在无垠的宇宙中，生命如同尘埃般渺小。然而，在这无尽的苍穹之下，我们却以非凡的勇气和坚定的信念，书写着属于自己的传奇。

In the boundless universe, life is as small as dust. However, under this endless sky, we write our own legends with extraordinary courage and unwavering belief.

1. 我心目中的幸福，绝不是转瞬即逝的瞬间，而是一种平平常常的持久的状态。它本身没有任何令人激动的地方，但它持续的时间愈长，就愈令人陶醉。

1. The happiness I envision is not a fleeting moment, but a state that is ordinary and enduring. It has nothing exciting about it on its own, but the longer it lasts, the more intoxicating it becomes.

2. 人生路漫漫，何必都求同。条条道路通罗马，南辕北辙方知圆。日有升落，月有盈亏，万事无常。人生的路，总有几道沟坎，生活的味，总有几分苦涩，有些事，无能为力，就顺其自然，有些人，不能强求，就一笑了之，有些路，躲避不开，就义无反顾，有些理，又说不通，何必去辩解。不同的道路走出不同的人，花开万紫千红才是美。

2. Life's journey is long and winding, why seek uniformity in everything? All roads lead to Rome; only by taking a wrong turn can one understand the concept of roundness. The sun rises and sets, the moon waxes and wanes; all things are impermanent. In life, there will always be a few hurdles to overcome, and the taste of life will always have a bit of bitterness. Some things, one cannot help, so just go with the flow; some people, one cannot force, so just laugh it off; some paths, one cannot avoid, so just go all in; some principles, one cannot explain, so why argue? Different paths lead to different people, and it is the beauty of a thousand colors of flowers blooming.

3. 那天，雅典法庭上出现了一个矮小的身影。面对着他熟悉的群众，面对着他无比信仰着的法律，他没有畏惧。他放弃任何逃脱的机会，站在法庭上，他平静，饮鸩，然后倒下。这个站在理性光芒高峰上的巨人，誓死坚守着他的职责，热爱着他的城邦。他自认为是神赐予雅典这匹骏马的一只牛虻，他也清楚地明白，被惊醒的骏马，在扬蹄狂奔之前，必将牛虻踩在脚下。为了坚守他热爱的城邦，他，甘愿当这只牛虻。站在高峰上的他，虽然孤寂，但也满足。他在这里，用他的坚守挺起背杆，向着大地播撒他的理性。

3. On that day, a diminutive figure appeared in the court of Athens. Facing the familiar crowd before him and the law he held in the highest reverence, he did not falter. He gave up any chance of escape, stood in the courtroom, calm, took a fatal sip, and then collapsed. This giant standing at the peak of the light of reason vowed to die in the defense of his duties and his beloved city. He considered himself a gadfly, granted to Athens this spirited horse, and he clearly understood that before the startled horse rears and gallops off, the gadfly would surely be trampled underfoot. In order to defend his beloved city, he was willing to be this gadfly. Standing alone at the peak, though solitary, he was also content. Here, he upheld his back, with his unwavering stance, sowing the seeds of reason upon the earth.

4. 作为一个绝非不谙世事，也无阅历的高中生，我在那些高大熟悉的伟人身边穿梭，看到了他们闪光的一面，鞭策着我不断前进。带着西藏朝圣者虔诚的信仰，带着凤凰浴火重生的涅盘，我开始生命高度的探索。

4. As a high school student who is by no means naive or inexperienced, I navigated through the company of those towering and familiar giants, seeing the brilliance in them that spurred me on to keep moving forward. With the devout faith of a Tibetan pilgrim and the phoenix's rebirth from the ashes, I embarked on an exploration of the heights of life.

5. 深夜负能量到怀疑人生、白天却能像个傻子般、笑嘻嘻活着；也许：这就是生活吧。

5. At night, full of negative energy to the point of doubting life itself, but during the day, I can live like an idiot, grinning from ear to ear; maybe: this is life, isn't it?

6. 所以五十才能够知天命，也就是到这个时候，基本上可以做到&uot;不怨天、不尤人了&uot;，达到孔子的这种境界，这是一种内心的定力。其实在庄子《逍遥游》中，也有这样的一个表述，《逍遥游》中说，做到&uot;且举世而誉之而不加劝，举世而非之而不加沮，定乎内外之分，辩乎荣辱之境，斯已矣。&uot;这就够了。什么意思呢&uot;举世而誉之&uot;全世界都在夸你的时候，在劝你的时候，让你往前走一步的时候，而不加劝，这个劝是劝勉的劝，就是自己再多走一步，在别人的鼓励和纵容下再多做一点，他说我不会。&uot;举世而非之&uot;就是全世界都在苛责你、都在非难你、都在说你做错了的时候，内心可以保持不沮丧，不加沮，这样才叫做订户内外之分。

6. Therefore, one can understand one's destiny at the age of fifty, which means by this time, one can basically achieve the state of "not blaming heaven, not blaming others," reaching the level of Confucius, which is a kind of inner strength. In fact, in Zhuangzi's "Free and Easy Wandering," there is also such an expression. "Free and Easy Wandering" says, "to be praised by the whole world without seeking encouragement, to be criticized by the whole world without being disheartened, to determine the boundaries between the inner and outer, to distinguish between honor and disgrace, that is enough." What does this mean? "To be praised by the whole world" refers to the time when the whole world is praising you, encouraging you, and urging you to take a step forward, but without seeking encouragement. This encouragement is the encouragement to be encouraged, meaning that if you go another step further, do more under others' encouragement and tolerance, he says he won't. "To be criticized by the whole world" refers to the time when the whole world is blaming you, censuring you, and saying you are wrong. To maintain inner composure and not be disheartened, this is what it means to "determine the boundaries between the inner and outer."

7. 人生的悲苦，与得失纠缠，与是非相伴，与成败共生。快乐的真谛，多不在得时欣喜，而在失后坦然。再好的东西，你抓得太紧，终会累的。曾经的拥有，要记得感恩；错过的美丽，要懂得放手； 精神的高压，要学会承受；直白的生活，要倾心去爱。当你领略了失去之善，避开了钟情之苦，快乐方至。

7. The sorrows of life are intertwined with gains and losses, accompanied by right and wrong, and coexist with success and failure. The true essence of happiness is not found in joy at gaining, but in calmness after losing. No matter how good something is, holding on too tightly will eventually tire you out. Remember to be grateful for what you once had; learn to let go of the beauty you missed; learn to bear the pressure of spirit; and love the straightforward life wholeheartedly. It is only when you understand the goodness of losing and avoid the pain of obsession that happiness will truly come.

8. 人的一生会遇到两个人，一个惊艳了时光，一个温柔了岁月。

8. In a person's life, they will meet two individuals: one who shocks the time, and one who softens the years.

9. 我们习惯于对别人察言观色，逢迎讨好，希望别人给予自己好感和赞美，害怕别人的贬低和批评。然而，不管我们如何努力，也很难左右别人对我们的看法。与其在别人的世界里焦虑不安，不如顺其自然，他爱怎么看就怎么看，爱怎么想就怎么想，只要你不在乎，他永远都影响不到你。

9. We are accustomed to observing others' expressions and trying to please them, hoping to gain their approval and praise, while fearing their belittlement and criticism. However, no matter how hard we try, it is often difficult to influence others' opinions of us. It's better to go with the flow instead of being anxious in the world of others. Let them think and see as they wish, as long as you don't care, they will never be able to affect you.

10. 做一个内心强大的人，我们将无往而不胜。

10. Be a person of strong inner character, and we will be invincible in all endeavors.

11. 暮霭晨钟，雅典古老的石柱在向人们诉说着一段坚守的故事。苏格拉底，这永不疲倦的灵魂，时时伴着孤寂在高峰凝望，向过往的人们输送着理性的光辉。

11. With the evening twilight and the morning bell, the ancient stone pillars of Athens are telling people a story of unwavering commitment. Socrates, this tireless soul, often stands alone on the peak, gazing at the passersby, imparting the light of reason.

12. 凡是幸福无法治愈的，任何药物也都无法治愈。

12. Anything that happiness cannot heal, no medicine can cure.

13. 人生是一场单程的旅行，即使有些遗憾，我们也没有从头再来的机会，与其纠结无法改变的过去，不如微笑着，珍惜未来。因为生活，没有如果。

13. Life is a one-way journey; even if there are some regrets, we don't have the chance to start over. It's better to smile and cherish the future rather than dwell on the past that cannot be changed. Because life, there is no "if."

14. 如果你是狮子，别人骂你是狗，你不会真的变成狗，故不用为此而生嗔；如果你是狗，别人赞叹你是狮子，你也不会真的变成狮子，故不必为此而生喜。所以，别人的赞叹，不会让你变好；别人的指责，也不会让你变坏，这些没什么可执着的。我们应以这样的心态，对待他人对自己的评价。

14. If you are a lion and someone curses you as a dog, you won't really become a dog, so there is no need to be angry about it; if you are a dog and someone praises you as a lion, you won't really become a lion, so there is no need to be joyful about it. Therefore, others' praise won't make you better; others' criticism won't make you worse. There is nothing to be obsessed about. We should treat others' evaluations of us with such a mindset.

15. 语言很多时候都很虚假，一起经历的事情才最真实。

15. Language is often very deceitful; it's the shared experiences that are the most real.

16. 人在年轻时，最头疼的一件事就是决定自己这一生要做什么。

16. When one is young, the most troublesome thing is to decide what to do in this life.

17. 不要总在过去的回忆里缠绵，不要总是想让昨天的阴雨淋湿今天的行装。昨天的太阳，晒不干今天的衣裳。

17. Do not always linger in the memories of the past, and do not always want yesterday's gloomy rain to dampen today's luggage. The sun of yesterday cannot dry today's clothes.

18. 女人在生活的风雨无情袭来的时候，要驻足风雨之后的彩虹，不要一味沉浸于风雨所带给你的伤害，让美丽绝伦的彩虹引导你的思想更加勇敢、快乐、平静而有力。

18. When the relentless storms of life come crashing down, women should pause to admire the rainbow after the rain, rather than wallow in the harm brought by the storms. Let the resplendent rainbow guide your thoughts to become braver, happier, calmer, and more powerful.

19. “如果你不能飞，那就跑吧。如果你不能跑，那就走吧。如果你不能走，那就爬吧。但无论怎样，都要继续前行。”

19. "If you can't fly, then run. If you can't run, then walk. If you can't walk, then crawl. But no matter what, keep moving forward."

20. 喜欢爬山的人，经历一段披荆斩棘之后，不少人会有“一览众山小”的感慨。但与此同时又有“哀吾生之须臾”的渺小之感。这样的感慨是常人有之的，但并不用过分地沉溺于此。当你到达一定的高峰之后，别忘了在你身后还有其他的山峰在等待着你。

20. People who like climbing mountains often feel a sense of "looking down upon all mountains" after going through difficulties and thorns. At the same time, they also have a feeling of minuteness, "regretting the fleetingness of my life." Such sentiments are common among ordinary people, but there is no need to indulge in them excessively. When you reach a certain peak, don't forget that there are still other mountains waiting for you behind you.

21. 似等了一百年忽而明白，即使再见面，成熟地表演，不如不见。

21. It was as if I had waited a hundred years and then suddenly realized that it would be better not to see each other even if we were to meet, and to perform maturely.

22. 往后余生，风雪是你，平淡是你，清贫是你，荣华是你，心底温柔是你，目光所至，也是你。

22. For the rest of my life, the wind and snow are you, the plainness is you, the poverty is you, the prosperity is you, the gentleness in my heart is you, and wherever my gaze falls, it is you as well.

23. 真正的闲暇并不是说什么事也不做，而是能够自由地做自己感兴趣的事。

23. True leisure is not about doing nothing at all, but about being able to freely do things that interest you.

24. 人生短短数十载，最要紧的是满足自己，不是讨好他人。

24. Life is short, only a few decades, the most important thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others.

25. 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以自始至终陪着走完。当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。

25. Life is like a train heading towards the grave, with many stops along the way, and it's rare for anyone to accompany you from start to finish. When the person accompanying you decides to get off, even though it's hard to let go, you should be grateful in your heart and then wave goodbye.

26. 生活最大的幸福就是，坚信有人爱着我。对于过去，不可忘记，但要放下。因为有明天，今天永远只是起跑线。生活简单就迷人，人心简单就幸福；学会简单其实就不简单。

26. The greatest happiness in life is to firmly believe that someone loves me. As for the past, it should not be forgotten, but it should be let go. Because there is a tomorrow, today will always just be the starting line. Life is charming when simple, and happiness lies in a simple heart; actually, learning to be simple is not simple at all.

27. 真正爱一个人，应该是让她过的幸福。爱人的方式不一定就是在一起，在一起的爱是最自私的。好朋友的恋人你真的喜欢？和她在一起真会幸福吗？要考虑的问题太多了。真正的爱情，伟大的爱情，应该是给对方幸福，而不是要天天跟对方在一起，拥有对方。尽管每个人都不可能这么伟大，但是我觉得我们可以试着开导自己去这么做。

27. To truly love someone is to let them live a happy life. The way to love someone doesn't necessarily mean being together, and love that is together can be the most selfish. Do you really like your best friend's lover? Would you truly be happy being with her? There are too many things to consider. True love, great love, should be about giving the other person happiness, not about being together with them every day, or possessing them. Although no one can be so great, I think we can try to guide ourselves to act this way.

28. 永远原谅敌人，没有什么能比这个让他们更恼火。

28. Always forgive your enemies; nothing can make them angrier than that.

29. 高处不胜寒！勇者方得胜！智者方得流传千古！

29. The higher the place, the colder it is! Only the brave can win! Only the wise can be remembered throughout the ages!

30. 把圈子变小，把语速放缓，把心放宽，把生活打理简单。

30. Narrow down your circle, slow down your pace, broaden your mind, and simplify your life.

31. 每一个成功者都是一位苦行僧，只有他们自己才知道，通往成功的道路上，到底有多少寂莫与不解。

31. Every successful person is an ascetic, and only they themselves know how much loneliness and misunderstanding lie on the path to success.

32. 张爱玲写道：“即使个人等得及，时间是仓促的，已在破坏之中还有更大的破坏要来。”所以出名要趁早，要做那天外天，人外人的高峰。我认为不然，一座山自然有山顶，山腰，山麓，如果只是追求顶峰，那么下面难道是空的吗？

32. Eileen Chang wrote: "Even if individuals can wait, time is fleeting, and there is already destruction; there will be even greater destruction to come." Therefore, one should strive for fame early, to reach the peak of the heavens beyond and the people beyond." I don't think so. A mountain naturally has its summit, middle, and foot. If one only chases the peak, then isn't the space below empty?

33. 就是时光倒流，生命再一次重演，我选择的仍是这条同样的道路。

33. Even if time were to reverse and life were to replay, I would still choose the same path.

34. 遇到困难，越是坚强的女人越是有一股让人尊敬与心疼的魅力。坚强不是倔强更不是强悍，它让受伤的女人把目光投向远方，给自己一个信步生活的理由。坚强的女人会打一把钥匙解开心锁；借一方晴空，拥抱阳光。她还会找一个肩膀让泪水尽情流淌。爱过、痛过、哭过、笑过，然后继续坚强。

34. When faced with difficulties, the stronger a woman is, the more she exudes a respect and aching appeal that commands admiration. Strength is not stubbornness nor is it brute force; it allows the wounded woman to look to the horizon, giving herself a reason to casually live life. Strong women use a key to unlock their hearts; they borrow a patch of blue sky to embrace the sunlight. They also find a shoulder to let their tears flow freely. They have loved, suffered, cried, and laughed, and then continue to be strong.

35. 呱呱而坠地时，我睁开混沌的眼，父爱便在我心中根植山峰般的烙印，厚重而凝实，血浓于水中一脉相连。

35. When I fell to the ground with a cry, I opened my confused eyes, and the love of my father planted a mountain-like mark in my heart, thick and solid, with blood thicker than water, connected by a single vein.

36. 光勤劳是不够的，蚂蚁也非常勤劳。你在勤劳些什么呢？有两种过错是基本的，其他一切过错都由此而生：急躁和懒惰。

36. Merely being diligent is not enough; ants are also very diligent. What are you diligent about? There are two basic faults from which all other faults arise: impatience and laziness.

37. 不要轻易去依赖一个人，它会成为你的习惯，当分别来临，你失去的不是某个人，而是你精神的支柱。无论何时何地，都要学会独立行走，它会让你走得更坦然些。

37. Do not easily depend on someone, as it will become a habit. When the time for separation comes, what you lose is not just a person, but the支柱 of your spirit. At any time and place, learn to walk independently, which will make you feel more at ease.

38. 如果你爱我 请爱全部的我，不只是明媚的我， 或者是阴暗的我；如果你爱我 ，请爱黑白的我 ，灰色的我 ，绿色的我 ，金黄的我 ，棕色的我；爱白天的我，爱晚上的我，以及黎明前倚在窗口的我，如果你爱我 ，请不要爱部分的我，爱全部的我；否则 ，请不要爱我 。---杜玛洛伊纳斯

38. If you love me, love all of me, not just the bright me, or the dark me; if you love me, love the black and white me, the gray me, the green me, the golden me, the brown me; love the me of day, the me of night, and the me leaning against the window before dawn; if you love me, do not love only part of me, but all of me; otherwise, do not love me. --- Dumaloyanas

39. 人不是飞鸟，人只是有贴在地上的双脚，与其为了追求高峰而绞尽脑汁，不如安安分分地走好自己的路，相信有一天你“蓦然回首，高峰就在灯火阑珊处。”

39. Humans are not birds, but rather beings with feet firmly planted on the ground. It is better to concentrate on walking your own path properly than to strain one's brain in pursuit of high peaks. Believe that one day, when you look back, the peak will be right there, amidst the twinkling lights.

40. 任何一颗心灵的成熟，都必须经过寂寞的洗礼和孤独的磨炼。

40. The maturity of any soul must undergo the baptism of solitude and the tempering of loneliness.

41. 父爱如峰，时而厚凝沉重，像九天奔雷般于我掁聋发聩的错觉。

41. The love of a father is like a peak, sometimes thick and heavy, like the rolling thunder of the nine heavens, a misconception that shakes and deafens me.

42. 及至落冠，闲云扯不开千丝万缕的依恋，依恋那如山的容颜，依恋那如峰的父爱。

42. Until the time of shedding the hairpin, the leisurely clouds could not untangle the myriad threads of attachment, clinging to the mountain-like countenance, and clinging to the peak-like fatherly love.

43. 嘴里坚持着逞强，眼里的泪在投降。骗得了别人，骗不了自己，原来我并没那么坚强。

43. With my mouth I pretend to be strong, but tears in my eyes surrender. I can deceive others, but not myself. It turns out that I am not as strong as I thought.

44. 你一直都是孤身一人吗？你曾有过伴侣吗？你知道你会怎么样吗？知道吗？我不知道。我不知道我怎么会这样。我不知道。我看着镜子里的自己，只能认出自己的这对瞳孔。长在这张苍老的脸上。你知道吗。有时我觉得自己生不逢时。也许我俩都是文物。

44. Have you always been alone? Have you ever had a partner? Do you know what will happen to you? Do you know? I don't know. I don't know why I am like this. I don't know. I look at myself in the mirror and can only recognize these pairs of pupils. Growing on this old face. You know, sometimes I feel like I wasn't born in the right time. Maybe both of us are relics.

45. 让心站在高处，是“不畏浮云遮望眼”的辽阔视野；让心站在高处，你能体会“无限风光在险峰”的悲壮之美；让心站在高处，我们有“会当凌绝顶，一览众山小”的豪迈胸怀。

45. Let the heart stand at a high place, it is a vast perspective of "not fearing the floating clouds to obscure the eyes"; let the heart stand at a high place, you can experience the heroic beauty of "the boundless scenery is on the dangerous peaks"; let the heart stand at a high place, we have the heroic spirit of "we shall ascend the peak, and from there, look down on all the other mountains as small".

46. 只要自觉心安，东西南北都好。如有一人未度，切莫自己逃了。

46. As long as one feels at peace within, it matters not which direction one faces. If there is someone who has not yet crossed over, one must not escape oneself.

47. 停驻半山，浅尝辄止。攀至高峰意味信仰破灭，生而索然无味。

47. Stop halfway up the mountain, savoring it lightly. Climbing to the peak means the collapse of faith, life becomes devoid of meaning and taste.

48. 若干年后，再回想年少时的迷茫和执着，或许原因都记不得了。青春就是让你张扬的笑，也给你莫名的痛。

48. Years later, when looking back on the confusion and tenacity of one's youth, perhaps the reasons are all forgotten. Youth is about letting your laughter shine, yet it also gives you pain for no apparent reason.

49. 删掉的人不加第二次，曾经滚了的那些人，也不看第二眼。

49. People who have been deleted will not be considered a second time, and those who have been rejected before will not be given a second glance.

50. 每天你必同你自己和解十次；因为克己已是辛苦，不和解的人睡眠不安。

50. You must reconcile with yourself ten times a day; for self-discipline is hard, and those who do not reconcile sleep uneasily.

51. 父爱呵，风吹皱了一池春水，身化游鱼的我见证你倒映在水中，雄伟如高峰的身影，见证那不朽的誓言……

51. Oh, father's love, the wind ripples the spring water, and as I transform into a swimming fish, I witness your majestic figure reflected in the water, as grand as a towering peak, and I bear witness to that timeless vow...

52. 有些路你和某人一起走，就长得离谱，你和另外一些人走，就短得让人舍不得迈开脚步。

52. Some paths seem absurdly long when walked with someone, while with others they are so short that it's hard to take the first step.

53. 李宁泪洒汉城后默默退出体坛，但他没有停止对自己生命高度的探索。他投身于商界，用品质优良的体育用品造福了体育界，使得“一切皆有可能”的李宁精神深入每个人的内心。刘翔以“亚洲飞人”闻名于世，却在2008年奥运会上，在全世界人民等待中默然离场。在外界的质疑与脚伤的折磨下，他以不言弃，在没有鲜花与掌声的日记里逐渐康复，并以一匹黑马之势再次闯入体坛，再次成为冠军，再次创造奇迹。不同的做法却有着共同的目标，就是攀上自己生命的高峰，虽然过程是如此艰辛。

53. After Li Ning shed tears in Han City and silently retired from the sports field, he did not stop exploring the heights of his own life. He immersed himself in the business world, using high-quality sports equipment to benefit the sports community, and the spirit of "everything is possible" of Li Ning deeply rooted in everyone's hearts. Liu Xiang became famous as the "Asian Flying Man," but in the 2008 Olympic Games, he silently left the field amidst the anticipation of the entire world. Under the doubts of the outside world and the tortures of foot injuries, he refused to give up, gradually recovered in the diary without flowers and applause, and once again entered the sports field as a dark horse, becoming a champion again and creating another miracle. Different methods have the same goal, which is to climb to the peak of one's own life, although the process is so arduous.

54. 为坠入情网的人来说，男人同女人的区别是：女人能够整天整夜谈恋爱，而男人却只能有时有晌儿地干这种事。

54. For those who have fallen in love, the difference between men and women is that women can be in love day and night, while men can only do this occasionally.

55. “横看成岭侧成峰，远近高低各不同。”正因为视觉角度的不同，因此人有了不同的见解。有犹太人说过“没有卖不出去的豆子。”原因在于如果豆子卖不出去，就向它们浇水让它们长成豆芽再出卖，还是卖不出去的话，就培育成豆苗，再移植成盆栽，盆栽还是卖不出去的话就干脆把盆栽种在土地上，这样就可以长成成千上万的豆子。所以说眼前的高峰并不是阻碍你前进的道路。应该把它视为一个机遇或挑战，在此你可以大展身手，尽显自己的才华，走出一条属于自己的路。

55. "From the side, it looks like a range of mountains, from the front, it looks like a peak; near and far, high and low, each has its own distinct view." It is because of the different perspectives that people have different opinions. There is a Jewish saying, "There is no unsellable bean." The reason is that if the beans cannot be sold, you can water them and let them grow into bean sprouts to sell; if they still can't be sold, you can cultivate them into seedlings, and then transplant them into pots to sell; if the potted plants still can't be sold, you can simply plant them in the soil, and they can grow into thousands of beans. Therefore, the peak in front of you is not an obstacle to your progress. It should be seen as an opportunity or a challenge, where you can fully display your abilities, showcase your talents, and carve out a path of your own.

56. 举世誉之而不加劝，举世非之而不加沮。全天下的人都捧你，你也不要飘飘然，全天下的人都骂你，你也不要沮丧悲观，做自己的事，过自己的日子，走自己的路，让他人说去吧。

56. Be esteemed by the world without seeking for it, and be criticized by the world without being disheartened. Whether the whole world adores you or curses you, do not let it sway your composure. Do your own thing, live your own life, take your own path, and let others speak as they may.

57. 我们或许无法改变自己的命运，但可以改变自己对待命运的态度，永远积极向上，永远乐观开朗，永远心向阳光，只要内心足够强大，全世界都要给你让路。

57. Perhaps we cannot change our destiny, but we can change our attitude towards it. Always be positive and optimistic, always face the sun with an open heart. As long as your inner strength is sufficient, the whole world will make way for you.

58. 我注&uot;六经&uot;的方式读的很苦，需要皓首而穷经呢，把头发都读白了，把所有的书读完了，可以去批注了，了解了这一切。但是更高的一种境界叫做《六经》注我，真正好的学习是融会了所有的典籍以后，用来它诠释自己的生命。也就是说三十岁这个年纪，真正在中国古人的文化坐标中，他是一个心灵建立自信的年纪。它不在于很多外在事物形成对立，而形成一种融合和提升，就像泰山上的一幅楹联，&uot;海到尽头天做岸，山登绝顶我为峰&uot;这是中国人对于山川的一种感受，它讲的永远不是征服，而是山川对自我的提升，就像大海到了尽头，苍天为岸，没有边界，人生走到山峦的顶峰，并不是一种夸张地说我把高山踩在脚下，而是我自己成为山顶上一座峰峦。其实这就是&uot;六经&uot;注我的一种解读。所以三十而立应该说孔子一直在教学生是一种朴素的、简约的生活方式，很多东西不该操心的就不要操心了，把眼前做好。我们知道，孔子其实他对于神、鬼的东西不大提起的，这就是所谓&uot;子不语怪力乱神&uot;学生问到这些事情，他都采取一种回避的态度。曾经有他的学生去问鬼神，(话音外)&uot;老师真的有鬼神吗那些鬼啊、神啊究竟是怎么回事&uot;&uot;人间的事你还没有做好，所以就不要考虑鬼神的事了。&uot;那么老师淡淡地告诉他说:&uot;未能事人，焉能事鬼&uot;人间的事你侍奉好了吗你这种学习还是先朴素一点，从眼前开始，学会人际关系，别去考虑鬼神。后来又问了一个很玄的问题，(话音外)&uot;老师，人总会死的，那么死人是怎么回事呢&uot;&uot;生的事你还没有弄明白，开吗又去提到死呢&uot;老师又淡淡地告诉他:&uot;未知生，焉知死&uot;。其实&uot;未知生，焉知死&uot;这六个字对我们都是一个启发，就是在你初期学习的时候，先把我们生命中能够把握的东西尽可能地学习并且建立，不用超越年龄去考虑那些遥不可及或玄而又玄的东西。只有这样一点一点学起来，到了该立的年龄，才真正可以立起来。所以所谓&uot;三十而立&uot;我的理解并不是一种外在的社会坐标衡量你已经如何成功，而是内在的心灵标准，衡定你的生命是否开始有一种心灵的内省，并且从容不迫;开始对你做的事情有一种自信和一种坚定。我知道中国很多文人做的事情是不求功利目的的，柳宗元的诗说的好，叫作&uot;独钓寒江雪&uot;，我们想一想，在这样一个清冷的冬季，我们视野中的那个孤独的蓑立翁，他钓的是什么呢没有人在冬天能够钓上鱼来，但是他是为了钓雪而去。这就是魏晋人所说，你去访朋问友，可以一夜跨越膳溪，翻山越水到了朋友的门前不敲门就返回了。为什么我想念这个朋友，我乘兴而来，我到了，尽兴而返。也就是说超乎功利去做一件内心真正认定的事，这大概是一种立的标准，也就是自己认可了，我一生所为有什么样的准则。当这样的准则再流失过去，再走过十年，四十而不惑。

58. I have found the way of reading the "Six Classics" to be very bitter, requiring a life of study until my hair turns white, having read all the books, before I can start annotating and understand everything. However, there is a higher level called "The 'Six Classics' annotating me," where truly good learning is to integrate all the classics and use them to interpret one's own life. That is to say, at the age of thirty, in the cultural coordinate of ancient Chinese people, it is the age of building self-confidence for the soul. It does not lie in forming opposition to many external things, but in forming a fusion and an upgrade, like a couplet on the Tai Mountain, "When the sea reaches its end, the sky becomes the shore; when I reach the summit of the mountain, I become the peak." This is the Chinese perception of mountains and rivers, which is never about conquest, but about the mountains and rivers elevating oneself, just as when the sea reaches its end, it has no boundary. When life reaches the top of the mountains, it is not an exaggerated statement that I trample the high mountains under my feet, but that I myself become a peak on the summit. In fact, this is a kind of interpretation of "The 'Six Classics' annotating me." Therefore, "At thirty, one should stand firm" should be understood as Confucius teaching his students a simple, minimalist way of life. Many things that shouldn't be worried about shouldn't be worried about, just do what's in front of you. We know that Confucius actually does not talk much about gods and spirits, which is what is called "Confucius never speaks of the strange, the powerful, the chaotic, or the divine." When students ask about these things, he takes a defensive attitude. Once a student asked about ghosts and spirits, (voice off) "Teacher, are there really ghosts and spirits? What are they all about?" Confucius calmly told him, "If you haven't done well in the human world, why should you worry about the affairs of ghosts and spirits?" So, the teacher calmly told him, "If you haven't served people well, how can you serve ghosts?" Have you served the human world well? Your learning should be simple and start from what's in front of you, learn about interpersonal relationships, and don't think about ghosts and spirits. Later, he asked another esoteric question, (voice off) "Teacher, people will die in the end, what happens to the dead?" "If you haven't understood life, how can you talk about death?" The teacher calmly told him, "If you don't know life, how can you know death?" In fact, these six words "If you don't know life, how can you know death?" are a kind of enlightenment for us. That is, in the early stages of learning, we should first learn and establish what we can grasp in our lives as much as possible and not exceed our age to consider those distant or mystical things. Only in this way can we learn little by little, and when we reach the age of standing firm, we can truly stand firm. So, what is meant by "At thirty, one should stand firm" is not an external social coordinate to measure how successful you have become, but an internal standard of the soul, to determine whether your life has started to have a kind of introspection of the soul, and be composed and calm; start to have confidence and determination in what you do. I know that many Chinese scholars do things without seeking utilitarian purposes. Liu Zongyuan's poem says, "Fishing alone in the cold river snow." Let's think about it, in such a cold winter, the lonely old man in the distance, what is he fishing for? No one can catch fish in winter, but he goes fishing for the snow. This is what the people of the Wei and Jin dynasties said, when you visit friends, you can cross the Shu Xi River in one night, climb over mountains and rivers to your friend's door, and return without knocking. Why do I miss this friend? I come with enthusiasm and return with satisfaction. That is to say, do something truly believed in by the heart beyond utilitarianism, which is probably a standard for standing firm, that is, recognizing what kind of principles I should follow in my life. When such principles are lost in the past, and another ten years have passed, you will be "Not perplexed at forty."

59. 其实走到天命的时候，就会让我们想到金庸在武侠小说中写到独孤求败的境界。也就是说在中国的武侠小说的表述中，经常我们会可以看到，一个少侠，初出道时，用的是一口天下无双，锋利无比的青风宝剑，在这个时候，所有那种萧萧剑气，那种张扬的光彩，就是一个人的绚烂之极。等到他武艺精进，人到三十来岁，真正安生立命，成为一个门派，一个掌门人，或者江湖上一个有名的侠客的时候，这个人可能用一口不开刃的钝剑，因为锋利现在来说对他已经不重要了，他的内功开始变的成宏雄厚。等到这个人四十来岁，已经成为威震江湖的一个大侠，他已经超越了一个一个的流派，而成为一种道义的化身的时候，这人可能只用一根木棍，也就说金属那种锋利、那种质地对他来说已经不重要了，有这样一个外在的东西就可以了。而等到他真正走到至高的境界，什么是独孤求败的境界，但求一败而不得，因为这个时候人手中是没有兵器的，这个时候十八般武艺全都物化了，也就是说他双手一出可能就能啸出剑气，双全一抡可能就能成为铜锤，所有的武艺全都在这个人的内心里，全在他的肢体上，所以敌人为什么不能接这种招，不能破解呢就是因为你不知道他溶入了多少武艺，所以融会贯通的境界一直是中国文化崇尚的最高境界。所谓知天命其实就是把人间百态，人间学习的道理，最后达到了一个溶入的提升。达到这个境界以后，孔子说，六十而耳顺。

59. In fact, when we reach the age of destiny, it reminds us of the realm of Du Qubai depicted by Jin Yong in his martial arts novels. That is to say, in the expression of Chinese martial arts novels, we often see that a young martial artist, when he first sets out, wields a unique and extremely sharp Qing Feng sword. At this time, all that萧萧剑气, that exuberant brilliance, is the peak of a person's brilliance. As he refines his martial arts skills and reaches his thirties, truly settling down and establishing his life, becoming a leader of a sect, or a famous martial artist in the江湖, this person may use a blunt sword without a blade, because sharpness is no longer important to him; his internal skills have become profound and strong. When this person reaches his forties, having become a great martial artist who shakes the江湖, having transcended various schools of martial arts and becoming an embodiment of righteousness, this person may only need a wooden stick, meaning that the sharpness and texture of metal are no longer important to him; just having such an external object is enough. And when he truly reaches the highest realm, what is the realm of Du Qubai, is the pursuit of a defeat that cannot be achieved, because at this point, the person does not have any weapons in his hands. At this moment, all the eighteen martial arts have become materialized, that is to say, his hands can release sword qi, and a swing may become a copper mallet. All the martial arts are within this person's heart and on his limbs. Therefore, why enemies cannot counter such moves or crack them is because you do not know how much martial arts he has integrated. So the realm of integration and mastery has always been the highest realm cherished by Chinese culture. What is known as "knowing one's destiny" is actually integrating all the various aspects of human life and the principles of human learning, finally reaching a state of integration and enhancement. After reaching this realm, as Confucius said, "at sixty, one's ears are in harmony."

60. 乐趣不论平凡还是不平凡，只属于感觉到的人。

60. Fun, whether ordinary or extraordinary, belongs only to those who feel it.

61. 幸福分成两种，一种是看的见的幸福，一种是看不见的幸福，前者是物质的感观，后者是精神的感受。你选择了何种幸福，就决定了哪一种人生。

61. Happiness is divided into two types: one is visible happiness and the other is invisible happiness. The former is a material sensory experience, and the latter is a spiritual feeling. The type of happiness you choose determines the kind of life you will lead.

62. 你曾用你那带着些许稚嫩而又成熟的诗人特有的口吻质问道：“是谁的声音能抵达这秋之子夜，长久喧响，掩藏我们横陈于地的骸骨？”我想，当你站在高峰上时，伴着徐徐而过的孤寂，你已明了。是你对诗歌的坚守，让那座高峰永远矗立在我们的心头。

62. You once asked in the voice of a poet, youthful yet mature, "Whose voice can reach this autumn night, resound long, and hide the bones we lay scattered on the ground?" I think, when you stand atop the peak, accompanied by the gentle solitude passing by, you have understood. It is your unwavering dedication to poetry that keeps that peak永远 standing in our hearts.

63. 那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。

63. Those beautiful little fish, they keep their eyes open even when they're sleeping. They don't need love, nor do they ever cry. They are my role models.

64. 人世间的罪恶几乎总是由愚昧无知造成，如果缺乏理解，好心能造成和恶意同样大的危害。

64. Virtually all the evil in the world is caused by ignorance, and good intentions can often do as much harm as malevolence if understanding is lacking.

65. 屡次遭遇楚怀王的排挤，你没有意志消沉，却更加坚定了你的爱国情怀。你坚守的脚步，踏入汨罗冰冷的河水，河水稀释了你的血液，形成了滚滚热潮，清洗着楚地人民的心灵，涌向高峰，而你在高峰上，淡定，嘴角上扬。你坚守的背影，毅然立在那思想的高峰上，享受着高峰上骄傲的孤寂。

65. Having encountered the exclusion of King Huaiwang numerous times, you did not succumb to despondency, but instead, your patriotism became even more resolute. With steadfast steps, you ventured into the cold waters of the Miluo River, where the waters diluted your blood, creating a surging wave that washed the souls of the people of Chu, surging towards the peak. And on the peak, you were calm, your lips curved upwards. The silhouette of your steadfastness stands resolutely on the peak of thought, basking in the proud solitude of the peak.

66. 我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

66. Each of us lives in our own past, where it takes a minute to get to know someone, an hour to like them, a day to fall in love with them, and eventually, it takes a lifetime to forget them.

67. 命运的曲折本来就是路，并不为奇，本来就需要一些经过的勇气和思索的耐心。生活的状态既不是沉默寡言，也不是泛泛而谈，生活的方法，就是承载着沉重，寻找着方向，去做那些需要做的事情。

67. The twists and turns of destiny are naturally part of the path, which is not surprising. It inherently requires some courage to face them and patience to contemplate. The state of life is neither silent nor superficial chatter. The way of life is to bear the heavy load, seek direction, and do those things that need to be done.

68. 心中有高峰，不管他言。心中有目标，并付诸行动追求，这是多么可贵啊！即使在追求过程饱受热嘲冷讽，我们也仍需坚持自己的立场，因为追求心中的高峰才是最重要。多次竞选，屡屡失败，在外人眼里看来，他根本没有机会成功。然而，他不管他人的恶意中伤，还是刻薄嘲讽之语，坚定目标，最终当选。他就是美国历史上有名的总统——林肯。

68. To have mountains in one's heart and not be swayed by others' words, to have a goal and to take action to pursue it, how valuable that is! Even if the pursuit is filled with hot sarcasm and cold mockery, we still need to stand firm in our own position because the pursuit of the mountains in one's heart is the most important. Through multiple elections and repeated failures, from the outside world's perspective, he had no chance of success. However, he disregarded others' malicious slanders and sarcastic remarks, remained steadfast in his goal, and ultimately was elected. He is the famous president in American history—Abraham Lincoln.

69. 流光轻抛中，我于父亲的怀抱中轻偎，在父亲的轻扶中学步，让父亲的宽背成为我最舒适的好梦摇篮。

69. In the gentle toss of flowing light, I nestle comfortably in my father's embrace, learning to walk with his gentle support, allowing my father's broad back to become the most comfortable cradle for my sweetest dreams.

70. 世上有高峰，峰顶有刺骨的寒。停驻半山，吟一支快乐的调。

70. There are peaks in the world, with icy cold at their summits. Stop halfway up the mountain and sing a cheerful tune.

71. 充满偏见的爱，才恰恰是我在这个不可靠的世界上，最为充满偏见地爱着的东西之

71. Love filled with prejudice is precisely the thing I love most biasedly in this unreliable world.

72. 在这个横冲直撞的世界，我们需要拥有强悍无比的内心。

72. In this world where everything is chaotic, we need to possess an incredibly strong inner self.

73. 不要做廉价的自己，不要随意去付出，不要一厢情愿去迎合别人，圈子不同，不必强融。

73. Don't be a cheap version of yourself, don't give freely without thought, and don't try to please others one-sidedly. Different circles have different values, and there's no need to force a fit.

74. 人在风光的时候，根本就分不清身边的人，是真是假。但是只有你落魄的时候，你才能看清你身边的人，是人是鬼。

74. When a person is in their prime, they can't tell who among those around them are real and who are impostors. But only when you are in a sorry state can you see who among those around you are human and who are demons.

75. 生活总是这样，不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。人活一生，值得爱的东西很多，不要因为一个不满意，就灰心。

75. Life is always like this, never able to satisfy people in every aspect. But we still need to live with enthusiasm. In a lifetime, there are many things worth loving, and don't get discouraged just because of one dissatisfaction.

76. 旅行？活着就是旅行。我从一天去到另一天，一如从一个车站去到另一个车站，乘坐我身体或命运的火车，将头探出窗户，看街道，看广场，看人们的脸和姿态，这些总是相同，又总是不同，如同风景。

76. Travel? To live is to travel. I go from one day to another, just like from one station to another, riding on the train of my body or fate, sticking my head out the window to see the streets, the squares, the faces and gestures of people, which are always the same yet always different, like landscapes.

77. 原来有些东西，没有就是没有，不行就是不行，没有鱼丸，没有粗面。你看这么简单的道理，连猪都懂了，我却还以为世间的一切都该有商量的余地。

77. Originally, there are some things that just don't exist, and some things that simply can't be. There are no fish balls, and no coarse noodles. You would think that such a simple truth would be understood even by pigs, but I still thought that everything in the world should leave room for negotiation.