在纷繁复杂的世界中，我们如何才能摆脱无谓的束缚，明智地选择胜过迷茫呢？让我们从“摆脱负能量，珍视自我与他人，明智选择”出发，探寻人生的真谛。

In the complex world, how can we free ourselves from unnecessary constraints and make wise choices instead of being confused? Let's start from "overcoming negative energy, cherishing ourselves and others, and making wise choices" to explore the true meaning of life.

1. 在我们的生活中，总是有这样一些人，喜欢抬杠，喜欢在嘴上与人争个高低输赢，论个是非对错，逞一时口舌之快，要知道，争争吵吵，不仅费神费劲，还会影响心情，有时一争论起来就没个把门的，到最后还会给自己带来诸多麻烦，何必为之？

1. In our lives, there are always some people who like to pick quarrels, enjoy arguing with others to determine who is right or wrong, and revel in the fleeting satisfaction of verbal disputes. It is important to realize that arguing and quarreling not only waste energy and effort, but also affect one's mood. Sometimes, once a dispute starts, it can become out of control, and in the end, it can bring about many troubles for oneself. Why bother with it?

2. 一个聪明的人，从来不屑于与人争辩，不是争不过，而是不想浪费时间和精力，更不想拉低自己的身份。

2. A wise person never deigns to argue with others, not because they can't win, but because they don't want to waste time and energy, nor do they want to lower their own status.

3. 其实，遇到这种消耗你的烂人烂事，是争不出个所以然的，不必太较真，有多远就躲多远，否则影响了心情。

3. In fact, when encountering such things that consume you and are of no good, there's no use arguing to a conclusion. It's not necessary to be too particular; just keep your distance as far as possible; otherwise, it will affect your mood.

4. 不在一个世界的人，有时真的是没法沟通。每个人都有自己判断是非对错的标准，不必为了顾忌别人的想法和看法，去迎合谁或改变自己。

4. People who are not in the same world sometimes really cannot communicate. Everyone has their own standards for judging right and wrong, and there is no need to cater to others' thoughts and opinions or change oneself to please them.

5. 思想不在一个高度，尊重就好；三观不在一个层次，微笑就好；人与人之间最好的相处模式。尊重是标配，靠谱是高配，厚道是顶配。顺其自然，一切随缘，过去事过去人，笑笑就好，现在事现在人，尽心就好，未来事未来人，随缘就好。成年人的世界，只筛选，不教育，只选择，不改变。不要和重要的人，计较不重要的事，不要和不重要法的人，计较重要的事。

5. If thoughts are not at the same level, show respect; if worldviews are not on the same level, just smile; this is the best way to interact between people. Respect is the standard, reliability is the high-end, and honesty is the top-end. Go with the flow, everything is as it should be. For past events and people, just laugh it off; for current events and people, do your best; for future events and people, let it be as it may. In the world of adults, there is only selection, not education; only choice, not change. Don't argue about unimportant things with important people, and don't argue about important things with unimportant people.

6. 层次不同，不必强容。

6. Different levels; there is no need to force tolerance.

7. 村上春树说：“不是所有鱼儿，都生活在同一片海里。人各有不同，无论遇到什么样的人都不稀奇。”

7. Haruki Murakami says, "Not all fish live in the same ocean. People are different, and it's not a rarity to meet all kinds of people."

8. 每个人的见识、心胸都不同，看世界的角度和方法不同，得出的结论自然也不同。

8. Everyone has different perspectives and broadness of mind, and the angles and methods of looking at the world are different, so the conclusions drawn are naturally also different.

9. 认知高的人，从不和他人争辩。因为他知道，对于认知层次不同的人，即使争辩也不会改变什么，所谓智者无需多言。生活中，圈层不同，教育程度不同，认知不同。

9. People with high cognition never argue with others. Because they know that for people with different cognitive levels, even argument will not change anything, as the saying goes, the wise need not speak much. In life, there are different circles, different educational levels, and different cognition.

10. 经历多了你会发现，行走在人世间，当你经历了生活的磨难，渐渐地就会明白，与其争辩，不如释然。

10. After experiencing a lot, you will find that when walking through life, as you go through the hardships of life, you will gradually realize that it is better to let go than to argue.

11. 提升认知，不为他人的事情所搅动。

11. Enhance your cognition and do not be troubled by others' matters.

12. 当你强大了，认知提升了，你会发现能搅动你心绪的东西就越来越少了。

12. When you become stronger and your cognition improves, you will find that there is less and less that can disturb your mind.

13. 人的精力是有限的，要留着做点更有用的事。

13. Human energy is limited; it should be reserved for doing something more useful.

14. 我们要保护好自己的正能量，不消耗，不争执，平心静气地生活。

14. We should protect our positive energy, not consume it, not argue, and live calmly and peacefully.

15. 世界那么大，人生这么短，与其在那些烂人烂事上纠缠不清，还不如趁早抽身离开，把更多的时间和精力，都用来好好经营自己。

15. The world is so vast, and life is so short. It's better to step away early from those bad people and things and to focus more of our time and energy on nurturing ourselves.

16. 任何消耗你的人和事，多看一眼都是你的不对。别在烂人、烂事上纠缠，保护好你所有的正能量，你很优秀，你值得更好的更快乐的生活，别让烂人烂事搅乱了你的气场。

16. Any person or thing that consumes you, each additional glance is a mistake on your part. Don't get entangled in bad people or bad things. Protect all your positive energy. You are excellent, and you deserve a better and happier life. Don't let bad people and bad things disrupt your aura.