1. 女人姣好的长相，使男人迅速坠入情网；男人的甜言蜜语，使女人乐于被拉下爱河。

1. A woman's beautiful appearance quickly draws a man into the depths of love; a man's sweet words make a woman willing to be swept away into the river of love.

2. 56友谊是美德之手段，并且本身就是美德，是共同的美德。 ——费尔巴哈

2. Friendship is a means of virtue, and it is virtue itself, a common virtue. — Feuerbach

3. 71浅近轻浮莫与交。 ——贯林

3. Avoid association with those who are superficial and trivial. —— Guan Lin

4. 看详细 [品德·性格·人格|宽容] 君子先择而后交，小人先交而后择，故君子寡尤，小人多怨。

4. View Details [Moral Character | Temperament | Personality | Tolerance] - A gentleman chooses first and then makes friends, while a small person makes friends first and then chooses. Therefore, gentlemen have few complaints, while small people have many grievances.

5. -《汉书诸葛丰传》 知音世所稀。 -（唐）孟浩然 朋友切切思思。

5. - The "History of the Han" records the story of Zhuge Feng, a rare musical genius. - (Tang Dynasty) Meng Haoran, close friends yearn deeply and sincerely.

6. 男人读到博士是因为智商低，女人读到博士是因为情商低。

6. Men read to the doctorate because of low IQ, and women read to the doctorate because of low EQ.

7. -《周易》 若知四海皆兄弟，何处相逢非故人。 -陈刚中 朋友，以义合者。

7. - The Book of Changes (I Ching): If one knows that all the seas are brothers, where can one not meet an old friend. - Chén Gāngzhōng, a friend united by righteousness.

8. 男人恋爱时对对方无所企求；女人恋爱时对对方无所不求。

8. When men fall in love, they have no expectations of the other person; when women fall in love, they seek everything from the other person.

9. -（印度）释迦牟尼 谁若想在厄运时得到援助，就应在平日待人以宽。 -（波斯）萨迪 把友谊归结为利益的人，我以为是把友谊中最宝贵的东西勾销了。

9. - (India) Buddha: He who desires help in time of misfortune should show kindness to others in their days of prosperity. - (Persia) Saadi: He who reduces friendship to profit, I think, has cancelled the most precious thing in friendship.

10. 91少年乐新知，衰暮思故友------唐韩愈<&lt；除官赴阙至江州寄鄂岳李大夫>>

10. Young and joyful in seeking new knowledge, in old age yearning for old friends ------ Tang Dynasty, Han Yu <>

11. -（唐）王维 桃花潭水深千尺，不及汪伦送我情。 -（唐）李白 交情老更亲。

11. - (Tang Dynasty) Wang Wei: The depth of the Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet, yet it's not as deep as the affection that Wang Lun showed me. - (Tang Dynasty) Li Bai: Old friendships become even closer.

12. 看详细 [人际·沟通|交友] 处世之道，贵在礼尚往来。如果想获得友谊，要多为朋友效力。

12. View Details [Human Relations & Communication | Making Friends] The way of dealing with people lies in mutual respect. To gain friendship, one should be more helpful to one's friends.

13. 男人是情场上的猎手，女人是情场上的猎物。

13. Men are hunters in the dating game, while women are the prey.

14. 75人生交结在终始，莫以开沉中路分。 ——贺兰进明

14. Life's connections span from beginning to end, do not divide in the middle of the road. ——He Lan Jinming

15. -（唐）韩愈 一贵一贱交情见。 -（唐）骆宾王 相知在急难，独好亦何益。

15. - (Tang Dynasty) Han Yu: The friendship is revealed in one's rise and fall. - (Tang Dynasty) Luo Binwang: Knowing someone in times of distress is important; what's the use of being fond of someone alone?

16. 83善人同处，则日闻嘉训；恶人从游，则日生邪情。 ——范晔

16. If good people gather together, they will hear good advice every day; if evil people accompany you, they will develop wicked thoughts every day. —— Fan Ye

17. 42士有妒友，则贤交不亲，君有妨臣，则贤臣不至。 ——荀况

17. If a man has envious friends, the virtuous will not be close to him; if a ruler has obstructive ministers, the virtuous will not come to serve. ——Xun Kuang

18. 男人酗酒后就海阔天空地吹牛，女人酗酒后就一声不响地睡觉。

18. Men boast about anything and everything when they get drunk, while women just go to sleep without a word when they've had too much to drink.

19. 与朋友交，言而有信。——春秋 孔子《论语·学而》

19. "In associating with friends, one should speak with integrity and be trustworthy." — Confucius, from the Spring and Autumn Annals, Chapter Xialu of the Analects.

20. 52如果说，友谊能够调剂人的感情的话，那么友谊的又一种作用则是能增进人的智慧。 ——培根

20. 52 If friendship can adjust a person's emotions, then another function of friendship is to enhance a person's wisdom. ——Bacon

21. 看详细 [人际·沟通|交友] 不可以一时之誉，断其为君子，不可以一时之谤，断其为小人。 看详细 [人际·沟通|交友] 先淡后浓，先疏后亲，先远后近，交朋友之道也。

21. View in detail [Interpersonal Communication | Friendship] - Do not judge someone as a gentleman based on a moment of praise, nor as a scoundrel based on a moment of defamation. View in detail [Interpersonal Communication | Friendship] - The way to make friends is to start with lightness, then move to intensity, from distance to intimacy, and from the distant to the near.

22. 四十岁前女人有换老公的冲动；四十岁后男人有换老婆的冲动。

22. Before the age of forty, women have the urge to change their husbands; after the age of forty, men have the urge to change their wives.

23. 94人生交契无老少，论交何必先同调------唐杜甫<&lt；徒步归行>>

23. Old or young, all are friends in life; why must one first be in tune to make friends? -- Tang Dynasty Poet Du Fu, <<The Journey on Foot Home>>

24. 男人惊吓时挣大眼睛，女人惊吓时紧闭双眼。

24. Men widen their eyes when startled, while women close their eyes tightly when startled.

25. 男人做事总是先做后说，女人做事总是先说后做。

25. Men always do things first and then talk about them, while women always talk about things first and then do them.

26. 男人的弱点是怕老婆，女人的特点是怕儿子。

26. A man's weakness is being afraid of his wife, while a woman's characteristic is being afraid of her son.

27. 女人失恋后留下的是伤口；而男人失恋后留下的是老茧。

27. After a breakup, women leave behind wounds; while men leave behind calluses.

28. 男人在家里喜欢做重心，女人在家里喜欢做中心。

28. Men like to be the focus at home, while women prefer to be the center.

29. 男人最大的烦恼是债主，女人最大的烦恼是情人。

29. The biggest worry for men is creditors, and the biggest worry for women is lovers.

30. 女人攒私房钱是为了将来花在老公身上，男人攒私房钱是为了将来花在其他女人身上。

30. Women save private money for future spending on their husbands, while men save private money for future spending on other women.

31. 47掘井须到流，结交须到头。 ——贾岛

31. Drilling a well must reach the flow, making friends must reach the end. ——Jia Dao

32. 成功男人的背后都有一个女人的支持；成功女人的背后都有一堆男人的支持。

32. Behind every successful man is the support of a woman; behind every successful woman is the support of a group of men.

33. 男人恋爱意味着丰富并走向成熟；女人恋爱时意味着单纯并滑向深渊。

33. For men, falling in love signifies richness and maturation; for women, it means simplicity and sliding into the abyss.

34. -鲍溶 大丈夫处世处，当交四海英雄。 -《三国志蜀书刘巴传》 君子上交不诌，下交不渎。

34. - Bao Rong: A great man in the world should make friends with heroes from all over the world. - From the "Records of the Three Kingdoms: Shu Book, Liu Ba's Biography" - A gentleman should not flatter those above him and not be disrespectful to those below him.

35. 78当君远相知，不道云海深。 ——王昌龄

35. When you know him afar, you don't know how deep the clouds and seas are. ——Wang Changling

36. 白话译文：在悲伤的事情也莫过于活生生的别离，再快乐版的事也莫过于新相交的知己。

36. Literal Translation: There is nothing more sorrowful than a living parting, and nothing more joyful than making a new intimate friend.

37. 男人恋爱容易远视；女人恋爱容易近视。

37. Men tend to become myopic when in love; women tend to become myopic when in love.

38. 男人的职位越高老婆心理越踏实，女人的权利越大老公心理越空虚。

38. The higher the position of a man, the more secure his wife feels psychologically; the greater the rights of a woman, the more hollow her husband feels psychologically.

39. 60保持友谊的最好办法就是任何事情也不假手于他，同时也不借钱给他。——保罗

39. The best way to keep a friendship is to never ask him to do anything for you, and also not to borrow money from him. — Paul

40. 交渊博友，如读名书；交风雅友，如读诗歌；交谨慎友，如读圣书；交滑稽友，如读传奇小说。

40. To befriend a learned person is like reading a classic; to befriend an elegant person is like reading poetry; to befriend a cautious person is like reading sacred texts; to befriend a humorous person is like reading legendary novels.

41. 女人能够忍受不幸的婚姻，不能忍受不幸的爱情；男人能够忍受不幸的爱情，不能忍受不幸的婚姻。

41. Women can endure an unhappy marriage but cannot bear an unhappy love; men can endure an unhappy love but cannot bear an unhappy marriage.

42. -（宋）王安石 冤家宜解不宜结，各自回头看后头。 -（明）冯梦龙 于患难风豪杰。

42. - (Song Dynasty) Wang Anshi: Enemies should be resolved, not compounded, and everyone should look back at what has been done. - (Ming Dynasty) Feng Menglong: Heroes in times of adversity and valor.

43. 81交友投分，切磨箴视。 ——周兴嗣

43. 81 Friends should be chosen for their character and abilities, and one should be careful in their company. ——Zhou Xingsi

44. 男人第一次和女人上床很难，以后越来越容易；女人第一次和男人上床很容易，以后越来越难。

44. It's difficult for a man to have sex with a woman for the first time, and it becomes easier afterwards; for a woman, the first time having sex with a man is easy, but it becomes more difficult afterwards.

45. 41匹夫不可以不慎取友。友者，所以相有也。 ——荀况

45. It is not permissible for a person of 41 to be careless in choosing friends. Friends are those who complement each other. ——Xun Kuang

46. 69撇开友谊，无法谈青春，因为友谊是点缀青春的最美的花朵——池田大作

46. 69 Without friendship, one cannot speak of youth, for friendship is the most beautiful flower that adorns the youth—Daisaku Ikeda

47. 男人购物时往往冲动，女人购物时往往心动。

47. Men tend to shop impulsively, while women often shop out of emotion.

48. 96折花逢驿使，寄与陇头人。江南无所有，聊赠一枝春。----南朝宋人陆凯的《赠范晔诗》

48. With 96% discount, flowers meet the postman, sent to the people at Longtou. In the South of the Yangtze, nothing is to be found, but I will offer a branch of spring as a gift. ---- This is a line from the poem "Presenting to Fan Ye" by Lu Kai, a person from the Southern Song Dynasty.

49. 悲莫悲zhidao兮生别离，乐莫乐兮新相知。——战国 屈原《九歌·少司命》

49. The greatest sorrow is the sorrow of separation at birth, the greatest joy is the joy of meeting a new friend. — Qu Yuan's "Nine Songs·Shao Shi Ming" from the Warring States period

50. 男人是女人的整个世界；女人是男人的一个月亮。

50. A man is a woman's entire world; a woman is a man's moon.

51. 离婚时不要财产的男人，一定不是好男人；离婚时不要财产的女人，一定是好女人。

51. A man who does not want property during a divorce is definitely not a good man; a woman who does not want property during a divorce is definitely a good woman.

52. 女人对男人往往会朝思暮想；男人对女人往往会朝秦暮楚。

52. Women often think about men day and night; men often have a fickle attitude towards women.

53. -《抱朴子交际》 势力之交难以经远。 -（晋）陆机 丈夫结交须结贫，贫者结交交始亲。

53. - "In the Interaction of the Baopuzi, friendships formed based on power are difficult to last long." - (Jin Dynasty) Lu Ji A man must make friends with the poor; only when friends are poor will they truly become intimate.

54. 77亲之割之不断，疏者属之不坚。 ——韩愈

54. 77 The close ones cannot be cut off, nor can the distant ones be firmly attached. ——Han Yu

55. 你须贡献你诚挚的爱，学会怎样用正当的方法来赢得一个人的心。 -（希腊）苏拉格底 择友宜慎，弃之更宜慎。

55. You must give your sincere love and learn how to win a person's heart with正当 methods. - (Greek) Socrates Choose your friends wisely, and abandon them even more wisely.

56. 女人爱说梦话；男人爱说脏话。

56. Women love to talk in their sleep; men love to swear.

57. 74山河不足重，重在遇知己。 ——鲍溶

57. 74 The mountains and rivers are not heavy, what matters is to meet a true friend. ——Bao Rong

58. -（唐）杜甫 虽有兄弟，不如友生。 -《抱朴子交际》 君子淡如水，岁久情愈真。

58. - (Tang Dynasty) Du Fu: "Even with brothers, it is not as good as having friends." - From "Baopuzi: On Social Interaction" The gentleman is as pure as water, the longer the years, the more sincere the feelings.