在繁华都市的角落，一句“高情商发展圈被秒赞”悄然流传。这不仅仅是一句赞誉，更是对那些在人际交往中游刃有余的人的极致褒奖。

In the corners of bustling cities, the phrase "High EQ development circle gets instant likes" has quietly spread. This is not just a compliment, but also the ultimate praise for those who excel in interpersonal interactions.

1. 1别人再好都是别人的，我不一样，我是你的。

1.1 No matter how good others are, they are still someone else's. I am different; I am yours.

2. 35如果你不吃别人家的饭，就别太把别人的话放在心上。

2. 35 If you don't eat food from other people's houses, don't take others' words too seriously.

3. 当你又瘦又漂亮，脑子里有东西，钱包里全是自己挣的钱的时候，别说这个月，全世界都会对你好一点。

3. When you are thin, beautiful, have something in your mind, and all the money in your wallet is earned by yourself, not just this month, but the whole world will treat you a bit better.

4. 每个人的心中都有一座城池，当你想逃避的时候就会躲进去。有的人躲的时间长，有的人躲的时间短，而我却一直没有走出去。

4. Everyone has a fortress in their hearts, where they hide when they want to escape. Some people stay hidden for a long time, some for a short while, but I have never managed to step out of it.

5. 笑容在撒谎，泪水在投降，嘴上在逞强，心灵在受伤。

5. A smile is lying, tears are surrendering, words are boasting, and the heart is wounded.

6. 大多数不开心的人。往往低估了自己所拥有的。又高估了别人所拥有的。

6. Most unhappy people often underestimate what they possess and overestimate what others have.

7. 35在这个充满竞争的时代，职务是瓷饭碗，好看好用易打碎，学历只是铁饭碗，好看好用易生锈：实际能力才是金饭碗，既不会打碎也不会生锈。

7. In this competitive era, a job is like a porcelain bowl: it looks good, is easy to use, but also easy to break; an academic degree is like an iron bowl: it looks good, is easy to use, but also prone to rust; actual ability is like a gold bowl: it neither breaks nor rusts.

8. 要活着，就必须想个不停。从明天的天气到浴盆塞子的尺寸。

8. To live, one must keep thinking non-stop. From tomorrow's weather to the size of the bathtub plug.

9. 6与其以后失望，不如刚开始就不要抱希望，也从一开始就不要开始。

9.6 It's better not to hope for anything and not to start anything from the beginning, rather than to face disappointment later.

10. 23私通的爱情总是不能天长地久的，仅有罩上了神秘的外衣，自我才能心安理得。

10.23 The love of clandestine affairs can never last long, only when veiled in mystery can one feel at ease.

11. 但凡能说透的东西，基本也就是释怀了，要知道，心结，是说不清楚的，甚至说不出口。

11. Anything that can be fully expressed is essentially a release. You have to understand that heartstrings are unexplainable, even inexpressible.

12. 42现在的人吃饱了没事就找对象，我就厉害了，我压根吃不饱。

12. Now people just look for partners when they are full and have nothing to do, but I'm different; I'm never full.

13. 20九分喜欢，一分尊严，我能够爱你，也能够没有你。

13. I like you 90% and respect you 10%; I can love you and I can also love you without you.

14. 9别垫着脚尖，依赖他的支撑，去爱这个人，这样你很累，他很痛，你会卑微，他会厌烦。

14. 9 Don't rely on his support by tiptoeing, and love this person, as this will make you tired and him in pain. You will feel卑微 (narrow-minded or inferior), and he may get tired of it.

15. 14不要再问我为什么不谈恋爱了，你为什么不上清华，是因为不想吗？

15. Stop asking me why I'm not dating, why don't you go to Tsinghua University, is it because you don't want to?

16. 10私通的爱情总是不能天长地久的，仅有罩上了神秘的外衣，自我才能心安理得。

16. The love of infidelity can never last forever; only when it is shrouded in mystery can one feel at ease and justified.

17. 写歌的人最用心，听歌的人最矫情。人要是矫情起来，听什么都像是唱自己。

17. The person who writes songs is the most dedicated, while the person who listens to songs is the most sentimental. When people become sentimental, they seem to hear themselves in everything they listen to.

18. 喝酒，从来不是酒精的罪过，而是感谢的度数太高。

18. Drinking is never the fault of alcohol; it's just that the degree of gratitude is too high.

19. 10每个人都在争取一个完满的人生，然而，世界上没有绝对完满的东西。所以，有缺憾才是恒久，不完满才叫人生。

19. 10 Everyone strives for a perfect life, yet there is no absolute perfection in the world. Therefore, imperfection is what endures, and incompleteness is what defines life.

20. 冲动时说的那些伤人的话，都是日后无可救药的后悔。所以心情不好的时候尽量少开口!

20. The hurtful words spoken in the heat of the moment are all regrets that are irreparable in the future. So, when you're in a bad mood, try to keep your mouth shut as much as possible!

21. 17懂你的人，会用你所需要的方式去爱你。不懂你的人，会用他所需要的方式去爱你。于是，懂你的人，常是事半功倍，他爱得自如，你爱得幸福。两个人的世界里，懂比爱，更难做到。

21. The person who understands you will love you in the way you need. The person who doesn't understand you will love you in the way they need. Therefore, the one who understands you often achieves twice the result with half the effort, loving freely and you loving happily. In the world of two people, understanding is harder to achieve than love.

22. 不去讨好世界，也不去评论是非。做好自己就行。

22. Do not try to please the world, nor comment on right and wrong. Just do your own thing.

23. 3私通的爱情总是不能天长地久的，仅有罩上了神秘的外衣，自我才能心安理得。

23.3 The love of an affair can never last forever; only when it is veiled in mystery can one feel at ease and justified.

24. 花自己的钱，可以花风景，走自己的路，可以走很远。一颗倔强不屈的心永远是热的。早上好。

24. Spend your own money, and you can enjoy the scenery; walk your own path, and you can go very far. A stubborn and unyielding heart is always warm. Good morning.

25. 趁着年轻。你需要多受一些苦。然后才会真正谦恭。不然你那自以为是的聪明和藐视一切的优越感。迟早要毁了你。

25. Make the most of your youth. You need to endure more hardships. Only then will you truly be humble. Otherwise, your self-righteous cleverness and the sense of superiority that looks down upon everything will eventually destroy you.

26. 不要轻易对别人好，因为只会让别人觉得你的好很廉价。

26. Do not be too generous to others easily, as it will only make people think that your kindness is cheap.

27. 现在的人吃饱了没事就找对象，我就厉害了，我压根吃不饱。

27. Nowadays, people just look for partners when they have nothing to do and are well-fed, but I'm different; I'm never full.

28. 4时间不会让人忘记过往，只会让人适应时间的磨炼。也许每一个人，要走过很多很长的路，经历过生命中无数突如其来的繁华和苍凉后，才会变得成熟，才会懂得人生嬗变的真谛。

28. Time will not make one forget the past, but only adapt to the wear and tear of time. Perhaps everyone has to walk through many long roads, experience countless sudden prosperity and desolation in life, before they become mature and understand the true essence of the transformation of life.

29. 9一个人太久了，好像就丧失了爱的能力，遇见喜欢的人第一反应不是追求，而是先问自己“我配吗”，“我可以吗”。

29. After being alone for too long, it seems like one loses the ability to love. When meeting someone they like, the first reaction is not to pursue, but rather to ask oneself "Am I worthy?" and "Am I capable?"

30. 51未来那么多风景，我们一定要亲自去看看！

30. 51 There are so many landscapes in the future, we must definitely go see them ourselves!

31. 3自我的路自我走，无论是苦是累，甚至是失败，都要去承担，只要是自我的选择，就无怨无悔。

31. I walk my own path, no matter how bitter or tired, even if it's failure, I must bear it. As long as it's a choice I make, I have no regrets.

32. 23我喜欢诗意的自然，那里有缤纷的落英，拂堤的杨柳，还有小桥流水人家。

32. I like the poetic nature there, with colorful falling petals, willow branches swaying along the embankment, and small bridges over flowing water with houses nearby.

33. 30你来，狂风暴雨我接你。你走，五雷轰顶轰走你。

33. Come, and I'll meet you amidst the raging storms and fierce winds. Leave, and I'll send you packing with a thunderous roar.

34. 凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度!做人做事别对别人苛求太多，任何人对你的好与付出都不是理所应当，即使你已习惯。

34. Change your perspective in everything. If you were me, you might not be as magnanimous as I am! In life and in dealing with others, don't be too demanding. No one's kindness or contribution to you is something that should be taken for granted, even if you've become accustomed to it.

35. 39最好的爱情，不是我年轻的时候有你，而是老来还能作伴的往后余生。

35. The best love is not having you in my youth, but having someone to accompany me in the remaining years of my old age.

36. 28之后我才明白，人世间太多相遇都是剩余，就像有些爱情，就不该开始。

36. It was only after 28 that I realized that many encounters in this world are leftovers, just like some love that shouldn't have started.

37. 27一个人熬过所有的苦，还需要别人的糖吗？

37. Has one who endured all the bitterness still a need for others' sweetness?

38. 没有舞蹈的每一天都是对生活的失望。早上好，新的一天。

38. Every day without dance is a disappointment in life. Good morning, a new day.

39. 14以后的岁月还那么漫长，漫长到我能够重新喜欢上别人，就像当初喜欢你那样。

39. The years after 14 were so long, long enough for me to rekindle my affection for someone else, just as I once did for you.

40. 不管昨夜你经历了怎样的泣不成声，早晨醒来这个城市依旧车水马龙。成长，大概就是将你哭声调成静音的过程。

40. No matter how heart-wrenching your sobs were last night, when you woke up this morning, the city was still bustling with traffic. Growth is perhaps the process of turning your cries into silence.

41. 34犹记当初，你回眸莞尔，一笑倾城百日香。

41. 34 Yet remember at the very beginning, you turned your head and smiled, your smile was as fragrant as spring for a hundred days.

42. 29减肥自律与经济独立真的不能拖会使人错过很多自己羡慕又渴望的东西。

42. 29: Dieting self-discipline and economic independence really shouldn't be delayed, as it can cause you to miss out on many things you admire and yearn for.

43. 15你说过：我要走很久很久。我说过：我愿意一向等候。

43. 15 You have said: I will walk for a very long time. I have said: I am willing to wait all along.

44. 20我会遇到很多趣味的人，但我不会落下你。

44. 20 I will meet many interesting people, but I won't leave you behind.

45. 结局和你想得不一样的叫生活，和你想得一样的叫童话。

45. Life is called different from what you imagine, while a fairy tale is called the same as what you imagine.

46. 22最单纯的那几年，一个人好，两个人都会笑。

46. In those simplest years, one person is good, and two people will smile.

47. 35下次再遇到喜欢的人，记得一定要做朋友。

47. When you meet someone you like again next time, remember to make them your friend.

48. 如果你自己都不认真对待生活，那么就别怪生活对你狠。

48. If you don't take life seriously yourself, then don't blame life for being harsh on you.

49. 1努力一点，是为了让自己多点筹码，不去做不喜欢的事。人生没有如果，只有后果和结果，少问别人为什么，多问自己凭什么。

49.1 Strive a bit harder to gain more leverage for yourself, and not do things you dislike. There are no "ifs" in life; only consequences and results. Ask others less why, and ask yourself more how you can do it.

50. 生命是一种缘，你刻意追求的东西，也许终生得不到，而你不曾期待的灿烂，反而会在你的淡泊从容中不期而至。

50. Life is a matter of destiny. What you strive for deliberately may never be attained in your lifetime, while what you never anticipated to be bright and splendid may instead come to you unexpectedly in your calm and unpretentious demeanor.

51. 7无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命中该出现的人，绝非偶然，他必须会教会你一些什么。

51. 7 No matter who you meet, they are the people who should appear in your life, not by chance. They must teach you something.

52. 假如生活欺骗了你，不要着急，拿出美颜相机，去欺骗生活。

52. If life has deceived you, don't be in a hurry. Take out your beauty camera and deceive life in return.

53. 32千万不要对还没发生的事情过分期待，也不要对没有发生的事情过分焦虑。

53. 32 Do not overly anticipate things that have not yet happened, nor overly worry about things that have not yet occurred.

54. 上天给了我很多变胖的机会，我都成功…抓住了。

54. The heavens have given me many chances to gain weight, and I have successfully seized them all...

55. 15你要沉淀执着，努力上进，对每件热爱的事物都全力以赴又满载而归，变成一个美好的人，做美好的事。

55. 15 You should let go of your attachments, strive for progress, and give your all to everything you love, returning with full rewards. Become a wonderful person and do wonderful things.

56. 虽然你已经无法再长高，但是你可以继续胖啊。

56. Although you can no longer grow taller, you can still keep getting fat.

57. 7说真话的最大好处就是你不必记得你都说些什么。

57. The greatest benefit of telling the truth is that you don't have to remember what you've said.

58. 40女孩应当明白的是气质比年龄重要，微笑比颜值重要，开心比爱情重要。

58. What 40-year-old girls should understand is that temperament is more important than age, a smile is more important than appearance, and happiness is more important than love.

59. 31哪有那么多时光用来说我不会我害怕我不行，用尽全力，去做你想做的事，去爱你想爱的人，去成为你想成为的自己。

59. There's no time like the present to learn something new. I'm afraid I can't do it, but give it all you've got, do the things you want to do, love the people you want to love, and become the person you want to be.

60. 岁月的洗礼终究会让每个人慢慢明白：原来答案并不只是是非曲直，更多时候，所谓是非曲直的标准只是用来检验结果的;而人生，没有比经历过那些曾经的痛，更值得。

60. The baptism of time eventually allows everyone to gradually understand that the answer is not merely about right and wrong, more often than not, the standards of right and wrong are just used to test the outcomes; and in life, there is nothing more valuable than having experienced those past pains.

61. 一个人，平庸点不可怕，变得八面玲珑才可怕。你最终要活在相悦的人心里。

61. It's not可怕 for a person to be ordinary, but it's可怕 to become sycophantic. In the end, you want to live in the hearts of those who like you.

62. 对三十岁以后的人来说，十年八年不过是指缝间的事，可对于年轻人而言，三年五年就可以是一生一世。

62. For those over thirty, ten or eight years is just a fleeting moment, but for young people, three or five years can be an entire lifetime.

63. 开心也太难过了，所以每天都要开心。早上好。

63. It's too sad to be happy, so one should be happy every day. Good morning.

64. 8没有什么比活着更欢乐，也没有什么比活着更艰辛。

64. 8 There is nothing more joyful than living, and nothing more arduous.

65. 46不要指望，麻雀会飞得很高。高处的天空，那是鹰的领地。麻雀如果摆正了自我的位置，它照样会过得很幸福

65. Don't expect the sparrow to fly very high. The high sky is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow positions itself correctly, it will still live a happy life.

66. 我把自己吃得那么圆，就是为了不被别人看扁。

66. I ate myself so round to make sure I'm not looked down upon by others.

67. 42不劳则懒，过劳则贪。故人分四种：懒，贪，不懒不贪，又懒又贪。人天性不懒即贪，而懒则无修，贪则失养，无修损性，失养伤命，故智者不懒不贪。

67. 42: If one does not work, one becomes lazy; if one overworks, one becomes greedy. Therefore, people can be categorized into four types: lazy, greedy, neither lazy nor greedy, and both lazy and greedy. By nature, people are either greedy when they are not lazy, or become lazy without修养. Greed leads to a loss of nourishment, and lack of修养 damages one's nature, while a loss of nourishment harms one's life. Hence, the wise are neither lazy nor greedy.

68. 不用对不起，有些事，一开始就已经决定好了，努力是没有用的。

68. No need to apologize, some things are already decided from the start, and effort is futile.

69. 人生四大悲剧：能力配不上梦想，收入配不上享用，容貌配不上矫情，见识配不上年龄。

69. The four great tragedies of life: ability not matching one's dreams, income not matching one's consumption, appearance not matching one's affectation, and experience not matching one's age.

70. 25当我们遇到阻力时，要像竹笋一样，不畏艰难，冲破石缝，这样我们才能拥有自己的广阔天地。

70. 25 When we encounter resistance, we should be as unyielding as bamboo shoots, not afraid of difficulties, and break through the crevices in the rocks. Only in this way can we have our own vast realm.

71. 21不要指望，麻雀会飞得很高。高处的天空，那是鹰的领地。麻雀如果摆正了自我的位置，它照样会过得很幸福

71. Don't expect the sparrow to fly very high. The high sky is the domain of the eagle. If the sparrow sets its place correctly, it will still live a happy life.

72. 一个人最迷人的地方，就是勇敢的做自己，不要为任何人去改变自己，然后酷酷的生活。

72. The most charming thing about a person is to be brave in being themselves, never changing for anyone, and then living coolly.

73. 6财富竟是一种相对的东西，因为拥有很少以及需求更少的人，比拥有很多但需求更多的人还富有。

73. 6 Wealth is a relative thing, because those who have little and have fewer needs are wealthier than those who have much but have more needs.

74. 趁着年轻，多说些浪漫的话，多做些幼稚的事，不要怕别人笑话，而错过了生命中最美好的片段和场合。

74. Take advantage of your youth to say more romantic things and do more childish things. Don't be afraid of others laughing at you and miss out on the most beautiful moments and occasions in life.

75. 11低调不代表我不行，我只是没必要跟狗玩高傲。

75. 11 Discreet doesn't mean I'm not capable; I just see no need to play proud with dogs.

76. 13左眼追忆过去，右眼害怕的凝望未来——黑暗的错误的破灭的未来，吊在光明和黑暗之间，在尖酸的嘲讽和信仰之间。

76. The left eye remembers the past, while the right eye fearsfully gazes into the future—the future shattering the darkness of error, suspended between light and darkness, between sarcastic mockery and faith.

77. 不管你多大年龄，是什么性格的人，只要你有太容易相信人的特点，你就拥有了绝对死穴。

77. No matter what age you are or what kind of personality you have, if you have the trait of being too easy to believe in people, you have an absolute weakness.

78. 凡事靠人努力，努力藏在运气里，修养在磨炼中养成。早上好。

78. In all things, effort is dependent on a person's hard work, which is hidden in luck, and cultivation is formed through perseverance. Good morning.

79. 27生活就像夏天的柑橘树，挂着青皮的果，苦是一定的，甜也有。

79. Life is like an orange tree in summer, bearing fruits with green skins. Bitterness is inevitable, but sweetness is also there.

80. 11卦不敢算尽，畏天道无常；情不敢妄动，恐大梦一场。

80. The 11th hexagram is too complex to calculate entirely, for fear of the capriciousness of the Tao; emotions are too cautious to act impulsively, for fear it's all just a grand illusion.

81. 54一分辛勤，一分收获。要使自己的思想不断丰富，并具有生命力，应当时常向伟大思想家学习。

81. A single bit of toil, a single bit of harvest. To keep one's thoughts constantly enriched and full of vitality, one should regularly learn from great thinkers.

82. 我和我的日子将会发光。早上好。

82. My days and I will shine. Good morning.

83. 9人生最大的荣耀不在于从不跌倒，而在于每一次跌倒后都能爬起来。

83. The greatest glory of life is not in never falling, but in rising every time you fall.

84. 拥有最简单的生活，最遥远的梦想，哪怕明天天寒地冻，山高水远，路漫漫其修远兮。早上好，新的一天。

84. Living the simplest life, dreaming the farthest dreams, even if tomorrow is cold and frosty, mountains high and waters distant, the road is long and arduous. Good morning, a new day.

85. 没必要找什么借口。没有什么是前进的理由。早上好。

85. There is no need to find any excuses. There is nothing to be used as an excuse to move forward. Good morning.