1. 35世事早就已经擦肩而过，我们又何必反复追忆，反复提起。是时候和昨天告别了，忘记一切，也原谅一切。是真的忘记，做到心平气和，在安稳的现世里，循规蹈矩的过日子。不再追求虚浮的奢华，不再喜好俏丽的颜色，不再渴望热烈的爱情。只愿在简约的四季里，穿粗布素衣，和某个平淡的人，一同老去，相约白头。

1. The 35 years have long passed by, why should we keep revisiting and bringing it up again and again? It's time to bid farewell to yesterday, to forget everything and forgive everything. To truly forget, to maintain a calm and peaceful mind, to live a life by the rules in a stable world. No longer to pursue vain luxury, no longer to like bright colors, no longer to yearn for passionate love. I wish only to live through the simple four seasons, wearing coarse and plain clothes, growing old with someone plain, promising to go gray together.

2. 夫妻生活中最可贵的莫过于真诚、信任和体贴。

2. The most valuable things in a married life are sincerity, trust, and consideration.

3. 有时候，我们并非走出了伤痛，不过是学会了带着伤痛继续生活。

3. Sometimes, it's not that we've moved past the pain, but rather that we've learned to live with it.

4. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。

4. If one can speak out their grievances, they are not really grievances; if one can take away their beloved, they are not really a beloved.

5. 为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人，时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义？

5. Why do you have to forget someone so painfully, when time will naturally make you forget? If time cannot help you forget someone who shouldn't be remembered, what is the meaning of the years we lose?

6. 童话说雨后会有一道彩虹，却不曾说过它也会转瞬成空。

6. Folk tales say that there will be a rainbow after the rain, but they never mention that it can also disappear in an instant.

7. 夕阳西下，是我最想念的时候，对着你在的那个城市，说了一声：我想你，不知道，你是否听得到。

7. As the sunset sets in the west, it is the moment I miss you the most. Facing the city where you are, I whispered, "I miss you." I don't know if you can hear me.

8. 婚姻的持久靠的是两颗心，而不是双方的肉体。

8. The durability of marriage depends on two hearts, not the physical bodies of both parties.

9. 那晚我记得你哭了我们抱在一起哭了。这是因为爱吗？

9. That night, I remember you cried, and we held each other while crying. Was it because of love?

10. 你真的好烦，烦得让我冥思苦想也找不出任何一个忘记你的理由。

10. You really are a pest, annoying me so much that even if I ponder deeply, I can't find any reason to forget you.

11. 我站在你的身旁，煽起天使的翅膀，当月光变成了你的目光，我的心已然荡漾。

11. Standing by your side, I flap the wings of an angel, as the moonlight turns into your gaze, my heart is already swaying.

12. 21在爱情方面，别有用心的虚假总比真面目可爱，就因为此，才有许多男人肯在一般手段高明的女骗子身上挥金如土。

12. In terms of love, deliberate false pretenses are always more endearing than the truth. Because of this, many men are willing to lavish money on women swindlers who are skilled in their usual tactics.

13. 34成熟的爱情，敬意、忠心并不轻易表现出来，它的声音是低的，它是谦逊的、退让的、潜伏的，等待了又等待。 狄更斯

13. Maturity in love, respect, and loyalty is not easily expressed; its voice is low, it is humble, yielding, and潜伏的，等待了又等待。狄更斯

14. 爱情就像往盐里加糖，分开糖，盐是咸的，在一起才是甜的，搅匀了之后才发现是幸福的；祝你幸福！

14. Love is like adding sugar to salt; when the sugar is separated, the salt is salty, but when they are together, they are sweet. It's only after stirring them well that you realize it is happiness; wishing you happiness!

15. 职业有如婚姻，久而久之，大家只觉得它有敝无利。

15. A profession is like a marriage; over time, everyone only perceives its drawbacks without any benefits.

16. 走不到一块就分开，仅此而已。不需要理由，幸福就是要简单。

16. If we can't walk together, then we part ways. That's all there is to it. No need for reasons; happiness is meant to be simple.

17. 婚姻是爱情的坟墓——如果没有房子，你连坟墓都进不去。

17. Marriage is the grave of love — without a house, you can't even enter the grave.

18. 你爱他吗？爱就告诉他，何必把思念之苦藏在心底深处。怕样子，地位，身份不相配？别怕，爱一个人是美好的。

18. Do you love him? If you do, tell him. Why hide the pain of longing deep in your heart? Are you afraid that your appearance, status, or identity don't match? Don't be afraid, loving someone is beautiful.

19. 你知道思念一个人的滋味吗，就像喝了一大杯冰水，然后用很长很长的时间流成热泪。

19. Do you know the taste of missing someone? It's like drinking a large glass of ice water and then spending a very long time watching it turn into warm tears.

20. 我不能保证爱你到地老天荒，但是我可以保证爱你爱到我咽下最后一口气。我会让触摸到这真实的爱。

20. I cannot guarantee to love you until the end of time, but I can promise to love you until my last breath. I will let you experience this genuine love.

21. 上帝创造了男人是为了使他孤独，而创造女人是为了让他更孤独。

21. God created man to be lonely, and created woman to make him even lonelier.

22. 5好的爱情是你透过一个男人看到世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。--《幸福の鱼面颊》

22. Good love is seeing the world through a man, and bad love is sacrificing the world for one person. -- "The Fish of Happiness"

23. 爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式爱你，那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。

23. If the person who loves you does not love you in the way you wish, it does not mean they do not love you wholeheartedly.

24. 也许爱情是一部忧伤的童话，惟其遥远与真实。放弃一个爱你的人并不痛苦，放弃一个你爱的人那才痛苦。

24. Perhaps love is a sad fairy tale, only because it is distant and real. It's not painful to let go of someone who loves you, but it's painful to let go of someone you love.

25. 10爱情是容易被怀疑的幻觉，一旦被识破就自动灰飞烟灭。

25. 10 Love is an easily suspected illusion, which automatically fades away and vanishes when discovered.

26. 后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪，后悔是比损失更大的损失，比错误更大的错误，所以不要后悔。

26. Regret is an emotionally draining emotion, and regret is a greater loss than the actual loss, a greater mistake than the mistake itself, so do not regret.

27. 不能坦白地放声哭喊，要从心底拿走一个人很痛很难。

27. It is very painful and difficult to openly cry out from the bottom of one's heart.

28. 爱一个人，其实很简单。他让你流泪，让你失望，尽管这样，他站在那里，你还是会走过去牵他的手，不由自主。

28. To love someone is actually very simple. He makes you cry and lets you down, yet despite that, you still go to him and take his hand, without even realizing it.

29. 找一个相守一生的人，未必要完美，甚至未必是至爱，只要同路就好，可以结伴而行，不至一生寂寞，足够了。

29. Find someone to share your life with, it doesn't have to be perfect, nor does it necessarily have to be the greatest love, as long as you are on the same path, it is enough to travel together, so that you won't be lonely for a lifetime.

30. 因为有爱，我们不放弃，感情是解决一切问题的动力。

30. Because of love, we do not give up; emotions are the driving force to resolve all problems.

31. 一个男人能不能给你安全感，完全不取决于他的身高，而取决于他的心高。高大而窝囊的男人我见过不少。矮小而昂扬的男人我也见过。一个男人要心高气傲，这样才像男人。当然，前提是要有才华。

31. Whether a man can give you a sense of security does not depend on his height, but on the height of his character. I have seen many tall and timid men. I have also seen short but spirited men. A man must be proud and self-assured in his heart, that's what makes him a man. Of course, the prerequisite is to have talent.

32. 不结婚也可以有爱有性，就像不结果实也能有春夏秋冬四季。但是，不结婚就分不到福利房。

32. You can have love and sex without getting married, just like you can experience the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter without bearing fruit. However, if you don't get married, you won't be eligible for the welfare housing.

33. 只为金钱而结婚的人其恶无比；只为恋爱而结婚的人其愚无比。

33. Those who marry solely for money are incredibly evil; those who marry solely for love are incredibly foolish.

34. 如果我伤害了你，请你不要讨厌我，因为我是最爱你的人。

34. If I have hurt you, please do not hate me, for I am the one who loves you the most.

35. 如果，不幸福，如果，不快乐，那就放手吧；如果，舍不得、放不下，那就痛苦吧。

35. If you are not happy, if you are not joyful, then let go; if you can't bear to let go, then endure the pain.

36. 19生活，这就是我的生活!我第一次自觉地对命运发出如此任性的旨意。这一次的任性是由于我早已钦定的爱人失而复得，如同正午的阳光那样热烈充实，并且势不可挡。我怀揣着飞蛾扑火一般的莽撞坠入爱情。薛绍等于快乐，等于我的生活，在重逢后的日子里，我动用全部智慧和想象在脑中反复演绎着这个迷人公式，直到那一天，我确认这就是关于大唐公主的命运的真理。那曾经漫无国的的浮艳生活从此将具有沉实的走向，从而真正与我的幸福发生情感上的联系。

36. 19 Life, that is my life! For the first time, I have consciously issued such a capricious command to fate. This capriciousness is due to the fact that the beloved one whom I had long admired was lost and then found again, as fierce and full as the noonday sun, and irresistible. I plunged headlong into love with the recklessness of a moth drawn to the flame. Xue Shao equals happiness, equals my life. In the days after our reunion, I used all my wisdom and imagination to repeatedly perform this charming formula in my mind, until that day when I confirmed that this was the truth about the destiny of the Tang Dynasty princess. The previously aimless and showy life would now take a solid direction, truly connecting with my happiness emotionally.

37. 17爱情，总是出现在不经意间，在你最狼狈不堪的时候，在你最仓皇失措的时候，在你以为三十岁的人生已经枯萎的时候，爱情来了

37. 17. Love always appears unexpectedly, in the moments when you are at your most disheveled, when you are at your most flustered, and when you think the thirties have withered your life, love comes.

38. 如果命运安排我们在一起，我会好好珍惜你；如果命运安排我们要分离，我会好好珍惜自己。我爱你！

38. If fate arranges for us to be together, I will cherish you; if fate arranges for us to part, I will cherish myself. I love you!

39. 非常高兴与你一起渡过的每一分钟，希望能使你每时都能开心，想起你的名字感觉很甜蜜，期望着与你再见！

39. I'm very happy with every minute spent with you, and hope it brings you joy every moment. It feels sweet to think of your name, and I'm looking forward to seeing you again!

40. 在真正幸福的婚姻中，友谊必须与爱情融合在一起。

40. In a truly happy marriage, friendship must be blended with love.

41. 天空飘起雨，淋湿你的背影，为你努力我坚定，挂上一颗彩虹般的心。

41. Rain clouds drift across the sky, wetting the back of your silhouette, I am determined in my efforts for you, hanging a heart as radiant as a rainbow.

42. 笨男人笨女人结婚；笨男人聪明女人离婚；聪明男人笨女人婚外情；聪明男人聪明女人浪漫爱情。

42. Stupid men and women get married; stupid men and intelligent women get divorced; intelligent men and stupid women have affairs outside marriage; intelligent men and intelligent women have romantic love.

43. 不是我们没话讲了，而是我们都变了不再是你想说什么就说什么。

43. It's not that we have nothing to say anymore, but we have all changed; it's no longer that you can say whatever you want.

44. 8爱情中的欢乐和痛苦是交替出现的。 乔拜伦

44. Joy and sorrow in love alternate. - Joseph Bérangère

45. 也曾想过爱你一辈子……可有人说两个好人也不能生活在一起，我终于相信了！

45. I had thought of loving you for a lifetime... but someone said even two good people can't live together, and finally, I believed it!

46. 女人容易迁怒，爱胡思乱想，烦恼又不是布匹，说剪断就剪断，唯一的办法只有觉醒、面对和超越。

46. Women tend to take things out on others and are prone to overthinking and worrying. Troubles are not like fabric that can be cut off as easily as spoken; the only way out is through awakening, facing, and transcending.

47. 有一种温暖，那是相拥的幸福；有一种语言，那是交流的喜悦；有一种快乐，那是体贴的感动；有一种感情，那是你我的爱情。只想和你牵手，一直到老。

47. There is a warmth, which is the happiness of embracing; there is a language, which is the joy of communication; there is a joy, which is the touching of consideration; and there is a feeling, which is the love between you and me. I just want to hold your hand, until the end of our lives.

48. 只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你，把所有的阳光灿烂都给你。

48. Only wish to meet you in the most beautiful years of my life, and give you all the bright sunshine.

49. 38很多人说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，但是能够入土为安的爱情总比暴尸街头要好。

49. 38 Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, but love that can rest in peace is always better than love that is left to rot in the streets.

50. 有人说，美满的婚姻要由瞎子女人和聋子男人缔成，我觉得此人对婚姻的了解可谓透彻。

50. Some say that a happy marriage should be formed by a blind woman and a deaf man, and I think this person has a profound understanding of marriage.

51. 23甲喜欢乙，乙喜欢丙，爱情本来就是这样。

51. 23A likes B, and B likes C. Love is like that, after all.

52. 既已相遇，何忍分离？愿年年岁岁永相依，朝朝暮暮心相携，柔情似水，佳期如梦。

52. Since we have met, how can we bear to part? May we be eternally dependent on each other, year after year, day and night, our hearts intertwined, tender as water, and our joyous times like a dream.

53. 没有爱情的婚姻是不道德的婚姻，仅有爱情的婚姻是不现实的婚姻。

53. Marriage without love is an immoral marriage, and marriage that is based solely on love is an unrealistic marriage.

54. 我怕等我有能力的那天，已经找不到你们了。

54. I'm afraid by the time I have the ability, I may have lost you all.

55. 假如每次想起你我都会得到一朵鲜花，那么我将永远在花丛中徜徉。

55. If every time I think of you I receive a flower, then I will forever wander amidst the flowers.

56. 我想让你在这寒夜感受一份火热的爱意，拥你入怀，手是冰冷的，但心是暖的。我将用我的心来温暖你的一切。

56. I want you to feel a burning love in this cold night, to embrace you in my arms. My hands are cold, but my heart is warm. I will warm everything of yours with my heart.