1. 你知道人类最重要的特质是什么吗？不是执行的能力，不是伟大的心智，不是仁慈，不是勇气，也不是幽默感，虽然这些都很重要。

1. Do you know what the most important trait of humans is? It is not the ability to execute, not the great mind, not kindness, not courage, nor humor, although all these are very important.

2. 人生最大的敌人是自己。此话最为重要。人的一生总会遇到一些敌人，如流氓、无赖、小人，此等衣冠禽兽之徒可恶之极，但看穿了，也无非是一堆垃圾。人最大的敌人，还是人自己。一个人能战胜自己，也就攻无不克、战无不胜了。怕的是自己患了病，茫然不知，处事犹豫不决，或过高地估价自己，由此而自大;或过分地崇拜他人，由此而自卑。一旦战胜自己，也就在思想上有了一个飞跃，人生会打开新的一页。

2. The greatest enemy in life is oneself. This is the most important point. In one's lifetime, people will inevitably encounter some enemies, such as ruffians, scoundrels, and little men. These despicable creatures are extremely detestable, but when you see through them, they are nothing but a pile of garbage. The greatest enemy of a person is still themselves. If a person can conquer themselves, they can conquer everything and win every battle. What is feared is that one may be sick without realizing it, hesitating in dealing with matters, or overestimating oneself, thereby becoming arrogant; or excessively idolizing others, thereby feeling inferior. Once one conquers oneself, there is also a leap in their thoughts, and life will open a new chapter.

3. 多数人记不住别人的姓名，只是因为他们没有下必要的功夫和精力去记忆，他们给自己找借口：他们太忙。

3. Most people cannot remember others' names simply because they have not put in the necessary effort and energy to memorize them. They make excuses for themselves: they are too busy.

4. 3世俗有“时间是金钱”这句话，所以窃取他人时间的小偷，当然该加以处罚，即使是那些愉快的好人，还是该如忌讳疾病地躲避他们。

4.3 There is a saying in the secular world that "time is money," so thieves who steal others' time should certainly be punished, and even those pleasant good people should avoid them as they would avoid illness.

5. 20行动好像是跟随感觉走的，其实不是如此，行动是与感觉平行的，我们能使直接受意志支配的行动有规律，也能间接的使不直接受意志制约的支配有规律。

5. The 20 actions may seem to follow feelings, but that is not the case; actions are parallel to feelings. We can make actions directly controlled by will regular, and we can also indirectly regulate the actions that are not directly constrained by will.

6. 真正的读书使瞌睡者醒来，给未定目标者选择适当的目标。正当的书籍指示人以正道，使其避免误入歧途。

6. True reading rouses the drowsy to wakefulness, provides appropriate goals for those without aims. Proper books guide people on the right path, helping them avoid going astray.

7. 世上充满有乐趣的事，在如此多姿多彩的世界中，千万不能容许自己过得无聊。

7. There are so many enjoyable things in the world, and in such a colorful and diverse world, one must never allow oneself to live in boredom.

8. 7你可能明白了人类处世的天性——做错事的人只会责备别人，绝不责备自己。

8. 7 You may have understood the human nature in dealing with the world — those who make mistakes only blame others, never themselves.

9. 朝着一定目标走去是“志”，一鼓作气中途绝不停止“气”，两者合起来就是“志气”。一切事业的成败都取决于此。

9. Striving towards a certain goal is "will," maintaining a strong momentum without stopping halfway is "vigor," and when combined, they become "will and vigor." The success or failure of all endeavors depends on this.

10. 人生如舞台，如果你单单叙述一件事情，就无法打动人心。

10. Life is like a stage, and if you merely narrate a single event, you cannot touch the hearts of others.

11. 成功者与失败者最大的差异，在于成功者会设法由失败中获益，再尝试别的方法。

11. The biggest difference between successful people and failures is that successful people will try to benefit from their failures and then attempt different methods.

12. 一个不注意小事情的人，永远不会成功大事业。

12. A person who does not pay attention to small matters will never succeed in great undertakings.

13. 25与人沟通的诀窍就是:谈论别人最为愉悦事情。

13. The secret to communicating with others is to talk about the things that bring them the most joy.

14. 能让一个人开怀大笑，你已铺平了与他之间的友谊大道。跟你一起欢笑的人，或多或少，是喜欢你的。

14. If you can make someone laugh heartily, you have paved the way for friendship with them. Those who laugh with you, to some extent or another, like you.

15. 我们大多数人不是为昨天懊恼，就是为了明天担忧，偏偏不肯好好把握今天!

15. Most of us are either regretting yesterday or worrying about tomorrow, yet we refuse to properly grasp and make the most of today!

16. 要想让这个世界更快乐，其实轻而易举。为什么？只要对寂寞灰心者说几句真诚的赞赏的话就可以了。虽然你可能明天就忘记了今天说的话，但接受者可能珍视一生。

16. It's actually quite easy to make this world happier. Why? Just a few sincere words of praise to someone who feels lonely and despondent are enough. Even though you might forget what you said today tomorrow, the recipient may cherish it for a lifetime.

17. 16想要让别人做事的办法只有一种。你知道是什么吗？是的，只有惟一的一种方法，那就是令他自己想要去做。 文库网辑录

17. There is only one way to make others do things. Do you know what it is? Yes, there is only one method, and that is to make him want to do it himself. Collection from Wenku Net

18. 只要你“装出”对工作感兴趣的样子，就有可能使你产生真正的兴趣，也可能减少你的倦怠、紧张与忧虑。

18. As long as you "act" as if you are interested in your work, it is possible to genuinely cultivate an interest, and it may also reduce your burnout, tension, and anxiety.

19. 一个不注意小事情的人，永远不会成就大事业。

19. A person who does not pay attention to small matters will never achieve great undertakings.

20. 我们常常会有很多机会，可是因为没有做好准备，很少能发现这些机会。好好注意你身边的机会。

20. We often have many opportunities, but because we are not well-prepared, we rarely discover these opportunities. Pay close attention to the opportunities around you.

21. 赢取友谊与影响他人最有效的方法之一，是认真对待别人的想法，让他觉得他很重要。

21. One of the most effective ways to win friendship and influence others is to take their thoughts seriously and make them feel important.

22. 16私有财产，财富的积累法则，竞争法则，所有这些都是人类经历的最高结果，是迄今为止社会结出最佳果实的土壤。

22. 16 Private property, the law of accumulation of wealth, the law of competition – all these are the highest achievements of human experience, and the soil from which society has yielded its best fruits so far.

23. 6在人生的道路上能谦让三分，即能天宽地阔，消除一切困难，解除一切纠葛。

23. 6 If one can be accommodating and yield an inch on the path of life, it can lead to a vast and open sky, eliminating all difficulties and resolving all entanglements.

24. 17关心他人与其他人际关系的原则是一样的，必须出于真诚不仅付出关心的人应该这样，接受关心的人也应当如此。

24. The principles of caring for others and interpersonal relationships are the same; it must come from sincerity. Not only should those who show concern do so sincerely, but those who receive care should also be sincere in their acceptance.

25. 现实生活中有些人之所以会出现交际的障碍，就是因为他们不懂的忘记一个重要的原则：让他人感到自己重要。

25. In real life, some people encounter communication barriers because they fail to understand and adhere to an important principle: making others feel important.

26. 如果希望成为一个善于谈话的人，那就先做一个致意倾听的人。

26. If you wish to become a good conversationalist, first be a person who listens attentively with a gesture of respect.

27. 18行为胜于言论，对人微笑就是向人表明:"我喜欢你，你使我快乐，我喜欢见到你"。

27. Actions speak louder than words. A smile at someone is a way of telling them: "I like you, you bring me joy, and I enjoy being around you."

28. 你见过不开心的马吗？或忧愁的鸟吗？它们没有烦恼，因为它们不必在同类面前显耀自己。

28. Have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sorrowful bird? They have no worries because they do not have to炫耀 themselves in front of their peers.

29. 要想让这个世界更快乐，其实轻而易举。为什么只要对寂寞灰心者说几句真诚的赞赏的话就可以了。虽然你可能明天就忘记了今天说的话，但接受者可能珍视一生。

29. It's actually quite easy to make this world a happier place. Why? Because just a few sincere words of praise to a despondent loner can do the trick. Even though you might forget what you said today tomorrow, the recipient may treasure it for a lifetime.

30. 当一个人的改变起自他本身，他已经不是一个平常人了。

30. When a person's change originates from within themselves, they are no longer an ordinary person.

31. 20要想让别人得到快乐，其实轻而易举。只要对那些寂寞灰心者说几句真诚的赞赏就可以了。也许你今天说的话到了明天就忘记了，但接收者却会珍视一生。

31. 20 To make others happy is actually quite easy. Just say a few sincere compliments to those who are lonely and discouraged. Maybe what you say today will be forgotten tomorrow, but the receiver will cherish it for a lifetime.

32. 38如果我们想交朋友，就要先为别人做些事——那些需要花时间体力体贴奉献才能做到的事。

32. 38 If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others—things that require time, physical effort, and consideration to accomplish.

33. 如果我们想交朋友，就要先为别人做些事那些需要花时间体力体贴奉献才能做到的事。

33. If we want to make friends, we must first do things for others that require time, physical effort, affection, and dedication.

34. 判断力加上企图心，再以火力作为调味料，这就是趁工的精美食谱。

34. Judgment combined with ambition, seasoned with fire power, this is the gourmet recipe for taking advantage of the situation.

35. 对一个有经验的校长来说，他的注意和关心的中心就是课。经验证明，听课和分析课是校长的一项极为重要的工作。(《给教师的建议》第427页)

35. For an experienced principal, the focus of his attention and care is on the class. Experience has shown that listening to and analyzing classes is a very important task for the principal. (Advice to Teachers, page 427)

36. 愿意担当责任的人，不论身处何地，都比别人容易脱颖而出。张开双臂，迎接责任吧！小事负责，大事也负责，成功必将属于你。

36. Those willing to take on responsibilities, regardless of where they are, are more likely to stand out among others. Open your arms and embrace responsibility! Be responsible for the small things as well as the big ones, and success will surely belong to you.

37. 12人类最重要的特质，不是执行的能力，不是伟大的心智，不是仁慈，不是勇气，也不是幽默感，虽然这些都极为重要。我个人认为，最重要的是交朋友的能力，说到其本质，其实也就是欣赏别人优点的能力。

37. The most important trait of humans is not the ability to execute, not the greatness of the mind, not kindness, not courage, nor humor, although all these are extremely important. Personally, I believe that the most important is the ability to make friends, which, at its essence, is actually the ability to appreciate others' strengths.

38. 每个bai人都应该有真正兴奋的事，或至少du有项嗜好，这样才能使他的心灵zhi更丰富，生活dao更有热忱；而且也许只有这样才能对他的国家有所贡献。

38. Every person should have something truly exciting to do, or at least an interest, so that their spirit can become richer and their life more passionate; and perhaps only in this way can they make a contribution to their country.

39. 今天就是生命——你惟一确实拥有的生命。充分运用今天吧！对某些事激发点兴趣吧！把你自己摇醒吧！培养一种嗜好。让真正的热忱袭卷你。把今天活出趣味来！

39. Today is life — the only truly life you have. Make full use of today! Take some interest in certain things! Wake yourself up! Cultivate a hobby. Let genuine passion take over you. Live today with fun!

40. 我们大多数人不是为昨天懊恼，就是为了明天担忧，偏偏不肯好好把握今天！

40. Most of us are either regretting yesterday or worrying about tomorrow, but we just won't properly grasp the present!

41. 对于改变，应该常持开放的心态，欢迎它，礼遇它。只有不断省察自己的想法及意见，才能保持进步。

41. We should always hold an open mind towards change, welcome it, and treat it with respect. Only by constantly examining our own thoughts and opinions can we maintain progress.

42. 下定决心，排除万难， 拼搏奋进，勇往直前， 成功一定属于自己! 敢于拼搏，用不懈争取进步;自强不息，用汗水浇灌理想;

42. Determined to overcome all difficulties, strive hard and advance, dare to forge ahead, success will definitely belong to oneself! Bravely struggle, persistently strive for progress; never stop self-improvement, and water one's ideals with sweat.

43. 只要你深信自己做的是对的，就不要让任何事情拖累你。世上的丰功伟业无不是对抗不可能的结果。重要的是不计困难，完成工作。

43. As long as you firmly believe that what you are doing is right, let nothing weigh you down. All great achievements in the world are the result of overcoming the impossible. What is important is to persevere and complete the work regardless of the difficulties.

44. 有心无难事，有诚路定通，正确的心态能让你的人生更坦然舒心。当然，心态是依靠你自己调整的，只要你愿意，你就可以给自己的一个正确的心态。

44. With a determined heart, there are no difficult things; with sincerity, the path is sure to be open. The right mindset can make your life more serene and comfortable. Of course, it is up to you to adjust your mindset. As long as you are willing, you can give yourself a correct mindset.

45. 行动好像是跟随感觉走的，其实不是如此，行动是与感觉平行的，我们能使直接受意志支配的行动有规律，也能间接的使不直接受意志制约的支配有规律。

45. Action seems to follow sensation, but in reality, it is not so. Action is parallel to sensation; we can regulate actions directly controlled by will, and can also indirectly regulate actions not directly controlled by will.

46. 尽量在舒适的情况下工作。记住，身体的紧张会制造肩痛和精神疲劳。

46. Work in as comfortable a manner as possible. Remember, physical tension can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.

47. 19为什么我们不用训练狗的常识来改变别人？为什么不把皮鞭换成肉片呢？为什么不用赞赏代替惩罚呢？即使他的改进再微小，我们也应赞美，这样才能激励对方继续改进。

47. 19 Why don't we use the common sense of training dogs to change others? Why not replace the whip with slices of meat? Why not use praise instead of punishment? Even if their improvement is minimal, we should still praise them, so as to motivate them to continue improving.

48. 只要你深信自己做的是对的，就不要让任何事情拖累你。世上的丰功伟业无不是对抗“不可能”的结果。重要的是不计困难，完成工作。

48. As long as you firmly believe that what you are doing is right, do not let anything weigh you down. All great achievements in the world are the result of overcoming "impossibility." What is important is to complete the work regardless of difficulties.

49. 明天你所遇到的人当中，会有四分之三渴望被人同情。给予他们同情，他们会因此而爱你。

49. Among the people you will meet tomorrow, three quarters of them will yearn for sympathy. By offering them sympathy, they will love you for it.

50. 不要心怀恨意。遇到困难时，不要害怕让步，小人总是坚持己见以维持尊严；愿意主动伸出手与人言和坦诚自己的错误，并提议重新开始的人，才是气度恢弘的人。

50. Do not hold any grudge. When faced with difficulties, do not be afraid to make concessions. Petty people always insist on their own views to maintain their dignity. It is the magnanimous person who is willing to extend a hand in reconciliation, admit their own mistakes, and propose to start anew.

51. 如果你能勇敢承认自己的错误，那么你一定能从这个错误中获益。因为承认错误，不仅可以赢得别人的尊敬，更可增加你的自尊。

51. If you can bravely admit your mistakes, you are sure to benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes not only wins the respect of others but also enhances your self-esteem.

52. 精神振作的商人，除了有小心谨慎的习惯之外，还得要有敏捷和不因循两种长处。

52. An energetic merchant, in addition to having the habit of being cautious, must also possess the virtues of agility and not being a creature of habit.

53. 冷静分析过去的错误，设法从中获益，再忘掉它，这是惟一让过去有建设性意义的做法。

53. Calmly analyze past mistakes, try to benefit from them, and then forget about them; this is the only way to make the past have constructive meaning.

54. 成功人际交往的第一个秘诀是：请对方帮一个忙；第二个秘诀：真诚赞美他人；第三个秘诀：尽量满足他人的需要。

54. The first secret of successful interpersonal communication is: ask the other person to do you a favor; the second secret: sincerely praise others; the third secret: try to satisfy the needs of others as much as possible.

55. 27现实生活中有些人之所以会出现交际的障碍，就是因为他们不懂的忘记一个重要的原则:让他人感到自己重要。

55. 27 In real life, some people encounter communication barriers because they fail to understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important.

56. 如果你被悲伤、不幸、灾厄压的透不过气来，赶快让自己忙碌起来，不要给你的手和心空闲的时间，这是最有效的方法。

56. If you are overwhelmed by sadness, misfortune, or calamity and find yourself struggling to breathe, quickly busy yourself. Do not give your hands and heart any idle time; this is the most effective method.