1. 爱情是贪婪与恐惧的平衡，愈想占有，愈容易失去，爱是尽量占有和尽量避免失去之间的平衡。张小娴

1. Love is a balance between greed and fear; the more one wants to possess, the easier it is to lose. Love is a balance between trying to possess as much as possible and trying to avoid losing as much as possible. - Zhang Xiaoxian

2. 世间上最美好的爱恋，是为一个人付出时的勇敢，即使被伤的体无完肤，也无怨无悔。周立波

2. The most beautiful love in the world is the courage to give oneself to someone, even if it leaves you wounded to the core, with no regrets. — Zhou Libo

3. 爱情里面要是搀杂了和它本身无关的算计，那就不是真的爱情。莎士比亚

3. If calculation is mixed with love that has nothing to do with itself, then it is not true love. - Shakespeare

4. 当爱情来临，当然也是快乐的。但是，这种快乐是要付出的，也要学习去接受失望，伤痛和离别。从此，人生不再纯粹。张小娴

4. When love comes, of course, it is also joyful. However, this joy requires sacrifice, and one also needs to learn to accept disappointment, pain, and separation. From then on, life is no longer pure. - Zhang Xiaoxian

5. 婚姻是爱情的坟墓如果没有房子，你连坟墓都进不去！郭德纲

5. Marriage is the grave of love. If you don't have a house, you won't even be able to enter the grave! Guo Degang

6. 一旦爱情得到了满足，他人魅力也就荡然无存了。高乃依

6. Once love is satisfied, the charm of others is gone. Corneille

7. 爱情和火焰一样，没有不断的运动就不能继续存在，一旦它停止希望和害怕，它的生命也就停止了。拉罗什福科

7. Love, like flame, cannot continue to exist without constant movement; once it stops hoping and fearing, its life also comes to an end. - La Rochefoucauld

8. 起先的冷淡，将会使以后的恋爱更加热烈；她要是向你假意生滇，那不是因为她讨厌你，而是因为她希望你更加爱她。莎士比亚

8. Initial coldness will make future love more intense; if she pretends to be angry with you, it's not because she dislikes you, but because she wants you to love her more. - Shakespeare

9. 爱情抵抗不住繁琐的家务，必须至少有一方品质极坚强。巴尔扎克

9. Love cannot withstand the tedious household chores; at least one party must possess an extremely strong character. Balzac

10. 爱情能持之以恒才是一件好事；可是，如果在别的方面没有恒心，那么爱情方面的恒心也就一文不值，毫无意义了。狄更斯

10. It is a good thing for love to be enduring; however, if there is no constancy in other aspects, then the constancy in love is worth nothing and has no meaning. - Dickens

11. 初恋都是丑小鸭，有一天，我们会怀念当时的脆弱和寒伧，然而，成熟的爱情才是羽化了的天鹅。张小娴

11. First loves are all ugly ducks. Someday, we will miss the fragility and shabbiness of those days, yet, mature love is the swan that has been transformed. - Xiaoxian Zhang

12. 爱情是一条规律，肉欲是一个陷阱，醉和嗜酒成瘾是不同的，醉是要某一个女人，嗜酒成瘾是要所有的女人。雨果

12. Love is a law, lust is a trap. Drunkenness and alcoholism are different; drunkenness is about wanting a certain woman, while alcoholism is about wanting all women. Victor Hugo

13. 谁的爱情宫殿是用美德奠基，用财富筑墙，用美丽发光，用荣耀铺顶，谁就是最幸福的人。弗·夸尔斯

13. Whose love palace is founded on virtue, walled with wealth, shining with beauty, and topped with glory, he is the happiest person. F. Quares.

14. 爱情是自由自在的，而自由自在的爱情是最真切的。丁尼生

14. Love is free and easy, and the most genuine love is the one that is free and easy. - Tennyson

15. 每个人身上都有一口泉眼，不断喷涌出生命、活力、爱情。如果不为它挖沟疏导，它就会把周围的土地变成沼泽。马克·拉瑟福德

15. Everyone has a spring of life, vitality, and love within them, constantly gushing forth. If it is not dug and channeled, it will turn the surrounding land into a bog. - Mark Rutherford

16. 真挚而纯洁的爱情，一定渗有对心爱的人的劳动和职业的尊重。邓颖超

16. Genuine and pure love must contain respect for the loved one's labor and profession. Deng Yingchao

17. 刻下爱的见证的小树，已长成大树。而我们狂热的恋情，早随风飘散。小小的印记，变成巨大的伤痕。风起时，我听见整个森林的叹息。几米

17. The little tree that etched the witness of love has grown into a mighty tree. But our passionate love has long been scattered with the wind. The tiny mark has turned into a huge scar. When the wind blows, I hear the sighs of the entire forest. A few meters.

18. 仁之法，在爱人，不在爱我；义之法，在正我，不在正人。董仲舒

18. The principle of Ren (benevolence) lies in loving others, not in loving myself; the principle of Yi (righteousness) lies in correcting myself, not in correcting others. — Dong Zhongshu

19. 恋爱中的女人要求她的情人是英雄巨人，一个半神的人，又要求自己不全属于他，所以只有完全占有了他，她才会快乐。张爱玲

19. A woman in love demands that her lover be a heroic giant, a semi-divine being, yet she also requires that she does not belong to him entirely. Therefore, she can only be happy when she has completely possessed him. - Zhang Aiying

20. 某些人的爱情，只是一种当时的情绪如果对方错将这份情绪当做长远的爱情，是本身的幼稚。三毛

20. Love for some people is just a temporary emotion. If the other person mistakenly treats this emotion as a long-term love, it is their own immaturity. - Sanmao

21. 一个经历了爱情创伤的青年，如果没有因这创伤而倒下，那就可能更坚强地在生活中站起来。路遥

21. A young person who has experienced the pain of love and has not collapsed because of it may stand up even stronger in life. Lu You.

22. 婚姻是键盘，太多秩序和规则；爱情是鼠标，一点就通。男人自比主机，内存最重要；女人好似显示器，一切都看得出来。张爱玲

22. Marriage is a keyboard, with too much order and rules; love is a mouse, just a click and it's connected. Men compare themselves to the main unit, where memory is most important; women are like monitors, where everything is visible. -- Zhang Ailing

23. 爱情是女人一生的历史，而只是男人一生中的一段插曲。史达尔

23. Love is the history of a woman's life, but only a chapter in a man's life. - Stendhal

24. 结婚是爱情的坟墓，但是如果不结婚，爱情就死无葬身之地。张爱玲

24. Marriage is the grave of love, but if one does not marry, love has no place to be buried. - Zhang Aiying

25. 爱情是一个平台，上面聚集着形形**的人。吉尔伯特

25. Love is a platform where people of all kinds gather. Gilbert

26. 友谊就好比一颗星星，而爱情只是一支蜡烛。蜡烛是要耗尽的，而星星却永远闪光。大仲马

26. Friendship is like a star, and love is just a candle. The candle burns out, but the star shines forever. Alexander Dumas.

27. 他看着自己的皮肉，不像是自己在看，而像是自己之外的一个爱人，深深悲伤着，觉得他白糟蹋了自己。张爱玲

27. He looked at his own flesh and blood, as if he were watching someone else's beloved, deeply sorrowful, feeling that he had wasted himself in vain. Zhang Ailing

28. 不要在别人的痛苦泪水中去驾驶自己的快乐之舟吧。当你在行使恋爱自由权利的时候，请不要忘记遵守起码的社会公德。陈玉蜀

28. Do not navigate your boat of happiness through someone else's tears of suffering. When you are exercising your right to love freely, please do not forget to adhere to the basic social morality. — Chen Yushu

29. 人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺，此事古难全，但愿人长久，千里共婵娟。──苏轼

29. Men have joy and sorrow, parting and reunion, the moon has its waning and waxing, full and crescent phases, such things are ancient and hard to be perfect. Yet I wish people may have a long life, sharing the bright moon together across thousands of miles. — Su Shi

30. 恋爱是艰苦的，不能期待它象美梦一样出来。──拜伦

30. Love is arduous; it cannot be expected to emerge like a beautiful dream. — Byron

31. 真正的爱就要把疯狂的或是近于不健康的东西赶得远远的。柏拉图

31. True love requires that we drive away things that are fanatical or almost unhealthy. - Plato

32. 恋爱的法则是热情洋溢中双方都应该全心全意忘掉别的事情。林语堂

32. The rule of love is that both parties should be fully immersed in enthusiasm, forgetting about other things entirely. - Lin Yutang

33. 爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。张小娴

33. Love has not yet arrived, and life is carefree; the most painful thing is merely the tests and exams. It felt like a great pressure at the time, but looking back, it was so insignificant. - Zhang Xiaoxian

34. 一个恋爱着的人，可比魔鬼和天使更有力量，能够做到一切啊。海泽

34. A person in love is more powerful than the devil and the angel, capable of achieving anything. — Haser

35. 恋爱不是慈善事业，所以不能慷慨施舍。──萧伯纳

35. Love is not a charitable undertaking; therefore, it cannot be liberally bestowed. ── George Bernard Shaw

36. 摧残爱情的方式很多，不过连根拔起的狂风暴雨，却是借钱。张爱玲

36. There are many ways to destroy love, but the storm that uproots it is borrowing money. - Zhang Ailing

37. 生活是很可怕很丑陋的。当两个人果然在一起后，爱情就会由蜜糖化为口香糖，愈嚼愈淡，淡到后来竟是涩涩苦苦的，不由得你不吐掉。多拉·玛尔

37. Life is terrifying and ugly. When two people are indeed together, love will turn from honey to chewing gum, becoming more and more bland with each chew, eventually becoming bitter and astringent, making you want to spit it out. - Dolores Mar.

38. 爱情待在高山之巅，在理智的谷地之上。爱情是生活的升华人生的绝顶，它难得出现。杰克·伦敦

38. Love dwells on the peak of high mountains, above the valley of reason. Love is the sublimation of life and the summit of one's life, it is rare to appear. Jack London

39. 爱情的火没有一次来得及熔炼出一条能终身束缚她的锁链。拉格洛夫

39. The flame of love has never been timely enough to forge a chain that could bind her for a lifetime. Lagerlof

40. 爱情的快乐不能在**的拥抱中告终。爱，必须有恒久不变的特质，要爱自己，也要爱对方。卡尔·波普

40. The joy of love cannot end in an embrace. Love must have the quality of being eternal and unchanging; one must love oneself as well as the other.卡尔·波普

41. 爱情就是上辈子欠下的情债这辈子来还我上辈子一定俗不可耐，搞得我今生无债可还。张爱玲

41. Love is the debt from a past life that I am paying back in this life. In my past life, I must have been utterly vulgar, causing me to have no debts to pay in this life. - Eileen Chang

42. 爱情有一千个动人心弦而又各不相同的音符。乔·克雷布

42. Love has a thousand heart-tugging and unique notes. Joe Krehbich

43. 在爱情方面，别有用心的虚假总比真面目可爱，就因为此，才有许多男人肯在一个手段高明的女骗子身上挥金如土。巴尔扎克

43. In matters of love, deliberate deception is often more charming than the truth, which is why many men are willing to lavish money on a skilled female swindler. Balzac

44. 每一种爱情必有它精神的本质，一种本质鲜花怒放，另一种本质就枯萎了。**之爱不需要互相尊重的爱情不能贬低为单纯的享乐。罗曼·罗兰

44. Every form of love has its spiritual essence; one essence blooms like a flower, while another withers away. Love that does not require mutual respect cannot be degraded to mere pleasure. -- Romain Rolland

45. 爱情献出了一切，却依然富有。菲·贝利

45. Love gives everything and still remains rich. Fei · Baire.