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《不抱怨,成就非凡人生》

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1. 二十八、《圣经》中说,你若不压橄榄成渣它就不能成油,你若不投葡萄入榨,它就不能变成酒。我要说:如果你能把绊脚石变成垫脚石,你就是生活的强者。

1. Twenty-Eight, the Bible says, "If you do not press the olives until they are crushed, they will not produce oil; if you do not crush the grapes, they will not become wine." I would say: If you can turn stumbling blocks into stepping stones, you are a strong person in life.

2. 十一、他永远不会成为我最好的朋友,但是,我没必要非去讨厌他。

2. Eleven, he will never be my best friend, but I don't have to necessarily hate him.

3. 在这悲欢交错的世界,我也想要走一条属于自己的路。

3. In this world where joys and sorrows intertwine, I also want to walk a path that belongs to myself.

4. 如果有天我们湮没在人潮之中,庸碌一生,那是因为我们没有努力要活得丰盛。

4. If one day we are lost in the sea of people and spend our lives in mediocrity, it is because we have not strived to live a fulfilling life.

5. 闻说双溪春尚好,也拟泛轻舟。只恐双溪舴艋舟,载不动许多愁。

5. It is said that the spring at Shuangxi is still beautiful, and I am also planning to glide a light boat. But I fear that the small boat on the Shuangxi River cannot carry so much sorrow.

6. 人世间走过,看的多了,懂的就多了。体会的多了,联想的也就多了。情感丰富了,也就复杂了。矛盾了,敏感了,受的伤也就深了。云有云的心语,风有风的选择,每个人,或多或少,都有所苍凉;或深或浅,都有些无奈。有些事,不明不白,让你猜不透;有些人,戴着面具,让你看不清;有些理,概念模糊,让你悟不出;有些路,坎坷难走,让你行不通。现实残酷,人情冷暖,世态炎凉。不可能人人都让你如意,不可能事事都让你称心。言者随意,适者生存。风雨人生,凡尘俗世,做人如饮酒,半醉半醒最适宜。 ----《快乐就好日志总管》

6. Having walked through the world, the more one sees, the more one understands. The more one experiences, the more associations one makes. Emotions become richer, and thus more complex. Conflicts arise, sensitivity increases, and the wounds one receives become deeper. Clouds have their own whispered words, and the wind has its own choices. Each person, to a greater or lesser extent, feels some solitude; to a deeper or shallower degree, there is some helplessness. Some things are unclear and elusive, leaving you guessing; some people wear masks, making you unable to see through them; some principles are conceptually vague, leaving you unable to comprehend; some paths are arduous and difficult to tread, leaving you unable to proceed. Reality is cruel, human feelings are warm and cold, and the world is indifferent. It is impossible for everyone to satisfy you, and it is impossible for everything to please you. Speak at your own will, and the adaptable will survive. In the stormy life of the mundane world, it is most fitting to be half-drunk and half-awake. ----"Log Master of Happiness"

7. 黄河西来决昆仑,咆吼万里触龙门。波滔天,尧咨嗟,大禹理百川,

7. The Yellow River flows westward, surging past the Kunlun Mountains, roaring for thousands of miles to touch the Longmen Gorge. Waves surge to the sky, Yao sighs, and Da Yu governs a hundred rivers.

8. 有多少人因为看了一本书而开始人生中的新阶段。——亨利·戴维·梭罗

8. How many people have started a new phase in their lives after reading a book. — Henry David Thoreau

9. 耐人回味的话、得之坦然,失之淡然,顺其自然,争其必然。、马在松软的土地上易失蹄,人在甜言蜜语中易摔跤。、运气就是机会碰巧撞到了你的努力。、如果不读书,行万里路也不过是个邮差。、所谓门槛,过去了就是门,没过去就成了槛。、视爱情为奢侈品,有最好,没有也能活。

9. Words that linger in the mind: take it calmly when you gain it, and be indifferent when you lose it. Go with the flow and strive for the inevitable. Horses are prone to stumbling on soft ground, and people are easy to fall prey to sweet words. Luck is just an opportunity that happens to collide with your efforts. Without reading, traveling ten thousand miles is nothing but being a postman. What we call the threshold, once you cross it, it becomes a door; if you don't, it becomes an obstacle. Treat love as a luxury; if you have it, it's great; if you don't, you can still live.

10. 在时光中辗转反侧,经历了诸多的人情冷暖和世态炎凉,逐渐明白父母对自己的爱,是唯一不会有条件和计较的感情。 ----安妮宝贝《蔷薇岛屿》

10. Rolling and tossing in the passage of time, having experienced numerous changes in people's emotions and the vicissitudes of life, I gradually understand that the love of my parents for me is the only affection that does not have conditions or calculations. ----Annie Baobei, "The Rose Island"

11. 37我们说这执子之手,又有多少人与子携老。

11. 37 We say that we hold your hand, but how many people will grow old with you.

12. 44一个人的快乐,不是因为他拥有的多,而是因为他计较的少。

12. A person's happiness does not lie in the abundance of what they possess, but in the lessening of what they are concerned with.

13. 人的一生谈三次恋爱足矣,一次懵懂,一次刻骨,一次一生

13. In a person's life, three love affairs are enough: one in confusion, one deeply engraved, and one for a lifetime.

14. 爱是生活浪漫的开始,心中有爱,何惧寒冬。当你想抱怨工作的时候,想一想工作会给你经济上的安全感,自我专业能力价值的归属感;当你想要抱怨爱你的人,想一想你们是因为爱而在一起,如果爱,别伤害。如果不爱,请放手。不离不弃的陪伴是最长情的告白;当你想要抱怨父母的时候,想一想,他们的生养之恩,成为家人,是多大的缘分。

14. Love is the beginning of romance in life. With love in your heart, what is there to fear in the cold winter? When you want to complain about your job, think about how it brings you economic security and a sense of belonging to your professional skills and value; when you want to complain about the people who love you, remember that you are together because of love. If love, don't hurt. If not, please let go. Unwavering companionship is the longest declaration of love; when you want to complain about your parents, think about the恩 of their upbringing, and how being a family member is a great destiny.

15. 奋斗,是一种乐趣;追求,是一种动力;助人,是一种储蓄;吃亏,是一种积累;谦和,是一种修养;宽容,是一种境界;忍让,是一着妙棋;冷静,是一副良药;嫉妒,是一支毒箭;私欲,是一条祸根;冲动,是一个魔鬼;挫折,是一种磨练;点评,是一种支持;转播,是一种美德。

15. Striving is a form of joy; pursuing is a source of motivation; helping others is a form of savings; suffering a loss is a way of accumulation; modesty is a kind of cultivation; tolerance is a state of being; patience is a brilliant move; calmness is a good medicine; jealousy is a poison arrow; desire for personal gain is a root of disaster; impetuosity is a devil;挫折 is a form of tempering; critique is a form of support; broadcasting is a virtue.

16. 2不做欲望的奴隶,人心不足蛇吞象,时刻警惕不良欲望。

16. 2 Do not become a slave to desires; as human desires are insatiable, like a snake that swallows an elephant, be constantly vigilant against bad desires.

17. 仰望,可以在你踯躅时为你提供照亮前路的光芒;仰望,可以在你潦倒时基于你奋然前行的力量;仰望,可以在你跌倒时向你伸出有力的援手;仰望,可以在你受伤时为你抚平伤口,重燃不屈的目光!

17. Look up, it can provide you with the light to illuminate your path when you hesitate; look up, it can rely on your determination to forge ahead when you are in despair; look up, it can extend a strong hand to help you when you fall; look up, it can soothe your wounds and reignite an unyielding gaze when you are injured!

18. 满地黄花堆积。憔悴损,如今有谁堪摘守著窗儿,独自怎生得黑

18. Piles of withered chrysanthemums scattered on the ground. Withered and damaged, now who is worthy to pick them? Sitting by the window alone, how can one bear the darkness?

19. 我们曾渴望命运的波澜,到最后才发现,人生最曼妙的风景,竟是内心的淡定与从容;我们曾期盼外界的认可,到最后才知道,世界是自己的,与他人毫无关系;我们曾计较付出的回报,到最后才懂得,一切得到终将失去的,只能空留一抹浮名。走好选择的路,别选择好走的路,你才能拥有真正的自己。

19. We had longed for the ups and downs of fate, only to find out in the end that the most charming scenery in life is the calmness and composure within; we had longed for recognition from the outside world, only to discover in the end that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others; we had been concerned about the returns for our efforts, only to understand in the end that everything gained will eventually be lost, leaving behind only a faint reputation. Walk the path of your choice, not the easy path, and you will truly possess yourself.

20. 惟有楼前流水,应念我、终日凝眸。凝眸处,从今又添,一段新愁。

20. Only the flowing water in front of the building, should you remember, I have been gazing at it all day long. Where I have been gazing, from now on, there is an additional, a new sorrow.

21. 笑了,醉了,空余恨,浅了,淡了,叹唏嘘;感慨万千,几度繁华,此情谁知?花开水自流,山高鸟翱翔,此乐谁懂?一曲高山流水,醉了山水醉人儿;恬淡幽静,人影依稀,虽繁华不再,但这便是我愿,洒脱不羁,不想世俗困扰,只愿与恬静,寂静为伴,不要太多的不堪与无奈,人情薄,世态炎凉,别太善良,只做我自己,过我自己想要的生活足矣,无所求

21. Laughter, intoxication, lingering resentment, becoming shallow, fading, sighing; countless regrets, several times of prosperity, who knows this feeling? Flowers bloom, water flows freely, mountains are high, birds soar, who understands this joy? A melody of mountains and rivers, intoxicates both the scenery and the people; tranquil and serene, the shadow of a person is faint, though prosperity is no more, this is my wish, carefree and unbound, not wanting to be troubled by the mundane, just wishing to be accompanied by tranquility and silence, not wanting too much suffering and helplessness, people's kindness is thin, the world is cold, don't be too kind, just be myself, live the life I want is enough, without any desires.

22. 十二、我们拥有的一切都是自己造成的,可是只有成功者会这样承认。

22. Twelve, everything we possess is something we have created ourselves, but only the successful will admit this.

23. 红藕香残玉簟秋,轻解罗裳,独上兰舟。云中谁寄锦书来雁字回时,月满西楼。

23. The red lotus fragrance fades, the jade mat feels autumnal, I lightly untie my silk dress and board the orchid boat alone. Who sends a silken letter from the clouds, the wild geese return with the character of their call? The moon is full on the western pavilion.

24. 45永远不要辜负自己的心,因为只有它才会给你最真的温暖。

24. Never disappoint your own heart, for it is the only one that will give you the truest warmth.

25. 35我不会对生活失去希望,因为我始终相信明天会更好。

25. I will not lose hope in life, because I always believe that tomorrow will be better.

26. 12路是自己选的,所以即使以后会跌倒,会受伤,也都要学会自己承受,自己疗伤。我们都是这样,学会长大的。

26. I chose the 12th route myself, so even if I fall and get hurt in the future, I must learn to bear it and heal myself. We all learn to grow up this way.

27. 生活的起起落落,一定要观察每一个念头是否能应用。念头里多一份柔和,多一份承担。是烦恼总是浮云,在烦恼里拧巴,不值得

27. The ups and downs of life require observing whether each thought can be applied. A thought with a touch of gentleness and more responsibility. The烦恼 are just floating clouds; twisting in them is not worth it.

28. 幸福不是等来的,爱一个人就要大胆去表白,只要你努力争取过,以后就不会后悔;如果因为你的沉默,而错过了一份美好的爱情,难么你可能会一生耿耿于怀。心里有爱就要大声说出来,只有你勇敢地表达自己的爱,爱情才不会有遗憾。

28. Happiness doesn't wait for you to come. If you love someone, you should dare to express it. As long as you have made an effort to pursue it, you will not regret it in the future; if you miss out on a beautiful love due to your silence, you might carry the regret throughout your life. If you have love in your heart, you should express it loudly. Only when you courageously express your love will there be no regrets in love.

29. 贾氏窥帘韩掾少,宓妃留枕魏王才。春心莫共花争发,一寸相思一寸灰。

29. Jia's eyes peer through the curtain at Han Yu, the young official; Fei妃 leaves her pillow for the talent of King Wei. Do not compete with the flowers in spring desire; every inch of longing is a measure of the fading ashes.

30. 十三、一个在办公室里散播阳光和喜乐的人,则具有黄金般贵重的身价。

30. Thirteen, a person who spreads sunshine and joy in an office has a gold-like precious value.

31. 习惯就是习惯,不是随随便便就能扔出窗外的;要想抛弃就习惯,你只能一次一个台阶,慢慢把它拖下楼梯。——马克·吐温

31. Habit is habit, and not easily thrown out of the window; if you would throw out a habit, you must take it down a step at a time, and see it down the stairs slowly.—Mark Twain

32. 13不计较别人的评价,没有一幅画是不被别人评价的,没有一个人是不被别人议论的。

32. 13 Do not be concerned about others' opinions. No painting is without being evaluated by others, and no one is without being talked about by others.

33. 你对别人(包括自己)的抱怨从来都无法带来积极的改变。

33. Complaining about others (including yourself) never brings about positive change.

34. 51终于有了那把打开你心的钥匙,这才发现你已经丢了心。

34. At last, you have found the key to unlock your heart, only then did you realize that you had already lost your heart.

35. 生活的智慧与环境无关,包容这世间千差万别。岁月里谁也不是十项全能,真正的快乐和幸福,是发现别人还有许许多多的长处。

35. The wisdom of life has nothing to do with the environment and embraces the myriad differences in this world. In the passage of time, no one is a Jack of all trades. True happiness and joy come from discovering that others have countless strengths.

36. 我能原谅你的变心,却无法原谅自己对你一次又一次的放纵

36. I can forgive you for your infidelity, but I cannot forgive myself for indulging in you time and time again.

37. 真心爱你的人不会对你忽冷忽热。真心追你的人不会跟你玩暧昧。

37. A person who truly loves you will not be cold and hot towards you. A person who truly chases you will not play around with you in ambiguity.

38. 14每个人都会累,没人能为你承担所有的伤悲和疲惫,所以人总有那么一段时间要学会自己长大。

38. 14 Everyone gets tired, no one can bear all your sorrows and fatigue, so there is always a period of time when one has to learn to grow up on their own.

39. 太岁头上动土,老虎嘴里拔牙是万万不可能的。但如果太岁和老虎要你的命的话,你还动不动?拔不拔?

39. It is absolutely impossible to dig into the Tai Sui's head or pull a tooth from a tiger's mouth. But if the Tai Sui or the tiger is trying to take your life, would you still hesitate to move or pull it out?

40. 人生,要懂得感恩。感恩,不一定是感谢大恩大德,而是一种生活态度,是一种善良的人性美。心存感恩,生活中才会少了许多怨气和烦恼。有感恩的心,你才会有好的心态,发现更多的美好。

40. Life, one must learn to be grateful. Gratitude is not necessarily about expressing thanks for great kindness, but it is a lifestyle, a beauty of human nature. With a heart of gratitude, there will be fewer grievances and worries in life. With a grateful heart, you will have a good mindset and discover more beauty.

41. 做人难,做事难,面对千难万阻,要提升自我。如果事有勉强,应该敢于说不;如果是正当利益,则应当仁不让;甚至有时还得来点霸王硬上弓,要有脸皮厚的时候,也要有头皮硬的时候。

41. It's difficult to be a person, and it's difficult to do things. When faced with myriad difficulties and obstacles, one must enhance oneself. If a situation is forced, one should dare to say no; if it's a legitimate interest, one should not hesitate to take it. Sometimes, one even has to be as stubborn as a mule and force one's way through. There are times to have thick skin, and there are times to have a hard head.

42. 二十一、要想改变一个人,首先,你就要改变自己对他的看法-这是改变你别人的唯一途径。

42. Twenty-first, if you want to change a person, first and foremost, you must change your perception of them - this is the only way to change others.

43. 三、自己便是一种最好的祝福

43. Thirdly, oneself is the best blessing!

44. 对小人一定要忍让,退一步海阔天空,实在不行把属于自己的空间也送给他们。大人需要大度量,不把俗事放在心里,小人鼠肚鸡肠,惹着小人就等与惹了麻烦,天底下顶数小人惹不起。

44. Always be tolerant of the little people, step back a bit and there will be room for the sea and sky. If things really can't be helped, even give them your own space. The wise need a big heart, not to let trivial matters weigh on their mind. The little people are as cunning as mice and as narrow-minded as chickens, offending a little person is akin to inviting trouble, and there's no one in the world more difficult to deal with than the little people.

45. 当一扇快乐之门关上时,另一扇就会开启;但我们常常会长时间地停留在关闭的门前,而没有看到另一扇为自己开启的门。——海伦·凯勒

45. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we so linger in the shadow of the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. - Helen Keller

46. 保持心理健康的方法,就是要随时随地寻找事物好的方面。——拉尔夫·沃尔多·爱默生

46. The way to maintain mental health is to seek the good in things at all times and in all places. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

47. 抱怨:表达哀伤、痛苦或不满。——《韦氏词典》

47. Complaint: The expression of sorrow, pain, or dissatisfaction.—Webster's Dictionary

48. 7做自强不息的人,贫困常与潦倒相连,人穷常与志短相关,唯有自信自强,好日子才会到来。

48. Be a person who never gives up. Poverty is often connected with adversity, and poverty is often associated with a lack of ambition. Only with self-confidence and self-improvement will good days come.

49. 每一段感情,都要经历期盼与失望,陌生与熟悉,自由与束缚,犹豫与坚定,甜蜜与心碎哭泣和伤痛并不重要,只要我们曾经微笑,事后有过思念,那么你还是对这个人有感情的,然后我们可以再去回忆或者继续寻找。没有一种爱是不需要反复验证就可以成功的,所以我们不必失望。

49. Every relationship must go through phases of anticipation and disappointment, of unfamiliarity and familiarity, of freedom and constraint, of hesitation and determination. Sweetness and heartbreak, tears and pain are not important. What matters is that we once smiled, and afterwards had thoughts about the person. Then, you still have feelings for this person, and we can go back to reminiscing or continue to seek. No love is successful without repeated verification, so we should not be disappointed.

50. 如果你一直说不好的事情将会发生,那么很有可能它真的会发生。——伊萨克·巴舍维斯·辛格

50. If you keep saying that bad things are going to happen, they are more likely to actually happen. - Isaac Bashevis Singer

51. 不要让别人看出你的天真,如果你不懂,就跑远一些;不要评价别人的容貌,因为他不靠你吃饭;不要评价别人的德行,因为你不比他高尚;不要评价别人的家庭,因为那和你无关;不要评价别人的学问,因为世上最不缺的就是学问。

51. Don't let others see your innocence; if you don't understand, move away a bit; don't judge others' appearances, as they don't rely on you for a living; don't judge others' virtues, as you are not necessarily nobler than they are; don't judge others' families, as it has nothing to do with you; and don't judge others' knowledge, because the world is not lacking in knowledge.

52. 怅卧新春白夹衣,白门寥落意多违。红楼隔雨相望冷,珠箔飘灯独自归。

52. Lying listlessly in spring's white interlining robe, the white gate seems desolate and my thoughts are filled with regret. The red mansion is separated by rain, looking cold from afar, and the pearls of lanterns fluttering as I return alone.

53. 做人如水,无论何时何地,总是改变自己的形态不断寻找出路;不拒绝任何加盟的沙石和物障,反而是夹裹前行,壮大自己的力量,勇往直前。

53. To be like water, always changing one's form and seeking a way out at all times and places; not rejecting any sand and stones or obstacles that join in, but embracing them to move forward, strengthening one's own power, and proceeding courageously.

54. 16明明一个人,却伪装这你很坚强,每天的强颜欢笑,又能怎样?最后还不是一个人的落寞。

54. 16 alone, yet pretend that you are very strong, forced smiles every day, what good does it do? In the end, it's still loneliness for one person.

55. 我们是平凡的普通人,不会有一蹴而就的成功。在生活中,慢慢成长自己,每天进步一点,时间累积,自然会有收获的果实。万般情绪,唯有自己是快乐的源头,快不快乐,轻不轻松都源于自己的心态。珍惜当下,不惧未来。

55. We are ordinary people, and success does not come overnight. In life, we gradually grow and make a little progress every day. With time accumulating, there will naturally be fruits of our labor. Among all emotions, only oneself is the source of happiness. Whether we are happy or not, and whether it is easy or not, all come from our own mindset. Cherish the present and fear not the future.

56. 长相不令人讨厌,如果长得不好,就让自己有才气;如果才气也没有,那就总是微笑。

56. If you don't look unattractive, it's okay; if you do, let yourself have talent; and if you don't have talent, then always smile.

57. 最近在阅读《不抱怨的世界》,

58. 如果你看不惯某种东西,那就改变它。如果你无法改变它,那就改变自己的态度。不要抱怨——马娅·安杰卢

57. Recently, I've been reading "The World Is Not Enough to Complain About." 58. If there's something you can't stand, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain — Maya Angelou

59. 胭脂作为风月场中受尽追捧的名伶,看惯了痴男怨女,尝尽了世态炎凉,秦政之于她,不过是万千恩客中的一位,顶多算得上之音,这样的女人,心冷心硬,对情爱早已看淡。

59. As a renowned actress who has been highly sought after in the world of pleasure, she has seen through the foolish and complaining lovers and tasted the vicissitudes of life. To Qin Zheng, she is just one among thousands of patrons, at most a talented performer. Such a woman, with a cold and hard heart, has long since grown indifferent to love and affection.

60. 还有哪一种颜色能比黑色更美丽?百种颜色皆属于它。光影世界,水墨世界,还有这世态炎凉的世界。

60. Is there any color more beautiful than black? All colors belong to it. The world of light and shadow, the world of ink wash, and also this world with its changing seasons.

61. 人生的价值,并不是用时间,而是用深度去衡量的。--列夫托尔斯泰

61. The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. -- Leo Tolstoy

62. 风波不信菱枝弱,月露谁教桂叶香。直道相思了无益,未妨惆怅是轻狂。

62. The waves do not believe the weakness of the water lily branches, and who taught the osmanthus leaves the fragrance of moon and dew? Straightforward longing brings no benefit, and it is no harm to feel melancholic and youthful.

63. 真正的爱,并非相互凝视,而是共同朝同一方向凝视。

63. True love is not about gazing into each other's eyes, but about gazing in the same direction together.

64. 人贵有成人之美、乐善好施、助人为乐、急公好义之美德,贵有两肋插刀之义气,但是,我们都是红尘俗子,所以我们要认清自己的能力,承诺时要给自己留点余地和退路,毋庸置疑,一个言必行,行必果一诺千金的人,一定是有诚信和威信之人,无论他走到哪里都会受人欢迎和尊敬。

64. It is valuable to possess the virtues of being a mature adult, being benevolent and generous, taking joy in helping others, and being quick to assist in public affairs. It is also valuable to have the spirit of loyalty that is willing to stab oneself for the sake of others. However, we are all mere mortals living in the mundane world, so we must recognize our own abilities. When making promises, we should leave ourselves some room and an exit strategy. There is no doubt that a person who always keeps their word and whose actions always yield results is someone of integrity and authority, who will be welcomed and respected wherever they go.

65. 风住尘香花已尽,日晚倦梳头。物是人非事事休,欲语泪先流。

65. The wind stops, the dust smells of flowers, and they have all ended; in the evening, I am weary of combing my hair. Things have changed, people have changed, and all things are at rest; when I want to speak, tears flow first.

66. 38我们总是抓着走远的不放,还念着走开的人,伤害靠近的人。

66. 38 We always hold on to those who have moved away and think of those who have left, while hurting those who are close by.

67. 当别人通过抱怨来引人艳羡,你应该转而赞美他,,说他拥有与那个缺点相反的优点。

67. When others attract admiration through complaining, you should turn around and praise them, saying they possess the opposite virtue to that flaw.

68. 安静的心是最高的品质,它是没有分界的,是完整的、纯洁无染的。它就是全神贯注、觉察力、爱和最高的智慧。

68. A quiet mind is the highest quality, it is boundless, complete, and pure. It is all absorption, awareness, love, and the highest wisdom.

69. 人生嘛!就是看透了的世态炎凉,道不尽的铁马沧桑,尝不尽人间苦难!

69. Life is about seeing through the cold and indifferent nature of the world, the endless tales of the iron horse and its age-old journey, and the unending suffering of humanity!

70. 流过泪的眼睛更明亮 滴过血的心灵更坚强

70. Eyes that have shed tears shine brighter, and hearts that have bled grow stronger.

71. 愚昧人若静默不言,也可算为智慧。闭口不说,也可算为聪明。

71. If a fool is silent and does not speak, it can be considered wisdom. To keep silent can also be seen as cleverness.

72. 我想为你沏壶茶 称它散温的时候好好听你说说心里话

72. I'd like to brew some tea for you and take the time to listen to what's on your mind while it cools.