在岁月的长河中，信念如灯塔，照亮前行的路。信任，仅属于你——亲情、爱情与友情的真挚。

In the long river of time, belief is like a lighthouse, illuminating the path ahead. Trust is exclusively yours—the sincerity of family, love, and friendship.

1. 40希望，盼望，奢望，失望，爱情，亲情，友情，是与非，黑与白，我和你，一起，等。

1. Hope, anticipation, wishful thinking, disappointment, love, family ties, friendship, right and wrong, black and white, me and you, together, wait.

2. 18一个人如果真的喜欢你，会让你知道，而不是模棱两可让你去猜，一个人如果想你，千山万水也会来找你，而不是一条谁都发过的慰问信息，一个人如果在乎你，没有借口没有犹豫会陪你到底，而不是自信地认为你真能独自度过所有。你要找的那个人，他的未来里一定要有你。

2.18 If someone truly likes you, they will let you know, rather than being ambiguous and leaving you to guess. If someone misses you, they will come to you over mountains and rivers, rather than sending a慰问 message that everyone has sent. If someone cares about you, they will accompany you to the end without any excuses or hesitation, rather than confidently believing that you can get through everything on your own. The person you are looking for must have a place in their future.

3. 12遇上爱情，也就会变得宽容。因为爱你，我更自爱。因为爱你，我知道自己的存在。因为爱你，我在成长。因为爱你，我对痛苦和快乐都有了深刻的感受。因为爱你我才知道人生有许多无法满足的事。爱一个人，是与这个人相守一世，而不只是相伴一时。

3. When encountering love, one becomes more tolerant. Because I love you, I love myself even more. Because I love you, I know my own existence. Because I love you, I am growing. Because I love you, I have a profound feeling of both pain and joy. Because I love you, I realize that there are many things in life that cannot be satisfied. To love someone is to be with this person for a lifetime, not just for a moment.

4. 有时候相爱是一种相互的焦灼，会让你们彼此不爽，会让你们赌气，会让你们看到了吵架看不到难过。这样的爱情，似乎是不好的。但你们真的分开，却会生不如死，那么，在一起就是唯一的答案了。相爱就是没有办法分开，所以只能选择忍让。改变再痛苦，也不会比分手痛苦啊。

4. Sometimes, loving each other is a mutual anxiety that can make you both uncomfortable, that can make you argue, that can make you see the anger rather than the sadness. Such love seems to be bad. But if you really separate, it would be worse than death. So, being together is the only answer. Loving means there is no way to separate, so you can only choose to be accommodating. No matter how painful the changes are, they will not be as painful as a breakup.

5. 11我觉得谈恋爱，俩人能聊到一起太重要了。他总能接上你抛给他的点，并且又抛回来一个，有来道去的，像说相声一样，过程中你还一直在笑，能做自己不用装 。我觉得能开玩笑，互相岔到一起的两个人太幸福了。我想，这种默契就是爱吧。

5.11 I think it's very important for two people to be able to chat together when dating. He always manages to pick up on the points you throw at him and then throw one back, back and forth, just like in a crosstalk routine, and you're always laughing throughout the process, being yourself without having to pretend. I think it's very happy for two people who can joke around and get along. I believe that such a默契 is love.

6. 6真正的爱情，不是付出全部，而是让自己成为更好的人。爱一个人没有回应，与其乞讨爱情，不如骄傲地走开。在爱情里，最在乎的一方，最后往往输得最惨。找个让你开心一辈子的人，才是爱情的目标。最好的，往往就是在你身边最久的。所以，选爱人不需要太多标准，只要这三样：不骗你，不伤害你，和陪着你。

6. True love is not about giving everything but about becoming a better person oneself. When there's no response from the one you love, it's better to walk away proudly rather than beg for love. In love, the one who cares the most often ends up the most惨. The goal of love is to find someone who will make you happy for a lifetime. The best is usually the one who has been with you the longest. Therefore, there's no need to have too many standards when choosing a partner; just these three: don't deceive you, don't harm you, and be by your side.

7. 34我一人独守这空城，不懂爱情。不期望，也不失望。

7.34 I alone guard this empty city, unaware of love. I neither expect nor despair.

8. 9真正的爱情，要懂得珍惜，没有谁和谁是天生注定在一起的。一辈子其实不长。能遇心爱的人，是多么幸运的事。为何不紧握着他的手呢。一辈子只爱一个人，并不丢人。明明知道，除了他还会有更优秀的人出现，可是一个人不能这么贪心的。一颗心需要去温暖另一颗心，坦诚相待，这样才可以幸福。

8.9 True love requires understanding and appreciation, for no one is destined to be with another from birth. In reality, a lifetime is not very long. It is a great fortune to meet the one you love. Why not hold his hand tightly? It is not shameful to love only one person for a lifetime. It is clear that there will be even more outstanding people besides him, but a person cannot be so greedy. A heart needs to warm another heart, to be honest and open, only then can one be truly happy.

9. 26一个强者要有三个基本条件：最野蛮的身体，最文明的头脑和不可征服的精神。

9. A strong person requires three basic conditions: the most primitive body, the most civilized mind, and an unconquerable spirit.

10. 3无事不烧香，有事上门还不烧香。无事不烧香，那是觉得自己人不要客气；有事上门不烧香，那是觉得他倒霉，你不帮他你敢不帮他

10.3 If there's no business, you don't burn incense; but if someone comes with business, you still don't burn incense. Not burning incense when there's no business is thinking that one doesn't need to be polite; not burning incense when someone comes with business is thinking that they are unfortunate, and if you don't help them, how dare you not help them?

11. 29当你偶尔发现语言变得无力时，不妨安静下来，让沉默替你发声。

11. 29 When you occasionally find that language becomes weak, why not settle down and let silence speak for you.

12. 40越来越少的年味，越来越疏远的亲人，越来越现实的亲情。

12. There is an ever-decreasing sense of the New Year's atmosphere, increasingly distant relatives, and increasingly realistic family ties.

13. 许多事，不是你强求就可以得到。人生在世，别人都说努力可以做到一切，其实是错的。真相是当你努力做一件事情，而机缘又到，就会成功。所以努力，是需要找到正确方向的，千万不要傻傻去钻牛角尖。做人和谈恋爱一样，要顺其自然。没有什么喜悦，是可以通过强迫得到的。

13. Many things cannot be obtained just by striving for them. In life, people often say that effort can achieve everything, but that is actually wrong. The truth is that when you strive to do something and the opportunity arrives, success will follow. Therefore, effort requires finding the right direction, and never blindly pursue dead ends. Just like in relationships, being with someone, one should go with the flow. There is no joy that can be obtained through coercion.

14. 所以那些沉浸在自己的无条件付出的人们，快点从自己被自己感动的情景下醒来吧，那不是爱他，是害他！爱，是帮助对方变的更好！

14. So those who are immersed in their unconditional giving, quickly wake up from the situation where you are moved by yourself! That is not loving them, but harming them! Love is about helping the other person become better!

15. 45有棱有角的害处是，别人啃起你来十分方便。

15. The drawback of being sharp and angular is that it's very convenient for others to gnaw at you.

16. 越是想忘记，就越是记得。越是想放弃，就越舍不得。许多事情都是这样，当你心里最为痛苦的时候，就恰恰是最深爱，最不可放手的时候。炽烈的爱会让你做出许多失去理智的事情，而理智本身就因为爱的不够。当有人和你在一起，从疯狂转为理智，或许就是爱情的消退吧。

16. The more you try to forget, the more you remember. The more you want to give up, the more you can't bear to let go. Many things are like this; when you are at your most painful, it is precisely the time when you love the most deeply and can't let go. Passionate love can make you do many irrational things, and reason itself is because love is insufficient. When someone is with you, shifting from madness to reason, maybe that's when love is fading.

17. 爱情，不是毫无底线的付出，而是为了和对方一起变得更好！

17. Love is not an unconditional sacrifice, but a commitment to become better together with the other person!

18. 23你可以不再天真，但一定要善良。像孩子一样善意和宽容，然后让自己变得更好。

18. 23 You may no longer be innocent, but you must definitely be kind. Be childlike in your goodness and tolerance, and then strive to become better.

19. 13把你的名字写在烟上，吸进肺里，让你保持离我心脏最近的距离。

19. 13 Write your name on the smoke, inhale it into your lungs, keeping you as close to my heart as possible.

20. 嫌你穷，怕你富，恨你有，笑你无。你无论处于一种什么样的状态，都不会让他们满意。

20. They dislike you for being poor, fear you for being rich, hate you for having, and laugh at you for not having. No matter what state you are in, they will never be satisfied with you.

21. 所以亲情关系中，特别对待孩子，孩子因为没有那么多的道德感和控制力，所以更加要懂得分寸和原则，因为孩子未来的利益和波折是会波及你自己一辈子的。

21. Therefore, in family relationships, it is especially important to treat children with special care. Children do not have as much moral sense and self-control, so they need to understand the importance of moderation and principles even more. This is because the future interests and vicissitudes of children will affect your entire life.

22. 19爱你值不值得，其实你应该知道，爱就是不问值得不值得

22. Whether loving you is worth it or not, you should actually know that love is not about asking whether it's worth it or not.

23. 20能看穿你三方面的人值得信任：你笑容背后的悲伤，你怒火里掩藏的爱意，你沉默之下的原因。

23. A person who can see through three aspects of you is worthy of trust: the sadness behind your smile, the love hidden in your anger, and the reasons beneath your silence.

24. 看上去确实挺美好的，但是男孩提出了分手，说自己再也忍不下去了，一分钟都不想再继续。毕竟，找个女朋友就算不能帮自己什么忙，至少不要给自己添堵呀~女孩则哭哭啼啼，因为她早已经习惯了他的宠溺，现在他忽然要离开，她觉得天都要塌了。

24. It indeed looks quite beautiful, but the boy proposed a breakup, saying he could no longer bear it and didn't want to continue for even a minute. After all, finding a girlfriend, even if she can't help you much, at least shouldn't give you a hard time. The girl cried and moaned, as she had already gotten used to his pampering. Now that he suddenly wants to leave, she felt like the sky was about to fall apart.

25. 36把你的名字写在烟上，吸进肺里，让你保持离我心脏最近的距离。

25. Write your name on the smoke, inhale it into your lungs, and keep you as close to my heart as possible.

26. 生命是一条孤独的河流，只有自己才是人生的摆渡人。靠山山会倒，靠人人会跑，只有自己才是靠得住的那座山。

26. Life is a solitary river, and only one's self can be the ferryman of one's life. Depending on a mountain, the mountain may collapse; depending on others, they may run away. Only one's self can be that reliable mountain.

27. 5很多人说他们太忙了，其实他们只是太拖了。

27. 5 Many people say they are too busy, but in fact, they are just too procrastinative.

28. 28以前总以为，是自己的永远不会离开，后来回头看你离去时才知道，路遥失马力，日久人心凉！

28. I used to think that what belongs to me would never leave. But only after you left did I realize, "The farther the road, the weaker the horse; the longer the time, the cooler the heart!"

29. 这个更好的自己，是更加独立，是更加智慧，是在这个社会价值观下，更好的生存能力，判断能力，幸福感知能力。

29. This better self is more independent, wiser, and possesses better survival, judgment, and happiness perception capabilities under the societal values.

30. 35成熟的人需要面具，戴上坚强面对社会，摘下温柔面对家人。

30. A mature person needs a mask; they wear it to be strong in society and take it off to be gentle with their family.

31. 爱情，人们只知道它是甜蜜的，很少有人考虑它残酷的一面。殊不知，火花也能变成火灾。爱这东西一旦转化为仇，那就不是小的过结，它极可能导致深仇大恨，甚至酿成血光之灾。故进入爱情，为稳妥起见，采取慢温型为好，一旦生变，也要实施软着路。

31. Love is known to be sweet, but few people consider its cruel side. Little do they know that a spark can also turn into a fire. Once love turns into enmity, it is not a trivial matter; it can lead to deep-seated hatred, even to disasters involving bloodshed. Therefore, for safety's sake, it is better to take a slow and steady approach in love. And once things change, one should also take a soft landing approach.

32. 有一些爱啊，到最后变成恨。有一些恨，却是爱的开始。所以爱恨本是同一种东西，你的心情变了，一切就都会变。仔细想想，其实你爱的人，和你恨的人，有时候对你是同样的坏，同样的不好啊。为什么你会依恋一个却痛恨另一个呢爱和恨，唯一的区别，就是你觉得值得不值得。

32. Some love eventually turns into hate. And some hate is actually the beginning of love. So love and hate are essentially the same thing; it's your mood that changes, and everything else changes with it. Think about it carefully; sometimes, the people you love and the people you hate treat you the same, both poorly. Why do you cling to one and detest the other? The only difference between love and hate is whether you think it's worth it or not.

33. 25其实我很爱你们，并没有有了爱情就淡薄亲情。可能是我现在对爱情保持着新鲜感，所以比重有点偏，才会让你们觉得要失去我这个女儿一样，其实没有，我会找准点然后踩在中间！保持平衡有他也有你们！

33. 25 In fact, I really love all of you and it's not that I have become indifferent to family ties because of love. Maybe it's because I still maintain a sense of freshness towards love, which is why the balance might seem off to you, making you think you might lose me as a daughter. But that's not the case. I will find the right balance and stand in the middle! Maintaining equilibrium involves both him and you!

34. 24这世上没有谁比谁活的容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。

34. In this world, no one has it easier than anyone else; some people are shouting to the heavens, while others are silently persevering.

35. 17我想和你一起生活，在某个小镇，共享无尽的黄昏，和绵绵不绝的钟声。

35. 17 I want to live with you, in some small town, sharing endless dusks and the continuous sound of bells.

36. 年少轻狂的自以为是，甜蜜地疯狂地敏感地脆弱地，单薄而无力地形容着。一个温柔甜美而残暴的魔鬼。而我们只能够任凭著他恣意的声线在心中留下止不住的伤悲。

36. Young and rebellious, self-righteous, sweetly mad, sensitively fragile, described thinly and powerlessly. A gentle, sweet, yet brutal devil. And we can only let his arbitrary voice leave an unstoppable sorrow in our hearts.

37. 两个人在一起，吵架总难免，重点在于吵完后是谁来哄谁。偶尔的吵架不算男人的缺点，但愿意哄女人却总是男人的优点。因为来哄你，是因为对你有感情，也是这个男人的宽容大度。所以说，吵架后总该由男人先去哄女人，这无关对错，而是感情，是包容，也是责任。

37. It's inevitable for two people to argue when they are together, the key is who will comfort whom after the argument. Occasional arguments do not count as a man's flaw, but being willing to comfort a woman is always a man's virtue. Because the reason he comes to comfort you is because he has feelings for you, and also because of this man's tolerance and generosity. Therefore, it is always the man who should go and comfort the woman after an argument, which has nothing to do with right or wrong, but with feelings, tolerance, and also responsibility.

38. 31走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长。

38. If you've taken the wrong path, remember to turn back; if you've loved the wrong person, learn to let go. People's hearts are relative, exchange the true for the true; emotions are mutual, warm others with your heart. It's just that we've walked a part of the journey together, why make the memories longer than the experience itself?

39. 9每个人都一样，都有一段独行的日子，或长或短，这都是无可回避的。不必总觉得生命空空荡荡，放心吧，一时的孤独只是意味着你值得拥有更好的。

39. 9 Everyone is the same, everyone has a period of solitary days, long or short, which is unavoidable. Don't always feel that life is empty and desolate, take it easy, a moment of loneliness just means you deserve to have something better.

40. 51我算是看透了，不给你们扛鼎不给你们吸血就是没有亲情，呵呵哒，还说是我算的太清楚，好啊，那以后我就给你们算的清清楚楚。

40. 51 I've seen through it, not supporting you by bearing the heavy load or not draining your resources means there's no family feeling, hahaha. They still say I'm too clear-eyed, okay, then from now on, I'll keep it all accounted for clearly.

41. 5长大了，亲情，友情慢慢就疏远了，越来越不想和别人交流，越来越想一个人独处，哪怕一个人无聊到发狂。

41. As the number 5 grows up, family ties and friendships gradually become distant, and there is an increasing reluctance to communicate with others, a growing desire to be alone, even if it means being lonely to the point of madness.

42. 9无论你多么努力地让自己做到完美，始终会有一群人在背地里指着你的背影比比划划。你不需要跟谁对骂或者抽谁一嘴巴，他们未必是坏人，只是看不懂你的活法。

42. No matter how hard you try to be perfect, there will always be a group of people secretly pointing at your back and making gestures. You don't need to argue with anyone or slap someone in the face. They may not be bad people; they just don't understand your way of life.

43. 33见识越广，计较越少，经历越多，抱怨越少，越闲，越矫情。

43. The wider one's perspective, the less they nitpick; the more experiences one has, the fewer complaints; the more idle one is, the more snobbish.

44. 30你总是在意别人的感受，宁愿自己受委屈，也不想别人不开心。对方一失落，你就紧张。对方一道歉，你就心软，甚至觉得自己生气都是在计较。你傻傻的背着别人的快乐，有时候僵在原地喘不过气，但我知道，你的敏感是因为善良。可善良的人最后不会吃亏，一定会有更多人爱你，作为回报。

44. 30 You always care about others' feelings, preferring to endure suffering yourself rather than seeing others unhappy. When the other person feels lost, you get anxious. When the other person apologizes, your heart softens, and you even feel that your anger is merely about being picky. You naively bear others' happiness, sometimes feeling stuck in place and struggling to breathe, but I know that your sensitivity is due to your kindness. However, kind people won't be at a loss in the end; there will definitely be more people who love you, and as a reward.

45. 只有动情的爱过，才会知什么是痛苦。只有拼命想拥有，才会知什么是失去。只有很想在一起，才会知什么是离别。许多事情，你苦苦想要，就会永远丢掉。并非人生戏弄你，而是你太执着了。执着，是让人离开你的最大原因。学不会云淡风轻，就学不会什么是拥有。

45. Only by having been deeply in love can one understand what pain is. Only by desperately wanting to possess can one know what it means to lose. Only by wanting to be together can one understand what parting is. Many things, which you desperately desire, you will forever lose. It's not that life is playing tricks on you, but that you are too obsessed. Obsession is the biggest reason people leave you. If you can't learn to be carefree, you can't learn what it means to possess.

46. 16不是每一朵花都能代表爱情，但是玫瑰做到了；不是每一种树都能耐得住干涸，但是白杨做到了；不是每一头猪都能收到短信，但是你做到了；也不是每个人都喜欢猪，但是我做到了。

46. Not every flower can represent love, but the rose does; not every tree can withstand drought, but the poplar does; not every pig can receive text messages, but you do; and not everyone likes pigs, but I do.

47. 26继后就是太重亲情了，本来她是看透自己命运的人，偏不甘心，又是何苦。她想起容音的时候，会不会觉得殊途同归。

47. 26 What follows is an excessive attachment to family ties. She was someone who had seen through her destiny, yet she refused to accept it. What was the point of that? When she remembered Rongyin, did she feel that they had reached the same destination through different paths?

48. 这让我想起了另外一个故事中的女孩子，她正好相反，和男友恋爱三年，几乎付出了所有。因为是女孩子，各种委曲求全，忍受男孩的大男子主义。面对每天回家打游戏的男朋友，默默的承担起全部的家务。

48. This reminds me of another story about a girl who was completely opposite. She was in a relationship with her boyfriend for three years and gave almost everything. As a girl, she endured all sorts of hardships, tolerating the boyfriend's machismo. Facing her boyfriend who came home every day to play video games, she silently took on all the household chores.

49. 24想要忘记一段感情，方法永远只有一个：时间和新欢。要是时间和新欢也不能让你忘记一段感情，原因只有一个：时间不够长，新欢不够好。

49. If you want to forget a relationship, there is only one method: time and a new love interest. If neither time nor a new love interest can make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: the time is not long enough, and the new love interest is not good enough.

50. 13思念，是一条弯弯的小河，潺潺的流水，永世吟唱着一支亲情和爱情的歌。你的悲伤、你的快乐，永远伴奏着我的梦想、我的漂泊；未来，是一片变幻的天色，莫测的风云，从来演绎的是无数成功与失败的起落。你的神秘、你的传奇，一直召唤着我的使命、我的寂寞。

50. 13 yearning is a winding little river, with a潺潺流水, forever singing a song of kinship and love. Your sadness, your joy, forever accompany my dreams, my wandering; the future is a changing sky, unpredictable winds and clouds, always performing the rise and fall of countless successes and failures. Your mystery, your legend, have always been calling my mission, my loneliness.

51. 27曾经以为自己活得很明白，后来才发现，一个真正活明白的人不会忍心让自己活得太明白。

51. 27 used to think that I lived a life with clarity, but later on I realized that a truly clear-minded person wouldn't bear to live with such clarity.

52. 5人与人，面对面走近；情与情，背对背走远。情到极致，伤人伤己；话到心寒，伤情伤心。人与人相遇，靠尊重；心与心互懂，靠真情；情与情相溶，靠心通。

52. People approach each other face to face, but emotions move away from each other in the opposite direction. When emotions reach their peak, they can hurt both others and oneself; when words become cold, they can wound both feelings and hearts. People meet each other through respect; hearts understand each other through sincerity; emotions blend with each other through heart-to-heart communication.

53. 25据说太过华美的爱情最后总会惨淡收场，因为开始得太美丽，胃口被吊高，可生活不像电视剧，不会永远起伏跌宕，再完美的情人都会有缺陷，相爱越深要求便越是苛刻，越容易为自己觉得不值，眼睛的一颗沙子看出去就大过骆驼。

53. It is said that overly luxurious love stories always end poorly, because they start too beautifully, the appetite is whetted, but life is not like a TV drama, which will not always have ups and downs. Even the most perfect lover has flaws. The deeper the love, the more stringent the requirements become, and the more likely one feels unworthy of it. A speck of sand in one's eye seems bigger than a camel.

54. 当然上面两个例子是好的，现实社会中有太多男女，不愿去放弃，总以为人之初性本善，所有的付出都会得到回报？！

54. Of course, the two examples mentioned above are good, but in the real world, there are so many men and women who are unwilling to give up, always thinking that human nature is inherently good at the beginning, and that all the efforts made will be rewarded?!

55. 你的一次次付出，对方会一次次试探你的底线，最后到你无法忍受，继而放手。毫无底线的宠爱不是爱，是满足和自恋与自己的付出与伟大，在自己以为自己伟大的成就感中，一次又一次的把对方的缺点给放大，惯坏。让对方在这一次爱情中完全没有一点点的成长。所以这样的爱情，时间越长，对双反都是一张伤害。

55. With each of your consecutive sacrifices, the other person will repeatedly test your limits until you can no longer bear it, and then let go. Unconditional pampering is not love; it is a form of self-satisfaction and narcissism, indulging in one's own contributions and greatness. In the sense of achievement that one believes in their own greatness, one repeatedly exaggerates the other person's flaws and spoils them. This allows the other person to have no growth at all in this love. Therefore, such a love, the longer it lasts, the more harm it brings to both parties.

56. 15有时候人不能太善良，要懂得适可而止，你太善良了，只会让人觉得你软弱可欺。

56. 15 Sometimes people can't be too kind; one must know when to stop. If you're too kind, it will only make people think you're weak and easy to manipulate.

57. 9世界上最难受的爱，是我爱你，你却不爱我，世界上最麻烦的爱，我不爱你，你却来缠着我，世界上最痛苦的爱，我们都相爱，却不能在一起，世界上最悲哀的爱，我们都不爱，却要在一起。

57. The most painful love in the world is when I love you, but you don't love me; the most troublesome love is when I don't love you, but you keep pestering me; the most suffering love is when we both love each other, but cannot be together; the most tragic love is when we both don't love each other, but have to be together.

58. 为了赡养父母的责任分配，兄弟姐妹可能反目成仇；为了分配父母的财产，大家谁都不愿意吃亏。父母也可能不会一碗水端平，可能对这个孩子心疼一点，而对另外一个孩子冷漠一点，对这一个孩子帮助多一点，对另一个孩子关心少一点。长期的不平衡，让家人之间冷若冰霜，势同水火。

58. For the distribution of the responsibility of supporting parents, siblings may turn against each other; everyone is unwilling to suffer a loss when it comes to dividing the parents' property. The parents themselves may not be even-handed, possibly showing more compassion for one child while being indifferent to another, providing more assistance to one child while showing less concern for another. Long-term imbalance can make family members cold and indifferent to each other, as if they are at odds with fire and water.

59. 12抱怨是一件最没意义的事情。如果实在难以忍受周围的环境，那就暗自努力练好本领，然后跳出那个圈子。

59. Complaining is the most meaningless thing. If you find it truly unbearable to be around the environment, then secretly work hard to improve your skills and then break out of that circle.

60. 7爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下100种委屈，爱情的世界也很小，小到三个人一起就会窒息，一个人身边的位置只有那么多，你能给的也只有这么多。在这个狭小的圈子里，有些人要进来，就有一些人，不得不离开，但是离开不是放弃，是为了更好的回来。

60. The world of love is vast, vast enough to hold 100 kinds of grievances. Yet, the world of love is also small, small enough that three people together can suffocate. The space around a person is limited, and what one can offer is also limited. In this narrow circle, some people have to come in, while others have to leave. But leaving is not giving up; it is to return even better.

61. 6流过泪的眼睛更明亮，滴过血的心灵更坚强。

61. The eyes that have shed tears are brighter, and the heart that has bled is stronger.

62. 35这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。

62. In this world, no one lives an easier life than another; some are shouting to the heavens, while others are silently holding on.

63. 17真爱的第一个征兆，在男孩身上是胆怯，在女孩身上是大胆。

63. The first sign of true love is shyness in boys and boldness in girls.

64. 24以前总觉得幸福是你打个喷嚏都有人来嘘寒问暖，皱下眉都有人把天上的星星摘下来，睡不着有人陪你疯，无聊有人陪你闹。纵容你所有的无理取闹，包容你所有的胡搅蛮缠，最重要的是，他还觉得这一切理所当然。现在，我不再会那么想了，我觉得只要想哭时，能找到一打电话的人，就是幸福

64. Before 24, I always thought happiness was when someone came to comfort you every time you sneezed, when someone would摘下天上的星星 to comfort you when you皱了皱眉, when someone would stay up with you when you couldn't sleep, and when someone would play with you when you were bored. They would tolerate all your unreasonable behavior and tolerate all your stubbornness, and most importantly, they would think all of this was natural. Now, I no longer think that way. I feel that as long as I can find someone to call when I want to cry, that is happiness.

65. 11真正的失望不是怒骂，不是嚎啕大哭，也不是冲你发脾气，而是沉默不语，是你做什么我都觉得和我再也没有任何关系。

65. The real disappointment is not anger, not wailing, nor is it losing your temper with you. It is silence, and I feel that whatever you do, it has no connection with me anymore.

66. 51这个世界就这么不完美。你想得到些什么就不得不失去些什么。

66. 51 This world is just not perfect. If you want to gain something, you have to lose something in return.

67. 18越来越沉默。因为看透世态炎凉。看见人性自私贪婪。亲情爱情友情都不过如此。人始终是孤独的。所以不用在意存在感。

67. 18 becomes increasingly silent. Because he has seen through the vicissitudes of life. He has seen human selfishness and greed. Kinship, love, and friendship are all like this. People are always lonely. So there's no need to worry about one's sense of existence.

68. 50明明太在乎一个人，为何还要选择伤害？用攻击来试探底线，用伤害来索要关爱！回不去的曾经，无奈的任性，一份心碎，两人体会！

68. Why would someone who cares so deeply about another person still choose to hurt them? Using attacks to test the bottom line, and using hurt to demand love! The past that can't be returned, the无奈的任性, a broken heart, felt by both!

69. 7任何时候都可以做自己想做的事情，勿需用年龄来束缚自己。

69. At any time, you can do whatever you want, without being bound by age.

70. 13对于不靠谱的人和不靠谱的承诺，事不过二。第二次的信任不是给它们一个复活的机会，而是给自己一个彻底死心的理由。机会给多了，对方不会觉得你善良，只会觉得你好骗。一次又一次的失望最大的坏处不是你浪费了时间，而是你的情感会趋于麻木。趁生命还鲜活时，及时放弃。对于不靠谱，事不过二。

70. 13 For unreliable people and promises, it's not a matter of twice. The second trust is not to give them a chance to resurrect, but to give yourself a reason to completely give up. Giving too many chances doesn't make the other person see you as kind, but rather as easy to deceive. The greatest harm of being disappointed time and time again is not that you have wasted time, but that your emotions will tend to become numb. Seize the opportunity to give up in time while life is still vibrant. For unreliability, it's not a matter of twice.

71. 7我大概明白为什么总说异地恋煎熬了，亲情友情都一样，实际上的距离会让感情上的距离越来越远。

71. I sort of understand why it's always said that long-distance relationships are torturous; both family and friendship are the same. In reality, the physical distance can make the emotional distance between people grow increasingly wider.

72. 3你问："爱情里最诗意的谎言是否就是最浪漫的爱情？当一个男人深深爱着一个女人，他就是她的小羔羊？"爱情里无所谓最诗意的谎言，也许只有最美丽、最残忍和最可恨的相爱的时候，我们都是对方的小羔羊。浪漫它不是来自谎言，从来不是。情深即浪漫。

72. 3 You ask: "Is the most poetic lie in love also the most romantic love? When a man deeply loves a woman, he is her little lamb?" There is no such thing as the most poetic lie in love; perhaps only when love is the most beautiful, most cruel, and most hateful that we are both each other's little lambs. Romance does not come from lies; it never has. Deep love is romance.

73. 19你处理情绪的速度，就是你迈向成功的速度。

73. The speed at which you handle emotions is the speed at which you move towards success.

74. 12人生大部分时间都是在等！等车！等信！等雨停！等绿灯！等风来！等天明！等一个人！甚至等死。

74. Most of life is spent waiting! Waiting for the bus! Waiting for letters! Waiting for the rain to stop! Waiting for the green light! Waiting for the wind to come! Waiting for dawn! Waiting for a person! Even waiting to die.

75. 17喜欢一首歌，很多时候不是因为喜欢，只是借一种方式去怀念一个人！

75. 17 Like a song, often not because of liking, but just as a way to remember someone!