在无垠的宇宙中，一颗孤独的星球上，一个沉睡的我在无望的梦境中苏醒。无惧无惧，我拥抱自我，深陷于这份深沉的自爱之中。

In the boundless universe, on a solitary planet, a sleeping self awakens from a desolate dream. Fearless and fearless, I embrace myself, deeply immersed in this profound self-love.

1. 不在乎任何人对自己的任何态度，你就无敌，没有了任何束缚，将活得轻松自在。

1. Not caring about anyone's attitude towards you makes you invincible, without any constraints, and you will live a carefree and comfortable life.

2. 如果把人生比作一场戏剧，那么你自己才是制片人、导演和主角。你想怎么拍就怎么拍，你想怎么演就怎么演，你想如何安排情节就如何安排情节，别人叫好，我们会心一笑，别人嘲讽奚落，我们完全可以置之不理。

2. If life is likened to a drama, then you are the producer, director, and leading actor. You can shoot it as you like, act as you like, and arrange the plot as you wish. If others cheer, we will smile from the heart, and if others mock and make fun, we can completely ignore them.

3. 非常欣赏的一段话：“你可以不喜欢我的性格，不喜欢我的样子，不喜欢我说的话，包括我的一切，你都可以不喜欢，没关系，但麻烦你不要来告诉我。

3. A very appreciable quote: "You can dislike my personality, dislike my appearance, dislike the things I say, including everything about me, you can dislike all of that, and that's fine. But please don't bother to tell me."

4. 我们一定要修炼自己的心态，凡事都不要做期待，学会依靠自己的能力，在这个风霜雨雪的世界上讨生活。包括不对父母和兄弟姐妹有任何期待。

4. We must cultivate our mindset, not to have expectations for anything, learn to rely on our own abilities, and make a living in this world with its wind, frost, rain, and snow. This includes not having any expectations for our parents or siblings.

5. 人类的悲欢并不相同。

5. The joys and sorrows of humans are not the same.

6. 不对任何人有任何期待，你就无我，打造一个稳定坚强的内核，将活得独立自强。

6. With no expectations of anyone, you become free from self, and by cultivating a stable and strong core, you will live independently and self-reliantly.

7. 这个世界上，没有人可以真正地共情你，理解你，支持你，生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。

7. In this world, no one can truly empathize with you, understand you, or support you. Life is an isolated river, and only you are the ferryman of your own life.

8. 人性的一个弱点就是，总是因为别人对自己的态度而耿耿于怀，总是期待别人对自己怎么样。世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系，没有任何人有义务帮助你，你也没有任何责任在乎别人的态度。

8. One weakness of human nature is that we always harbor grudges because of others' attitudes towards us, and always expect others to treat us a certain way. The world is yours, and has nothing to do with others. No one has an obligation to help you, and you have no responsibility to care about others' attitudes.

9. 庄子在逍遥游里说：举世誉之而不加劝，举世非之而不加沮。

9. In his text "逍遥游", Zhuangzi says: "The world praises him and he does not seek more; the world criticizes him and he does not become disheartened."

10. 我没有按照你喜欢的方式生活，那么，就请你远离我的生活，不要来指责我，别用你的思想来嘲笑我的不足，因为我生来就不是为你而活的。”

10. I haven't lived my life in the way you like, so please keep away from my life, don't come to blame me, and don't mock my shortcomings with your thoughts, because I was not born to live for you."

11. 因为世界上也会有不爱孩子的父母，也会有薄情寡义的兄弟姊妹，也会有见利忘义的朋友。

11. Because there are also parents who do not love their children, there are also brothers and sisters who lack affection and morality, and there are also friends who forget righteousness for profit.

12. 我们总是把自己活成别人思想和价值观的囚徒。担心别人不认可自己，害怕别人对自己说三道四，焦虑不能得到别人的好感和支持，所以把自己活成最卑微，最无助，最无奈的样子。

12. We always live ourselves as prisoners of others' thoughts and values. Concerned about others not recognizing us, afraid of others gossiping about us, anxious about not gaining others' approval and support, we end up living in the most humble, helpless, and desperate manner.

13. 然而，放下对普通人的期待容易，放下对身边最亲近的人的期待却太难。比如，我们一定会希望得到父母的关心和爱护，如果父母不关心自己，就会觉得特别难过。我们一定会期待兄弟姊妹和我们和睦相处，如果对方薄情寡义，就会觉得很失落。

13. However, it is easy to let go of expectations for ordinary people, but it is incredibly difficult to do so for those closest to us. For example, we all undoubtedly hope to receive care and affection from our parents, and if they do not show concern for us, it can be particularly painful. We also naturally expect to get along well with our siblings, and if they are indifferent or unkind, we can feel deeply disappointed.

14. 意思就是，全世界的人都赞美你、支持你、表扬你，你也不会感到飘飘然。全世界的人都讨厌你，排斥你、贬低你，你也不会痛心疾首。

14. That means, even when the whole world admires you, supports you, and praises you, you won't feel elated. And even if the whole world dislikes you,排斥 you, and belittles you, you won't feel deeply hurt.

15. 你喜极而泣的成绩，在别人看来，不过是一种矫情和炫耀，你惊心动魄的伤痛，在别人眼里，不过只是随手拂过的尘埃。

15. The achievements that brought you tears of joy, in the eyes of others, are no more than a display of affectation and showmanship. The profound pain that left you breathless, to others, is merely a speck of dust to be casually brushed away.