从应用，到事缓人安，16句箴言助你安然前行！

From application to peace of mind amidst delayed matters, 16 proverbs to help you safely proceed!

1. 39别人想什么，我们控制不了；别人做什么，我们也强求不了。唯一可以做的，就是尽心尽力做好自己的事，走自己的路，按自己的原则，好好生活。即使有人亏待了你，时间也不会亏待你，人生更加不会亏待你！善待别人，就是善待自己。

1. What others think, we cannot control; what others do, we cannot force. The only thing we can do is to do our best in our own work, follow our own path, live according to our own principles, and live well. Even if someone treats you unfairly, time will not treat you unfairly, and life will not treat you unfairly either! Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.

2. 21决心走一条路的时候，就不要左顾右盼，风景再美也别流连，你应当清楚自己的目的，你应当清楚你心如钢铁地追求的东西是什么，在哪里，时不时给自己提个醒。

2. When you are determined to walk a certain path, do not look back and forth, and do not linger even if the scenery is beautiful. You should be clear about your goal, and you should be clear about what you are pursuing with an iron will, where it is, and remind yourself from time to time.

3. 19不要害怕说“对不起”。对别人的真诚致歉，往往能赢得别人的尊重，磊落的胸怀是快乐人生的源泉。

3. 19 Don't be afraid to say "I'm sorry." A sincere apology to others often earns their respect, and an open heart is the source of a happy life.

4. 7人生最重要的两件事：一是健康。如果说人生是一棵树，健康就是这棵树的根，根深才会叶茂。没有健康的身体，荣华富贵皆烟云。二是心态。人生的成败得失，只在一念之间。心态不同，人生的境遇便会天差地别。只有修炼一颗淡泊宁静的心，人生才会风清月明。健康需要锻炼，心态需要修炼，命运只在自己。

4. The two most important things in life for humans are: first, health. If life is a tree, health is the root of this tree, and deep roots lead to lush leaves. Without a healthy body, all wealth and honor are just smoke and mist. Second, attitude. The success or failure, gain or loss in life, lies between a single thought. Different attitudes lead to vastly different life experiences. Only by cultivating a tranquil and indifferent heart can one's life be clear and bright. Health requires exercise, attitude requires cultivation, and destiny is in one's own hands.

5. 38此刻很痛苦，等过阵子回头看看，会发现其实那都不算事。

5.38 At this moment, it is very painful, but after some time has passed and you look back, you will find that none of it was worth it.

6. 17拥有梦想只是一种智力，实现梦想才是一种能力。

6. Having dreams is a form of intelligence, but realizing dreams is a skill.

7. 心给出去的时候，就该知道，不可能毫发无损的拿回来。

7. When you give your heart away, you should know that it is impossible to retrieve it without a scratch.

8. 18你们朝着伟大的目标前进的理想，将是使你们勇敢地走进生活中去的鼓舞力量。

8. Your ideal of progressing towards the great goal will be the鼓舞力量 that encourages you to bravely enter life.

9. 10茫茫人海，如果找不到自己的坐标，就像失去了航母，很难找到停泊的港口！所以我们现在要做的就是给自己定一个目标，给自己规划一个宏伟的蓝图！祝你早日成功

9. Amid the vast sea of people, if one cannot find their own coordinates, it's like losing an aircraft carrier, making it difficult to find a port of call! Therefore, what we need to do now is to set ourselves a goal and plan a grand blueprint! Wishing you early success!

10. 56惟有主动付出，才有丰富的果实获得收获。

10. Only through active contribution can one reap abundant fruit.

11. 45人若在面临抉择而无法取舍的时候，应该选择自己尚未经验过的那一个。

11. When faced with a choice and unable to decide between them, one should choose the one that they have not yet experienced.

12. 不要以为离开的人是突然想起要离开的，回头看看你泼过多少冷水。

12. Don't think that the person who is leaving suddenly decided to go; take a look back at how much cold water you've poured on them.

13. 50俗话说：出淤泥而不染；俗话又说：近墨者黑。我想说：环境很重要，但是内心正直更重要，只要我们坚定信仰，不随波逐流，才能如莲花出淤泥而美丽绽放！

13. As an old saying goes: "A lotus blooms untouched by the mud." Another saying says: "He who frequents ink becomes black." What I want to say is that while the environment is important, it is even more important to have an upright heart. Only by steadfastly adhering to our beliefs and not following the tide, can we bloom beautifully like a lotus, emerging from the mud!

14. 5昨天的放弃决定今天的选择，明天的生活取决于今天的选择。

14. 5 Yesterday's decision to give up determines today's choices, and tomorrow's life depends on today's choices.

15. 1人生已多磨难，要学会为自己鼓掌。不苛求自己，不虐待自己，不折磨自己。无论遇到何种困境，学会对自己说：算了吧，没关系，会过去的。要像孩子一样纯真，像阳光一样温暖，像向日葵一样坚强……与洒脱同行！

15. Life has many hardships, learn to clap for yourself. Don't be too harsh on yourself, don't mistreat yourself, and don't torture yourself. No matter what kind of predicament you encounter, learn to say to yourself: Never mind, it's okay, it will pass. Be as innocent as a child, as warm as the sun, and as strong as a sunflower... Walk along with ease and carefree!

16. 14总有一天，那个一点一点可见的未来，会在你心里，也在你的脚下慢慢清透。

16. 14 Someday, that gradually visible future, will slowly become clear in your heart, and also under your feet.

17. 老天给了每个人一条命，一颗心，把命照看好，把心安顿好，人生即是圆满。

17. The heavens have given each person a life and a heart. Take care of your life and settle your heart, and your life will be complete.

18. 能看穿你三方面的人值得信任：你笑容背后的悲伤，

18. A person who can see through three aspects of you is worth trusting: the sadness behind your smile,

19. 12人生，不要总急着赶路。很需要偶尔回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。

19. Life, do not always be in a hurry to rush ahead. It is very necessary to occasionally look back, otherwise you will always be chasing, but not know what you have lost.

20. 你所浪费的今天，是昨天死去的人奢望的明天；你所厌恶的现在，是未来的你回不去的曾经。

20. The today you waste is the tomorrow that the deceased yesterday longed for; the present you dislike is the past that the future you can't return to.

21. 9你要做冲出的黑马 而不是坠落的星星。

21. 9 You are to be a rising黑马, not a falling star.

22. 不联系，是因为你的冷漠伤到我，不主动，是因为我根本感动不了你。

22. The reason for not contacting you is that your indifference has hurt me, and the reason for not taking the initiative is that I can't really move you.

23. 不要轻易伤害一个慢热型的人，他们对感情往往加倍执着。

23. Do not easily hurt someone who is slow to warm up; they often become very attached to emotions.

24. 请记住，无论什么时候，你都需要给自己一个明确的底线，

24. Remember that at all times, you need to set clear boundaries for yourself.

25. 14生活中，总有不幸，也总有伤心，有些事，你越是在乎，痛的就越厉害，艰辛的生活，我们已经很苦、很累，无需要对自己责备。人生就是不会事事如意，何必要强迫自己。尽心了，无论结果如何都可以。红尘过往，没有人握得住地久天长。其实，半睡半睁的眯着，挺好……

25. In life, there is always misfortune and sadness. Some things, the more you care about them, the more painful they become. In the arduous journey of life, we have already suffered and are exhausted. There is no need to blame ourselves. Life is not about everything going smoothly, so why force ourselves? As long as we have given our best, the outcome is not important. In the fleeting world, no one can hold onto enduring love. In fact, it's quite nice to half-sleep and half-wake...

26. 6一个真正聪明的人，小事糊涂而大事睿智，为人低调而洞若观火。做人如水，以柔克刚。只有那些以不争为争的人，才能笑到最后，成为真正的赢家。低调者更容易成事，无论自己有多大的能耐，万不可锋芒毕露。学会低调，懂得藏拙，大智若愚，韬光养晦，才可能赢得整个人生。

26. A truly wise person is oblivious to trivial matters but astute in significant ones, modest in demeanor yet insightful as if seeing through fire. To be a person is like water, overcoming the hard with the soft. Only those who compete without striving can laugh in the end and become the true winners. Modesty is conducive to success, and no matter how capable one may be, one must never show off. Learn to be modest, understand the art of concealing one's shortcomings, act with great wisdom as if foolish, cultivate one's inner light, and only then can one possibly win the whole of life.

27. 6世上没有白费的努力，也没有碰巧的成功，一切无心插柳，其实都是水到渠成。人生没有白走的路，也没有白吃的苦，跨出去的每一步，都是未来的基石与铺垫。亲们早安！

27.6 There is no wasted effort in the world, nor is there accidental success. Everything that seems to be done without intention actually comes naturally. There is no wasted journey in life, nor is there any suffering that is in vain. Every step taken is a foundation and a preparation for the future. Good morning, my friends!

28. 现在所过的每一天，都是余生中最年轻的一天。

28. Every day that we live is the youngest day of the rest of our lives.

29. 15不管外面的风风雨雨，惊涛骇浪，不管世事变幻沧海桑田，给生活以一丝坦然，给生命一份真实，给自已一份感激，给他人一份宽容。我们只要淡淡的生活。一切的风平浪静，给我们生活的最真实。

29. Regardless of the storms and rains outside, the tumultuous waves, no matter how the world changes or the sea and land shift, let life have a touch of calmness, give life a sense of reality, grant oneself a sense of gratitude, and bestow tolerance on others. We only need to live life in simplicity. All the calm and tranquility are the most authentic aspects of our lives.

30. 3人生中那些经历的风雨挫折，不会让人生的信念不堪一击，它会让生活做出更活泼的选择，或者更能拓展生活的多姿多彩，面对眼前的世界，不必要悲观失落，那些经历的感伤，和流过的眼泪，就当做自己唱歌时的一种跑调，其它没什么，或者理解为人生向前的一种契机和柳暗花明。

30. The storms and setbacks one experiences in life will not make one's beliefs fragile. Instead, they will lead to more vibrant choices in life, or even more colorful and diverse experiences. In the face of the world before us, there is no need to be pessimistic or despondent. The sorrows of our experiences and the tears we have shed can be seen as a little off-key in a song we sing. Other than that, there is nothing. Or, we can understand them as opportunities for progress in life and as a bright future emerging from darkness.

31. 我们都像小孩，胡闹是因为依赖你；懂礼貌，是因为你是外人。

31. We are all like children; we act up because we depend on you; we are polite because you are an outsider.

32. 因为很多时候有些人他会一点一点磨消你的底线，当你没有底线的时候，

32. Because many times some people will gradually erode your bottom line, and when you don't have a bottom line,

33. 51“不要以为努力只是自己的事，不要忘记生活给你的春天！”在前进的道路上，你会得到很多朋友和贵族的帮助。同时，你应该把你的爱和帮助给别人，帮助别人，从别人那里得到，回报社会。我觉得这也是做人的原则。

33. 51 "Don't think that effort is just your own business, don't forget the spring life has given you!" On the path of progress, you will receive help from many friends and nobles. At the same time, you should give your love and help to others, help others, and receive in return from others, giving back to society. I think this is also a principle of being a person.

34. 41要改造世界，得先改造自己；要成就事业，得先劳苦自身；要胜利登顶，得先奋力攀登。

34. To transform the world, one must first transform oneself; to achieve a cause, one must first toil on one's own; to win the peak, one must first strive to climb.

35. 42相聚那么短，疼痛那么长，我该如何化解这一份残酷的离殇？

35. Our reunion was so brief, and the pain so long-lasting, how should I alleviate this cruel parting sorrow?

36. 真正的爱，不是永远不吵架不生气不耍脾气不胡闹，而是吵过闹过哭过骂过，

36. True love is not about never arguing, never getting angry, never throwing tantrums, or never being crazy; rather, it's about arguing, being crazy, crying, and cursing through it all.

37. 27改变之所以难，是因为内心推动力不够。不是非做不可，于是能拖就拖；还过得下去，于是得过且过。我们都太擅长安慰自己，把麻木说成成熟；我们都太擅长假装，无能为力也是顺其自然。生活像打怪升级，需要时间收集金币。收集所有能刺激你的东西，直到自己可以激励起那天，热血也可以不止三秒。

37. The difficulty in changing is due to insufficient inner drive. It's not something that has to be done, so we tend to put it off; if it's tolerable, we just go along with it. We're all too good at self-comforting, turning numbness into maturity; we're all too good at pretending, making powerlessness seem natural. Life is like playing a game to level up, which requires time to collect gold coins. Gather all the things that can stimulate you, until you can motivate yourself on that day, and passion can last more than just three seconds.

38. 44迈开脚步，再长的路也不在话下；停滞不前，再短的路也难以到达。

38. 44 Take a step, and even the longest road is within reach; stop and even the shortest path becomes unattainable.

39. 52你总会遇到一个人，吼着五音不全的嗓子唱歌给你听，陪你在大雨的夜里狂奔，在你黑白的人生中拿着颜料盘画来画去，听得懂你的胡言乱语，看得清你没有微笑的表情，穿越拥挤的人潮走向你，拥抱你。

39.52 You will always meet someone who will sing to you with a voice that is out of tune, running with you in the rain at night, painting with a palette in your black and white life, understanding your nonsensical talk, seeing clearly the expression without a smile on your face, squeezing through the crowded crowd to reach you, and embracing you.

40. 9人，其实只要健康活着，就不失为一种富有，这也是很多人期盼的。人，其实不需要太多的东西，最需要心净和快乐，这也是有些人得不到的。人，想不开，就别想啦，找点想得开的事做做；得不到，就不要啦，找点身边顺手的东西玩玩。为得到，为富有，难为自己，何必呢？

40. There are nine people, but in fact, just living a healthy life is a form of wealth, which is what many people look forward to. People, in reality, don't need too many things; the most essential is a clean heart and happiness, which is something some people lack. If you can't get it, don't think about it; find something to do that sets your mind at ease. If you can't have it, just let it go; find something nearby and convenient to play with. Why trouble yourself for the sake of getting something or becoming wealthy?

41. 和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。

41. Communicate with intelligent people, date reliable individuals, work with positive people, and travel with humorous companions.

42. 16人生向前，每一天都需要领悟和规范，它需要对生命的信念有一种坚持和韧性，生命的信念与生命相互依存，众缘和合，随缘生活。烦恼没什么大不了，不过是岁月旅途的一场又一场尘埃。

42. As we walk forward in life, every day requires understanding and regulation. It requires a steadfastness and resilience in one's belief in life. The belief in life is interdependent with life itself, harmonizing with various causes and circumstances, living life as it comes. Troubles are nothing to worry about; they are merely a series of dust storms on the journey through the years.

43. 37成功之花，人们往往惊羡它现时的明艳，然而当初，它的芽儿却浸透了奋斗的泪泉，洒满了牺牲的血雨。

43. The flower of success is often admired for its present brilliance, yet in its early days, its buds were drenched in the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood of sacrifice.

44. 10人最大的对手，往往不是别人，而是自己的懒惰。别指望撞大运，运气不可能永远在你身上，任何时候都要靠本事吃饭。你必须拼尽全力，才有资格说自己的运气不好。

44. The biggest rival for ten people is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't expect to hit the jackpot, luck is not always on your side, and you must rely on your abilities to make a living at any time. You must give it your all before you have the资格 to say that your luck is bad.

45. 57最能见证人性的地方，一个是医院，看尽了时间的悲欢离合，苦难深重；一个是旅馆，见到了形形色色的人间丑态，龌龊勾当。

45. The number 57 is the most telling witness to the nature of humanity. One is the hospital, which has witnessed the joys, sorrows, separations, and reunions of time, and the profound sufferings; the other is the hotel, which has seen all sorts of ugly aspects of human life and sordid deeds.

46. 不要为别人委屈自己，改变自己。你是唯一的你，珍贵的你，骄傲的你，美丽的你。

46. Do not sacrifice yourself for others, or change yourself. You are the only one, the precious one, the proud one, and the beautiful one.

47. 32俗话说：书到用时方恨少！可俗话又说：百无一用是书生！读书固然重要，但是条条大路通罗马，你的人生你做主！

47. As the saying goes: "One regrets the lack of books when they are needed!" But another saying goes: "A scholar is of no use in a hundred ways!" Reading is indeed important, but there are many roads leading to Rome, and you are the master of your own life!