探寻真相：依赖他人等于是自寻烦恼，13条警句助你独立自强！

Seeking the Truth: Relying on others is equivalent to seeking trouble, here are 13 proverbs to help you become independent and self-reliant!

1. 40弱者只有千难万难，而勇者则能披荆斩棘；

1. The weak have a thousand difficulties, while the brave can forge their way through thorny paths.

2. 好兄弟不止是说辉煌的时候才有，包括难过的时候

2. Good brothers are not just there during the times of glory, but also during the times of sadness.

3. 能够说出的委屈，便不算委屈；能够抢走的爱人，便不算爱人。（这是亦舒在《开到荼蘼》一书中说的话）

3. The hurt that can be expressed is not real hurt; the love that can be stolen is not real love. (These are the words spoken by Eileen Chang in her book "Blossoms of Sorrow.")

4. 78开拓者独辟蹊径，保守者因循守旧，探索者勇攀高峰，执着者勇往直前。

4. The pioneers blaze new trails, the conservative adhere to the old ways, the explorers dare to scale the peaks, and the persistent press forward unswervingly.

5. 男人之间最沉重的话题，就是说到自己的女人；男人之间最轻松的话题，就是说到别人的女人。

5. The heaviest topic among men is talking about their own women; the easiest topic among men is talking about other men's women.

6. 心理健康是健康的一个重要组成部分，如果一个人心理不健康就会产生心理疾病。心理疾病可导致多种疾病的发生并能加重某些疾病，会严重影响我们的健康。所以，我们一定要关注并保持心理健康，要做到这一点，最主要的是要有一种乐观向上的积极心态。

6. Mental health is an important component of overall health. If a person is mentally unhealthy, it can lead to mental illnesses. Mental illnesses can cause the occurrence of various diseases and can exacerbate certain conditions, which can severely affect our health. Therefore, we must pay attention to and maintain our mental health. The most important thing to achieve this is to have a positive and optimistic attitude.

7. 26健康的才是美丽的，合适的才是最好的，常新的才是迷人的，

7. Health is beauty, suitability is the best, and what is ever new is charming.

8. 130最使人疲惫的往往不是道路的遥远，而是你心中的郁闷；最使人颓废的往往不是前途的坎坷，而是你自信的丧失；最使人痛苦的往往不是生活的不幸，而是你希望的破灭；最使人绝望的往往不是挫折的打击，而是你心灵的死亡。

8. The most exhausting is often not the long journey, but the gloom in your heart; the most dispiriting is often not the hardships ahead, but the loss of your confidence; the most painful is often not the misfortunes of life, but the shattering of your hopes; the most despairing is often not the blows of setbacks, but the death of your soul.

9. 人在得不到的时候，什么都可以不介意。得到之后，什么都有点介意。

9. When a person cannot obtain something, they can be indifferent to everything. Once they do obtain it, they become somewhat concerned about everything.

10. 118生活的“生”字由“牛”和“一”组成，寓意牛辛勤耕耘一生一世。所以，我们要一如既往，如牛那样勤勉终生。

10. The character "生" in 118shēng (118 Life) is composed of "牛" (ox) and "一" (one), symbolizing the ox's diligent toil throughout its entire life. Therefore, we should continue to work diligently throughout our lives, just like the ox.

11. 早熟 的MM最 性感。。早熟的GG最成熟。。

11. The most sexy MM is the one who is mature early. The most mature GG is the one who is mature early.

12. 人生没有一帆风顺，只有披荆斩棘才能路路顺；

12. Life is not smooth sailing; only by braving thorny paths can one achieve smooth progress in all endeavors.

13. 97生活是首歌：爱情是轻音乐，工作是交响乐，奋斗是摇滚乐，应酬是流行乐，朋友是通俗曲，事业是进行曲。

13. Life is a song: Love is light music, work is symphony, struggle is rock music, socializing is pop music, friends are folk songs, and career is a march.

14. 如果我们不能留下一些让自己热泪盈眶的日子，我们的生命就是白过了。

14. If we don't leave behind some days that make us shed tears of joy, our life has been wasted.

15. 成功是一颗硕果，你无法四季品尝；生命是一种过程，你不能让其停步。

15. Success is a ripe fruit, which you cannot savor in all seasons; life is a process, and you cannot stop it from progressing.

16. 你可以用作弊的手段获取高分，却无法从书本中获得知识；

16. You may achieve high scores through cheating, but you cannot gain knowledge from books.

17. 早回家的男人，讲故事给老婆听；晚回家的男人，编故事给老婆听。

17. Men who come home early tell stories to their wives; men who come home late make up stories for their wives to hear.

18. 91听从命运安排的是凡人；主宰自己命运的才是强者；没有主见的是盲从，三思而行的是智者。

18. 91 The ones who submit to the arrangement of fate are ordinary people; those who master their own destiny are the strong; those without a strong opinion are followers, and those who act after careful consideration are the wise.

19. 竞争是普遍现象，无可逃避，一个人不可能脱离竞争而存在。在挑战面前，除了要保持良好的竞技：状态外，更要注重在人格上、在知识上、在智慧上、在实力上使自己加倍地成长，变得更加成熟，更加强大，才能战胜对手。

19. Competition is a universal phenomenon that cannot be avoided, and one cannot exist without it. In the face of challenges, one must not only maintain a good competitive state but also focus on doubling one's growth in character, knowledge, wisdom, and strength to become more mature and powerful, and thus be able to overcome opponents.

20. 一次真诚相助胜过百次怜悯同情；一次见义勇为胜过百次豪言壮语！

20. One sincere act of assistance is worth more than a hundred acts of compassion and sympathy; one act of bravery in the face of righteousness is worth more than a hundred boasts!

21. 19生活需要游戏，但不能游戏人生；生活需要歌舞，但不需醉生梦死；生活需要艺术，但不能投机取巧；生活需要勇气，但不能鲁莽蛮干；生活需要重复，但不能重蹈覆辙。

21. Life needs games, but one cannot play life itself; life needs music and dance, but not to the point of living in a dream; life needs art, but not through cunning shortcuts; life needs courage, but not through recklessness; life needs repetition, but not by repeating the same mistakes.

22. 一个人要学会放弃，放弃你不想做的事；一个人要学会选择，选择你喜欢并擅长做的事。只要你在自己的人生道路上，找到适合自己的人生坐标，你就能够充分发挥自己的聪明才智，从而到达成功的彼岸。

22. One must learn to let go, to give up things you do not want to do; one must learn to choose, to select things you like and are good at doing. As long as you find the life coordinates that suit you on your path in life, you will be able to fully utilize your intelligence and talent, and thus reach the shore of success.

23. 攀登，人生就是攀登！让我们背负着命运给予的重载，艰苦跋涉，攀登上一个又一个意识、品德、情一操

23. Climbing, life is all about climbing! Let us bear the heavy burden bestowed by fate, endure arduous journeys, and climb to one level of consciousness, character, and moral integrity after another.

24. 我爱你吗？我不知道，我只知道有时会特别想你，我想珍惜和你在一起的每一刻，甚至害怕有一天你会完全离开这个城市……我不知道我会怎样？找一个感情寄托？算了，不想了，就让我错爱下去吧……

24. Do I love you? I don't know, I only know that sometimes I miss you especially, I want to cherish every moment I spend with you, and I even fear that one day you will completely leave this city... I don't know how I will handle it? Find a place to寄托 my emotions? Never mind, I won't think about it anymore, let me continue to love you incorrectly...

25. 70名人之所以能够成为名人，是因为他们在同伴嬉乐或休息时不停地攀登；凡人之所以成为凡人，是因为别人忙于攀登时他却安然入睡。

25. The reason why 70 people can become celebrities is that they keep climbing while their peers are playing or resting; the reason why ordinary people become ordinary is that while others are busy climbing, he peacefully sleeps.

26. 当你失去一些东西时，同时也会让你得到一些东西。

26. When you lose something, it also brings you something else.

27. 106拥有一个健康的体魄将使你的生活更具活力；拥有一个清醒的头脑将使你的人生更具理智；拥有一群朋友将使你的生活更具快乐；拥有一颗爱心将使你的生活更具和谐。

27. Having a healthy body will make your life more vibrant; having a clear mind will make your life more rational; having a group of friends will make your life more joyful; and having a kind heart will make your life more harmonious.

28. 今天(昨天)在地铁上看见一个姐姐拎着行李箱一个人哭，我想不管是因为什么理由要离开这个城市都应该被温柔的对待，于是下车的时候我就悄悄把面巾纸递到她手上，我心里告诉她，愿你的前路一片光明，无论你在哪，总有人爱你。

28. Today (yesterday), on the subway, I saw a sister carrying a suitcase and crying alone. I thought that no matter what reason she had to leave this city, she should be treated gently. So, when I got off the train, I quietly handed her a tissue, and in my heart, I told her, may your path ahead be filled with light, and wherever you are, there will always be someone who loves you.

29. 35每一个人都拥有生命，却并非每个人都能读懂生命；每一个人都拥有头脑，却并非每一个人都能善用头脑。只有热爱生命，善于动脑的人，才算得上真正拥有生命。

29. 35 Everyone has life, but not everyone can understand life; everyone has a mind, but not everyone can make good use of it. Only those who love life and are good at thinking can truly be said to possess life.

30. 一切都可以老，唯有我们年轻的心不能老；一切都可以退，唯有我们前进的脚步不能退。

30. Everything can age, but our youthful hearts must never age; everything can retreat, but our stride of progress must never retreat.

31. 几个女人为同一个男人争风吃醋，获利的是那个男人，受伤的是女人。

31. Several women are competing for the same man's affection, benefiting the man and harming the women.

32. 只要我们心头永远燃一烧着那颗远方的火花，它会像长明灯一样，日夜不熄地照耀着我们的前程。

32. As long as we keep that distant spark burning in our hearts, it will shine like an eternal lamp, illuminating our future day and night.

33. 110生活中的言语很神奇，有时长说不如短说，有时短说不如不说，有时多说不如少说，有时正说不如反说，有时当面说不如背后说。

33. In everyday life, language can be quite神奇. Sometimes, it's better to say less than more, to say nothing than to speak briefly, to say less than more, to say the opposite rather than the truth, and sometimes to say something behind someone's back is better than saying it to their face.

34. 在当今这个世界里，充满着各种机会，但是机会都是销纵即逝的，一旦有了机会，就应该及时把握，就要果断决策，勇敢地去行动，而不能犹豫不决，否则的话，你就只能永远站在那里看着别人成功。

34. In today's world, full of various opportunities, but these opportunities are fleeting. Once an opportunity arises, it should be seized promptly, and decisive decisions should be made, courageously taking action. One cannot hesitate, otherwise, you will only stand there forever watching others succeed.

35. 2春可赏绿，夏可玩水，秋可品菊，冬可滑雪。热爱生活，人生四季永远充满阳光！

35. In spring, you can enjoy the greenery; in summer, you can play with water; in autumn, you can appreciate chrysanthemums; in winter, you can ski. Love life, and the four seasons of life will always be filled with sunshine!

36. 我想家了，感觉好孤单~不知道找谁聊聊天，最近总是很多事自己需要坚持，而不是愿意做~看到别人都在追求自己的梦，想静静也静不下来，好难过，好乱，我想离开这个城市了，不为什么心情就很糟糕，也可能是压力大，妈妈爸爸姐姐哥哥我想你们了，很想，莫名的好想哭。

36. I miss home and feel very lonely~ I don't know who to chat with, as of late I've been facing a lot of things that I need to persist with, rather than things I want to do~ Seeing others pursuing their dreams, I can't even find a moment of tranquility, and I'm feeling very sad and confused. I want to leave this city, for no reason my mood is just terrible, it might be the pressure, Mom, Dad, sis, bro, I miss you all, so much, and I can't help but feel like crying.

37. 56运动使人充满生机活力，音乐使人充满浪漫快乐，思考使人充满智慧理智。

37. The 56 movement makes people full of vitality and energy, music fills people with romance and joy, and thinking fills people with wisdom and reason.

38. 别让消极的自我暗示控制了自己，要用积极的自我暗示改变自己。把积极的自我暗示进行反复地练习，就能让我们用一些更积极的思想和概念来替代我们过去陈旧的、否定性的思维模式，这是一种积极的心态，也是一种能在短时改变心态的方法。

38. Don't let negative self-suggestions control you; use positive self-suggestions to change yourself. By repeatedly practicing positive self-suggestions, we can replace our past outdated, negative thought patterns with some more positive thoughts and concepts. This is a positive attitude and also a method that can change our mindset in the short term.

39. 采摘硕果，才能品尝秋天的味道；走过寒冬，才能感知春天的温暖！

39. Only by picking the ripe fruits can one taste the flavor of autumn; only by walking through the harsh winter can one perceive the warmth of spring!

40. 54要感谢给你提意见的人，他使你成熟；要感谢给你造困境的人，他使你坚强。

40. Be grateful to those who offer you criticism, for they help you mature; be grateful to those who put you in difficult situations, for they make you strong.

41. 一旦男人开始设防，他就不会再坠入爱河和有所依恋。要想吸引他，必须让他不设防。

41. Once a man starts to put up defenses, he will no longer fall in love or become dependent. To attract him, you must make him drop his defenses.

42. 57没有运动，生活等于昏睡；没有思考，生活等于盲从；

42. Without movement, life is akin to a coma; without thought, life is akin to blind obedience.

43. 159少一分烦恼，就会多一分快乐；忘却了烦恼，就会时时快乐。

43. A little less worry, and there will be a little more happiness; forget the worries, and you will be happy all the time.

44. 116人生须“五自”：自知、自信、自醒、自立、自律。生活须“六戒”：戒纵、戒毒、戒懒、戒愁、戒独、戒从。

44. In life, one must pursue the "Five Selfs": self-knowledge, self-confidence, self-awareness, self-reliance, and self-discipline. In living, one must adhere to the "Six Abstinences": abstinence from excess, from drugs, from laziness, from worry, from loneliness, and from following others.

45. 每个人一生中都会遇到很多或小或大的挫折，这一点谁都无法避免。在挫折面前，我们不要被吓倒，应该直面挫折，把它当做是成功对我们的考验，坚强地继续走下去，挫折就会成为你的垫脚石。

45. Everyone will encounter many small or big setbacks in their lifetime, and this is something that no one can avoid. In the face of setbacks, we should not be frightened but instead confront them, treating them as challenges to our success. We should persevere bravely and continue on our path. Setbacks will then become stepping stones for you.

46. 88行路不仅仅在于快慢，还在于是否能够持续；前进不仅仅在于速度，更在于能否保持正确方向。

46. Walking 88 steps is not just about the pace, but also about whether it can be sustained; advancing is not just about speed, but more about whether it can maintain the correct direction.

47. 野心和欲望(这里指的是一种积极状态下的野心和欲望)可以使一个人的力量发挥到极至,可以逼得一个人献出一切去排除所有障碍,它们能使人全速前进而无后顾之忧。所以，我们应该保持着一种野心和欲望，不要把它们丢掉。

47. Ambition and desire (here referring to a positive state of ambition and desire) can bring a person's strength to its peak, can push a person to sacrifice everything to overcome all obstacles, and they can enable a person to advance at full speed without any worries in the rear. Therefore, we should maintain a sense of ambition and desire and not lose them.

48. 147人生无需后悔，逝去的事就像一阵风；人生不需要遗憾，该来的终究还是要来；人生不需要懊恼，愁白的头发难以再黑；人生不需要哀叹，丧失自信就将失去一切！

48. There is no need to regret in life, as past events are as fleeting as a breeze; there is no need to feel regret, for what is destined to come will eventually arrive; there is no need to be remorseful, as graying hair cannot return to its former blackness; there is no need to lament, for losing self-confidence means losing everything!

49. 在人之上，别拿人不当人；在人之下，别拿己不当人。

49. Do not treat others as less than human when you are above them; do not treat yourself as less than human when you are below them.

50. 兄弟这两个字应该是一辈子，并不只是你们嘴上说说而已的兄弟。

50. The words "brothers" should mean a lifetime together, not just something to be spoken about with words alone.

51. 女人谨记：一定要吃好玩好睡好喝好，一旦累死了，就有别的女人花咱的钱，住咱的房，睡咱的老公，泡咱的男朋友，还打咱的娃。

51. Women, always remember: make sure to eat well, have fun, sleep well, and drink well. Once you're too exhausted and die, there will be other women spending our money, living in our house, sleeping with our husband, dating our boyfriends, and even hitting our children.

52. 65人生没有真正的完美，只有不完美才是最真实的美；

52. Life is never truly perfect; it is only the imperfections that are the most authentic beauty.

53. 我爱的人离开了这个城市，我的好闺蜜搬离了我的房子，我的同事也因为工作强度离开了公司。这一路上，有人走进，有人走远。我想说有你们陪伴，一起度过的每一秒都很幸福，很知足，祝福你们一切都好，我们各自成长。期待牛逼的那天再相逢，愿时间仁慈，在走进这乱市，我们仍能保留初心，纯净心灵。安好~

53. The person I love has left this city, my best friend has moved out of my house, and my colleague has left the company due to the intensity of work. Along this journey, some people have come in, and some have moved away. I want to say that with you by my side, every second spent together is full of happiness and contentment. I wish you all the best, and may we all grow individually. I look forward to meeting again on the day when we are all awesome, and may time be kind, allowing us to keep our original intentions and pure hearts even as we navigate this chaotic world. Take care~