从从容容，稳步前行：一路随缘，最佳安排自显。

Relaxed and steady, moving forward with ease: go with the flow, and the best arrangement will reveal itself along the way.

1. 对别人的事，只要听听就好了。什么人什么命，冷暖自知。而且有的时候大多数人只看得见开头，开不见结尾。所以与其做别人生活的看客，还不如做自己生活的主宰者。好好过好每一天，认认真真做好每一件事才是王道。

1. As for others' matters, it's enough to just listen. Each person has their own destiny, and the warmth or coldness is known to themselves. Moreover, sometimes most people can only see the beginning but not the end. Therefore, it's better to be the master of one's own life rather than a spectator in others' lives. Making the most of every day and doing every task with seriousness is the way to go.

2. 别和小人过不去，因为他本来就过不去；别和社会过不去，因为你会过不去；别和自己过不去，因为一切都会过去；别和往事过不去，因为它已经过去；别和现实过不去，因为你还要过下去。

2. Don't quarrel with a small-minded person, for they are already struggling; don't quarrel with society, for you will struggle too; don't quarrel with yourself, for everything will pass; don't hold onto the past, for it has already passed; and don't quarrel with reality, for you still have to go on living.

3. 6一代又一代的人，从生到死，辛辛苦苦、忙忙碌碌，到头来只成了一批又一批的尸体，人生一世，还说得到什么价值呢？

3. Generation after generation, from birth to death, they toil and hustle, only to become one batch after another of corpses. In one lifetime, what value can there be to speak of?

4. 随缘便是自在，心安即是归处。昨天越来越多，明天越来越少。人生最曼妙风景是内心淡定从容，头脑睿智清醒。时间并不会真帮我们解决什么问题，只是会把原来怎么也想不通的问题，变得不再重要。最有价值遇见是在某一瞬间，重遇了自己。走遍世界也不过是为了找到一条走回内心的路。内心富足是真富足。

4. Going with the flow is freedom, peace of mind is where you belong. There is more yesterday than tomorrow. The most enchanting scenery in life is inner calm and composed, and a wise and clear mind. Time doesn't really solve any problems for us; it just makes the problems that we couldn't figure out before seem unimportant. The most valuable encounter is when, in a moment, you meet yourself again. Traversing the world is just to find a path back to your inner self. Inner wealth is true wealth.

5. 男人真正的成熟不只是人的外表，而是对人处事的态度、肩负的责任，理智面对，无愧于心。淡定从容、独立理性、睿智优雅不失风趣！

5. True maturity in a man is not just about appearance, but about the attitude towards dealing with people, the responsibilities undertaken, and facing them with reason and a clear conscience. Composed and calm, independent and rational, wise and elegant, yet retaining a sense of humor!

6. 3我心静如水，我该平和地迎接每一天，过好每一天，准备回家。

6.3 My mind is as calm as water; I should peacefully greet each day, make the most of every day, and prepare for my return.

7. 19灵性良心人人都有。经常凭灵性良心来克制自己，就是休养。这是一种功力，在修炼中逐渐增强，逐渐坚定。灵性良心占上风是能做到的；灵性良心完全消灭肉欲，可以说办不到。

7. 19 Everyone has a spiritual conscience. To frequently control oneself through the spiritual conscience is to cultivate oneself. This is a form of power that gradually strengthens and becomes more firm through cultivation. It is possible to let the spiritual conscience take the upper hand; however, it is said to be impossible for the spiritual conscience to completely eliminate fleshly desires.

8. 要放下，但不是放弃，不舍弃一个众生，这叫慈悲，放下一切众生，这叫智慧。

8. To let go, but not to abandon, to not forsake any sentient being, this is called compassion. To let go of all sentient beings is called wisdom.

9. 速度与激情8中的女反派塞弗，就两个字惊艳，超睿智的头脑，运筹帷幄于机舱之中，决胜于千里之外，完美的身材，精致的五官，强大的气场，冲破天际的野心，还有那与生俱来的气质，泰山崩于前面不改色的淡定从容黑客塞弗操控种种，一切都将收拢成她掌中的线

9. The female antagonist Safiya from "The Fast and the Furious 8" is simply stunning with her two-character name. She possesses an extraordinarily intelligent mind, plotting in the cabin and deciding the outcome from afar. With a perfect figure, delicate facial features, a strong aura, a sky-high ambition, and an innate气质, calm and composed hacker Safiya, who controls everything, will gather all under her control.

10. 8灵性良心人人都有。经常凭灵性良心来克制自己就是修养。

10. Everyone has an inner spiritual conscience. Often restraining oneself based on the spiritual conscience is a form of cultivation.

11. 人生至高的境界就是在纷繁中淡定心弦，心静时，过往的纠缠都可以搁置在一边晾晒，而你独享此刻宁静的光阴。

11. The highest realm of life is to maintain a composed mind amidst the complexities, and when the heart is at peace, all past entanglements can be set aside to dry, while you alone enjoy the tranquility of the moment.

12. 陈红是出生于黑龙江哈尔滨一个军人家庭，从小的她就对歌唱有着浓厚的兴趣。优秀如她，凭着自己的努力考入哈尔滨大学音乐系，并在21岁就登上的春晚的舞台，以一首《单程车票》开始被观众熟知。不得不承认陈红在歌唱唱的天赋，在两届的青年歌手大赛中都获得了不错的成绩，成为乐坛的中流砥柱。多年真正让她红极一时的，还是在99年春晚舞台上的一曲《常回家看看》。

12. Chen Hong was born into a military family in Harbin, Heilongjiang. Since childhood, she has had a strong interest in singing. As outstanding as she is, she earned her admission to the Music Department of Harbin University through her own efforts and stepped onto the Spring Festival Gala stage at the age of 21, becoming well-known to the audience with her song "One-Way Ticket." It must be admitted that Chen Hong has a natural talent for singing, and she achieved good results in both editions of the Youth Singer Competition, becoming a pillar of the music industry. What truly made her a household name was still the song "Visit Home Often" she performed on the Spring Festival Gala stage in 1999.

13. 一片叶，落在哪都是归宿；一朵花，开在哪都是芳香；一个人，走到哪都是生命。昨天越来越多，明天越来越少；内心淡定从容，头脑睿智清醒，积累的结果。没有内在平静，难有外在安宁。给自己一个方向，不求地老天荒；给自己一个信仰，不必一路慌张。心安神定，由弱而强。

13. A leaf, wherever it falls, is a final resting place; a flower, wherever it blooms, is filled with fragrance; a person, wherever they go, brings life. The past grows increasingly distant, while the future becomes ever more scarce. Inner calm and composure, wisdom and clarity of mind are the result of accumulation. Without inner peace, there can be no outer tranquility. Give yourself a direction, without seeking the end of time; give yourself a belief, without needing to be anxious on the journey. Peace of mind and stability lead from weakness to strength.

14. 然后**砸门进入她九龙塘的豪宅，将沈星与吴姓大富豪捉奸在床，随后李军因为与沈星个人感情的问题，对其进行施暴，最后因为涉嫌爆窃及藏有禁制性武器被警方带走。陈红得知丈夫婚内出轨，因此选择了离婚，本想就此了断。夫妻离婚两年后，李军在某社交平台上发长文控告陈红，因此，陈红多年积累的名声毁于一旦，尽管最后把钱都如数的换了回去，但此后形象依旧一落千丈！

14. Then, he forcibly broke into her mansion in Kowloon Tong, catching Shen Xing and a wealthy Mr. Wu in the act of infidelity. Subsequently, Li Jun, due to personal issues with Shen Xing, subjected her to violence. Finally, he was taken away by the police on suspicion of burglary and possession of restricted weapons. Chen Hong, upon learning of her husband's extramarital affair, decided to divorce and hoped to put an end to it. Two years after the divorce, Li Jun published a lengthy post on a social platform accusing Chen Hong, which resulted in her years of accumulated reputation being destroyed overnight. Although she eventually got her money back, her image still plummeted from that point on!

15. 与其埋怨世界，不如改变自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，比什么都强。人生无完美，曲折亦风景。别把失去看得过重，相信属于你的风景就在下一个拐弯处。

15. It's better to change yourself than to抱怨 the world. Manage your heart well and do your own things, which is stronger than anything else. Life is not perfect, and twists and turns are also scenery. Don't overvalue what you have lost, and believe that the scenery that belongs to you is just around the next corner.

16. 生活是自己的，千万别为难自己，有什么样的能力，就过什么样的生活。尽力而为，量力而为，做个温暖的人，有自己的喜好，有自己的原则，有自己的信仰。用顺其自然的态度，过随遇而安的生活。余生，站在属于自己的高度，看该看的风景。

16. Life is your own, never put yourself in a difficult situation. Live according to your abilities and capabilities. Strive to do your best, do what you can, be a warm-hearted person, have your own likes and dislikes, principles, and beliefs. Adopt a go-with-the-flow attitude and lead a life that is at ease with any situation. In the remaining years, stand at your own height and view the scenery that belongs to you.

17. 生活是自己的，没有幸福不幸福，只有知足不知足，在自己的生活里独善其身，在别人的生活里顺其自然，看开了，放下了，你会释怀很多！

17. Life is your own, there is no happiness or unhappiness, only contentment or discontent. In your own life, cultivate yourself; in others' lives, go with the flow. When you let go and let things be, you will find a lot of release!

18. 有网友爆料说，陈红现在卧病在床，不能自理。很多网友表示“上半生风光无限，下半生就遭殃，上帝还是公平的。”但是幸运的是，陈红的儿子一直陪在左右，照顾陈红。如果，当初陈红没有剑走偏锋，现在春晚的舞台肯定还有她的位置，还会成为受人敬重的艺术家。可惜没有如果。

18. An internet user爆料 said that Chen Hong is now lying in bed, unable to take care of herself. Many netizens expressed that "the first half of life was full of glory, but the second half is cursed; God is still fair." However, fortunately, Chen Hong's son has been by her side, taking care of her. If, back then, Chen Hong had not taken a detour, she would definitely still have a place on the Spring Festival Gala stage, and would have become a respected artist. But unfortunately, there is no "if."

19. 公哥疗养告一段落，准备回防滨州，心大一些，勤劳勇敢不烦躁，勤劳勇敢慢慢来！公哥，请淡定从容，自信担当，睿智豁达！请努力让自己更优秀，静心开悟！阿弥陀佛！

19. The public elder's recuperation period is over, and he is preparing to return to defend Binzhou. He has a big heart, works diligently and bravely without being impatient, and works diligently and bravely at a slow pace! Elder, please stay calm and composed, be confident and responsible, wise and open-minded! Please strive to be more outstanding, and calm your mind to gain enlightenment! Amen!

20. 醒来，开手机。惊闻杨绛先生过世。一生睿智，淡定从容。与钱钟书先生的爱情佳话更是毕生典范！先生一路走好！

20. Wake up and turn on your phone. Shockingly, I learned that Mr. Yang Jiang passed away. Throughout his life, he was wise and composed. His love story with Mr. Qian Zhongshu is an exemplary love story for a lifetime! May the esteemed Mr. Yang journey well!

21. 最让人唏嘘的是，其实一直以来，在别人的眼里，我们本就是一条路上的旅伴。我们经过那么多的努力，也不过就是为了成为别人眼中的普通人，还会是自己过去最讨厌的那种普通人。

21. What is most pitiful is that, in fact, all along, in others' eyes, we have always been companions on the same journey. Through all our efforts, we have only wanted to become an ordinary person in others' eyes, and we would still be that kind of ordinary person we used to dislike the most.

22. 人生的舞台心有多大世界就有多大，人生就有多宽广，不必仰望别人，自己亦是风景，做回自我，用简单做生命的底色，看山是山，看水是水，微笑向暖，相信总有一个笑脸是为我们而绽放的，总有一处风景会因为我们而美丽。

22. The stage of life is as vast as the heart, and life is as broad as the world. There is no need to look up to others; you are also a sight. Return to your true self, use simplicity as the background of life, see mountains as mountains, see water as water, smile towards warmth, and believe that there is always a smile that blooms for us, and there is always a landscape that becomes beautiful because of us.

23. 未来的点点滴滴，需要我们脚踏实地走出来，每一个人都有不一样的人生，不一样的故事，但是都是精彩的。我们不要轻易否定别人，也不要轻易放弃自己，更不要盲目追逐不属于自己的东西。

23. Every bit and piece of the future requires us to walk it out with our feet firmly on the ground. Each person has a unique life, a unique story, but all are精彩. We should not easily negate others, nor should we easily abandon ourselves, and even more so, we should not blindly chase after things that do not belong to us.

24. 奇葩说聚集了本国最睿智的一群人，看似代表着某高大上阶层的精神领袖们，却又通常接地气与常人无异，原以为我会喜欢高晓松那种自嘲幽默，蔡康永的温柔动情，何炅的淡定从容，后来发现马东东才是集这些优点于一身的魅力典范啊，看脸的我都服的五体投地

24. "The Debate Society has gathered the most intelligent group of people in our country. They seem to represent the spiritual leaders of some high-class society, yet they are usually down-to-earth and no different from ordinary people. Originally, I thought I would like Gaoxiao Song's self-deprecating humor, Tsai Kang-yung's gentle emotions, and He Jiong's calm demeanor. Later, I found out that Ma Dongdong is the epitome of all these virtues, and even someone who judges by looks like me is utterly convinced and admiring."

25. 别忘了答应自己要做的事情，别忘了答应自己要去的地方，无论有多难，有多远。

25. Don't forget the promises you've made to yourself to do certain things, and don't forget the places you've promised yourself to go, no matter how difficult or far it may be.

26. 16其实，信仰是感性的，不是纯由理性推断出来的。

26. In fact, faith is emotional, not purely deduced from rational inference.

27. 昨天，是一道风景，看见了，模糊了；时间是一个过客，记住了，遗忘了；生活是一个漏斗，得到了，失去了；世上没有不平的事，只有不平的心。不去怨，不去恨，淡然一切，往事如烟。有时候，我们做出的最艰难的决定，最终成为我们做过的最漂亮的事。

27. Yesterday was a scenery, once seen, it became blurred; time is a passerby, once remembered, it is forgotten; life is a funnel, once gained, it is lost; there is no injustice in the world, only unjust hearts. Do not complain, do not hate, take things lightly, past events are like smoke. Sometimes, the most difficult decisions we make end up being the most beautiful things we have done.

28. 14事情往往是别扭的，总和希望或想象的不一致。

28. 14 Often things are awkward, not in line with our hopes or imaginations.

29. 有迷茫，也是一件好事。仅有前进的步伐才会迷路。人生有迷茫，说明你在探索，只是暂时没有方向。坚持下去，越是迷茫，越不要轻易地放下，迷茫越久，找到方向的可能性越大。人生的许多成功，往往就是在最困顿的时候到来的。人，不怕迷茫，就怕没有迷茫感的停滞不前。

29. Being confused can also be a good thing. Only by moving forward can you get lost. When you feel confused in life, it means you are exploring, but you don't have a direction at the moment. Stick to it, the more confused you are, the less you should give up easily. The longer the confusion, the greater the possibility of finding a direction. Many successes in life often come at the most difficult times. People are not afraid of confusion, but afraid of the stagnation without a sense of confusion.

30. 10每个人都不同程度地自欺欺人，这就是所谓“妥协”。

30. 10 Everyone to some extent deceives themselves to varying degrees, which is what is called "compromise."

31. 人活一世重要的是经历。苦也好，乐也好，过去的不再重提，追忆过去，只能徒增伤悲，当你掩面叹息的时候，时光已逝，幸福也从你的指缝悄悄的溜走。世上没有不平的事，只有不平的心。不去怨，不去恨，淡然一切，往事如烟。经历了，醉了，醒了，碎了，结束了，忘记吧。珍惜现有的生活，幸福就在你身边。

31. The important thing in living a lifetime is the experiences. Whether it's bitter or joyful, we should not bring up the past again. Recollecting the past can only bring sorrow. When you hide your face and sigh, time has passed, and happiness has quietly slipped through your fingers. There are no unjust things in the world, only unjust hearts. Do not complain, do not hold any grudge, take everything lightly, and let the past be like smoke. After experiencing, getting drunk, waking up, shattering, and coming to an end, let it all be forgotten. Treasure the life you have now, and happiness is right beside you.

32. 其实，能登上春晚的舞台，就已经说明了实力问题。而陈红在之前是春晚每年必请的一位，她的名字也是家喻户晓的。但是随着她带着丈夫的10亿家产远走高飞后也在春晚的舞台上消失了。虽然，陈红消失了，但是大家还是忘不了她演唱的这首歌，因为陈红演绎的非常完美，总是能感动很多人。

32. In fact, being able to perform on the Spring Festival Gala stage already speaks to one's abilities. Chen Hong was previously an annual must-have guest at the gala, and her name was well-known to all. However, after she flew away with her husband's 1 billion yuan fortune, she also disappeared from the Spring Festival Gala stage. Although Chen Hong has disappeared, everyone still can't forget the song she sang, because her performance was very perfect, always able to touch the hearts of many people.

33. 镜子很脏的时候，我们并不会误以为是自己的脸脏。那为什么别人随口说出糟糕的话时，我们要觉得糟糕的是我们自己？

33. When a mirror is dirty, we don't mistakenly think that our face is dirty. So why do we feel that it's ourselves who are at fault when someone casually utters bad words?

34. 这首歌在当时红极一时，几乎是人人哼唱，大街小巷都在播放的歌曲，直到现在仍是流传于大家的耳边。在最红火的那段期间，陈红先后10次登上春晚的舞台，每年都带给观众精彩的歌曲。但是，陈红的传奇没有继续这样延续下去，在事业最为红火的时候，她为爱选择了家庭，嫁给了富商李军。

34. This song was extremely popular at that time, almost everyone sang it, and it was playing in every street and alley. It is still echoing in everyone's ears to this day. During the peak period, Chen Hong appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage 10 times in succession, bringing wonderful songs to the audience every year. However, Chen Hong's legend did not continue in this way. At the height of her career, she chose family over her career, and married a wealthy businessman, Li Jun.

35. 有善心的总会被恶意伤害。你对人真诚，总会有人来骗你。但即使是如此，我们也不要因此而改变自己。因为这不是一个谁受伤谁就输的游戏。

35. Those with good hearts are always hurt by malice. If you are sincere with people, there will always be someone to deceive you. But even so, we should not change ourselves because of this. Because this is not a game where the one who gets hurt loses.

36. 走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，经历的事杂了，不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景，是内心的淡定从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。人生最奢侈的拥有，是一颗不老的童心，一个生生不息的信念，一个健康的身体，一个永远牵手的爱人，一个自由的心态，一份喜欢的工作，一份安稳的睡眠，一份享受生活的美好心情。

36. As the path we have walked becomes longer and we meet more people, and our experiences become more varied, we inadvertently discover that the most enchanting scenery in life is the inner calm and composure, the wise and clear-mindedness of the mind. The most luxurious possession in life is a timeless childlike heart, an ever-vital belief, a healthy body, a lifelong companion who always holds your hand, a free and easy mindset, a job you enjoy, a stable sleep, and a wonderful mood to savor the beauty of life.

37. 所有的合适都是两个人的相互迁就和改变，没有天生合适的两个人，两个人朝着相同的方向努力，便是最好的爱情。

37. All compatibility is about mutual compromise and change between two people. There are no two people who are naturally compatible, and when two individuals strive towards the same direction, that is the best form of love.

38. 1凭一己的经历，沾沾自以为独具冷眼，阅尽人间，安知不招人暗笑。

38. 1 Based on my own experiences, I smugly believe that I have a unique cold eye, having seen the world. How could I not be aware that I might be secretly mocked by others?

39. 可以说她的事业发展的顺风顺水，但她的感情经历却是有些曲折，熟悉她的人都知道，她曾在事业正当红的时候，退出了娱乐圈中，嫁给了富豪丈夫，婚后两人有了孩子，她也就因为家庭而彻底的放弃了事业了，但可惜的是，她的丈夫后来居然出轨，到最后两人离婚。

39. It can be said that her career has developed smoothly, but her romantic experiences have been somewhat tortuous. Those who are familiar with her know that at the peak of her career, she withdrew from the entertainment industry, married a wealthy husband, and after marriage, they had a child. She completely abandoned her career due to her family. Unfortunately, her husband eventually cheated on her, and in the end, the two divorced.

40. 人生能有几回搏？此时不搏，更待何时？人生就是一个拚搏的过程，与时间赛跑，与厄运抗争，与缺点对立，与自卑搏击，都是人生的拚搏。因为拚搏，书写人生的凌云壮志；有了拚搏，才能让自身更加强大。

40. How many times can one strive in life? If not now, when else? Life is a process of striving, a race against time, a fight against misfortune, standing against flaws, and battling self-doubt – all of these are forms of life's striving. It is through striving that one writes grand ambitions in life; with striving, one can become stronger.

41. 4世间也有隐身衣，只是世人非但不以为宝，还唯恐穿在身上。因为这种隐身衣的料子是卑微，身处卑微，人家就视而不见，见而无睹。

41. 4 In the world, there are also invisibility cloaks, but people not only do not consider them as treasures, but are even afraid to wear them. Because the material of this invisibility cloak is humble, and when one is in a humble state, others choose to ignore and disregard them.

42. 花开了，我就画花；花谢了，我就画我自己；你来了，我当然画你；你走了，我就画一画回忆。

42. When the flowers bloom, I paint flowers; when the flowers wither, I paint myself; when you come, of course, I paint you; and when you leave, I paint a memory.

43. 不要轻易被影响，也别太过有理智。人不能活得太明白，心里知道就好。

43. Don't be easily influenced, and don't be too rational. People can't live too clearly; it's enough to know in your heart.

44. 谁的心里，在最柔软的地方，都蕴含着一道绚丽风景，尘封了一段难言往事。尽管世事繁杂，素心依旧，初衷不改；尽管颠簸游离，脚步如初，痴念不变；尽管岁月沧桑，当下似昨，光阴不争。守住那些碎片，演绎至真境界，悠然豁达；呵护那截思绪，幻化无穷睿智，淡定从容。

44. In the softest corner of everyone's heart, there lies a resplendent landscape, sealed away a difficult-to-mention past. Despite the complexities of the world, the pure heart remains unchanged, and the original intention is unaltered; despite the turbulent and wandering life, the pace is as steady as ever, and the obsession remains the same; despite the vicissitudes of time, the present seems like yesterday, and time does not argue. Hold on to those fragments, act out the truest realm, be leisurely and open-minded; cherish that thought, transform into infinite wisdom, be calm and composed.

45. 勤修戒定慧熄灭贪嗔痴的出世精神。做人向僧人学习、守时守信。变得再也不是我认识的你了、你变了：学习僧人和气睿智：淡定从容；吃苦耐劳。徒弟留言告诉我有人问他你的师父对你是怎么要求的。做事向军人学习

45. Devote yourself to the practice of precepts, meditation, and wisdom to extinguish the defilements of greed, anger, and ignorance. As a person, learn from monks, be punctual, and keep your word. You are no longer the person I knew, you have changed: learning from the monks, you become gentle and wise; calm and composed; and hardworking and enduring. A disciple left me a message to tell me that someone asked him how your teacher requires of you. Learn to do things from soldiers.

46. 18一个人没有经验，没有学问，没有天才，也会有要好向上的心，尽管有志无成。

46. 18 Even someone without experience, without knowledge, and without talent can still have a good and upward heart, though they may not have achieved much with their aspirations.

47. 7谁说天地无情？它只微微的笑，轻轻的叹息，只许抑制着的风拂拂吹动。因为一放松，天地便主持不住。

47. Who says that the heavens and the earth are without feeling? They merely smile faintly, sigh gently, allowing only the restrained wind to sway softly. For if they were to relax, the heavens and the earth would not be able to sustain themselves.

48. 不管我们遭遇了什么，始终要保持好的心态，向阳而生，拥抱阳光，积极乐观，不要沮丧，不要着急，人生顺其自然，坦然面对，一切都是最好的安排，该来的都在路上。

48. No matter what we encounter, we should always maintain a positive attitude, grow towards the sun, embrace the sunshine, be optimistic and proactive, do not be despondent, do not rush, let life take its course naturally, face it calmly, everything is the best arrangement, and what is to come is already on its way.

49. 人生就是一场无止境的漂泊。面对生活中那些触不及防的意外、突如其来的伤痛、从天而降的灾难，相信，只要有爱，就有足够的勇气去承受人生中所有的风雨，一切会变得轻松而释然。

49. Life is an endless journey. In the face of unexpected surprises, sudden pain, and disasters that fall from the sky in life, believe that as long as there is love, there is enough courage to bear all the storms and trials in life, and everything will become light and serene.

50. 幸福就是一种感觉。人生路上，首须看远，别让生活的压力挤走快乐，真正的痛苦，没有人能与你分担。成长就是这样，痛并快乐着。你得接受这个世界带给你的所有伤害，然后无所谓惧的长大。

50. Happiness is just a feeling. On the journey of life, one must first look far ahead, and do not let the pressures of life squeeze out joy. True pain, no one can share with you. Growth is like this, painful yet joyful. You have to accept all the injuries that this world brings to you, and then grow up without fear.

51. 朗诵，唤醒了沈睡在心里最美的那道风景。初遇《朗读者》，顿觉一种风度、一种境界、一种睿智，让你悠然豁达、淡定从容的守住这道风景

51. Recitation has awakened the most beautiful scenery that was sleeping in the heart. Upon my first encounter with "The Reader," I instantly felt a demeanor, a realm, and a wisdom that allows one to calmly and composedly hold onto this scenery.

52. 男人的帅不在脸蛋，而在岁月拼搏中成长的睿智成熟和淡定从容。

52. A man's attractiveness does not lie in his facial features, but in the wise maturity and composed calmness he gains through years of struggle and growth.

53. 内心越独立，重要的人就越少。有些人，你看不清，不是因为相隔太远，而是因为走得太近。有时候，你以为有的人变了，其实不是他们变了，而是他们的面具掉了。多和优秀的人在一起，他们就像一团光芒，呆久了，就再也不想走回黑暗了。

53. The more independent one is internally, the fewer important people there are. Some people, you can't see clearly, not because they are too far away, but because you have gotten too close. Sometimes, you think some people have changed, but actually, it's not them who have changed; it's their masks that have fallen off. Spend more time with outstanding people; they are like a ball of light. After staying with them for a while, you no longer want to return to the darkness.

54. 11世间好物不坚牢，彩云易散琉璃脆”。现在只剩下了我一人。我清醒地看到以前当作“我们家”的寓所，只是旅途上的客栈而已。家在哪里，我不知道。我还在寻觅归途。

54. "The good things in the world are not durable, the colorful clouds easily dissipate, and the glass is fragile." Now, there is only me left. I clearly see that the apartment that was once considered "our home" is just a guesthouse on a journey. Where is home, I do not know. I am still searching for my way back.

55. 凡事不必太在意，一切随缘，人生百年弹指间，潮起潮落便是一天，花开花谢便是一季，月圆月缺便是一年，人生路上不可能时时阳光相伴，不可能处处风平浪静，如果改变不了事实，那就改变我们的心态吧。

55. Do not take everything too seriously; let things be as they are. Life spans a hundred years like a flicker of the fingers, the rise and fall of tides make up a day, the blooming and withering of flowers a season, the full and waning of the moon a year. On the path of life, it is impossible for the sun to shine constantly or for the sea to be calm everywhere. If we cannot change the facts, then let us change our mindset.

56. 人生在世，想得开是天堂，想不开就是地狱。你在意什么，什么就折磨你，你计较什么，什么叫困扰你。人这辈子，天大的事，只要顺其自然，也不过如此。

56. In life, being open-minded is heaven, while being stubborn is hell. What you care about will torment you, and what you are concerned about will trouble you. Throughout this lifetime, even the greatest matters are no more than what happens naturally.

57. 人总爱跟别人比较，看看有谁比自己好，又有谁比不上自己。而其实，为你的烦恼和忧伤垫底的，从来不是别人的不幸和痛苦，而是你自己的态度。

57. People always like to compare themselves with others, to see who is better than them and who is not as good as them. In fact, what lies at the bottom of your worries and sadness is never the misfortunes and sufferings of others, but your own attitude.

58. 不管任何时候，都要不乱于心，不困于情，知道自己要的是什么，知道自己在做什么，认真做好该做的事，努力过好每一天，让自己的人生高度一直向上，让自己的人生不虚此行。

58. At any time, remain composed in your heart, not entangled by emotions, know what you want, know what you are doing, take the things you should do seriously, strive to live each day well, and let your life's height always go upwards, making sure your journey through life is not in vain.

59. 你知道该放下却放不下的人，你明白做错了却改不回的事，想断不能断的关系，想忘忘不了的往事，所有有了答案却还暂时无解的难题，你放心，往前走，直觉会把你带到终点，都会过去，都会放下，都会解开。

59. You know the person you should let go of but can't, the things you realize you've done wrong but can't change, the relationships you want to end but can't, the past you wish to forget but can't, all the puzzles that have answers but still seem unsolvable, take heart. Keep moving forward, your intuition will guide you to the end. Everything will pass, everything will be let go of, and everything will be resolved.

60. 人生不能靠心情活着，而要靠心态去生活。生活中，不言弃，因为活着；不言苦，因为幸福；不言累，因为有阳光，有微笑，有温暖。没有感情，也许就没有疼痛；没有经历，也许就不懂珍惜；没有思念，也许就不知道深深的爱。

60. Life cannot be lived by mood, but by attitude. In life, never give up because you are alive; never complain about hardship because happiness exists; never talk about fatigue because there is sunlight, smiles, and warmth. Without emotions, perhaps there would be no pain; without experiences, perhaps one would not know how to cherish; without longing, perhaps one would not know the depth of love.