拥抱自我：18句自爱箴言，余生享有自娱自乐与自傲之旅！

Embrace Yourself: 18 Aphorisms of Self-Love, Enjoy the Journey of Self-Entertainment and Self-Admiration for the Rest of Your Life!

1. 人生的道路布满着荆棘，作为有事业的人，赏尽了人间的酸、甜、苦、辣！他们之所以能走到今天，敢于担当、包容、放开；他们能走出困境，有所作为，就是对自已最大的安慰和幸福！

1. The path of life is full of thorns. As individuals with a career, they have tasted the bitterness, sweetness, sadness, and spiciness of life. It is because of their courage to take on responsibilities, their tolerance, and their willingness to let go that they have reached this point today. Being able to overcome difficulties and make a difference is the greatest comfort and happiness for themselves!

2. 58愿往后余生，知世故而不世故，千帆历尽，归来仍是少年。

2. May the rest of my life be filled with understanding of the world but not be corrupted by it, having sailed through thousands of sails, I will still return as a youth.

3. 20知道吗，有时候你需要亲自去撞南墙，别人的经验与你的人生无关。

3. You know, sometimes you need to crash into a dead end wall with your own hands, because others' experiences have nothing to do with your life.

4. 3不是因为寂寞才想你，是因为寂寞时想的仅有你。如果找一个给你打电话的理由！我想你必须会失望的，因为我有那么多个理由，想听吗？等会儿接电话好了。

4.3 It's not because of loneliness that I miss you; it's only you that I think of when I'm lonely. If I were to find a reason to call you, I think you'd be disappointed, because I have so many reasons. Want to hear them? Just pick up the phone later.

5. 55有那么一颗糖，能够甜满整个海洋:有那么一个人需要用尽余生来忘。

5. There is a piece of candy that can sweeten the entire ocean: There is a person who needs to spend the rest of their life trying to forget.

6. 19你不是一本畅销书，但在我眼里是经典，很耐读，我愿读你一辈子。

6. 19 You are not a best-selling book, but in my eyes, you are a classic, very readable, and I would love to read you for a lifetime.

7. 21茫茫人海能遇到你真的不容易，但我们错过了；庆幸的是再次遇到了你，我不会再错过，再次的相遇我才发现:你就是我今生最大的幸福，哪怕只是默默地一向陪伴着你，我也知足了。

7. Amidst the vast sea of people, it's truly not easy to meet you, but we missed each other;幸亏我们再次相遇，这次我不会再错过。In this second encounter, I've realized: you are the greatest happiness in my life, even if it's just to silently accompany you all along, I am already content.

8. 很久以来，常攀比外面的世界，为此，我们有过苦恼和徘徊。如今，过多的风雨让我们明白，其实，我们草根的爱最是实实在在。余生我陪你走。

8. For a long time, we have constantly compared ourselves to the outside world, and for this, we have experienced distress and uncertainty. Now, the excessive storms and rains have made us realize that, in fact, the love of the common people is the most real and tangible. The rest of my life, I will walk with you.

9. 35窗外下着雪，泡一杯咖啡，握到它凉了，才明白又想起了你，我的期待你如何才能明白！

9.35 Snow is falling outside the window. I brew a cup of coffee, holding it until it cools, only then do I realize that I've remembered you again. How can you understand my expectations, my dear!

10. 20尽心了，尽力了，无愧就好。得到了，失去了，知足就好。缘聚了，缘散了，随顺就好。该来的总会来，该走的留不住，一切顺其自然就好。

10. Do your best and put your heart into it; as long as you have no regrets, that's good. When you gain something, and when you lose something, be content with what you have. Whether the缘分 comes together or disperses, just go with the flow. What is meant to come will come, and what is meant to leave cannot be held back; just let everything be as it naturally is.

11. 13愿你所有的情深意重，都能换来岁月温柔。

11. May all your deep emotions and heartfelt intentions be rewarded with the gentle passage of time.

12. 爱是一种需要不断被人证明的虚妄，就像烟花需要被点燃才能看到辉煌一样。

12. Love is an illusion that needs to be constantly proven, just like fireworks need to be lit to see their brilliance.

13. 这几天的事情太多了，两天不见你有一点消息，真的好想你，遇到困难不要放弃，开心面对每一天，我们一直都在，你不会孤单的，说好的余生一起走，不只是说说而已，余生我陪你走，记得照顾好自己！

13. There have been so many things happening these days. I haven't heard from you for two days, and I really miss you so much. Don't give up when you face difficulties, and face each day with joy. We have always been here, and you will never be alone. We promised to walk through the rest of our lives together, and it's not just talk. I will accompany you through the rest of our lives, remember to take good care of yourself!

14. 6余生没那么长，不用一味的付出，去惯得寸进尺的人，请忠于自己，活得像最初的模样。生日快乐。

14. 6 Life isn't that long, so don't keep on giving without a break, allowing people who take advantage to always push for more. Be loyal to yourself and live as you did at first. Happy birthday.

15. 明明先动心的是你，最后放不下的却是我，这个小光棍节吗，祝大家可以遇到一个能够说出余生我陪你走的人。

15. It was you who first fell for it, yet it's me who can't let go in the end. On this Singles' Day, I wish everyone can meet someone who can say, "I'll accompany you through the rest of your life."

16. 10愿你的每次流泪都是喜极而泣，愿你精疲力尽时有树可倚。愿你学会释怀后一身轻，愿你走出半生，归来仍是少年。

16. May each of your tears be from joy, and may there be a tree to lean on when you are exhausted. May you feel light upon learning to let go, and may you return as a youth after half a lifetime.

17. 50昨日刷微博的时候，看到了莫文蔚的《慢慢喜欢你》的mv，再听这首歌，依然觉得很暖很甜很踏实。

17. Yesterday, while browsing microblog, I saw the music video of Mo Wenwei's "Gradually Fall in Love with You," and when I listened to the song again, I still found it warm, sweet, and reassuring.

18. 26往后余生，愿我无坚不摧，愿我百毒不侵，愿我刀枪不入，愿我狼心狗肺愿我逍遥快活。

18. From the age of 26 onwards, may I be indestructible, immune to all poisons, invulnerable to weapons, with a wolf's heart and a dog's liver, and live carefree and happily.

19. 19愿你贪吃不胖，愿你懒惰不丑，愿你深情不被辜负，愿你傻人傻福，愿你一向幸运。

19. May you be greedy but not get fat, may you be lazy but not ugly, may your deep affection not be disappointed, may you be a fool with fool's luck, may you always be lucky.

20. 感谢命运让我们相遇，你就是上天赐给我最好的礼物，嗯，就让我陪你走完余生

20. Thank fate for bringing us together. You are the best gift the heavens have bestowed upon me. Yes, let me accompany you through the rest of our lives.

21. 20好想从此刻开始抱着你，紧紧的抱着你，走到上帝面前。

21. 20 So much want to start holding you now, to hold you tightly, and walk to God's presence together.

22. 10愿你活得通透，拎得清轻重辨得明是非。想得到更多一点就要比别人熬得更久一点。

22. May you live with clarity, distinguish right from wrong, and be discerning about what's important and what's not. If you want to achieve more, you'll have to endure longer than others.

23. 我希望我的母亲真正的放下烦恼，打开心结，余生我陪你走。

23. I hope my mother can truly let go of her worries, open up her heart, and walk with me for the rest of her life.

24. 29往后余生，不管岁月是薄情，还是厚意，留一份闲情给忙碌的生活，找一份欢乐给一路的自我，看淡财富，释怀得失，爱亲人爱自我，好好的活着。

24. From 29 onwards, no matter if the years are indifferent or full of meaning, spare a moment of leisure for the busy life, find a source of joy for the self along the way, take a light view of wealth, let go of gains and losses, love your family and yourself, and live well.

25. 53余生只喜欢喜欢我的人，丢掉所有不值得的人，活在有意义的人生中。

25.53 For the remaining years, I only like those who like me, discard all those who are not worth it, and live a meaningful life.

26. 32想见你，在吞云吐月的疾风后，在日复一日的寻常里

26. I miss you, after the swift wind that swallows clouds and moonlight, in the ordinary days that repeat one after another.

27. 13你必须很努力，才能看上去毫不费力。所以，放下你的浮躁，放下你的懒惰，放下你的三分钟热度，放空你禁不住诱惑的大脑。

27. 13 You must work very hard to appear effortless. So, put aside your impatience, put aside your laziness, put aside your fleeting enthusiasm, and empty your mind that is easily tempted.

28. 8愿你一切安好，做内心想做的自我无论你的好坏，爱你的人会懂你加油，到了必须年纪要成熟看人看事要用心，无论世界是否待你温柔，请坚持住你的善良，因为好运会与你不期而遇，风雨兼程同舟共济一路有你，往后余生风雪是你平淡也是你。

28. May all be well with you, be the self you truly want to be. Whether you are good or bad, those who love you will understand you. Keep going, and when you reach the age that requires maturity, look at people and things with a sincere heart. Whether the world treats you kindly or not, please hold on to your goodness, because good fortune will meet you unexpectedly. Together through storms and trials, you have each other. The rest of your life, both the wind and snow and the plainness are you.

29. 人生中难得会有这么一个人会让你为之奋不顾身，有很多人一辈子可能都没有，而我碰到了，并且与她断断续续的度过的那段最多变的青春，然后成功的把这么一个乖巧的宝贝收了下来，今后的日子我陪你，我会陪你度过这美好的余生，陪你走到那无尽的海角，陪你尝遍百味的人生！我爱你一辈子！鞠璇！这个深刻在我心中的人！

29. It is rare in life to meet someone who would make you go all out for them, and many people may not have such an experience in their entire lifetime. But I was lucky to have encountered her, and we have gone through the most variable youth together, on and off. And now, I have successfully brought this clever little treasure into my life. From now on, I will be by your side, accompanying you through the beautiful rest of our lives, walking with you to the ends of the endless sea, and experiencing the myriad flavors of life together! I love you forever! Qianxuan! This person who has left a deep impression in my heart!

30. 18每一天我的动力就是见到你，并和你说说话……

30. 18 Every day, my motivation is to see you and talk to you...

31. 57感情也不要像手里的泥土越抓紧，就容易流下来，最终剩下的只是少之又少的尘埃。

31. Don't grasp the soil in your hands as tightly as possible, for the more you hold it, the more it will slip away. In the end, all that remains is an exceedingly small amount of dust.

32. 2我能想到最好的幸福就是在我最美的年华里有你。

32. 2 The best happiness I can think of is having you by my side during the most beautiful years of my life.

33. 五年的回忆你帮我记录我们的故事还没结束余生我陪你走完。

33. The memories of the past five years, you have helped me record our story. It's not over yet, and I will accompany you through the rest of your life.

34. 多少次 独自一人上路、汽车 火车 飞机 出租车 大巴 公交车 一趟行程转来换去各种交通工具，不是为了梦想就是为了爱情 努力而执着！

34. How many times have I set out alone, traveling by car, train, plane, taxi, bus, and public transportation, switching between various means of transport on a single journey? It's either for dreams or for love, striving and persevering!

35. 3每次有人说喜欢我，我都觉得他们的喜欢好浅，浅到喝个酒就忘记，三五天就放下。

35.3 Whenever someone says they like me, I always think their affection is shallow, so shallow that it can be forgotten after a drink and let go of in three or five days.

36. 29想见你，在吞云吐月的疾风后，在日复一日的寻常里

36. I miss you, after the swift wind that swallows clouds and moonlight, in the ordinary days that repeat themselves day by day.

37. 23愿往后余生，你心里写满了故事，脸上仍不见风霜。

37. May the remaining days of your life be filled with stories in your heart, yet may your face remain unweathered.

38. 31我不允许你不信任我，我对你承诺的话，说过的话，答应你的一切我都会做到！

38. 31 I do not allow you to distrust me. Whatever promises I have made to you, words I have spoken, and everything I have promised you, I will fulfill!

39. 60幸福的关键不在于找到一个完美的人而在，找到某人然后和他一齐努力建立一个完美的关系。

39. The key to happiness is not in finding a perfect person, but in finding someone and then working together to build a perfect relationship.

40. 25往后余生，风雪是你，平淡是你，荣华是你，心底温柔是你，目光所至，也是你。

40. From now on, the remaining years are you: the wind and snow, the plainness, the prosperity, the gentleness in the heart, and wherever your gaze falls, it is also you.

41. 我亲爱的正正，从今以后你就是偶像啦，是艺人啦，是珍珠糖的superstar啦，余生我陪你走

41. My dear Zhengzheng, from now on, you are an idol, an artist, a superstar of Pearl Candy, and I will accompany you through the rest of my life.

42. 43错过的从前用将来补全，陪着你到静止的地方。

42. 43 Make up for the past missed with the future, accompany you to the place of stillness.

43. 49余生没那么长，不用一味的付出，去惯得寸进尺的人，请忠于自己，活得像最初的模样。生日快乐。

43. 49 years isn't that long, so there's no need to unconditionally give in to those who take advantage. Stay true to yourself and live as you did at first. Happy Birthday.

44. 27讨喜的人大多是比较独立的人。与人结伴时不哗众取宠，独自生活时不顾影自怜。任何时候都冷静客观，处理好该处理的事，可是问干涉他人的事。

44. Generally, likeable people are rather independent. They don't seek popularity when in the company of others, nor do they indulge in self-pity when living alone. They remain calm and objective at all times, dealing with the matters that need to be handled, but they do not meddle in others' affairs.

45. 人生，需要有一些时刻，慢下来，静下来，听花开的声音，观叶绽的曼妙。岁月静好，余生我陪你走完。。

45. Life requires some moments to slow down, to be still, to listen to the sound of flowers blooming, and to observe the graceful unfolding of leaves. May the years be peaceful, and the rest of my life, I will walk with you through it all.

46. 16你是我心里最温柔的地方，也是我生活里全部的底气，初遇是你，余生也是你。

46. 16 You are the gentlest place in my heart, and the full confidence in my life. Our first encounter was with you, and the rest of my life will also be with you.

47. 20人生就是一场漫长的自娱自乐，讨别人欢心只是小聪明，每一天都能讨得自我开心才是硬道理。

47. Life for 20 years is a long-lasting self-entertainment, pleasing others is just a bit of cleverness, but being able to please oneself every day is the real deal.

48. 我们在最好的年纪遇到彼此，余生我陪你走，亲爱的，怎么样画的还不错吧！

48. We met each other at the best time in our lives, and I will accompany you through the rest of your life, dear. How do you like the painting? It turned out pretty well, right!

49. 余生我陪你走，说好的，谁也不放手。最后，爱你们mua。

49. I will accompany you through the rest of my life, as promised, nobody lets go. In the end, I love you all, kisses.

50. 32等你熬过那些孤独无助的时刻，你才会发现，原来自我并没有想象中那么脆弱。原来一个人，也能够活成千军万马的模样。

50. 32 When you survive those moments of loneliness and helplessness, you will find out that the self is not as fragile as you imagined. It turns out that a person can live like an army of thousands.

51. 还是得迈出那一步，尽管舍不得，可也是为了我们都好，不想再互相折磨。未来的日子还那么长，可惜再也不是我陪你走完余生。

51. It's still necessary to take that step, though it's hard to let go. It's for the best for both of us, and I don't want to torture each other anymore. The days ahead are still long, but unfortunately, they are no longer days I will walk through life with you.

52. 39一辆半挂一个他，撑起我们整个家，往后余生爱你到永远。

52. 39 A semi-trailer carrying him, he supported our entire family. From now on, until the end of our lives, I will love you forever.

53. 喜欢是一种心情，而爱是一种感情。喜欢是一时放你在心上，爱是一生藏你在心中。

53. Like is a mood, while love is an emotion. Like is about placing you on my heart for a moment, but love is about keeping you in my heart for a lifetime.

54. 25去经历，然后去后悔，去做你想做的，去选你爱的，而不是别人眼里正确的，你的一辈子应当为自我而活。

54. Experience what you want to, regret it later, do what you wish to do, choose what you love, not what others consider right. Your entire life should be lived for yourself.

55. 23伤害你的人从来没想过帮忙你成长，真正让你成长的是你的痛苦和反思。经历本身没有特殊意义让它变得有意义的是你的坚强。

55. The person who hurt you never thought about helping you grow. What truly helps you grow is your pain and reflection. The experience itself has no special meaning; it's your strength that makes it meaningful.

56. 45愿你始终做善良的自我，知世故而不世故。

56. 45 May you always be the kind version of yourself, knowing the world but not becoming worldly.

57. 57常相知，才能不相疑；不相疑，才能常相知。

57. Only when we constantly know each other can we avoid suspicion; only when we are not suspicious can we constantly know each other.

58. 衣服丢了纽扣， 才知道什么叫依赖； 锁头丢了钥匙， 才明白什么是离不开。

58. It wasn't until the button on my clothes fell off that I realized what it means to depend on something; it was only when the key to the lock was lost that I understood what it is to be indispensable.

59. 38窗外下着雪，泡一杯咖啡，握到它凉了，才明白又想起了你，我的期待你如何才能明白！

59. Outside, snow is falling. I brew a cup of coffee, holding it until it cools down, then I realize I've thought of you again. My longing, how can you ever understand it!

60. 32没有必要把你懂的所有东西都说出来，人们不喜欢他们身边有人比他们懂得更多，那会让他们很恼火。

60. 32 There is no need to reveal everything you know. People do not like having someone around who knows more than them, as it can make them very irritated.

61. 5你占有了我百分之六十的灵气，百分之的细腻。所剩无几，百分之十，竭智尽力。往后余生，期望是你。

61. You have taken 60% of my spiritual essence and 100% of my delicacy. There is little left, just 10%. I will use all my wisdom and efforts. For the rest of my life, I hope it's you.

62. 46亲爱的，往后余生，依然想你，永远爱你，直到再也没有力气！

62. 46 Darling, in the years to come, I will still think of you, forever love you, until there is no more strength left!

63. 7生活总是两难，再多执着，再多不肯，却也不得不学会理解那些渐渐的不再纯粹。从哭着控诉，到笑着对待，到头来，可是是一场随遇而安。

63. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how much we cling and refuse, we also have to learn to understand those things that are gradually no longer pure. From crying out in protest to smilingly dealing with them, in the end, it turns out to be a state of embracing whatever comes.

64. 54你占有了我百分之六十的灵气，百分之的细腻。所剩无几，百分之十，竭智尽力。往后余生，期望是你。

64. You have occupied 60% of my spiritual essence and 100% of my delicacy. What remains is little, just 10%, using all my wits and efforts. For the rest of my life, I hope it's you.

65. 47你笑起来真好看，我觉得我是世界上最幸福的人。

65. 47 You look so beautiful when you smile, I feel like I am the happiest person in the world.

66. 过去一点都不让我觉得羞于启齿，说出来反倒更加自在轻松许多，他会坚定的告诉我，小哥哥一直在，让我陪你走完余生，我就真的没那么累了，可以充满信心面对所有的坎儿和不愉快，很安心。

66. The past never made me feel ashamed to speak about it; in fact, talking about it feels much more relaxed and free. He would firmly tell me that the little brother is always there, to accompany me through the rest of my life, and then I wouldn't feel so tired. I could face all the hardships and unpleasantness with confidence, feeling very at ease.

67. 7愿我们往后余生，冷暖有相知，共度日月长。

67. May the rest of our lives be filled with mutual warmth and understanding, sharing the long journey of days and months together.

68. 3我可以把所有的爱都给你，因为你就是我此生最爱。

68. 3 I can give you all my love, because you are the most beloved person in my life.

69. 33愿我们往后余生，冷暖有相知，共度日月长。

69. May the rest of our lives be shared with mutual warmth and understanding, enduring the long journey of days and months together.

70. 18幸福的关键不在于找到一个完美的人而在，找到某人然后和他一齐努力建立一个完美的关系。

70. The key to happiness is not in finding a perfect person, but in finding someone and working together to build a perfect relationship.

71. 38有时候抽烟只是无聊，有时候喜欢上了一个人也可能是太无聊。

71. Sometimes smoking is just out of boredom, and sometimes falling in love with someone can also be due to too much boredom.

72. 55愿你自强到无需有人宠有人惯！却依然幸运到有人疼，有人爱。

72. May you grow strong to the point where you no longer need anyone to pamper or spoil you! Yet still be lucky enough to have someone to cherish and someone to love.

73. 语言只能表白你是一个怎样的人，实际行动才能证明你是一个怎样的人

73. Language can only express what kind of person you are, but only practical actions can prove what kind of person you are.

74. 26一想到未来有你，就觉得这是件惊天动地的大事，巴不得全世界都知晓。

74.26 Just thinking about your future presence feels like a monumental event, one I can't wait to share with the whole world.

75. 34每一天我的动力就是见到你，并和你说说话……

75. 34 Every day, my motivation is to see you and talk to you...

76. 宁缺毋滥，将就却不是一天两天，而是一辈子，这一辈子也就毁了两个人，都没有找到自己最爱的，而我们又有多少时光可以这样将就呢

76. Better to have less than to have too much. Compromising is not just for a day or two, but for a lifetime, and in this lifetime, it ruins two people who haven't found the one they love the most. How much time do we have to compromise like this?

77. 21余生，坐在那窗台，看看外面的景色，一日三餐，只想淡淡的活着。

77. For the remaining 21 years, sit on that windowsill, gaze at the scenery outside, have three meals a day, and just want to live life in a tranquil manner.

78. 54不一样的时间，不一样的地点，不一样的人群，变化的空间，变化的容颜，变化的语言，不变的是我对你的思念之情！

78. Different times, different places, different crowds, changing spaces, changing faces, changing languages, what remains unchanged is my longing for you!

79. 25我要用尽我的万种风情，让你在将来任何不和我在一齐的时候，内心无法安宁。

79. 25 I will exhaust all my myriad charms, so that whenever you are not with me in the future, your heart will not find peace.

80. 28所谓真爱，就是在爱到头破血流之后，依然能拿出一颗真心来待你。

80. True love is the ability to offer a sincere heart to you even after loving someone to the point of bleeding.

81. 35愿你心中有爱，钱包有钱，脚下有路。感情顺利，婚姻美满。会遇见一个人，给你彻头彻尾的理解和无条件的支持，在你累的时候拉着你一齐走，永远不放手。

81. May you have love in your heart, money in your wallet, and a path under your feet. May your relationships go smoothly and your marriage be blissful. May you meet someone who gives you thorough understanding and unconditional support, holding you by the hand when you are tired, walking together, never letting go.