1. 我，为什么会有三次婚姻？因为，我从来就没有一次像样的婚礼。女孩们：别怕麻烦，一定要婚礼！要当众的那份承诺，要许多人的祝福，要公主的待遇。婚礼，上帝看得见的仪式，会得到祝福。宋丹丹

1. Why do I have three marriages? Because, I have never had a proper wedding. Girls: Don't be afraid of the trouble, you must have a wedding! You need that public commitment, the blessings of many people, and the treatment of a princess. A wedding, a ritual that God can see, will be blessed. Song Dandan

2. 自己不能胜任的事情，切莫轻易答应别人，一旦答应了别人，就必须实践自己的诺言。华盛顿

2. Do not easily promise others things that you cannot handle on your own. Once you have made a promise, you must fulfill it. - Washington

3. 你哪里知道，我的情形完全不同；我的脱口而出的承诺，是渴望已久的心声，忍受了不止一千天的恋情的爆发呢！茨威格

3. You don't know, my situation is completely different; the promises that came out of my mouth spontaneously are the voice of a heart that has longed for it, an outburst from a love that has endured more than a thousand days! Zweig

4. 爱本质上应是一种意志行为，用自己的生命完全承诺另一生命的决心。弗洛姆

4. Love, essentially, should be a willing act, a determination to commit one's entire life to another life. Fromm.

5. 该笑的时候没有快乐，该哭泣的时候没有眼泪，该相信的时候没有诺言。安妮宝贝

5. There is no joy when it's time to laugh, no tears when it's time to cry, no promises when it's time to believe. - Annie Baby

6. 对恋人的每一次承诺都要放上天平，这天平的另一端放的对社会的责任。佚名

6. Every promise made to a lover should be weighed on a scale, with the other end of the scale balancing the responsibility to society. - Anonymous

7. 诚实比一切智谋更好，而且它是智谋的基本条件。（德）康德

7. "Honesty is better than all wisdom, and it is the fundamental condition of wisdom." (German) Kant

8. 结婚那天你一定要来做我的伴郞，因为我们承诺过要一起走进婚姻的殿堂。张爱玲

8. On the day of the wedding, you must be my best man, because we have promised to walk into the殿堂 of marriage together. - Zhang Ailing

9. 诺言和深情，没有出路的潮水，一次次淹没了我。安妮宝贝

9. Promises and deep affection, the tide without an outlet, has engulfed me time and time again. Annie Baby

10. 对人以诚信，人不欺我；对事以诚信，事无不成。（中）冯玉祥

10. Be honest with people, and they will not deceive me; be honest with things, and nothing will not be accomplished. (Chinese) Feng Yuxiang

11. 许诺固然可以获得友谊，但培养和保持友谊的还是行动。费尔瑟姆

11. While promises may win friendship, it is action that cultivates and maintains it. - Fersum

12. 如果你要成为一个有出息的人，你必须把诺言视为第二宗教，遵守诺言就像保卫你的荣誉一样。巴尔扎克

12. If you want to become a successful person, you must consider promises as the second religion and keep them as if you were defending your honor. Balzac

13. 遵守诺言就象保卫你的荣誉一样。（法）巴尔扎克

13. Keeping promises is as important as defending your honor. (French) Balzac

14. 对自己真实，才不会对别人欺诈。（英）莎士比亚

14. To be true to oneself is to not deceive others. (English) Shakespeare

15. 一个承诺在最需要的时候没有兑现，那就是出卖，以后再兑现，已经没什么意思了。张小娴

15. A promise not kept at the most needed time is a betrayal. Fulfilling it later no longer holds any significance. - Xiao Xian Zhang

16. 一言既出，驷马难追。中国俗语

16. Once a word is out, even a team of four horses can't catch it up. A Chinese proverb.

17. 不要说谎，不要害怕真理。（俄）列夫托尔斯泰

17. Do not lie, do not fear the truth. (Russian) Leo Tolstoy

18. 承诺是走向成功的必由之路；用公众承诺的力量逼自己成功。陈安之

18. Commitment is the only path to success; use the power of public commitment to force yourself to succeed. — Anzhi Chen

19. 诺言的诺字和誓言的誓字都是有口无心的。张爱玲

19. The character "诺" in promise and the character "誓" in vow both imply a promise made without any intention in the heart. - Zhang Ailing

20. 婚姻其实就是枷锁，情愿也好，不情愿也好，一旦套上，就会因为已有的承诺而主动缴械，放弃自由。甚至连梦境这样一块最后的私密地带，也被无形的篱笆监控。六六

20. Marriage is actually a shackle, whether one is willing or not. Once it's worn, one will surrender主动 surrender due to the existing commitments, giving up freedom. Even the last private territory such as dreams is monitored by invisible fences. Liu Liu.

21. 信用难得易失。费10年功夫积累的信用往往会由于一时的言行而失掉。（日）池田大作

21. Credit is difficult to gain and easy to lose. The credit accumulated over ten years of effort can often be lost due to a momentary word or action. (Japan) Ikeda Daisaku

22. 人际关系最重要的，莫过于真诚，而且要出自内心的真诚。真诚在社会上是无往不利的一把剑，走到哪里都应该带着它。（中）三毛

22. The most important aspect of interpersonal relationships is sincerity, and it must come from the heart. Sincerity is a sword that can conquer all challenges in society, and it should always be carried with you wherever you go. (Chinese) Sanmao

23. 失掉信用的人，在这个世界上已经死了。（英）哈伯特

23. A person who loses credit is already dead in this world. (English) H.H. Hubbard

24. 闪光的东西，并不都是金子；动听的语言，并不都是好话。（英）莎士比亚

24. Not all that glitters is gold; not all sweet talk is good talk. (English) William Shakespeare

25. 情感只是一种回忆中的承诺，见面除了话当年之外，再说什么就都难了。三毛

25. Emotion is only a promise in memory; once we meet, it's hard to say anything else besides reminiscing about the past. -- Sanmao

26. 一个人严守诺言，比守卫他的财产更重要。（法）莫里哀

26. It is more important for a person to keep his word than to guard his property. (French) Molière

27. 不要过度承诺，但要超值交付。戴尔·卡耐基

27. Do not overpromise, but do exceed expectations. — Dale Carnegie

28. 注重自己的名声，努力工作、与人为善、遵守诺言，这样对你们的事业非常有帮助。马云

28. Pay attention to your reputation, work hard, be kind to others, and keep your promises. This will be very helpful for your career. -- Ma Yun

29. 失足，你可以马上恢复站立；失信，你也许永难挽回。（美）富兰克林

29. A fall, you can quickly get back up on your feet; a betrayal of trust, you may never recover. (U.S.) Franklin

30. 仁爱的话，仁爱的诺言，嘴上说起来是容易的，只有在患难的时候，才能看见朋友的真心。克雷洛夫

30. It is easy to speak words of kindness and make promises of kindness, but it is only in times of trouble that one can see the true heart of a friend. - Krylov

31. 爱情的承诺，说可信也可信。有的人就为了一句承诺，可以被水淹死，可以等上一辈子无怨无悔。说不可信，也是完全有道理的。絮语如尘，承诺袅袅。什么山盟海誓，都可以一风吹了。毕淑敏

31. The promise of love can be both believable and unbelievable. Some people, for just one promise, can be drowned by water, and can wait for a lifetime without any complaints or regrets. Saying it's unbelievable is also completely reasonable. Gossipy words are like dust, and promises are delicate. No matter what mountainous oaths or sea-like promises, they can all be blown away by a single gust. Bi Shumei.

32. 朋友之最可贵，贵在雪中关炭，不必对方开口，急急自动相动。朋友中之极品，便如好茶、淡而不涩，清香但不扑鼻，缓缓飘来，细水长流。所谓知心也。知心朋友，偶尔清谈一次，仁爱的话，仁爱的诺言，嘴上说起来是容易的，只有在患难的时候，才能看见朋友的真心。克雷洛夫

32. The most valuable friendship is when it is like a coal in the snow, offering warmth without the need for words, and acting spontaneously. The best of friends are like a good tea, mild without bitterness, fragrant but not overpowering, slowly drifting by, a continuous, gentle stream. This is what is called a heart-to-heart friendship. A heart-to-heart friend, a rare commodity, can engage in occasional light conversation, expressing kind words and promises. It is easy to say such things with the mouth, but only in times of difficulty can one see the true intentions of a friend. - Krylov

33. 他没有任何未来可以对她承诺。安妮宝贝

33. He has no future to promise her. -- Annie Baby

34. 袁承志：不要对第一个认识的女孩子许任何承诺，否则，你就会把她培养成野蛮女友。更糟的是，你不能跟更好的在一起。金庸

34. Yuan Chengzhi: Do not make any promises to the first girl you meet, otherwise, you will raise her into a wild girlfriend. Worse still, you won't be able to be with someone better. Jin Yong

35. 希望：给贤者以活力，诱骗自命不凡和逍遥自在的人，因为两者都会轻易相信希望的许诺。沃夫拿格

35. Hope: To infuse vigor into the wise, to ensnare the self-important and the carefree, for both are easily swayed by the promises of hope. Wolnagur

36. 人生的大部份时间里，承诺的同义词是束缚，奈何我们向往束缚。张小娴

36. For most of our lives, commitment is synonymous with bondage, yet we yearn for that bondage. - Zhang Xiaoxian

37. 遵守诺言就象保卫你的荣誉一样。（法）巴尔扎克?>

37. Keeping one's promises is as important as defending one's honor. (French) Balzac

38. 信用既是无形的力量，也是无形的财富。（日）松下幸之助

38. Credit is both an intangible power and an intangible wealth. (Japan) Konosuke Matsushita

39. 做事有哪些基本原则：守本分，首先把自己的本分工作做好。守规矩，凡事依照制度，按规定办事。守时限，规定的时间内完成应办事项。守承诺，答应的事情必须依承诺做到。重方法，讲究正确有效方法提高绩效。重改善，精益求精，持续做得更好。曾仕强

39. What are the basic principles of doing things: Stick to one's duties, first and foremost, do one's own duty well. Observe rules, do everything according to the system and regulations. Adhere to deadlines, complete the tasks that should be done within the specified time. Keep promises, fulfill what has been promised. Emphasize methods, be concerned with correct and effective methods to improve performance. Focus on improvement, strive for perfection, and continuously do better. - Zeng Shizheng

40. 在每个人的心里，其实是有爱情的，一直都有。我想它不是婚姻，不是诺言，不是家庭。它是一种气味，引导人盲目前行却无从触摸。安妮宝贝

40. In everyone's heart, there is actually love, always has been. I think it's not marriage, not promises, not family. It's a scent that guides one to blindly go ahead but cannot be touched. An Ni Baoer

41. 信用就像一面镜子，只要有了裂缝就不能像原来那样连成一片。（瑞士）阿米尔

41. Credit is like a mirror, once there is a crack, it cannot be as seamless as before. (Switzerland) Amil

42. 走正直诚实的生活道路，必定会有一个问心无愧的归宿。（苏）高尔基

42. Walking the path of integrity and honesty will inevitably lead to a place of unassailable conscience. (Soviet) Maxim Gorky

43. 爱一个人不是向她承诺会对她有多好，而是明知爱的毫无指望，却还一直在那里傻傻地等她。张爱玲

43. Loving someone is not about promising to be good to her, but knowing that the love has no hope and still foolishly waiting for her. - Eileen Chang

44. 朋友绝对落时空，儿时玩伴一旦阔别，再见时，情感只是一种回忆中的承诺，见面除了话当年以外，再说什么都难了。三毛

44. Friends are absolutely lost in time. Once separated from childhood playmates, when we meet again, emotions are only promises in the memory. Besides reminiscing about the past, it's hard to say anything else. Sanmao

45. 需要的是小小的积累，不仅仅是话语和许诺，还要将小小的具体的事实一个个小心积累起来，只有这样两人才能一步一步走向前去。她所追求的，我想归根结蒂便是这个。村上春树

45. What is needed is a small accumulation, not just words and promises, but also to carefully accumulate small, concrete facts one by one. Only in this way can the two of them move forward step by step. What she is pursuing, I think, boils down to this. Haruki Murakami.

46. 希望呀，你是业已许诺的幸福的开端。维兰

46. Hope, you are the beginning of the happiness that has already been promised. Vilan

47. 明知会失去自由，明知这是一生一世的合约，为了得到对方，为了令对方快乐，也甘愿作出承诺。恋爱是一个追求不自由的过程，当你埋怨太不自由了的时候，就是你不爱他的时候。张小娴

47. Knowing full well that it would result in the loss of freedom, and recognizing that this is a lifelong contract, one is still willing to make promises for the sake of winning the other person's heart and for their happiness. Love is a pursuit of a lack of freedom. When you complain about being too free, it's a sign that you no longer love him. - Zhang Xiaoxian

48. 一个女人在用一生的辛勤、最美好的青春，来维护一个承诺。她的虚荣是可以理解的。任何话，说多了就很廉价。陈果

48. A woman is using the toil of her entire life and the best of her youth to uphold a promise. Her vanity is understandable. Any word said too often becomes cheap. Chen Guo

49. 守信用胜过有名气。（美）罗斯福

49. Being trustworthy is better than being famous. (U.S.) Roosevelt

50. 对于承诺，男人非常慷慨。男人一生向女人所许下的承诺，多不胜数，几乎连他自己忘了。男人知道，女人的爱情，离不开承诺，没有承诺，就是没有将来。男人若不向她许下承诺，女人难免想到这个男人只求片刻欢愉。张小娴

50. Men are very generous when it comes to promises. The number of promises men make to women throughout their lives is countless, and they often forget them themselves. Men know that a woman's love cannot be separated from promises; without promises, there is no future. If a man does not make promises to her, the woman is bound to think that this man seeks only momentary pleasure. - Zhang Xiaoxian

51. 没有什么人承诺和担保你一生下来就享有阳光灿烂的平等。你去看看动物界，就知道平等是多么罕见了。平等是人类智慧的产物，是维持最大多数人安宁的策略。你明白了这件事，就会少很多愤怒，多很多感恩。你已经享受了很多人奋斗的成果，你的回报就是继续努力，而不是抱怨。毕淑敏

51. No one promises or guarantees that you will enjoy a life of equality and sunshine from the moment you are born. Go and take a look at the animal kingdom, and you will know how rare equality is. Equality is a product of human wisdom, a strategy to maintain the peace of the majority. Once you understand this, you will have less anger and more gratitude. You have already enjoyed the fruits of the struggles of many people, and your reward is to continue to strive, not to complain. Bi Shumin

52. 坦白是诚实和勇敢的产物。（美）马克·吐温

52. Truthfulness is the product of honesty and courage. (U.S.) Mark Twain

53. 不要说谎，不要害怕真理。（俄）列夫·托尔斯泰

53. Do not tell lies, do not fear the truth. (Russian) Leo Tolstoy