一瞬心动，情感如潮涌，人生就此改变。

A moment's heartthrob, emotions surge like a tide, and life is thus changed.

1. 子乔结婚以前，还有别的男人对你好，结婚以后，你就只剩下我了可是婚后，我一定要对你更好，这样你才不会失落，不是吗？

1. Before Zi Qiao got married, there were other men who were nice to you. After getting married, you only have me left. But after the wedding, I must be even nicer to you, so that you won't feel lost, right?

2. 19第一次哭是因为你不在，第一次笑是因为遇到你，第一次笑着流泪是因为不能拥有你！

2. The first time I cried was because you were not there, the first time I smiled was because I met you, and the first time I cried with a smile was because I couldn't have you!

3. 感情是那么的微妙，当它来临时不容拒绝；当它要离去时，你用尽心计，也挽留不住。

3. Emotions are so subtle; when they arrive, they cannot be rejected; when they are about to leave, you try your best, but cannot hold them back.

4. 陪伴与懂得，比爱情更加重要。一个人最幸福的时刻，就是找对了人，他宠着你，纵容你的习惯，并爱着你的一切。

4. Companionship and understanding are more important than love. The happiest moment for a person is finding the right person, who spoils you, tolerates your habits, and loves everything about you.

5. 有一天，如果你恋爱了，你一定要先保密，不要把你的心掏出来，直到你知道对方的细节。不能吃的醋是最酸的，先动心的人是最坏的

5. One day, if you fall in love, you must keep it a secret first, don't pour out your heart until you know the details of the other person. The most sour envy is the one that cannot be eaten, and the person who falls for it first is the worst.

6. 好女人是男人的学校。好女人却希望这个好学生永远不要毕业。

6. A good woman is a school for men. However, a good woman hopes that this good student never graduates.

7. 没事就想想如何致富吧，别总在感情的世界里伤春悲秋，捏在手心的钱永远要比那抓不住的心踏实。

7. Always think about how to get rich, don't always mourn the spring and autumn in the world of emotions, the money in your hand is always more secure than the heart you can't grasp.

8. 2因知道若干年之后的人世，再也不会有人惦记我们的存在，因此这段饱满的生命，是我们以生之为人而骄傲的唯一见证。

8.2 Because we know that in the world of some years hence, no one will remember our existence, this full life is the only witness of pride in being human that we have.

9. 让我亲手给你沏杯茶，加进一块冰糖，再注入一腔热情，把我的爱恋，一点点地溶进茶中。

9. Let me brew a cup of tea for you by hand, add a piece of rock sugar, and infuse it with a heart full of passion. Let my love slowly dissolve into the tea.

10. 喜爱你的男人，始终防患于未然，它会事前给自己爱的人考虑到一切。一切对她情感无利事情，他总会提前处理，别让自己情绪的有一点点偏移。它能够防止你与其它异性朋友太过触碰，由于它会查询自己的手机中是否存在路人。自然，他也不会让你说我2个情感上的不祥之兆事，他给你的爱亦是如此的慎重。对于一个爱着你的男人而言，你的感觉，总是非常重要的。

10. A man who loves you will always take precautions in advance, considering everything for the person he loves. He will always deal with anything that might harm her emotions before it happens, and he will avoid even the slightest deviation in his own emotions. He can prevent you from getting too close to other male friends, as he would check his phone to see if there are any unfamiliar people. Naturally, he wouldn't let me mention two ominous signs in your emotional life, and the love he gives you is equally cautious. For a man who loves you, your feelings are always very important.

11. 17你的时间有限，不要浪费于重复别人的生活。不要让别人的观点淹没了你内心的声音。---乔布斯

11. Your time is limited, do not waste it living someone else's life. Do not let other people's opinions drown out your own inner voice. --- Steve Jobs

12. 这样的人，在他的心中认出你，愿意为你改变，并愿意努力为你提供更好的未来生活。

12. Such a person recognizes you in their heart, is willing to change for you, and is eager to strive to provide you with a better future life.

13. 入了心，被爱情感动，多么无奈悲伤的结局，转身时身后孤独的身影和泪水，从此，这份爱将被独自珍藏，等待在心底荒凉的角落，那颗心充满了隐隐的痛。

13. Having entered the heart, moved by love, what a helplessly sad ending. Turning around, the lonely silhouette and tears behind, from now on, this love will be cherished alone, waiting in the desolate corner of the heart, that heart filled with an aching pain.

14. 老实说，没有办法假装一个人的眼睛，爱或不爱，当他看着你时，你很容易从眼睛里感觉到。

14. Frankly, there's no way to pretend about a person's eyes, whether they love or don't love, it's easy to sense it from their eyes when they look at you.

15. 男人只有动了真情，才会在你面前完全的放松，在你面前变成孩子一样，也因为对你足够的认定，才会当众公开你的身份，你就偷着笑吧。

15. A man will only completely relax in front of you when he has truly fallen for you, turning into a child-like state in your presence. And because he is sufficiently convinced of you, he will publicly reveal your identity. You can secretly smile about that.

16. 生活常有缺憾，我们从圆满和缺憾的夹缝中一路走来。其实圆满不过是美好的理想罢了，缺憾才是现实中的一种常态。缺憾是带着伤痛的美丽，让我们时时痛并快乐着。正是有了无数次从缺憾向圆满的勇敢跳跃，我们才有了生生不息的前行力量，我们的人生才会五彩斑斓，更加韵味隽永。

16. Life is often incomplete, and we have come all this way between completeness and incompleteness. In fact, completeness is merely a beautiful ideal, while incompleteness is a common state in reality. Incompleteness is a beauty with pain, which makes us feel both pain and joy at all times. It is precisely because of countless brave leaps from incompleteness to completeness that we have an ever-lasting driving force, and our lives become colorful and more profound in taste.

17. 一个男人，如果他在你们之间的对话中经常谈论这种关系的未来，那么这样的男人不仅会真诚地打动您，而且还会有责任感和责任感。

17. A man who frequently talks about the future of this relationship during your conversations is not only sincere in touching your heart, but also shows a sense of responsibility and accountability.

18. 你是一味奇毒 我患而不治 我无药可医

18. You are a potent poison; I am stricken and without a cure, I have no medicine to heal myself.

19. 感动的四川人连火锅底料都喝不下去。

19. The touched Sichuan people can't even stomach the hotpot base sauce.

20. 动了感情的河南人连泡面都拿不住，只能放在桌上吃。

20. Henan people who have been touched by emotions can't even hold a cup of instant noodles, and can only eat them on the table.

21. 在心的扉页上，写满了无数个梦的憧憬;当你追寻心的方向，我的祝福,是窗外的一片蓝天。

21. On the opening page of the heart, it is filled with countless dreams and aspirations; as you follow the direction of the heart, my blessings are a slice of blue sky outside the window.

22. 若是一个男人和你在一起，却对你一点儿也不包容，什么事情都和你计较，只能说明他的心中根本没有你。

22. If a man is with you but does not show any tolerance towards you, and always calculates every little thing with you, it only means that there is no place for you in his heart.

23. 我想每天见到你那温柔的脸，你脸上的酒窝让我未饮已醉了。

23. I want to see your gentle face every day, the dimple on your face has made me drunk without a sip.

24. 可是女人的青春是短暂的，是经不起消耗和等待的，只有和真正对自己动心的那个人在一起，才能收获幸福，有的人只要舍弃就好，真的没必要留恋。

24. However, a woman's youth is fleeting and cannot withstand consumption and waiting. Only by being with the person who truly moves her heart can one reap happiness. Some things are best let go, and there's no real need to linger.

25. 当一切都随风而逝的时候，那些特别的瞬间都成了永恒。

25. When everything else is swept away by the wind, those special moments become eternal.

26. 动了感情的重庆人，耳朵都转不过来，香烟也抽不完。

26. Chongqing people who are moved by emotions have their ears spinning and can't smoke enough cigarettes.

27. 热恋中的山东人连煎饼大葱都拿不住，更别说鸡爪了。

27. A Shandong person in the midst of passionate love can't even hold a pancake with scallions, let alone chicken feet.

28. 如果有人给你买糖，你怎么能抽烟呢？如果有人给你买奶茶，你怎么喝？如果有人哄你睡觉，你怎么熬夜？我无意见一切众生，除了你感动。

28. If someone buys you candy, how can you smoke? If someone buys you bubble tea, how can you drink it? If someone coaxes you to sleep, how can you stay up late? I have no objections to all sentient beings, except for you who touch my heart.

29. 如果有一天，你回到了北京，那里没有我，你怎么办？ 没关系。我目光所及，处处是你。

29. If one day you return to Beijing and I am not there, what will you do? It's fine. Wherever my gaze goes, I see you everywhere.

30. 8自由不是让你想做什么就做什么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。

30. Freedom is not about doing whatever you want; it is about teaching you that you can choose not to do something if you don't want to.

31. 男人在没有动情之前，心里也没有软肋，通常都是酷酷的样子，很多的事情都是无所谓的态度，可是在动情之后，就有了自己的软肋，会不自觉的变得温柔和细腻，他的这一份温柔和细腻是只针对你一个人的，面对你的时候总是不自觉的温柔有爱，相当的耐心，你总是能够感受到他对你的优待。

31. Before being emotionally involved, men do not have any weak spots in their hearts and usually present themselves as cool and unbothered about many things. However, once they are emotionally invested, they develop their own soft spots, and they become unintentionally gentle and tender. This gentleness and tenderness are exclusively for you; in your presence, they are always soft and affectionate, showing great patience. You always sense the special treatment they give you.

32. 22我像个大病初愈的人，总有说不完的疼痛。

32. 22 I feel like someone who has just recovered from a serious illness, with endless pain that never seems to end.

33. 佛陀说，前世回望五百次，今世只有一次。一个人对你的真挚爱最直接的体现就是，他的眼睛总是可以在人群中第一次找到你，然后一直专注于你。

33. The Buddha said, "Looking back on past lives five hundred times, there is only one in this life." The most direct manifestation of a person's sincere love for you is that their eyes can always find you first in a crowd and then remain focused on you.

34. 因此，当一个人对你有真挚的感情时，他将具有这些行为，并且不会欺骗他人。

34. Therefore, when a person has genuine feelings for you, they will exhibit these behaviors and will not deceive others.

35. 让爱你的人教导好像失去自由。但这当中必定也有内心深处的安稳与甜美。很有可能是因为爱，男人的个性会产生变化，或许之前他连自己都照顾不了，但是他一旦爱上一个女人，他就会成为一名“超级保姆”，为了她学习培训全部自己并不擅长的领域物品。这类男人特别可爱，他像个“妈妈”，管住你的一切。不必故意走光，不要睡觉，不必……它有一点啰嗦，可是和他在一起却是很稳重的。也许他没有说我爱你，但是他在生活的小细节里，充满着爱。

35. It feels like losing freedom when your loved ones teach you, but there must also be a deep sense of stability and sweetness within. It's very likely that due to love, a man's personality changes. Perhaps before he couldn't even take care of himself, but once he falls in love with a woman, he becomes a "super保姆" (caretaker), willing to learn and train in all areas he is not good at for her. These men are especially adorable, acting like a "mom," controlling everything about you. There's no need to intentionally expose yourself, no need to sleep, no need... he can be a bit nagging, but being with him is very stable. Maybe he hasn't said "I love you," but in the small details of life, he is full of love.

36. 其实入过心的人最难忘；恋爱的时候最难释怀。

36. In fact, the person who has touched the heart is the hardest to forget; the love period is the most difficult to let go of.

37. 无论你有多喜欢对方，在爱情里的主动必须是男人。如果这个男人不主动，宁愿错过。

37. No matter how much you like the other person, it must be the man who takes the initiative in love. If this man does not take the initiative, it's better to miss out.

38. 3年轻就别叨逼什么平平淡淡才是真。你们的平平淡淡是懒惰，是害怕，是贪图安逸，是一条不敢见世面的土狗。趁着年轻就应该拔腿就走，去刀山火海。

38. At the age of 3, don't keep on blabbering about how ordinary and plain is the truth. Your ordinary and plain is laziness, fear, and the desire for comfort, it's a country dog that dares not see the world. Make use of your youth and take off your feet, go to the fires of hell and the thorns of heaven.

39. 有人说，当您真正喜欢一个人时，就好像您突然变得虚弱无力。弱点是对手，盔甲是对手。弱点是您担心失去自己，而装甲是为了保护您。

39. Some say that when you truly like someone, it's as if you suddenly become weak and powerless. Vulnerability is the opponent, while armor is the opponent. Vulnerability is what makes you fear losing yourself, and armor is there to protect you.

40. 有些人，一旦遇见，便一眼万年；有些心动，一旦开始，便覆水难收。

40. Some people, once met, are eternally in one's eyes; some feelings, once started, are as difficult to retrieve as water spilled.

41. 真正好的爱情，就是不费力。不需要刻意讨好、努力经营，两个人已是顺其自然的舒服。如果一段情、一个人，得让你耗费巨大精力来取悦，这已注定不是能陪你到最后的缘分了。最爱你的人，不会舍得你如此辛苦。

41. True love is effortless. It doesn't require deliberate flattery or hard work to maintain; the two of you are naturally comfortable together. If a relationship or a person requires you to exert a great deal of energy to please, it's already destined not to be the destined connection that will accompany you to the end. The person who loves you the most wouldn't let you be so hard on yourself.

42. 女人就是男人最大的软肋，哪怕在外面的时候他呼风唤雨，可是面对你的时候，总是没有办法，你一皱眉他的心就开始察觉，不自觉的逗你开心，想带给你幸福和快乐，他就是跟你计较不起来，哪怕你有的时候故意小作小闹，他都会一并包容，这样的男人才是真正对你动了真情。

42. A woman is a man's biggest weakness, even if he wields power and influence outside. But when it comes to you, he always feels at a loss. As soon as you frown, his heart begins to feel it, and he can't help but try to make you happy, wanting to bring you happiness and joy. He simply can't be bothered with arguing with you, even if you sometimes故意 act up or be a little naughty. He will always forgive you. Such a man is truly in love with you.

43. 我知道你一直在骗我，但是我愿意！这大概是个女的。一旦恋爱，飞蛾扑火，毫不犹豫。

43. I know you've been lying to me, but I'm willing! This must be a woman. Once in love, it's like a moth to a flame, without hesitation.

44. 事实证明，当一个人对你有这些行为时，他真的很感动

44. It turns out that when someone behaves in these ways towards you, they are truly touched.

45. 因此，一个真诚地向您迈进的人一定会陪在您身边，为您提供支持，默默支持您，并为您提供帮助。

45. Therefore, a sincere person moving towards you will definitely be by your side, providing support, silently supporting you, and offering you assistance.

46. 累的时候抱抱自己，哭的时候哄哄自己，身边不可能无时无刻有一个人陪着你宠着你，要学会自己疼自己。

46. When you're tired, give yourself a hug; when you're crying, comfort yourself. It's impossible to have someone by your side to pamper you all the time. Learn to take care of yourself.

47. 关键是你是否感动，是否沉迷，是否着魔。我愿意为此绞尽脑汁，努力工作。

47. The key is whether you are moved, whether you are immersed, whether you are enchanted. I am willing to put my mind to it and work hard for this.

48. 作家莫言曾经说过：“永远不要羡慕别人的生命。也许我们都是远视，总是住在仰望别人时；也许，我们都近视，经常忽视我们周围的幸福。”

48. The writer Mo Yan once said, "Never envy someone else's life. Perhaps we are all myopic, always living in a state of admiration for others; perhaps, we are all farsighted, often overlooking the happiness around us."

49. 并不是所有人都有那么好的脾气，如果你恰巧碰到了愿意迁就你的人，就别磨光了他的感情。

49. Not everyone has such a good temper. If you happen to meet someone who is willing to accommodate you, don't wear out their feelings.

50. 因为在您的内心中，您将另一个人置于那个非常重要和明显的位置，所以另一个人的每一个动作都可以轻易影响您的每一个动作，甚至影响您的生活。

50. Because in your heart, you place another person in a very important and prominent position, so every action of the other person can easily influence every action of yours, even affecting your life.

51. 情绪化的山西人连一碗醋都盛不下。

51. The emotional Shanxi people can't even hold a bowl of vinegar.

52. 遇到真正爱你的人，和他有一个很长很长很温暖的未来。

52. When you meet the person who truly loves you, have a long, long, warm future with them.

53. 那要如何判断男人的真心呢？其实用心去感受就有答案了，通常来说男人动了真情，会不自觉变成这个样子。

53. How can one judge a man's sincerity? In fact, the answer can be found by paying attention to the feelings, as usually when a man is sincerely in love, he will unconsciously become like this.

54. 没有人想放弃，不是因为不喜欢也不是因为不爱了，而是攒够了失望，把所有的关心和爱慕都一点点消磨殆尽了。

54. No one wants to give up, not because they don't like or love anymore, but because they have accumulated enough disappointment, and all their concern and admiration have been gradually worn away.

55. 16再长的路，一步步也能走完，再短的路，不迈开双脚也无法到达。

55. No matter how long the road, it can be traversed step by step; no matter how short the distance, it cannot be reached without taking the first step.

56. 25烈日当空，道路两旁，成熟的谷物在热得弯下腰，低着头。蚱蜢多得像草叶，再小麦和黑麦地里，在小麦和黑麦地里，在岸边的芦苇丛中，发出微弱而嘈杂的鸣声。

56. Under the scorching sun, on the sides of the road, the ripe grain bends down, bowing its head under the heat. Grasshoppers are as numerous as grass leaves, chirping weakly but noisily in the wheat and barley fields, as well as in the reed thickets along the shore.

57. 女人是男人进步的最大动力，当男人单身的时候，总是一个人吃饱全家不饿的状态，就算做事情也只是得过且过，没有什么危机感，总是一副随遇而安的状态。

57. Women are the greatest driving force for a man's progress. When a man is single, he is always in a state of being well-fed and not burdened by the family, and he only does things just to get by without any sense of crisis, always appearing to be content with whatever comes his way.

58. 在茫茫人海中，总有一个总是可以找人注视某人的人，将漫长而无聊的仪式变成一个不值得外来者的独家记忆。这是一种幸福，一种喜好。

58. Amid the vast sea of people, there is always someone who can find someone to gaze upon, turning the long and tedious ceremony into an exclusive memory unworthy of outsiders. This is a form of happiness, a preference.

59. 想见你的人，跋山涉水也总会来到你身边；不想见你的人，你走到他楼下他也懒得推开窗，真爱你的人，不怕麻烦也不忙。

59. If someone wants to see you, they will always find their way to come to you, overcoming mountains and rivers; if someone doesn't want to see you, you can walk right to their doorstep and they won't even bother to open the window. If someone truly loves you, they won't mind the trouble or be too busy.

60. 平平淡淡才是真，没错，可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。激情平淡应呈波浪形交替出现。光有平淡无激情的生活有什么意思？只要你真心爱他，到死你也会有激情的。

60. It's true that simplicity is the truth, but that should be the simplicity after passion, and then passion again, followed by simplicity. Passion and simplicity should alternate in a wave-like pattern. What's the point of a life that is only simple and lacks passion? As long as you truly love him, you will have passion until the end.

61. 它也被偶像化了。为什么会偷偷动感情？

61. It has also been idolized. Why get sentimental on the sly?

62. 与甜言蜜语相比，一个真诚地与您同行的男人更愿意一直陪在您身边，默默地支持您并帮助您。

62. Compared to sweet talk, a man who sincerely accompanies you is more willing to be by your side all the time, silently supporting and helping you.

63. 实际上，当两个人互相联系时，我总是认为正确的三种观点比外表更为重要。一个可以主动与您谈论恋爱关系未来的人应该对感情采取认真的态度，而不是拥抱。开心的心态。

63. In fact, when two people communicate with each other, I always think that the three correct viewpoints are more important than appearances. A person who can actively discuss the future of a romantic relationship with you should take a serious attitude towards the relationship, rather than just embracing a happy mindset.

64. 毕竟，维持一段关系需要长期的陪伴和彼此的支持，因为无论多么甜蜜，它都会在人生的几轮中耗尽。

64. After all, maintaining a relationship requires long-term companionship and mutual support, because no matter how sweet it may be, it will eventually wear thin through the cycles of life.

65. 10既然爱，为什么不说出口，有些东西失去了，就在也回不来了！

65. 10 Since love, why not say it out loud? Some things lost can never be returned!

66. 幸福也是需要智慧的，并不是你随随便便就能收获幸福的，有的女人平时很聪明，可是碰到爱情的时候，智商就打折了，甚至都搞不清男人的心意，男人是真情还是假意，都是一团迷糊。

66. Happiness also requires wisdom; it's not something you can easily achieve on a whim. Some women are very intelligent in their daily lives, but when it comes to love, their IQ takes a hit, and they can even get confused about what men really mean, whether they are being sincere or insincere, everything is a mess.

67. 6我不出声，也不写书，我不低唤你的名字。这爱情里有罪孽，这名字里有痛苦。---独木舟《你是我的独家记忆》

67.6 I remain silent, and I do not write books; I do not whisper your name. There is sin in this love, and pain in this name. --- Du Muzhou, "You Are My Exclusive Memory"

68. 渐渐的知道了，很多东西可遇而不可求，不属于自己的，何必拼了命去在乎。

68. Gradually, I came to understand that many things can be encountered but not sought, and if something does not belong to you, why bother caring about it with all your might.

69. 7不见面也有不见面的好，你永远是，我记忆中的样子。

69. There are good things about not meeting, you will always be the image in my memory.