“瞬间治愈，极速点赞！让我们一起开启一段奇妙的旅程，探索生活中的点滴美好。”

"Instant healing, rapid likes! Let's embark on a wonderful journey, exploring the little beauties in life."

1. 你不必和因果争吵，因果从来就不会误人。你也不必和命运争吵，命运它是最公平的审判官。

1. You do not need to argue with causality, for causality never misleads. Nor do you need to argue with destiny, for destiny is the fairest of judges.

2. 女人独有的天真，和温柔的天分，要留给深爱你的人

2. The unique naivety of a woman, and her innate gentleness, should be reserved for those who deeply love you.

3. 人非圣贤，孰能无过？知错能改，善莫大焉。这就是人生的常态，稀松平常得很。所以第一要懂得悔悟，第二要懂得改正，第三要不把悔恨留在心里。这就是完整的成长过程。

3. Who among us is not flawed, if not a sage or a virtuous person? Knowing one's mistakes and being able to correct them is the greatest virtue. This is the normal state of life, something quite ordinary and unremarkable. Therefore, the first thing is to understand the importance of repentance, the second is to learn to make amends, and the third is not to hold on to regret in one's heart. This is the complete process of growth.

4. 男人床上说的话永远都不要信，那些只不过是让你开心而已。

4. Never believe what a man says in bed; those are just meant to make you happy.

5. 选择好朋友真的很重要，就像一个段子说的，跟着苍蝇会找到厕所，跟着蜜蜂会找到花朵。

5. Choosing good friends is really important, as a saying goes, follow a fly and you'll find a toilet, follow a bee and you'll find flowers.

6. 每天都在重复着生活，心情好就能看到夕阳美景，心情差只能看到拥挤人群。

6. Every day is a repetition of life. On a good day, the beautiful sunset can be seen, but on a bad day, all one can see is a crowded crowd.

7. 天下就没有偶然， 那不过是化了妆的、 戴了面具的必然。来是偶然，去是必然，尽其当然，顺其自然。

7. There is no such thing as chance in the world; it is merely the disguised, masked form of necessity. Arrival is accidental, departure is inevitable; one should do what is naturally right and follow the natural course.

8. 会有那么一天，你活成了你最想要的样子，过去所有的伤痕都变成了勋章！

8. There will come a day when you have become the person you most want to be, and all the scars from the past will have turned into medals!

9. 你生活过而非白活，热爱过而有真爱，那么短暂的一生便不只是一生。人的一生，岂能尽如人意，但求无愧我心，人生苦短，好不好都不必遗憾，乐不乐都不要失望，过得好是精彩，过不好是经历。

9. If you have lived rather than merely existed, loved with true love, then a short life is not just a life. In a person's life, it is not possible to satisfy everyone's wishes, but one should seek to have no regrets in one's heart. Life is short, and it is not necessary to regret whether it is good or bad, nor should one be disappointed with whether it is joyful or not. Living well is wonderful, and living poorly is an experience.

10. 要相信相由心生，要相信时间会积蓄下能量许多事，总是前半生用来实践，后半生慢慢应验，专心致志心无杂念，每一个轮廓都有出处，这是对每天最好的态度。

10. Believe in the saying that a person's appearance reflects their inner self, and trust that time accumulates energy. Many things are often practiced in the first half of life and slowly realized in the latter half. Focus on your intentions with a mind free of distractions. Every contour has its origin. This is the best attitude for every day.

11. 对自己好，就要用心；对别人好，就要关心。看别人，烦恼起；看自己，智慧生。体谅别人，就会做人；清楚自己，就会做事。人经不起考验，故不要轻易考验于人。

11. To treat oneself well, one must put one's heart into it; to treat others well, one must show concern. When looking at others,烦恼 arise; when looking at oneself, wisdom is born. Understanding others will make you a good person; being clear about oneself will enable you to do things well. People cannot withstand tests easily, so do not readily test others.

12. 心存美好，则无可恼之事；心存善良，则无可恨之人；心若简单，世间纷扰皆成空。

12. With a heart full of goodness, there are no things to恼; with a heart full of kindness, there are no people to恨; if the heart is simple, the worldly turmoil becomes void.

13. 金钱化妆你的外表，佛法启悟你的内在。律己要严，待人要宽。征服世界，并不伟大，一个人能征服自己，才是世界上最伟大的人。平凡之人追求不平凡，智者则甘于平凡，却享受平凡。

13. Money adorns your appearance, Buddhism enlightens your inner self. Be strict with yourself and lenient with others. Conquering the world is not great, but a person who can conquer himself is the greatest in the world.Ordinary people strive for the extraordinary, while wise people are content with the ordinary, yet they enjoy it.

14. 知道我为什么不愿意去爱你么，因为我没有做好受伤害的准备!

14. Do you know why I don't want to love you? Because I'm not ready to get hurt!

15. 你不能给我幸福 干吗还要霸着我 你要什么 我给你、放开我

15. If you can't give me happiness, why do you still cling to me? What do you want? I'll give it to you, just let me go.

16. 有时候你生气、愤怒、伤心，其实只是因为你所得到的结果和你以为的差得太远，你总是和自己在较劲。

16. Sometimes when you feel angry, frustrated, or sad, it's actually because the results you get are so far from what you expected, and you are always arguing with yourself.

17. 我不明白，天空的阴霾，是你的伤怀还是我的悲哀

17. I don't understand, is the gloom in the sky your sorrow or my grief?

18. 人生还有很多的疑惑，解了还生。深沉者多痛苦和烦恼，轻浅者头脑简单不会思考，所以适当地思虑才是最好的。当我们不为生活所累的时候才会有更多的时间和精力去思考世界，得出的结论才会更全面、更深该和更真实客观一些。

18. Life is filled with many mysteries, and even after they are solved, new ones arise. Those who delve deeply often suffer and are burdened with烦恼, while those who think lightly have simplistic minds and are unable to contemplate. Therefore, appropriate contemplation is the best approach. It is only when we are not burdened by life that we have more time and energy to ponder the world, and the conclusions we draw will be more comprehensive, profound, and more truthful and objective.

19. 赝品就是赝品，小三终究是小三，别妄想谁会羡慕迩。

19. Forgeries are forgeries, and a mistress is always a mistress. Don't even dream that anyone would envy you.

20. 这个世界没有那么多将心比心。你善良，他便得寸进尺，你软弱，他便狠心欺骗，你正直，他便道德压榨。把深情交付与错误的人，就别责怪这个社会不温暖。因为都是你的愚蠢才收获了伤害，所以你只需要变聪明就好了，而不是痴心妄想改变这个世界。

20. This world doesn't have that many people who treat others as they would like to be treated. If you're kind, he will take advantage and demand more; if you're weak, he will cunningly deceive you; if you're honest, he will exploit you morally. Don't blame society for not being warm if you give your deep affection to the wrong person. Because it's your own foolishness that has led to the harm, so you just need to become smarter, rather than naively trying to change the world.

21. 6有时候，你选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为你清楚的知道，他不属于你。或许有些爱，只能止于唇齿，掩于岁月。

21.6 Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don't care, but because you clearly know that he does not belong to you. Perhaps some love can only end at the lips, hidden in the years.

22. 别等天真输给了现实，你才知道自己有多傻；别等诚恳败给了虚伪，你才明白自己不圆滑。

22. Don't wait until innocence is defeated by reality and you realize how foolish you are; don't wait until sincerity is defeated by insincerity and you understand how ungraceful you are.

23. ❾明明只是文字排列组合，可它偏偏击中了心里最柔软的部分。

23. ❾It's just a combination of words, yet it strangely struck the softest part of my heart.

24. 爱一个人就和他好好的过，不要想的那么多。以后的事就交给以后来说，不要害怕不要乱想不要猜疑。该发生的总会发生你拦也拦不住，不会发生的被你瞎猜只会影响你的心情。一个人爱不爱你心里有没有你总会知道一点感觉到一点的。在乎那么多干什么足够相信爱的人就好了，一天天一年年就这样过来了。

24. Love someone and live well with them; don't overthink it. Leave the future to the future; don't be afraid, don't get lost in wild thoughts, and don't be suspicious. What will happen will happen, and you can't stop it; what won't happen will only be affected by your wild guesses and it will impact your mood. You will always know a bit, feel a bit in your heart whether someone loves you or not. Why worry so much? Just have enough faith in the person you love, and just like that, day by day and year by year will pass.

25. 7如果事与愿违，就相信上天一定另有安排；所有失去的，都会以另外一种方式归来。

25. 7 If things do not go as planned, believe that heaven has another arrangement; all that is lost will return in another form.

26. 人生就像一杯茶。平淡是它的本色，苦涩是它的历程，清香是它的馈赠。

26. Life is like a cup of tea. Its essence is plainness, its journey is bitter, and its fragrance is a gift.

27. ゞ再我和你说和好的那一瞬间你既然偷偷的睡在那另半张床

27. At the moment I told you we were reconciled, you were secretly sleeping on the other half of the bed.

28. 敌人变成朋友，就比朋友更可靠，朋友变成敌人，比敌人更危险。有些事知道了就好，不必多说。有些人认识了就好，不必深交。

28. An enemy turned into a friend is more reliable than a friend, and a friend turned into an enemy is more dangerous than an enemy. Some things are best left unsaid; it's not necessary to elaborate. Some people are enough to know; it's not necessary to cultivate a deep friendship.

29. 无论你今天要面对什么，既然走到了这一步，就坚持下去，给自己一些肯定，等到你实在坚持不下去时，你才知道自己原来这么坚强，事实是，我们都比自己想象中要坚强。

29. No matter what you have to face today, since you have reached this point, persevere and give yourself some affirmation. You will only realize how strong you are when you can no longer hold on. The fact is, we are all stronger than we imagine.

30. 当代婚姻的三大劲敌：已婚者不安心，未婚者不甘心，旁观者太热心。

30. The three major foes of contemporary marriage: the married are restless, the unmarried are unwilling, and the onlookers are too eager.

31. 能拴牢一个女人的，未必是爱情，而是呵护。享受别人的照顾，的确是会上瘾的。这就是为什么“爱你的”总能打败“你爱的”，因为人性的需求本质上是一样的：我们孤单地来到这个世界，都是为了找到一个人，能对自己好。

31. It may not be love that can firmly bind a woman, but rather care and protection. Enjoying someone else's care can indeed be addictive. This is why "the one who loves you" can always defeat "the one you love," because the fundamental needs of human nature are the same: we come to this world alone, all in search of someone who will treat us well.

32. 愿你自己有充分的忍耐去担当，有充分单纯的心去信仰。你将会越来越信任艰难的事务，和你在众人中间感到的寂寞。此外，让生活自然进展。请相信：无论如何，生活是合理的。

32. May you yourself have sufficient patience to bear the burden, and a sufficiently pure heart to believe. You will increasingly trust in difficult affairs and the loneliness you feel among the crowd. Moreover, let life progress naturally. Please believe: in any case, life is reasonable.

33. 做事三原则：用勇气改变可以改变的事情，用胸怀接受不能改变的事情，用智慧分辨两者的不同。

33. Three principles for doing things: use courage to change what can be changed, use tolerance to accept what cannot be changed, and use wisdom to distinguish the difference between the two.

34. 大道理我们一个比一个懂，但决定我们大多数喜怒哀乐的，不还是一些不讲道理的小情绪。

34. We may all understand the great principles, but it is still those unreasonable little emotions that largely determine most of our joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

35. 爱情不是想爱就爱，不爱就放开，如果你爱了 请一定好好珍惜。

35. Love is not something you can simply choose to love or not love, or to hold on to or let go of. If you do love, please cherish it deeply.

36. 如果你给我的只是太多的借口，我宁愿我从来没有对你认真过。

36. If all you give me are too many excuses, I would rather I had never taken you seriously.

37. 清浅时光，心有明媚，处处温暖，情有阳光，时时灿烂。当内心充满祥和，在哪里都是一样欢喜自在；当内心充满智慧，一花一草尽显法身。若能放下心中的执着与挑剔，那么你相逢的一切，皆是美好。

37. In the gentle flow of time, the heart is bright, warmth is everywhere, and love is full of sunshine, shining constantly. When the heart is filled with peace, joy and ease are the same everywhere; when the heart is filled with wisdom, every flower and grass reveals the true body. If one can let go of the clinging and pickiness in the heart, then everything one encounters will be beautiful.

38. 我们都得经历一段努力闭嘴不抱怨的时光，才能熠熠生辉，才能去更酷的地方，成为更酷的人。

38. We all have to go through a period of striving to keep our mouths shut and not complain, in order to shine, to go to cooler places, and to become cooler people.

39. 8以前我总是试图讨好很多人，忙于维持一段段关系，到最后才明白，其实我们无需讨好任何人，我们所要做的就是让自己强大起来，然后吸引我们喜欢的人自动靠过来。

39.8 Before, I always tried to please many people, busy maintaining relationships, only to realize later that actually, we don't need to please anyone. What we need to do is to become stronger ourselves, and then attract the people we like to come to us automatically.

40. 人活得糊涂一点挺好，我不太想去知道别人背后是怎么评价我的，人们内心真实想法总会毫不留情的戳伤你，不要意外，这很正常，不是因为你不好，只是大多数人都会在背后放大你的缺点。最理想的是，见面都哈哈哈，转身便互不相干，我们自欺欺人地做着自己，从不为不重要的人改变。

40. It's quite good for a person to live in a bit of confusion. I don't really want to know what others are saying about me behind my back. People's true feelings will always cruelly hurt you. Don't be surprised, this is normal. It's not because you're not good enough; it's just that most people tend to exaggerate your shortcomings behind your back. Ideally, you'd laugh and laugh when you meet, and then go your separate ways, deluding ourselves by doing our own thing and never changing for people who don't matter.

41. 包容就是忘却，学会忘却生活才会快乐；宽容就是忍耐，忍耐能使灵魂安宁，退一步，天宽，地宽。

41. Tolerance is about forgetting; learning to forget is the key to happiness in life. Tolerance is about patience; patience brings peace to the soul. Take a step back, and the sky becomes broader, the earth becomes wider.

42. 当一个人忽略你时，不要伤心，每个人都有自己的生活，谁都不可能一直陪你。最尴尬的莫过于高估自己在别人心里的位置，其实你明明知道，最卑贱不过感情，最凉不过人心。你必须明白，要走的人留不住，装睡的人叫不醒，不喜欢你的人感动不了。

42. When someone ignores you, don't be heartbroken. Everyone has their own life, and no one can accompany you all the time. The most embarrassing thing is to overestimate your position in someone else's heart. In fact, you know very well that the most despicable thing is affection, and the coldest thing is the human heart. You must understand that you can't keep someone who wants to leave, you can't wake up someone who is pretending to sleep, and you can't move someone who doesn't like you.

43. 生活总是两难，再多执着，再多不肯，最终不得不学会接受，从哭着控诉，到笑着对待，到头来，不过是一场随遇而安。

43. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how much we persist or refuse, in the end, we have to learn to accept. From crying and accusing to laughing and treating it as it comes, in the end, it's all about embracing whatever comes our way.

44. 没有人不喜欢美丽的东西，没有人可以拒绝美丽的渗透，每个人都有对美丽的向往，都期盼自己有一个美丽的人生。

44. No one dislikes beautiful things, no one can resist the penetration of beauty. Everyone has a longing for beauty and looks forward to having a beautiful life.

45. 生活本不苦，苦的是欲望过多；心本无累，累的是放不下的太多。人生就是欲望和所求的不断减少的过程。

45. Life itself is not bitter; what is bitter is the excessive desires; the heart itself is not burdened; what burdens it is the too many things it cannot let go of. Life is a continuous process of reducing desires and demands.

46. 你以为一个小小的创可贴就可以把一颗被你伤害的心治好吗

46. Do you think a small bandage can heal a heart that has been wounded by you?

47. 4永远也不要高估你在别人心中的地位，其实你什么都不是，多你一个也不多，少你一个也不少。

47. 4 Never overestimate your position in the hearts of others. In reality, you are nothing. You are neither more nor less with your presence.

48. 3在这个世界上，不要太依赖别人。因为即使是你的影子，也会在黑暗时离开你的。

48. 3 In this world, don't be too dependent on others. Because even your shadow will leave you in the dark.

49. 旳离开。是注定的新的开始，还是无法承受的结局。

49. The departure is destined to be either a new beginning or an unbearable end.

50. 随缘不是得过且过，因循苟且，而是尽人事听天命。

50. To follow one's fate is not about just getting by or being complacent, but rather about doing one's best and then leaving the rest to destiny.

51. 闭上眼睛，安静内心告诉自己。别人想什么，我们控制不了；别人做什么，我们也强求不了。唯一可以做的，就是尽心尽力做好自己的事，走自己的路，按自己的原则，好好生活。即使有人亏待了你，时间也不会亏待你，人生更加不会亏待你。

51. Close your eyes, calm your inner self, and tell yourself. We cannot control what others think; we cannot force others to do as we wish. The only thing we can do is to do our best in our own affairs, walk our own path, live according to our own principles, and live well. Even if someone treats you unfairly, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you either.

52. 5别老想着“以后还来得及”，有一天你会发现，有些人，有些事，真的会来不及。

52. 5 Don't always think that "there's still time later." One day, you'll find that there are some people and some things that truly won't be in time.

53. 养好受伤的心，保持百斤左右体重，照顾好挑剔的胃，交一个能一路废话的朋友；给自己疲惫的生活找一个温柔的梦想，然后彻彻底底跟过去的悲伤道别。这就是你接下来要做的事。

53. Heal a wounded heart, maintain a weight of about 100 pounds, take care of a picky stomach, make a friend who can talk nonsense all the way, find a gentle dream for your weary life, and then say goodbye to the sadness of the past thoroughly. This is what you need to do next.

54. 你堕落的时候，总有人在努力，你懒散的时候，自然有人在求上进，你觉得不如意的时候，有人过得比你更惨。所以，在这个世界上，总是有人过着你摒弃了的生活，也有人过着你期盼着的生活，更有人过着你现在一样的生活。

54. When you are falling into decline, there are always people striving hard. When you are lazy, there are naturally people striving for advancement. When you feel dissatisfied, there are those who have it even worse than you. So, in this world, there are always people living the life you have abandoned, and there are also those living the life you aspire to. Moreover, there are people living the same life as you are now.

55. 你是什么人便会遇上什么人，你是什么人，便会选择什么人。总是挂在嘴上的人生，就是你的人生，人总是很容易，被自己说出的话所催眠。我多怕你总是挂在嘴上的许多抱怨，将会成为你所有的人生。

55. The kind of people you meet depends on the kind of person you are, and the kind of person you choose depends on the kind of person you are. The life that you always talk about is your life, and people are often easily hypnotized by their own words. How much I fear that the many complaints you always talk about will become the entire span of your life.

56. 9人不就是这样吗，安慰别人的时候头头是道，自己遇上点过不去的坎立马无法自拔。道理都懂，只是情绪作祟，故事太撩人。

56. Isn't it like this for nine people? When comforting others, they can give sound advice, but when they encounter a problem they can't get over, they are immediately overwhelmed. They understand the principles, but it's just that their emotions are getting the better of them, and the stories are too captivating.

57. 我们是如此的担心着未来会发生的事情，因此忘记了慢下来享受现在。

57. We are so worried about what might happen in the future that we forget to slow down and enjoy the present.

58. 年龄越大，越学会了顺其自然，不想再挽留什么，相信该在的不会走。

58. The older one gets, the more one learns to go with the flow, not wanting to cling to anything anymore, believing that what should be there will not leave.

59. 10我做好了要与你过一辈子的打算，也做好了你随时要走的准备，这大概是最好的爱情观，深情而不纠缠。

59. I am prepared to spend a lifetime with you, and I am also ready for the possibility of you leaving at any moment. This is perhaps the best view of love: deeply affectionate but not entangled.