把握生活主动权，自我修炼心态度，轻松过好每一天。

Grasp the initiative of life, cultivate your mindset, and enjoy every day with ease.

1. 1你有自己的光芒，即使道路漫长，都要为自己走下去，无论是否有人在等你，无论是否有人在鼓掌。

1. You have your own light. No matter how long the road is, you should walk for yourself. Regardless of whether anyone is waiting for you or anyone is cheering you on.

2. 16士志于道，而耻恶衣恶食者，未足与议也。

2. Those who are dedicated to the pursuit of the Way, yet are ashamed of wearing coarse clothes or eating simple food, are not worthy of discussion.

3. 当一个人熬过了最艰难的时候，就不再想去寻找依靠，任何人都是负累。

3. When a person has endured the most difficult times, they no longer seek reliance; anyone becomes a burden.

4. 学着改变自己，因为自己还不完善，还有很多缺点需要去改，还有很多坏习惯去改。

4. Learn to change yourself, as you are not yet perfect and there are many shortcomings that need to be improved, as well as many bad habits to be changed.

5. 谁能以深刻的内容充实每个瞬间，谁就是在无限地延长自己的生命。

5. Whoever can fill each moment with profound content is infinitely extending their own life.

6. 41你希望生命中出现彩虹，就必须接受雨水的洗礼；你想获得人生的金子，就必须淘尽生活中的沙烁。

6. If you wish to see a rainbow in your life, you must accept the baptism of rain; if you want to obtain the gold of life, you must sift through the sands of life.

7. 13可以托六尺之孤，可以寄百里之命，临大节而不可夺也。

7. One can entrust a child of six years to him, can entrust a mission of a hundred miles to him, and he can withstand a great crisis without being overpowered.

8. 发生任何问题，先从自己身上找问题。因为改变自己容易，改变别人难。

8. When any problem arises, first look for problems within yourself. Because it is easy to change oneself, but difficult to change others.

9. 信任问题从一月份处理到三月。现在也算步入正轨。我知道是我的原因。剩下的是细水流长和努力开开心心保持好心态每一天

9. The trust issue was dealt with from January to March. Now it's on the right track. I know it's my fault. What remains is to maintain a steady and joyful state of mind every day through efforts.

10. 人啊，最大的敌人总是自己，战胜了自己的不足，你就是彻彻底底的胜利者！

10. People, the greatest enemy is always oneself. Once you have conquered your shortcomings, you are a彻底victor!

11. 好运在每个人的生活中都存在，心态积极的人会主动抓住机会，从中获益；而心态消极的人却常常阻止了好机会的降临还不自知。

11. Luck exists in everyone's life. People with a positive mindset will actively seize opportunities and benefit from them; however, those with a negative mindset often prevent good opportunities from arriving without realizing it.

12. 10吃着大锅饭、晒着暖暖的，调整不好的心态、保持着好心情，这样的生活是多少人所向往滴。

12. 10. Eating from a big pot, basking in the warmth, adjusting one's mindset, maintaining a good mood, such a life is something many people aspire to.

13. 没有谁，脚下的路，一生平坦；没有什么人能一路单纯到底，但是要记住：别忘了最初的自己，别丢了善良的本性。

13. No one's path in life is completely smooth; no one can remain innocent all the way through. But remember: don't forget about the original version of yourself, and don't lose your inherent kindness.

14. 一定要记住：面临，不一定会难过；孤单，不一定不快乐；得到，不一定能持久。爱是我们能够给予的最好的礼物。被爱则是我们能收到最好的礼物。

14. Always remember: facing something doesn't necessarily mean being sad; being alone doesn't necessarily mean being unhappy; and obtaining something doesn't necessarily mean it will last. Love is the best gift we can give. Being loved is the best gift we can receive.

15. 人生重要的是经历。没有加倍的勤奋，就既没有才能，也没有天才。心态越平，坎坷就越少。

15. The importance of life lies in experience. Without double the diligence, there is neither talent nor genius. The more balanced the mindset, the fewer the hardships.

16. 记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

16. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

17. 4朋友，生活累了吗，心灵倦了吗，烦恼多了吗？肩上的担子，哭着也是挑，笑着也是挑，何必自寻苦恼。愿你看开想开，幸福生活乐逍遥。

17. 4 My friends, are you tired of life, weary of your soul, and burdened with more worries? The load on your shoulders is carried with tears or laughter, so why seek out your own distress? May you find clarity and open-mindedness, and live a happy and carefree life.

18. 每天都要保持好心情～日子会越来越好的！加油！

18. Keep a good mood every day! Things will get better and better! Keep up the good work!

19. 我再怎么努力，再怎么改变自己，原来一切只是徒劳，我发现我从来都只是一个只会被骗的傻瓜。

19. No matter how hard I try or how much I change myself, I realize that it was all in vain. I've found out that I have always just been a foolish dummy who is easy to be deceived.

20. 每天保持一个好心情，微笑面对每天的一切，心情也会放松。

20. Maintain a good mood every day, smile at everything you encounter, and your mood will also relax.

21. 如果有梦想，就追求吧，如果有希望，就努力吧；如果有机会，就把握吧；如果有目标，就奋进吧；如果有道路，就坚持吧！如果有幸福，就珍惜吧！

21. If you have dreams, pursue them; if you have hope, strive for it; if you have opportunities, seize them; if you have goals, advance towards them; if you have paths, persevere on them! If you have happiness, cherish it!

22. 也许一个人要走很长的路，经历过生命中无数突如其来的繁华和苍凉才会变的成熟。

22. Perhaps one must walk a long road and experience countless sudden ups and downs in life before one becomes mature.

23. 4如果能左右自己的思想，就能够控制自己的情感。

23.4 If one can control one's thoughts, one can also control one's emotions.

24. 38当你还配不上你的野心时，请静下心来努力，别辜负了曾经所受的苦难。

24. 38 When you are not yet worthy of your ambition, please calm down and work hard, don't let down the hardships you have endured.

25. 不安于现状，勤于思考学习的状态才是人生不断追求的，困难只是暂时的，只要坚持终将过去，它只会是你生活中一道记忆的彩虹。大家都要保持好心态！

25. The state of being dissatisfied with the status quo and diligent in thinking and learning is what we should constantly pursue in life. Difficulties are only temporary, and as long as we persist, they will pass. They will only be a rainbow of memories in your life. Everyone should maintain a positive mindset!

26. 14年轻的时候，连多愁善感都要渲染的惊天动地。长大后却学会，越痛，越不动声色。越苦，越保持沉默。成长，就是将哭调成静音的过程。

26. At the age of 14, even melancholy had to be exaggerated to the point of being earth-shattering. But as I grew older, I learned to keep my emotions in check. The more pain, the less I showed. The more bitter, the more silent I remained. Growth is the process of turning one's tears into silence.

27. 34最短的距离是只说不做，因为说了之后就没有了。最远的距离是从说到做，因为没有什么事是可以一步登天的。

27. The shortest distance is just talking without doing, because after talking, there is nothing left. The longest distance is from talking to doing, because nothing can be achieved overnight.

28. 心态越平，坎坷就越少。人生的际遇，请，未必会来；躲，未必能免。心态放平，要来的正确面对，失去的淡然想开。

28. The flatter your attitude, the fewer hardships you will encounter. Life's experiences, please note, may not always come; trying to avoid them may not necessarily prevent them. Keep a calm attitude, face what is coming with the right perspective, and calmly let go of what you have lost.

29. 不抱怨、不指责，保持好心情，每天进步一点点。

29. Do not complain or blame, maintain a good mood, and make a little progress every day.

30. 10无欲速，无见小利。欲速，则不达；见小利，则大事不成。

30. Do not seek haste, do not see trivial benefits. Seeking haste will not lead to success; seeing trivial benefits will not achieve great things.

31. 真正的礼貌就是克己，就是千方百计地使周围的人都像自己一样平心静气。

31. True politeness is self-discipline, the effort to make everyone around oneself as calm and composed as possible.

32. 36真正的快乐，是对生活乐观，对工作愉快，对事业兴奋。——爱恩斯坦

32. True happiness is an optimistic view of life, a joy in work, and excitement in one's career. - Einstein

33. 会等待的人颇具耐性，懂得宽容，做事不仓促，不为情绪所左右，能制已者，人生会给双倍的奖赏。

33. Those who are patient enough to wait, know how to be forgiving, do not act in haste, are not swayed by emotions, and can control themselves, life will reward them doubly.

34. 不管我多么努力的改变自己，遇到你，一切都付之东流，被打回原形，继续拼了命的爱你。

34. No matter how hard I try to change myself, when I meet you, everything falls apart, I'm brought back to my original state, and I continue to love you with all my might.

35. 不求大富大贵身体健康就最好每天都开开心心保持好心情。

35. Not aspiring for great wealth and high status, it is best to be happy every day and maintain a good mood.

36. 生活是自己的，千万别为难自己，有什么样的能力，就过什么样的生活，尽力而为，量力而行。

36. Life is your own, never put yourself through hardship. Live according to your abilities, and do your best while acting within your means.

37. 26口中言少，自然祸少；腹中食少，自然病少；心中欲少，自然忧少；身上事少，自然苦少；大悲无泪，大悟无言。缘来要惜，缘尽就放，随方就圆，无处不自在。

37. Out of 26, speaking less naturally leads to fewer troubles; eating less naturally leads to fewer illnesses; desiring less naturally leads to fewer worries; having fewer affairs naturally leads to less suffering; profound sorrow has no tears, and profound realization has no words. When缘分来临时要珍惜，缘分结束时就要放手，随遇而安，无处不自在.

38. 改变自己，以积极的心态面对一切，才能在困境寻找突破，才能找到提高自己、发展自己的更好途径。

38. To change oneself and face everything with a positive mindset is the key to finding breakthroughs in difficult situations and to discovering better ways to improve and develop oneself.

39. 22寂寞的时候想想八戒哥，生气的时候吃吃开心果，忧郁的时候啃啃忘忧草，重压的时候念念弥陀佛。朋友，感觉好些了吗？

39. 22 When you feel lonely, think of Bigwig Brother; when you're angry, eat some happy nuts; when you're melancholic, chew on the forget-me-not herb; when you're under heavy pressure, recite the Buddha's name. Friend, do you feel a bit better now?

40. 4一个人不管出自哪里，你的内心必须强大，不管别人怎么看你，你只有掌握一技，能改变自己生活的一技。

40. 4 No matter where a person comes from, you must have a strong inner self. No matter how others perceive you, you only need to master one skill that can change your own life.

41. 20没有人在意你失去了什么，没有人关心你的不快乐，这个世界不会为了任何人停下前进的步伐，心酸就哭，累了就睡，撒不出气来就去大吃大喝，越是没人爱，就越是要好好爱自己。

41. No one cares what you have lost, no one is concerned about your unhappiness. This world will not stop for anyone. Cry when you're heartbroken, sleep when you're tired, eat and drink to your heart's content when you can't breathe, and the more unloved you are, the more you need to love yourself well.

42. 你出生的时候，你哭着，周围的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而周围的人在哭！一切都是轮回！我们都在轮回中！

42. When you were born, you cried and the people around you smiled; when you pass away, you smile and the people around you cry! Everything is a cycle! We are all in the cycle!

43. 好的心理是一剂良药，能催人奋进，反之它就是枷锁，使人灭亡。

43. Good psychology is a panacea that can inspire people to strive forward, whereas the opposite can be a shackle that leads to destruction.

44. 很想要每天都保持好心情，不管晴天还是雨天，不管自己经历了什么。

44. I really want to maintain a good mood every day, no matter if it's sunny or rainy, no matter what I've experienced.

45. 人这一生总有人在渡你，遇见，是因为有债要还了，离开，是因为还清了，前世不欠，今生不见。世间万物都有定数，不要害怕遇见，也不要害怕失去，人生各有渡口，各有各舟，别人如何待我，是我的因果，我待别人如何是我的修行。

45. In this life, there are always people crossing over for you. Encounters are because debts need to be repaid, and departures are because debts have been settled; if there were no debts in a past life, there will be no encounters in this life. All things in the world have their predetermined fate. Do not fear encounters, nor fear losses. Each person has their own port of passage and their own boat. How others treat me is my karma, and how I treat others is my cultivation.

46. 8法语之言，能无从乎改之为贵。巽与之言，能无说乎绎之为贵。说而不绎，从而不改，吾末如之何也已矣。

46. In French, it is considered valuable to be able to change what cannot be understood. In the words of Xun, it is considered valuable to be able to find joy in what is harmonious. To be pleased without understanding, to follow without changing, I don't know what to do with such a situation already.

47. 乐观是心胸豁达的表现，乐观是生理健康的目的，乐观是人际交往的基础，乐观是工作顺利的保证，乐观是避免挫折的法宝。

47. Optimism is a manifestation of broad-mindedness, optimism is the aim of physical health, optimism is the foundation of interpersonal communication, optimism is the guarantee of smooth work, and optimism is the key to avoiding setbacks.

48. 40我难道的时候你在哪里？心痛的感觉令我麻痹，痛得我难以呼吸，却不敢告诉你。

48. When I was 40, where were you? The feeling of heartache has numbed me, it's painful to the point of difficulty breathing, yet I dared not tell you.

49. 27人生的每一次相遇，都是恰逢其时，你会不断的遇见一些人，也会不停的和一些人说再见，从陌生到熟悉，从熟悉再回陌生，从臭味相投到分道扬镳，从相见恨晚到不如不见。

49. 27 In each encounter of life, it is as it should be. You will continuously meet some people and also keep saying goodbye to others. From strangers to familiar faces, and from familiarity back to stranger, from being kindred spirits to taking different paths, from regretting not meeting sooner to wishing you hadn't met at all.

50. 29每天醒来，面朝阳光，努力向上，相信日子会变得单纯而美好。

50. Every morning, face the sun, strive to rise, and believe that the days will become simple and beautiful.

51. 人生不如意的事十之夕阳虽然西下，但在某个国家却是日出。

51. In life, there are many things that are not as one wishes. Although the sun sets in the west, in some countries it is actually the time of sunrise.