在纷繁复杂的世界中，情绪如同潮水般涌动，时而汹涌，时而平静。掌握情绪管理的艺术，犹如在波涛中稳住航船，既不失前进的动力，又能巧妙应对生活中的半途而废。本文将探讨情绪管理的技巧，帮助您在人生的航程中，更加从容不迫。

In a world filled with complexity, emotions surge like tides, sometimes tumultuous, sometimes calm. Mastering the art of emotional management is like keeping a ship steady amidst waves, maintaining the momentum to move forward while skillfully dealing with setbacks in life. This article will explore the techniques of emotional management, helping you navigate the journey of life with greater composure and ease.

1. 在现实的压力之下，如果你能改变观念，适时而进，可收到事半功倍的效果。

1. Under the pressure of reality, if you can change your perspective and move forward at the right time, you can achieve twice the results with half the effort.

2. 无论遭遇什么，我们都要方寸不乱，从容破解。

2. Regardless of what we encounter, we must remain calm and composed, and confidently solve the problem.

3. 站立时常把双手置于臀部的人：自主心强，处事认真而绝不轻率，具有驾驭一切的魅力。他们最大的缺点是主观，性格表现固执、顽固。

3. People who often place their hands on their hips while standing: They have a strong sense of autonomy, are serious in handling matters and never act lightly, and possess the charm to control everything. Their biggest flaw is their subjectivity, and their personality shows stubbornness and inflexibility.

4. 一个人除非先控制了自己，否则将无法控制别人。

4. One cannot control others unless they first control themselves.

5. 遇到危险，恐惧着急在所难免。关键是，克制住自己的慌乱情绪，冷静思考出路和办法。这样，才有机会转危为安，化险为夷。

5. It is inevitable to feel fear and anxiety when encountering danger. The key is to control one's panic and think calmly about the ways and means to find a way out. Only in this way can there be a chance to turn danger into safety and turn peril into safety.

6. 于是，有了大名鼎鼎的空城计。

6. Thus, there was the famous Empty City Strategy.

7. 遇到烂人烂事，不怒，不理，才是最好的处理方式。

7. When encountering bad people and bad things, not to be angry or ignore them is the best way to handle it.

8. 站立时将双手握置于背后的人：性格特点是奉公守法，尊重权威，极富责任感，不过有时情绪不稳定，往往令人莫测高深，最大的优点是富于耐性，而且能够接受新思想和新观点。

8. A person standing with hands clasped behind their back: Their personality characteristics include being law-abiding, respecting authority, highly responsible, but sometimes emotional instability, often appearing mysterious and profound. Their greatest virtue is patience, and they are also capable of accepting new ideas and perspectives.

9. 越着急的事，越要静下心来，沉着应对。一旦惊慌失措，必将无能为力。

9. The more urgent the matter, the more important it is to calm down and face it with composure. Once you are in a panic, you will be unable to do anything.

10. 有人提出弃城逃跑，诸葛亮反问，你能跑过司马懿的精兵猛将？那人语塞。

10. Someone suggested abandoning the city and fleeing, but Zhuge Liang replied, "Can you run faster than Sima Yi's elite soldiers and formidable commanders?" The person was at a loss for words.

11. 先把情绪管理的 意义给解释下， 然后举点例子。 支配情绪给人带来的好处，不会支配情绪，使自己冲动给自己带来的坏处。（冲动是魔鬼什么的）

11. First, let's explain the significance of emotional management, and then provide some examples. The benefits of mastering one's emotions include not allowing emotions to dominate and lead to impulsive actions, which can bring harm to oneself (as the saying goes, impatience is the devil).

12. 清代学者周容，在《春涵堂集》记述了这样一个故事。

12. The Qing Dynasty scholar Zhou Rong recorded a story in his collection "Chun Han Tang Ji."

13. 乘客非常生气，与司机争吵起来。可能被司机的言语刺激，他竟上前和正在驾驶的司机扭打起来。

13. The passenger was extremely angry and argued with the driver. He might have been provoked by the driver's words, and he even went up to the driving driver and started a fight with him.

14. 如果我们有办法来改变现实，使之适合我们能力和欲望的发展需要，则是最难能可贵的。

14. It is the most admirable if we have a way to change reality to suit the development needs of our abilities and desires.

15. 如何成为一个性格沉稳的人 我摘抄了一篇文章。我看完了，就是长了点。你仔细看下吧，也许对你有帮助！世界上很多成功者都是性格沉稳的人，性格沉稳的人无论在生活中遇到任何挫折都不会产生丧气，抑郁，悲伤，绝望等等严重影响心理健康的负面情绪，每一个人的一生都不可能风平浪静的度过，很多人常常在人生之海间汹涌起的波涛中沉浮，有些人在汹涌的波涛中沉了下去，而有些人则在汹涌的波涛中浮了上来，能浮在人生之还汹涌起的波涛中浮起来的人就是成功者，人生的成功与失败失去距离并不遥远，有时候仅仅是一点点距离而与成功失之交臂，失败者缺乏的就是沉稳的性格，而成功者大多数都具有沉稳的性格，沉稳的性格不仅是一个人心理成熟的表现，更是为自己赢得成功的基础，沉稳的性格是需要在生活中磨练出来的，而并非是每一个人天生就能拥有的，拥有沉稳性格的人能做到遇事从不慌乱，从容面对生活中出现的任何危机，人生中经历的任何风雨，有时候，磨难与挫折对于拥有沉稳性格的人来说就是一次对心理素质的考验，人生是一个未知的变数，谁也无法预料自己的前世今生的命运，我们唯一能做的就是遇事不惊慌，做到沉着而冷静，只有这样你才能凌驾与生活，你才能凌驾与人生，要培养自己沉稳的性格就要从生活中磨练自己的意志，在挫折中锻炼自己的毅力，在风雨中经历自己的坎坷，在失败中吸取自己的教训，在成功中赢得自己的人生，沉稳的性格会让一个人从外表上看起来给人一种成熟沉稳的外貌，一个人的外貌很重要，很多时候，企业或者公司招聘人员时，首先不是看应聘者的学历，身份，地位，而是看应聘者的气质外貌给人的印象，一个性格沉稳的人，能具有一种超脱凡俗的幽雅高贵的气质，这种气质其实就是沉稳的性格所带给你的内在精神的美，而这种内在的精神美有时候甚至超过你的外表肤浅的美，现在的企业老板看中的常常就是一个人内在的气质美而不是外在的外貌美。沉稳的性格能让一个人在遇任何突然发生的灾难或者事故中，沉稳而不惊慌，这种成熟的心理常常能让一个人在绝境中寻找到生存的希望，在很多西方国家中，训练一些具有高素质作战能力的快速反应特种部队时，教练们传授给这些优秀士兵的常常不是如何以武力战胜对手的技能而是如何以心理战争对手的素质，尤其是沉稳的性格，就是需要让这些特种作战部队的士兵在任何危险战争环境中都能从容的生存，心理训练已经成为了现代很多西方国家训练特种部队的必修科目，而心理素质直接反应出的就是一个人的性格特征，而沉稳的性格可以说就是一个人心理素质高的体现，无论遇到任何危险的情况，当大家都慌乱的手足失措的时候，只有你依然冷静沉着，或许最后能活下来的就是你，在美国911恐怖袭击中，当 所几吃的商务客机撞向世贸中心南北两座塔楼的时候，一些人因为没有沉稳的性格而慌张，一时的慌张导致了很多人丧命，很多人都因为慌张而选择了跳楼逃生，而这些人忘记了楼的高度，任何人一旦跳下去都将是必死无疑，而那些具有沉稳性格的人，却不会慌张，这些人头脑异常冷静，即使当大楼开始着火倒塌的时候，这些人依然沉着冷静，因为有了沉稳的性格，才不会做出愚蠢的事情，这些人做出了理智的选择才安全逃生，能在911恐怖袭击中幸运的生还的人，大部分都是在平时的生活中培养了自己沉稳性格的人。具有沉稳性格的人会受到很多人的尊敬，而很多政治领袖基本上都具有沉稳的性格，沉稳的性格能让一位领袖在某些方面***类进步，因为沉稳而做事果断明智，因为沉稳而具有超越常人的理性思考，沉稳的性格是成功的基础，沉稳的性格能让你拥有成功者的气质与精神，而培养自己沉稳性>>

15. How to Be a Calm and Steadfast Person I have copied an article. I've read it, and it's a bit long. Please take a careful look; it might be helpful to you! Many successful people in the world are calm and steadfast. People with a calm and steadfast character will not be affected by negative emotions such as despair, depression, sadness, and hopelessness when faced with any setbacks in life. Not everyone's life is smooth sailing; many often float and sink in the surging waves of life. Some sink in the surging waves, while others float to the surface. Those who can float in the surging waves of life are the successful ones. The distance between success and failure in life is not far; sometimes, it's just a tiny bit, and you might miss success. What the unsuccessful lack is a steadfast character, while most successful people possess this trait. A steadfast character is not only a manifestation of a person's psychological maturity but also the foundation for winning success. A steadfast character needs to be honed through life experiences and is not something everyone is born with. People with a steadfast character can remain calm and composed in the face of any crisis in life, and any storms they encounter in life. Sometimes, adversity and setbacks can be a test of psychological resilience for those with a steadfast character. Life is full of unknown variables; no one can predict their destiny in past and present lives. The only thing we can do is remain composed and calm in the face of adversity. Only in this way can you rise above life, and only in this way can you rise above life itself. To cultivate a steadfast character, one must train their willpower through life experiences, strengthen their perseverance in the face of setbacks, endure hardships in the storms, learn from their mistakes in failures, and win their life in success. A steadfast character can make a person appear mature and composed from the outside, and a person's appearance is important. Many times, when companies or organizations recruit staff, they first look at the candidate's temperament and appearance, not their education, identity, or status. A person with a steadfast character can possess an elegant and noble气质 that transcends the ordinary. This气质 is actually the inner beauty brought by the steadfast character. Sometimes, this inner spiritual beauty even surpasses the superficial beauty of one's appearance. What modern business leaders often value is often the inner beauty of a person rather than the external appearance. A steadfast character can make a person calm and composed in the face of any sudden disaster or accident, and this mature psychology can often help a person find a glimmer of hope in the face of despair. In many Western countries, when training highly skilled rapid-response special forces, coaches often teach not just how to physically defeat opponents but how to use psychological warfare to overcome opponents, especially the trait of steadfastness, which is needed to ensure that these special operations soldiers can survive calmly in any dangerous war environment. Psychological training has become a compulsory subject in the training of special forces in many Western countries. Psychological resilience directly reflects a person's character traits, and a steadfast character can be said to be a manifestation of high psychological resilience. Regardless of any dangerous situation, when everyone else is panicking and losing control, if you remain calm and composed, you might be the one who survives. In the 9/11 terrorist attacks in the United States, when the hijacked commercial planes crashed into the World Trade Center's north and south towers, some people panicked due to the lack of a steadfast character, and their temporary panic led to many deaths. Many people chose to jump to their deaths in a panic, forgetting the height of the building. Anyone who jumps will undoubtedly die. However, those with a steadfast character did not panic. These people were exceptionally calm and composed, even when the building began to catch fire and collapse. It was their steadfast character that prevented them from making foolish decisions. These people made rational choices and safely escaped. Most of the people who survived the 9/11 attacks were those who had cultivated a steadfast character in their daily lives. People with a steadfast character are respected by many, and many political leaders basically possess this trait. A steadfast character can make a leader make progress in certain aspects because of its decisiveness and wisdom, and because of its extraordinary rational thinking. A steadfast character is the foundation for success, and it can make you possess the temperament and spirit of a successful person. To cultivate a steadfast character, one must train their willpower through life experiences, strengthen their perseverance in the face of setbacks, endure hardships in the storms, learn from their mistakes in failures, and win their life in success.

16. 遇事不疾不徐，从容不迫，才能把事情处理好。如果一味抢时间，急切躁进，往往功败垂成。

16. Only by handling matters calmly and without haste can one successfully manage them. If one always rushes to seize time and is overly eager, failure is often just around the corner.

17. 走到一条河边的时候，周容问摆渡人：“还来得及赶上县城南门开着吗？”

17. When they reached a riverbank, Zhou Rong asked the ferryman, "Is it still possible to make it to the southern gate of the county town in time?"

18. 成功的人都是什么样的性格 成功的性格

18. What kind of personality do successful people have? Successful personalities.

19. 人生是一个过程，成功也是一个过程。你如果满足于小成功，就会推动大成功。成大事者懂得从小到大的艰辛过程，所以在实现了一个个小成功之后，能继续拆开下一个人生的“密封袋”。

19. Life is a process, and success is also a process. If you are satisfied with small successes, you will drive towards great success. Those who accomplish great things understand the arduous journey from small to big, and therefore, after achieving one small success after another, they can continue to open up the next "sealed bag" of life.

20. 心态消极的人，无论如何都挑不起生活和重担，因为他们无法直面一个个人生挫折，成大事者则关于高速心态，即使在毫无希望时，也能看到一线成功的亮光。

20. People with a negative mindset can never bear the burdens of life, no matter what, because they cannot face each individual life setback. Those who achieve great things are about a fast-paced mindset, even in the face of no hope, they can still see a glimmer of success.

21. 看一个人时候快乐，不要看笑容，要看清晨梦醒时一刹那的表情

21. Happiness in a person is not to be judged by their smile, but by the fleeting expression they have upon waking in the morning.

22. 先处理心情，再处理事情。心情对了，事情的方向也就对了。心情错了，事情将难以转圜。

22. First handle your mood, then handle the matter. When your mood is right, the direction of the matter will also be right. When your mood is wrong, it will be difficult to turn the situation around.

23. 它是手抄报的标志，由图案或画面和刊名组成。文字上由报头名称、日期等组成。

23. It is the emblem of a hand-drawn newspaper, consisting of a pattern or illustration and the title of the publication. The text is composed of the newspaper's title, date, and other information.

24. 诸葛亮让众人退下，自己手执羽扇，在城楼踱步，一边寻思退敌之策。终于，一个妙计涌上心头。

24. Zhuge Liang dismissed the crowd and took out his feather fan, pacing back and forth on the city wall, while he pondered strategies to repel the enemy. Finally, a brilliant plan came to his mind.

25. 老板通常都没时间阅读冗长的文书。因此，学会编写简洁的文字报告和编制赏心悦目的表格就显得尤为重要。即便是再复杂的问题，他们也能将其浓缩阐述在一页A4纸上。有必要详细说明的问题，再用附件形式附在报告或表格后面。让老板仅仅浏览一页纸或一张表格便可知道事情的概况。如其对此事感兴趣或认为重要，可以通过阅读附件里的资料来了解详情。

25. Bosses usually don't have time to read lengthy documents. Therefore, it is particularly important to learn how to write concise text reports and create pleasant-looking tables. Even for complex issues, they can condense and explain them on a single A4 page. For issues that require detailed explanation, attach the information as an appendix to the report or table. This way, the boss can get an overview of the matter just by scanning a single page or a single table. If they are interested in or consider it important, they can read the detailed information in the attachments.

26. 摆渡人答：“慢慢走还赶得上，要是着急忙慌地赶，就来不及了。”

26. The Ferryman answered, "If you walk slowly, you can still catch up; but if you hurry, it will be too late."

27. 林子大了，什么鸟都有。

27. In a big forest, there are all sorts of birds.

28. 看两个人的关系，要看发生意外时，另一方的紧张程度

28. To judge the relationship between two people, one should observe the level of tension from the other party when an accident occurs.

29. 我们的自下而上须臾离不开现实，随着现实的变化，我们必须随之调整自己的观念、思想、行动及目标。这是生存的必须。

29. Our bottom-up approach cannot be separated from reality at any moment. As reality changes, we must adjust our own concepts, thoughts, actions, and goals accordingly. This is a necessity for survival.

30. 站立时不能静立，不断改变站立姿态的人：性格急躁，暴烈，身心经常处于紧张的状态，而且不断改变自己的思想观念。在生活方面喜欢接受新的挑战，是一个典型的行动主义者 。

30. People who cannot stand still when standing, constantly changing their posture: They are impatient, violent, and their body and mind are often in a state of tension, and they constantly change their own ideas and beliefs. In terms of life, they enjoy accepting new challenges and are a typical activist.

31. 急事不慌，险事不乱，烂事不怒，不被事情牵动情绪，冷静思考，沉着面对，把握事情的主动权。

31. Remain calm in emergencies, composed in dangerous situations, and patient with bad things; do not let events sway your emotions. Think calmly, face situations with composure, and take the initiative in handling matters.

32. 站立时两手双握置于胸前的人：其性格表现为成竹在胸，对自己的所作所为充满成功感，虽然不至于睥睨一切，但却踌躇满志，信心十足。

32. A person standing with both hands clasped together in front of the chest: Their character is characterized by a sense of confidence and readiness, feeling successful about their actions, though not necessarily looking down on others, they are full of ambition and have ample confidence.

33. 沉住气，稳住心，才能掌控人生。

33. Stay calm and composed, and only then can you master your life.

34. 有较广的事业，就事论事，较少考虑个人利害。

34. With a broader career, one tends to focus on the matter at hand and pays less consideration to personal gains and losses.

35. 当个人目标在一个组织里无法实现，且又暂时不能摆脱这一环境时，他们往往会调整短期目标，并且将该目标与公司的发展目标有机地结合起来。这样，大家的观点就容易接近，或取得一致，就会有共同语言，就会干的欢快。反过来，别人也就会乐于接受他们。

35. When personal goals cannot be achieved within an organization and individuals are temporarily unable to脱离 this environment, they often adjust their short-term goals and organically combine them with the company's development goals. In this way, it becomes easier for everyone's viewpoints to converge or reach a consensus, they will have a common language, and they will work happily. Conversely, others will also be willing to accept them.

36. 对是非的争辩，只有自己认 理正义所在，纵使违反重议，也挺身而出，站在争议一边，坚持到底。

36. In the debate over right and wrong, only if one truly believes in the righteousness of his or her cause, should one dare to stand up against the majority's opinion, take a stance on the side of controversy, and persist to the end.

37. 一次行动胜过百遍心想。有些人是“语言的巨人，行动的矮子”，所以看不到更为实际现实的事情在他身上发生；成大事者是每天都靠行动来落实自己的人生计划的。

37. One action is better than a hundred thoughts. Some people are "giants of speech and dwarfs of action," therefore they fail to see more practical and realistic changes happening in their lives; those who achieve great things rely on actions every day to implement their life plans.

38. 主要是用色彩、绘图等艺术手段，弥补文字的单调，给人以生动形象、优美和谐的'美感和启迪。内容包括报头、题花、插图、花边、尾花和色彩运用等。

38. It mainly uses artistic means such as color and illustration to compensate for the monotony of text, providing vivid and vivid, beautiful and harmonious 'aesthetics and inspiration. The content includes newspaper headings, title flowers, illustrations, borders, end flowers, and color application, etc.

39. 机遇就是人生最大的财富。有些人浪费机遇轻而易举，所以一个个有巨大潜力的机遇都悄然溜跑，成大事都是绝对不允许溜走，并且能纵身扑向机遇。

39. Opportunity is the greatest wealth in life. Some people squander opportunities with ease, so one after another, opportunities with great potential slip away quietly. Great achievements are absolutely not allowed to slip away, and one must leap towards opportunities.

40. 创新致胜 创造力是最珍贵的财富。如果你有这种能力，就能把握事业成功的最佳时机，从而创造伟大的奇迹。创新思维比常规思维更具明显的优势特点：A、具有独创性；B、机动灵活；C、有风险意识。创新思维无论取得什么样的成果，都具有重要的认识论和方法论的意义，因为即便他的不成功结果，也会向人们提供了以后少走弯路的教训。常规性思维虽然看起来“稳妥”，但它的根本缺陷是不能为人们提供新的启示。创新必胜，保守必败。

40. Victory through Innovation - Creativity is the most precious wealth. If you have this ability, you can seize the best opportunities for career success and thus create great wonders. Innovative thinking has more distinct advantages over conventional thinking: A, it is original; B, it is flexible and adaptable; C, it has a sense of risk. Regardless of the results achieved, innovative thinking holds significant epistemological and methodological significance, because even its unsuccessful outcomes provide people with lessons to avoid detours in the future. Conventional thinking, although appearing "safe," has a fundamental flaw in that it cannot provide new insights. Innovation guarantees victory, while conservativeness guarantees defeat.

41. 方寸，即内心。不管遇到什么事，心不乱，则主动权在我。心乱了，则被事情牵着走，举止无措，处处被动。

41. The "square inch" refers to the inner heart. No matter what happens, if my heart remains unconfused, the initiative is in my hands. If my heart is confused, I will be led by the things, acting without purpose, and being passive in every aspect.

42. 人生于世，难免会撞上烂人烂事。

42. In life, it is inevitable to encounter bad people and bad things.

43. 建立自信心 一个人能否做成、做好一件事，首先看他是否有一个好的心态，以及是否能认真、持续地坚持下去。信心大、心态好，办法才多。所以，信心多一分，成功多十分；投入才能收获，付出才能杰出。永远不要被缺点所迷惑。当然，成功卓越的人只有少数，失败平庸的人却很多。成功的人在遭受挫折和危机的时候，仍然是顽强、乐观和充满自信，而失败者往往是退却，甚至是甘于退却。我们应该学会自信，成功的程度取决于信念的程度。

43. Building Self-Confidence: Whether a person can accomplish and do well a thing, first of all, it depends on whether he has a good attitude and whether he can persist in it seriously and continuously. With great confidence and a good attitude, there are more solutions. Therefore, the more confidence there is, the more success there will be; only through investment can there be harvest, and only through dedication can one excel. Never be deceived by your shortcomings. Of course, only a few people are outstandingly successful, while many are mediocre in failure. When successful people face setbacks and crises, they remain tenacious, optimistic, and full of confidence, while failures often retreat, or even are willing to retreat. We should learn to be confident, and the degree of success depends on the degree of belief.

44. 他们具备的对问题的分析、归纳、总结能力比常人强。总能找出规律性的东西，并驾驭事物，从而达到事半功倍的效果。人们常说苦干不如巧干。但是如何巧干，不是人人都知道的。否则就不会干同样的事情，常人一天忙到晚都来不及；而他们，却整天很潇洒。

44. They have a stronger ability to analyze, generalize, and summarize problems compared to ordinary people. They are always able to find patterns and control things, thus achieving twice the result with half the effort. People often say that hard work is not as effective as smart work. However, not everyone knows how to work smart. Otherwise, everyone would not be so busy doing the same thing, with ordinary people being occupied all day long; but they seem to have a carefree life.

45. 等把书籍收拾好，已经日落西山，暮色四垂。城门也落锁了。

45. By the time the books were sorted out, the sun had set in the west, and the twilight surrounded the city. The city gates had also been locked.

46. 站立时喜欢把双手叠放于胸前的人：这种人性格坚强，不屈不挠，不轻易向困境压力低头。但是由于过分重视个人利益，与人交往经常摆出一副自我保护的防范姿态，拒人于千里之外，令人难以接近。

46. People who like to place their hands on their chests when standing: Such individuals are strong-willed, resilient, and not easily cowed by difficulties or pressure. However, due to their excessive focus on personal interests, they often adopt a self-protective defensive posture in social interactions, pushing others away at a distance, making it difficult for people to approach them.

47. 作为公司或老板，解决问题的出发点首先考虑的是如何避免类似问题的重复出现，而不是头疼医头，脚疼医脚的就事论事方案。面对人的惰性和部门之间的扯皮，只有站在公司的角度去考虑解决方案，才是一个比较彻底的解决方案。能始终站在公司或老板的立场上去酝酿解决问题的方案，逐渐地他们便成为可以信赖的人。

47. As a company or boss, the starting point for solving problems should first be to consider how to prevent similar issues from recurring, rather than a piecemeal approach that deals with the symptoms rather than the root causes. In the face of human inertia and interdepartmental bickering, only by considering the solutions from the company's perspective can one achieve a more thorough resolution. By consistently thinking about problem-solving strategies from the standpoint of the company or boss, they gradually become trustworthy individuals.

48. 有人提出派人搬救兵，诸葛亮反问，敌军在即，你能搬来救兵吗？那人无言以对。

48. Someone suggested sending for reinforcements, and Zhuge Liang replied with a counterquestion, "With the enemy army approaching, can you really bring in reinforcements?" The person was left speechless.

49. 是对文章标题或开关的装饰，常见的有底纹，带有提示性的图画或图案。

49. It is a decoration of the article title or switch, commonly including background textures, illustrative pictures or patterns with indicative information.

50. 人生总要面临各种困境的挑战，甚至可以说困境就是“鬼门关”。一般人会在困境面前浑身发抖，而成大事者则能把困境变为成功的有力跳板。

50. Life inevitably confronts us with various challenges of adversity, which can even be said to be the "Gate of Hell." Most people would tremble in the face of adversity, but those who achieve great things are able to turn adversity into a powerful springboard to success.

51. 在此，我们可以得出一条成大事的经验：适应现实的变化而迅速改变自己的观念，最重要的是需要我们有一副聪慧的头脑和灵活的眼睛，做生活的有心人。

51. Here, we can draw a lesson from the experience of accomplishing great things: it is crucial to quickly change our ideas in response to the changes in reality. The most important thing is to have a wise mind and flexible eyes, to be a mindful person in life.

52. 怎样知道对方是一个怎样的人和性格 看一个国家的国民教育，要看他的公共厕所

52. How to know what kind of person and personality the other person has – look at a country's national education by observing its public toilets.

53. 周容只当做戏言，不以为意。他带着书童急急赶路，可到半路上，书童摔了一跤，书籍散落一地。

53. Zhou Rong treated it merely as a joke and did not take it seriously. He hurried on his way with his page, but halfway through, the page tripped and fell, scattering the books all over the place.

54. 人人都有弱点，不能成大事者总是固守自己的弱点，一生都不会发生重大转变；能成大事者总是善于从自己的弱点上开刀，去把自己变成一个能力超强的人。一个连自己的缺陷都不能纠正的人，只能是失败者！

54. Everyone has weaknesses, and those who cannot achieve great things always cling to their weaknesses, never experiencing significant changes in their lives; those who can achieve great things are always adept at cutting into their weaknesses to transform themselves into highly capable individuals. A person who cannot correct their own defects can only be a loser!

55. 对生活环境优势是改进的意愿与能力。马斯洛给你的建议1、 把自己感情出口放宽，莫使心胸像个瓶颈。

55. Willingness and ability to improve the living environment. Maslow's advice to you: 1. Broaden your emotional outlet, do not let your chest be like a bottleneck.

56. 有伦理观念，能区别手段和目的；绝不为达到目的/而不择手段。

56. Possesses ethical principles, can distinguish means from ends; will never resort to any means to achieve an end.

57. 成功人士的性格是怎样的？ 人本心理学家马斯洛，根据他并吃的自我实现是人生追求最高境界的理念，列举近代世界史上38位最成功的名人，从他们的人生历程中，马斯洛归纳出16点性格特征，并认为，这些性格特征，可以视为使得这些名人自我实现的主观条件。

57. What is the character of successful people? Humanistic psychologist Abraham Maslow, according to his belief that self-actualization is the highest level of human pursuit, listed 38 of the most successful individuals in world history in recent times. From their life journeys, Maslow summarized 16 character traits and believed that these traits can be considered as the subjective conditions that enable these individuals to achieve self-actualization.

58. 毛泽东说：“不管风吹浪打，胜似闲庭信步。”

58. Mao Zedong said, "No matter the wind and waves, it is better than strolling leisurely in a courtyard."

59. 有些人，心中装满怨气、戾气、怒气等消极情绪，就像一辆行驶的垃圾车。我们能做的，就是远离。因为一旦靠近，那些垃圾就会抖落在你身上。

59. Some people are filled with negative emotions such as resentment, anger, and malice, like a garbage truck in motion. All we can do is keep our distance. Because once you get close, the garbage will fall on you.

60. 他们很在意收集各类信息资料，包括各种政策、报告、计划、方案、统计报表、业务流程、管理制度、考核方法等。尤其重视竞争对手的信息。因为任何成熟的业务流程本身就是很多经验和教训的积累，遇到用时，就可以信手拈来。这在任何教科书上是无法找到的，也不是那个老师能够传授的。

60. They attach great importance to collecting various types of information and materials, including policies, reports, plans, programs, statistical statements, business processes, management systems, and assessment methods, etc. They particularly value information about competitors. Because any mature business process itself is a accumulation of many experiences and lessons, which can be easily retrieved when needed. This cannot be found in any textbook, nor can it be taught by any teacher.

61. 像做一个成功人士必须具备什么样的心态和性格。 无论在内企，还是在外企，凡是成功人士（以下简称他们）的身上都有独特的个人能力和人格魅力，这是旁人所缺乏的。他们的成功决不能简单地归结为机遇好。依笔者来看，这些能力可概括为：

61. What kind of mindset and personality traits are required to become a successful person. Whether in domestic or foreign enterprises, successful individuals (hereinafter referred to as "they") all possess unique personal abilities and charm that others lack. Their success cannot be simply attributed to good luck. In the author's view, these abilities can be summarized as:

62. 曾有一个轰动全国的新闻——重庆公交坠江事件。

62. There was once a news event that caused a national sensation—the Chongqing Public Bus Tragedy.

63. 对生活环境的一切，多欣赏，少抱怨；有不如意之处，设法改善；坐而空谈，不如起而实行。

63. Appreciate everything in your living environment more, and complain less; when things are not to your liking, try to improve them; it's better to take action than to merely talk idly.

64. 自制，就是要克服欲望，不要因为有点压力就心里浮躁，遇到一点不称心的事就大发脾气。

64. Self-made means to overcome desires, not to be restless in heart due to a bit of pressure, and not to lose one's temper over trivial matters that are not to one's liking.

65. 可以根据文章的内容，画一个能说明一个情节的画面，这种形式与文章内容紧密联系;还可以采用与文章内容毫无联系的图案，如花鸟、山水等，这是纯粹为了美化而作的。

65. A picture that can illustrate a plot based on the content of the article can be drawn, which is closely related to the content of the article; or patterns that have no connection with the content of the article, such as flowers and birds, landscapes, etc., which are purely created for beautification.

66. 为什么人的性格决定人生？ 一个人的性格会影响他看人看世界的角度，形成不同的世界观、价值观、人生观。一个人的性格特征将决定其交际关系、婚姻选择、生活状态、职业选择以及创业成败等等，从而根本性的决定其一生的命运。如果一个人比作一栋大厦，那么性格就是其钢筋骨架，人知识和学问等则是从充斥于骨架上的混凝土。钢筋骨架决定着大厦能建多高，建多壮。概括的讲，性格就是人在对人、对事的态度和行为方式上表现出来的心理特点，如理智、沉稳、坚韧、执着、含蓄、坦率等等。 在今天这个高度发达的信息时代，同样的机遇同时摆在人们面前，人与人的性格不同，对待机遇的态度也不同，于是有的人能成功，有的人只能与成功擦肩而过。 性格决定了人们做人做事的方法，也就决定了自己的道路和命运。

66. Why does a person's character determine their life? A person's character affects their perspective on people and the world, forming different worldviews, values, and life outlooks. A person's character traits will determine their social relationships, marriage choices, living conditions, career choices, and entrepreneurial success or failure, thereby fundamentally determining their fate in life. If a person is likened to a skyscraper, then their character is the steel framework, while their knowledge and scholarship are the concrete that fills the framework. The steel framework determines how high and strong the skyscraper can be built. In summary, character is the psychological characteristics that a person exhibits in their attitudes and behaviors towards people and things, such as rationality, composure, tenacity, perseverance, reserve, and frankness, etc. In today's highly developed information age, the same opportunities are placed before people at the same time. Due to the differences in people's characters, their attitudes towards opportunities are also different, so some people can achieve success, while others can only miss it by a whisker. Character determines the methods people use to deal with people and things, and thus determines their own path and destiny.

67. 一个人只要有成大事的目标，知道自己想要的，然后采取>>

67. As long as a person has the goal of accomplishing great things, knows what they want, and then takes >>

68. 烂事不怒，默默远离，自然安好。

68. Do not get angry over trivial matters, quietly distance yourself, and naturally everything will be peaceful.

69. 迷人的个性 人生的美好在于人情的美好，人情的美好，在于人性的美好，人性的美，在于迷人的、能够吸引人的个性。对他人的生活、工作表示深切的关心；与人交往中求同存异，避免冲突；学会倾听别人的观点；学会夸奖别人；有微笑的魅力；别吝啬自己的同情；要学会认错，学会宽容大度。

69. Enchanting personality - The beauty of life lies in the beauty of human relationships, and the beauty of human relationships lies in the beauty of human nature. The beauty of human nature lies in the enchanting and attractive personality. Show deep concern for others' lives and work; seek common ground while respecting differences in interactions, avoiding conflicts; learn to listen to others' opinions; learn to praise others; possess the charm of a smile; do not be stingy with your sympathy; learn to admit mistakes, and learn to be magnanimous.

70. 安静下来，稳如磐石，才能以不变应万变，在纷繁复杂的世界中找到出口。

70. Calm down, be as solid as a rock, and you can respond to all changes without changing, finding an exit in the world's complexity.

71. 充满热忱 你有信仰就年轻，绝望就年老。失去了热忱，就损伤了灵魂。热忱是一种最重要的力量，有史以来没有任何一件伟大的事业不是因为热忱而成功的。热>>

71. Filled with Enthusiasm: You are young when you have faith, and old when you are despondent. Losing enthusiasm is to wound the soul. Enthusiasm is the most important force, and throughout history, there has never been any great undertaking that succeeded without enthusiasm. Enthusiasm >>

72. 水静极则形象明，人静极则智慧生。

72. When water is still to the extreme, its images become clear; when a person is still to the extreme, wisdom arises.