在探寻言辞之锋的奥秘中，本文将深入剖析“谄媚”的现实案例，揭示谄媚句式的特性及其在现实生活中的巧妙运用。

In the quest for the secrets of verbal acuity, this article will delve into real-life cases of flattery, revealing the characteristics of flattery sentences and their clever application in real life.

1. 人总是认不出自己的问题，还有一张爱说教的嘴。

1. People always fail to recognize their own problems and have a tendency to lecture others.

2. 14看人，不要用眼睛去看，容易看走眼，更不要用耳朵去听，因为可能是谎言。只要用时间，用心去感受，真的假不了，假的也真不了。

2.14 Observe people, but do not just rely on your eyes, as they can be easily deceived. And definitely do not use your ears to listen, because what you hear might be lies. Only by spending time and using your heart to feel, can you truly discern between truth and falsity; what is real cannot be concealed, and what is false cannot be made true.

3. 2不要随便遇到一个人就对她掏心掏肺地，在你看来，她是朋友，在她看来，你是傻子。

3.2 Don't pour your heart out to anyone you meet at will. In your eyes, she's a friend, but in hers, you're a fool.

4. 7世上什么都能重复，恋爱可以再谈，配偶可以另择，身份可以炮制，钱财可以重挣，甚至历史也可以重演，惟独生命不能。

4.7 In the world, everything can be repeated: love can be talked about again, a spouse can be chosen anew, identity can be manufactured, wealth can be earned again, and even history can be replayed. But life alone cannot be repeated.

5. 17别把自己幻想得太重要，先想想别人凭什么一定要懂你，凭什么又一定要对你好。

5. Don't overestimate your own importance in fantasy. First, think about why others should necessarily understand you and why they should necessarily be good to you.

6. 不要指望任何人有道德洁癖。世界上每个灵魂都是半人半鬼。没人能看到它离得太近。

6. Don't expect anyone to have a moral purism. Every soul in the world is half-human and half-demon. No one can see it too closely.

7. 即使放进垃圾袋，也没有人认为垃圾桶是干净的。

7. Even if placed in a garbage bag, no one considers the trash can to be clean.

8. 24如果你足够优秀，最坏的可能也不过是被一个比你更优秀的人杀死；但是，如果你不够优秀的话，你就会被千千万万个和你一样普通的人物给淹没。

8. 24 If you are good enough, the worst that can happen to you is to be killed by someone more talented than you; however, if you are not good enough, you will be overwhelmed by countless ordinary individuals like yourself.

9. 天下一片恐慌，画面却是几块银子，但这碎银子却能解世间各种愁苦。

9. The whole world is in panic, and the image is only a few silver coins, but these broken silver coins can relieve all kinds of troubles in the world.

10. 13两个人的沟通：70%是情绪，30%是内容。情绪不对，内容就会被扭曲，纵有一肚子的情愫，没有良好的情绪，说得再多也只是发泄。

10. 13 Communication between two people: 70% is emotions, and 30% is content. If the emotions are not right, the content will be distorted. Even if you have a heart full of sentiments, without good emotions, no matter how much you talk, it's just venting.

11. 在阴沟里找水喝，不要太脏。

11. Don't drink water from the drain; it's too dirty.

12. 凭你的努力，还轮不到你有才华。

12. It's not time for you to have talent just by your efforts.

13. 21不是时间过得快，是因为时间对你越来越重要，你开始意识到，这些年，除了年龄的增长，父母逐渐老去，而你还是一无所有。

13. It's not that time is passing quickly; it's because time is becoming increasingly important to you. You start to realize that over these years, aside from the growth in age, your parents are gradually aging, and yet you still have nothing.

14. 23别太善良了，别太大方了，也别太能干了，时间久了人家会觉得，你做的一切都是应该的。即使有一天你撑不住，哭了累了，也没人心疼你。因为在他们眼里这都是你愿意的。

14. Don't be too kind, don't be too generous, and don't be too capable. After a while, people will think that everything you do is just what you should do. Even if one day you can't hold on anymore, you cry and get tired, no one will care about you. Because in their eyes, this is all something you're willing to do.

15. 不要逼他交朋友，改变感情，远离暧昧。如果他爱你，一个女人和他说话，他会觉得对不起你。

15. Don't push him to make friends, change feelings, or distance himself from ambiguity. If he loves you, a woman's conversation will make him feel guilty towards you.

16. 5事情看透，你就明白该如何进行；人情看透，你就明白该如何相处；事情看破，你就不想做事了；人情看破，你就不想做人了。

16. If you see through five things, you will understand how to proceed; if you see through human nature, you will know how to get along; if you see through things, you won't want to do them anymore; if you see through human nature, you won't want to be a person anymore.

17. 写诗的叫诗人，喝茶喝咖啡的叫茶人和咖啡人。

17. Those who write poetry are called poets, and those who drink tea or coffee are called tea-drinkers or coffee-drinkers.

18. 这么懂事的人，该不该对不起？

18. Should such an understanding person be sorry?

19. 人们把少年的勇敢视为叛逆，把成年人的懦弱视为大局。

19. People regard the bravery of the youth as rebellion and the weakness of adults as the overall situation.

20. 村口的狗叫了，其他的狗也叫了，但是不知道为什么。

20. The dog at the village entrance barked, and the other dogs barked as well, but for some unknown reason.

21. 15狗和狗见面，不是吻就是舔，人和人见面，不是骗就是演。

21. When 15 dogs meet, it's either a kiss or a lick; when people meet, it's either deceit or acting.

22. 18生活很现实，当你啥都不是时，只能低着头，让别人说了算。而等你强大到一定的程度，你才有机会说了算。

22. Life is very realistic. When you have nothing to offer, you can only bow your head and let others make decisions. But only when you become strong enough to a certain degree, will you have the opportunity to make decisions.

23. 你长得好看，别人会多看你几眼，但你情商高，内涵丰富，举止得体，谈吐大方，衣着整洁有品味，别人也会看得起你。

23. You look good, and others may give you a few extra glances, but with your high emotional intelligence, rich内涵, proper demeanor, eloquent speech, tidy and tasteful attire, others will also respect you.

24. 8能自己花钱解决的事，尽量别动用人情，总有一天你会知道，人情比钱贵得多！

24. 8. Whenever possible, don't use favors to solve things that you can afford on your own. You will eventually come to realize that favors are much more valuable than money!

25. 我一直说我不喜欢，因为我从来没有收到过。

25. I've always said I don't like it, because I have never received it.

26. 当我还是个孩子的时候，我害怕在路上遇到人。

26. When I was a child, I was afraid of encountering people on the road.

27. 你一点也不像你自己。

27. You are not at all like yourself.

28. 16别把自己想的太伟大，要知道，在别人的世界里，不管你做的多好，你都只是个配角而已。

28. Don't overestimate yourself; remember, in other people's worlds, no matter how well you do, you're just a supporting character.

29. 6这个城市没有草长莺飞的传说，它永远活在现实里面，快速的鼓点，匆忙的身影，麻木的眼神，虚假的笑容，而我正在被同化。——张爱玲

29.6 This city has no legend of grass growing and swallows flying; it lives forever in reality, with rapid drumbeats, hurried figures, numb eyes, and false smiles, and I am being assimilated. — Zhang Ailing

30. 突然想到我以后所有的计划都有一个相同的开始:等我有钱了。

30. Suddenly realized that all my future plans have a common starting point: wait until I have money.

31. 19生活从来不会招招手说，“小子过来，我们讲讲道理”，生活只会一个大嘴巴把你打在地上后说，“傻子，学着点”。

31. Life never waves at you and says, "Hey kid, let's talk sense." Life just gives you a big slap on the ground and says, "You fool, learn something."

32. 11有时候，善良如你总是为别人着想，一再让步，你以为别人会感恩，别人却认为你是个大傻子。

32.11 Sometimes, kind-hearted you always think of others and keep making concessions, thinking that people will be grateful, but others regard you as a big傻瓜.

33. 1当你做对的时候，没人会记得；当你做错的时候，连呼吸都是错。

33. 1 When you do something right, no one will remember; when you do something wrong, even your breathing is wrong.

34. 不是钱买不到幸福，而是你的小钱买不到幸福。

34. It's not that money can't buy happiness, but rather that your small change can't buy happiness.

35. 22长大后，才发现，原来有时候，说了真话，反而还是会招人嫌弃，甚至有的时候还得向别人道歉，因为做人是要有脑子的，不能什么事情都可以随便的说出来。

35. When I grew up, I realized that sometimes, even when you tell the truth, it can still earn you disapproval, and sometimes you even have to apologize to others. This is because being a person requires having a brain; you can't just say anything about anything.

36. 4现在这个社会，男人想要不物质的爱情，女人想要不花心的男人。可现实是，没有钱的男人也花心，不物质的女人也没有得到爱情。

36. 4 In today's society, men want love that is not materialistic, and women want men who are not unfaithful. However, the reality is that men without money can also be unfaithful, and women who are not materialistic do not necessarily receive love.

37. 这个世界很奇怪，把想活的人逼死，劝想死的人好好活着，所以大家都半死不活。

37. This world is very strange; it drives those who want to live to death, and persuades those who want to die to live well, so everyone is half dead and half alive.

38. 3哪有那么多正义战胜邪恶，只是胜者往往会把自己说成是正义而已。

38. 3 There isn't as much victory of justice over evil as people often claim; it's just that the winners tend to portray themselves as the ones representing justice.

39. 20现实社会和生活告诉男女，忠厚老实的人总是吃亏，善良诚实的人总是受累；放不下的人总在吃苦，看不开的人总在受罪。

39. In the real world and life, it is told to men and women that honest and sincere people always suffer disadvantages, and kind and honest people always endure hardship; those who cannot let go always suffer, and those who cannot see the truth always endure suffering.

40. 12非让现实给你一巴掌你才知道社会有多虚伪；非让所谓的朋友把你伤的什么都不是你才知道人心可畏。

40. It's not until reality slaps you in the face that you realize how hypocritical society is; it's not until so-called friends leave you in ruins that you understand how terrifying the hearts of people can be.

41. 9生活不是你妈，它不会宠着你惯着你，想哭的话，回家找你妈哭去。

41. Life is not your mother; it won't pamper you or spoil you. If you want to cry, go home and cry to your mother.

42. 无知成为主流，清醒就是犯罪。

42. Ignorance has become the norm, and being清醒 is a crime.