在中华大地的旅途中，允许自己偶尔一事无成。

On the journey across the vast land of China, allow yourself to occasionally achieve nothing.

1. 杨绛先生说：“活得通透的人，没有特别想维持的关系，也没有特别想要的东西，走近的人不抗拒，离开的人不强求，就连吃亏都懒得计较，时间不言不语，却能见证真情，岁月悄声无息，却能看透人心。”

1. Mr. Yang Jiang said, "A person who lives with clarity has no particular relationships to maintain, nor anything specific they desire. They do not resist those who approach them, nor do they forcefully seek those who leave. Even when they suffer a loss, they are too lazy to count it. Time, silent and speechless, can witness true feelings, and years pass quietly, yet they can see through people's hearts."

2. 年轻的时候，我们非常重视人脉，总希望能够混迹于各种各样的圈子，与很多人发展密切的关系，并在其中寻找可以扶持自己的贵人，在他们的帮助之下，青云直上，实现自己的人生梦想，过上高品质的生活。

2. In our youth, we attached great importance to our network of contacts, always hoping to mingle in various circles, develop close relationships with many people, and find patrons who could support us among them. With their help, we aimed to rise to great heights, realize our life dreams, and live a high-quality life.

3. 随着年龄渐长，发现人和人之间非常难于融合。你的奴颜婢膝，可能换来别人的不屑一顾。你的巴结讨好，可能换来别人的嗤之以鼻。你降低身价，委屈自己，只能让所有人都看轻自己，甚至自己都看不起自己。

3. As we grow older, it becomes increasingly difficult to blend in with others. Your fawning and groveling may only earn you a look of disdain from others. Your ingratiating讨好 might be met with a snort of derision. By lowering your dignity and subjecting yourself to hardship, you can only make everyone look down on you, and even yourself might begin to look down on you.

4. 当你没有足够的价值，不管你如何谦虚善良，如何才华横溢，别人都不会对你感兴趣。当你拥有足够的价值，别人也只是想着从你身上获得利益，所谓感情，在成年人的世界里，苍白的如一张纸。

4. When you don't have enough value, no matter how modest, kind, or talented you are, others will not be interested in you. When you have enough value, others are only thinking of gaining benefits from you. In the world of adults, so-called emotions are as pale as a sheet of paper.

5. 所以，活的通透的人没有特别想维持的关系。不想巴结讨好任何人，也不想挽留任何想要离开的人。只和让自己舒服的人在一起，淡淡的处着，平凡的活着，适度的忙着，潇洒的过着，时间似水流年，自己不断老去，如此最好。

5. Therefore, a person who lives with clarity has no particular relationships they wish to maintain. They neither seek to flatter or please anyone, nor do they want to hold onto anyone who wants to leave. They only spend time with people who make them feel comfortable, coexist with them in a relaxed manner, live a plain life, be moderately busy, and enjoy a carefree existence. Time flows like a river, and oneself keeps aging, which is the best state.

6. 正如莫言所说：“一生怕鬼，鬼却未伤我分毫，一生善良真心待人，人却让我遍体鳞伤，世上最可怕的不是鬼，而是猜不透的人心。”

6. As Mo Yan said, "I have lived my life in fear of ghosts, but they have not harmed me in the slightest; I have always been kind and sincere in my dealings with others, yet they have left me wounded all over. The scariest thing in the world is not ghosts, but the unpredictable nature of people's hearts."

7. 人情似纸张张薄，事事如棋局局新。与其在波谲云诡的人情世态中挣扎，不如走出人群，走进一个人的小天地，悠然自得，独处为乐。

7. The kindness of people is as thin as paper, each matter is like a new chess game. It is better to step out of the crowd and into the small world of one's own, enjoying a leisurely and contented solitude rather than struggling in the intricate world of human relations.

8. 陶渊明也曾有宏伟的志向，他两度深入官场，做过彭泽县令。这是一个普通人望而不得的职位，但他却厌倦了其中的迎来送往，尔虞我诈，机关算尽，只想找一个地方清清静静过余下的生活。

8. Tao Yuanming also had grand ambitions, and he twice delved into the officialdom, serving as the County Magistrate of Pengze. This was a position that an ordinary person could only aspire to, but he grew tired of the constant greetings and farewells, deceit and cunning, and intricate schemes involved. He only wanted to find a place to live out the rest of his life in tranquility and solitude.

9. 他写下一篇《桃花源记》，来寄托自己走向孤独的情怀：

9. He wrote another piece, "The Record of the Peach Blossom Spring," to express his feelings of solitude and longing for seclusion.

10. “芳草鲜美，落英缤纷，有良田美池桑竹之树。其中往来种作，男女衣着，悉如外人。”

10. "The lush grass is beautiful, the fallen petals are scattered everywhere, and there are fine fields, beautiful ponds, mulberry and bamboo trees. The people who come and go there are engaged in planting and farming, and both men and women dress like outsiders."

11. 在这样一个与世隔绝的世界里生活，没有任何人事的喧嚣，这是多么惬意呀！

11. To live in such an isolated world, without the hustle and bustle of human affairs, is truly delightful!

12. 最后他干脆辞掉官职，回到了心心念念的田园去隐居。

12. Finally, he resigned from his official position and retreated to the countryside, to live in seclusion where he had always longed to be.

13. 这个社会很残酷，很多人早已垄断了资源，不是你想成功就可以成功的。放平心态，取悦自己，不跟命运较劲，不为梦想纠结，或许才是生活最好的样子。

13. This society is very cruel, many people have already monopolized the resources, and success is not guaranteed just because you want it. Keeping a calm mind, pleasing yourself, not fighting against fate, and not being entangled by dreams, may perhaps be the best form of life.

14. 我们生而就是一个普通人，竭尽一生的努力，也只能混一个温饱，最多有点余钱，就不要妄想一步登天的荣华富贵了。

14. We are all ordinary people from birth. No matter how hard we strive all our lives, we can only achieve a meager living, at most with a bit of extra money. Don't even dream of attaining instant wealth and honors.

15. 寄蜉蝣于天地，渺沧海之一粟。哀吾生之须臾，羡长江之无穷。

15. Casting a mayfly into the vastness of the heavens and the earth, I am but a grain of sand in the boundless ocean. I mourn the brevity of my life, and envy the boundless river for its endless flow.

16. 我们在世界上，只是天地之间一只蜉蝣，茫茫大海一粒米，生命短暂，只要好好活着就已经不容易了。

16. In the world, we are just a mayfly between heaven and earth, a single grain of rice in the boundless sea. Life is fleeting, and simply living well is not an easy feat.

17. 请允许自己一事无成吧，平凡是绝大多数人的常态，也是生命的本质。

17. Allow yourself to be nothing special, ordinary is the normal state for the majority of people, and it is also the essence of life.

18. 睡觉是唯一的解脱，睡着了，不悲不气不孤单，什么都烦恼都没有。

18. Sleeping is the only release. When asleep, there is no sorrow, no anger, no loneliness, and no worries at all.

19. 安静地生活，过着平常的日子，守侯淡泊的岁月，即使是坐在窗口边静静地看云，偶尔，天空上有几只鸟儿快乐地飞过，偶尔，风吹来把自己的发丝吹乱，也是一种幸福。

19. Living a quiet life, leading an ordinary day, waiting for the years of tranquility, even sitting by the window and calmly watching the clouds, occasionally, a few birds flying joyfully across the sky, occasionally, the wind blowing and ruffling one's hair strands, is also a kind of happiness.

20. 我们整天忙忙碌碌，像一群群没有灵魂的苍蝇，喧闹着，躁动着，听不到灵魂深处的声音。时光流逝，童年远去，我们渐渐长大，岁月带走了许许多多的回忆，也消蚀了心底曾今拥有的那份童稚的纯真，我们不顾心灵桎梏，沉溺于人世浮华，专注于利益法则，我们把自己弄丢了。

20. We are busy all day long, like swarms of soulless flies, buzzing and bustling, unable to hear the voice from the depths of our souls. As time passes and childhood fades away, we grow older, and years take away countless memories, eroding the innocence we once had in our hearts. Ignoring the shackles of our souls, we indulge in the fleeting glitz of the world, focusing on the law of profit, and in doing so, we lose ourselves.

21. 是你的就是你的越是紧握越容易失去我们努力了珍惜了问心无愧其他的交给命运。

21. What is yours will be yours; the tighter you hold on, the easier it is to lose. We have tried our best and cherished it, feeling no guilt. The rest is left to fate.

22. 学会一笑置之，超然待之，懂得隐忍，懂得原谅，让自己在宽容中壮大。

22. Learn to laugh it off, remain aloof, understand forbearance, understand forgiveness, and let yourself grow strong in tolerance.

23. 要想幸福一点，心就要简单一点；要想洒脱一点，对生活要求就简单一点。

23. To be a bit happier, one's heart should be a bit simpler; to be a bit more carefree, one should have simpler expectations of life.

24. 时间真的很好，让痛的不再痛了，让放不下的放下了，一切我都看清了。只是偶尔还是会不小心发呆，不小心想起，不小心泪流满面。但我已经能接受这个事实，你已经和时间一起都过去了。

24. Time really has done wonders, making the pain no longer hurt, allowing me to let go of what I couldn't hold on to, and making me see everything clearly. Just sometimes, I still can't help but daydream, unintentionally recall, and unintentionally shed tears. But I have come to accept this fact, that you have passed on along with time.

25. 做人要勤奋，但做事不一定要图快。马跑起来比骆驼快，但骆驼一生走过的路却是马的两倍。没有人见到过在沙漠里狂奔的骆驼——除非那头骆驼疯了。我喜欢笑来的观点：一切都可提前准备，越早醒悟越好。人的一生是奋斗的一生，但是有的人一生过得很伟大，有的人一生过得很琐碎。

25. One should be diligent in life, but it is not necessary to always seek speed in doing things. A horse can run faster than a camel, but a camel can walk twice as far in its lifetime. No one has ever seen a camel galloping in the desert unless the camel is crazy. I like the perspective that everything can be prepared in advance, and the earlier one is aware of this, the better. Life is a journey of struggle for everyone, but some people live a great life, while others live a trivial one.

26. 孤单，是你心里面没有人。寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。

26. Solitude is when there's no one in your heart. Loneliness is when someone is in your heart but not by your side.

27. 如果有人真爱你，那他无论忍受多少，都不会愿意跟你分开。

27. If someone truly loves you, they would endure any amount of suffering and would never want to part from you.

28. 别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。有些人，注定是生命中的匆匆过客；有些事，常常让我们很无奈。与其伤心流泪，不如从容面对。孤独，不一定不快乐；得到，不一定能长久；失去不一定不再拥有。爱的时候，让他自由；不爱的时候，让爱自由。看的淡一点，伤就会少一点！

28. Don't wait for those who are not worth waiting for, and don't hurt those hearts that are not worth hurting. Some people are destined to be mere fleeting guests in our lives; some things often leave us feeling helpless. It's better to face them calmly than to let ourselves be overwhelmed by sorrow and tears. Solitude doesn't necessarily mean unhappiness; gaining something doesn't guarantee it will last forever; losing something doesn't mean you'll never have it back. When you love, let them be free; when you don't, let love be free. Take things lightly, and there will be less pain!

29. 不管什么天气，记得随时带上自己的阳光。不管什么遭遇，记得内心装满开心的童话。

29. No matter what the weather, remember to always carry your own sunshine. No matter what遭遇, remember to fill your heart with joyful fairy tales.

30. 我们不是恋人，但你对我很重要，你肯定知道，我说的是你。与其说我这是自欺欺人，还不如说我是选择了一种最笨的方式去喜欢你。有时候能想明白，但心里就是接受不了，是因为太多的无能为力太多的不愿割舍。其实，我也只是外表潇洒罢了。

30. We are not lovers, but you are very important to me, you must know that, I'm talking about you. It's not so much self-deception as choosing the most foolish way to like you. Sometimes I can understand it, but I just can't accept it in my heart, because there's too much helplessness and too much reluctance to let go. In fact, I'm just superficially cool.

31. 有些事，你真别看清，看清了，心痛；有些人，你真别看懂，看懂了，伤情。人生，就是一种糊涂，一份模糊，说懂不懂，说清不清，糊里糊涂，含含糊糊。人生看不惯的东西太多，看清、看懂，全是自找伤心。给生活罩上一层薄雾，不是自欺，而是对自我的保护。凡事太认真，苦了心，累了自己。

31. There are things you really shouldn't see clearly, for if you do, it will hurt your heart. There are some people you really shouldn't understand too much, for once you do, it will hurt your feelings. Life is just a mix of confusion and ambiguity, neither completely understandable nor fully clear, blurred and hazy. There are too many things in life that you can't stand; seeing and understanding them all only brings self-inflicted sadness. Laying a thin veil over life is not self-deception but a form of self-protection. Taking everything too seriously will burden your heart and weary yourself.

32. 这七年里，忙着太多无谓的事情：忙着结束一段感情，忙着开始一段感情，忙着提升工作业绩，忙着安顿生活，忙着取悦别人，忙着失去自己。可人也正是要经历这些无谓的事，才能成长，才能明白很多事，才能认清自己。

32. In these seven years, I was busy with too many trivial matters: busy ending a relationship, busy starting a new one, busy improving work performance, busy settling down in life, busy pleasing others, and busy losing myself. However, it is precisely through these trivial things that one grows, understands many things, and gets to know oneself.

33. 有时候，失望到一定程度后，反而会开出一朵花来，那朵花的名字叫，无所谓。

33. Sometimes, after reaching a certain level of disappointment, it actually blossoms into a flower, and the name of that flower is, it doesn't matter.

34. 一个人的目标是从梦想开始的，失去了梦想，人就失去了生活的目标和意义。所以说，人的一生中唯一最珍贵的东西就是——梦想。很多东西都可以丢弃，唯一不能丢弃的是自己的梦想。

34. A person's goal starts from dreams, and without dreams, a person loses the goal and meaning of life. Therefore, the only most precious thing in a person's life is——dreams. Many things can be discarded, but the only thing that cannot be discarded is one's own dreams.

35. 唯天下之至诚能胜天下之至伪，唯天下之至拙能胜天下之至巧。诚和拙其实是一个意指，真诚到极点，实事求是到极点。踏踏实实去求真，不怕别人耍小聪明。至诚修心，把自己的毛病都去除。自强的人要进步，小人是阻挡不了的。真正肯修行的人，逆境反而是一种助力。

35. Only the utmost sincerity in the world can overcome the utmost falseness, and only the utmost simplicity can overcome the utmost skill. Sincerity and simplicity essentially refer to the same thing, which is reaching the extreme of sincerity and the extreme of being factual. To seek truth with a solid and earnest attitude, not fearing others' cunning tricks. By cultivating utmost sincerity, one can rid oneself of all faults. Those who strive for self-improvement cannot be stopped by the cunning. For those who are truly willing to cultivate themselves, adversity can even be a driving force.

36. 一个女人对男人最大的恩情，就是抛下自己从前所有的生活，不管不顾的和他在一起。而一个男人对女人最大的报答，就是努力赚钱用心陪伴绝不出轨，从最穷的时候守着她到最富的时候。所以说，婚姻就是女人用一生去施恩，男人用一生去报恩。

36. The greatest favor a woman can do for a man is to leave behind all her past life and be with him without a second thought. And the greatest reward a man can give to a woman is to work hard to earn money, to be dedicated in her company, never to stray, and to stay with her from the poorest times to the richest. Therefore, marriage is where a woman dedicates her entire life to bestowing favors, and a man dedicates his entire life to repaying them.

37. 最痛苦的莫过于是徘徊在放与不放之间的那一段。许多人一生碌碌无为，就是因为舍不得放弃。真正下决心放弃了，反而，会有一种释然的感觉。人生就是这样，难免有痛，难免有伤，你可能会哭会累，但是一定要走下去。输不起的人，往往就是赢不了。当你再也没有什么可以失去的时候，就是你开始得到的时候。

37. The most painful is the period of hesitation between letting go and not letting go. Many people live aimlessly in life because they are unwilling to give up. On the contrary, when you truly make up your mind to give up, you will feel a sense of relief. Life is like that, inevitable with pain and inevitable with hurt. You may cry and be tired, but you must keep moving forward. Those who can't stand to lose are often those who can't win. When you have nothing left to lose, that's when you start to gain.

38. 很轻易地就把自己弄丢了、想方设法，变成对方喜欢的样子，喜欢一个人的时候：不知道是不是因为、《浪漫满屋》，不够成熟。

38. It's all too easy to lose oneself and try to become the person the other likes. When one likes someone, one doesn't know if it's because of "Full House," if it's not mature enough.

39. 我好像不能任何时候都带着阳光了，我好像把自己弄丢了！

39. It seems like I can't always carry the sunshine with me anymore, I think I've lost myself!

40. 像一群群没有灵魂的苍蝇我们整天忙忙碌碌；时光流逝沉溺于人世浮华；我们渐渐长大，我们把自己弄丢了；喧闹着；我们不顾心灵桎梏

40. Like swarms of soulless flies, we are busy all day long; as time passes, we are immersed in the transient glitz of the world; as we grow older, we lose ourselves; amidst the hustle and bustle; we ignore the shackles of our souls.

41. 是黑是白，是好是坏？每个人心中的答案不尽相同。面对选择，面对不同的境遇，人有时会短暂的恍惚，甚至迷失，但无论怎样，别把自己弄丢了，做任何选择，尽量别让自己后悔！

41. Black or white, good or bad? Everyone has a different answer in their heart. In the face of choices and different circumstances, people may sometimes be momentarily confused, even lost, but no matter what, don't lose yourself. When making any choice, try not to regret it!

42. 岁月带走了许许多多的回忆：我们渐渐长大我们把自己弄丢了。童年远去如果失去你给我全世界又如何，专注于利益法则。

42. The years have taken away many memories: as we grow older, we lose ourselves. The childhood is gone. If I lose you, what would it matter if I had the whole world? Focus on the law of interests.

43. 待人友善是修养，独来独往是性格。最终还是把自己弄丢了，我也想问我自己到底经历了什么。

43. Being friendly to others is修养, being independent is personality. In the end, I lost myself, and I also want to ask myself what experiences have I gone through.

44. 在看一眼这个地方。对不起我把自己给弄丢了。也把爱的人弄丢了。我是把自己作死了。我想说我其实一直在你身旁从未离开过！也许我命中就是孤独一生吧！从此便孤独吧不在有爱了！我会从你的世界离开。从你的全世界路过我爱的人。

44. Take another look at this place. Sorry, I lost myself. I also lost the one I love. I've basically killed myself. I want to say that I've actually been by your side all along, never leaving! Maybe I'm destined to be alone for life! From now on, I'll be alone, and there will be no more love! I will leave your world. Passing by the one I love in your entire world.

45. 我要走抒情路线感动你们一下子，一路走来，发现自己弄丢了很多人，然后也交了很多新朋友，一辈子就这么长，为什么不自己过得开心一点，喜欢谁就跟谁在一起，很谁在一起感觉舒服就很谁在一起，就这么简单，我脾气爆，一言不合就生气然后冷战然后不说话，总有人惯着我给我时间让我自己冷静，因为她们知道我缓一会儿就会好的，这些我知道我在改。

45. I want to take a lyrical route to move you for a moment. As I've journeyed along, I've found that I've lost many people along the way, and I've also made many new friends. Life is so short, why not live a little happier for myself? Like someone, be with them; if being with someone makes you feel comfortable, then be with them. It's that simple. I have a fiery temper; if someone doesn't agree with me, I get angry, then go into a cold war, and then stop speaking. There are always people who indulge me and give me time to cool down, because they know I'll be fine after a while. These things, I know, I'm working on changing.

46. 别把最爱你的女孩弄丢了也别等浪够了才知道家没了。

46. Don't lose the girl who loves you the most, and don't wait until you're tired of wandering to realize that home is no more.