1. 切记不要用别人的缺点惩罚自己，你觉得自己付出了，就应该得到。谁都知道感情不是等价交换的，人与人的处事原则也是千差万别的。

1. Remember not to punish yourself with others' shortcomings, because if you feel you have paid, you should be rewarded. Everyone knows that emotions are not an equivalent exchange, and people's principles of dealing with others also vary greatly.

2. 2当大部分人都在关注你飞的高不高时，只有少部分人关心你飞的累不累，这就是友情。

2.2 When most people are concerned about how high you fly, only a few care about whether you are tired or not, that is friendship.

3. 如果人表面效果来判断，爱情与其说像友谊不如说像仇恨。

3. If judged by surface appearances, love is more akin to hatred than to friendship.

4. 对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。

4. To the world, you are a person; but to someone, you are their entire world.

5. 我们一直在寻觅，寻觅，那个我们都有的结局。

5. We have been searching, searching, for that ending that we all share.

6. 爱情就像咖啡，苦涩而又香醇；爱情就像鸣曲，曲折而又动人；爱情就像酸梅，青色而又甘甜。

6. Love is like coffee, bitter yet rich and aromatic; love is like a melody, winding yet touching; love is like a sour plum, green yet sweet.

7. 人在生存每一瞬间，都是在必然性掌握之中的被动工具。——霍尔巴赫

7. In every moment of existence, man is a passive tool in the grasp of necessity. — Holbach

8. 如果幸福在于肉体的快感，那么就应当说，牛找到草料吃的时候，是幸福的。

8. If happiness lies in physical pleasure, then it should be said that the cow is happy when it finds grass to eat.

9. 孤独从一开始就注定要用一生去承担，无人能懂。

9. Solitude was destined from the very beginning to be borne throughout one's entire life, with no one able to understand.

10. 我不相信爱情，但我会接受它，因为它是一种安慰。

10. I don't believe in love, but I will accept it because it is a comfort.

11. 那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。

11. Those beautiful little fish, they even keep their eyes open when they sleep. They don't need love, and they never cry. They are my role models.

12. 在实现理想的路途中，必须排除一切干扰，特别是要看清那些美丽的诱惑。

12. On the path to realizing ideals, it is necessary to eliminate all distractions, especially to discern those beautiful temptations.

13. 还有什么比两性相爱更美丽的？

13. Is there anything more beautiful than the love between the sexes?

14. 生日是一个舞台，一次考验，一个机会。恋爱时，男人更会利用这一点；结婚后，女人更会利用这一点。

14. A birthday is a stage, a test, and an opportunity. When in love, men are more likely to take advantage of this; after marriage, women are more likely to do so.

15. 爱情不是强扭的，幸福不是天赐的。幸福的爱情需要用心去培育。

15. Love cannot be forced, and happiness is not bestowed from heaven. Happy love requires effort to nurture.

16. 是不是只有失眠感伤时你才知道我的好；是不是只有我默默的离开你才知道我爱你！

16. Is it only when you feel the sorrow of insomnia that you realize how good I am; is it only when I silently leave you that you know I love you!

17. 深情是我担不起的重担，情话只是偶然兑现的谎言。

17. Deep affection is a heavy burden I cannot bear, and love talk is just a lie that is occasionally fulfilled.

18. 运动使人充满生机活力，音乐使人充满浪漫快乐，思考使人充满智慧理智。

18. Exercise fills one with vitality and energy, music with romantic joy, and thought with wisdom and reason.

19. 有时候爱情只是因为寂寞，需要找一个人来爱，即使没有任何结局。

19. Sometimes love is just because of loneliness, the need to find someone to love, even if there is no ending.

20. 男人选择女人，目光瞄准脸蛋；女人选择男人，心思放在钱包。

20. Men choose women with a focus on their faces; women choose men with their thoughts on their wallets.

21. 爱情把我拽向这边，而理智却要把我拉向那边。

21. Love pulls me this way, while reason tries to pull me that way.

22. 友谊在别的事情上都是可靠的，在恋爱的事情上却不能信托；所以恋人们都是用他自己的唇舌。

22. Friendship is reliable in all other matters, but not in matters of love; therefore, lovers rely solely on their own tongues.

23. 聪明的女人会嫁给爱她的男人做老婆，愚蠢的女人会嫁给她爱的男人做老婆。

23. A smart woman will marry a man who loves her as a wife, while a foolish woman will marry the man she loves as a wife.

24. 当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

24. When a person does not love anyone, they can fall in love with anyone around them.

25. 真爱，不会因为伤害而有怨言；不会因为艰难而放手；也不会因为放手而去憎恨。

25. True love does not harbor grievances because of harm; it does not give up in the face of adversity; nor does it turn to hatred when it lets go.

26. 我希望活的时刻，并汲取生命中所有的精华，以免在生命结束之时，却发现自己从未活过。

26. I hope to live every moment and extract all the essence from life, so that when life comes to an end, I don't find myself to have never truly lived.

27. 10每个人出生的时候都是原创，可悲的是很多人渐渐都成了盗版。

27. 10 Each person is an original when they are born, but unfortunately, many gradually become pirated copies.

28. 每天吃一颗糖，然后告诉自己：今天的日子，果然又是甜的。

28. Eat one piece of candy every day and tell yourself: Today's day, indeed, is as sweet as can be.

29. 内心是力量的源泉对胜利不满足的渴望，对目标不吝啬的努力，对困难无止境的抗争。

29. The heart is the source of strength: the unfulfilled longing for victory, the relentless effort towards the goal, and the endless struggle against difficulties.

30. 幸福就是只要牵对了手，就算失去了方向感，也不会害怕。幸福就是只要牵对了手，就算失去了方向感，也不会害怕。

30. Happiness is about being in the right hand, even if you lose your sense of direction, you will not be afraid. Happiness is about being in the right hand, even if you lose your sense of direction, you will not be afraid.

31. 4给我物质，我就用它造出一个宇宙来。 康德

31. "Give me matter, and I will create a universe out of it." - Kant

32. 人生的经验是一步步走出来的，人生的酸甜是一口口尝出来的，人生的收获是一次次总结出来的；人的一生最可以后悔的事是没有做过什么，生活中即使失败了，尝试过了，还有什么可以遗憾的呢？

32. Life's experience is accumulated step by step, life's bitterness and sweetness are tasted mouth by mouth, and life's harvest is summarized one after another. The most regrettable thing in one's life is not having done anything. Even if you fail in life, as long as you have tried, what else is there to regret?

33. 14思就是在的思，思是在的，因为思由在发生，属于在。同时，思是在的，因为思属于在，听从在。

33. Thought is present because it is the thought of the present, and it is present because thought arises from the presence and belongs to it. Moreover, thought is present because it belongs to the presence, and it listens to the presence.

34. 肯为一个人去假装自己，也许是最细微的爱与牺牲，笑中有泪。

34. To pretend to be someone for another person may be the most subtle form of love and sacrifice, with tears hidden in laughter.

35. 孤单不是与生俱来，而是由你爱上一个人的那一刻开始。

35. Solitude is not innate, but begins the moment you fall in love with someone.

36. 11权利的相互转让就是人们所谓的契约。 霍布斯

36. The mutual transfer of rights is what people call a contract. Hobbes.

37. 生活对所有人都是平等的，只是取得的方式不同罢了。

37. Life is equal for everyone, it's just that the methods of achieving it are different.

38. 爱情并不一定需要婚姻来固定它，许多夫妻同床异梦，许多爱人却能终身相爱！

38. Love does not necessarily need marriage to solidify it; many couples sleep in the same bed but have different dreams, while many lovers can love each other for a lifetime!

39. 柔情似水，佳期如梦，忍顾鹊桥归路。两情若是长久时，又岂在朝朝暮暮。

39. Gentle as water, beautiful as a dream, reluctantly turn back from the Magpie Bridge path. If both hearts are meant to last forever, then does it matter if we are together only day and night?

40. 不要再折磨我，我的心已被割破，流尽的不是血，是爱你的错。

40. Stop torturing me, my heart has been torn apart, and what's flowing out is not blood, but the mistakes of loving you.

41. 爱情在开始的时候，总是甜蜜的，以后就有了厌倦，习惯，背弃，寂寞，绝望和冷落。

41. Love is always sweet at the beginning, but then comes fatigue, habit, betrayal, loneliness, despair, and neglect.

42. 我们都有成功的时候，但不应有骄傲的片刻，我们都有错误的时候，但不应有隐瞒的动机。

42. We all have moments of success, but we should not have moments of pride. We all make mistakes, but we should not have motives to conceal them.

43. 所有的失败，与失去自我的失败比起来，更是微不足道。

43. All failures, when compared to the failure of losing oneself, are insignificant.

44. 经历过人生的风风雨雨，才能够丰富自己的阅历，理解人生的真谛。

44. Only after experiencing the ups and downs of life can one enrich their experiences and understand the true essence of life.

45. 12人类的生命，并不能以时间长短来衡量，心中充满爱时，刹那即永恒。 尼采

45. The life of human beings cannot be measured by the length of time; in the moment when the heart is full of love, an instant becomes eternity. - Nietzsche

46. 爱的欢乐寓于爱之中，享受爱情比唤起爱更加令人幸福。

46. The joy of love is found within love itself, and enjoying love is more blissful than merely calling it forth.

47. 男人喜欢和漂亮的女人交朋友；女人喜欢找听话的男人做老公。

47. Men like to make friends with beautiful women; women prefer to find obedient men as their husbands.

48. 鱼搅不浑大海，雾压不倒高山，雷声叫不倒山岗，扇子驱不散大雾。鹿的脖子再长，总高不过它的脑袋。人的脚指头再长，也长不过他的脚板。人的行动再快也快不过思想！

48. You can't stir the sea with a fish, you can't bring down a mountain with fog, you can't knock over a hill with thunder, and you can't disperse thick fog with a fan. No matter how long a deer's neck is, it's never taller than its head. No matter how long a person's toes are, they're never longer than their feet. No matter how fast a person's actions are, they're never faster than their thoughts!

49. 一些杜绝语言的厌倦，一些失去期待的绝望，没有人可以爱，也不想爱上任何人，不相信爱情的人，只是因为曾经沧海的心情，已经不是常人能够体会。

49. Some fatigue from the constant repetition of language, some despair from the loss of expectations, nobody to love, and no desire to fall in love with anyone, those who do not believe in love - all because of the sentiment of having seen the world, which is not something that ordinary people can comprehend.

50. 上班疲惫，晋升排队，说好吃饭却被灌醉，情人至今没有到位，早晨不愿醒，晚上特想睡。这我都无所谓，最不能忍的是祝你快乐也要收费。

50. Tired from work, stuck in the queue for promotion, promised a meal but ended up drunk, the lover hasn't shown up yet, don't want to wake up in the morning, and can't wait to sleep at night. All of this I can tolerate, but what I can't stand the most is that even wishing you happiness comes with a price.

51. 永远比一辈子还长，谁能保证这样的誓言不会过期。

51. Longer than a lifetime, who can guarantee that such a vow will not expire.

52. 男人以世界为家，女人以家为世界。

52. Men make the world their home, while women make the home their world.

53. 你若爱她，让你的爱像阳光一样包围她，并且给她自由。

53. If you love her, let your love envelop her like the sun and give her freedom.

54. 婚前女人把男人看成果，可是婚后却总是这不满那不满的，觉得婚前的日子像无花果一样白过了。

54. Before marriage, women view men as fruits, but after marriage, they are always dissatisfied with this and that, feeling that their pre-marriage days were as white as figs.

55. 上帝从不埋怨人们的愚昧，人们却埋怨上帝的不公。

55. God never blames people for their ignorance, yet people complain about God's injustice.

56. 私通的爱情总是不能天长地久的，只有罩上了神秘的外衣，自己才能心安理得。

56. Love that is conducted in secret can never last forever; only when it is shrouded in mystery can one feel at ease and justified.

57. 爱情是无邪的，神圣的。

57. Love is innocent and sacred.

58. 因为爱过，所以我们不是仇人，因为伤害过，所以不再是朋友！分手之后可以真正了解一个男人，分手之后可以看出女人是否爱过。

58. Because we have loved, we are not enemies; because we have hurt, we are no longer friends! After a breakup, one can truly understand a man, and after a breakup, one can see whether a woman has ever loved.

59. 你很有创见，这非常可贵，请再响亮地说一遍！

59. You have a lot of originality, which is very valuable. Please say it more loudly again!