在纷繁复杂的世界中，人心如海，情感与事理交织，构成了人生智慧的斑斓画卷。探寻“学习隐藏：心事与本事，成就人生智慧”，我们将在这一篇章中揭开心事的神秘面纱，揭示本事的力量，共同探索如何在纷扰中找到人生的真谛。

In the intricate and complex world, the human heart is as vast as the sea, where emotions and principles intertwine, forming a colorful tapestry of life wisdom. In exploring "Learning to Hide: Emotions and Abilities, Achieving Life Wisdom", we will unveil the mysterious veil of secrets in this chapter, reveal the power of abilities, and together explore how to find the essence of life amidst the turmoil.

1. 生活中，我们总有太多的抱怨，太多的不平衡，太多的不满足，犹如一个被宠坏的孩子，总是向生活不断索取着。越是拥有，越是担心失去。生活中的很多东西一旦失去，便不容我们找寻。

1. In life, we always have too many complaints, too much imbalance, and too much dissatisfaction, as if we were a spoiled child, constantly demanding more from life. The more we have, the more we worry about losing it. Once we lose many things in life, there is no room for us to look for them.

2. 你之所以会觉得累是因为你说的比做的多，欲望大过本事。想要改变却又无能为力，想要顺其自然却又无法心安理得。

2. The reason you feel tired is because you talk more than you act, and your desires outweigh your abilities. You want to change, but feel powerless; you want to go with the flow, yet cannot find peace of mind.

3. 生活最沉重的负担不是工作，而是无聊。心境。一切只在于自己的心境，无关其他。

3. The heaviest burden of life is not work, but boredom. It's all about one's mindset, nothing else matters.

4. 有什么想法，不要着急说出来，你要不动声色的去行动，做出成绩了，自然会被人看到。不能说的原因有三个：

4. If you have any ideas, don't rush to express them. You should act discreetly and make achievements, and people will naturally notice. There are three reasons why you can't say them:

5. 33你怀念的，不是旧的时光。而是住在旧时光里绝口不提的爱。

5. What you miss is not the old times, but the love that was never mentioned while living in those old times.

6. 人生莫过做好三件事：一是选择一条适合自己走的路，别左顾右盼，莫贪多求快，不要误入乱花迷了眼；二是懂得坚持，忌一味跟风，坚守好这一刻，才能看到下一刻的风景；三是懂得如何放弃，属于你的终究有限，放弃繁星，你才能收获黎明。

6. There are three things that matter most in life: First, choose a path that suits yourself, do not look left and right, do not seek too much or desire speed, and do not be lured by the chaotic flowers and lose your way; second, understand the importance of persistence, avoid blindly following trends, and hold on to this moment so that you can see the scenery of the next moment; third, understand how to let go, what belongs to you is ultimately limited, by giving up the scattered stars, you can reap the dawn.

7. 天下古今之庸人，皆以一惰字致败；天下古今之人才，皆以一傲字致败。

7. Throughout history, both common and talented individuals have been defeated by a single character of laziness; throughout history, both common and talented individuals have been defeated by a single character of arrogance.

8. 假如你对你自己都是不感到满意的话，那么从长远的角度来讲，无论你在与谁相处你都不会感到快乐。所以在你在开始与他人分享你的人生之前，你所要做的就是去要让你自己的内在的自己去变的美好。

8. If you are not satisfied with yourself, from a long-term perspective, you will not feel happy regardless of who you are with. So before you start sharing your life with others, what you need to do is to make your inner self beautiful.

9. 23除了自己，没有任何人知道心到底有多难过

9. 23 No one but oneself knows just how deeply the heart is hurting.

10. 能经得起婚后锅碗瓢盆交响曲和生活酸甜苦辣的考验，才是真正的爱情。

10. Only those who can withstand the考验 of the symphony of pots and pans after marriage and the ups and downs of life's sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy experiences are truly in love.

11. 人生苦短,行走在人生路上,匆匆而又忙忙,跌跌而又撞撞,奔波而又小心,劳累而又费心,一生,留下什么,又得到什么。细想,活着,就该尽力活好,一定不要让自己活得太累。想开、看淡,放松,人不可太精,事不可太勤,不要累人、累己、累心。记住,你好,全家才会安好。

11. Life is short, and walking on the path of life, we rush about and are busy, stumble and collide, run and watch our step, toil and worry, leaving behind what and gaining what in a lifetime. Upon reflection, one should strive to live well while alive, absolutely not allowing oneself to live too tired. Be open-minded, take things lightly, relax, do not be too meticulous, and do not overdo it with work. Do not overburden oneself, others, or one's mind. Remember, if you are well, your whole family will be at peace.

12. 要成功就要周详考虑谋定而后动，一旦决定即雷厉风行一干到底，害怕失败什么都别干。

12. To succeed, one must carefully consider and plan before acting, once a decision is made, act with determination and perseverance until the end, and do not do anything if one fears failure.

13. 14一个犹如边关过客：食餐忧餐，指雁为羹。一个彷似内宛佳人：养尊处优，炊金馔玉。系世俗噶眼里，和我如是不般配，可透过你一只顾盼，一只凝神的双眼，与你是这般登对。

13. 14 A person like a traveler at the frontier: eating with worry, turning geese into soup. A person resembling an elegant beauty within: living in luxury, cooking gold and jade dishes. In the eyes of the secular world, I am not a match for you, but through your one glance and one focused gaze, we are so well-suited together.

14. 路，自有路的方向。云，自由云的归宿。我喜欢这样静静的，看泪，开成花朵；看流年，涓涓的细流，聚成小溪，汇成海洋。聚散，是一场缘。缘聚缘散，一应随风。

14. The road has its own direction. The clouds, their own destination. I like to watch silently as tears bloom into flowers; as the years flow, like a gentle stream, gather into a small river, and converge into the ocean. Gathering and dispersing is a matter of fate. The coming together and parting of fate are all subject to the wind.

15. 认识自己，降伏自己，改变自己，才能改变别人。

15. One must first know oneself, conquer oneself, and change oneself before one can change others.

16. 你若化成风，我幻化成雨。风雨缠绵，不过风篆刻雨，雨滴碎风。一场雨后风消云散，终究抵不过虹桥的倾国倾城，只一瞬，风雨尽被抛之脑后，只一瞬，风雨之恋无痕迹。

16. If you transform into the wind, I will become the rain. The wind and rain intertwine, yet it is the wind that carves the rain, and the raindrops shatter the wind. After a rain, the wind and clouds disperse, yet they cannot withstand the grandeur of the rainbow that captivates the nation. In just a moment, the wind and rain are cast aside, and in just a moment, the love between the wind and rain leaves no trace.

17. 真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的。

17. True love does not seek excitement, does not care for grandeur, does not value bustle, and even less does it chase fame.

18. 量有多大，心有多静；心有多静，福有多深。心静不静，和环境无关。最深的宁静，来自最宽广、包容的胸怀。福深福浅，不在于能笑着迎来多少，而在于能看淡多少失去。人生之苦，在得失间。心胸宽广之人，拿得起，放得下，无意于得失，自然坐怀不乱。心静了，才有闲心品味出已有的幸福。

18. The greater the quantity, the greater the tranquility of the heart; the greater the tranquility of the heart, the deeper the blessings. The tranquility of the heart has nothing to do with the environment. The deepest tranquility comes from the widest, most inclusive heart. The depth of blessings does not lie in how many joys one can welcome with a smile, but in how many losses one can overlook. The suffering of life lies in the between of gain and loss. A person with a broad mind can take and let go, indifferent to gain and loss, and naturally remains composed. Only when the heart is tranquil can one have the leisure to savor the existing happiness.

19. 人都是活在世俗的社会中，多多少少都会沾染上俗气，但是我会保持一颗脱俗的心。也许在别人眼里，我是自命清高，但是内心的宁静比别人那些喧嚣的评价要有用的多。生活感悟

19. People all live in the secular world and to varying degrees, they will be contaminated by the trivial. However, I will maintain a heart that transcends the mundane. Perhaps in others' eyes, I may be self-righteous, but the tranquility within me is far more useful than those noisy evaluations from others. Life insights.

20. 6雨后的风，清爽而忧郁，能吹走大地的污浊，却吹不走本身寂寞的心境。风比海岸线蓝而寂寞，雨比云潮湿而孤寂；你比我想象中遥远而冷清，我比我自我想象中更常想起你。

20. The wind after the rain, cool and melancholic, can blow away the dirt of the earth, yet it cannot blow away the loneliness of its own heart. The wind is bluer and lonelier than the coastline, the rain is wetter and more desolate than the clouds; you are more distant and desolate than I imagined, and I think of you more often than I imagined myself.

21. 生活就是这样，永远占领着绝对领导地位。当无数的傻子高呼着自己控制了生活自己掌握了命运，却没有看到生活站在更高的苍穹之上，露出讥笑嘲讽的面容。

21. Life is like this, always occupying an absolute leading position. When countless fools shout that they control life and master their fate, they fail to see that life stands above in a higher sky, revealing a face of sarcastic and mocking smiles.

22. 好运只是个副产品，只有当你不带任何私心杂念，单纯地去做事情时，它才会降临。

22. Good fortune is just a byproduct; it will only come when you do things without any personal bias or ulterior motives, purely and sincerely.

23. 总有太多的失望，却一直充满渴望；总有太多的失意，却一直渴望如意。人生，总是如此，再多的挫折，淹没不了心中的期望；再大的失利，枯萎不了胸中的希望。累了，不惧，苦了，不畏，奔波努力，于失意中，一次次安慰自己，一回回鼓励自己。就这样，在人生的路上，我们一直继续，渴望着有一天，也能如意。

23. There is always too much disappointment, yet we are always full of longing; there is always too much frustration, yet we always yearn for success. Life is always like this, no matter how many setbacks, they cannot drown out the expectations in our hearts; no matter how great the failures, they cannot wither the hope in our chests. Tired, we are not afraid; suffering, we are not afraid; struggling and striving, we comfort ourselves time and again in our frustration, and encourage ourselves over and over. That's how, on the path of life, we keep going, longing for the day when we can also achieve our desires.

24. 一个人幸福快乐的根源在于他愿意成为他自己。不要去做若当初做了另一种选择这种无意义的假设。你手里握着的，你所厌倦或者习以为常的或许正是他人渴求的。所以要快乐，要感恩，要安静的享受现在拥有的一切。

24. The source of a person's happiness and joy lies in their willingness to be themselves. Do not indulge in meaningless assumptions about what might have been if you had made another choice. What you hold in your hands, what you are tired of or have become accustomed to, may very well be something others are longing for. So be happy, be grateful, and quietly enjoy everything you have at the moment.

25. 家，很平淡，只要每天都能看见亲人的笑脸，就是幸福的展现；爱，很简单，只要每天都会彼此挂念，就是踏实的情感。

25. Home is plain and simple, as long as you can see the smiling faces of your loved ones every day, it is a display of happiness; love is easy, as long as you both think of each other every day, it is a sense of security.

26. 13有人说人一生中会遇到近万人，真正会认识的大概好几千人，很多人只是你生命中的过客，可能在某一段时间占据着你生活的重心，终究只有一个人，会陪你走完下半生，当我们老了，回想起来，还有几个人会留在我们记忆里呢？

26. 13 It is said that one may meet nearly ten thousand people in their lifetime, but truly get to know only a few thousand. Many are just passersby in your life, possibly taking up the center of your life for a while, but ultimately, only one person will accompany you through the latter half of your life. When we grow old and look back, how many of them will remain in our memories?

27. 人相处最怕的就是:你不相信你看到的我,却相信别人口中说的我。

27. The scariest thing about getting along with people is: you don't believe the me you see, but you believe the me others say.

28. 30其实每个人都有这样的经历吧，躺在夜里却怎样也睡不着。会有许多许多的画面在自己的脑海里，以前的你，以前的我，以前的我们。或悲或喜，或忧或痛。在成长的路上，我们懂得了，儿时的有些东西，必须要丢掉。在成长的路上，我们懂得了，有一些习惯我们必须戒掉。

28. 30 In fact, everyone has such an experience, lying in bed at night but unable to fall asleep. There will be countless images in your mind, the past you, the past me, the past us. Whether it's joy or sorrow, or worry or pain. On the path of growth, we come to understand that some things from our childhood must be let go of. On the path of growth, we also learn that there are some habits we must quit.

29. 20有时候，我真想变成一个木偶。这样，便能够没心没肺的活着。

29. Sometimes, I really wish to become a puppet. Then, I could live carefree.

30. 顺着激流逆流而走，在逆流中谴思，在逆流中成长，在逆流中自强。

30. To go against the current, to reflect in the counter-current, to grow in the counter-current, and to strengthen oneself in the counter-current.

31. 如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。

31. If you don't give yourself烦恼 (trouble), others can never give you trouble either. Because it is your own heart that you cannot let go of.

32. 每个人都有自己鲜明的主张和个性，不要识途去改变他人，同样，也不要被他人所改变。改了，就不是自己了。

32. Everyone has their own distinct opinions and personality. Do not set out to change others, nor should you allow yourself to be changed by others. If you do, you will no longer be yourself.

33. 假如我能搏击蓝天，那是您给了我腾飞的翅膀；假如我是击浪的勇士，那是您给了我弄潮的力量；假如我是不灭的火炬，那是您给了我青春的光亮！

33. If I could soar in the azure sky, it is you who gave me the wings to take flight; if I am a warrior against the waves, it is you who gave me the strength to ride the tides; if I am an eternal torch, it is you who gave me the brightness of youth!

34. 27眼泪是自己的，不要轻易的施舍给不值得的人

34. 27 The tears are your own; do not readily bestow them on those who do not deserve them.

35. 偶尔也要现实和虚伪一点，因为不那样做的话，很难混。

35. Sometimes you have to be a bit realistic and insincere, because otherwise, it's hard to get by.

36. 不是我们不懂得生活，大多时候是因为生活改变了我们！因此，有的人总感觉是生活让自己受了伤，一旦遇到不称心的事，便怨天尤人、恨世疾俗。岂不知，这主要缘于自己还没有真正了悟生活的真谛和内在的质地。

36. It's not that we don't understand life; most of the time, it's life that changes us! Therefore, some people always feel that life has hurt them, and when they encounter something unsatisfactory, they start blaming the heavens and others, and hate the world and its customs. But little do they know that this mainly stems from their own lack of true understanding of the essence and inherent quality of life.

37. 我们每个人都有不同的处世方式，就像一串葡萄到手后，有人挑最好的先吃，有人把好的留到最后吃。

37. We all have different ways of dealing with life, just like after picking a cluster of grapes, some people eat the best ones first, while others save the good ones for last.

38. 有的时候人会摔一跤,趁这个机会应该回头看一看,看看自己曾经走过的路,用不着匆匆忙忙往前走,也许你想明白了以后你就会发现,前面的东西根本就不重要,该有的我们都有了。心小了,所有的小事就大了;心大了,所有的大事都小了;看淡世事沧桑,内心安然无恙。

38. Sometimes people may fall, and it's an opportunity to take a look back, to see the path they have walked. There's no need to rush forward. Perhaps after you understand, you will find that what's ahead is not important at all; we already have what we should have. When the heart is small, all trivial matters seem big; when the heart is big, all major matters seem small. By taking a light-hearted attitude towards the vicissitudes of life, the mind remains unharmed.

39. 有时候真的是这样,你利用价值越高人缘越好。

39. Sometimes it's really true that the higher your utility value, the better your popularity.

40. 人生,看透不如看淡。人生很多人事,不是不懂,只是无奈。一辈子,就图个心里痛快。那些想不通头疼,想通了心疼的人事,不如淡然视之。我们真实地活着,但不是每个人,每件事都要较真到底。真实的背后,往往隐藏着一场心痛。开心地活着,如花自然开,自然落,不难过。

40. Life, it's better to take it lightly than to see through it. Many things in life are not because we don't understand them, but because we are helpless. Throughout our lives, we just want some peace of mind. It's better to take things lightly than to get headaches and heartaches over things that don't make sense to us or that we can't understand. We live our lives authentically, but not everything and not everyone needs to be taken to the extreme. Behind the truth, there is often a hidden heartache. Live happily, like a flower that blooms and falls naturally, without sadness.

41. 没人可以带走你的苦与痛，一切都要自己去面对。人心就像一个容器，当你装的快乐多了，那么郁闷就自然的少了。有些苦，可以挂在脸上让人知晓；有些痛，只能埋在心底独自承受。风好，吹乱了我的秀发，吹落了你的假发

41. No one can take away your sorrows and pains; you have to face everything on your own. The human heart is like a container; when you fill it with more joy, melancholy naturally diminishes. Some bitterness can be shown on your face for others to know; some pain, however, can only be buried deep within and endured alone. The wind is good, it messes up my hair, it blows off your wig.

42. 28一切抵但是时间，就好像以前的山盟海誓，而今成为最大的谎言。原本相向而行，最后变成背道而别。有些记忆永远无法忘记，除了让自己不去想，剩下的还是会想的。经历的那么多风雨，才知道谁也不会在谁的世界永久。

42. 28 All apologies are just time, just like the solemn promises of the past that have now become the biggest lies. What once seemed to be walking in the same direction has ultimately turned into a parting of ways. Some memories are forever unforgettable, and even if you try not to think about them, the thoughts still linger. After experiencing so many storms and trials, we realize that no one will remain in another's world forever.

43. 每个人来到世界上，都是独自旅行，即使有人相伴，终究各奔东西。

43. Every person who comes into the world is on a solo journey, even if someone is accompanying them, they will eventually go their separate ways.

44. 在感情的路上，你可能遭遇失恋、背叛，这都不可怕，可怕的是你拒绝面对。没人只谈恋爱不过日子，别相信谁会宠谁一辈子。心变了就是变了，让TA做梦去吧，总有一天TA会被恶梦惊醒。哭，是因为爱过。你是绩优股，不要在意短时被错杀被抛掉，是TA没眼光，不懂得珍惜而已。

44. On the road of emotions, you may encounter heartbreak and betrayal, which are not可怕, what is可怕的是你拒绝面对。No one only falls in love and doesn't live life, don't believe that someone will pamper someone for a lifetime. The heart has changed, it has changed, let it dream on, one day it will be awakened by a nightmare. Cry because you have loved. You are an excellent stock, don't care about being mistakenly killed and thrown off in the short term, it's just that they don't have good eyesight and don't know how to cherish.

45. 智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。

45. The cost of wisdom is contradiction. This is a joke that life plays on the view of life.

46. 19看一场不痛不痒的**，谈一场没有目的的爱情

46. 19 Watch a movie that's neither painful nor boring, have a love affair without a purpose.

47. 中年是一种涵养，雍容大度，律己容人，海纳百川，无欲而刚；中年是一种气质，优雅大方，潇洒坦然，于深沉中有一种旷达，于矜持中有一种恬淡，挥洒处内敛着修养，豪放中蕴涵着端庄。

47. Middle age is a cultivation, dignified and magnanimous, self-disciplined and tolerant of others, embracing the vast like the ocean, unyielding yet strong due to a lack of desires; middle age is a temperament, elegant and generous, relaxed and composed, with a certain breadth amidst depth, a certain calmness amidst self-composure, revealing refinement in restraint, and containing dignity within its magnificence.

48. 11你来，我以为是永远；突然，你不见了，我哭了很久很久

48. 11 You came, and I thought it would be forever; suddenly, you disappeared, and I cried for a very long time.

49. 做生意第一要决就是眼光独到，想别人未想的事，走在别人前面，让别人在后面追。例如：您发现一种商品很符合当地实情，判断自己进回来一定畅销，这是生意人挣钱的准则，等把市场铺开了，别人跟风就晚了。

49. The first rule of doing business is to have a keen eye, think of things that others haven't thought of, and be ahead of others, allowing them to chase after you. For example: If you find a product that is very suitable for the local situation and judge that it will definitely sell well when you import it, this is the criterion for making money for businesspeople. By the time the market is expanded, others will be late to follow the trend.

50. 24我以为看到了你，便拥有了世界，却不知你的梦里，早就拥有了我。――耳根《我欲封天》

50. 24 I thought I saw you, and I owned the world, yet I didn't know that in your dreams, you had already owned me. -- Ear root, "I Want to Seal the Sky"

51. 36想去竹林看一场雨，或许会邀上一个人同行，或许会是一个人的风景。这又有何妨？一个人，一片竹，一帘雨，也是一份惬意的清欢。想去海边听风，一个人伴一帘秋韵。生命本来就是一个人的清欢，你在或者不在已经不是很重要。应对思念，我早已习惯了独自承受孤独。

51. 36 wants to watch a rain in the bamboo forest, perhaps inviting someone to join, or perhaps it will be a solitary scene. What's the harm in that? A person, a patch of bamboo, a curtain of rain, is also a pleasant enjoyment. I want to go to the seaside to listen to the wind, accompanied by the autumnal charm of a curtain. Life itself is a solitary enjoyment, and whether you are there or not is not very important. In the face of longing, I have long been accustomed to bearing loneliness alone.

52. 学会付出就会有回报；学会争取就会有机会；学会努力就会有成功；学会简单就会有快乐；学会给予就会有余香；学会去爱就会拥有爱；学会感恩就会幸福。命运在为你关上一扇门的同时，也会为你打开一扇窗。用一种平淡的心境去生活，一切也就豁然开朗。

52. Learning to give will bring rewards; learning to strive will bring opportunities; learning to work hard will bring success; learning to keep things simple will bring happiness; learning to give will leave a lingering fragrance; learning to love will possess love; learning to be grateful will bring happiness. While fate closes a door for you, it also opens a window. Living with a tranquil heart, everything will become clear and open up.

53. 26说人生没有如果那是假的。如果始终在诱惑着我们，但是首先要活在当下。这样才能拥有更多的关于未来的如果。你说如果将来是能够去周游世界，那么就该多么开心。不要随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的。过去的事能够不忘记，但必须要放下。你没那么多观众，别那么累。

53. The saying that life has no 'ifs' is false. While 'ifs' may always be tempting us, the first thing is to live in the present. This way, you can have more 'ifs' about the future. You say if the future allows you to travel the world, then it would be incredibly joyful. Don't lose your temper at random; no one owes you anything. You can remember the past, but you must let it go. You don't have that many spectators; don't burden yourself so much.

54. 22你说你是个有故事的女孩，我说我想听听你以前的故事。你以前的故事没有我，那些日子出此刻你身边的那些人可能是你人生中的一个过客，配角，此刻我出现，我想说，我要和你一起述说一个我们的故事，用一生来演绎。

54. You say you are a girl with a story, and I say I want to hear about your past stories. Your past stories didn't include me, and the people around you during those days might have been just a passerby, or a supporting character in your life. Now that I'm here, I want to say, I want to tell a story about us together, a story that we will act out over the course of our lives.

55. 18做人，异常是女人：要耐得住寂寞，经得起敷衍，受得了欺骗，忘得了诺言，然后用微笑坦然应对一切！要想欢乐和幸福，就要放得开，想得开！无论是贫是富，都要生活。珍惜爱你的人，简单的，欢乐的生活比什么都好！

55. 18 ways of living, especially for women: endure loneliness, withstand insincerity, bear deception, forget promises, and then calmly face everything with a smile! To seek joy and happiness, one must let go and not hold on! Whether poor or rich, life must be lived. Cherish those who love you, simple and joyful living is better than anything else!

56. 没人会把我们变的越来越好，时间也只是陪衬。支撑我们变的越来越好的是我们自己不断进阶的才华，修养，品行以及不断的反思和修正。一个人的心房要承载多少毁灭，才会遇到另一颗复活它的心。在喜欢你的人那里，去热爱生活；在不喜欢你的人那里，去看清世界。

56. No one can make us better and better; time is just a backdrop. It is our own continuous progress in talent,修养, character, and constant reflection and correction that support us in becoming better. How much destruction must a person's heart bear before encountering another heart that revives it? In the presence of those who like you, love life; in the presence of those who do not like you, see the world clearly.

57. 生活中只有一种英雄主义，那就是在认清生活真相之后依然热爱生活。

57. There is only one form of heroism in life, and that is to love life even after recognizing its true nature.

58. 再悲伤的面孔，也不过不刷牙，不洗脸，不梳头，蓬头垢面，和一双空洞的眼睛。

58. No matter how sad a face may be, it's no more than not brushing teeth, not washing the face, not combing the hair, looking disheveled, and a pair of hollow eyes.

59. 静气，是一种气质，一种修养，一种境界，也是东方智慧之一。诸葛亮给他儿子写信说：夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。夫学，须静也;才，须学也。非学无以广才，非志无以成学。这是诸葛亮一生的体会。细细品味，静气说起来容易，做起来难。 养一点静气，给自己一片晴朗的天空！万物静观皆自得，人生宁静方致远。

59. Composure is a temperament, a cultivation, a realm, and also one of the Eastern wisdoms. Zhuge Liang wrote a letter to his son: The conduct of a gentleman is to cultivate oneself through composure, to nourish virtue through frugality, without a tranquil mind, one cannot clarify one's aspirations, without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant goals. Learning requires composure; talent requires learning. Without learning, one cannot broaden one's talents, without aspirations, one cannot accomplish one's studies. This is Zhuge Liang's experience throughout his life. When carefully tasted, it is easy to talk about composure, but difficult to practice. Cultivate a bit of composure, and give yourself a clear sky! All things can be appreciated in tranquility, and only with tranquility in life can one achieve distant goals.

60. 39生活也就是些微小的细节：一个回眸，一段发呆的片刻，一根点燃了又忘记吸的烟，一段隔着玻璃的温柔爱抚，和一种走路的姿态，一个门牌，以及是一支歌里卸下的心事。遇见喜事了，也别太放在心上，因为那只是一瞬间。懂得，一生中，名利那也只是过眼云烟，拥有再多，不如有份好情绪。

60. 39 Life is just a collection of minor details: a glance back, a moment of daydreaming, a cigarette lit and then forgotten, a gentle caress through glass, a certain way of walking, a house number, and the hidden feelings released in a song. When you encounter good news, don't take it too to heart, because it's just a moment. Understand that in life, fame and wealth are just a fleeting smoke, and no matter how much you have, it's better to have a good mood.

61. 34想念，不停挥霍，以往那份承诺已不属于我。

61. 34 yearnings, ceaseless squandering, that previous promise no longer belongs to me.

62. 4依依的水岸，我早已经说出了自我的诺言。如果你知道，请你到来。因为有我，我坚信有你。

62. By the banks of the river Yi Yi, I have already spoken my own vow. If you know, please come. Because of me, I firmly believe that you are there.

63. 学会藏住自己的心事，不要指望别人能理解你，有些事甚至连神明都不能说。

63. Learn to keep your innermost thoughts hidden, don't expect others to understand you; there are some things that even the gods cannot speak of.

64. 越长大越懂得:逢人只说三分话,不可全抛一片心。

64. As I grow older, I realize: when speaking to others, only say three parts of the truth, and do not pour out all of your heart.

65. 令狐冲说有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。

65. Linghu Chong said that there are some things that we cannot control ourselves, so we have to control ourselves instead.

66. 别想太多，会累。别想要太多，有可能会失望。别想要太多财富，有可能会丢掉健康。别想要太多财富的同时还想拥有健康，因为这实在是太贪心了。是你的，会来。不是你的，求也没用。

66. Don't overthink things, it will exhaust you. Don't desire too much, as you might end up disappointed. Don't desire too much wealth, as you might lose your health. Don't desire too much wealth while wanting to maintain health, because that is too greedy. What is yours will come. What is not yours, no matter how much you beg, is of no use.

67. 这个世界到处充满着不公平，我们能做的不仅仅是接受，还要试着做一些反抗。欢喜中持有一份凝重，悲哀时多留一丝希望；对生活的负责任，谨慎对待每一个属于自己的日子。

67. This world is filled with inequality, and what we can do is more than just accept it; we should try to make some resistance. Hold a sense of gravity amidst joy, and leave a thread of hope in sadness; take responsibility for life, and treat every day that belongs to us with caution.

68. 真想带你去见见以前的我，这样你就知道，你的出现，究竟改变了怎么样的一个人。

68. I really wish I could take you to meet the old me, so you would know just how much your presence has changed a person.

69. 25铁打的营盘，流水的兵，说的是过客；子在川上曰逝者如斯夫，说的是过客；世间的万物都是过客，地球几亿年，人类如微末，怎样不是过客？浩瀚的星空，无数的流星都是过客。

69. "The camp is as solid as iron, while the soldiers come and go," this refers to passersby; as the saying goes, "The ones who pass by the river say, 'How fleeting they are!'", this also refers to passersby; all things in the world are just passersby. The Earth has been around for several billion years, and humans are just a tiny speck, how can they not be considered as passersby? The vast expanse of the starry sky, with its countless shooting stars, are all just passersby.

70. 王志文：“人要学会藏两样东西，一是心事，二是本事。心事要藏在自己心里，一旦说出来，就成了别人嘴里的故事，如果心不设防，受伤是早晚的事。本事也要藏三分，本事如锋芒，是一种刺，很容易扎伤别人，人都有嫉妒心理，宁可接受陌生人成功，却很难容忍身边人拔尖。如果你不懂敛藏，肯定会招来数不尽的明枪暗箭。”

70. Wang Zhiwen: "A person should learn to hide two things: one is their inner thoughts, and the other is their abilities. Inner thoughts should be kept in one's heart; once they are spoken out, they become stories in others' mouths. If one's heart is not guarded, it will be sooner or later hurt. Abilities should also be hidden by three parts. Abilities are like sharp points, which can easily hurt others. Everyone has a jealous psychology; they can tolerate the success of strangers, but it's hard to endure the excellence of those around them. If you don't know how to keep them hidden, you will definitely attract countless arrows both in the open and in the dark."

71. 37凡事都存在前因后果，因缘成熟了，果报便产生了，无法阻挡。但是发生过了就会消失，有来就有走，一切都是过客，把握自己当下的因缘，承担起自己该承担的职责，做好眼前该做的事情，做的时候尽全力，过去便放下，放下即自在。

71. 37 Everything has a cause and effect. When the causes and conditions are ripe, the fruits of karma arise, which cannot be stopped. However, once something has occurred, it will fade away; there is a coming and a going, and all things are transient visitors. Seize the causes and conditions of the present moment, take on the responsibilities that one should, do the things that need to be done in front of you with all your effort, let go of the past when it is time, and let go leads to ease and freedom.

72. 朋友有什么义务替他保守秘密？他不想人知，就不要说，你不让他说，他才会心痒而死，所以做朋友的借出耳朵已经仁至义尽，其他的，管他呢！

72. What obligations do friends have to keep his secrets? If he doesn't want anyone to know, don't say it; if you don't let him say it, he will be itchy in his heart and die. So, as a friend, lending an ear is already doing enough kindness; as for the rest, who cares!

73. 一生辗转千万里，莫问成败重几许，得之坦然，失之淡然，与其在别人的辉煌里仰望，不如亲手点亮自己的心灯，扬帆远航，把握最真实的自己，才会更深刻地解读自己

73. Having wandered through tens of thousands of miles in a lifetime, do not inquire how many successes and failures there are, embrace what you gain with calmness and lose with composure. It is better to light up your own heart with your own hands than to gaze at others' brilliance from afar. Sailing far and wide, grasp the most authentic version of yourself, and you will more profoundly interpret yourself.

74. 一、事已密成，语以泄败。悄悄的做，成功的胜算才大。如果还没有做，就到处嚷嚷，唯恐天下不知道，殊不知，难免有人有觊觎之心，算计之心，嫉妒之心，会给你设置障碍，挖好陷阱。

74. One, once the matter is secretly completed, any泄露 could lead to failure. It is best to act quietly, for only then is there a greater chance of success. If you haven't done it yet, then you should not make a fuss everywhere, fearing that the whole world doesn't know. However, you may not realize that there are always some people who are envious, who have calculating minds, and who are jealous. They may set obstacles for you, and dig traps for you.

75. 别人拿不走的10人生财富1童心，永不变老的心态；2善良，善良是慈悲的母亲；3浪漫，美丽无处不在；4幻想，青春的专利；5缠绵，情深意浓；6文雅，尊重别人是在庄严自己；7自信，相信自己就是相信未来；8凝重，沉思积淀人生；9果敢，根绝彷徨犹豫；10胸襟，极目瞩天舒。

75. Ten lifetime wealths that others cannot take away: 1. A childlike heart, an eternal youthful mindset; 2. Kindness, the mother of compassion; 3. Romance, beauty is everywhere; 4. Imagination, the patent of youth; 5. Intimacy, profound and deep affection; 6. Elegance, respecting others is to sanctify oneself; 7. Confidence, believing in yourself is to believe in the future; 8. Gravity, meditative accumulation of life; 9. Courageous, eradicating hesitation and doubt; 10. Broadmindedness, looking up at the sky with ease.

76. 此外，还要学会藏住自己的本事。君子藏器于身，待时而动。如果你处处表现的很厉害，锋芒毕露，别人就会不舒服，不痛快。人性的一个弱点就是见不得别人比自己好。你表现得本事过人，是压过别人一头，别人是不会高兴的。不高兴，就会给你找麻烦。

76. Additionally, one must learn to hide one's abilities. A gentleman hides his talents within himself, waiting for the right moment to act. If you show off your prowess everywhere, exposing your sharpness, others will feel uncomfortable and dissatisfied. A weakness in human nature is that people cannot bear to see others be better than themselves. If you show off your exceptional abilities, it's like pushing others down, and others will not be happy about it. If they are not happy, they will cause you trouble.

77. 7过客般的开始，过客般的结束，过客般的落幕。一切都只能存在于记忆的深处。

77. A transient beginning, a transient ending, and a transient curtain call. Everything can only exist in the depths of memory.

78. 每个人都有阴暗面、虚伪面,有什么好奇怪的,对不同的人不同态度,喜欢就交流,不喜就陌路。

78. Everyone has a dark side and a false face, what's so strange about that? People have different attitudes towards different individuals; if they like someone, they communicate, and if they don't, they keep their distance.

79. 不艾，不怨，心坦然。生活，有苦乐；人生，有起落。学会挥袖从容，暖笑无殇。

79. Without resentment, without complaint, the heart is at ease. Life has its sorrows and joys; life has its ups and downs. Learn to wave the sleeve with composure, and smile warmly without sorrow.

80. 1漂泊的心依旧，忙碌的脚步依旧匆匆。形单只影的浪漫之花，仍开在落寞处唏嘘的须根早已长满，散尽繁华的红尘梦经已落下。

80. 1 The wandering heart remains, and the busy steps are still hurried. The romantic flower of solitude still blooms in the desolate place, where the sighing roots are already full of sorrow, and the dream of the bustling world has already fallen.

81. 我选择糊涂，不是我真的糊涂，面对误解委屈和不公正，只是不愿计较，从而大度应对，难得糊涂，笑看世态。我选择饶恕，不是我没原则。因为我明白，得饶人时且饶人，不能把事做绝了。我选择真诚，我有话就直说。因为我明白，违心奉承是应付，忠言逆耳是负责。

81. I choose to be oblivious, not because I am truly confused. In the face of misunderstandings, grievances, and injustice, I simply do not want to nitpick, thus dealing with them generously. It is a rare kind of obliviousness to laugh at the ways of the world. I choose to forgive, not because I lack principles. Because I understand, when you can let people off easy, do so; you should not make things too extreme. I choose sincerity, and I speak my mind directly. Because I understand, insincere flattery is just a way to cope, and honest but unpleasant advice is responsible.

82. 人总是这样,对亲近的人太苛求,对陌生人显得过于宽容。

82. People are always like this: they are too demanding of those close to them and too lenient with strangers.

83. 二、你不说，上天都会保佑你。你说出来，福气被消耗掉了。

83. Secondly, if you don't say it, heaven will protect you. But if you say it out loud, the blessings will be depleted.

84. 人生百年弹指间，总要经历一些事，遇到一些人，人生没有圆满，幸福没有永远，曲曲折折才能勾勒出生命的美；以一种从容的心态对待生活中的所有，让心溢满宁静与阳光，把最美的微笑留在平淡的流年里。

84. A century of life is just a blink of the fingers, and one must experience some things and meet some people. Life is never perfect, happiness is not eternal, and only through twists and turns can the beauty of life be depicted; face all aspects of life with a calm attitude, let your heart overflow with tranquility and sunshine, and leave the most beautiful smile in the ordinary years.

85. 梯子的梯阶从来不是用来搁脚的，它只是让人们的脚放上一段时间，以便让别一只脚能够再往上登。

85. The steps of a ladder are never used for placing one's feet, they are simply there to allow a foot to rest for a moment, so that the other foot may then ascend further.