1. 大海的无垠，可以开阔博大的胸襟；一浪一涛的汹涌，可以塑造顽强的一性一格。佚名

1. The boundless expanse of the sea can broaden a vast and generous heart; the surging waves and tides can mold a tenacious character and unique personality. (Anonymous)

2. 每人都有其独特的思维方式。菲得洛斯《寓言》

2. Everyone has their own unique way of thinking. Aesop's "Fables"

3. 一个伟大的人有两颗心：一颗心流血，一颗心宽容。

3. A great person has two hearts: one that bleeds and one that forgives.

4. 愈是自己有错的人愈不肯宽恕别人，这是个规律。佚名

4. The more someone is wrong themselves, the less willing they are to forgive others; this is a rule. Anonymus

5. 世界原本就不是属于你，因此你用不着抛弃，要抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我所用，但非我所属。

5. The world originally does not belong to you, so there is no need for you to abandon it. What you should abandon is all attachment. All things are for my use, but not for my ownership.

6. 人生就是带雨伞时不下雨，下雨时却忘了带伞；人生就是勤奋工作时老板没看见，偷懒摸鱼时就被撞见；人生就是喜欢的男人不喜欢我，不喜欢的男人还是不喜欢我；人生就是当你开始思索人生是什么时，你已经成熟了。?>

6. Life is about carrying an umbrella when it doesn't rain, and forgetting it when it does; life is about working diligently when the boss doesn't notice, and being caught napping when the boss does; life is about liking a man who doesn't like you, and the man you don't like still not liking you; life is about when you start to ponder what life is, you have already matured.

7. 过去的一页，能不翻就不要翻，翻落了灰尘会迷了双眼。

7. The past page should not be turned if possible; if it is flipped, dust will fall and blur one's eyes.

8. 不怕一点一点加，天长日久成巨丘。（古希腊）赫西奥德

8. Do not fear to add bit by bit; over time, it will become a towering hill. (Ancient Greece) Hesiod

9. 你身着一件紫红色旗袍，远远看去，真像一只小蝴蝶飞过一样，既美丽称身，又色彩柔和。

9. You are dressed in a purple-red cheongsam, from a distance, it truly resembles a small butterfly flying by, both beautiful and fitting, with soft colors.

10. 经常谈论别人的短处，只会使一个人心胸狭窄。佚名

10. Constantly talking about others' shortcomings only makes a person narrow-minded. Anon.

11. 只有原谅自己的过失，才能治愈过失带来的伤痕。——佚名

11. Only by forgiving one's own faults can the wounds caused by them be healed. - Anonymous

12. 心无杂念才是真正的平常心。竹密岂防流水过，山高怎阻野云飞。佚名

12. True calmness of mind is free from any杂质. Dense bamboo cannot prevent the flowing water, and tall mountains cannot hinder the wild clouds. [Anonymous]

13. 意志坚定。成熟男人有处变不乱的心理素质，他们一旦确定自己奋斗的目标，就朝着它努力，遇到挫折，他们分析原因，吸取教训，及时修正方向，但决不轻易言退。他们会疲倦，但在休整后，又信心十足地出发了。

13. Resolute in will. Mature men possess the psychological quality of composure in the face of change. Once they have determined their goal of struggle, they strive towards it. When faced with setbacks, they analyze the reasons, draw lessons, and promptly correct their direction, but they never give up easily. They may get tired, but after rest and rejuvenation, they set out with renewed confidence.

14. 一个人久了，对爱情会越挑剔；一个人久了，会变的比恋爱时候成熟；一个人久了，朋友会越重要；一个人久了，会越来越喜欢听歌；一个人久了，对节日大多没啥期待。

14. The longer one is alone, the more particular one becomes about love; the longer one is alone, the more mature one becomes compared to when in a relationship; the longer one is alone, friends become increasingly important; the longer one is alone, the more one enjoys listening to music; the longer one is alone, the less one looks forward to holidays.

15. 一个执迷不悟的人是一个不会改变主意也不愿改变主意的人。（英）王尔德

15. A person who is obsessed is one who will not change his mind and does not want to change his mind. (English) Oscar Wilde

16. 只有原谅自己的过失，才能治愈过失带来的伤痕。佚名

16. Only by forgiving one's own faults can the wounds caused by them be healed. - Anon.

17. 在顺心的日子里，你一定要保持那份恬淡，不要得意忘形。

17. On days when everything goes smoothly, you must maintain that tranquility and not become overconfident.

18. 你有你的生命观，我有我的生命观，我不干涉你。只要我能，我就感化你。如果不能，那我就认命。

18. You have your own views on life, and I have mine. I will not interfere with you. As long as I can, I will try to influence you. If I cannot, then I accept my fate.

19. 干净整洁。成熟男人尊重自己的外表。他们留最适合自己的发型，下巴干净没有胡子茬，面部不油腻，不留长指甲。衣服不一定要名牌，但整洁大方，不会穿得皱巴巴象个送快递的。他们决不会穿黑皮鞋配白袜子，穿着西服去旅游。

19. Clean and tidy. Mature men respect their appearance. They choose the hairstyle that suits them best, have a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and don't have long nails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they should be neat and tasteful, not worn in a crumpled manner like a delivery man. They would never wear black leather shoes with white socks or travel in a suit.

20. 假如生活欺骗了你，不要悲伤，不要心急！忧郁的日子里需要镇静：相信吧，快乐的日子将会来临。心儿永远向往着未来；现在却常是忧郁。一切都是瞬息，一切都将会过去；而那过去了的，就会成为亲切的怀恋。

20. If life has deceived you, do not be sad, do not be hasty! In the days of melancholy, you need composure: believe me, happy days will come. The heart forever aspires to the future; yet now it is often filled with melancholy. All is transient, all will pass; and that which has passed will become a tender remembrance.

21. 果曾经说过一句名言：比陆地宽广的是海洋，比海洋宽广的是天空，比天空宽广的是人的胸怀。

21. Guo once said a famous saying: What is broader than land is the sea, what is broader than the sea is the sky, and what is broader than the sky is a person's bosom.

22. 熟女必须具备的一个最基本的条件，就是要有充分的经济实力，消费得起名牌等奢侈品。

22. A mature woman must have a fundamental basic condition, which is to have sufficient economic power to afford luxury brands and other luxury goods.

23. 大肚能容，容天下难容之事；笑口常开，笑世上可笑之人。

23. A big belly can contain what is hard to tolerate in the world; a smiling mouth is always open, smiling at the comical people in the world.

24. 恶人胸中的学问，像疯子手中的利剑。——欧洲

24. The knowledge in the heart of the wicked is like a sharp sword in the hands of a madman. – Europe

25. 所谓完善的人，就是心胸宽广，富有献身和牺牲精神，誓为全人类的幸福而努力奋斗的人。（美）塞德兹

25. The so-called perfect person is one with a broad mind, full of dedication and the spirit of sacrifice, solemnly committed to striving for the happiness of all humanity. (USA) Saydaz

26. 愈是自己有错的人愈不肯宽恕别人，这是个规律。——佚名

26. The more one is at fault, the less willing they are to forgive others; this is a rule. — Anonymous

27. 如果有一天我忍不住问你，你一定要骗我。就算你心里多不情愿，也不要告诉我你最爱的人不是我。

27. If one day I can't help but ask you, you must deceive me. Even if you are very unwilling in your heart, do not tell me that the person you love the most is not me.

28. 生命，如果跟时代的崇高的责任联系在一起，你就会感到它永垂不朽。（俄）车尔尼雪夫斯基

28. Life, when associated with the noble responsibility of the times, will seem eternal and immortal. (Russian) Chernyshevsky

29. 只有勇敢的人才懂得如何宽容；懦夫决不会宽容，这不是他的本性。斯特恩

29. Only the brave know how to be宽容; cowards will never be宽容, this is not in their nature. Stern

30. 心胸宽广的人没有痛苦，欲望无穷的人没有欢乐。

30. A person with a broad mind has no sorrow, and a person with insatiable desires has no joy.

31. 自己萎弱，恶人健全;自己恶动，忌人活泼;自己饮水，嫉人喝茶;自己呻吟，恨人笑声，总是心地欠宽大所致。——佚名

31. Weak in oneself, the wicked are healthy; oneself is restless, envying others' vitality; oneself drinks water, envies others sipping tea; oneself moans, hates others' laughter, all due to a lack of generosity in one's heart. —— Anonymous

32. 只有勇敢的人才懂得如何宽容；懦夫决不会宽容，这不是他的本性。

32. Only the brave understand how to be宽容; cowards will never show tolerance, for it is not in their nature.

33. 退一步安乐法，说三个好喜欢缘。——宋·苏轼

33. The method of tranquility through stepping back, talking about three good, liked connections. — Song Dynasty, Su Shi

34. 一个人所取得的成就的大小与他所碰到的困难的大小成正比。杨乐、张广厚

34. The size of the achievements a person makes is proportional to the size of the difficulties they encounter. - Yang Le, Zhang Guanghou

35. 思考可以构成一座桥，让我们通向新知识。（德）普朗克

35. Thinking can build a bridge that leads us to new knowledge. (German) Planck

36. 这世上最辽阔的是大海，比大海更辽阔的是天空，比天空更辽阔的是人的胸怀。

36. The most vast thing in the world is the sea, vaster than the sea is the sky, and vaster than the sky is the human heart.

37. 我的财富并不是因为我拥有很多，而是我要求的很少。

37. My wealth is not because I own much, but because I ask for little.

38. 成熟的女人举止优雅、谈吐有节，有教养，讲究个人礼仪。宽容大度，善解人意。扮得体大方，按自己的年龄、肤色、身材穿衣打扮，不扮嫩，不装老。

38. A mature woman has an elegant demeanor, talks with decorum, is well-mannered, and adheres to personal etiquette. She is tolerant and generous, understanding and considerate. She dresses appropriately and in a tasteful manner, according to her age, skin color, and figure, avoiding looking young or trying to appear older.

39. 挫折时，从容乐观地面对；失意时，淡然优雅地转身。我们要学会在阴霾中找寻温暖，在暗夜中探求光明，咀嚼平淡如水的生活，领略四季起伏的风景，走出属于自己的人生。自身的强大才是硬道理。不如挺一挺腰板，种下信念的种子，让坚强之树在心灵之中越长越高。

39. When faced with setbacks, confront them with composure and optimism; when feeling disheartened, turn around with calmness and elegance. We should learn to find warmth in the gloom, seek light in the darkness, savor the life as bland as water, appreciate the changing scenery of the four seasons, and carve out our own path in life. The true strength lies in ourselves. Why not straighten our backs, plant the seeds of belief, and allow the tree of resilience to grow taller in our hearts.

40. 人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。

40. Life is but a short span of a few decades, don't leave any regrets for yourself. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. Love when you should, and don't suppress yourself unnecessarily.

41. 我们一生中的错误有一半是在探索如何思考和思考如何探索中犯的。丘柯林斯《警句集》

41. Half of the mistakes we make in our lives are made in exploring how to think and how to explore how to think. — Quotations by C. Collins

42. 草色人情相与闲，是非名利有无间。——唐·杜牧

42. The green of the grass and the human emotions are both at leisure, the distinctions between right and wrong, fame and gain, and having or not having are all intertwined. — Tang Dynasty, Du Mu