1. 关心他人和其他人际关系的原则是一样的，必须真诚不仅是付出关心的人，也是接受关心的人。-卡耐基

1. The principles of caring for others and interpersonal relationships are the same; sincerity is required not only from those who offer concern but also from those who receive it. - Carnegie

2. “我遇见的每个人都必定在某一方面胜于我，正因如此，我像每个人学习。”

2. "Every person I meet must be superior to me in some way, which is why I learn from everyone."

3. 奇怪的是，当幸福在我们面前时，我们很少珍惜它，但直到它消失，我们才意识到。-卡耐基

3. Curiously, when happiness is before us, we seldom cherish it, but it is not until it disappears that we realize it. - Carnegie

4. 要想成功，必须具备的条件就是，用你的欲望提升自己的热忱，用你的毅力磨平高山，同时还要相信自己一定会成功。

4. The conditions necessary for success are to elevate your enthusiasm with your desires, to flatten mountains with your perseverance, and at the same time, to believe in your own certainty of success.

5. 我们虽然是平常的人，但不代表我们就该承受折磨。我们唯一能做的是正视生活本身，在经历中不断学习，以确保未来不会发生憾事。

5. Although we are ordinary people, it doesn't mean we should endure suffering. The only thing we can do is to face life itself, continuously learn from our experiences, and ensure that there will be no regrets in the future.

6. 我们很少想到我们已经拥有的，但总是想到我们没有的，这是世界上最大的悲剧，它可能比历史上所有的战争和疾病都更痛苦。-卡内基

6. We seldom think of what we have, but always of what we lack; this is the greatest tragedy of the world, which may be more painful than all the wars and diseases in history. - Carnegie

7. 我们之所以感到疲劳，是因为我们的情绪使我们的身体紧张。

7. The reason we feel tired is because our emotions make our bodies tense.

8. “不甘平庸，崇尚奋斗”生命的价值是需要用努力奋斗来实现的，从踏入这个世界开始我们就被赋予了一种无形的责任，或轻或重，演绎了不同的人生。每一个人都有属于自己的生命轨迹，我们在一旁观看，观看他人的欢喜或忧愁。

8. "Not content with mediocrity, cherishing struggle" The value of life needs to be realized through hard work and struggle. From the moment we step into this world, we are endowed with an intangible responsibility, light or heavy, which unfolds different lives. Everyone has their own life轨迹, and we watch from the side, watching others' joy or sorrow.

9. 最好在散步时忘记烦恼。你不妨出来试试。所有的烦恼都会像翅膀一样飞走。-卡耐基

9. It's best to forget your troubles while taking a walk. Why not give it a try? All your troubles will fly away like wings. - Carnegie

10. 人与人的交往中，你把对方看成一朵花，你就会感到快乐；而你如果把对方看成仙人掌，你就会感到痛苦。

10. In your interactions with others, if you regard the person as a flower, you will feel joy; but if you see them as a cactus, you will experience pain.

11. 莎士比亚曾说：事无善恶，思想使然。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

11. Shakespeare once said: "Whether a thing is good or bad depends on one's thought." - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Living."

12. 人的天性之一，就是不会接受别人的批评，总是认为自己永远是对的，喜欢找各种各样的借口为自己辩解。-卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

12. One of human nature's characteristics is that people are unwilling to accept criticism from others, always believing that they are always right, and like to find all sorts of excuses to defend themselves. - Carnegie, "The Weaknesses of Human Nature."

13. 忘恩负义乃是人的天性，如果你非要期望别人感恩，那多半是庸人自扰。

13. Ungratefulness is human nature. If you insist on expecting others to be grateful, you're likely causing unnecessary trouble for yourself.

14. 心灵的成熟过程是持续不断的自我发现、自我探寻的过程除非我们先了解自己否则我们很难去了解别人。-卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

14. The process of spiritual maturity is a continuous journey of self-discovery and self-exploration; unless we first understand ourselves, it is difficult for us to understand others. - Carnegie's "The Human Weaknesses."

15. 如果你拥有某种权力，那不算什么；如果你拥有一颗富于同情的心，那你就会获得许多权力所无法获得的人心。

15. If you possess some power, it's nothing; but if you have a heart full of sympathy, you will gain the hearts of people that power cannot obtain.

16. “漠视同胞之人，生活最为艰辛，给周遭带来的伤害也最为深痛，置身于这样的环境，人类命运就如堕入寒冬，生机难复。”

16. "Those who disregard their fellow countrymen lead the most arduous lives and cause the deepest wounds to those around them. In such an environment, the fate of humanity is as if it has fallen into a harsh winter, where vitality is hard to recover."

17. 人们在逆境中适应环境的能力是惊人的。人们可以忍受不幸或克服不幸，因为人们有惊人的潜力，只要他们决心发挥它，他们就能克服困难。-卡内基

17. The ability of people to adapt to adverse conditions is astonishing. People can endure misfortune or overcome it because they have incredible potential, and as long as they are determined to tap into it, they can overcome difficulties. - Carnegie

18. ldquo;让我们记住，我们所相处的对象，并不是绝对理性的动物，而且充满了情绪变化、成见、自负和虚荣的东西。无论你再怎么崇拜的人，他都有这样东西，只是明显与不明显而已。

18. "Let us remember that the beings we interact with are not absolutely rational animals, but are filled with emotional fluctuations, biases, egotism, and vanity. No matter how much you may idolize someone, they all have these traits, just to varying degrees of prominence."

19. 赢得友谊和影响他人最有效的方法之一就是认真对待他人的想法，让他觉得自己很重要。-卡内基

19. One of the most effective ways to win friendships and influence others is to take their thoughts seriously and make them feel important. - Carnegie

20. 心灵的成熟过程是持续不断的自我发现、自我探寻的过程除非我们先了解自己否则我们很难去了解别人。

20. The process of spiritual maturity is a continuous journey of self-discovery and self-exploration. Unless we first understand ourselves, it is difficult for us to understand others.

21. 我们必须信仰某些事物。但是，假如我们没有就此信仰去采取行动，一切仍然无用。只有信心而没有作为，是无济于事的。人不是因为没有信心而跌倒，而是因为不能把信念化成行动，并且不顾一切地坚持到底。当然，仅有信仰并不足以使我们成熟。

21. We must believe in certain things. However, if we do not take action based on our beliefs, everything is still futile. Faith without action is of no help. People do not fall because of a lack of faith, but because they cannot transform their beliefs into action and persist regardless of everything. Of course, faith alone is not enough to make us mature.

22. 如果你被批评，请记住，那是因为批评你会给他一种重要感，也说明你是有成就，引人注意的，很多人凭借指责比自己更有成就的人得到满足感。

22. If you are criticized, remember that it is because criticism of you gives him a sense of importance, and also indicates that you are accomplished and noticeable. Many people derive a sense of satisfaction from blaming those who are more accomplished than themselves.

23. 在纷繁复杂的现代社会，只有能保持内心平静的人，才不会变成神经病。不知道如何抗拒忧虑的人就会寿命减少。再没有什么比忧虑使一个女人老得更快，而摧毁她的容貌。

23. In the complex and intricate modern society, only those who can maintain inner peace will not become mentally ill. Those who don't know how to resist worry will have a shorter lifespan. There is nothing more capable of making a woman age faster and destroying her appearance than worry.

24. 如果你有某种权力，那没什么；如果你有一颗富有同情心，你会得到很多权力得不到的人的心。-卡耐基

24. If you have some power, that's nothing; if you have a heart full of sympathy, you will win the hearts of many people who cannot be won with power. - Carnegie

25. 许多寂寞孤独的人，之所以会如此，是因为他们不了解爱和友谊并非是从天而降的礼物，一个人要想得到他人的欢迎或被人接纳，一定要付出许多努力和代价，要想让别人喜欢，我们的确需要尽点心力情爱、友谊或快乐的时光，都不是一纸契约所能规定的。

25. Many lonely and isolated individuals are so because they do not understand that love and friendship are not gifts that fall from the sky. One must put in a lot of effort and pay a price to be welcomed or accepted by others. To win others' favor, we indeed need to invest some effort and emotional care. Love, friendship, or happy times are not something that can be stipulated by a contract.

26. 我所学到的最大经验是，我们的思想最重要。如果我能了解你的思想，就能了解你这个人，因为你的思想造就了你这个人，通过改变自己的思想，我们就能改变自己的一生。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

26. The greatest lesson I have learned is that our thoughts are the most important. If I can understand your thoughts, I can understand who you are, because your thoughts shape who you are. By changing our thoughts, we can change our entire lives. - Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

27. 打动人心的最高明的办法，是跟他谈论他最珍贵的事物。

27. The most sophisticated way to touch someone's heart is to talk about the things they hold most precious.

28. 我的座右铭是:一是诚实，二是勤奋，三是专业工作。-卡耐基

28. My motto is: honesty first, diligence second, and professional work third. - Carnegie

29. 许多人无法成为一名良好的与人交流者，主要是他们只会谈他们自己感兴趣的事情，而这些事情却令其他人感到无聊透顶。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

29. Many people are unable to become good communicators because they only talk about things that interest them, which others find utterly boring. - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Human Engineering."

30. 天下最悲哀的人莫过于本身没有足以炫耀的优点，却又将其可怜的自卑感，以令人生厌的自大、自夸来掩饰。

30. The most pitiful person in the world is one who lacks any worthy qualities to boast about, yet tries to conceal their可怜 sense of inferiority with an obnoxious sense of pride and self-conceit.

31. 通常，当人们说出温和话语的时候，行为必然也会自然地反映出温和的态度，于是平和之心的力量也将从中孕育而生。

31. Usually, when people speak in gentle words, their actions will also naturally reflect a gentle attitude, and the power of a peaceful heart will also arise from it.

32. 比自身生命更高贵的奉献精神，会带来真正的成功与快乐，会带来更多朋友。

32. The spirit of dedication that surpasses one's own life will bring about true success and happiness, and will attract more friends.

33. 许多人无法成为一名良好的与人交流者，主要是他们只会谈他们自己感兴趣的事情，而这些事情却令其他人感到无聊透顶。

33. Many people cannot become good communicators mainly because they only talk about things that interest them, which others find utterly boring.

34. 你如果在别人责备你之前，就承认错误。对方想要说的话，你已替他说了，他就没有话可说，那你有99%的机会获得他的谅解。

34. If you admit to your mistakes before someone else rebukes you, you have already said what they were going to say, leaving them with nothing to say. In this case, you have a 99% chance of gaining their forgiveness.

35. 获得善意的一个简单、明显、最重要的方法就是记住别人的名字，让别人觉得对别人很重要。-卡内基

35. One simple, obvious, and most important way to obtain good will is to remember people's names and make them feel that they are important to others. - Carnegie

36. 快乐是有传染性的，而只有使别人快乐才能让自己快乐。

36. Happiness is contagious, and one can only be happy by making others happy.

37. 只有愚蠢的人，才会批评人、斥责人和抱怨人，但若要宽恕和了解他人，那就需要在人格及克己上下工夫了。

37. Only foolish people would criticize, rebuke, and complain about others. However, to forgive and understand others, one must work on their character and self-discipline.

38. 习俗总是金钱这句话，所以盗窃别人的小偷，当然，应该受到惩罚，即使是那些兴奋的好人，仍然应该逃避他们。-卡内基

38. The saying that custom is always money, so the thief who steals from others should certainly be punished, even though they may be excited good people, they should still escape from them. - Carnegie

39. 所以，请告诉我们你所认识的两个人的故事，告诉我们为何其中一个会成功，而另一个人却失败了。我们会很高兴去听。同时请记得，我们或者还能因为此例而获益匪浅。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

39. Therefore, please tell us the stories of two people you know, and explain why one succeeded while the other failed. We would be delighted to listen. And remember, we might also gain a great deal of insight from this example. - Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

40. 做一个善于倾听的人，鼓励别人谈论自己。-卡耐基

40. Be a good listener, and encourage others to talk about themselves. - Carnegie

41. 一个人的事业成功与否，完全在他对这项事业是否感兴趣，而不是用苦干去打开的成功大门。

41. Whether a person's career is successful or not depends entirely on their interest in this field, not on the success gained through hard work.

42. 一个不容否认的事实就是，凡是你遇见的人，都会觉得他们在某方面比你强。巧妙地承认对方的重要性，并由衷地表达出来，就会使你得到他的友谊。

42. An undeniable fact is that everyone you meet will seem to be superior to you in some aspect. By cleverly acknowledging the importance of the other person and sincerely expressing it, you will gain his friendship.

43. 这才需要智慧，才能显示出人的上智下愚。人具有一种反败为胜的力量。尼采：优秀杰出的人不仅能忍人所不能忍，并且乐于进行这种挑战。我们最大的弱点，也许会给我们提供一种出乎意料的助力。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点全集》。

43. This requires wisdom to reveal the upper and lower intelligence of humans. Humans possess the power to turn defeat into victory. Nietzsche: Outstanding individuals not only endure what others cannot bear but also take pleasure in this challenge. Our greatest weakness may provide us with an unexpected help. - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Living: The Complete Collection of Dale Carnegie's Books on Human Weakness."

44. 人的天性之一，就是不会接受别人的批评，总是认为自己永远是对的，喜欢找各种各样的借口为自己辩解。

44. One of the inherent traits of human nature is that people tend not to accept criticism from others, always believing they are always right, and enjoying finding various excuses to defend themselves.

45. 让我们面对现实无论是丈夫死了或太太过世活着的人，都有权利再快乐地活下去，但是，他们必须了解幸福，并不是靠别人来布施，而是要自己去赢取别人对你的需求和喜爱。-卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

45. Let's face it, whether a husband has passed away or a wife has passed on, the living have the right to live happily again. However, they must understand that happiness does not come from others bestowing it upon them, but rather from winning others' needs and affections for themselves. - Carnegie, "The Human Weaknesses."

46. 他们不会去乞怜，不会绝望，也不会去找借口逃避。不成熟的人随时可以把自己与众不同的地方看成是缺陷、是障碍，然后期望自己能受到特别的待遇。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点全集》。

46. They will not beg for sympathy, will not despair, nor will they seek excuses to avoid responsibility. Immature people can always view their differences as flaws or obstacles and then expect to be treated specially. - Dale Carnegie, "The Whole Art of Being Human."

47. 人生如行路，一路艰辛，一路风景。你的目光所及，就是你的人生境界。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路；总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。与其埋怨，不如思变。

47. Life is like walking a path, filled with hardships and scenery along the way. The realm of your vision is your level of life. If you always see people who are better than you, it means you are on the upward slope; if you always see people who are worse than you, it means you are on the downward slope. It's better to think of change than to complain.

48. 冷静分析过去的错误，试图从中受益，然后忘记它，这是过去唯一具有建设性意义的做法。-卡耐基

48. Analyzing past mistakes calmly, trying to benefit from them, and then forgetting them is the only constructive thing that can be done with the past. - Carnegie

49. 庸俗的人在伟人的错误和愚行中能得到自己最大的快感。

49. The vulgar find their greatest pleasure in the mistakes and foolishness of the great.

50. 记住人家的名字，而且很轻易地叫出来，等于给别人一个巧妙而有效的赞美。

50. Remembering people's names and easily calling them out is equivalent to giving someone a clever and effective compliment.

51. 成功者和失败者最大的区别在于，成功者会试图从失败中受益，然后尝试其他方法——卡耐基

51. The biggest difference between successful people and failures is that successful people will try to benefit from failure and then attempt other methods - Carnegie

52. 人不是因为没有信念而失败，而是因为不能把信念化成行动，并且坚持到底。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

52. People do not fail because they lack beliefs, but because they cannot turn their beliefs into action and persevere to the end. - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Being Human."

53. 能够把心中的烦闷向知心朋友倾吐的人，通常既是能够把握快乐，减少疲劳，精力充沛的人。

53. Those who can pour out their inner frustrations to confidants are usually people who can grasp happiness, reduce fatigue, and are full of energy.

54. 我们多数人的毛病是，当机会朝我们冲奔而来时，我们犹兀自闭着眼睛；很少人能够去追寻自己的机会，或甚至在绊倒时，还能看得见它。

54. The problem with most of us is that when opportunities come charging towards us, we stubbornly keep our eyes closed; few people are able to pursue their own opportunities, or even see them when they stumble.

55. 能让一个人开怀大笑，你已经和他的友谊之路。和你一起笑的人或多或少都喜欢你。-卡耐基

55. To be able to make someone laugh heartily, you are already on the road of friendship with them. To some extent or another, those who laugh with you like you. - Carnegie

56. 人类不会因为工作过于疲劳而死，但却会死于浪费和忧虑。

56. Humans will not die from working too hard, but they will die from waste and worry.

57. 努力接近那些了解你，信任你，鼓励你的人，这对于你日后的成功具有莫大的影响。

57. Strive to be close to those who understand you, trust you, and encourage you, as this has a significant impact on your future success.

58. 对别人好不是一种责任，它是一种享受，因为它能增进你的健康和快乐。你对别人好的时候，也就是对自己好的时候。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

58. Being good to others is not a responsibility, it is a pleasure, because it can enhance your health and happiness. When you are good to others, you are also being good to yourself. - Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

59. 如果你希望做好，你就会做好。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

59. If you want to do well, you will do well. - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Being Human."

60. 休息并不是绝对什么事情都不做，人的休息其实是对身体上某些损失的弥补。

60. Rest is not about doing absolutely nothing; in fact, human rest is the compensation for certain losses to the body.

61. 要显示一个伟大人物的伟大之处，那就要看他如何对待一个卑微的人。

61. To show the greatness of a great person, one must see how they treat a humble person.

62. 要让别人喜欢你，首先要改变对人的态度，放松精神，表情自然，微笑，让别人爱你。-卡内基

62. To make others like you, first change your attitude towards people, relax your spirit, express yourself naturally, smile, and let others love you. - Carnegie

63. 人生没有绝对的公平，却又是相对公平的。在一个天平上，你得到的越多，也必须比别人承受的更多。

63. Life is not absolutely fair, but it is relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, the more you also have to bear compared to others.

64. 人不是因为没有信念而失败，而是因为不能把信念化成行动，并且坚持到底。

64. People do not fail because they lack beliefs, but because they cannot turn their beliefs into action and persevere to the end.

65. 家里也要有礼貌。无礼是侵蚀爱情的祸水。-卡耐基

65. Politeness should also be present at home. Impoliteness is the poison that erodes love. - Carnegie

66. “走进家门的时候，请收紧下颌，高昂起头，让空气充满肺腑，让阳光沐浴身心，像朋友问好时记得微笑，握手的时候请真心诚意，不要害怕误解，也不要在敌人身上浪费一分一秒。请在脑海中牢牢记住你的心愿，径直向目的地前进，专注于你的伟大航程，你就会发现在日升月落之间，你已经不知不觉地抓住了每一次接近目标的机会，如果小小的珊瑚虫从澎湃海浪中汲取它需要的养分，请在脑海中仔细勾勒理想的形象，笃定的想法将帮助你一步步成长为那个美好真诚，才华横溢的子集。思想是至高无上的，请端正心态，学会无谓，坦率，乐观，因为正确的思想是创建一切的前提，心想是事成之因，虔诚的祷告者必将得到回应，倘若你心意坚定，你就不会迷失方向。”

66. "As you step into your home, please tighten your chin, lift your head proudly, let the air fill your lungs, and let the sunlight bathe your body and soul. Just as you remember to smile when greeting a friend, shake hands with sincerity, do not fear misunderstandings, and do not waste a single moment on an enemy. Keep your desires firmly in mind, march straight towards your destination, focus on your grand journey, and you will find that between the rising and setting of the sun and the moon, you have unknowingly seized every opportunity to approach your goal. If a tiny coral polyp draws the nutrients it needs from the surging waves, then carefully etch the image of your ideal in your mind. Your steadfast thoughts will help you grow step by step into that wonderful, sincere, and talented subset. Thoughts are the highest, so maintain a proper mindset, learn to be thoughtless, straightforward, and optimistic, because correct thoughts are the premise for creating everything. Aspirations are the cause of success, and a sincere pray-er will be answered. If you are resolute in your heart, you will not lose your direction."

67. 大多数人的问题是，当机会来临时，他们闭上眼睛，很少有人能追求自己的机会，甚至在绊倒时看不到。-卡内基

67. Most people's problem is that when opportunity comes, they close their eyes, and few are able to pursue their own opportunities, even when they stumble they can't see them. - Carnegie

68. 信仰的好处是能增强勇气，使我们在接受考验的时候，不至于临阵退却。除非我们以信仰做基础，然后付诸行动，否则任何道理原则都没有什么用处。只有行为才算数。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点全集》。

68. The benefits of faith are that it can strengthen courage, so that we do not retreat at the moment of trial. Unless we use faith as the foundation and then act upon it, any doctrine or principle is of no use. Only actions count. - Dale Carnegie, "The Whole Art of Being Human."

69. 与人相处时，我们面对的不是绝对的理性动物，而是充满了情绪变化、满腹成见、受自负和虚荣驱使的生物。

69. When dealing with others, we are not dealing with absolute rational beings, but rather with creatures filled with emotional fluctuations, steeped in preconceived notions, and driven by pride and vanity.

70. 人性之中最可悲的一件事，就是我们所有人都拖延着不去生活，都梦想着天边有一座奇妙的玫瑰园，而不能欣赏今天就盛开在我们窗外的玫瑰花。

70. One of the most tragic things about human nature is that we all procrastinate in living, dreaming of a wonderful rose garden somewhere in the distance, and fail to appreciate the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.

71. 假如我们激励我们所接触的人，让他们知道自己潜藏着的能量，那我们所做的不只是改变他们的意志，而是改变了他们的命运。

71. If we inspire the people we come into contact with, and help them to realize the hidden power within themselves, what we do is not just changing their will, but altering their destiny.

72. 把人的生活改造得更美好才重要，而不是沉溺在自怜的深渊。要承担自己行为的后果，要为自己的行为负责，而不是光踢椅子!-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点全集》。

72. It is important to transform people's lives to be better, rather than wallowing in the depths of self-pity. One should take responsibility for the consequences of their actions and be accountable for their behavior, not just kick the chair! - Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

73. 只要你真的对人感兴趣，你就会在两个月内交到很多朋友，这绝对比你想在两年内吸引别人注意的朋友好

73. As long as you are truly interested in people, you will make many friends within two months, which is definitely better than trying to attract the attention of friends in two years.

74. 你有信仰就年轻，疑惑就年老；有自信就年轻，畏惧就年老；有希望就年轻，绝望就年老；岁月使你皮肤起皱，但是失去了热忱，就损伤了灵魂。

74. You are young when you have faith, old when you doubt; young when you have confidence, old when you are afraid; young when you have hope, old when you are desolate. Age may wrinkle your skin, but it wrinkles your soul when you lose enthusiasm.

75. 要使别人喜欢你，首先你得改变对人的态度，把精神放得轻松一点，表情自然，笑容可掬，这样别人就会对你产生喜爱的感觉了。

75. To make others like you, first you need to change your attitude towards people, relax your spirit a bit, have a natural expression, and a cheerful smile. In this way, others will develop a sense of liking for you.

76. 人之所以痛苦，是因为追求了错误的东西，把单纯的事情看得既复杂又严重；人之所以郁闷，是心中装进了许多杂质，不但不清理，还越装越多，阻得你喘不过气来；人之所以愚钝，是听不见别人的心声，总认为自己是世界上最聪明的人。

76. The reason why people suffer is because they pursue the wrong things, perceiving simple matters as both complex and serious; the reason why people are gloomy is because they have filled their hearts with many impurities, not only do they not clean them up, but they keep accumulating more, making it hard for them to breathe; the reason why people are dull is because they cannot hear others' voices, always thinking they are the cleverest person in the world.

77. 你希望别人怎么待你，你就该怎样的对待别人。-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

77. Treat others as you would like them to treat you. - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Being Popular."

78. 不要逃避看似巨大的打击。你会惊讶地发现恐惧正在消退。-卡耐基

78. Do not shy away from what seems like a huge blow. You will be surprised to find that your fear is diminishing. - Carnegie

79. 永远按照对方的观点去想，从他人的立场去看待事情，这或许会成为影响你终生事业的一个关键因素。

79. Always think from the other person's perspective, view things from the standpoint of others, and this may well become a key factor that influences your lifelong career.

80. 世界上每个人都在寻找幸福，但只有一个有效的方法，那就是控制你的思想。幸福不在乎外界，而在于内心的情况。-卡内基

80. Everyone in the world is searching for happiness, but there is only one effective method, and that is to control your thoughts. Happiness does not lie in the external world, but in the state of one's inner self. - Carnegie

81. 如果你能勇敢地承认自己的错误，你就能从中受益。因为承认错误不仅能赢得别人的尊重，还能增加你的自尊。-卡内基

81. If you can courageously admit your mistakes, you can benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes not only earns the respect of others but also increases your self-esteem. - Carnegie

82. 一件事，若能被思考，必能被思考的很清楚-戴尔·卡耐基《人性的弱点》。

82. If something can be thought about, it can be thought about very clearly - Dale Carnegie, "The Art of Being Human."

83. 你所认为的你，并非真正的你，反倒是你怎么想的，你就会变成什么样的人。

83. What you think you are is not the real you; rather, it is how you think that determines what kind of person you will become.

84. 卡耐基学名言 解除一切纠葛

84. Carnegie's Famous Sayings: Resolve all entanglements