探寻之道：选择平衡，放弃索取，远离诱惑与远方

Path of Inquiry: Choose balance, abandon pursuit, and distance yourself from temptation and the distant.

1. 147人生无需后悔，逝去的事就像一阵风；人生不需要遗憾，该来的终究还是要来；人生不需要懊恼，愁白的头发难以再黑；人生不需要哀叹，丧失自信就将失去一切！

1. Life at 47 doesn't require regret, as things past are like a gust of wind; life doesn't need any regrets, for what is destined to come will eventually arrive; life doesn't need to be troubled, as graying hair can't turn black again; life doesn't need to be lamented, for losing self-confidence will lead to the loss of everything!

2. 2如果你想快点成名，那么就得慢点睡觉；如果你想快点长智，那么就得慢点骄傲。如果你想慢点老化，那么你就得快点学习；如果你想慢点淘汰，那么就得快点迈步。

2.2 If you want to achieve fame quickly, then you must sleep less; if you want to gain wisdom quickly, then you must be less proud. If you want to age slowly, then you must learn quickly; if you want to be eliminated slowly, then you must move forward quickly.

3. 8好心情才会有好风景，好眼光才会有好发现，好思考才会有好主意。

3. Good mood brings good scenery, good eyesight brings good discoveries, and good thinking brings good ideas.

4. 7如果事前多些思考，那么事后就会少点遗憾；如果少年多些努力，那么年老就会多点欣慰；如果人生多点自信，那么事业就会多点成功；如果头脑多点创意，那么生活就会多些色彩；如果对别人多些爱心，那么你就会多些朋友；如果在谈笑中多点幽默，那么朋友就会多点笑声；如果对事业多点奉献，那么你就会多点伟大。

4.7 If there is more thought before, there will be less regret after; if the youth puts in more effort, there will be more satisfaction in old age; if life has more confidence, then there will be more success in career; if the mind has more creativity, then life will have more colors; if there is more love for others, then you will have more friends; if there is more humor in conversations, then friends will have more laughter; if there is more dedication to the career, then you will have more greatness.

5. 活的淡泊,方能平和,平和乃致远！想得简单心就不累，难得糊涂过得轻松！

5. Live a simple and indifferent life, and you will achieve peace; peace is the key to reaching great distances! Thinking simply relieves the heart of fatigue, and being a bit confused can lead to a relaxed life!

6. 76人生道路上既有坦道，又有泥泞；既有美景，又有陷阱，只有坚定信念又勇往直前的人才能到达胜利的终点。

6. On the path of life, there are both smooth roads and muddy paths; there are both beautiful sceneries and pitfalls. Only those with firm beliefs and the courage to move forward can reach the destination of victory.

7. 有人试图和你无理取闹，安静的看着他，说：祝你好心情，然后离开。

7. Someone is trying to pick a fight with you. Just calmly watch them, say, "Wishing you a good mood," and then leave.

8. 98“天生我材必有用”，人生没有休止符；前进路上大步走，“天下谁人不识君”！

8. 98 "Born with talent, it must be of use," life has no pause mark; stride forward on the path, "Who in the world does not know you!"

9. 当你焦虑内耗时，请一定记住，人生只是各种体验的叠加，只要你想，你就可以去做那些看似无意义的事，比如发呆，看日出，数星星，你的体验就是最大的意义。”

9. When you are anxious and introspective, please remember that life is just a superposition of various experiences. As long as you want, you can do those seemingly meaningless things, such as daydreaming, watching the sunrise, counting stars. Your experiences are the greatest meaning.

10. ⌒、今天晚上睡一个美美的美容觉，明天才能容光焕发的迷倒他呀

10. Tonight, have a beautiful beauty sleep so that you can dazzle him with your radiant glow tomorrow!

11. 132路漫漫我们需“上下而求索”；诱多多我们需走好每一步；事烦琐我们要学会忙里偷闲；景旖旎我们要好好欣赏。

11. The road ahead is long and winding, and we must "seek for knowledge both up and down"; with numerous temptations, we must take each step carefully; when faced with trivial matters, we should learn to find leisure in the midst of busyness; and in beautiful scenery, we should fully appreciate it.

12. 关系就像玻璃，有时候，与其痛苦的去复合，不如就让它碎裂。心小了，小事就大了；心大了，大事都小了;看淡世间沧桑，内心安然无恙。

12. Relationships are like glass; sometimes, it's better to let them shatter than to go through the pain of trying to fix them. When the heart is small, trivial matters become big; when the heart is big, even great matters seem small. Take the vicissitudes of the world lightly, and your inner peace will remain unharmed.

13. 到了一定的年纪，不再期待名利金钱那些身外之物，也不再向往什么诗与远方，只想在简单的生活里，自甘平庸，不思进取，平平淡淡的活着。

13. At a certain age, I no longer look forward to fame, wealth, and material possessions; nor do I yearn for poetry and distant horizons. I simply want to live a simple life, content with mediocrity, without aspirations for progress, and live in peace and simplicity.

14. 165心里有春天，心花才能怒放；胸中有大海，胸怀才能开阔；腹中有良策，处事才能利落；眼睛有炯神，目光才能敏锐；臂膀有力量，出手才有重拳；脚步有节奏，步履才能轻盈。

14. In the heart there must be spring, then the flowers can bloom fiercely; in the chest there must be the vastness of the sea, then the bosom can be broad; in the abdomen there must be good plans, then handling matters can be skillful; in the eyes there must be a bright spirit, then the gaze can be keen; in the arms there must be strength, then the punches can be powerful; in the steps there must be rhythm, then the gait can be light.

15. 107好运动者健，好思考者智，好助人者乐，好读书者博，好旅游者悦，好追求者成。

15. A good athlete is strong, a good thinker is wise, a good helper is joyful, a good reader is knowledgeable, a good traveler is pleased, and a good seeker is successful.

16. 3生活加减法：知识要递增，烦恼要递减；友情要递增，怨恨要递减；善心要递增，灰心要递减；自信要递增，失信要递减；肚量要递增，妒量要递减。脚步要递增，烟酒要递减。

16. The加减法 of life: Knowledge should increase, worries should decrease; friendship should increase, resentment should decrease; kindness should increase, despondency should decrease; self-confidence should increase, betrayal should decrease; tolerance should increase, jealousy should decrease. Steps should increase, while smoking and drinking should decrease.

17. ⌒、有时候，要积攒很大的勇气才能让自己离开过去，离开的过程也许是痛苦的，但离开之后的你，却是全新的。未来会有更好的日子。

17. Sometimes, it takes a great deal of courage to leave the past behind, and the process of leaving may be painful. But the you that leaves, is new and fresh. The future will have better days.

18. 59一次专心学习胜过百次囫囵吞枣；一次深思熟虑胜过百次轻率行动；一次真诚相助胜过百次怜悯同情；一次见义勇为胜过百次豪言壮语！

18. 59 One focused study is better than a hundred hasty glances; one careful thought is better than a hundred rash actions; one sincere help is better than a hundred acts of compassion; one brave act in the face of justice is better than a hundred boasts!

19. 人生就是一个充满遗憾的过程。有些事，挺一挺，就过去了。有些人，就是去狠一狠，也就忘记了。有些苦，笑一笑，就冰释了。有颗心，伤一伤，那么也就是坚强了。

19. Life is a process filled with regrets. Some things, with a bit of perseverance, just pass by. Some people, with a bit of bitterness, are forgotten. Some bitterness, with a smile, is resolved. A heart, with a little hurt, becomes stronger.

20. 58人生中最艰难的是选择；工作中最困难的是创新；生活中最痛苦的是自扰；做人中最苦恼的是委屈。

20. The most difficult thing in life is choosing; the most challenging in work is innovation; the most painful in life is self-inflicted trouble; and the most distressing in being a person is being wronged.

21. ⌒、真心是不值钱的，但遇上懂得珍惜的人，就是无价

21. ⌒, Sincere feelings are priceless, but when they meet someone who knows how to cherish them, they become invaluable.

22. 92财富是一时的朋友，而朋友才是永久的财富；荣誉是一时的荣耀，做人才是永久的根本；学历是一时的知识，学习才是永久的智慧！

22. Wealth is a transient friend, but friends are the permanent wealth; honor is a temporary glory, being a person is the permanent foundation; education is a temporary knowledge, learning is the permanent wisdom!

23. 6你改变不了环境，但你可以改变自己；你改变不了事实，但你可以改变态度；你改变不了过去，但你可以改变现在；你不能控制他人，但你可以掌握自己；你不能预知明天，但你可以把握今天；你不可以样样顺利，但你可以事事尽心；你不能延伸生命的长度，但你可以决定生命的宽度。

23. 6 You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but you can change the present; you can't control others, but you can master yourself; you can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't ensure everything goes smoothly, but you can give your all to each task; you can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

24. 22有的人不管年纪多大，却永远年轻；有的人不管是荣是辱，却波澜不惊；有的人不管是富是贫，却朴实为人；有的人不管受讥遭讽，却依然阔步前行；有的人不管自己位有多卑，却永远惦念着祖国母亲！

24. 22. Some people, no matter how old they are, remain forever young; some people, regardless of whether they are honored or disgraced, remain calm as a still pond; some people, whether they are rich or poor, live a simple life; some people, despite being ridiculed and mocked, continue to stride forward; some people, no matter how low their position may be, always cherish their motherland!

25. 如果不能成为别人生命中的礼物，就不要走进别人的生活。

25. If you cannot become a gift in someone else's life, do not enter someone else's life.

26. 用自己的思维方式去索求爰，不一定被爰人懂得，只有用心地审视在体验中找感觉，才能做到合意而又恰到好处

26. Seeking love with one's own way of thinking may not be understood by the loved one. Only by carefully examining and finding feelings in the experience can one achieve satisfaction and be just right.

27. 88行路不仅仅在于快慢，还在于是否能够持续；前进不仅仅在于速度，更在于能否保持正确方向。

27. Walking 88 steps is not just about the speed, but also about whether it can be sustained; moving forward is not just about speed, but more about whether one can maintain the correct direction.

28. 余生，保持自己的风格，天天向上，日日向阳，爱我所爱，依旧倔强，不为风月，且行且惜，不忘初心，光华永在。

28. In my remaining life, maintain my own style, strive upwards every day, bask in the sunlight every day, love what I love, still be stubborn, not for fleeting pleasures, go forth with gratitude, cherish every step, never forget my original intention, and let my brilliance endure forever.

29. 非常释怀的一段话：“无数人忽略了一个真相，那就是很多事情不需要有意义。吃喝玩乐不等于虚度光阴，吃苦耐劳也不等于意义非凡。

29. A very relieving statement: "Many people overlook a truth, that is, many things do not need to be meaningful. Enjoying food, drink, and leisure does not equal wasting time, and enduring hardship does not equal having profound significance.

30. 人的本能是追逐从他身边飞走的东西，却逃避追逐他的东西。

30. Human instinct is to pursue that which flies away from them, but to evade that which pursues them.

31. 35每一个人都拥有生命，却并非每个人都能读懂生命；每一个人都拥有头脑，却并非每一个人都能善用头脑。只有热爱生命，善于动脑的人，才算得上真正拥有生命。

31. 35 Everyone has life, but not everyone can understand life; everyone has a mind, but not everyone knows how to use their mind well. Only those who love life and are good at thinking can truly be said to possess life.

32. 17有了成绩要马上忘掉，这样才不会自寻烦恼；有了错误要时刻记住，这样才不会重蹈覆辙；有了机遇要马上抓住，这样才不会失去机会；有了困难要寻找对策，这样才能迎刃而解。

32. 17 Remember to forget achievements immediately so as not to seek trouble for oneself; always remember mistakes so as not to repeat them; seize opportunities immediately so as not to miss them; seek solutions to difficulties so that they can be resolved smoothly.

33. 30生命中有一些人与我们擦肩了，却来不及遇见；遇见了，却来不及相识；相识了，却来不及熟悉；熟悉了，却还是要说再见。对自己好点，因为一辈子不长；对身边的人好点，因为下辈子不一定能遇见。

33. In life, there are some people who pass by us, but we never have time to meet them; when we meet, we don't have time to get to know them; when we get to know them, we don't have time to become familiar; when we are familiar, we still have to say goodbye. Take care of yourself, because life is not long; take care of the people around you, because it's not guaranteed that you will meet them in your next life.

34. ​所以说，人只要做你非常想做的事，根本不需要努力，只要努力，那件事一定不是真正想要做的。”

34. So, if you do something that you are extremely passionate about, you don't actually need to exert effort. If you do need to exert effort, it's a sign that it's not something you truly want to do.

35. 130最使人疲惫的往往不是道路的遥远，而是你心中的郁闷；最使人颓废的往往不是前途的坎坷，而是你自信的丧失；最使人痛苦的往往不是生活的不幸，而是你希望的破灭；最使人绝望的往往不是挫折的打击，而是你心灵的死亡。

35. The most exhausting is often not the long journey of the road, but the郁闷 in your heart; the most disillusioning is often not the rugged path ahead, but the loss of your confidence; the most painful is often not the misfortunes of life, but the destruction of your hopes; the most despairing is often not the blows of setbacks, but the death of your soul.

36. 在无常的生活里，我们要在无法回避的失意中、尽量地寻找快乐和满足。因为快乐是一种极向上的心态而知足常乐就会拥有幸福

36. In the transient life, we should strive to find joy and satisfaction in the unavoidable setbacks. Because joy is a highly positive mindset, and contentment with what one has will lead to happiness.

37. 其实，人生即使有伴也是寂寞的。不如及早培养兴趣，比如中年之后种花养鱼。

37. In fact, even with a companion, life can be lonely. It's better to cultivate interests early on, such as gardening and raising fish after middle age.

38. 69别为失败找个理由，这样容易失去自信；要为失败找个对策，这样才能产生力量。

38. Don't find an excuse for failure, as this can easily lead to a loss of confidence; instead, find a strategy for failure, as this will generate strength.

39. 11用知识的浪花去推动思考的风帆，用智慧的火星去点燃思想的火花，用浪漫的激情去创造美好的生活，用科学的力量去强劲腾飞的翅膀！

39. Use the ripples of knowledge to propel the sails of thought, use the sparks of wisdom to ignite the flames of thought, use the romantic passion to create a beautiful life, and use the power of science to strengthen the wings of soaring!

40. ⌒、没有什么过不去，只是再也回不去，是柴米油盐让我们变了味吗？

40. What cannot be overcome is not that there is no way back, but that we can never return. Has it been the soy sauce, rice, oil, and salt that have altered our taste?

41. ⌒、跟我走吧，我很甜的，可以是任何口味的甜，只要你喜欢

41. Follow me, I'm very sweet, I can be any flavor of sweet, as long as you like.

42. 145没有永远的春天，却有永远的春意；没有永远的缠绵，却有永远的思念；没有永远的成功，却有永远的追求；没有永远的年青，却有永远的青春！

42. There is no eternal spring, but there is eternal springlike feeling; no eternal entanglement, but there is eternal longing; no eternal success, but there is eternal pursuit; no eternal youth, but there is eternal youthfulness!

43. 定期存钱；6及时承认自己的错误；7用你希望别人对待你的方式去对待别人；8凡事先作计划，尽量将目标视觉化；9写下来，不要太依靠脑袋记忆；10每天提前15分钟上班。

43. Save money regularly; 6. Acknowledge your mistakes in a timely manner; 7. Treat others the way you would like to be treated; 8. Plan everything in advance, and try to visualize your goals; 9. Write it down, don't rely too heavily on your memory; 10. Arrive 15 minutes early for work every day.

44. 79瞩目远方，你才会加快步伐；观赏风景，你才会步履轻盈；结伴同行，你才能欢歌笑语；风雨兼程，你才能成功登顶。

44. Only by looking towards the distant horizon will you quicken your pace; by admiring the scenery, you will walk lightly; by traveling together with others, you can sing and laugh joyfully; by facing both sunshine and rain, you can successfully reach the summit.

45. 120最不幸的生活是生活在不幸的回忆中，最不科学的生活是生活在不良的习惯里，最不理想的生活是生活在覆辙中，最绝望的生活是亲手埋葬了自己的理想。

45. The most wretched life is one lived in the shadow of unhappy memories, the most unscientific life is one lived in bad habits, the most unideal life is one lived in the same mistakes, and the most desperate life is one where one has buried their ideals with their own hands.

46. ⌒、爱就是吵架过后，摔门而去，归来任会带着我最爱的食物，是独自一人时，想起你默默的傻笑

46. Love is arguing, slamming the door and leaving, only to come back with my favorite food; it's when I'm alone that I remember you silently grinning.

47. 97生活是首歌：爱情是轻音乐，工作是交响乐，奋斗是摇滚乐，应酬是流行乐，朋友是通俗曲，事业是进行曲。

47. Life is a song: Love is light music, work is symphony, struggle is rock music, socializing is pop music, friends are folk songs, and career is a march.

48. 64我们要为快乐而生活，为自信而前行，为辉煌而攀登，为理想而奋斗，为事业而尽力，为祖国而献身，这样才不枉此生。

48. 64 We should live for happiness, move forward with confidence, climb for glory, strive for ideals, give our best for our careers, and sacrifice for our motherland. Only in this way can we not feel our lives have been in vain.

49. 28爱，绝不是缺了就找，更不是累了就换。找一个能一起吃苦的，而不是一起享受的；找一个能一起承担的，而不是一起逃避的；找一个能对你负责的，而不是对爱情负责的。爱不是一个人的事，而是两个人的努力，两个人的奋斗，两个人的共同创造。

49. Love is never about finding someone when you're missing them, nor is it about switching partners when you're tired. Look for someone who can endure hardships with you, not just enjoy the good times; look for someone who can bear responsibilities with you, not just avoid them; look for someone who will be responsible to you, not just to love. Love is not an individual matter, but the effort of two people, the struggle of two people, and the joint creation of two people.

50. 96给自己找茬是诊断，给自己找事是磨练，给自己剖析是知己，给自己嘲笑是激励！

50. Finding trouble for oneself is diagnosis, causing oneself trouble is tempering, analyzing oneself is knowing oneself, and mocking oneself is motivation!

51. 155大海因波涛而美丽，人生因挫折而完美。学习因探究而深入。工作因创新而精彩。

51. The vast sea is beautiful because of its waves, life is perfect because of its setbacks, learning deepens through exploration, and work becomes fascinating through innovation.

52. 放下可能会空虚，清零可能会不舍，但是最好的答案。不要让自己活得太累。生活无常，鱼那么韧性水，水却煮了鱼，所以看淡一切顺其自然。低调做人，高调做事，是一种最好的态度。人生就是一场历练，当你经历了也就释然了。

52. Letting go may feel empty, and clearing everything may be不舍, but it's the best answer. Don't let yourself be too exhausted. Life is unpredictable; just like the fish that is flexible in the water, yet the water can boil the fish. Therefore, take everything lightly and go with the flow. Being low-key in demeanor and high-profile in actions is the best attitude. Life is a journey of experience; once you've gone through it, you will be at peace.

53. 153如果你认为工作是乏味的，那么业绩将与你无缘；如果你认为生活是无聊的，那么快乐将与你无缘；如果你认为读书是无用的，那么知识将与你无缘；如果你认为朋友是多余的，那么笑声将与你无缘。

53. 153 If you think work is boring, then performance will be out of reach for you; if you think life is tedious, then happiness will be out of reach for you; if you think reading is useless, then knowledge will be out of reach for you; if you think friends are unnecessary, then laughter will be out of reach for you.

54. 164如果你想博学些，就请勤奋些；如果你想尊严些，就请自强些；如果你想荣耀些，就请努力些；如果你想健康些，就请环保些；如果你想长寿些，就请宽心些。

54. If you wish to be more learned, be diligent; if you wish to be more dignified, be self-reliant; if you wish to be more honored, work harder; if you wish to be healthier, be eco-friendly; if you wish to live longer, be at ease.

55. 19人生旅途中，总有人不断地走来，有人不断地离去。当新的名字变成老的名字，当老的名字渐渐模糊，又是一个故事的结束和另一个故事的开始。在不断的相遇和错开中，终于明白：身边的人只能陪着自己走过或近或远的一程，而不能伴自己一生；陪伴一生的是自己的名字和那些或清晰或模糊的名字所带来的感动。

55. In the journey of life, there are always some people coming and going. As new names become old ones, and old names gradually fade away, it marks the end of one story and the beginning of another. Through continuous encounters and missed connections, one finally understands: The people around can only accompany you through a journey, whether it's short or long, but they cannot accompany you throughout your entire life; The ones that accompany you throughout your life are your own name and the feelings brought by those names, whether they are clear or blurred.

56. 不要在一件别扭的事上纠缠太久，若不是心宽似海，哪有人生风平浪静。人的一生是在希望和失望中度过的，从一开始我们抱着很大的希望来到这个世界，用自己的行动来为这个陌生的世界着色，添上属于自己的那一笔。

56. Do not linger too long on something that doesn't sit well with you. If one does not have a heart as vast as the sea, how can one ever experience a life that is as calm and peaceful as the waves? A person's life is spent in a cycle of hope and disappointment. From the very beginning, we come into this world with high hopes, using our actions to color this unfamiliar world and add our own personal touch.

57. 24有一个清醒的头脑比有一个聪明的头脑更重要；有一种良好的习惯比有一种熟练的技巧更实用；有一股青春活力比有一副健全的臂膀更有力；有一身勇气和胆识比有一门知识更强劲。

57. Having a clear mind is more important than having a clever one; having a good habit is more practical than having a skilled technique; having a youthful vitality is more powerful than having a strong arm; having courage and bravery is more robust than having knowledge.

58. ⌒、总之 我一直相信 上帝对每个人都是公平的，月老早就牵好了红线，兜兜转转那么快早晚都会遇到那个想要照顾你的那个人，

58. In summary, I have always believed that God is fair to everyone. The marriage gods have already tied the red strings long ago, and it's just a matter of time before you'll meet that person who wants to take care of you, no matter how many twists and turns there are.

59. 自己感觉幸福就是幸福。 10没有永远的缘份，没有永远的生命，我们所能拥有的，可能只是平凡的一生。然而因为有你，生命便全然不同，不用誓言，不必承诺，我们只需依了爱缘，以目光为媒，印证三生石上的约定，便牵了手，不必紧握，却永不放松，以自己设计的爱的程式，去演绎一种精典的永恒。

59. Feeling happy in oneself is true happiness. 10 There is no eternal destiny, no eternal life, and what we can possess may only be an ordinary life. However, because of you, life is entirely different. Without vows, without promises, we only need to follow the love destiny, use our gaze as the medium, and confirm the promise on the Three Lives Stone, and then we hold hands. We don't need to grip tightly, but we never let go. We use our own designed love program to perform a classic eternity.

60. 33过于欣赏自己，就发现不了别人的优点；过于赞赏别人的优点，就会看不见自己的长处。

60. 33 Overly appreciating oneself will prevent one from seeing others' merits; overly admiring others' merits will blind one to their own strengths.

61. 若悲伤有人分担，又何尝不是一种慰藉；若孤单有人陪伴，又何时何处不是心暖、

61. If one's sadness is shared by another, is it not a kind of solace? If loneliness is alleviated by someone's companionship, then at any time and place is not the heart warmed and comforted?

62. ⌒、爱就是单纯的从喜欢一个人开始，不去在乎对方的外表，不在乎对方的家庭条件，只要相处的快乐，足矣！然后把自己当作对方最强大的依靠，就像我曾经说的，无论发生什么，我永远是你的避风港

62. Love starts simply from liking someone, without caring about their appearance or family background, as long as you are happy together, that is enough! Then treat yourself as the strongest support for them, just as I have said before, no matter what happens, I will always be your safe haven.

63. 34如果你盼望明天，那必须先脚踏现实；如果你希望辉煌，那么你须脚不停步。

63. 34 If you look forward to tomorrow, you must first step into reality; if you wish for brilliance, then you must keep moving without stopping.

64. 44什么都可以丢，但不能丢脸；什么都可以再来，唯独生命不能再来；什么都可以抛去，唯有信仰不能抛去；什么都可以接受，唯独屈辱不能接受。

64. 44 You can discard anything, but never your dignity; anything can come again, but life can never return; anything can be discarded, but faith cannot be; anything can be accepted, but only shame cannot be.

65. 77人生十字路口是一道选择题，谨慎选择才能确保正确方向，糊涂选择就易步入歧途，放弃选择就会迷失方向。

65. Life's crossroads at 77 is a multiple-choice question; careful selection can ensure the correct direction, confused selection is prone to wandering off the right path, and giving up on selection will lead to getting lost.