1. 死要面子活受罪。

1. To die for face, to suffer for life.

2. 礼貌对于人性，犹如热力之对于蜡烛。

2. Politeness is to humanity as heat is to a candle.

3. 文质彬彬，而后君子。

3. Cultivate elegance in both words and demeanor, and you will become a gentleman.

4. 宁可认错，不可说谎。

4. It is better to admit a mistake than to tell a lie.

5. 礼貌之于人性如同热量之于蜡烛。

5. Politeness is to human nature as heat is to a candle.

6. 见人施一礼，少走十里路。

6. A bow to a person can save you a ten-mile walk.

7. 衣食以厚民生，礼义以养其心。

7. Rich clothing and food are for the people's well-being, and propriety and righteousness are for nurturing their hearts.

8. 道之以告德，齐之以礼。

8. Lead with example to impart virtue, harmonize with propriety.

9. 在顺境中要节制，在逆境中要谨慎。

9. Temperance in prosperity, caution in adversity.

10. 人，应该比石头还坚硬，比花还温柔。

10. Humans should be harder than stones and gentler than flowers.

11. 敬人者，人恒敬之。

11. If you show respect to others, they will always show respect to you.

12. 人应为生而食，不可富而失节。

12. A person should eat for living, but should not become wealthy and lose self-discipline.

13. 礼貌是一种回收有礼貌的尊重的愿望。

13. Politeness is a wish to recycle polite respect.

14. 山中盗寇易克，心中盗贼难制。

14. It is easy to defeat bandits in the mountains, but hard to control the thieves in one's heart.

15. 大人不记小人过，宰相肚里好撑船。

15. A great man forgets the misdeeds of a small man; the prime minister's belly is big enough to carry a boat.

16. 不守时间就就是没有道德。

16. Not keeping time is a sign of immorality.

17. 灯不明，要人拨；人不明，要人说。?>

17. The lamp is not bright, so one must turn it on; the person is not understood, so one must speak up.

18. 礼貌比法律更强有力。

18. Politeness is more powerful than law.

19. 丢掉包袱，轻装前进。

19. Drop the burden and move forward lightly.

20. 好言好语事事通。

20. A good word goes a long way.

21. 学校是学习之所，文明是成功之本。

21. The school is a place of learning, and civilization is the foundation of success.

22. 勿以恶小而为之，勿以善小而不为。

22. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not refrain from doing good because it is small.

23. 既往不咎，来者可追。

23. Let bygones be bygones, and pursue what is to come.

24. 礼节礼貌是琐事中的善行。

24. Etiquette and politeness are acts of kindness in trivial matters.

25. 人不可有傲气，但不可无傲骨。

25. A person should not have an attitude of arrogance, but cannot do without a sense of pride.

26. 爱徒如爱子，尊师如尊父。

26. Love your disciples as your sons and respect your teachers as your fathers.

27. 恭近于礼，远耻辱也。恭则不侮。

27. To be respectful is close to propriety, and to be disrespectful is far from it. Respectfulness avoids insult.

28. 礼貌周全不花钱，却比什么都值钱。

28. Politeness costs nothing but is more valuable than anything else.

29. 无礼就是无知的私生子。

29. Impoliteness is the illegitimate offspring of ignorance.

30. 根不正，苗必歪。

30. If the root is not straight, the shoots must be crooked.

31. 为而不矜，作而不恃。

31. To act without arrogance, to create without relying on others.

32. 善恶到头终有报，只争来早与来迟。

32. In the end, good will be rewarded and evil will be punished; it is only a matter of when, not if.

33. 礼貌造就文明人。

33. Politeness breeds a civilized person.

34. 苦海无边，回头是岸。

34. The sea of suffering is boundless, and turning back is the shore.

35. 礼，所以正身也；师，所以正礼也。

35. Rites are for the purpose of correcting one's own character; teachers are for the purpose of correcting the rites.

36. 礼貌是有教养的人的第二个太阳。

36. Politeness is the second sun of a well-bred person.

37. 德必报，怨不仇。

37. What is done to others will be done to you; do not harbor resentment.

38. 不要指责别人，多多自责。

38. Do not blame others, blame yourself more.

39. 却之不恭，受之有愧。

39. To decline would be impolite, to accept would be a source of embarrassment.

40. 千日行善不足，一日作恶有余。

40. It is not enough to do good for a thousand days; one day of doing evil is more than enough.

41. 吃亏不算傻，让人不算痴。

41. Suffering a loss doesn't make one foolish, and being taken advantage of doesn't make one naive.

42. 为人第一谦虚好，学问茫茫无尽期。

42. The first virtue is modesty in one's character, and the pursuit of knowledge has no end in sight.

43. 衣冠不正，则宾者不肃。

43. If one's attire is inappropriate, the guests will not be respectful.

44. 邻里和气，万事如意。

44. The neighborhood is harmonious, and everything goes smoothly.

45. 以爱己之心爱人则尽。

45. If you love others with the same love you have for yourself, you will love them completely.

46. 无礼是无知的私生子。

46. Impoliteness is the illegitimate offspring of ignorance.

47. 良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行。

47. Bitter medicine benefits the illness, and loyal advice is beneficial even if it is unpleasant to hear.

48. 贫而无谄，富而无骄。

48. Poor but not obsequious, rich but not proud.

49. 亲善产生幸福，文明带来和谐。

49. Amity generates happiness, civilization brings harmony.

50. 博学于文，约之以礼。

50. Be learned in literature and govern oneself with propriety.

51. 真诚是玻璃，谨慎是钻石。

51. Sincerity is glass, prudence is diamond.

52. 礼貌经常可以替代最高贵的情感。

52. Politeness can often substitute for the most noble of emotions.

53. 谁如果追求美丽的蜃景，谁就可能被引进沙漠。

53. Whosoever seeks the beautiful mirage may be led into the desert.

54. 怀着善意的人，是不难于表达他对人的礼貌的。

54. A person with good will finds it easy to express his politeness towards others.

55. 周到的礼貌用在那些你不喜欢的人身上，绝不比挑战书尾那句您恭顺的仆人更多一点真诚。当然，这是一种人们普遍赞同和理解的情况。切斯特菲尔德

55. Politeness that is as considerate as the closing phrase "Your humble servant" in the challenge letter does not add any more sincerity when used towards someone you do not like. Of course, this is a situation that is universally approved and understood. Chesterfield

56. 待富贵人，不难有礼，而难有体;待贫贱人，不难有恩，而难有礼。史典

56. It is not difficult to be polite to the wealthy and powerful, but it is difficult to be dignified; it is not difficult to show kindness to the poor and humble, but it is difficult to be polite. Historical classics.

57. 有礼貌不一定总是智慧的标志，可是不礼貌总使人怀疑其愚蠢。 兰道尔

57. Politeness is not always a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always raises doubts about someone's foolishness. – Randall

58. 有一种内在的礼貌，它是同爱联系在一起的:它会在行为的外表上产生出最令人愉快的礼貌。歌德

58. There is an intrinsic politeness that is connected with love: it brings about the most delightful politeness in the outward appearance of behavior. - Goethe

59. 粗暴无礼，是内心虚弱的人用来使自己显得貌似强大的手段。 埃里克

59. Coarseness and rudeness are means by which the weak-minded seek to appear seemingly strong. Erik

60. 所谓良好教养它们在几乎所有国家中乃至于一个地区里，都不尽相同;每一个明辨事理的人都会模仿他所在之地的良好教养，并与之看齐。切斯特菲尔德

60. What is considered good breeding varies in almost every country, and even within a region; every sensible person imitates and aims to match the good breeding of the place where they are. — Chesterfield

61. 真正的礼貌就是克己，就是千方百计地使周围的人都像自己一样平心静气。蒲柏

61. True politeness is self-restraint; it is to do everything in one's power to make those around one as calm and composed as oneself. - Pope

62. 社交的起因在于人们生活的单调和空虚。社交的需要驱使他们来到一起，但各自具有的许多令人厌憎的品行又驱使他们分开。终于，他们找到了能彼此容忍的适当距离，那就是礼貌。叔本华

62. The cause of social interaction lies in the monotony and emptiness of people's lives. The need for social interaction drives them to come together, but the many detestable traits they possess also drive them apart. Finally, they find an appropriate distance where they can tolerate each other, which is politeness. - Schopenhauer

63. 你要看见朋友之间用得着不自然的礼貌的时候，就可以知道他们的感情已经衰落。莎士比亚

63. When you see unnatural politeness between friends, you can know that their feelings have waned. - Shakespeare

64. 礼仪的目的与作用是使顽固变柔顺，使人们的气质变温和，使他敬重别人，和别人合得来。约翰洛克

64. The purpose and function of etiquette is to soften the stubborn and make people's temperament gentle, so that they respect others and get along well with them. - John Locke

65. 礼仪是聪明人想出来的与愚人保持距离的一种策略。爱默生

65. Etiquette is a strategy thought up by clever people to keep a distance from fools. - Emerson

66. 有礼貌不一定总是智慧的标志，可是不礼貌总使人怀疑其愚蠢。兰道尔

66. Politeness is not always a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always raises suspicion of foolishness. — Landor

67. 粗暴无礼，是内心虚弱的人用来使自己显得貌似强大的手段。埃里克

67. Coarseness and rudeness are the means by which people with inner weakness try to appear seemingly strong. Erik

68. 礼仪是微妙的东西，它既是人们交际所不可或缺的，又是不可过于计较的。培根

68. Etiquette is a subtle thing; it is indispensable in people's communication, yet it should not be overemphasized. - Bacon