1. 约会的气氛也非常重要，你应该让两个人，都感觉轻松，特别是第一次见面的情况下，身为男士，首先要表现出绅士风度，那么约会的地点要选择在比较繁华的地段，尽可能离女生住处近一些，打消她的顾虑，记住，消费不要过分的奢侈，别让女生有压力。约会过程中交谈要自然，像朋友一样聊天，既不要过于热情，一直问问题，也不要太严肃冷静，过度耍酷，不要秀自己的知识储备量，她不需要一部大百科全书，找到她感兴趣的话题，引导她多开口。当然，如果她对吃的更感兴趣，建议你还是多给她夹菜。相信这几点做好，你一定能拥有一次非常成功的约会。

1. The atmosphere of the date is also very important. You should make both people feel at ease, especially in the case of the first meeting. As a gentleman, you should first show your gentlemanly manner. Therefore, the location of the date should be chosen in a bustling area, as close to the girl's residence as possible to alleviate her concerns. Remember, do not be overly extravagant with the expenses and avoid putting pressure on the girl. During the date, conversation should be natural, like chatting with a friend. Avoid being overly enthusiastic and constantly asking questions, nor should you be too solemn and calm, over-playing coolness. Do not show off your knowledge储备, as she does not need an encyclopedia. Find topics that interest her and guide her to speak more. Of course, if she is more interested in food, it is recommended that you help her with more dishes. Believe that if you do these points well, you will definitely have a very successful date.

2. 这个世界上，每个人都在寻找一种叫真爱的东西，仿佛没有人知道它躲在哪里，于是每个人为它翻山越岭，每个人都为它不辞劳苦，在这个过程中，有的人曾得到，却浑然不知，有的人已经失去，却不知悔悟，也许是因为越珍贵的东西，看上去越庸常，所以哪怕它就在身边，我们却总想不起要给它一个回望。

2. In this world, everyone is searching for something called true love, as if no one knows where it hides. So, each person climbs over mountains and crosses rivers for it, and everyone is willing to endure hardships for it. In this process, some people have received it but are unaware, while others have already lost it but do not regret. Perhaps it is because the more precious something is, the more ordinary it seems. Therefore, even if it is right beside us, we always forget to take a glance back at it.

3. 忘记情伤有两种方法:一是时间，二是展开下一段恋情。

3. There are two ways to forget emotional pain: one is time, and the other is to start a new relationship.

4. 好男人都是备胎，因为太多女人，在失去之前，都不明白什么男人才是真正的好男人。

4. Good men are backup plans, because too many women don't understand what kind of man is truly a good man until they lose them.

5. 一个不成熟男人的标志，是愿意为某种事业英勇的死去，一个成熟男人的标志，是愿意为某种事业卑贱地活着。你说人乔布斯，比尔盖茨，这些大咖们，他们起步都在车库啊。

5. The mark of an immature man is the willingness to die heroically for a cause, while the mark of a mature man is the willingness to live ignobly for a cause. You say people like Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, these big shots, they all started in garages.

6. 我现在和你讲道理，你带小玲挤公交，坐地铁，买衣服要去地摊，买礼物要去夜市，我带她坐宾利，买衣服要带她去连卡佛，国际金融中心，吃饭随随便便也要去一家星级酒店享受，你告诉我，你拿什么和我比呀？

6. Now I'm talking sense with you. You take Xiao Ling to挤公交 (squeeze the bus), take the subway, buy clothes at street stalls, and buy gifts at night markets. I take her in a Bentley, take her to buy clothes at Lane Crawford, the International Financial Center, and even for a casual meal, we go to a five-star hotel to enjoy ourselves. Tell me, what are you comparing with me?

7. 这王虚竹怎么点这么背，他是背着背背佳长大的吧。

7. How unfortunate is this Wang Xuzhu, he must have grown up wearing a back brace, right?

8. 太辛苦追求一个人，就算是追到了也不能要，因为在未来，很长一段时间里边，这个人都会觉得她是你千辛万苦追到的，她理应享受特权，你在这段感情里边，永远也无法得到平等。

8. It's too hard to chase after someone; even if you do, you shouldn't have them because in the future, for a long time, this person will feel that they were the one you tirelessly pursued, and they should enjoy special privileges. You will never be able to achieve equality in this relationship.

9. 丁羽：浦先生，我从来不相信那些飘渺的山盟海誓，我也不会跟女孩说山盟海誓，她们嘴头上都说我喜欢你这个人，只要我能跟你在一起，无论贫穷还是富贵，我完全不相信，当有一天我们逛商场的时候，她看到她想买的东西，我买不起的时候，我...我就这么跟你说吧，我不想看到我想要保护的女孩，对我有一点点失望，哪怕是一个眼神。

9. Ding Yu: Mr. Pu, I never believe in those ethereal promises of love, and I wouldn't make such promises to a girl either. They all say with their words that they like me as a person, but as long as I can be with you, whether we are poor or rich, I don't believe it at all. When one day we go shopping together and she sees something she wants to buy, and I can't afford it, I... I'll just tell it to you like this, I don't want to see the girl I want to protect even a little disappointed in me, not even in a single glance.

10. 谁和谁一模一样啊，你可以跟她说我们就是因为有太多的不同，所以才让我们产生了相互的深深吸引，再说了，没有共同之处你们可以创造共同之处啊，这又回到了刚才那个问题，多倾听，听她喜欢什么，玩什么，吃什么，喝什么，用什么，想什么，鄙视什么，妒忌什么，关怀什么，把她的什么都记下来，这就是你们的通关秘籍了，回去苦练神功，每次约会的时候，都给她多一些的惊喜，这不就是她想要的默契和在意吗？朋友们，这个世界上每一个女孩，都以为自己是骄傲的公主，除了极少数丑的和极少数聪明的姑娘例外，所以面对公主们，我们一定要不断地提升自己的洞察力。

10. Who is exactly like whom? You can tell her that it is because of our many differences that we have developed a deep mutual attraction. Besides, if you don't have anything in common, you can create it. This brings us back to the question earlier: listen more, hear about what she likes, what games she plays, what food and drinks she enjoys, what she uses, what she thinks, what she disdains, what she envies, what she cares about, and write down everything about her. This is your secret passage to success. Go back and diligently practice your skills. On each date, give her more surprises. Isn't that the kind of默契 and attention she wants? Friends, every girl in this world thinks of herself as a proud princess, except for a very few ugly ones and a very few clever girls. So, when facing princesses, we must continuously improve our ability to perceive.

11. 什么叫做专一，专门一个一个来的。

11. What does it mean to be dedicated? It means to focus on one thing at a time.

12. 默契，才是感情的根基。据不完全统计，百分之八十的情感破裂，是由于第三者的介入，那么有百分之六十的人，都遭受过不同程度的身体和精神上的出轨，百分之五十的人认为出轨是鬼使神差，虽然表示后悔，但是虚心接受坚决不改，以我对浦卞的认识，他是绝对不会出轨的，你们在情感上有非常非常扎实的基础，而且离婚会直接导致下一代，也就是孩子的心灵创伤，抽样调查显示，一百个少年犯里面，有百分之六十来自于单亲家庭，可见离婚会给孩子造成多大的影响。我认为你跟浦卞在一起，也许物质上会比较匮乏，但是你们在精神上会非常开心，而且浦卞永远都不会出轨，这样的话，你的情感会非常非常的安全，你绝对不会受到任何伤害。

12. Understanding and agreement are the foundation of feelings. According to incomplete statistics, 80% of emotional breakdowns are due to the intervention of a third party. Then, 60% of people have experienced varying degrees of infidelity in both body and spirit, and 50% of people believe that infidelity is driven by fate, although they express regret, they are not willing to change and persist in their actions. Based on my understanding of Pu Bian, I am absolutely sure that he would never commit infidelity. You have a very solid foundation in your relationship. Moreover, divorce can directly lead to emotional trauma in the next generation, that is, in children. Sampling surveys show that 60% of juvenile delinquents come from single-parent families, indicating the significant impact of divorce on children. I believe that being with Pu Bian may be lacking in material aspects, but you will both be very happy spiritually, and Pu Bian will never cheat. In this way, your emotions will be very, very secure, and you will never be hurt.

13. 我们一生会遇上很多种人，很多种事，有的甜蜜，有的温馨，有的婉转成歌，有的绵延不息，在这些故事里，我们唯一的共通之处就是，某年、某月，某个波澜不惊的日子里，曾经很爱、很爱你。

13. Throughout our lives, we encounter many kinds of people and many kinds of things, some sweet, some warm, some turning into songs, and some lasting indefinitely. In these stories, the only common thread between us is that on some tranquil day, in some month and year, we once deeply loved and cherished you.

14. 我们为什么要生活在制定的规则里，试图用规则衡量自己、约束别人，可又怎么样呢，规则一次次被推倒，又一次次被重建，它本身就毫无意义。我们不是强者，却也不愿意示弱，用规则把爱拒之门外，这不科学。

14. Why do we have to live by established rules, trying to measure ourselves and约束 others with them? But what is the point? The rules are repeatedly overturned and rebuilt, and they are inherently meaningless. We are not the strong, yet we are also unwilling to show weakness. To keep love out by the rules is unscientific.

15. 追求女孩呢，是一件投入成本极高的事。有钱呢，就要买单；没钱呢，就要搭时间。任何浪漫背后，都是卑微和辛酸。

15. Pursuing a girl is a matter that requires an extremely high cost of investment. If you have money, you have to pay the bill; if you don't, you have to invest time. Behind any romance, there is humility and bitterness.

16. 福兮，祸兮，所有的经历都让我们在经历中懂得经历的价值，于是所有的经历都值得我们感恩和感激。就如欺骗我们的人让我们学会分辨，就如击垮我们的人让我们开始坚强，就如诽谤我们的人让我们人格被磨砺，就如鄙吝我们的人让我们自尊再觉醒，愚弄我们的人帮我们开启智慧，抛弃我们的人使我们可以独立，斥责我们的人令我们又一次成长，嘲弄我们的人让我们懂得了面对。

16. Happiness and misfortune, all experiences have taught us the value of life through our experiences, thus making every experience worthy of gratitude and appreciation. Just as the people who deceive us teach us to discern, the ones who overcome us help us become strong, the ones who slander us refine our character, the ones who are mean to us awaken our self-respect, the ones who fool us help us to open up our wisdom, the ones who abandon us enable us to be independent, the ones who scold us allow us to grow again, and the ones who mock us teach us to face things.

17. 人家都说不能让自己的女朋友有太多蓝颜，要不然蓝着蓝着我就变绿了。

17. People always say that you shouldn't let your girlfriend have too many blue friends, otherwise, I might turn green from all the blues.

18. 我在回忆我的大学时代，我这一生中就单纯了那四年。

18. I am reminiscing about my college days, and those were the only four years in my life that were purely innocent.

19. 这是什么风格，你这个尿性，会被观众扁的。

19. What style is this, you loser, you'll be booed by the audience.

20. 跟我们玩儿什么白蛇传啊，碰上道行深的，他就得认怂。

20. What's this nonsense about playing the White Snake Legend with us? If he encounters someone with deep cultivation, he has to back down.

21. 不要认为从女人身上拿欺骗能换来你想要的，再完美的骗局都有破绽，再周密的谎言也会被拆穿，不论你是好是坏，是贫穷还是富有，女人渴望看到男人最真实的一面，而欺骗女人，是没有好下场的，从普遍的情况来讲，千万不要得罪女人，别看女人平时温顺如羊，随时都可能变成你最强的敌人。

21. Do not think that deception can win you what you want from women; no matter how perfect the deception, there will always be flaws, and even the most cunning lies will be exposed. Whether you are good or bad, whether you are poor or wealthy, women long to see the truest side of men. Cheating on a woman will never end well. In general, never offend women; don't look at women as meek as sheep, for they can turn into your strongest enemy at any moment.

22. 人家吴青青已经故人西辞黄鹤楼了，你是要烟花三月下扬州还是要继续苦苦等待？

22. People say Wu Qingqing has already bid farewell to the Yellow Crane Tower and left this world. Do you want to go to Yangzhou under the fireworks in the third month, or do you want to continue to wait in vain?

23. 情商智商双缺失是这个人的硬伤。

23. Lacking both emotional intelligence and IQ is this person's major flaw.

24. 这个世界根本就没有王子，富一代岁数大，富二代没脑子，主动的吧，图谋不轨，不主动的又装腔作势，没钱才能见真爱呀，包包，鞋子，我都可以不要，只要能跟他天天腻在一块，那才是真正的幸福。

24. There are no princes in this world. The first generation of the wealthy is old, and the second generation lacks intelligence. The proactive ones have ulterior motives, while the unproactive ones pretend to be grand. True love can only be found when there is no money. Bags, shoes, I can do without all of them. The true happiness is to be able to be腻 together with him every day.

25. 欲擒故纵是情感必杀技，意犹未尽才是最高境界。

25. The strategy of "tempting and then capturing" is a must-have emotional technique, while leaving something to be desired is the highest level.

26. 我一直相信，这个世界上的每种感情，在发生的时候，都只是半成品，它需要人们，进行后期加工，有人把这个过程称为磨合，听上去美好的像是在雕琢一块璞玉。只不过，没有人能优先知道结果，没有人能提前看到成品。或许也正因为如此，这个过程才别具一格的有趣。

26. I have always believed that in this world, every emotion, at the moment it occurs, is only half-finished. It requires people to go through the post-processing phase. Some people call this process "tuning," which sounds beautiful, like carving a jade stone. However, no one can know the result in advance, and no one can see the finished product ahead of time. Perhaps it is precisely because of this that the process is uniquely interesting.

27. 真羡慕你们，遇到了我们这么好的公司。

27. I'm so envious of you for encountering such a great company as ours.

28. 你们在硬盘里阅人无数，但不会在现实中和女人搭讪交流；你们有在网络中挖地三尺，搜寻各种无码的本事，但没有在生活中去约会一个女人的能力。

28. You've read countless people on the hard drive, but you're unable to approach and communicate with women in real life; you have the skill to dig deep in the network and search for all sorts of uncensored content, but you lack the ability to go on a date with a woman in real life.

29. 当一个男人爱你的时候，你连缺点都与众不同，当一个男人不再爱你的时候，你连优点都平庸俗气。

29. When a man loves you, even your flaws are unique, and when a man no longer loves you, even your strengths seem ordinary and unremarkable.

30. 你一大男人，心眼怎么那么小啊？你好意思吗，什么保时捷大排量，你用得着拿这个来损自己的女朋友吗？她一个女孩子，把自己生命中最好的年华来陪着你，天天陪着你挤公交车，因为什么呀，因为人家爱你，光凭着这一点，你就应该特别特别珍惜。

30. You're a grown man, how come you have such a small heart? Don't you feel ashamed? What's so great about that Porsche with a big engine? Do you really need to use that to insult your girlfriend? She's a girl, and she dedicates the best years of her life to be with you, accompanying you on the bus every day. Why? Because she loves you. Just based on that alone, you should treasure her especially, especially.

31. 我给那儿昏天黑地的扯，你们跟这儿丧心病狂的玩。

31. I was making a mess over there, and you guys are playing here like you're mentally deranged.

32. 从普遍的情况来讲，每个人都渴望经历一次邂逅，那些缘分和巧合，那么有多少是早在脑海里排练过数十上百遍的呢？找一个恰当的时间，恰当的地点，恰当的方式，来一场与她的不期而遇。我相信田螺姑娘的故事，如果除了爱，你什么都给不了他，那就做他的影子，为他默默付出，做那些被别人忽略的小事，坚持，没有怨言。

32. Generally speaking, everyone yearns for an encounter, those moments of destiny and coincidence. How many have been rehearsed in their minds for dozens or even hundreds of times? Find the right time, the right place, and the right way to have an unexpected meeting with her. I believe in the story of the Snail Girl. If, besides love, you can't give him anything else, then be his shadow,默默付出，do those small things that others ignore, be persistent, and have no complaints.

33. 我以为你晚上才会来，没想到你是披着夕阳来的。

33. I thought you would come at night, but I didn't expect you to arrive in the twilight.

34. 普遍的情况来讲，许多人喜欢选择若即若离，忽冷忽热，保持在一种快追到手又似乎完全无法掌控的方式，让对方保持追逐的热情，就像是跳舞中的两个人，始终无法一直拥抱在一起。其实，矜持也好，主动也罢，不想错过一段恋情，就必须把握住每次与她相处的时机，她不会因你默默守候就能被打动，也不会因为你的坚持执着，而停止追逐幸福的脚步，表白要趁早，不要错过她曾经对你燃起的热情。

34. Generally speaking, many people prefer to maintain a relationship that is ambiguous, fluctuating between coldness and warmth, staying in a state where it seems like the relationship is about to be achieved yet it's almost impossible to fully control. This keeps the other person's pursuit passionate, much like two dancers who can't keep embracing each other throughout the dance. In reality, whether it's being reserved or proactive, if you don't want to miss out on a romance, you must seize every opportunity to spend time with her. She won't be moved just by your silent waiting, nor will she stop chasing happiness because of your persistence and dedication. It's important to express your feelings early on, and not to miss the passion she once had for you.

35. 你认为的幸福和责任是什么？上完床跟人结婚那就是负责吗？你太幼稚了。现在结婚的**，不是洞房，是买房，大哥。姑娘可以再三百块钱一晚上的房间里跟我谈恋爱，但是她们也同时需要三万一平的房才肯嫁给我。七星级的酒店，我咬咬牙，住一晚上没问题，三万一平的房子，外环外的民宅，我现在首付都交不起，三万一平的房子，对于我来说要一直二十年不吃不喝，就算打八折，我也只能买一个八十平米，二十年以后，我已经五十了，我请问，我生的孩子管我叫爹，还是管我叫爷爷呀？

35. What do you think happiness and responsibility are? Getting into bed with someone and getting married is that responsible? You're too naive. Nowadays, getting married isn't about the honeymoon, it's about buying a house, bro. A girl can date me in a room that costs three hundred yuan a night, but they also need a house that costs thirty thousand yuan per square meter to agree to marry me. I can bite the bullet and stay one night in a seven-star hotel, no problem, but a house that costs thirty thousand yuan per square meter, a residential property outside the city ring, I can't even afford the down payment now. A house that costs thirty thousand yuan per square meter would require me to live without eating or drinking for twenty years for me. Even if I get an 80% discount, I can only buy an 80-square-meter apartment. By then, I'll be fifty years old. I ask you, will my child call me dad or grandpa?

36. 其实想想，之前付出的都没有什么，因为现在的生活根本就不是我想要的。生活中缺少的其实就是奋不顾身的勇气。

36. In fact, when you think about it, all the effort put in before was nothing, because the life I have now is not what I want at all. What is really missing in my life is the courage to go all out without a second thought.

37. 没有片叶不沾身的功夫，不要从万花丛中走过。

37. Without a skill to keep a leaf from touching your body, do not walk through a thicket of flowers.

38. 当一个男人爱你的时候，你连缺点都与众不同，当一个男人不再爱你的时候，你连优点都平庸俗气。你的好与坏全仰赖于他是爱着或者爱过。

38. When a man loves you, even your flaws are unique, and when a man no longer loves you, even your virtues seem ordinary and common. Your good and bad depend entirely on whether he is loving or has loved.

39. 人的潜能是无限的，只要有动力，什么事都能干成。

39. Human potential is limitless, and with motivation, one can accomplish anything.