珍惜每一刻：14条生活箴言助你善待自我，不负人生旅程！

Treasure Every Moment: 14 Life Maxims to Help You Treat Yourself Well and Not Waste the Journey of Life!

1. 没有经历过严冬的小草，永远感受不到一阳一光的温暖。

1. Grass that has never experienced the severe winter can never feel the warmth of a ray of sunshine.

2. 无论做什么事，只有出奇才能制胜，这是一种上乘的做事心态。出奇就是想别人所没有想到的，做别人所没有做到的，只有这样，你才能在竞争中脱颖而出。而要出奇，就必须打开封闭的头脑，也许一个新的创见，就可能改进我们的工作业绩，改变我们的生活。

2. No matter what you do, only by being extraordinary can you win, which is a superior mindset for doing things. Being extraordinary means thinking of what others haven't thought of, and doing what others haven't done. Only in this way can you stand out in the competition. To be extraordinary, one must open up the closed mind, and perhaps a new insight could improve our work performance and change our lives.

3. 用心去谈恋爱，不要用星座、属相、血型去判断爱情走向。

3. Take your time in dating, and don't judge the direction of love based on zodiac signs, animal signs, or blood types.

4. 人生是需要拼搏才可以绽放美丽的火花，对待人生谁没有低谷，顺其自然也不失为一种方法，人既然来到这个世界上，总的留下点什么吧，坚持，在坚持攀向人生的顶峰！！

4. Life requires struggle to burst into beautiful sparks. Who doesn't have their low points in life? Letting things take their course is also a method. Since humans are born into this world, it's natural to leave something behind. Persist, and persist in climbing towards the peak of life!

5. 做人做事要学会拒绝别人，该说不时要说不，这是为了正当地保护自己，也是做人做事的一条原则。不要不好意思和没有勇气说不，要巧妙地把不说出来，否则，受伤害的将是你自己。

5. When dealing with people and matters, one must learn to say no and to speak out when necessary; this is to properly protect oneself, and it is also a principle of dealing with people and matters. Do not feel embarrassed or lack the courage to say no; be clever in not saying it out loud, otherwise, the one who will suffer is yourself.

6. 12家，很平淡，只要每天都能看见亲人的笑脸，就是幸福的展现；爱，很简单，只要每天都会彼此挂念，就是踏实的情感。幸福并不缥缈，在于心的感受；爱情并不遥远，在于两心知的默契。时间，会沉淀最真的情感；风雨，会考验最暖的陪伴。走远的，只是过眼云烟；留下的，才是值得珍惜的情缘。时间会告诉我们，简单的喜欢，最长远；平凡中的陪伴，最心安；懂你的人，最温暖。

6. 12 is quite ordinary, but as long as we can see our loved ones' smiling faces every day, it is the manifestation of happiness; love is simple, as long as we think of each other every day, it is a solid emotional connection. Happiness is not elusive, it lies in the heart's feeling; love is not distant, it lies in the默契 between two hearts. Time will settle the most sincere emotions; storms and rains will test the warmest companionship. What is distant is just a fleeting cloud; what remains is the treasure worth cherishing. Time will tell us that simple likes are the longest-lasting; companionship in the ordinary is the most comforting; and those who understand you are the warmest.

7. 美貌只能迷住人的眼睛，美德才能打动人的心灵。

7. Beauty can only captivate one's eyes, but virtue can touch one's heart.

8. 我们经常会遭遇别人的反对意见，但乐于接受反对意见的人并不多，这需要我们摆正心态。其实，别人的反对意见或多或少都有些道理，对于正确的反对意见，我们要欣然接受，对于错误的反对意见，我们也没有必要激烈地反驳。学会接受反对意见，才能使我们变得杰出。

8. We often encounter opposition from others, but there are not many people who are willing to accept it, and this requires us to adjust our mindset. In fact, others' opposition to some extent or another has some logic. For correct opposition, we should accept it willingly; for incorrect opposition, we do not need to strongly refute it either. Learning to accept opposition is the key to becoming outstanding.

9. 有了明天的人，就没有眼泪，那怕今天受尽了痛苦与灾难。

9. For those who have tomorrow, there are no tears, even if they have endured pain and disaster today.

10. 宽容，是做人做事的一种积极心态，是大家耳熟能详的美德。要宽容你的亲人和朋友，宽容你的对手和仇敌，这是古今中外成大事者必备的心态。当然，也要知道姑息和纵容决不是宽容，一定要掌握宽容与纵容的尺度和分寸对某些人不可过分宽容。

10. Tolerance is a positive attitude towards life and work, and it is a virtue that is well-known to everyone. You should be tolerant of your family and friends, as well as your opponents and enemies. This is the mindset that great individuals throughout history and across the world have possessed. Of course, it is also important to understand that complacency and indulgence are not the same as tolerance. You must grasp the measure and degree of tolerance, and not be overly lenient towards certain individuals.

11. 之所以会怀才不遇，大多数是由自己造成的。不要有怀才不遇的感觉，因为这会成为你心理上的负担，严重影响到你的正常心态。所以，我们要认真踏实地做自己该做的事，就算真的是大材小用，也应该是快乐的。

11. The reason why one is not recognized for one's talents is mostly due to oneself. Do not feel the sense of being unrecognized, as this can become a burden on your mental health, seriously affecting your normal mindset. Therefore, we should seriously and steadily do what we are supposed to do, and even if we are truly being underutilized, we should be happy.

12. 20人这一生辈子，无非四个字：钱命家情！人这一辈子，为了钱，劳碌奔波；为了命，小心呵护；为了家，努力奋斗；为了情，付出全部。总是不甘心，与人攀比，总是不知足，拼命追求，最好的，错过了，拥有的，失去了！所以，别再犯糊涂，人活着，其实不需要太多的东西，钱不是最好的，命才是宝贵的。只有活着，才是关键，只有生命，才是财富！人生短暂，生命无常，不要追求太多，钱多钱少，不重要，最重要的就是：身体健健康康的，家人和和睦睦的，日子轻轻松松的！

12. Throughout their lives, 20 people have only four words: money, life, family, and emotions! In a lifetime, people toil and struggle for money; they carefully protect their lives; they strive hard for their families; and they give everything for their emotions. They are always dissatisfied, constantly comparing themselves to others, and never content, always striving to achieve more. The best is missed, and what they have is lost! So, don't be confused anymore. In life, one really doesn't need too many things. Money isn't the best; life is the most precious. Only living is crucial; only life is wealth! Life is short, and life is unpredictable. Don't chase too much. Whether you have more or less money doesn't matter. The most important thing is: to have a healthy body, harmonious family relationships, and an easy life!

13. 爱情就像拔河，一个人松手放掉，另一个人就会受到伤害。（据说这是梁咏琪的爱情观）

13. Love is like tug-of-war; if one person lets go, the other will be hurt. (It is said that this is Leung Wing Kei's view on love.)

14. 争于求成的结果往往是一事无成。当你付出了足够的代价之后，就能得到想要的东西。

14. The result of seeking achievement at all costs is often achieving nothing. Only after paying a sufficient price can you get what you want.

15. 看一个男人爱不爱你的最好方法，是看他是否把你带入他的世界、他的生活当中。

15. The best way to see if a man loves you is to see if he includes you in his world and his life.

16. 4人，活得再漂亮，也会有凄凉；路，走得再潇洒，也会有迷茫；歌，唱得再响亮，也会有冷场。心中的苦楚，没人替你品尝。脆弱的心灵，没人替你坚强。有些责任，必须承担；有些伤痛，必须承受；有些情绪，必须克制；有些风雨，必须勇往直前。心别太累，学会解脱自己；爱别太深，学会放过自己；活的别太委屈，学会善待自己。活出自我，活出心情，活出滋味，活出人生的精彩。

16. Even with four people living beautifully, there will be loneliness; even when walking a path with elegance, there will be confusion; even when singing a song loudly, there will be moments of silence. The bitterness in your heart is something no one else can taste. A fragile soul is not something others can strengthen. Some responsibilities must be undertaken; some wounds must be endured; some emotions must be controlled; some storms must be faced head-on. Don't overburden your heart, learn to free yourself; don't love too deeply, learn to forgive yourself; don't live too unfairly, learn to be kind to yourself. Live out your self, live out your mood, live out the taste, live out the wonders of life.

17. 女人的情感是奇怪的，你若得不到她们的尊敬，也就得不到她们的爱。

17. Women's emotions are strange; if you don't earn their respect, you won't gain their love either.

18. 如果有一个人连自己都不相信，还能指望别人相信吗？要相信自己一定能行。具有强烈自信心的人，能够承受各种考验、挫折和失败，这种自信心会使我们受用一生。

18. If a person does not even believe in themselves, can one expect others to believe in them? You must believe in your own abilities. A person with strong self-confidence can endure various trials, setbacks, and failures, and this kind of confidence can benefit us throughout our lives.

19. 恐惧自己受苦的人，就已经为自己的恐惧在受苦。

19. Those who fear suffering themselves are already suffering from their own fear.

20. 别太相信一见钟情，婚后，你不可能只看他（她）一眼。

20. Don't be too confident in love at first sight; after marriage, you won't be able to only look at him/her once.

21. 你是否很厌倦你目前的工作？我想大部分的回答是肯定的。厌职情绪使我们失去了工作的乐趣,还会严重地影响到我们工作和生活,我们应该及早消除它。要消除厌职情绪，就要保持良好的工作心态，学会爱自己的职业，合理安排工作和生活，这样才能找回一个原本充满激情与活力的自己。

21. Are you tired of your current job? I think most of the answers would be affirmative. Job dissatisfaction makes us lose the joy of work and can severely affect our work and life. We should eliminate it early on. To get rid of job dissatisfaction, we need to maintain a positive work attitude, learn to love our profession, and reasonably arrange our work and life. Only in this way can we rediscover the passionate and energetic self we once were.

22. 19不羡慕别人的辉煌，不嘲笑别人的不幸。人这一辈子，机遇难同，姻缘各异，幸也好，不幸也罢，都是自己的人生。全力做好事情，努力做好自己，晨起暮落是日子，奔波忙碌是人生。路途再远，终有尽头；痛苦再深，终会结束，这个世界，没有一成不变的永恒，也没有至死不渝的爱。开心时，好好把握；烦恼时，不必在意，不管风雨有多大，前方一定有晴天。

22. Do not envy others' brilliance or mock their misfortunes. In a lifetime, opportunities are different, and destinies vary. Whether fortunate or unfortunate, they are all part of one's own life. Strive to do well and improve oneself. The rise and fall of the day are the days, and toil and bustle are life. No matter how far the journey is, it will have an end; no matter how deep the pain is, it will come to an end. In this world, there is no eternal unchanging, nor is there a love that remains loyal to the end. Treasure the moments of happiness, and do not worry about the moments of烦恼. No matter how fierce the wind and rain are, there will definitely be sunny days ahead.

23. 男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。

23. When men get rich, they turn bad, yes, many men do that. However, even if men turn bad as soon as they get rich, they wouldn't be much better even if they didn't have money.

24. 人若云：我不知，我不能，此事难。当答之曰：学，为，试。

24. If someone says: "I don't know, I can't, this is difficult," you should reply: "Learn, do, try."

25. 很多事表面上看起来很难完成，实际上却很简单，只要我们拿出一点勇气去尝试，往往就会收到意想不到的效果。我们每个人都有勇气，这是我们自身用不完的财富，要懂得合理利用，否则就等于浪费。

25. Many things may seem difficult to accomplish on the surface, but in reality, they are quite simple. As long as we summon a bit of courage to try, we often achieve unexpected results. Each of us has courage, which is an inexhaustible treasure within ourselves. We should learn to make reasonable use of it; otherwise, it's as if we were wasting it.

26. 我们花多少金钱也买不到一瞬间，这世上没有什么比时间更宝贵了。我们无法挽留时间，但我们可以珍惜时间。要珍惜时间，最重要是要合理有效地运用时间。我们要把珍惜时间这个观念深植心底，不虚度每一天。

26. No amount of money can buy an instant, and nothing in the world is more valuable than time. We cannot retain time, but we can cherish it. To cherish time, the most important thing is to make reasonable and effective use of it. We should deeply implant the concept of valuing time in our hearts and not waste a single day.

27. 男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多。

27. Men often feel that there are very few suitable women for them before marriage, but after marriage, they feel that there are many suitable women for them.

28. 自己打败自己是最可悲的失败，自己战胜自己是最可贵的胜利。

28. Defeating oneself is the most pitiful failure, while overcoming oneself is the most valuable victory.

29. 走过了所有通向失败的路，剩下的那条路，就是成功之路。

29. Having walked all the paths that lead to failure, the remaining path is the road to success.

30. 表现欲是人们有意识地向他人展示自己才能、学识、成就的欲望。对于我们来说，增强自己积极的表现欲是一种促人奋进的内在动力。谁拥有它，谁就会争得更发展自己的机会，从而接近成功的彼岸。

30. The desire to perform is the conscious urge of individuals to showcase their talents, knowledge, and achievements to others. For us, enhancing our desire for positive performance is a driving force that encourages progress. Whoever possesses it will strive for more opportunities to develop themselves, thereby drawing closer to the destination of success.

31. 10再深的感情，不懂珍惜，也会淡，再好的关系，不去维系，也会散。人和人交往，全凭一份真诚，心和心相处，全凭一份真意。相遇了，就好好珍惜，相处了，就多多用心，谁也不能预料，下一秒会发生什么事情。人心，永远是相互的，要想被人真心对待，首先你要真心待人，要想受人珍惜爱护，首先你要对人守护。没有真心，谈何珍惜，没有付出，谈何回报；想得到什么，先付出什么，这不仅仅是做人之道，更是待人之道！

31.10 No matter how deep the affection, if not cherished, it will fade; no matter how good the relationship, if not maintained, it will disperse. Interpersonal relationships rely solely on sincerity, and heart-to-heart interactions depend entirely on genuine intentions. When we meet, we should cherish it; when we are together, we should put more effort into it. No one can predict what will happen in the next second. People's hearts are always reciprocal. If you want to be treated sincerely, first treat others sincerely; if you want to be cherished and loved, first protect others. Without sincerity, how can you talk about cherishing? Without giving, how can you expect a return? What you want to receive, first give it; this is not only the way to be a person but also the way to treat others!

32. 做人最基本的一条准则就是正直。正直，就是有责任感，说真话，做实事，对于任何事物，既心态平和又坚持原则。正直是做人的一种美德，也是做人的一种积极心态。做一个正直的人，才不会违背自己的良心，才能无愧于人这个字。

32. The most fundamental principle of being a person is integrity. Integrity means being responsible, speaking the truth, doing real things, maintaining a calm attitude and adhering to principles towards any matter. Integrity is both an virtue of being a person and a positive mindset. Only by being an honest person can one not betray one's own conscience and live up to the word 'human'.

33. 成功在很多时候取决于每一个人对成功与失败的态度。正如那位老者所说：在成功的道路上，你没有耐心去等待成功的到来，那么，你只好用一生的耐心去面对失败。也就是说，成功只垂青于有耐心的人。

33. Success often depends on each individual's attitude towards success and failure. As the elder said: If you are impatient to wait for success on the path to success, then you will have to use the patience of a lifetime to face failure. In other words, success favors only those who have patience.

34. 18一辈子好短，对自己要好一点。寒冷的天，要记得多穿；忙碌的晨，要吃点早餐。别熬夜太晚，少了睡眠；别压抑心烦，没了灿烂。缘聚缘散，学会随缘；钱多钱少，学会看淡。一辈子好短，对身边的人要好一点。因为下辈子不会再遇见，这辈子要好好陪伴！能信你的人，别欺骗；能疼你的人，别冷淡；能帮你的人，要交换。别争争吵吵，有话好好说；别勾心斗角，有事慢慢聊。一辈子好短，做真实的自己，最舒坦；做独特的自己，最值钱！

34. 18 years of life are too short, be kind to yourself. On cold days, remember to dress warmly; on busy mornings, have something for breakfast. Don't stay up too late, as you'll lose sleep; don't suppress your worries, as you'll lose your radiance. With the gathering and scattering of fate, learn to go with the flow; with more or less money, learn to take it lightly. Life is too short, be kind to the people around you. Because you won't meet them in the next life, cherish this life by being together! Don't deceive those who trust you; don't be indifferent to those who care for you; and be willing to reciprocate for those who help you. Don't argue and quarrel, but speak your mind well; don't plot and scheme, but talk things over slowly. Life is too short, be true to yourself, it's the most comfortable; be unique, it's the most valuable!

35. 创新思维是一种积极的心态，凡成大事者都有超出常人的创新思维。在残酷的竞争面前，创新思维会给当事人带来生机和活力。毫无疑问，我们必须要保持一种创新思维，用新思维突破常规观念，超越自己的过去，才能立于不败之地。

35. Innovative thinking is a positive mindset, and those who achieve great things all possess extraordinary innovative thinking. In the face of fierce competition, innovative thinking can bring vitality and vitality to the parties involved. There is no doubt that we must maintain an innovative mindset, use new thinking to break through conventional concepts, transcend our past, and only then can we maintain an invincible position.

36. 一个人光一溜一溜地到这个世界来，最后光一溜一溜地离开这个世界而去，彻底想起来，名利都是身外物。

36. A person comes into this world all alone and leaves it all alone, ultimately. Upon thorough reflection, it becomes clear that fame and fortune are all external matters.

37. 成熟的爱情就像棉布衬：97%的棉，3%的莱卡。体贴却不束缚，温暖却不灼手。张弛有度，收放自如。

37. Mature love is like cotton blend fabric: 97% cotton, 3% Lycra. Considerate yet not restrictive, warm yet not scorching. It has a good balance between tension and relaxation, and can be adjusted freely.

38. 选择一个男人还是改造一个男人？选择适合自己的男人才是王道。

38. Choose a man or transform a man? Choosing a suitable man for oneself is the way to go.

39. 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的男人而浪费你的时间。

39. Don't waste your time on men who are unwilling to spend time with you.

40. 生活中我们常常能听到一些抱怨声。生活中许多事情告诉我们：只会抱怨的人是无法把事情做好的。也有一些人，尽管生活对待他们很不公平，但他们不去抱怨这抱怨那，而是把别人用来抱怨的时间用在勤奋做事上，结果，他们就会取得令人刮目相看的成绩。

40. In life, we often hear complaints. Many things in life tell us that those who only complain are unable to do things well. There are also some people who, despite life treating them very unfairly, do not complain about this or that. Instead, they use the time others would spend complaining to work diligently, and as a result, they achieve remarkable achievements that make others take notice.

41. 别人可以对不起你，但你不可以对不起自己。对自己好，珍惜自己，爱自己，是最基本的要求，也是对自己负责的表现。每一个生活在这个世界上的人，无论何时，无论发生什么事情都要善待自己。

41. Others may be sorry to you, but you should not be sorry to yourself. Treating yourself well, valuing yourself, and loving yourself are the most basic requirements, and also an expression of taking responsibility for yourself. Every person living in this world should always treat themselves kindly, no matter when or what happens.

42. 最甜美的爱情是三分得到，七分想要；而最稳固的婚姻是七分得到，三分想要。所以，婚姻不甜蜜是因为女人让男人得到的太多了！

42. The sweetest love is three parts gained and seven parts desired; while the most stable marriage is seven parts gained and three parts desired. Therefore, marriage is not sweet because women allow men to gain too much!

43. 谁若游戏人生，他就一事无成；谁不能主宰自己，便永远是一个奴隶。

43. He who plays with life achieves nothing; he who cannot master himself will always be a slave.