人生如戏，悲喜交织。往后的余生，不论是对待他人，还是面对自己，都应心怀善意，不拘泥于过去，也不迷失于未来。

Life is like a play, intertwined with joy and sorrow. In the remaining years of life, whether treating others or facing oneself, one should carry a heart full of kindness, not be bound by the past, nor lost in the future.

1. 生命中，会有一个人，给你生命，陪你成长；生命中，会有一个人，教你知识，理解思考；生命中，会有一个人，激起你的涟漪，给你淡淡却美妙的青春回想；生命中，会有一个人，TA可能对你很严格，却给了你经历和磨砺；生命中，会有一个人，给你很少的豪情与浪漫，却给了你不可替代的温情和实在。他们是谁？

1. In life, there will be someone who gives you life and accompanies your growth; there will be someone who teaches you knowledge and understanding of thought; there will be someone who stirs the ripples in your life, giving you a faint yet beautiful memory of youth; there will be someone who may be very strict with you, but gives you experience and perseverance; there will be someone who gives you little enthusiasm and romance, but provides you with invaluable warmth and reality. Who are they?

2. 和一个男人相处，多了解他而不必太爱他；和一个女人相处，应多爱她，别试图完全了解她。---莎士比亚

2. In dealing with a man, get to know him more without loving him too much; when with a woman, love her more and do not try to understand her completely. -- Shakespeare

3. 你不必为了顺从别人或讨好别人而扭曲自己，你要努力，你想要的，只能你自己给；别人给的，你要问问自己，拿得起么。世事离戏只有一步之远；人生离梦也只有一步之遥。生命最有趣的部分，正是它没有剧本、没有彩排、不能重来。生命最有分量的部分，正是我们要做自己，承担所有的责任。

3. You do not have to distort yourself to please others or cater to their whims. You should strive for what you want, as only you can provide it for yourself; and when others offer, you should ask yourself if you can handle it. Life is just a step away from theater; and similarly, it is just a step away from dreams. The most interesting part of life is that it has no script, no rehearsal, and cannot be replayed. The most significant part of life is that we must be ourselves and take on all responsibilities.

4. 终究要一个人走，不必为了不让自己孤独而去讨好别人！做自己就好，孤独不可怕，可怕的是连自己都做不了

4. In the end, one must walk alone; there is no need to please others in order not to feel lonely! Just be yourself, loneliness is not scary; what is terrifying is not being able to be yourself.

5. 永远不要为了讨好这个世界，而扭曲了自己。---《破处之王》

5. Never twist yourself to please this world. --- "The King of Virginity Breakers"

6. 爱情就是一个将陌生人变成情侣，又将情侣变成陌生人的游戏。

6. Love is a game that turns strangers into couples and then couples into strangers.

7. 一个喜欢你的人，不会总让你做什么。而是会想着替你做点什么，取悦你才是种喜欢；一个在乎你的人，不会轻易惹你生气，而是害怕失去你，心怀恐惧才是种在乎。爱是付出，被爱是得到。你得到的多，那他是爱你的。你付出得多，那很可能只是单恋而已。不必一味讨好别人，不要迷失自己。

7. A person who likes you won't always make you do things. Instead, they will think of doing something for you, and pleasing you is a form of liking; a person who cares about you won't easily make you angry, but they fear losing you, and it's the fear that counts as caring. Love is giving, and being loved is receiving. If you receive more, that means they love you. If you give more, it's likely that it's just a one-sided love. Don't always try to please others, and don't lose yourself in the process.

8. 懂得如何避开问题的人，胜过知道怎样解决问题的人。在这个世界上，不知道怎么办的时候，选择顺其自然，也许是最佳选择。胜出者往往不是能力而是观念。

8. Those who know how to avoid problems are superior to those who know how to solve them. In this world, when faced with not knowing what to do, choosing to let things take their course may be the best choice. The winners are often not due to their abilities but their mindset.

9. 往后余生听到往后余生都会想起你！你问我有没有遗憾，怎会没有，你就会成为我的遗憾。

9. The rest of my life will always remember you from now on! When you ask me if I have any regrets, how could I not? You will become my regret.

10. 心是最大的骗子，别人能骗你一时，而它却会骗你一辈子。

10. The heart is the biggest deceiver; others may fool you for a while, but it will deceive you for a lifetime.

11. 不管我曾经多么在乎你，在你离开的那一刻起，你就是路人。

11. No matter how much I cared about you before, from the moment you left, you became a stranger to me.

12. 你必须很喜欢和自己作伴，好处是：你不必为了顺从别人或讨好别人而扭曲自己。英才天纵的意大利**导演费里尼曾经如是说过，苟以为应该抄送全人类传阅。因为他们整天以各种稀奇古怪甚至冠冕堂皇的理由，互相侵扰着，将原该朗月清风两两相遇，慢慢演变成为一种理所当然的两相折磨。

12. You must really enjoy being alone with yourself, because the benefits are: you don't have to twist yourself to please others or curry favor with them. The Italian director Federico Fellini once said something to this effect, and it is something that should be circulated among all humanity. Because they interfere with each other throughout the day with all sorts of peculiar and even pretentious reasons, gradually transforming what should be a natural and peaceful encounter into a seemingly inevitable mutual torment.

13. 为什么有些人烦你，主要是当年没和哈林离婚就出轨偷情，在道德上处在了下风。现在你应该不必在乎外人的任何中伤，活好你自己，成为让别人艳羡的风景！

13. Why do some people hate you? It's mainly because you had an affair and cheated on your husband, Halin, without getting a divorce first, putting yourself in a morally disadvantageous position. Now, you should not care about any slurs from outsiders. Live your life to the fullest and become a sight that others envy!

14. 生活中，不必为了讨好别人而去做违背自己意愿的事情，不必为了功名利禄而去结交不会做人的人，不必为了追求更多的财富而去做违背良心的事情。要知道，三尺屋脊有神灵，是你的，别人要不走。不是你的，不义之财装进口袋，意外之灾会让你把不义之财吐出来！

14. In life, do not do things against your own will just to please others, do not associate with people who are not decent for the sake of fame and fortune, and do not do things that go against your conscience to pursue more wealth. Remember, there are spirits above the three-meter ridge of a house, and they belong to you; others cannot take them away. If something does not belong to you, taking ill-gotten gains into your pocket will only bring unexpected disasters, forcing you to regurgitate the ill-gotten gains!

15. 时间的渡口，我们皆是过客。无论我们怎么样珍惜与挽留，抑或怎么样荒废与抛弃，生命的田地终将是一片寂静荒芜，我们无力留下什么。

15. At the ferry terminal of time, we are all travelers. No matter how much we cherish and try to retain, or how much we neglect and abandon, the field of life will eventually be a silent wasteland, and we have no power to leave anything behind.

16. 人生中，如果能只做个俗人，不谈亏欠不负相见，那么或许能够简单快乐的多。不去计较得失，把每一次的相遇都当做是上天的一种恩赐，无论遇见什么样的人生，收获了多少快乐，得到了多少委屈，都珍而重之的藏在记忆里，把这些境遇当做是人生的调味剂，酸甜苦辣咸，其实，每一个人都不曾亏欠过任何人，要珍惜每一个陪伴在自己身边的人，珍惜每一段过往。

16. In life, if one could simply be an ordinary person, without mentioning debts or the lack of them, then perhaps one could be simpler and happier. Not to calculate gains or losses, but to regard every encounter as a blessing from heaven. No matter what kind of life one meets, how much happiness one gains, or how much injustice one endures, they are all cherished and deeply stored in memory. These experiences are treated as the spices of life, sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty. In fact, no one has ever owed anyone anything. We should cherish everyone who accompanies us and treasure every past experience.

17. 在对的时间遇见对的人是童话，在错的时间遇见对的人是青春。

17. Meeting the right person at the right time is a fairy tale, while meeting the right person at the wrong time is youth.

18. 在余生的日子里，一定要好好照顾自己。无论遇到多大的困难，到了明天都会变得微不足道；时间都会你轻描淡写！无论遭受多深的痛苦，到了明年都会成为疤痕。没有什么过不去的难关，

18. In the days that remain, always take good care of yourself. No matter how great the difficulties you encounter, they will become insignificant tomorrow; time will make them light as a feather! No matter how deep the pain you suffer, it will become a scar next year. There are no insurmountable difficulties that cannot be overcome.

19. 你只管活你自己的，不必去介意别人的扭曲与是非。

19. Just live your own life and don't bother about others' distortions and righteousness or wrongness.

20. 尽管用了好几个月养成习惯，培养兴趣，稍有苗头还是打回原形。不必为了讨好别人牺牲自己，你自己想做什么就做，才是你的生活。最近的苦乐照单全收，能享受过程，结果就不重要了。

20. Despite spending several months cultivating habits and interests, there is still a tendency to revert to old ways. There is no need to sacrifice yourself to please others; do what you want to do, that is your life. Recently, I have been able to fully embrace both the joys and sorrows, and the outcome no longer matters as long as I can enjoy the process.

21. 原谅，并非是因为心宽，而是因为不舍。不原谅，未必是因罪不可赦，只因心已离开。

21. Forgiveness is not because of a broad heart, but because of reluctance. Not forgiving is not necessarily because the sin is unforgivable, but simply because the heart has already left.

22. 往后余生，愿你不念过往，不畏将来，笑对生活中的风风雨雨，任凭时光荏苒，每一天都是自己喜欢的模样。

22. For the rest of your life, may you not dwell on the past, nor fear the future, and face the ups and downs of life with a smile. Let each day pass as you prefer, in the image that you find most pleasing.

23. 你必须很喜欢和自己作伴。好处是：你不必为了顺从迁就讨好别人而扭曲自己。一个人的世界，做喜欢的事，发呆也那么惬意。

23. You must like being alone with yourself very much. The benefits are: you don't have to twist yourself to please others or to comply. In the world of one, doing what you like, even daydreaming is so comfortable.

24. 往后余生，风雪是你，平淡是你，荣华是你，心底温柔是你，目光所至，也是你。

24. From now on, the remainder of my life is filled with you: the wind and snow, the plainness, the prosperity, the gentle warmth in my heart, and wherever my gaze falls, it is you.

25. 在我脑海里原来一直没有自我，总在想着怎样去讨好别人，可是现在发现生活不必这样的，不需要讨好，做的好又能怎么样，自己不开心谁又懂呢！谁在乎你!都会嘴上说说，各自都为了生活，谁又能管你那!结婚是一场旅行，没有机会从来，是好是坏只有自己体会，怪不得都会离婚，离婚不是最好但是对于自己生活那就是最好

25. Originally, there was no self in my mind. I was always thinking about how to please others, but now I realize that life doesn't have to be like that. There's no need to please others, and what's the point of doing well if I'm not happy? Who understands my unhappiness? Who cares about you? Everyone will just talk about it, everyone is busy with their own lives, who can bother about you! Marriage is a journey, there's no way to go back, whether it's good or bad, you have to experience it yourself. That's why everyone gets divorced, divorce isn't the best, but for your own life, it's the best.

26. 不要后悔对任何一个人好，哪怕是看错人，哪怕是被辜负，哪怕是撞南墙，因为你对他好，不代表他有多好，只是因为你很好！

26. Don't regret being good to anyone, even if you make a mistake in judgment, even if you are betrayed, or even if you hit a dead end, because being good to him doesn't mean he is good, it just means you are very good!

27. 无论你有再多的情怀，再有人爱，经济独立永远是你的尚方宝剑，你不必为了钱委屈自己，也不必为了钱讨好别人。

27. No matter how many feelings you have or how much love you receive, economic independence is always your sword of justice. You don't have to compromise yourself for money, nor do you have to flatter others for money.

28. 你的微微一笑就像沙漠里开出的花，让我念念不忘，刻骨铭心。

28. Your faint smile is like a flower blooming in the desert, unforgettable and deeply etched in my heart.

29. 我们大部份的生命都浪费在文字语言的捉摸上。

29. Most of our lives are wasted in the pursuit of understanding written language.

30. 余生太长，我想牵着你的手，陪你到处逛逛；人生太长，我想挽着你的胳膊，陪你看夕阳。

30. Life is too long, I want to hold your hand and accompany you to wander around; life is too long, I want to wrap my arm around yours and watch the sunset with you.

31. 现在过的每一天，都是余生中最年轻的一天。请不要老得太快，却明白得太迟。

31. Every day that passes is the youngest day of the rest of your life. Please don't grow old too quickly, yet understand too late.

32. 其实每天冲着你喊离开的那个人是不会离开你的，真正的离开是悄无声息，没有言语的。

32. In fact, the person who shouts at you every day to leave will not leave you. The real departure is silent, without words.

33. 孤单，是你心里面没有人；寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。

33. Loneliness is when there's no one in your heart; solitude is when there's someone in your heart but they are not by your side.

34. 人根本不必在乎别人的想法，活好自己的就足够了。

34. People don't really need to care about others' opinions; living well by themselves is enough.

35. 余生很贵，努力活成自己想要的样子，愿你能穿运动鞋撸铁汗如雨下，也能穿高跟鞋潇洒貌美如花，不负青春，不负自己。

35. Life is precious, strive to live the way you want. May you be able to work out in sneakers, sweat like rain, and also walk elegantly in high heels, beautiful as a flower, not to waste your youth or yourself.

36. 余生不长，要好好吃饭、好好睡觉、好好爱自己。只有这样我们才能活得久一点，走得更远一点，在喜欢的人生命里陪伴长一点。

36. Life is short, so we should eat well, sleep well, and love ourselves well. Only in this way can we live a little longer, go a little farther, and stay a little longer in the lives of the people we like.

37. 掬一抹斜阳嗅一缕清风悠然岁月静静过浅笑嫣然度余生。

37. Gather a touch of the slanting sun, sniff a breeze, leisurely through the years, pass quietly, with a gentle smile, through the rest of one's life.