1. 人生最难的“心安”二字。所谓“心安”，就是心里没有懊悔的事、没有亏心的事、没有想不开的事，不为名所累，不为利所役，清洁白白做人，干洁净净做事。假如患得患失，心浮气躁，人生就会疲惫不堪、了无生气。唯有坚持一颗安静的心，不眼热势力，不羡慕贫贱，活得地道、活得自然，才干求得一个心安。

1. The most difficult thing in life is to achieve "inner peace." What is meant by "inner peace" is to have no regrets, no guilty feelings, and no unsolvable problems in one's heart. Not to be burdened by fame or enslaved by profit, to live cleanly and do things cleanly. If one is overly concerned about gains and losses, and restless, life will become exhausted and devoid of vitality. Only by maintaining a tranquil heart, not being envious of power or羡慕 poverty, and living authentically and naturally, can one truly seek inner peace.

2. 在这个世界上，没有一个人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事，别人也许会同情，也许会叹，但永远不会清楚你伤口究竟溃烂到何种境地。

2. In this world, no one can truly empathize with another person's pain. Your heart pierced with arrows, your pain intolerable, is only your own affair. Others may sympathize, may sigh, but they will never understand to what extent your wounds have festered.

3. 拿着包子，我忽然明白，原来有些东西，没有，就是没有。不行，就是不行。没有鱼丸，没有粗面，没去马尔代夫没奖牌没有张保仔的宝藏，而张保仔，也没有吃过那个包子。原来愚蠢，并不那么好笑。愚蠢会失败，会失望。失望，并不那么好笑。胖，也并不一定好笑。胖，不一定有力气。有力气，也不一定行。拿着包子，我忽然想到，长大了，到我要面对这个硬邦邦，未必可以做梦未必那么好笑的世界的时候，我会怎么样呢？《麦兜故事》

3. Holding the steamed bun, I suddenly realized that some things are just not there, plain and simple. It just can't be. Without fish balls, without thick noodles, without a medal from Maldives, without Zhang Baotai's treasure, and Zhang Baotai himself hasn't even eaten that bun. It turns out that foolishness is not as funny as one might think. Foolishness leads to failure and disappointment, and disappointment is not as amusing. Being fat is not necessarily funny either. Fatness doesn't necessarily mean strength, and having strength doesn't necessarily mean success. Holding the bun, I suddenly thought, when I grow up and have to face this tough, perhaps dreamless, not necessarily funny world, what will I be like? "The Story of Maycoo"

4. 她来过，她爱过，她努力过，得之是幸，不得是命。当然，年少时的我们如何会相信会有得不到的宿命。

4. She has come, she has loved, she has tried her best. If she gets what she wants, it's a blessing; if not, it's destiny. Of course, at a young age, how could we believe that there could be a predetermined fate that we couldn't achieve.

5. 有些人能让你对明天充满期许，却再也没有出现在你的明天里。

5. Some people can fill you with expectations for tomorrow, yet they no longer appear in your tomorrow.

6. 没有钱，你拿什么维持你的亲情，稳固你的爱情，联络你的友情，靠嘴吗？别闹了，大家都挺忙的。多么现实的一段话

6. Without money, what do you use to maintain your family ties, strengthen your love, and keep in touch with your friends? Just talk? Come on, everyone is pretty busy. What a realistic statement that is.

7. 假如你20岁之后，花的钱还是伸手向父母要的，那么你的满身名牌只能烘托出你的能干。

7. If you are still asking your parents for money after turning 20, then all the branded items you wear can only highlight your competence.

8. 一个人会落泪，是因为痛；一个人之所以会痛，是因为在乎；一个人之所以会在乎，是因为有感觉；一个人之所以有感觉，仅因为你是一个人！所以，你有感觉，在乎，痛过，落泪了，说明你是一个完整的不能再完整的一个人。难过的时候，原谅自己，只不过是一个人而已，没有必要把自己看得这么坚不可摧。

8. A person sheds tears because of pain; one experiences pain because one cares; one cares because one has feelings; and one has feelings only because one is a human being! Therefore, having feelings, caring, experiencing pain, and shedding tears all indicate that you are a perfectly complete individual. When you feel sad, forgive yourself, for you are just one person; there is no need to see yourself as invincible.

9. 但凡死缠烂打的人，大都不是真的深爱你，那只是在跟自己赛跑。真正爱你的人，做不到死缠烂打。因为自尊不允许。我们一直深信，爱就是把最好的一切给予对方，包括尊严。多少浅浅淡淡的转身，是旁人看不懂的情深。

9. Those who persistently chase after others are usually not truly deeply in love, but are just racing against themselves. Those who truly love you cannot persist endlessly. Because self-respect does not allow it. We have always believed that love is about giving the best to the other person, including their dignity. How many subtle and faint turns are the depths of love that others cannot understand.

10. 在爱情里，总有一个主角和配角，累的永远是主角，伤的永远是配角；有时，爱也是一种伤害：残忍的人选择伤害别人，善良的人，选择伤害自己；人生就是一种承受，需要学会支撑。支撑事业，支撑家庭，甚至支撑起整个社会，有支撑就一定会有承受，支撑起多少重量，就要承受多少多大压力。

10. In love, there is always a leading character and a supporting character. It is always the leading character who is tired, and it is always the supporting character who gets hurt. Sometimes, love can also be a form of harm: cruel people choose to harm others, while kind people choose to harm themselves. Life is a form of endurance, and one needs to learn to bear it. To bear the burden of one's career, to bear the burden of the family, and even to bear the burden of the entire society, there will always be endurance when there is support. The more weight you bear, the more pressure you will have to endure.

11. 黑色的天空下，你的身影就像天边遥远的星辰，明亮而又遥不可及。我想爱你，却只能远远的望着你，不能触摸，不能诉说。我的眼睛永远的看着你，只要你还在那里就好，不管岁月如何蹉跎。

11. Under the black sky, your silhouette is like distant stars at the edge of the heavens, bright yet unreachable. I want to love you, but I can only watch you from afar, unable to touch or express my feelings. My eyes will forever be on you, as long as you are still there, regardless of how time may wane.

12. 我能想通 ， 也能接受 ，但我很难过。

12. I can understand and accept it, but I am really sad.

13. 那些直戳人心的话，这世上，谁都不可能等谁一辈子。

13. Words that pierce straight to the heart - in this world, no one can wait for someone else for a lifetime.

14. 给自己一些时间，原谅做过很多傻事的自己。接受自己，爱自己。过去的都会过去，该来的都在路上。

14. Give yourself some time, forgive the many foolish things you've done. Accept yourself, love yourself. The past will pass, and what's to come is on its way.

15. 世界上唯独骗不了的是自己的心，他总在你最没堤防的时候暴露你的欢喜忧愁。

15. The one thing in the world that cannot deceive you is your own heart; it always exposes your joys and sorrows when you are most defenseless.

16. 哭也不会改变什么，这个世界从来不会对任何人温柔。

16. Crying will not change anything, this world has never been kind to anyone.

17. 她没有做错任何事，她不过就是因为爱上他，所以比他卑微，比他渺小，被他轻蔑，被他看不起，被他不珍惜

17. She had done nothing wrong; she was just humbler and smaller than him because she loved him, and he looked down upon her, looked down upon her, and did not cherish her.

18. 过去的就让它过去吧，既然不能挽回，就不要挽回了，不能再见就不要再见了，各自过各自的，不也挺好吗。可是终究有人不甘心啊，为什么世界的遗憾那么多，错过的也这么多，到最后，连朋友都没得做。

18. Let the past be past, since it can't be retrieved, don't try to retrieve it. If you can't meet again, don't try to meet again. Live your own lives; isn't that quite good? But in the end, some people can't bear it. Why are there so many regrets in the world, and so many things missed? In the end, even friends can't be made.

19. 坑是你自己挖的，跳也是你心甘情愿的，可到了最后你会发现你不仅爬不出来而且里面只有你一个人。想得太多会让人万劫不复，收起渴望，好好生活。

19. The hole is one you have dug yourself, and the jump is one you are willing to make, but in the end, you will find that not only can you not climb out, but you are the only person inside. Overthinking can lead to eternal ruin; put away your desires and live well.

20. 我讨厌温柔的女孩子。温柔的女孩子其实对所有人都温柔，我却会误以为只对我温柔，然后就沾沾自喜得意忘形，最后闹得不欢而散，双方都受到伤害。

20. I dislike gentle girls. In fact, gentle girls are gentle to everyone, but I would mistakenly think they are only gentle to me, and then become complacent and self-satisfied, which eventually leads to an unpleasant end where both parties are hurt.

21. 一个人一生的经历阅历，比任何财富都有意思，因为世界上太多好看好听好玩的事。钱能搞定的事，恐怕并不是什么难事，难得是心怎么能搞定。见世面、经风雨，并不是仅为了钱，而是为了人生多点彩，心里多点踏实。

21. The experiences and experiences of a person's life are more meaningful than any wealth, because there are so many beautiful, pleasant, and fun things in the world. Things that money can handle may not be difficult, but what is difficult is how the heart can handle it. Seeing the world, enduring hardships, is not just for money, but for a more colorful life and a more secure heart.

22. 年少时，以为爱能超越一切，那时不明白，世上另有一种力量，叫做命运

22. In my youth, I thought love could transcend everything. Back then, I didn't understand that there is another force in the world called fate.

23. 在第一次选择坚强的时候，一定要想清楚：你是否做好了承受一切的准备。因为你一旦选择了坚强，即使只是假装的，你也必须一直坚持下去。因为你曾经的坚强会让人以为即使再大的苦，你也撑得住。

23. When you choose to be strong for the first time, be sure to think it through: Are you ready to bear everything? Because once you have chosen to be strong, even if it is just a pretense, you must keep going. Because your past strength will make people believe that no matter how great the suffering, you can endure it.

24. 当你把最难熬的那些事都熬过去的时候，大概你就会变成另外一个人吧。

24. When you endure the most difficult things, you may become a different person.

25. 有人说，男生就像洋葱，因为你想探知男生，于是就剥，边剥边哭，后来却发现没心。可其实你一开始剥的，就是他的心，他一开始就把心给你了，可你不信。

25. Some say that boys are like onions, because when you want to know a boy, you peel off the layers, crying as you go, only to find out there is no heart inside. But in fact, what you start peeling off at first is his heart; he gave it to you right from the beginning, but you didn't believe it.

26. 时间，让更深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅，看得淡一点，就会伤的少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就散了。别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。我们真的要过了很久很久，才能够明白，自己真正怀念的，到底是怎样的人，怎样的事。

26. Time allows the deeper things to become ever deeper, and the superficial things to become ever shallower. If one looks upon them with a more indifferent attitude, one will suffer less. Time passes, love becomes faint, and it eventually fades away. Don't wait for the wrong person, and don't hurt the wrong heart. We really need to wait for a very long time before we can understand who it is we truly miss and what kind of things we truly cherish.

27. 我们常常会因这样或那样的伤害而心痛不已，与其喋喋不休的去抱怨，不如静下来深思，流年似水，正是这些刻骨铭心的痛让我们懂得了珍惜生活，珍惜身边的人。生活中，被朋友戏谑或遭人误解时，过多的言辞申辩往往徒劳，此时，莫不如留下一抹微笑给人更多遐想的空间。

27. We often feel deeply hurt by various kinds of injuries, and instead of endlessly complaining, it's better to sit down and think deeply. Time flows like water, and it is these heart-wrenching pains that teach us to cherish life and the people around us. In life, when we are mocked by friends or misunderstood by others, excessive words to defend ourselves are often futile. At such times, it's better to leave a smile that gives people more room for imagination.

28. 不要在他人的目光里找高兴，否则永远悲痛。不要在他人的嘴巴里找尊严，否则永远低微。真心爱本人、做本人的主人，人生才干拥有自由，才干展演的淋漓尽致，不留遗憾！看淡了一切不再自困，假如有一天真的累了，就无机会做回真实的本人，别在乎他人说什么，缄默永远是金。

28. Don't seek joy in others' eyes, or you will forever be in sorrow. Don't seek dignity in others' mouths, or you will forever be humble. Love yourself sincerely, be the master of yourself, and only then can you have freedom in life, and can you fully perform without regrets! When you let go of everything, you no longer trap yourself. If one day you really feel tired, there will be no chance to become the true self again. Don't care about what others say; silence is always golden.

29. 无论生活的多么艰难，最后你总会找到一个让你心甘情愿傻傻相伴的人。

29. No matter how difficult life may be, in the end, you will always find someone who is willing to be foolishly by your side with all your heart.

30. 爱情不是去爱一个完美的人，而是去接受个不完美的人。我们都不完美，都有太多的缺点，然而就因这爱你找到了生活中完美的伴侣。他能接受你的不完美，你也愿意为他做出甘愿改变。从此以后，一对传奇玩偶式的生命便将开始，因为你们最终将融为一体，你中有我，我中有你，堪称完美。

30. Love is not about loving a perfect person, but about accepting an imperfect one. None of us are perfect, we all have too many flaws, yet it is because of this that you have found the perfect companion in life. He accepts your imperfections, and you are willing to make changes for him. From then on, a legendary pair of life-like dolls will begin, because you will eventually become one, with you in me and me in you, which is perfect.

31. 人性一个最特别的弱点就是：在意别人如何看待自己。这一程，希望你活得烈马青葱，不为他人的目光所累。

31. One of the most peculiar weaknesses of human nature is the concern over how others perceive oneself. Through this journey, I hope you live your life with the passion and vitality of a young horse, not burdened by the gaze of others.

32. 别再为错过了什么而懊悔。你错过的人或事，别人才有机会遇见，别人错过了，你才有机会拥有。人人都会错过，人人都曾错过，真正属于你的，永远不会错过。

32. Stop regretting what you missed. The people or things you missed will have the chance to be encountered by others, and when others miss them, you will have the opportunity to possess them. Everyone will miss things, everyone has missed things, and what truly belongs to you will never be missed.

33. 既不回头，何必不忘；既然无缘，何必誓言。今日种种，似水无痕；明夕何夕，君已陌路。

33. If you don't turn back, why not forget? If there's no destiny, why make a vow. Today's troubles are as fleeting as water without a trace; tomorrow is unknown, and you have become a stranger on the road.

34. 一人花开，一人花落，这些年从头到尾，无人问询。

34. One person sees the flowers bloom, another watches them fall; throughout these years, from beginning to end, no one inquired.