1. 闲情时候自己煮花茶喝或者做茶点吃，放一段柔情音乐，翻阅几页好书，然后睡个懒觉，快哉。

1. In leisure moments, I enjoy brewing flower tea or preparing tea snacks to eat. I play some soft music, read a few pages of a good book, and then take a leisurely nap, feeling blissful.

2. 这好比登月，对这个女人来说只是一小步，对所有的女人来说这的确是一大步。

2. This is like landing on the moon; it's just a small step for this woman, but it's indeed a giant leap for all women.

3. 如果喜欢一个人，在允许的情况下，告诉对方。也许得不到答案，但至少你努力过，将来不必后悔。

3. If you like someone, tell them if it's allowed. You might not get an answer, but at least you've made an effort, and you won't have regrets in the future.

4. 对你不喜欢的追求者的示好和关心要坚定的说不或拒绝。即使他说：这不关你的事。

4. Firmly say no or reject the affections and concern from a suitor you don't like. Even if he says: This has nothing to do with you.

5. 如此情深，却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人，内心酸涩，反而会说不出话来，甜言蜜语，多数说给不相干的人听。?>

5. With such deep affection, it's hard to find the words to express it. It turns out that if you truly love someone, the bitter-sweetness inside you makes it hard to speak, and sweet nothings are often said to those who are not involved.?>

6. 家，是滋养女人精华的地方，也是掏空女人精血的地方。一个女人，如果把家当成了生活的唯一战场，那离枯萎已然不远。

6. Home is the place that nourishes a woman's essence and also depletes her vital energy. A woman who treats the home as the sole battlefield of life is not far from withering away.

7. 要相信自己，善待自己，让自己的生活精彩纷呈。不要误认为是要让某个人后悔，而是为了让自己的人生更精彩。

7. Believe in yourself, treat yourself well, and make your life colorful and vibrant. Don't misunderstand it as being about making someone regret, but rather about making your own life more spectacular.

8. 买适合自己的衣服、饰物。适合你的就是最好的，所以不必羡慕别人的行头。

8. Buy clothes and accessories that suit you. What suits you is the best, so there is no need to envy others' attire.

9. 古之女性，不惟有超世之才，亦必有坚忍不拔之志。

9. Ancient women not only possessed extraordinary talent but also had an indomitable will.

10. 平等公正的对待你和他的爱情，脚踩很多船最终会翻掉。

10. Treat your love with him and her equally and justly; if you脚踏多船, you will eventually capsize.

11. 女人跟男人一样的也是人，也是独立的人。女人有拒绝大男人沙文主义的权利，有拒绝当男人附件的权利，有拒绝被男人骑到头上吆五喝六的权利，有主动提出离婚的权利。

11. Women are also human beings, just like men, and they are independent individuals. Women have the right to reject macho sexism, the right to refuse to be an appendage to men, the right to refuse to be treated as a pawn by men, and the right to initiate divorce.

12. 活在这个世上，被人需要，是最极致的幸福！

12. To live on this earth and be needed by others is the ultimate happiness!

13. 晚上早点回家，自己没有车，超过十点要打的士，或者让人来接。

13. Go home early in the evening. Since I don't have a car, I need to take a taxi after 10 pm, or have someone come to pick me up.

14. 不要接受你不喜欢的男子送的任何礼物。

14. Do not accept any gift from a man you do not like.

15. 不管是和谁约会见面，约定的时间之前一定要到达。

15. No matter who you are going out with, you must arrive on time before the agreed time.

16. 找专人做色彩搭配建议。不要整天灰头灰脸，让自己灿烂点，别浪费青春和娇美身材。

16. Seek professional advice for color matching. Don't spend all day looking gloomy; let yourself shine, don't waste your youth and beautiful figure.

17. 女人，罪恶把你剥得赤裸，诅咒把你洗净，你升华成完善的生命。

17. Woman, sin stripped you bare, curse cleansed you, and you were transfigured into a perfect life.

18. 不想征服男人的女人，不是好女人！

18. A woman who doesn't want to conquer men is not a good woman!

19. 女人有时候会容许别人欺骗她们的爱情，却从来不容许伤害她们的自尊心。

19. Women may sometimes allow others to deceive their love, but they never permit their self-respect to be hurt.

20. 女人对婚姻的看法只有一种；男人对婚姻的看法却有一千零一种。

20. There is only one view of marriage among women; among men, there are a thousand and one different views of marriage.

21. 千万别惹女人！因为她们真会无期限地等待下去，等待的结果不是遗忘，就是复仇，但总是壮烈。

21. Never惹女人！ Because they truly will wait indefinitely, and the outcome of their waiting is either forgetfulness or revenge, but always in a heroic manner.

22. 真正能迫使一个女人成为别人老婆的不是父母，而是年龄。

22. It is not the parents but age that truly forces a woman to become someone else's wife.

23. 女人，只要有一种信念，有所追求，什么艰苦都能忍受，什么环境也都能适应。

23. Women, as long as they have a belief and something to pursue, they can endure any hardship and adapt to any environment.

24. 不必为某个人选择销毁ID或者失踪。爱和不爱都将继续生活，结束就好好结束，何必苦了自己？

24. There is no need to choose to destroy an ID or go missing for someone. Whether you love or don't love, life will continue; when it ends, end it well. Why should you subject yourself to suffering?

25. 自我享受或爱女人，固然需要孤独，但若要获得成功，必须靠广泛地涉足这世界。

25. Enjoying oneself or loving women indeed requires solitude, but to achieve success, one must widely engage with this world.

26. 忍耐的女人，男人很少看在眼里，还有可能要轻视。忍耐的男人，女人又说他没有用，一样看不起。

26. A woman who endures is often overlooked by men and may even be dismissed. A man who endures is said to be useless by women, and is also looked down upon.

27. 对女人愈冷淡反而愈能得到她的注意。

27. The colder a man is to a woman, the more attention he seems to get from her.

28. 一个使性子的女人，就象翻腾的浊水，纵使口干舌燥，也不愿啜饮一口。

28. A woman who is throwing a tantrum is like turbulent muddy water; even if one is very thirsty, one would not want to sip a drop of it.

29. 你可以去爱一个男人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有男人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？

29. You can love a man, but don't sacrifice everything of yourself. No man is worth you sacrificing your life for. If you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

30. 任何时候，不要为一个负心的男人伤心，女子更要懂得，伤心，最终伤的是自己的心。如果那个男人是无情的，你更是伤不到他的心，所以，收拾悲伤，好好生活。

30. At any time, do not feel heartbroken for a man who does not care, and women should especially understand that heartbreak ultimately harms one's own heart. If that man is ruthless, you will not be able to hurt his heart, so, gather up your sadness, and live well.

31. 你不要以为他老是悠然看南山，每个人有每个人固执的地方，有些女人**往麻将桌子上一推，便不肯动了，这是最最无伤大雅的一种固执。

31. Don't think that he is always leisurely watching the South Mountain. Everyone has their own stubbornness. Some women, once they push themselves onto the mahjong table, they won't budge. This is the most trivial and harmless kind of stubbornness.

32. 如果决定离开一个人，行动要快一点，快刀斩乱麻；如果决定爱上一个人，时间拉长一点，看清楚是否适合你。

32. If you decide to leave someone, act quickly, cut the chase; if you decide to fall in love with someone, take some time, and see if it's suitable for you.

33. 别对女人说她讲的都是废话，否则你会为这句话说上半天的好话。

33. Don't tell a woman that she talks nonsense, otherwise you'll be saying nice things about this sentence for half a day.

34. 每天打扮的优雅从容出门，给自己带上不同的笑容。

34. Go out every day dressed elegantly and composed, wearing a different smile for yourself.

35. 在婚姻中，感情比爱情来得实在。

35. In marriage, affection is more substantial than love.

36. 你们不见美貌的青年穿戴过分反而折损了他们的美么？你不见山村妇女，穿着朴实无华的衣服反比盛装的妇女要美得多么。

36. Have you not seen that young people with handsome appearances lose their charm when they dress excessively? Have you not seen that the mountain village women, dressed in simple and plain clothes, are far more beautiful than those dressed in fine attire?

37. 不要背后说人是非，不要翻别人的旧账。如果实在想骂人或者抱怨，去找你的密友，事后一定要变相补偿和道歉。

37. Do not gossip about others behind their backs, and do not bring up old grievances. If you really feel the need to curse or complain, seek out your close friends, and make sure to compensate and apologize indirectly afterward.

38. 女人要有女人的含蓄。女人要有一种暧昧的姿态明明知道男人说谎也不会拆穿，而男人也知道她知道男人在说谎，如此一种疑幻疑真的感觉，是女人最大的魁力。

38. Women should have a certain reserve as women. Women should have an ambiguous posture, knowing that men are lying but not exposing them, while men also know that she knows they are lying. Such a feeling of doubt and illusion is the greatest charm of women.

39. 岁不寒，无以知松柏；事不难，无以知女人。

39. Without cold seasons, one cannot know the resilience of pine and cypress trees; without difficult circumstances, one cannot know the strength of women.

40. 女人们，只有面对问题时不冲动，才能让爱情不被动！

40. Ladies, only by not acting impulsively when facing problems can love remain proactive!

41. 女人耗费一生，为的是要找一个她爱的人，同时也要防止别的女人找到他。

41. A woman spends her entire life in search of a man she loves, while also trying to prevent other women from finding him.

42. 人这一辈子，会遇到无数次爱的心动，从这无数次中挑选出最适合自己的那一次才是正途。

42. Throughout one's life, one will experience countless heartwarming moments of love. The correct path lies in selecting the one that suits oneself the most out of these countless instances.

43. 女人的眼睛总是比较敏锐的，哪怕是对世上的坏事全然无知的最老实的女人有时也会突然闪现出惊人的睿智。

43. A woman's eyes are usually more perceptive; even the most honest woman, who knows nothing of the bad things in the world, might suddenly flash with astonishing wisdom.

44. 不要贪慕虚荣。虚荣是一剂毒药，而且会上瘾。

44. Do not be envious of others' glory. Vanity is a poison, and it can be addictive.

45. 没有太阳，花朵不会开放；没有爱便没有幸福；没有妇女也就没有爱，没有母亲，既不会有诗人，也不会有英雄。

45. Without the sun, flowers will not bloom; without love, there is no happiness; without women, there is no love, and without mothers, neither poets nor heroes will exist.

46. 化妆品对女人而言，是信心；对男人而言，是幻觉。

46. Cosmetics are confidence to women and illusion to men.

47. 孤单的时候找好朋友聊天、逛街、吃饭。不要让孤寂淹没自己。

47. When feeling lonely, chat with good friends, go shopping, or have meals. Don't let loneliness engulf yourself.