but not overpowering, gently wafting in, flowing like water for a long time.

61. 朋友共苦，除非同命相怜，不然总有高低，雪中送炭，贵在送真炭，而不只是语言的劝慰。

61. When friends share hardships, there will always be differences unless they have a shared fate. Bringing charcoal in a snowstorm is valuable not just for the warmth it brings but for the genuine help it represents, not just the comfort of words.

62. 人生的许多大困难，只要活着，没有什么是解决不了的，时间和智慧而已。

62. Many of the great difficulties in life can be solved as long as we are alive; it only requires time and wisdom.

63. 红尘十丈，茫茫的人海，竟还是自己的来处。

63. Amidst the dust and chaos of the world, amidst the vast sea of people, it turns out to be my own origin.

64. 偶尔抱怨一次人生可能是某种情感的宣泄，也无不可，但习惯性的抱怨而不谋求改变，便是不聪明的人了。

64. It may be an emotional outlet to complain about life once in a while, and that is permissible, but it is unwise for someone to habitually complain without seeking change.

65. 刻意去找的东西，往往是找不到的。天下万物的来和去，都有他的时间。

65. Things that are deliberately sought after are often not found. The coming and going of all things in the world have their own timing.

66. 飞蛾扑火时，一定是极快乐幸福的。

66. When moths fly towards the flame, they must be extremely happy and joyful.

67. 人活在世界上，重要的是爱人的能力，而不是被爱。我们不懂得爱人又如何能被人所爱。

67. In life, the ability to love others is what matters, not being loved. If we don't know how to love, how can we expect to be loved by others?