1. 对於承诺，男人非常慷慨。男人一生向女人所许下的承诺，多不胜数，几乎连他自己忘了。男人知道，女人的爱情，离不开承诺，没有承诺，就是没有将来。男人若不向她许下承诺，女人难免想到这个男人只求片刻欢愉。

1. Men are very generous with their promises. The promises men make to women throughout their lives are countless, and they often forget them themselves. Men know that a woman's love cannot exist without promises; without promises, there is no future. If a man does not make promises to her, a woman is bound to think that this man only seeks momentary pleasure.

2. 缘起缘灭，缘浓缘淡，不是我们能够控制的。我们能做到的，是在因缘际会的时侯好好的珍惜那短暂的时光。

2. The arising and ceasing of causes and conditions, the intensity and faintness of them, are not within our control. What we can do is to cherish those fleeting moments well when the causes and conditions intersect.

3. 忘记是很痛苦的，从前如是，今天也如是。不过，以前的痛苦是因为记不起，今天的痛苦，却是怕自己无法忘记。

3. Forgetting is painful, it was so in the past, and it is so today. However, the pain in the past was due to the inability to remember, while today's pain is because of the fear of not being able to forget.

4. 有一天，你会感谢离开的那个人，是他的离开，让你找回自己。

4. One day, you will be grateful to the person who left, for it was their departure that helped you find yourself again.

5. 承诺本来就是男人与女人的一场角力，有时皆大欢喜，大部份的情况却两败俱伤。

5. Commitment itself is a contest between men and women, sometimes resulting in mutual joy, but more often leading to mutual defeat.

6. 当时间过去，我们忘记了我们曾经义无所顾地爱过一个人，忘记了他的温柔，忘记了他为我做的一切。我对他再没有感觉，我不再爱他了。为什么会这样原来我们的爱情败给了岁月。首先是爱情使你忘记时间，然后是时间使你忘记爱情。

6. As time passes, we forget that we once loved someone wholeheartedly, forgetting his gentleness, and everything he did for me. I no longer feel anything for him, and I no longer love him. Why is that? It's because our love has been defeated by time. First, love makes you forget time, and then time makes you forget love.

7. 失望，有时候也是一种幸福，因爲有所期待所以才会失望。因爲有爱，才会有期待，所以纵使失望，也是一种幸福，虽然这种幸福有点痛。

7. Disappointment, sometimes, can also be a kind of happiness, because it is due to expectations that one feels disappointed. Because of love, there are expectations, so even though there is disappointment, it is also a form of happiness, although this happiness is a bit painful.

8. 有些女人牢牢抓住一个男人；有些女人牢牢抓住房子；有些女人牢牢抓住钱；却不知道这一切都有一双脚，是会走的，男人会带着爱情离开。房子会贬值，钱会失去，别人永远拿不走，也没有人能够从你身上拿走的，是知识。可惜，我们好像从来不觉得需要牢牢抓住那些真正属于自己的东西。并且要拼命抓得更多。

8. Some women firmly hold onto a man; some women firmly hold onto a house; some women firmly hold onto money; yet they do not realize that all of this has feet, that it can walk away, and the man can leave with love. The house will depreciate in value, money will be lost, but what no one can take away from you, nor can anyone take from you, is knowledge. Unfortunately, it seems we never feel the need to firmly grasp those things that truly belong to us, and we should strive to hold onto even more.

9. 暗恋最伟大的行爲，是成全。你不爱我，但是我成全你。真正的暗恋，是一生的事业，不因他远离你而放弃。没有这种情操，不要轻言暗恋。

9. The greatest act of secret love is to be complete. If you don't love me, I will complete you. True secret love is a lifetime's endeavor, and one does not give up just because they are distant. Without such nobility, don't lightly talk about secret love.

10. 女人在床上流的泪，比在任何一个地方多。男人在床上说的谎，也比在任何一个地方多。

10. The tears women shed in bed are more than in any other place. The lies men tell in bed are also more than in any other place.

11. 如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。

11. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you, I wouldn't envy the opposite-sex individuals around you, I wouldn't lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn't suffer. How wonderful it would be if I could not love you.

12. 爱情从希望开始，也由绝望结束。死心了，便是不再存在着任何我曾经对你有过的希望。

12. Love begins with hope and ends with despair. When one gives up, it means that there no longer exists any hope that I once had for you.

13. 最好的丈夫，是让妻子享尽荣华富贵的丈夫。最好的情人是随传随到，而且每天令我有惊喜。

13. The best husband is one who allows his wife to enjoy wealth and honor. The best lover is one who is always ready to come at a moment's notice and who brings me surprises every day.

14. 一个人最大的缺点不是自私丶多情丶野蛮丶任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。

14. The greatest flaw of a person is not selfishness, sentimentalism, barbarism, or任性, but rather being fanatically in love with someone who does not love themselves.

15. 回忆是不可以代替的，人也不可以代替。然而，旧的思念会被新的爱情永远代替。

15. Memory cannot be replaced, nor can a person be. However, old memories will be forever replaced by new love.

16. 女人在床上留的眼泪，比在任何一个地方多。男人在床上说的谎话，也在任何一个地方多。

16. The tears a woman sheds in bed are more than in any other place. The lies a man tells in bed are also more than in any other place.

17. 世上最遥远的距离，不是生与死的距离，不是天各一方，而是我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你。

17. The greatest distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, nor is it being far apart. It is that I stand before you, yet you don't know that I love you.

18. 曾经以为，离别是离开不爱的人，有一天，长大了，才发现，有一种离别，是离开你爱的人，有一种离别，是擦着眼泪，不敢回首。

18. Once thought that parting was leaving the one you don't love. One day, when I grew up, I realized that there is a kind of parting that is leaving the one you love, and there is a kind of parting that is wiping away tears, not daring to look back.

19. 婚姻从来不能用来挽救一段破碎的爱情，破碎的爱情只能得到破碎的婚姻。

19. Marriage can never be used to save a broken love, for a broken love can only lead to a broken marriage.

20. 为什么每次我跟你说再见，你都说谢谢，而不是说再见

20. Why do you always say "thank you" instead of "goodbye" every time I say goodbye to you?

21. 爱情的所谓信任，有时候，是无可奈何的接受自己看不见的一切。

21. The so-called trust in love, sometimes, is a helpless acceptance of everything one cannot see.

22. 悬浮在空中的吻，如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。

22. A kiss suspended in the air, if I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you, I wouldn't be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn't lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn't be in pain. How wonderful it would be if I could stop loving you.

23. 不在意的爱情，不见得可以得到，但是，太在意的，即使得到也会很累。把爱情抓得太牢，它好像会更容易从指缝间挤出去。不牢牢抓住它，却又怎么舍得人在太年轻的时候是没法控制自己不那么爱一个人的。青春就是不懂掩饰。

23. Love that is taken lightly may not necessarily be attainable, but love that is taken too seriously can be quite exhausting, even when it is achieved. Holding onto love too tightly makes it seem as if it will slip through your fingers more easily. But if you don't hold onto it firmly, how can you bear to let someone be too young to control their own feelings and not love someone more? Youth is all about not knowing how to conceal one's feelings.

24. 我们害怕岁月，却不知道活着是多麽的可喜。我们认爲生存已经没意思，许多人却正在生死之间挣扎。甚麽时候，我们才肯爲自己拥有的一切满怀感激？

24. We fear the passage of time, yet we don't realize how delightful it is to be alive. We think that survival has no meaning, while many are struggling between life and death. When will we be willing to be grateful for everything we possess?

25. 爱情要完结的时候自会完结，到时候，你不想画上句号也不行。

25. Love will end on its own when the time comes, and then, you won't even be able to resist putting a period to it.

26. 你的心就是我的海角和天涯，我不能去得更远。我们此生共赴天涯海角，不是游走半个地球，而是人间相伴。

26. Your heart is my farthest shore and horizon, and I cannot go any further. In this life, we journey together to the ends of the earth and sea, not by wandering half the globe, but by accompanying each other through human existence.

27. 在爱情的世界里，总有一些近乎荒谬的事情发生，当一个人以爲可以还清悔疚，无愧地生活的时候，偏偏已到了结局，如此不堪的不只是爱情，而是人生。

27. In the world of love, there are always some things that seem almost absurd. When one thinks they can atone for their regrets and live without guilt, they just happen to be at the end. It's not just love that is so pitiful, but life itself.

28. 懒惰的人，是比较幸福的。他们不愿意努力去寻觅，自然也不会有痛苦和失望。

28. Lazy people are relatively happier. They are unwilling to strive to seek, and naturally will not have pain and disappointment.

29. 深情是我担不起的重担，情话只是偶然兑现的谎言。

29. Deep love is a heavy burden I can't bear, and love talk is just a lie that happens occasionally.

30. 一个承诺在最需要的时候没有兑现，那就是出卖，以後再兑现，已经没什麽意思了。

30. A promise not fulfilled at the most needed time is a betrayal. Fulfilling it later doesn't hold much significance anymore.

31. 爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣，又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。

31. Love is a game that turns strangers into lovers and lovers into strangers.

32. 爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。

32. Love has not yet arrived, and days are worry-free; the most painful thing is just the tests and exams. At the time, it felt like a huge pressure, but looking back later, it was so insignificant.

33. 永远不要栽培你所爱的男人或女人，你把他或她栽培得太好，结果只有两个他从此看不起你或他给人偷了。

33. Never cultivate the man or woman you love, for if you cultivate them too well, the result will be one of two things: he will look down on you from then on, or he will be stolen away by someone else.

34. 忘掉岁月，忘掉痛苦，忘掉你的坏，我们永不永不说再见。

34. Forget the years, forget the pain, forget your flaws, we will never, ever say goodbye.

35. 只想找一个在我失意时可以承受我的眼泪；在我快乐时，可以让我咬一口的肩膊。

35. Just want to find someone who can bear my tears when I am disappointed; someone whose shoulder I can bite on when I am happy.

36. 爱上一个人的时候，总会有点害怕，怕得到他；怕失掉他。

36. When falling in love with someone, there is always a bit of fear, fear of gaining him; fear of losing him.

37. 男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，而是他在她有所期待的时候让她失望，在她脆弱的时候没有扶她一把。

37. The harm a man inflicts on a woman is not necessarily because he has fallen in love with someone else, but rather because he lets her down when she is expecting him, and fails to support her when she is vulnerable.

38. 两个人最初走在一起的时候，对方爲自己做一件很小的事情，我们也会很感动。後来，他要做很多的事情，我们才会感动。再後来，他要付出更多更多，我们才肯感动，人是多麽贪婪的动物？

38. When two people first start walking together, if the other person does something very small for us, we feel very touched. Later, they need to do many things before we feel touched. And then, they have to give even more before we are willing to be moved. How greedy are humans?

39. 世界上最凄绝的距离是两个人本来距离很远，互不相识，忽然有一天，他们相识，相爱，距离变得很近。然后有一天，不再相爱了，本来很近的两个人，变得很远，甚至比以前更远。

39. The most heart-wrenching distance in the world is when two people are originally far apart, unknown to each other, and suddenly one day, they meet and fall in love, bringing them close. Then, one day, they stop loving each other, and the two people who were once close become distant, even more so than before.

40. 爱情也是一种发明，需要不断改良。只是，这种发明跟其他发明不一样，它没有专利权，随时会给人抢走。

40. Love is also an invention that requires continuous improvement. However, this invention is different from other inventions; it does not have a patent, and can be snatched away at any time.

41. 爱情不是避难所，想进去避难的话，是会被赶出来的。

41. Love is not a sanctuary; if you try to seek refuge in it, you will be chased out.

42. 狗不会瘦，因爲它不会思念。人会瘦，因爲他思念着别人。人总是被思念折磨，在思念里做一头可怜的流浪狗。

42. Dogs don't lose weight because they don't miss anyone. Humans do, because they miss others. Humans are always tormented by their longing, becoming可怜的流浪狗 in the depths of their longing.

43. 如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。

43. If you can't forget him, then don't forget. The real forgetting doesn't require any effort.

44. 相隔那么远，不怕会失去吗爱情应该是拥有的。爱情，就是美在无法拥有。

44. Afraid of losing each other at such a distance? Love should be about possession. Love is the beauty in the unattainability.

45. 女人只要管好自己已经很了不起，干吗要去管男人呢？听话的男人不用管，不听话的男人，要管也管不到，对你好的男人不用管，对你不好的男人，不会让你管，爱你的男人不用管，不爱你的，轮不到你管。

45. It's already amazing for a woman to take care of herself. Why should she bother with men? Obedient men don't need to be taken care of, disobedient men can't be reached even if you want to, men who are good to you don't need to be taken care of, and men who are not good to you won't let you take care of them. Men who love you don't need to be taken care of, and those who don't love you aren't within your jurisdiction to manage.

46. 爱情终究是经营不来的。我们唯一可以经营的，只有自己；唯一可以做的，是好好经营自己。懂得珍惜和拥抱眼前人，懂得欣赏他对你的好，不要吝啬以微笑来回报他对你的每一个微笑，当拥有的时候，不要让爱荒芜，就是最深情的经营。

46. Love can never be managed. The only thing we can manage is ourselves; the only thing we can do is to take good care of ourselves. Learn to cherish and embrace the person in front of you, appreciate the kindness he shows to you, and do not be stingy with a smile in return for every smile he gives you. When you have love, do not let it wither—the deepest form of managing love is to cherish it.